4 huge REALITIES of BOAT LIFE - watch before you move on board!

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much for your kind comments everyone - I have read every single one of them! If films like this are worth something to you and you’d like to support the filmmakers/sailors behind them, please check out www.patreon.com/user?u=13249792. Even $2 a month goes a long way.

[@ergaomnes6221]

I grew up on 3 of the eolian Islands, eh-eh :). no regrets in sailing ever !

[@Thuddriver01]

I'm totally freaked out over pirates and boat security while in a harbor. Most countries seem to be intent on removing your ability to protect your selves and your boat. Any experiences in this area? Or advice?

[@mrhankey8260]

My buddy call me yesterday when I was drunk told me to buy a sailboat all the way across Canada so I did today I quit my job got a plane ticket never seen the sailboat only on FaceTime it looks nice for a 1969 it in the water and not at the bottom good enough I don’t even know how to sail but I’m so excited to go out there and start a new life on the sea

[@myhillslife27]

I feel all your videos are very realistic yet romantic and dreamy balanced. Thats why I love your videos. I related I enjoy my own space and time

[@carlobottigelli8955]

As a 50 yr experience sailor, I fully share Maya's thought-ful advices...... Congratulations for your artistic filming and excellent music on the sea. Keep up !! Buon vento

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much for commenting Carlo! -Maya

[@airframedent]

"the boat is there to take you where you want to go, but the real journey does happen in your mind." I don't care what your lifestyle is, if that statement didn't grab you.... you didn't get it. Thank you for that. It's words to live by.... no matter who you are or what you do.

[@IteKLF]

I totally got a "Wow" moment from that sentence.

[@janisripple754]

Jim Dent Yes, we are seniors can’t travel due Family- Health -Stuff🙁 But Watch Sailing Adventures , World Travels not fancy But adventures in my Head is Very satisfying all the same .

[@montgomeryhomes09]

Very g00d video you are really down to earth from a fellow sailor and liveaboard simplicity is the key keep up the good video always be honest and keep it simple the good life

[@ericgfx01]

Nice. Yours?

[@donrumph1]

This episode contains the best information that everyone should be aware of prior to setting off in the life of a cruiser. I wish it had been available 20 years ago. Thank you for giving new and not so new cruiser an intelligent and digestible guide to the realities of living on a small and often wet home.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much for sharing such kind words Don, I’m so glad the video spoke to you! -Maya

[@Inzyman100]

Clear, concise, intelligent and well presented. I must for anyone considering the lifestyle! Great job and one of the best video's I have seen in a long time. Well done.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much for such a positive review!

[@kevin3434343434]

Finally, your sailing channel that actually goes beyond the glitz and glammer and focuses on reality. Great video, it gave me lots to think about.

[@progwolf12]

I have been living on a narrowboat alone for six months, that statement of the real journey is in your mind rings so true having anxiety and depression myself. I am in a better place now mentally but the underlying issues are not addressed by being on the boat alone but I have given myself more time to deal with and be in control of my head space. Godspeed and happy new year.

[@Onlinesully]

I am guessing that a barrow boat would be a lot less stressful ?

[@brettagostini2732]

This may be the single most insightful sailing video - for those thinking about the lifestyle - I have ever watched.

[@rabukan5842]

One of the most honest, thoughtful and informative videos on the real life of boat life. There is also the endless maintenance, the time spent on visas, etc. Many people now watch a KZbin channel, see a few hours touting the great things about boat life, and they don't know the reality until they're well into the stresses. If they are aware of the things you talked about, and they have plans for how to deal with these problems, sailing/boating is incredible. And not everyone needs to sail around the world. Just having a boat at a marina for a few years while learning to sail/motor, venturing further and further away can be a totally fulfilling lifestyle of boating. That eliminates many of the problems, but takes away much of the adventure/discover of new lands. Everything is a choice. Thanks for these beautiful, literary videos!

[@williamdraper6916]

An absolutely terrific edition this time. Thoughtful, personal, provoking. Excellent advice.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much for taking the time to leave such a nice comment William! -Maya

[@robertthompson9111]

I really enjoyed listening to your message! Thanks ;)

[@58dorsett]

All that you have related is very true, you must have put a lot of thought into this vid. Currently I own a 43' cruising cat, and for the last 8 years I've been cruising in the Caribbean for 3 months of the year, and working the other 9, so I can kind of relate. One of my biggest problems is budget... invariably something always comes up that blows the plan out of the water, and I tend to spend more than average on berthing, hotels, dining at restaurants, and paying to have some of the drudgery work done. When the weather is nice with a fair wind from the right direction, and everything on the boat is turnkey, I can't think of a better way to spend my time, and I contemplate putting the house up for rent and cruising full time, however sometimes there are those days when I feel perhaps I should have my head examined.

[@AlA-ok5jh]

Sell the house & get a 100 ft sailboat. Hire a crew of 4 that ask nothing less than 7 bananas a day each. Oh ya a hot tub on board for those tired muscles.

[@SailingSarah]

That closing statement is CLASSIC LOL HAHAHAHA! 🧐😂🤣🤯🚣🌮🙃🤪🤕

[@achilleaspetris]

Probably the most real and relatable sailing channel out there , keep it up guys

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏼 you are the kindest!

[@Marianekification]

I was an owner of a boat once. All you've told here is so true. Very worthy content

[@JollyPoggger]

See this gave me a feeling I havnt felt since I was a kid, such a warmness😊

[@karyhansen5082]

Your wise words and insights have convinced me even more ... that I want a life shaped by the waves, the wind, and the coast line. Very well said and sailed . Fair winds : )

[@marknunn5024]

Love the heart-felt honesty of your advice. Your video's are beautiful to watch but it's the integrity and genuine warmth shining through that makes them really special. Hope you have many more wonderful adventures.

[@hennagal7360]

"The real journey is in your mind " wow - thats a big Keeper thought 🌻 thank you

[@Yocambio]

My new favorite non-racing boat channel. Wonderful visual imagery, inspiring narrative. Thank you.

[@fonhollohan2908]

For a young lady you have gain a fair amount of wisdom and you offer sound advice that everyone should consider before venturing into a life period let alone sailing. Just a lot of practical sense if you ask me.

[@diannetell6757]

CHOICE is a very powerful word and you explained it so well. You are a very mature person Maya, well grounded and humble for or age. Love you both. Bon voyage et bon vent.

[@robertsmme]

Not at all cheesy, beautifully written and presented. So well narrated and thoughtful and thought provoking. Thank you.

[@Hunter-ym2kk]

I've said so many times, "hours and hours of relaxing with minutes of intensity with moments of sheer terror..", even on a 42 footer.. and I always kept a big bag of chocolate chip cookies down in the hold..

[@billpratt7807]

Finally, a meaningful and excellently presented discussion of the realities of living aboard. Thank you.

[@SmellyBones]

"Perhaps a different kind of alternative lifestyle..." There are people (not me) who go on a bicycle tour and end up selling their houses and living on the road, circling the globe. Also #vanlife.

[@BeALighthouse]

Thanks for this. I'm nearly 40 and have this really idyllic idea of how my liveaboard lifestyle is going to pan out. The part where you talk about the health and mental health implications of living a cruiser life has sobered my eagerness. Genuinely appreciate and needed to hear this.

[@carlesmiquel]

Dear Maya, as I would put it in a proper letter... WOW! This is, by far, the most honest, truthful and down-to-earth reflection on sailing I've ever heard. The deepest reflection, in fact, I've ever heard from a sailor. Keep on your fantastic work!

[@rifatsele2908]

Thank you Maya for your excellent words. Every word and every sentence is well-spoken and means a lot to an undecided - new beginner and seasoned sailor. I am a passionate sailor for ten years and you have answered some of my deep and profound inner questions in this video. Thank you both. Fair Winds.

[@dcrafts5445]

Well spoken.... point on... really enjoyed the honesty of this video.People need to realize it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.

[@jez987s]

What a beautiful cozy boat........my very first sail was in a very similar boat. Thanks for the honest advice. It's the true facts of boring and you simply have to be on your alert and have to learn to monitor what is happening around you.

[@lauriefrancisco1084]

You’re such a thoughtful and articulate young lady. Mature and wise for your years. Well presented video and good advice. I’m a senior female and thinking seriously of becoming a live aboard, though I wouldn’t be able to travel as much as you. But choosing a lifestyle like living on a boat, or anything that may bring with it periods of isolation, you’d best know whether or not you enjoy your own company. And, as stated, you can’t run away from your demons. Reminds me of a wonderful book on meditation called “Wherever You Go, There You Are” - with the key point in the title!

[@stevenpaul9259]

I'm 3 years in as a liveaboard, and a lot of the information you've presented here resonates. So far, my longest trips have only been up to a month, but hopefully next year it will be more like 5 or 6 months in the year, and work the rest, maybe in a different place to over-winter than usual. Your videos are well shot and very enjoyable, and your boat is gorgeous. I wish you many miles of happiness in her.

[@eduperesss]

Amazing video! I bought a big boat once and was not prepared to go off grid yet. Your explanations totally cover the fears that I've felt. Very accurate affirmations!

[@doracotterell2863]

For your sheer transparency & honesty; you have a new subscriber. I am impressed.

[@peterrawlingson8500]

I found that this calm and very realistic guide covered my apprehensions about long-term sailing very well. I'd like to follow your future boating advice and adventures.

[@richardthomas3415]

You’re one hell of a writer from someone who spent a better part of life writing technical pieces. Very nice work.

[@robertalexander2478]

Us newbies totally appreciate this!!! Such a lovely young lady, Thank you!!!

[@Joakvo]

The music on all your videos is great. What a taste for music!!!

[@AtlantisYacht]

Well done, you managed to give a very realistic view on what to expect of the life on a sailboat. After living more than 5 years on board of my sailboat I can only advice people who are dreaming of this life to just go for it and make the best of it. Don’t be afraid of realising your dreams.

[@harrisonandrew]

Maya, that video was absolutely fantastic. Such honest and great advice. One of the things that would worry me about living on a boat would be security. I would worry someone would break in whilst I was onshore or, worse still, whilst I was in bed. I’m sure that its only as likely as someone breaking into a house, but it would prey on my mind.

[@matthewmadden3392]

This might be the first youtube video I've commented on, but after getting a small 50 year old sailboat for free recently, and fixing her up to cruise my local waters, I've been having a lot of thoughts about living onboard (a larger boat). Not only has this video made me feel like I might be making the right choice by wanting to live onboard, but it's also put my working life into perspective too. I've spent the last 6 years sailing cruise ships as a junior deck officer, and the constant stress and anxiety used to really bother me. Your description of your own experiences has helped me to understand the feelings that I've had throughout my career so far. So thank you. For two reasons.

[@Dingocreek]

Thank you for being honest. I love the outdoors and I love diving, spear fishing and lots more, but wow, I could never found my way around seasickness.

[@johneasleyusa]

A very realistic and honest look into your world. Thanks.

[@devorrahtester5439]

Great great great video. Watching sailing blogs I've often wondered if I 'd be able to adopt the cruiser lifestyle. The answer lies in finding a balance that is right for me. Thanks guys! Keep up the great work!

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

So so glad you enjoyed it Devorrah! You are SO right - it all comes down to finding the right balance for you. There are so many ways to sail.

[@johnmiglautsch4587]

One of the best 'perspective' videos on the sailing life ever!

[@gabec77geo]

I am an expat myself and find it really important to spend time with family and long term friends even if it may cost a lot of time and money. Then there is always someone to hold you when hard times come. Indeed this part is very personal, I wish you all well :)

[@djembe555]

I am a musician and i truly enjoyed your choice of music for your video. You both are living your life and that's so beautiful. I wish you the best and thank you to share your passion with us here.

[@sailingboats2980]

Great advice. You are wise beyond your age.

[@richardbird6945]

I started watching your videos when you got your first boat back in Canada. I admire your spirit, and Aladino is a lucky man. In fact, you are two very lucky people, and I wish you both a wonderful life, and lots of happy babies.

[@utubefroggy]

Maya, for the most part, I truly believe that wisdom comes from experience, and for that to accumulate, it normally takes time, Talent as opposed to ability I believe a is birth gift rather than a learned endeavor. I have enjoyed all of your videos, to use a cliched phrase you project wisdom beyond your young age, you have obviously learned much along the way, yet I am of the opinion that most of you is the result of birth gifts. Your physical beauty, your soothing voice, and your beautiful music are but a few of those gifts, your outlook on life, and your pleasant demeanor are enticing and captivating. Aladino is a very lucky man, and SO ARE THE REST OF US from afar. Thank you for sharing yourself.

[@fiefvanrossem227]

So much sage advise from one so young !!! Very insightful and truthful !!!

[@AndyPidsleyAPi]

Great advice. It can be a lot more relaxing on someone else’s boat, however there is nothing like getting through anxious moments on your own and reaching somewhere beautiful.

[@perhennung]

These excellent advices are not only about sailing it’s about key issues in anyone’s life be it at sea or on land. I thank you! 🍒

[@jamesrivis620]

A most exceptional and inclusive series of advisements !!!

[@tomwaid8787]

Excellent advice. Sailing is an adventure and sometimes, another word for adventure is ordeal.

[@TropicShade]

Great info for those dreamers or those who are still on the fence. Another option to becoming a "Cruiser" is to just be a weekend sailor and enjoy all that it entails!

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Absolutely! Weekend sailing is a great compromise for many people!

[@andypennybrown6848]

Sound advice and well put together, this is now my 3rd year of living on board and you are dead right with all your advice, fair winds and happiness to you both

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much Andy, and I’m really glad this video resonated with you as a fellow boater!

[@ritamatthews2655]

Well that was brilliant! Thank you! I’ve been a live aboard for four years now and can fully understand and appreciated your comments! 👏

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much Rita, so glad it resonated with you! -Maya

[@CemTuten]

Very informative video, thank you for enlightening us. Sailing was and is still my dream since I was a kid. But when I listen my inner voice , my savings are not enough to take that risk. As you say "the real journey does happen in your mind" Excellent video!

[@lyfandeth]

Well said! Regarding boat size, I would also say that no one should buy a boat until they've sailed on a number of them. A 28 foot boat in four foot seas (common in many places) is a rough ride. A 45 footer just shrugs it off. But, one person can't fight a 45' boat, when brute strength would work on something smaller. A wide cabin is nice at harbor, but just allows you to be thrown harder at sea. There are so many differences in boats, there's no replacement for actually learning which "shoe" fits before you buy one.

[@SailingVinyasa]

Ahhhh- what a REAL and refreshing video✨ The lifestyle sure is something special... the sunrises can't be beat!!

[@michaelellis7787]

CATCHING UP WITH THE BACKLOG OF PAST EPISODES -- THEY ARE SO ILLUMINATING! THANK YOU FOR A GREAT VIDEO.🌍🌅⛵

[@goodbyelucy1234567]

I like the way you talk about the sailing problems they are very real and also touching.

[@danielharwood6905]

Well done for explaining so clearly the reality of this fantastic way to live, which I have also done!

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you for commenting Daniel! -Maya

[@rosslevitates]

A very good video! I'm 63 and your comments still ring true for me and my sailing goals. Thanks so much....

[@williamcarlile4590]

Wow, you have a talent for writing and telling your story. Thought provoking, wonderful advice!

[@v0rpalWeap0n]

A sober and informed message. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

[@vincentbarkley9121]

This was a truly excellent video but with one exception. You stated that one can never really relax on the water. Some of us never really relax until we are on the water.

[@esvarwyn]

Thank you so much! I'm doing a tiny boat, still trying to crack KZbin. These are really thoughtful and kind words, thanks so much. A very human film

[@ghrey8282]

I sometimes miss the open horizons of constant travel. Now, however with two 2e children, and a mother with Alzheimers, the suburban life is far easier to manage. My health is also no longer the best, so nearby high quality medical care is not just nice... This is an excellent video, any one considering any travel intensive lifestyle, land or sea should watch it. Then watch it again. Thank you.

[@Michael-0000]

Extraordinary wisdom and maturity in somebody so young. One of the best presentations of the realities of full time sailing and live aboard life that I have seen on You Tube. Well done and keep going - you are and will be such a success! I’m subscribed.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you for this extremely kind comment Michael! -Maya

[@supernovasightseeing4133]

Great video! My biggest problem is finding someone to sail with. I think those who find a partner or a friend to share the adventure has gotten really lucky. Most people would never give up shopping, netflix and a boring job for a chance to see the world from a boat.

[@MrGreencheetah]

As I have been considering the cruising life recently and watching many videos, many of the thoughts and questions I have been facing, you discussed brilliantly in your video! Thanks from us all!!!

[@franklinjackson3637]

I really love your videos. You guys make the dream seem possible with your down to earth approach. That is one beautiful boat guys. Good job

[@ketchingmy2ndwindsvchopsticks]

One of my absolutely favorite videos!!! You did such a terrific job of characterizing what I imagine the realities of sailing/cruising full-time would be!! Thanks 😊

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you!Glad the video was helpful! Is that the beautiful transom of a fantasi by the way? ~aladino and maya

[@ketchingmy2ndwindsvchopsticks]

@@SailingMagicCarpet It was very helpful and you have quite a way with story telling. Its the transom of my 1982 Island Trader 38' Ketch Rig called "Chop Sticks" ⛵🥢😎. She was built at a shipyard in Taiwan. She is a beauty. All teak below deck. I believe Hand carvings of bamboo plants on the head and Captains quarter's doors. I do a boat tour in episode 3 of my KZbin channel. Although my story telling leaves much to be desired. I Wish you 2 the best on your current project. She will be a beauty when u are finished. Love watching your channel but i am a bit behind on episodes... Trader Dave..😎⛵🥢

[@JelmerAchterkamp]

I definitely recognise the loneliest part of living on my 30 feet Albin Ballad the last year. Especially in the winter when you live mostly inside the boat,

[@tedunguent156]

Wow! Another beautifully made video production. Love the landscape, seascape and natural world (dolphins!) shots. The BEST part of these videos is how you manage to express how you FEEL about your life and sailing. I'm writing this seven months later but I just watched it, so ......

[@georgehilbish6928]

I haven’t watched the whole vid, just landed on it and saved it as I am constantly considering a boat. The very first thing that was discussed is probably.y my biggest concern. Loneliness. Fantastic that you are discussing this topic where so many don’t. Can’t wait to watch the whole thing.

[@sailflyboy]

I have owned, sailed and raced catamarans, dinghys and small keelers for 30 years. I once did a 3 night 4 day trip from Cape Town to Cape St Frances along the southern coast of South Africa. After a lifetime of dreaming of sailing around the world, my dream died in its tracks right there. I loved the trip, I loved the sailing, the big seas, the rough weather, everything. But I realized there was so much more I wanted to do with my life than watch the horizon drift by at 7 knots, day after day. Well done, Sailing Magic Carpet - a thoughtful and highly relevant piece that does investigate some of the challenges - especially the life challenges, of a life at sea. I still love my sailing, I still love boats, but I am no longer under the illusion that living on one over an extended period would suite my personality type.

[@allangangadeen2183]

Thank you for your honesty about sailing God bless and keep you keep sailing

[@NiallHarding]

What a way with words and how you deliver them. Your insights are so understandable and helpful. Warm wishes to you both and fair winds.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much for commenting Niall, I’m so happy you enjoyed the film! -Maya

[@kensherlock6475]

Thank you for the human side of the equation, your insightfullness & humility is so powerful

[@phillipbrewster6058]

Holy crow that ranklee shakee motor would stress the hell outta me too

[@elisalyles1466]

It's a yanmar one of the most reliable engines. They are bangers also. Diesels are loud and they have the power to move a big boat in the water.

[@constantinez.6419]

Honestly...I would have never expected so much wisdom from a young person and particularly about a specific subjet like the psycology of somebody who lives under such conditions, simply because I thought it needs long years of experience...you earned my respect young lady, just continue to sail on water but still keeping your feet on the ground...I will certainly watch this video many times ...thank you!

[@joecritch143]

I wish i could give this one 10 thumbs up. Very honestly done thank you!

[@bengt_axle]

With so many sailing channels out there now, competition is huge. If you want to grow and have many subs (over 100K) you actually have to be good at something other than sailing AND good at making videos. You need a mission (as opposed to being an influencer, doing ads). What I like about this channel is that it is destination-focused and Maya's musical accompaniments are something unique that brings a lot to the channel. If this channel featured a million dollar cat, videos about boat maintenance and a family soap, I would not watch. Here instead we have modest boat, excellent narration (I love the background research) and two young talented people following their passion. There is a sense of adventure and delight that lives on.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Thank you so much Marc. Competition is indeed huge! I’m so glad our style of video speaks to you. -Maya

[@devorrahtester5439]

Agree, Bourdainesque

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Devorrah Tester “Bordainesque” is the greatest compliment you could ever give me

[@kensherlock6475]

I lost the meaning of Bourdainesque in translation. I tried searching it.

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

@@kensherlock6475 she's referring to Anthony Bourdain, a food and travel host that I admire for his videos!

[@JB-ld9zu]

Thank you. I made my choice to stay on the ground 20 years ago. I was naive and romantic that time and seriously considered to live on the boat. Now I have a family, 2 houses, several 7 digits bank accounts and I change my hobbies every year or two. So, being a skipper for a week is just as fun as being a pilot, woodworking or snowboarding. You just confirmed that my choice was right. Thank you million times for that video, it really makes me happy. And good luck on the waters.

[@fredyuen6602]

Earnest n sincere advises. This is hard to get. One of the best KZbin videos I ever watched. Fred

[@henrirueff3189]

Best sailing video addressing the real questions as none have done before. Congratulations for such a good work. Henri

[@SailingMalie]

Maya have you been following me around? You described it all exactly as it is. I'm very much an introvert and love my alone time but I get lonely when other people arn't around. When will something break, will I be able to fix it. Getting anxious is real. As always you put together an exceptional film.

[@c.crowdz3866]

Great video thank you for your insight and advice. Good luck

[@freedomiseverything2682]

Brilliantly put. This advice is so helpful. Thank you.

[@mikeehood]

Only been watching sailing videos for a few months but this is the most insightful I’ve found yet. You now have a new subscriber watching from Italy.

[@craigsmithx]

This video held my attention to the end. I liked the advice about living on the boat on land while it's being fixed up.

[@PennWolfsSailingAdventures]

Oh forgot to mention a good way for the social life and missing people is if your a gamer, if you have friends online and can even interact in a virtual world it can help the feeling of being alone quite alot.

[@thegeminiguy1065]

Truth is if your meant to be on the water, the water will call. To resist this call will bring nothing but regret. Obey your calling and don't let life get in the way. Life is never happy with regret.

[@thomassmith3310]

Excellent video for someone thinking about living on a boat and sailing.

[@Wearyman]

I loved that line you said at the end "The boat is not there to make your demons disappear." I imagine that when you are on a boat you are, in fact, trapped with your demons in a very small space. So facing and dealing with them prior to moving on board would probably be wise.

[@jimc4731]

Good tips. You have wisdom beyond your years! JIM

[@WhiteSpotPirates]

You did an incredible job with this video. It gives great insight into the reality of boat life and some awesome advise for those thinking about becoming a full or part time cruiser. 🖒

[@SailingMagicCarpet]

Wow, thank you SO much, I have followed you for years and have so much admiration for your journey!! It’s quite surreal to see you commenting on something I made. 💙

[@ianallan2337]

Fantastic! I hope you consider writing a book(s).