3 Things: "Nothing Reasons She Left", PeePeeBro's Wife is Miserable, Mental Load in Relationships

[@BigBiteDoughnut]

When I was 1 my dad punched me in the face. That's the day my mom left. When I was 5 my dad burned down my house. The only reason I'm alive is bc my cat woke my mom and I up and saved our lives.... why do I not trust males? Why do wlmen like cats more then dudes? This is something I learned at 5! I get so tired of dudes being like who hurt you? It was 1 guy No. That's just 1 guy I'm telling you about

[@ana-nim]

I don't understand this "who hurt you" reply. What they want to do with it? Offend us? How? By the fact that their species are awful and almost every woman suffered from them?

[@nicholebryant7359]

​@@ana-nim my standard answer is how much time do you have? We end up staring at each other in silence😂😂

[@amberinthemist7912]

​@@ana-nimthey want you to trauma dump so they can use it to take advantage of you.

[@ecclairmayo4153]

That's horrific! What kind of drug was he on? Please tell me he was on drugs!🤬

[@islandgirl8067]

Thank goodness you and your mom made it out alive! What a monster!

[@nnn9854]

That’s disgusting that he got a 17 year old pregnant and was sleeping with her. What’s men’s obsession with teenagers?!

[@Cararenee93xo]

teenagers are easier for men to manipulate.

[@thesecretshade]

It's not just a "body" thing. Teens are not independent yet. That's the best time to manipulate them into another dependency by grooming and manipulating them into a "relationship".

[@batelshimoni1078]

They're literally p e dos

[@ThimbleFox350]

Teenagers have less knowledge about life and will put up with more garbage behavior because they don’t have any gauge for what is okay. Women their own age will shut things down and move on from a loser. Losers chase teenagers because they don’t want to look in the mirror and fix their issues.

[@kgs2280]

So many men are still obsessed with “breaking in” a virgin. They want to feel like they “got there first”, they “conquered that”. It’s sickening. I think women’s reaction after the first time (besides whatever pain was involved) is generally “is that all there is?” Or, “so, that’s what all the fuss is about??? Big deal!” since there is rarely (if ever) much pleasure for HER the first time. It’s often more about getting that out of the way, as in “well that’s over with, so, hopefully I can now start to enjoy it”

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

Even women get defensive when you bring up emotional labor and mental load. Male centered women are often the first ones to accuse you of laziness.

[@jesmey4902]

Hell yes, my mother and my exes mother.... He was working a 9-5, while I had 2 jobs, and went to school every weekend for 1year. I got told from both since I'm the woman I must do more, that this is my duty in life, and I shouldn't be so lazy since he is tired from his job..... WTF!? Got rid of all 3 of them and never looked back in 6 years 😁

[@ashleytheseeker8480]

​@jesmey4902 those women think working yourself to an early grave for a man or family is noble.

[@cloveless18]

Well, all plantations need overseers😂

[@CatgirLinKC]

​@jesmey4902 good for you!!

[@poohcanplay123]

@@jesmey4902good for you ma’am 👏 👏

[@tempestholmes]

That is the best part: how shocked they are by those of us who move on "quickly" after they spend YEARS destroying every ounce of love we ever had for them. Honestly!

[@gee_emm]

"LEAVE. Leave FASTER!" The Burble, circa 2024

[@BurbNBougie]

The Burble!!! 🤗🤗🤗

[@studiosandi]

If you are in the US AND you're thinking about a divorce or leaving an abusive partner, do it asap while you have rights.

[@cindychristian1700]

The thing is, if they take away no fault divorce, women will just leave and get a legal separation or just separate themselves from a bad marriage! Some people go to another part of the country or stay in the same state but never get divorced. I know people who've been separated for years or even decades and simply never got a divorce!

[@cindychristian1700]

Over heard in the ladies' room a few years ago: A woman, who looked to be in her late thirties was talking to her friend about how she left home when she was in her early twenties to be with a guy she didn't know well but was sure she was totally in love with him! Fast forward almost a year. She left him and went back home to her mother! She arrived on her mother's front porch, and her mother said lovingly, "I've been waiting for you this whole time!" She opened the door and gave her a hug!

[@studiosandi]

​@cindychristian1700 with the application of project 2025, we might lose that right too.

[@Lysistrata2025]

@@studiosandi This, if they stop pregnant women from leaving the state for termination, they will let your husband cancel your flight.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

​@@Lysistrata2025not even worth having a baby

[@TheePrincessBrat]

A lot of women realize how messed up certain relationships are once they reach that age, or are around children that age. We all swear we’re so mature until we actually grow up.

[@briskettacos]

And pervy men tell us, "You're so mature" so we don't realize he's a loser for creeping on young women

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

very true

[@itspiinkyrose4324]

So true!

[@brandy4530]

This is why I always tell my kids that it isn’t about maturity. A normal healthy man, with a good standing in the community, would be ashamed and embarrassed to be with an underage person, because our society does not accept it. If he is still willing to do that, then it’s because he has no reputation to maintain. Everyone in his age group already knows there is something wrong with him.

[@Holisticallycarol]

Pregnant lady, take the trip home in 2 segments. fly halfway, spend the night at a hotel close to the AIRPORT, then fly the rest of the way home. getting home is vital to get away from the abusive pp bro.

[@Hmmmm-l4f]

As an American stuck in Europe because my kids were born here, if she can at all get on that plane before the baby is born I highly suggest it. Most countries have rules like this so she will likely get stuck if she doesn’t.

[@InnerPower4me]

So glad I am seeing this, was considering moving abroad for this reason

[@D-Dollie]

No one should be stuck in a country they don’t want to! Hope things work out for you!!

[@Jac527]

I told my father today about the whole bear vs man theory, He ended up agreeing that men are dangerous until I told him I don’t wish to be married. He claimed I’m just lazy and avoiding responsibilities. I proceeded to point out that he too is lazy and I learnt that from him since it’s mother who does everything in the house while he nests and rests. He said to not be pessimistic in life. I told him i would be optimistic if I was a man in this patriarchal society, since I am not, he has no right for me look at the bright side when in fact a woman marries the biggest predator she fears everyday, a man. Sounds like to my choice to be 4B will not be challenged any further 😊.

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

I never understood how men can admit that men are dangerous, and do everything to keep their daughters away from them, but still expect their daughters to get married. My dad sent mixed messages like that for most of my life, and it was confusing.

[@islandgirl8067]

The more of these relationship horror stories I read, the gladder I am that I never wanted marriage or kids.

[@essiew3205]

Good for you for making your happiness and peace a priority. Marriage is overrated and only benefits men!

[@ts-hy3bp]

I left cause he did “nothing”everyday!

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

These males really believe They have a right to abuse US👹🤛🏾

[@leslie-711]

Never move to a foreign country for a man. Never. Unless you have a community of YOUR OWN where you’re going never move for a man. It’s not worth the risk. Some people get lucky but that isn’t always the case. Proceed with caution.

[@islandgirl8067]

They want to isolate you from your support system.

[@InnerPower4me]

I am in the West and this guy wanted me to move the UK and he started gaslighting and mistreating me before l left, glad he showed his true colors before l agreed!!

[@leslie-711]

@@InnerPower4me I’m glad you got away before it was too late!

[@4blueland]

I got burnt by this. Cost me thousands of $$ and mental anguish.

[@leslie-711]

@@4blueland I’m sorry you had to go through that.

[@Garden_Queen]

My ex claimed he didn’t do anything, didn’t see it coming and I broke up with him for no reason. I constantly complained about him expecting me to make dinner, not taking on some of the burden. I constantly complained about paying more of the bills than him. I constantly complained about him being a (Mel Hamlett coined this) “piece of furniture with eyes.” Not doing anything domestically around the house and not having to think about that sort of thing. I constantly complained about having no physical chemistry with him, and he felt he had all the time in the world to fix it and do better. I constantly complained about his snoring and walking me up all night long and taking more than half of the mattress. He was shocked that he only have 3-6 mo the to fix this before I ended it. He thought he should be given years of dragging his feet and complacency. How rude of me, lol.

[@jesmey4902]

Sounds 100% like my ex and our relationship.... Got rid of him 6 years ago, and went 4b 😁

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

What's with the lack of physical chemistry? Wasn't there any from the beginning?

[@rumooooni]

The fact I relate to this is actually insane😂 🎉 yes he wanted years! When I gave him 3!!!! Heck no I don't wanna stay with him for longer!!! Get someone else to do it

[@rumooooni]

I relate to what you said lmao 🤣😂 he expected years also heck noooo left him

[@pamelatwitty4220]

Good for you

[@ClubhouseCrime]

Pls understand the link between Project 2025 and these behaviors and get everyone you know out to vote to save women's mental, physical and emotional heath. You'll be saving men too, especially the ones you love.💕

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

Here here. +1

[@madarawijerathne276]

Last story say how men are so not developed to have relationship, even one halfway decent guy thinks he's doing greatest because he's slightly better compared to other men

[@joylastname3035]

They also want parades and accolades for doing bare minimum stuff. You want a trophy for being a decent human? "Mr X beats his wife, you should be grateful I'm not doing that." Oh, really?!

[@MoonRise.19]

My ex believed he was the greatest because he didn't smoke 😂

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

@@MoonRise.19 It’s the cognitive dissonance for me. They really think cuz they don’t do x,y,z that this somehow makes them “great guys”, but conveniently ignore the a-w they do that puts them in the category of bad guy regardless of how good they may be in other aspects. Can’t just pick n’choose when to be good, and think it excuses all the times they are bad.

[@MoonRise.19]

@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Yes, exactly. I told him smoking isn't the only bad thing a man can do.

[@CharlieApples]

My abusive ex specifically didn’t hit me because he thought that was the only “real” form of abuse and that as long as he never physically hurt me he couldn’t be called abusive lol. He thought that was such a flex too

[@CharlieApples]

The pregnant woman needs to get back to her home country ASAP. The laws in the US regarding citizenship of children born here are ironclad, especially when the father is American. She will be stuck in the US for YEARS fighting to able to relocate her child overseas if the baby is born here. She needs to book that flight immediately.

[@ButterflyBree]

I like the "Nothing Reasons She Left" series. It's wild how many males weaponize their incompetence against their wives. One thing that makes me hesitant about considering dating again, is the expectation for me to carry all the emotional and mental labor of a relationship. The only way I'd date a guy is if he over stands that a relationship is a partnership!! Reciprocity is essential to all healthy, quality relationships.

[@helletenbrix9614]

Keep your own place, your job, your friends and stay childfree. Good luck!

[@Jamnj1]

Though probably a typo, I like the idea of somebody over standing something that's usually misunderstood.

[@ButterflyBree]

@@Jamnj1 Not a typo. I went to an African history class years ago. The facilitator used the word "over stand" when he asked if people understood certain aspects of the information. It's something that I liked and use it now.

[@Jamnj1]

@@ButterflyBree I love it!

[@4blueland]

Make sure his definition of "partnership" matches yours! I find that a lot of personal definitions don't match.

[@Alicia-rn8bg]

I'm diagnosed with CPTSD from growing up with a father like that, he was a terror but because he didn't hit me people never believed me and treated me like an spoiled brat, literal scum making drama, which traumatized even more

[@amberinthemist7912]

Yep me too.

[@4blueland]

He only hit me a couple times in anger, but that's all it took. Then I was "the problem".

[@Lysistrata2025]

While mental load husband is out with his buddies, get the locks changed and put his stuff in a storage. He seems really obstinate and if this is what's up after therapy, just let this marriage go.

[@catbaloo22]

Re: story 3 - “men quietly work hard without announcing what they do” as the young’uns say, I call cap! It has been my experience that if a man so much as puts a fork (incorrectly) in the dishwasher not only will he make it known one way or another but he will also expect to receive the highest of praise and expression of gratitude.

[@nameunknown1519]

The lady that married the PP bro needs to go across any border she can get to NOW. Go to Canada or Mexico or any country that she can get to with reasonable healthcare and will take her passport. Then worry about getting to her home country after.

[@TheCakeIsALie-1]

I believe threats of physical abuse qualifies as a type of physical abuse because your physical health is at risk.

[@yujuy.1329]

second lady needs to take short flights. go to Europe then take the train then another flight, she better run

[@mizzpoetrics]

Gosh, so many stories of us women going thru some or all of the same things! I'm over him, but I still feel angry over the crap he's put me & our kids thru! I don't think I'll ever forget. I realize many times I should've left way sooner than I did - but it's better late than never!

[@paulaw418]

So, first "over nothing divorce story" 1. he's still resentful of her postpartum weight issues DECADES after the divorce? 2. She didn't *_do enough to get back in shape quicker_* yet he wouldn't help her with child care? When the fk was she supposed to find the time for herself to get back in shape? My mother told me a story about how one day my father cancelled her fitness club membership but kept his own. His explanation to her was, *_there's no sense in wasting money on a gym membership for YOU because you don't have time to go anymore, you have 2 kids to take care of._* 🤦‍♀️ (BTW she was a SAHM/W) She replied, *_You have 2 kids as well and a job, yet you manage to get to the gym every other day. I'll just go on the days you don't, while YOU mind the children for a couple of hours._* His response was to just start going every day. It was also a racketball club. And since he played he claimed that he had a match every other day. The days he wasn't working out. Yeah, they divorced.

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

Your parents’ story is a good example of the vulnerability of being a SAHM. How could he cancel her membership if not for the fact that he was paying for it? Otherwise, even being her husband he wouldn’t (in countries where women have rights) be able to cancel it. They would ask her to confirm first. Also, what your father did is so common. These “two-parent” household where women somehow have less time to do things for themselves because their “partners” sabotage them by refusing to “help”. I’m glad she left in the end.

[@mzmindurbusiness4489]

Omg , I know exactly how this feels. If we want to get out , really get out we have to plan now. I think after this election we may end up hopeless. Plan accordingly and get out now!

[@AndyyWithAY]

Wow! "Nothing" is pretty intense. She needs to run while she can. Even if she somehow loses the baby, that's better than being stuck with a guy who treats her this way. Melanie Hamlett talks about this all the time. When you have a baby in his country, you are SOL. Hindsight is 20/20, but don't ignore red flags. He was lazy and dropping other red flags

[@nicholebryant7359]

Even if she makes 1 leg of the trip out of the US is better than being stck

[@strawbraryliberry4604]

Regarding the mental load conversion: Her: It's hard to talk to men about these things sometimes Him: TALKING ISN'T HARD SHUT UP *flails* 🙃

[@BigBiteDoughnut]

Wait do women need permission to fly? That seems like a violation of civic rights

[@stupidtookmynick]

it's not so much that women need permission to fly, it's that the cabin crew isn't educated in how to deliver a baby. The later in the pregnancy the woman is, the higher the risk of her giving birth is. And as giving birth is risky business, they don't want to deal with it.

[@jdbailey442]

The pressure during the flight in the plane can trigger labor. Sometimes if you look bigger like you are in your 3rd trimester they will make you call your doctor for proof that you can fly. Airlines have the right not want to take this risk for the safety of the pregnant woman and her child.

[@sparklyunicorn5431]

​@jdbailey442 another example of how pregnancy can ruin women's lives.

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

I'm so doggone glad you did this. I swear you must have been hearing those arguments I've had so over these youtube streets about this very topic. I fight about this near every doggone day. This is one of my most triggering topics, I have to admit it.

[@sonja4164]

I think the topic of "mental load" deserves its own separate video and needs to be discussed more. There are SO many women who have no clue about it. I see my sister in law going through this with my brother. He's a decent guy and even considers himself a feminist (he is in many ways). But my mother raised us in such a way that girls take care of the household. All the boys had to do was take out the garbage. So my brother is one of those guys that will say to his wife, "Let me know if you need any help," and will have no problem "helping." He doesn't recognize how he is completely clueless of all the ways patriarchy has influenced his behaviors in a relationship related to housework, even though he subscribes to feminist thought. He doesn't even think about it. His wife was raised to do everything (like many of us are). My sister in law is the one that does all the mental load, AND she has a full-time job & a side job. My brother is working on starting a business, and she WANTS him to focus only on that. But she gets tired of thinking of everything household related. I want to help her so she can see it & advocate for herself.

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

Starting a business can be hard, but it’s not an excuse to not be a functioning member of the household. I think it would help if your sister told him what the mental load is, and have him do his part little by little till he’s on par cuz it’s unrealistic to expect him to automatically do something that he normally doesn’t all at once. After telling him, she basically needs to call him out whenever he doesn’t do his part.

[@sonja4164]

@tiahnarodriguez3809 Oh, I completely agree! starting a business is no excuse. She doesn't even know or understand what mental load is. She's not aware that it's a thing. I think it's something they may have to eventually address in therapy together because it's going to take both of them to work on shifting their mindset & behavior over time. Because, like you said, it's not something that can be done all at once.

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

Melanie Hamlet speaks on men like your brother. They aren’t really feminists. Feminism begins at home. Not rallies or social media posts. Or even theory. But in everyday actions, starting at home. Doesn’t mean your brother is hopeless, but he has a long ways to go before he can properly earn that title. Can’t be feminist when you don’t take ownership for the upkeep of your own home or your own life. When you participate in the dynamic that leads to the gender pay gap and sends women to an early grave. Those are the basics.

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

Don't help her see it. Help him. Criticize him. He's the one in the wrong here. Call him the hypocritical feminist that he is.

[@crescentmoon2374]

This is what I been saying many of these passport bros and foreign relationship are hardly happier from what I had seen despite the fact they pretend they are happier. Even at my old job I used to know a Filipina lady who act like she loves her husband on social media and around everyone but with her close friends and family she would talk negatively about her American husband. Things she brought up was so embarrassing and even she had affair. Just because in certain culture divorce is looked down upon doesn’t mean they are happy in their marriage. Some of these foreign women in their culture expect the men especially the types to go after passport bros to pay for and send money back to their families. Even my old boss who was also Filipina demanded her husband to send money to her family and some of her family members don’t want to work and paying for the brother in laws and sister in laws.

[@rn2787]

I will do it. I need to be better. I need to clean. These guys act like saying that changes anything, but it doesn't.

[@mwademinor]

Last story. Maybe he removed the mental load by leaving her to herself. She missed the blessing by reaching out to him. She could have chilled and pretended he didn't exist while he was gone. LOL.

[@elietahari7290]

ill do you better and tell you I would've ignored him when he got back too. He wouldnt exist until the minute I served him those divorce papers.

[@Rose-kj7rz]

That would be my opportunity to get dressed up, go out, take lots of pictures for my phone, chat with everyone I could get a word in with. And then let him find the photos when he got back of all the fun I had without his presence and extra mental load. I would not be reaching out to him. He would be dead to me.

[@WhoAuthorizedThis]

Yeah, he would’ve been questioning his existence I would’ve ignored him so hard.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

The last woman needs to leave him. It’s emotionally abusive for him to be treating her that way. I also think what he was saying Was probably projection. I don’t think she’s desperate since this is is her husband, not someone she’s just been seeing for a while. If this is his first time acting like that, I can see how it could be very disorienting and you wonder if maybe you do share blame. Hopefully she’s still in therapy. I don’t think she’ll leave this time from the sounds of it, but hopefully she takes the advice to not have kids. This is only the tip of the iceberg with him. I’ve dealt with people like this and never will again

[@ana-nim]

If you look at the root of the situation it's simply husband punishing her for speaking up about her struggles. She was speaking about something that worries her, he got mad and left without her. It's a manipulation to make her never speak up again. She should leave him even if it seems like not a big deal.

[@TheePrincessBrat]

@@ana-nim 💯 He’s going to keep doing that to mold her into complete compliance. She’ll be walking on eggshells, and keeping any complaints to herself or being careful how she phrases them

[@elietahari7290]

At this rate if you are turning to Reddit for confirmation of your feelings in your marriage. your marriage is cooked and you just haven't come to terms with it. Like BNB always says, in the vast majority of these post the women are looking for validation of their feelings when they make these post. And there's nothing wrong with that but I want more women to realize we are women of the 21st century and we need to start acting like it. If your marriage is hanging on by a thread and you've done everything you could to save it and he's still acting like a petulant child, LEAVE! You have that right... for now anyways.

[@tiahnarodriguez3809]

It should def be some type of wake up call if someone is making a post to seek validation in order to stay in a bad relationship. That should be the litmus test that it’s time to get out of the relationship.

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

I like The Guardian's "You be the judge section", the comments are much more sensible than Reddit's too.

[@karikasumi888]

Men isolate and gaslight you into Oblivion so I'm glad they have this option for advice and perspective. Some people don't have a good support system so I'm sure many women have been helped by comments.

[@louhortonsculpture]

3rd story: it’s always so weird when you’re talking about something and your partner or friend feels called out and totally attacks you. Tells me that’s how they operate, they don’t face problems head on, but manipulate you into doing what they want. Then this guy goes on to fully manipulate her for a whole weekend.

[@soul-deeplevel-up6179]

She needs to go back to therapy, to figure out what about her causes her to react in this way to him going and doing his own thing. 100 calls and texts? Uh-uh home girl has an attachment wound that was activated. She could have used the weekend to relax, but instead used it to grovel 🤦🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

It baffles me every time I hear men blame women for leaving and divorcing them. 🤦🏽‍♀️ It literally makes no sense , basically women are actively choosing to DIVORCE men and go through the entire process, and they have children? So she wants to do everything alone , and the freedom to say she’s divorced. Huh? 🤔 I tune men out when the so called most logical s3x , doesn’t actually have any logic whatsoever.

[@Br0nto5aurus]

The "sticks and stones" phrase has an alternative version that actually validates verbal abuse as well. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can also hurt me. Sticks and stones break only skin while words are ghosts that haunt me. Pain from words has left its scar on mind and heart that's tender. Cuts and bruises now have healed, it's words that I remember."

[@susiebear3316]

This woman either needs to get a divorce or move in an autonomous fashion as her husband does!

[@marjorambee3521]

I'm surprised any of these feminist subreddits are still allowed. So many of them have been censored by the trans-cels

[@zenya9620]

The last lady is desperate as hell and he knows it.

[@YahRiYah_Ahava777]

Gratitude B n B!!! ✨️💖✨️

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

🥰👑💪🏾💐

[@paulaw418]

PP bro's wife needs to move back to her home country AMA if she really wants to get away. While she's still pregnant she's one person. Once the baby is born it becomes "international kidnapping" if she hops on a plane with the kid. Get on that plane Against Medical Advice NOW!!!! If she can work a job while pregnant, she can damned well fly!!

[@yangguo1512]

The pregnant wife has since clarified that neither she nor her husband are US citizen. So this isn’t to do with passportbros. The husband is awful nonetheless.

[@BurbNBougie]

Thanks

[@labelledujour5855]

Serious question, I don’t understand why KZbin is asking me to subscribe, I thought I was.

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

I would risk that long flight to get away from him.

[@bcottony]

That second "Nothing" story sounds suspiciously like my ex

[@electron-Volt]

I'm contemplating becoming a single mom (with donated cells). I'm sure it will be challenging to juggle it all - but I just remind myself that having a man around doesn't take away the work. It only adds to it. I'd have to cook for him, clean up after him, get told that I am ugly, deal with some p0rn-addict pestering me everyday for some sick kink I have no interest in. By having the child alone, it's 100% mine. Never fight over custody. Never worry about some sleaze cheating and leaving us.

[@MarokoJin]

Just a note for the Quran thingy... I've read that book enough time to know that what he said is FALSE, it's nowhere in that book.

[@popejaimie]

The comment talking about mold is saying that flight may be less risky than staying

[@carlahaiduk1878]

Why does the mental load woman keeps married ? Why ? It's not things that change. Why do people who know the term mental load get married? What. She thought things would be different in her special relationship?

[@amberinthemist7912]

There are men who are full partners.

[@fantym-1]

Very Few & very far between. Only get one life; best invest it in oneself than sacrificing it.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

Tbh, being a single mother in the usa is fine. You get food stamps of 500+ a month, discounted rates on internet and phone, childcare advantages, etc. Apso free healthcare. Tax credits. My income fell after divorce and i was technically below poverty line. It aint bad sis! First 8k tax refund lol.

[@Panthabear27]

Until project 2025 hits after dump is or his equivalent is elected.

[@MMM-z2d]

Hey just curious what are doing for housing since it's so expensive these days?

[@ecclairmayo4153]

All of this for NOTHING!

[@greenbunny-]

The first father sounds so much like my father maybe just less intimidating? He's made fun of my mom's fat body around other people. threw jazva filled with coffee at my mom (but it didn't hit her THANKFULLY) and denn turned around to my sister (at that time a teen) and said how she should be an obedient wife to her future husband bc he might not be 'sheep" like him and beat her up (my sister). So a hypothetical man having a "good" obendient wife *unlike my mom* is to him more important than his daughter's well-being. Yeah and he also time to time tells my mom how she manupulated us to hate him. Like we don't have eyes and don't see his disgusting behaviour (he rarely gets angry, but often disrespects his wife(my mom)). (My native language is not English, sorry for mistakes).

[@thepoliticalcat]

Honestly, if your husband runs off to do something and never bothers to check in on you, find yourself a mental health provider and get into therapy right away. NEVER give your power away by calling him more than once. That's just him being a jerk, and you don''t want to interact with a jerk.

[@NOYB28]

Last one, he would have come back to divorce papers 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@-talwer]

I love the nothing reason she left

[@Diana734]

The third story....she should have showed up to see how he was enjoying his time without her.

[@vladimirazubcekova7727]

even if its nothing it doesnt matter. anyone can divorce for any reason they want. staying in marriage is not obligatory. if you refuse to sign divorce paper you dont respect your partners freedom. id never do that.

[@Orb-w3aver]

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[@LetsTalkAboutItWithMara]

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[@BurbNBougie]

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[@onycagayle4485]

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