In this episode, we discuss: 0:01:11 - Happiness vs. happy feelings, and how happiness and unhappiness can coexist 0:04:55 - The six fundamental emotions 0:15:29 - The evolution and heritability of happiness, and the four personality patterns with respect to positive and negative emotions 0:22:15 - Navigating relationships: the power of complementarity over compatibility 0:24:28 - The importance of self-managing your mental habits 0:31:31 - Enjoyment: one of the three macronutrients of happiness 0:44:25 - Satisfaction: one of the three macronutrients of happiness 0:52:14 - The reverse bucket list, metacognition, and other techniques to protect yourself from your limbic system 0:59:15 - Meaning: one of the three macronutrients of happiness 1:07:55 - The four quarters of your life and how that relates to the meaning of your life 1:12:03 - Putting metacognition into practice 1:20:55 - What might explain the societal downdrift in happiness over the last few decades? 1:36:07 - Taking charge of your happiness: discipline, transcendent experiences, and other deliberate actions for happiness 1:49:17 - Tracking happiness: biomarkers and micronutrients behind the macronutrients of happiness 1:57:52 - The value in minimizing the self and looking outward 2:02:23 - How Arthur surprised himself with his ability to improve his happiness
@LeslieVillavicencio-wq4ec9 ай бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊 2:57 😊
@elenavanderveer7 ай бұрын
Lo máximo Gracias 🙏🏽
@TheJust22az10 ай бұрын
As a Christian, I absolutely love this podcast. I don't find faith to be in opposition to science. Truth is truth wherever it is found.
@esvedra24199 ай бұрын
"I need fewer opinions because I need more friends." Brilliant 😁
@patelien10 ай бұрын
This guy speaks so fast and yet so clearly. It's funny how brilliant it is to break down a word like "happiness" and not conflate it with similar terminology like "The act of feeling Happy"
@martinvimpany789810 ай бұрын
Firstly, thankyou! I listened to this podcast with rapt attention and really felt I was learning something of extraordinary value from Prof Brooks. But then, about halfway through, the wheels came off. This happened at about the point that the importance of answering two questions came up, The first question was was “what am I here for (ie why am I alive?)” and the second is “what would I die for?”. My answer to the first question is that I am not here for anything! Life exists, including my own life, because of random processes taking place in the universe. My life, life in general, has no meaning. The second question, was what would I die for? The answer is; I wouldnt die for anything! My death would serve no purpose whatsoever in an infinite universe. The second answer follows on from the first. By the way, neither answer cause me any shred of angst; I am not sad about either answer. Nor do I feel those answers are in any sense bleak (in the way that some, particularly those of a religious persuasion, might). To my mind, that’s just the way things are. Nonetheless, the answers to those questions (both blank) leave me with nowhere to go from a psychological perspective. Peter was far too diplomatic to say anything, but I feel those questions perplexed him too (?). To be frank, what really jarred was the story of Prof Brooks’s son, a marine sniper, who would die for God and country. If that attitude nourishes his soul then good for him. This may be a cultural thing, but what I found disturbing was that somebody trained, basically to kill other people, would feel he was doing God’s work in support of his country (whatever one’s ‘country’ means). That just struck me as naive, and, forgive me, from an englishman’s perspective, SO MAGA. In the UK that attitude became very unfashionable after 1918 when millions of young Europeans killed millions of other young Europeans in the most brutal manner imaginable for God, King and Country, for no net result. In the words of Rudyard Kipling “If any question why we died, Tell them, because our fathers lied”. Anyhow, these are observations, decidedly not criticisms (let’s not get all limbic about this). I only make these comments because those two questions stopped me in my tracks. Despite that, thankyou Peter and Arthur for bringing some of these concepts to light. I learned a great deal from what preceded those two questions, and will continue to listen to the last half in the hope of adding yet more skills to my life’s treasury. And, who knows, deeper introspection on my answers to those two questions, if even possible given their nihilistic leanings, might bear fruit. Kind Regards, Martin
@SakuraWulf7 ай бұрын
Your answers remind me of myself when I was in my twenties. I am now in my thirties and think differently. I can't say for certain that there's a concrete way to think about this unless you're focused on a specific goal. Making a distinction between the bigger picture and the present could lead to different outcomes. For example, in the case of willpower, technically all of our actions are a result of past experiences so there is no such thing as willpower. When you're making a decision you also call upon those past experiences although you may come up with something novel or ask for someone else's opinion so maybe there is willpower. It seems to me that meaning is much the same. If you consider the grand scheme and scale of the universe it may look like you're nothing but if you consider your actions in this moment or the actions of others, those surely have meaning. If I were to rob you or punch you in the face you'd want to seek some form of justice for those actions. If you're asking why, then there must be an answer and that answer has to have some sort of meaning, otherwise there's no point to anything. Duality is inescapable since there are always different perspectives, so there can be no one answer to important questions in life. "To my mind, that's just the way things are." Well, that's probably why people feel differently about things. For instance, openness is my highest personality trait and I love hearing people's perspectives and empathizing with them. Of course different people would see things differently. When I think about when my answers to those questions were closer to your answers, it reminds me of my younger, nihilistic mentality. My parents would move a lot, and I felt like nothing had any meaning because we'd just pick up and reset all the time. If I tried to justify your answers for myself now, I couldn't imagine being a very productive person, personally, of course. The thing about fighting for one's country and God, Gold/King, Glory was something I used to think about as well. How socially engineered that mentality was, and of course they had to put God first to make it work, right? I grew up going to church. I stopped going to church in my twenties. Now I go to church even though I don't consider myself to be a Christian or religious for that matter. I go just to learn and hear the perspectives of others. I actually just got back from Sunday service and wouldn't you know... the pastor was talking about discipleship and service. You can definitely see the Christian influence in Arthur's thinking. My answer to the first question is that the meaning of life is whatever the individual that's asked this question makes it out to be, so there isn't just one meaning, there are many. What gives my life meaning are the things I'm passionate about. My answer to the second question is that no one should be asked to die for anything but I would die for family or other human beings. Unlike your answer, I used to be willing to die for anything, since I had suicidal ideations - the exact opposite. I can relate to the fact that these questions stopped you in your tracks, or I wouldn't be here commenting right after that part. I could also expand on my answers to those two questions but that would take up way too much space. I could also go into my midlife crisis and psychotic breakdown but that's a whole different story. I spent a lot of time after that discovering myself and being very introspective. In conclusion, I expect my answers to these questions to change, otherwise I wouldn't be growing intellectually. Thanks for the self reflection, sir.
@whoatethechocolate9 ай бұрын
It feels even more debilitating hearing that joy and happiness come from having experiences with others when so many of us are alone and without good friends....
@fistfull19 ай бұрын
Seems like mostly this guy's opinion based on his own experience, I agree he excludes folks running solo
@Cat-sv7zu9 ай бұрын
Maybe you have a neighbor who needs company. If you are able do a Google search, look for volunteer opportunities locally or through online organizations. I have a friend that helps organize volunteers transport rescued pets from one part of the country to another. There are organizations that help you find volunteering opportunities locally.. Or you can be an encouragement to others via various means of communication, writing letters, calling, or emailing. If your crafty, your skills maybe useful.. Some groups meet together to make things for the ill or homeless. My aunt helps a group that uses plastic grocery bags into mats for the homeless. There are seasonal opportunities during holidays.
@dyannechristensen74458 ай бұрын
Or we could look at it as in when you look back at some good memories they are based on times with others. I like to be alone too but I don't have memories of remember when I..... taking trips alone, going to dinner alone is possible to be happy don't' get me wrong but I look back memories with others more.
@fistfull18 ай бұрын
@dyannechristensen7445 ,you make the best of any situation, I've always enjoyed solo time, which, is preferred time spent for the folks in the creative field of arts,which I am not, I'm a numbers guy,lol,just cited that as another population which is completely excluded,nothing remotely resembles science regarding this guy's sample population s , just guy with an opinion, hawking a book is all, although I'm flying solo ,I agree,also reflect nostalgicly on memories which included others, maybe that's a topic for another book lol, apply the " science "
@henrytep88848 ай бұрын
@@fistfull1folks can’t run solo, we’re social creatures that depend on one another for a lot of our health. And I don’t mean dating, I mean needing other people in our life.
@javster8510 ай бұрын
- Spend time with loved ones. Strong social connections are essential for happiness. Make time for the people who are important to you, and nurture those relationships. - Take care of your physical health. Eating healthy, exercising regularly, and getting enough sleep are all important for your physical and mental health. - Practice gratitude. Take some time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for. This can help you to focus on the positive aspects of your life. - Give back to others. Helping others is a great way to boost your own happiness. Volunteer your time, donate to charity, or simply do something nice for someone else. - Learn to forgive yourself and others. Holding on to grudges can weigh you down and make it difficult to be happy. Learn to forgive yourself and others for past mistakes. - Live in the present moment. Don't dwell on the past or worry about the future. Focus on enjoying the present moment.
@fearnot17809 ай бұрын
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@JenniferMyers10 ай бұрын
The segment about putting metacognition into practice was particularly useful. I enjoyed this podcast immensely and have shared it with my loved ones. I also loved the remark about the donut 🍩!
@melissaerickson65189 ай бұрын
This may be the best video I've watched in a long time. Incredible. Thank you.
@willow0510 ай бұрын
A timely episode, just watched Huberman's podcast on journaling about negative/traumatic events to better mental and physical health..so glad the mental/physical connection is finally being taken seriously by the medical community! Great episode!
@One-Ring-To-Rule-Them-All9 ай бұрын
I did the journaling Dr. Huberman recommended, it is absolutely life changing experience ❤
@paulbrowning17589 ай бұрын
Journaling? I mean, does anyone really want to do that? Especially if you’re a middle-aged man.
@kittycat13029 ай бұрын
@@paulbrowning1758 have to ask, did you watch that video? And what does age or gender have to do with journaling? It seems that you might equate journaling with a teenage girl’s diary. Writing out your thoughts and reflecting on them is helpful to very many people. Authors call it “writing.”
@getaresios30310 ай бұрын
It felt like a nice conversation between old friends. Really enjoyed it
@godhelpus10559 ай бұрын
This has been one of the most important podcasts I’ve listened to all year. I can’t thank you both enough for this episode. I’ll be listening to it again and again. I’ve shared it with peers and hope they glean as much from it as I have. Thank you
@henrypham-gq8xi9 ай бұрын
A must listen episode for anyone wishing to attain lasting happiness (not pleasure). A certain degree of metacognition is required to fully appreciate this episode :)
@BallietBran10 ай бұрын
Thank you Peter as always! Hope to shake your hand one day and say thanks for all the years of digital mentorship and free learning. Am down 18 pounds the past two months thanks to a lot of information and motivation yo make change I've gotten back. Thank you Peter. Blessings to you, the wife, and your kids my friend 🙏
@Sk0lzky9 ай бұрын
1:35:08 Idk I got happier, and so did my whole family, because we finally got to spend time together. Even just working in the same room or making each other tea at break was amazing.
@Sk0lzky9 ай бұрын
And I bet it counts for my cats too btw lol They were so happy
@cezarras3 ай бұрын
All Your podcast are good and I am always glad that I have teken one afternoon to listen, but this one is other level... Seems so transcendental knolage you are passing. Thank you
@guillaumerumeau92184 ай бұрын
Merci from France Monsieur Attia. Your podcasts are very interesting and usually do fill our mental pantry with a fair amount of food for thought.
@HazMat-b1h2 ай бұрын
wow so many gems for life here, fantastic
@taylorwhitton52495 ай бұрын
The new editing looks great with the dual screens at once every so often. Excellent, thought-provoking philosophical conversation.
@belwynne138610 ай бұрын
Very actionable. I love the failure journal tied to three and six month reviews. Perspective is one of great gifts of aging, and this process seems to me to accelerate/broaden acquiring perspective. Thank you.
@fernandofontanet93619 ай бұрын
Great episode. I usually only listen to episodes once... this one I will listen to a second time.
@SmartShortsHub9 ай бұрын
I appreciate the evidence-based approach to cultivating happiness shared here, emphasizing the role of gratitude and mindfulness in promoting a positive mindset.
@stephenkearny15049 ай бұрын
Really great podcast. Esp. appreciate the test to see if you have a meaning crisis. I think this is right on. 1. Why are you alive? and 2. What are you willing to die for? The complete answers that we tell ourselves might be the most important answers to any question that we can ever ask.
@Yunnansourcing9 ай бұрын
Gurdejieff, Ouspensky, and Maurice Nicoll have developed a system for understanding and mastering many of the concepts that Arthur has so skillfully laid out (and expanded upon) for us here.
@traceybutler54209 ай бұрын
Loved this and have listened to it numerous times! It's unfortunate my experience in the Catholic Church was not as positive as his because I miss having that spiritual connection. Between you and Huberman, I'm convinced you are helping me to extend my life living it more with agency and gratitude. Concepts I never thought of before. thank you Dr Attia! 💖🌻
@rekhagarg90737 ай бұрын
Brilliant conversation!!!! Thanks from the bottom of my heart
@willbrink10 ай бұрын
Excellent show, thanx. I took his test, and as expected, I'm a Poet. I found the results of the test accurate as to reflecting my personality.
@jimhershey98094 ай бұрын
Great nod to Dacker Keltner at 1:04:45. Another brilliant line of research that dovetails into Arthur’s work! Dacker would be a great guest on this podcast!
@littlevoice_1110 ай бұрын
The novelty of unexpected rewards and anticipation reminds me of the growing popularity of advent calendars... you can get advent calendars for everything now and they are extremely popular with adults. Including coffee, skincare, candles, alcohol, sweets, chocolates, jewellery, makeup, socks, stationary and homeware!
@Golden-Lady8 ай бұрын
The section of pleasure vs enjoyment was so insightful and had even helped me look at the return to office policies as something much more useful and positive on the job. I loved the quiz; it confirmed that I'm a mad scientist too! 😅
@wesleyyu34309 ай бұрын
I already know I have to listen to this one again.
@drgaffneybestfoot10 ай бұрын
As a Christian, I take exception to Dr. Attia’s statement about his audience being agnostic . . The question at the hour mark about how does one reconcile the need for significance through the sense of purpose when the creation makes you feel so insignificant . Why do you matter ? For me this is answered with Dr. Brooks purpose question : why am I alive? : to be a conduit of God’s love to others . With love , because by nature, it’s transcendent because God is love, this creates multi-level impact across time which can never be totally known by us. This is how our minuscule blip of a life across all human existence can live on through our impact of love after we’re gone.
@GeorgiaMAlvarez9 ай бұрын
than you so much for this episode Peter and Arthur. It illuminated so much for me. Thank you for your work! best
@paulginsberg69429 ай бұрын
A lovely conversation and yes I do sit at the feet of the holy gurus.
@vaccianicoore105410 ай бұрын
Life is free choice. We either choose to will the Good and His many goods or lack, privation, evil, corruption and ultimately death. Thank you both.
@joryiansmith10 ай бұрын
Thank you Peter and Arthur 🙏
@hughcard379910 ай бұрын
This explains so much. Thank you.
@stephm40479 ай бұрын
I did the test. But I already knew I was a Mad Scientist. Probably like most viewers of this show. 😂
@samuraikataАй бұрын
I hear a lot of Martin Seligman here "Authentic Happiness". Long-term happiness is the pursuit of gratification (not related to the senses), not pleasure (sensory).
@barbarosozturk9 ай бұрын
Loved this!
@rbphilip9 ай бұрын
I’m alive to have as much fun as possible before I die. I can’t think of anything for which I would die today, though!
@brianbarnes7469 ай бұрын
At 19:05, he says that by construction each group has to have 25%. Mathematically, that is not correct. By construction, half of the population has to have high intensity positive emotions and half the population has to have low intensity positive emotions. And the same for negative emotions. But that doesn't mean each combination has to have 25%. For example, hypothetically, it could be that all of the people that experience high intensity positive emotions (half of the population), also experience high intensity negative emotions, and thus half of the population experiences low intensity for both positive and negative emotions. That would mean that the 4 quadrants would have 50%, 50%, 0%, 0%. I'm surprised that Peter doesn't catch the math error :)
@brianbarnes7469 ай бұрын
I would expect that the results would be heavily skewed towards the mad scientists and the judges. Although personally, I view most of psychology as a pseudoscience, the literature posits that mania doesn't exist outside of bipolar disorder. Unipolar mania isn't even recognized in the most recent DSM. This would suggest that the people who experience the most intense positive emotions also experience the most intense negative emotions, at least at the extremes. And based on anecdotal evidence, I would expect that to hold throughout the intensity spectrum of positive and negative emotions. Personally, I believe that people can experience mania without depression. So, take my previous conclusions with a grain of salt.
@Disastrous_Macaron6 ай бұрын
That's right 😂 When I did the test and saw my result I wondered how the heck he came up with 4 types, as the outcome is a scale. The actual PANAS test has a scale of positive affect PA and negative NA. Scores range from 10 - 50 for both sets and questions are based on a likert scale. On the one I did each scale was sectioned into: low, average and high (it wasn't all the same for PA and NA). For example scores 27 and higher on NA scale were high negative affect.
@resistapathy10 ай бұрын
He said he crosses out half of his political opinions which negated their moral importance in his life because he needed more friends. So he became less moral in order to feel less lonely. This is just what the world needs! But why not keep your moral code and learn to accept people for their flaws as long as they don’t hurt you? This way you could be less lonely without becoming more amoral.
@dragonlotion17899 ай бұрын
Maybe a good way to understand Happiness and Happy is drug addiction. Your chasing an emotion of happy but there’s no underlying happiness
@CopingwithGrattitude8 ай бұрын
I have pulled the pump also; so embarrassing. It had an auto release so it just pops on and off, thank goodness!
@nikkiguerlain10 ай бұрын
Great episode. Thx
@TC555559 ай бұрын
Great video and tips!
@One-Ring-To-Rule-Them-All9 ай бұрын
Awesome conversation! I made notes and learned so much! Thank you gentlemen very much for this video!! ❤ Btw I cancelled my facebook account a few years ago and I never had any Instagram, Twitter or TicToc account and I have to say I became a lot happier since. I keep just KZbin, because there are so many interesting videos to learn from. Like this one! ❤ And I am a mad scientist, too 😂
@PointerPapa9 ай бұрын
Begin again @1:29:00 Because YTs watch later tracking is hit or miss on when or if it will track how far along I am in listening to this.
@OskarSilva219 ай бұрын
Loved the episode and the work you do Peter! Know i’m a bit late to the party, but I’ve got a question: (for anyone reading in the comments as well, of course) Arthur mentions Jonathan Haidt, which leaves me to believe he’s read his work. Yet, his statistic on age related happiness decline completely contradicts the work of Haidt in the “happiness hypothesis”. Haidt states a general increase in happiness, up until the age of about 65 (if I recall correctly)? Anyone know something about this? Why the sudden change of trajectory?
@clifb.35218 ай бұрын
I enjoy the Vedanta meets business lingo
@carolinamayoraln10 ай бұрын
This is So Far your Best Podcast ever! … I can’t wait how you guys will merge your knowledge at q biomarkers levels! .. You guys are my inspiration, but at the same time I want to become Arthur student !.. but I’m 51.. and I am a scientist.. the part that says that learning brings en enjoyment to certain people made me understand why This type of podcast are among the top 3!!, I almost have the same order as Peter ! Thank you so much … I am subscriber to Peter but I’m never been able to comment on any podcast on the Spotify or podcast platform!
@kristylouise7279 ай бұрын
I just did the test and i'm a mad scientist.. I've always wanted to be the creative, free flowing type lol.. but makes sense that i"m the mad scientist.
@christopherdennis678510 ай бұрын
Awesome Podcast. Watched it twice. Gonna read the book. Would like to see this be part of compulsory school curriculum. Some of the content sounds like it relates to the Japanese/Okinawan Concept of “Ikigai.” “Jiro Dreams of Sushi.”
@fraserseymour371410 ай бұрын
Other than the unfortunate brush with political false equivalence, this broad reaching conversation brings to the front the formidable intellectual threadpulling and individual humanity for which Peter and Arthur are renown. Sharing this is a gift to the recipient.
@cezarras3 ай бұрын
@peter there is a test and a site of Arthur in the podcast but I can not find the link. Could you please put it to the discrption of the video? And maby put links like that in the future? Thanks
@kennyx8482Ай бұрын
good lord! i think i hit youtube gold!
@HiddenOaksHomestead9 ай бұрын
What does research show on male vs female on these questions
@jillsatherley97998 ай бұрын
I have really enjoyed this podcast so much, that I have been trying to buy you book, but have not been able to find it anywhere. Would love to know where I could get it.
@ibnmusaa10 ай бұрын
Correction, the jurists, mystics, and sages of the Islamic Golden Aga such as Avicenna and Ghazali actually introduced western philosophy to the west through a religious lens. They were actually translating it back to their language to learn the foundations. Not to mention that Khawarizmi discovered algebra and the concept of zero which are foundations of Calculus and Physics. Computing with roman numerals was not efficient. The cannon of medicine was used in Europe since the 17th century. The Quran itslef accurately describes the development of the fetus from micro scales. These things need to be looked into.
@musicworship45209 ай бұрын
ah right, the imaginary "Islamic Golden Age"
@ibnmusaa9 ай бұрын
did you read my full post? I highly recommend "the silk roads" by peter frankopan if you are unaware of history@@musicworship4520
@rollingrock348010 ай бұрын
"The CEO doesn't do what feels good all the time, the CEO does what's right!" - If we ran our bodies like CEOs ran companies we would live on ramen noodles and run a marathon each day, all while guilt-tripping ourselves for not running further.
@dfinma9 ай бұрын
39:54 Bingo! This combination of factors is rarely if ever discussed. The (sad?) fact is moderate alcohol consumption is fun! Many of my fondest/funnest memories involve alcohol, whether it's idiotic high school/college/early adult nonsense or superfun concerts or vacations.
@Disastrous_Macaron6 ай бұрын
Yes, but what else do they involve? Friends, music, relaxing, interests :) you wouldn't have all those experiences without the above, especially other people, but you could have those good experiences without alcohol.
@dfinma9 ай бұрын
1:05:00 wait a minute, did bro just drop a steve martin reference from 1977? brave.
@Tita_jackie10 ай бұрын
Comparison is a thief of joy.
@lutmoers35869 ай бұрын
Is this conversation also transcribed for use as study material? Thank you in advance!
@deborahrichardson48609 ай бұрын
Is the question asked of himself, is he simply happy without looking at others to measure it?
@lilianabueno62908 ай бұрын
This is very nice, but to the respect of politics. Politics are not only the concern of professionals in it. We are all political subjects since we live in a political society and some of us in democracies. This mean politics concerns us all. You don't have to go public about your views, but it's important to keep informed about what happens in the world and to care. Because at the end, the politicians are the ones dictating a lot about our daily lives, but we are the ones choosing them to do so.
@159awi10 ай бұрын
I guess I missed the title of Arthur's new book.
@DaboooogA6 ай бұрын
54:00 But aren't religious people often cited as having higher levels of life satisfaction?
@henrytep88848 ай бұрын
Arthur Brooks needs to coordinate with John Vervaeke
@treycaldwell411810 ай бұрын
If it's really this complicated I don't think the vast majority of us have any hope
@coyrinnie7 ай бұрын
How did I know I would get Mad Scientist? 😂
@kathleenmahanwilliams74919 ай бұрын
Ok, for two educated men you have obviously completely ignored older people who have no spouse and no children. Seriously? I am very disappointed.
@konstantin803810 ай бұрын
I listened to the whole thing twice. never happens with podcasts.
@matt_staton7 ай бұрын
How high will ketones get
@amnaahmad2608 ай бұрын
Ha, if only saying that something is not limbic could make it so!
@dfinma9 ай бұрын
1:30:49 A workplace, that is a place where people work together, is fine but the [obvious] problem is workers largely don't benefit from it. Yeah we get a paycheck but this is only required by modern institutions. We have only been in a manufacturing/company-workplace-driven society for a couple hundred years so we certainly haven't evolved to work in factories. However it seems factories/workplaces are a proxy for what we did evolve for doing -- cooperating to do things. The need/desire is ruthlessly exploited by modern institutions at least some of which is intentional. Arthur, can you elaborate on why you're a free enterprise enthusiast and why it's good for us to be efficiency machines in order to make corporations (read: executives, shareholders) richer? This seems contradictory to most everything else you discuss.
@2007moogly9 ай бұрын
Arthur Brookes talks like is experiencing mania.
@budlacombe9 ай бұрын
Read the Tao Te Ching
@ericajackson238010 ай бұрын
This is rich
@resistapathy10 ай бұрын
This is rich because it helps you shut off the voice that says it’s wrong to be super rich. Write that moral thought down and cross it out and then be friends with other super rich Maui vacation house people like Oprah.
@chrisbeerad883510 ай бұрын
There is a substantial difference between self absorption and self awareness .When you speak with somebody and everything is reverted back to them when they respond its a red flag to me . I`ve been doing subtle tests on people and find that less than 2 minutes after something is said they have completely forgotten it yet they can recite a similar and often more extreme example of the same situation applied to themselves . Maybe its just human nature . maybe its a symptom of society now who knows but it seems its almost a default for 99% of the conversations i have .
@ianpier1610 ай бұрын
1:21:21 id argue that some of the decrease in happiness is by design by our policy designers. I would have returned to work if i had the opportunity but i lost my job due to the vaccine mandate and i had to change workplace and i lost all of the previous connections i had made at the prior workplace. I was more forced to leave than i chose to leave
@paddy362210 ай бұрын
Dating has become Amazon for humans. I'll put a few of these people I find "hot" in my basket. It's madness. 😂😂😂😂
@treykilgoreiscool10 ай бұрын
What terrorist attack?
@earthwishesaccount67679 ай бұрын
Dr. Arthur Brooks has interesting points to share, but he is extremely anthropocentric. He indeed needs to be more in contact with animals, or he needs to get educated with non-bias on animal behavior and evolutionary biology (and even practices as shamanism or Native Americans spirituality). He should change his bias thinking about the lack of capacity for animals to love, been intelligent, their cognition, and their capacity to be happy. I have the hypothesis that animals in general are much more spiritually evolved than humans, but of course Dr. Brooks most likely would discharged this hypothesis due to his religious prejudices, speciesism beliefs, and his anthropocentric views.
@sindbad2113 ай бұрын
Very smart, it’s true. I would add he doesn’t include also e.g. very intensive body work / meditation as source of (messurable) health, like dynamic meditation or stuff like kambo rituals. Those can leave you at peace with nature and create immense fulfilment. This doesn’t contradict his all rational approach, it adds imho…
@joycetreulieb31959 ай бұрын
Well I eat candy 1-3 times a day
@ryanchiang95879 ай бұрын
look at jesus look at your friends look at youreslef read the bible learn knowledge make love
@blklagoon769 ай бұрын
Dating app selections certainly are not curated, and definitely no one like a brother or sister. Wth?
@barbpace-lamb2 ай бұрын
Mad scientist
@stronkworks9 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed the talk up to the point he started shit talking working from home. Nothing in the past 25 years has made me happier than deleting my commute. Unsurprising this man doesn't understand cats either. My cat will throw a fit if he doesn't get regular social interaction, and I've known several cats to be the same. Perhaps the issue with work is how inhuman and inhumane it has become (By Dr. Brooks own admission), not because some of us have been freed from the cubicle farm. Very informative otherwise.
@debbielavers983610 ай бұрын
❤
@valboolin35388 ай бұрын
Стань частью микрофона, / будь как решето фильтрона
@rufisdodd431810 ай бұрын
I miss the Drive of the past. I feel like the focus has shifted away from discussions with people like Dr. Seyfried, Sinclair and others doing pioneering research in the field of longevity that may be ahead of it's time. I understand the horseman and that exercise is the biggest lever, bang for my buck that I can do. I understand that, and am preparing myself for the Centenarian Olympics and all that. I am interested to know what researchers are working on beyond that. I used to be excited on Monday mornings to see who was on the podcast. Now, not so much.
@jimmybaker48215 ай бұрын
I like him but i hate the christianity part but w.e
@Disastrous_Macaron6 ай бұрын
Says therapy does not work for him. Proceeds to list techniques that help him (journalling, writing down fears or looking back on achievements) that are literally CBT. Lol. Therapy is not only CBT, there are a lot of types and also therapists. Therapy with the wrong therapist can be harmful, but with with the right one, life changing for some.
@moontrack462510 ай бұрын
To have testosterone and male life goggles
@ChrisCalkins8 ай бұрын
Bullshit
@davidguthrie37398 ай бұрын
Jeezus! Listening to this confirms my moron status. Is this podcast an AGI generated illusion?
@GreatWhite710 ай бұрын
Israel has destroyed 266 schools in Gaza.
@iamnatekea10 ай бұрын
Hush
@resistapathy10 ай бұрын
The secret for this guy is more amorality equals more friends equals more happiness.
@prprchrome30038 ай бұрын
Bull crap… man kind destroyed him self because of self glorifying!