i've had a lot of experience with older people who are nearing the end of life and would like to ask your views on the behaviour that causes the elderly to become more selfish in their declining years and not express any kindness ? is there a way to help redress this imbalance ? I realise they are returning to expressions of their own true selves which can be disturbing for those around them and that don't realise they have been living a 'mask', a way of being that they adopted that was what they thought they should be but some are unnecessarily unkind.