3 Texting Secrets Men Can't Resist - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

[@ZaykaPrincess]

You know your dating life is in shambles when its 2am and you’re binge watching Matthew Hussey

[@ceciliaramoscastillo2809]

😂😂😂

[@travelchannel304]

🤣🤣🤣😁 havent dated since...?? 1999. LOL im not even sad what ive learned since 2019!!

[@ashleymstewart1121]

Same 😂

[@karalianisthmus8548]

I love ya 😂

[@kelisicilian3522]

Well, it's midnight 🤷‍♀️🤣

[@deekshagopal8548]

1. Give value to your text messages 2. Eliminate the question marks in your messages 3. Use texts to communicate with your standards.

[@etulia2010]

Thank you

[@KatieWang]

Thanks!

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Deeksha Gopal I have to ask a question so that he does not read it as a rhetorical question; and actually answers.

[@SimplyJimmy1]

Yes. Thanks,

[@joanamariedalisay612]

@@charlesjepsen hey the link is no longer working can you redirect me to another one ?

[@FirstWorldProblemz]

all you gotta do is watch the whole video to find a link to the actual website with the 9 texts, only to have you fill out your name and email address, to then have the link emailed to you so that you can download the link sent. And by then the guy you want is already married with kids

[@m.leslie6281]

Seriously?! I just listened to like 15 minutes of blah blah blah when i could've just come here and find this out?!

[@paulodelamida]

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[@hiimcandice1548]

yeah! the last time I went to one of his websites I had to pay $7 for the download.. I mean don't get me wrong his videos are helpful, but I'm not paying money for a document when I can find the answers to my questions on google.

[@myariaAiram]

First world problems hahahahahaahh

[@BetsyG24]

XD

[@xnxxjulia2645]

Me: I really like you. Not just as a friend. I've been wanting to tell you this for a long time, but I just haven't had the guts to say it. I hope you feel the same way. But if you don't, it's totally ok. Him: *hasn't responded yet* Me: Stupid auto-correct. I meant hey.

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Retardo Julia hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@confusedspoons]

How did it go??

[@statirabeheng2531]

😂😂😂😂

[@nishthedr]

Oh lord......

[@eyefinesselife2621]

2 years later F ing hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

[@wolfbeartravels]

As a Psychology student, I can totally agree with this advice. Texting is still a form of conversation and it is very important to articulate your personality through words and emoticons to keep the semantics (to keep the tone/meaning).

[@taylor-kn7pj]

My manager was a psychology student from stupid russian and he told me as a perfect person to go away ,russian even psychology student do not value anyone and just to know insult and tell go away

[@wolfbeartravels]

@@taylor-kn7pj he sounds like a terrible teacher and mentor

[@Adelina24244]

@@wolfbeartravels hahaha love your response 😅

[@sandramaar7585]

"hey whatsup?" translation: "I'm bored, please entertain me". Soooo true. I hate those messages.

[@msdri98]

right ugh

[@mariiashtyrova3110]

Who knows how to answer stupid questions like this in a polite way?

[@dirkjan7048]

Mariia Shtyrova “Hey!”

[@johny5400]

If you are dating a person and get annoyed by them asking How r u, then you are dating the wrong person.

[@BunnyFlowers]

Daniel Now THIS I agree with

[@kayleighwilliams7246]

I always send my crush memes. I've totally got this.

[@nishthedr]

😂 😂 😂

[@MartVale1]

What’s their response? I might need to do this.

[@MADZOUA]

I thought about doing this

[@utsavimishra106]

Meee too... I think it's working.. He sends me back memes too 😂

[@utsavimishra106]

@THE SCHOOL OF ART thanks but I think I'll make it.. 🤭then I'll proudly say this to him that I got u through memes baby 😂

[@sabina1671]

“You looked cute today. *akward silence...* Alright bye” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏😅😂😭😂😭

[@ames2631]

🤣 oh let's not respond for like. Over 10 hours

[@wilsonpekka8926]

@@ames2631 [phone]

[@wilsonpekka8926]

@@ames2631 message him on WhatsApp now

[@alemrosemary231]

Dr weekend oduduwa, You're a real spell caster! For bringing back my ex-lover, Everything is working out like it should! Thank you so much!" here is Dr weekend oduduwa contact details is gmail address [e-mail] or whatsApp him on [phone]

[@hadiiie]

You're so pretty omfg- 😩💕

[@bullzeye179]

Some women aren't sure to text because they're not sure what the guy wants, and they don't know where the relationship is currently at. Good advice !!!!

[@yasminsweety123]

Yess

[@dagmarakasprzak4440]

If you are confused... move on

[@daphnen5296]

This is what I am feeling at this very moment.

[@AshleyNeedlesthrives]

My secret to dating: I don't need any guys in my life, I pursue my work and passions and because I'm happy confident and like myself... men flock to me. I never set a guy as my target of what I want, I can't control men, but when I see a guy showing interest, then I start considering him... because I try to view the world like this, If a guy likes me, he's pretty smart and if he doesn't, then I'm not wasting time on him. As for the whole getting over 50 marriage proposals before I was 24 well that's probably just because I was in Utah so I'm not sure its relevant, but I think the key to the male mind is simply if a woman loves herself enough to be able to walk away from any man who ignores her, it makes men want her. Idk I'm not a psychologist, but my experience, when men see other men vying for a women it makes her more desirable, when a woman is also working on herself and investing in herself it makes her more valuable and desirable as a partner.

[@AshleyNeedlesthrives]

also I ask what a guy is up to, because I'm interested and care... not necessarily because I need to be entertained... but if I'm in relationship it might change to specifics or sexual innuendos... like "Hey sexy, wondering if your lips are free to tease my ears..." but then I'm not much of a text person. I like the sound of a deep voice even talking about ordinary things.

[@chrisalexander6427]

Ashley Needles That's a good attitude to have. To be fair though, you're quite beautiful haha @Rachel: Hmm.. there's a good program that would probably help you.. hit up "TrueLoveMethod, c0m".. My fiancee said she used that on me haha Def. improved that "aspect" of our relationship though.

[@barneybbates]

Ashley Needles yeah exactly the same for me

[@rockn1677]

The problem is that the types of guys that are "flocking" to you aren't a challeng to you. They are weak and needy, agreeable and approval seeking and that's a total turn off to you. The guy you will want will be the guy you have to work to get.

[@AshleyNeedlesthrives]

Presumptuous of you to assume you know what I like. I like men who treat me with kindness and respect the whole challenging me, I feel is only necessary for those who don't challenge themselves. Life is challenging enough that I don't seek for such drama in my relationships. Most men I've fallen for, fell for me first.

[@superanimefan275]

I like texting in small doses, but I don't like it when a guy wants to use it as the only means of communication or a way to have long conversations. I think that's something guys in my age range tend to do (early to mid 20's)

[@justination671]

It takes more courage to talk on the phone than through text messages; that's how you distinguish the real man from the crowd of boys!

[@SpiritsBB]

JustiNation It's the difference between introverted guy and extroverted guy. That's it. Don't place any other meaning to it.

[@superanimefan275]

SpiritsBB Not necessarily. Even if you're introverted, you're not gonna get very far with someone if you can't even talk to someone on the phone. I consider myself an introvert, but even I see the value of real conversations vs. text conversations. Sure it's a little nerve wracking the first time you talk on the phone with each other, but I don't think it should be avoided.

[@maracujaization]

I hear you

[@savvyfox2695]

They seem to rely on texting to keep them from saying something stupid, even though it doesn't help much. Come on guys! If you like someone, give her a call :3

[@zaraket9011]

Just be yourself and you will always find people to love you the way you are 😘

[@julieverma322]

please don't text and drive save a life and put your phone away

[@cd653]

How can one man be so handsome... so charming... so funny and so darn sexy at the same time? ; )

[@oboncharlen45]

+connie ohm and can give you tones of headache

[@MsDownTheRabbitHole1]

+connie ohm makes for great advertising

[@whodunnit1462]

+connie ohm Hue Hue Hue! >;) Dream On Connie, Dream On!

[@eviebernal2913]

ill ask Colin Farell when i see him! lol

[@cd653]

***** .... Not sure if he is taken? But a man this handsome has gotta be taken.... LOL!

[@sourpeach1216]

Wasn't expecting him to sound like that lol

[@Simmersreact]

ikr

[@slickchickification]

Expected it to be deeper and manlier

[@sofiarosales9509]

Same

[@juanitagonzales4984]

lol

[@alexatremblay9733]

+Renee Hinkley Samsies

[@jaredtweed7826]

I am a straight guy, and I really appreciate you teaching me these conversational skills. Lots of them apply well!

[@janewajenefa]

Wow straight guy that what you mean?God bless

[@Lala-yw6vr]

Okay, am I the only one who thinks his guy is such a hottie, plus he's English 😍

[@janellp.stemrich6915]

👍

[@markellak2389]

Haha me too

[@Marshmallow_Trees]

He looks like a total douche nozzle to me.

[@noeliaarias8035]

omg xD

[@LM-st5jl]

YES you are,,,

[@marilynmiller6828]

This guy is great, I used his advice to get my ex back and so far it's working great, Thank You Matthew Hussey!!!

[@cbjaydaelise]

Marilyn Miller that's great

[@Silva-pn1vt]

Marilyn Miller which advice did u use

[@bm4867]

Curious , how’d that pan out for ya

[@kelbox313]

Wellllll, what was the reason you broke up in the first place?

[@kyvi4872]

In happy for u x

[@ejthatgirl]

If you only want to text, do it, if you only like calling then that's fine. Be yourself, you don't need to word things a different way or put a winkey face at the end of your sentence to get someone to like you. If you like someone, tell them, don't try and play games with them. And also, asking someone what they're up to doesn't mean you're bored or boring, I love knowing what my friends/love interest is doing. It shows that you're genuinely interested in how they are and what they're up to. Just be you, you don't need games! :)

[@perrizepeda9638]

Great response!

[@jfarmer911]

These videos are the best. Aside from pointing out things I never even noticed, they are just really good for reminding us ladies how to be confident and value ourselves in the dating world and beyond. I definitely needed that little psychological kick in the ass.

[@perrizepeda9638]

Hey, I appreciate your comments and putting it straight: I needed that psychological kick in the ass too!

[@flowerpersonminianer1553]

How about IDGAF WHAT MEN LIKE

[@nyatapia8521]

Then why did you click on the video ?

[@MM-wl8cs]

LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@samanthareid4381]

+John Mc Cainp0

[@a_s2557]

Why you here then boo

[@sallyahoney]

+Flowerperson Minianer lesbians never do

[@jbelladove1888]

for anyone that thinks Matthew telling you obvious shit, some of us want insight as to how a man perceives us, because the shit we are doing isn't working and his advice changed the way I see myself and guys notice and their responding to that, Being open minded to advice is a great thing

[@optimusandprimed]

Who cares about texting...I JUST WANNA LOOK AT HIM!!!

[@blackfoothu]

+KD Carmona and the accent

[@optimusandprimed]

+blackfoothu RIGHT!!!

[@rivkacoverdale9672]

right!

[@blitzedbella9793]

LOL!

[@keioshasalmon22]

same

[@katelynnsoard6870]

Who ever marry’s him, is seriously so lucky

[@nootnoot3456]

Let's be honest most girls only clicked here cuz of the thumbnail (the hot guy)

[@jfakhroo0]

+Maia Mailander GUYS DID THIS TO ;)

[@HoneyPOWMorethanjustahoneypot]

+Maia Mailander no bitch

[@nootnoot3456]

+livvy liv no need to call me a bitch 😊

[@HoneyPOWMorethanjustahoneypot]

Maia Mailander girls can have jokes ;)

[@DH-bc9em]

+Maia Mailander I legitimately thought he was Chris Evans because of the thumbnail Lol😂😂

[@marijagrujicic1370]

i'm the weird one...i hate texting..i'd rather call

[@thriftyshadesofgreene5266]

Marija Grujicic same here

[@kimberleybertram6508]

Same

[@salmamagdy4646]

same

[@Chiefab22]

Marija Grujicic old fashion is great

[@bxxyz4093]

Marija Grujicic ja isto haha

[@Nejvillaflor]

Texting my crush Me : Hey, how was your day going despite the covid. Him : seen*

[@marquitaholley8634]

jen villaflor 😭😂😂😂

[@cucerestebarbatul]

Auch

[@nanabucaros3430]

Been there 😢

[@smritipandey1863]

Hawwww... Same here. Can feel ur pain 😅😅😅

[@michellekahlez2105]

Meanwhile me: BLOCKED*

[@elizabethroxstrom8535]

These videos aren’t helpful. They’re just making me fall in love with Matt 😂

[@emenbeaute]

Elizabeth Roxstrom same

[@julieh1646]

That’s funny!

[@oliverqueen4320]

Hi dear. Worry no more. I contacted [e-mail] and I was able to read by bf text messages. I even listen to his calls for almost a month. I thought he was cheating on me. You can message the devil and see for yourself

[@Barbara-dt3zq]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 his voice!! Lol

[@owisaputra4859]

kwkwkwkw

[@doryj.9222]

Anyone else watching just to see Matthew?

[@shavisikaria9228]

meee

[@sijalshaikh9363]

me e e

[@daisyroots8926]

God no. He's irritating

[@shavisikaria9228]

Daisy Roots LOL

[@Shizoomz]

+Daisy Roots God bless your comment, XD

[@MsMimilala]

Am I the only one not listening to a word he's saying...

[@kat1345]

mee reading comments hahhaa

[@MsMimilala]

rainbow girl ... 😂😂😂

[@shutup2899]

I honestly hate his voice 😂 watched it because it was in my suggested 😂

[@frankandcathy]

+MsMimilala No. No you are not.

[@natasha8308]

same

[@priscilla_4766]

“if that’s the case then your the weird one cuz everybody is texting” THANK YOU

[@essy9104]

Me: *realises im doing the exact opposite of everything this video says*

[@GabyReza]

All i heard was bla bla bla bla bla...gosh he's so gorgeoussssss!!!!!

[@lilmisscanadian1268]

k

[@robinlight]

Exactly! and is he wearing pants??

[@christianwannabe6834]

Robin Light no. But he had thermal underwear on tho

[@jennylardomita795]

Ikr.. Holy hell.. He's yummy!

[@AKTSFORLIFE]

Pretty Much why i watched the video...yum-mee.

[@MegaCkha]

Just a minute ago I texted him, what you're doing? Kill me....

[@rolandoperez6612]

Shikha Nepal Are you still tripping over this guy?

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Shikha Nepal hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@kyvi4872]

Shikha Nepal oh no

[@hayes572]

😂

[@sofiasartori1040]

Girl fucking same

[@m.a.rylynn1606]

Thank you so much for all the work you put into these videos. It's embarrassing to say, but I'm an adult and I've never dated because no one has ever asked me out. My way of "flirting" has always been to be as sarcastic as possible and see who can handle it, but since watching your videos that has changed a lot, and I feel like I'm starting to understand guys better.

[@sophiasmith4191]

What is the best way to ask Matthew Hussey out?

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Sophia Smith hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@krsport]

@@theophiluskunnu2251 That's it Theo. Keep going. You have Sophia hanging on every word 😂😂

[@kunal24kumar]

hey only said, he does one hour meet ups ;)

[@FLdancer00]

Pick up your phone, download Tinder and pick someone else.

[@widyirawan1604]

I agree lol

[@chinita2463]

I'm trying to actually pay attention to his advice but his accent and his voice is so attractive 😍

[@Itsmeyourdad666]

So this is what Harry Potter did after Hogwarts...he's so good at it

[@Orpheusftw]

You lost me at the picture message. People who randomly text a picture they think is funny (same goes for an out-of-the-blue URL to a picture or video via skype or any online messenger) get ignored fast. To me that says _"I'm bored, and too boring to think of anything to say, so here's this."_

[@yashmincotto2575]

OK I can

[@mpnl21]

Orpheusftw If it's between friends it's cute, like when it's an inside joke!! To strangers is rather pointless

[@mychemicalrmancetrash412]

I feel the same. Someome tried to start texting me the other day and sent a picture instead of words. I just ignored them

[@brittneymarie7536]

Yes!!! I agree!! Texting can be easier to eliminate stress or anxiety when talking on the phone!

[@HasjelLime]

he looks like the man version of Daniel Radcliffe

[@sketchmarks5270]

Bwahaha!!! After reading this I immediately noticed the resemblance!

[@marissasagi138]

😂😂😂

[@intrpolfan1]

So true!!!

[@MuseDuCafe]

+HasjelLime More like the extreme metrosexual who could be gay version of Daniel Radcliffe.

[@helenwilliams1149]

stop talking about sex and gay

[@Mandy3141]

What if a boy never texts you?

[@meggdavie8811]

Oxlip he's not into you move on

[@bigboys1113]

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[@thomassargue4130]

What if no boy ever texts you?

[@jerrytaddy1578]

he don't want you end

[@katrina8606]

Go with girls. 👀

[@madelinerose-m4q]

To save you time: there are no 9 texts it's just a website trying to get you to buy stuff

[@kparm23]

Yeah there are you dumbass

[@beraudmusic]

+promprom what are they?

[@JosieSanelly]

Beraud click on the link, it's a pdf file

[@beraudmusic]

+Petra Gabriella Gazsó I did. I put my email and everything. and got sent to a video page promoting his 50 dollar course

[@cassidylambert6647]

+Beraud ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@Adam-ui3yn]

I matched with a girl that was stunningly gorgeous. I was asking engaging questions, trying to be fun and playful. Her messages were so dry and it seemed like texting me was a chore for her. I gave an honest effort and fought the temptation of forcing a connection because she's so attractive. I told her I think our expectations are too different when it comes to communication so it's not going to work and I hope she finds what she's looking for. I don't know how people expect to connect investing so little on a serious dating app. You're trying to find someone to potentially spend the rest of your life with, why are you talking to them like you're ordering a pizza ?

[@ChaoticBun]

3:30 LMFAOOOOOO IMA TALK LIKE THAT TO MY CRUSHES

[@amazingme894]

IKR HAHAHA

[@foreverjulie14]

Lol xD

[@maxxmadi3822]

yassss

[@theweirdsider]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@Babycece013]

Bruh I actually like this relationship coach he’s hilarious

[@abeille1217]

that girl he was seeing used matthew's own advice to school him a bit, haha :)

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

abeille1217 hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@EbtehalMohamedbebo]

I watch all his videos just to see him and listen to this heart-melting English accent 😭❤

[@sarafelger8229]

I don't even know how I got here! I opened KZbin to lookup how to cut up t-shirts and next thing you know I am watching your video and then I'm clicking a link... and not because of content but because your demeanor and tone of voice were so direct and confident. Nice job!

[@bindycatt]

And he is British and hot.... And British.

[@civicchicc7588]

samee now im subscribedd haha i love itt

[@yrsadeweerd]

Anyone else getting ennoyed that it kept showing up in your reccomendations so had to Click on it to Go away?😂

[@KylieMeiring]

me

[@camilagonzalez6325]

Yeah I was watching Pewds and I accidentally clicked this I'm leaving now...

[@yrsadeweerd]

Kiki fun! Yaaas i love pewds!!

[@regantwentyman409]

Same

[@halleynguyen3691]

But I just never goes away😭😭

[@carolynsasson48]

I could listen to him for hours. He is so beautiful.

[@-t9214]

this dude is literally spitting straight facts

[@dawncollins9408]

I absolutely feel 10 stories higher after viewing this blog! Wow! What insight on How to text, especially on the "You should come" statement. I was giving complete power to being told "No." Now I know how to reign my guy in and say Be there;) Literally, every blog has been quite informative and helpful to a single girl who hasn't gotten it right yet...but maybe there's still hope! Yes! Thanks so much Matthew.

[@Carrietenderarms]

U😢

[@peekawhile521]

must be stressful for a girl to text this fella..

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Peek a while hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@JenWIL641]

Texting is ok at the beginning of a relationship. Talking can be awkward for both individuals. Texting and sending compliments can be fun.

[@Sweettweety666]

Stevie Wonder has wrote a beautiful song about it. I would love to hear his voice that say: 'I just call, to say I love you.' Call me old fashion but I think that is so sweet.

[@SirGeorge_Galloway...]

Thank you and I will 👆also share new findings with you in a moment Whatapp me privately...

[@isabelfreitas5431]

Hey Matthew, don't get me wrong, I really enjoy watching your videos and I've done this before (telling my friends exactly what they should text, lol). I also believe you're helping a lot of people, men and women (because both need tips, not just women!), with these videos but I'd like to suggest something. Instead of saying "Go to this website and copy exactly what I'm telling you" because I highly believe there is NOT a formula, all relationships have a very complex dynamic. Instead I'd like to watch you saying "Hey, this is just an idea of what you CAN text, but don't copy paste it, just take some ideas". I'm telling you this because I would hate to be a guy and having a girl texting me something that it's not her idea and it's like the old saying, "give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime". Again, don't get me wrong because you're great at this and I wish there were more people like you: brutally honest. It's just a suggestion, thanks!

[@luisaallman4711]

Good answer..

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Isabel Freitas hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@annac4471]

definitely agree with your point although I think he tells us this as it makes it seem a lot easier for us. Personally I find the fact that it’s such specific texts rather comforting, rather than giving vague ideas of what I could text

[@ylberinabdullahu9220]

Well i see where your coming from and you can take that for yourself as an answer. However, he’s not forcing anyone to do that but instead he is teaching you step by step to get it done (now) lol. He understands that women need to be told just like Matt said it or else they would still be texting in their own wrong way.

[@oliverqueen4320]

Hi dear. Worry no more. I contacted [e-mail] and I was able to read by bf text messages. I even listen to his calls for almost a month. I thought he was cheating on me. You can message the devil and see for yourself

[@cheesecake7274]

How did Harry Potter and Draco Malfoy create a super good looking love child?

[@imadreamer1507]

Magic Obviously (-.0)

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Anneloes Barth hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@SamanthaSkyeTV]

I just sent a similar message to what your female friend sent you ; and, although I feel like I have a rock in my gut, somehow an unbearable weight has been lifted from my shoulders... I shouldn't want anybody who doesn't want me... for more than a half-hour. Thanks Matthew for this wonderful insight! (:

[@Missgevious]

Funny how I’m watching this 7 years after you made it and you’ve definitely grown since these older videos. I’m sure your way of communicating worked back then, abs even now, but it’s not authentic. Your newer videos definitely reflect a much deeper level of authenticity from you

[@samurilip]

i have texted with girls in the past, and i just get aggravated with the process, if i like someone i want to talk to them , have a conversation, not text have you txt me then wait 3 hours or 20min for a response. i just tell girls i dont text until you become my actual girlfriend then i know where your at and we can do the flirting thing and all that

[@AshleyNeedlesthrives]

Do you think it is fair to be setting the rules solo in every relationship you're in right from the get go? If a guy did that to me I wouldn't feel like he considered my feelings

[@samurilip]

humans set rules down for relationships sometimes, and they need to be a cooperative choice or the relationship suffers, so both feel comfortable. understanding why im apprehensive with the txting process has its story. everyone will treat you differently, some wont.... its important to learn but not be scared by past events, i set certain boundary's with women because of past experiences, its a cooperative choice. everyone sets boundrays...so yea maybe we agree.

[@AshleyNeedlesthrives]

samurilip Sweet. ;)

[@samurilip]

one of the reasons i like okcupid.com is because i get to see how women answer a variety ethical questions, with out wasting my money and time on a date. i have very high moral standards compared majority of people within my area haha....

[@AshleyNeedlesthrives]

samurilip It's good to have standards for yourself and for what you want, but unhappiness is the only reward when you start comparing other people to them

[@bindycatt]

I couldn't get over him being cute and British... God damn he is hot....

[@asli353]

Dude it's 2016 and you're still in my ad section

[@potatothecat6647]

1 Compliment something deeper- traits about their discipline, diligence, hard work, etc. 2. Emphasize their masculine side (I feel safe around you) 3. Text better; Send photo, don't start with a boring cliche line, remove questions (assertive, not uncertain), standards (be clear)

[@iDalisMediaTV]

omg I love this guy, not because of his obviously God given good looks, but because of the stuff that come out of his mouth. He is very smart and he really has a passion for relationships..

[@lindsayashton]

Hi. Can u play the next James Bond plz. Thx

[@user-qi3mm1tv7p]

290th like on the way..😂

[@pursuingancientpaths8131]

I clicked on this hoping it was a joke, but alas- its real. Ladies, you dont need to text anyone. Any man worth your while will pursue you.

[@tetecookies9441]

+Seeking Simplicity that is so true

[@mindoverbread1213]

BAM!

[@cheesecake7274]

+Seeking Simplicity why is it that I can't chase a guy but guys can chase me? I can decide for myself if a man if worth my while, and if I feel that a man is I will text him all I want. If girls just sit and be pretty and wait for a guy to come along it will either never happen or they have to settle with someone they might not really like. We have the power and judgement to choose for ourselves.

[@jeanourworld5063]

+Anneloes Barth Probably, I dunno, because if they really like you &are worthwhile, they'd show interest too.

[@Banneord]

+Seeking Simplicity Enjoy virginhood, then.

[@eddiesaenz9291]

Well I’m old enough to be everybody’s older dad here ..there was a time when there was no smart phones no texting nothing like that…we all got along just fine.. but those days are definitely long gone.. good luck everyone and Merry Christmas🙂

[@aijiexi]

I texted the picture of the jacket and he just said thanks! and went on! What now Hussey man!

[@minmie17]

When i was walking on street and listening to Matthew's video today, in my mind "i will follow every steps provided by Matthew and one day i will meet a man like him" :))))

[@izzysmitheman1903]

I saw my boyfriend when he was with his friends and i with mine earlier today and then when we were texting that evening i said: "you looked really cute today" and he said: "you could have said it at the time"

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Izxy S hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@catsmith7084]

Agree

[@GR-sc3ph]

I prefer to watch mat’s podcasts than texting….breath of fresh air….

[@tabathanelson8058]

Matthew I am still watching, to keep up the spice, but all ur efforts helped me find love, and build my self confidence both in and out of the relationship. Only 6 months in, but completely different than anything I have ever had, enjoying every moment and with a thanks to your guidance, I know, no matter what, I am happy. Love from Canada

[@jawlinerocket4341]

Text on whatapp for directives..

[@jawlinerocket4341]

+ 1 9 1 6 8 0 0 2 7 4 1.

[@rockn1677]

I text the way I talk, I'm very detailed and deep and very explanatory. I also hate it when I'm very detailed in texting and the other person comes back with 2 or 3 word answers. To me they show no passion, they have nothing to say and are quite boring to me.

[@sanazhm]

Texting is a good way of communication for cowards. Those who are afraid of expressing their feelings and emotions. People who don't want their intentions to be heard through their tone of voice, they barely call. Text messaging is all about a fashionable way of communication these days and one day I'll promise you it goes out of fashion! it is simply translated to: I'm asking how you are, but I don't give a damn about hearing your freaking* voice or learning about your emotional status!! Although it's good just to confirm stuff, but it can not the sheer way of communicating with people especially those who you love and/or care.

[@MrWeedy-hh4mg]

I'm insulted I'm such a young child I have no love life I text my classmates to meet up for food or somin R u telling me I'm a terrible person ): I'm making this to long And how did I get here from assassins creed vids

[@MrWeedy-hh4mg]

And I have hearin loss so it's hard to hear on the phone

[@sanazhm]

No I didn't mean that. And because of your hearing problem, you're excluded from my comment! ;)

[@charlotteneedham6107]

I get what you mean but I text people because I'm too shy to call unless they're really close friends. When I message people I tend to keep the conversations meaningful and I get into some deep talks especially after the 10pm mark. Just remember that some people are just too shy to call.

[@higuchan4069]

+Sanddox No. This is how it is for you and you are projecting your personal views and experience onto others. Stop it. I will post you what I commented on this video, and before you flame it, if it wasn't true why the heck would I say it was? If what you said were true, 100% in all cases I'd be agreeing with you. It's not, so I and other's are not. Here is my explanation: "Matthew, you're wrong about texting a lot always being bad. It's not. I have friends I've made in other countries, on online games that I've met face to face after years and it was like we had always known one another in person. No awkwardness, no weirdness, just two people who genuinely liked one another enough to form a strong friendship through words and words alone finally meeting. It can, and does happen. It's only awkward and weird if people are putting on fronts. I've also bonded with partners through text and gotten to known them significantly better and it's also not been weird, and in fact aided the getting to know one another process as we both had the time to genuinely think of replies that said exactly what we wanted and needed to say. Again, texting a lot is ONLY detrimental if it is being used to deceive and make someone more interesting or funny than they actually are. If you're being your true self, there is no problem. It's a beautiful and wonderful modern benefit to be able to communicate as much as we can, when were at breaks or down time at work, or when were out and about doing errands, etc. Growing up playing online games, especially back when voice chat wasn't as commonly available, and forming friends also teaches you how to read intention in text. YES, you actually can. You can discern a lot by the way a person types. People like to emote and give themselves away. Example: "Yeah!" vs "Yeah." vs "Yeah..." vs "....................... Yeah." It gets more intricate than that, but that's a basic example. It depends on the person/people, not the medium of communication."

[@nurse.brittykitty]

It’s 2am. Somebody tell me why I’ve created and listened to the clip from 4:01 to 4:03 over and over about 300 times just to hear Matthew say “it’s complimen-tree! I’m gonna give it to you for free!” And I still can’t get enough of the way he says it 🤤

[@melissataylor809]

does anyone else not think its weird how he needs our name and email for the 9 texts??

[@kparm23]

No its because you get on the mailing list. Dumbfuck living under a rock

[@stardust2075]

Oh my gosh thank you so much for making videos! They are such a big help you have no idea...I have been in a new relationship for not even a month yet,and he is more giddy than i am when we are around each other,and he's already telling me that he loves me,and i can see the love in his eyes for me so its just amazing!

[@YumiSprouse]

Stardust Congrats girl!!

[@phieillydinyia]

I have no Guy Friends. I have NO friends. I'm a loner :(

[@awkwardpantry5301]

Phieilly Dinyia I hope you found some friends this year!

[@theophiluskunnu2251]

Phieilly Dinyia hey I'm Theophilus Kunnu from Nigeria love you for dating how do you see it?

[@Danielle-ze6fq]

you will find someone :)

[@nouhabouchair2608]

It's alright babe. Someone will find you soon. Meanwhile try to make yourself happy

[@tayanamasanja3952]

Phieilly Dinyia be my friend

[@mgray999]

Your videos aren't just for men. They're for everyone. They're social advice.

[@estefanianuzzo9787]

YOU ARE A BLESSING! AND WE'RE ALL SO LUCKY TO EXIST AT THE SAME TIME YOU DOOO

[@CleoPhoenixRT]

I texted the first text (something along the lines of "It's a good thing that we're friends, we would be so much trouble for each other") to a good friend of mine. One minute later, he texted "Or we could be really good for each other". Now he's being weird and I can't get him to stop. lol! thanksssss. maybe he's right though.

[@danieladanny3590]

I hate TEXT. just use for emergency.case. Old fashion FACE TO FACE much much better.

[@saharabond5680]

i actually prefer handwriting letters! phone calls are just not personal at all. i think it's great getting updates that are a week late!

[@supermom810b]

+Sahara Bond i hope that was supposed to be sarcastic! XD

[@aliamarneh7714]

+Timemaster f Ikr

[@orangelo4579]

Same but my dad hast to text me EVERY FRIGGIN DAY and I think dude chill with the texts I have an iPad so you go get an iPhone so you can annoy me every freaking day by sending texts to me why do you THINK I don't say anything in reply?!?!

[@yuniasdodson4905]

+Daniela Danny I know right

[@MeganMichelleTimeLapses]

Lmaooooo matt is actually super funny

[@williammathias475]

Oh my dear friend you don't need to worry about anything because there is a solution to your problem I was in a problem like this before not knowing that there is a solution to my problem I got my ex back with the help of this great powerful man who help me out You can contact him on his WhatsApp [phone]

[@oliverqueen4320]

Hi dear. Worry no more. I contacted [e-mail] and I was able to read by bf text messages. I even listen to his calls for almost a month. I thought he was cheating on me. You can message the devil and see for yourself

[@torontoshirleywilliams6687]

Lmfao. I don't know why but this made me crack up.

[@torontoshirleywilliams6687]

I think I peed my self a bit

[@torontoshirleywilliams6687]

+Shirley williams I'm not sure why I clicked on this to begin with but I'm still laughing for some reason.

[@TheOnniell]

+Kereopa Shante fhggtgzd

[@qweed54]

This is amazing I’ve literally used the “you and I would be trouble” line before!! That shit works

[@EdithBurchett]

they work well in english, but I wouldn't really know how to translate to (for example) German. It doesn't sound as charming and cheeky.

[@oliverqueen4320]

@@EdithBurchett Hi dear. Worry no more. I contacted [e-mail] and I was able to read by bf text messages. I even listen to his calls for almost a month. I thought he was cheating on me. You can message the devil and see for yourself

[@EdithBurchett]

Oliver Queen lol

[@caitlynmiller8956]

My friend That I like Just friend-zoned me! That hurt.... bad.

[@user-tg7ot8jm5h]

eyyy, katlyn from mc diaries

[@ukelelerandomness2049]

Katelyn! From! Minecraft diary

[@caitlynmiller8956]

***** Uh...shut up!

[@Ashley-nu4xg]

+Lady Katelyn (AnimalJam360) You are Katelyn From Minecraft Diaries! :D Katelyn Stay Strong, The Friend That You Like Is just, So wrong for friend zoning you! Stay Strong, You Will be ok! :)

[@traceylynam1970]

I tried one of your texts on a guy i have messaged for 3 weeks i wasnt getting very far, and bingo one of your tips and im now the best thing to happen to him. Will definately try more hints and tips from you. Thank you.

[@oliviamae3281]

Sounds like he wanted a booty call. One hour to spare.

[@FiTIndeed]

OMG some comments below are horrible. Matthew don't worry, I love your videos, they are a lot of value, you're great and I love your sense of humour! Keep up the good work! Marzie x

[@melissamiranda2006]

This man makes me forget about my ex lol he is so attractive !

[@brookejerrell21]

i totally love him.. i like how he uses a bit of psychology.. most of his his videos touch my soul ... and not to mention... his advice actually helped.. thanks Matt ... much love

[@laurenkorshak9442]

The 9 texts link sent me to a box that asked me to subscribe. Once I subscribed I was redirected to another video called 8 things to say to a man, but never received the 9 texts info I signed up for and that were advertised.

[@sunocharity]

Just yesterday, told a guy " not the "swing by" kind of girl." Sorry. After he said he'd love to swing by on his way home. I initially said " no thank you. Enjoy your Sunday " he said " geez. Cold and short. Ok. " he then offered to meet for dinner at my availability. I'm not available until next week. ;)

[@alexwill5783]

You have an amazing smile. Can I get to know ?

[@violamae7090]

Anybody else read the page in Matt's voice? or am I just weird?

[@quixoticwoman7082]

You’re just weird. 😂

[@za-gj9ec]

What i like the most about your channel, is the way you speak about all those " issues". It feels like you really speak from your heart in a very humle way. Like you so good in person and so honest. There's so many people in here that speak about the same things but it is always seems like its someone speaking from his 'ego' just to get more subscribers or something.. But you are different and it shows. So thank you!

[@dwaynejohnson178]

OMG 😱 the great powerful spell caster that helps me can also help you get your ex back

[@dwaynejohnson178]

[phone]

[@deflepfollower]

Matthew, Thank you for all the extra miles you have been doing for us !

[@loralove2114]

I'm still laughing about Hussy House oml 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@FLdancer00]

This just sounds like basic texting rules, not gender specific.

[@tugcehilal2536]

1- add value (send a picture message )2- eliminate question marks (I am doing this instead would you come?) 3- use text as a way to assert your standards