4 SECRET WAYS To Make Anyone Chase You

[@Psych2go]

Do you chase or do you get chased when it comes to love?

[@ih4tetrees]

Yep and most of the time it’s annoying

[@theeternal2734]

I Don't Want To Be Alone

[@shinshin1296]

Both I guess

[@therealcaduceus]

both but mostly chase

[@aritheidiot]

ive already used all of these and got my crush

[@iSlammedMyKindle]

I love that all of the tips essentially boil down to "take care of yourself and be you"; it's a wonderful message

[@Psych2go]

That's great that you took away this essential message. Were there other tips that you felt were helpful here?

[@iSlammedMyKindle]

​@@Psych2go The reduction of social media intake feels like something that resonates well! A post on a social media in my opinion doesn't always click like it would in something like general conversation. While the point in the video was to make yourself more "mysterious", platforms that encourage more direct conversation are where I typically live more just because you have a chance to integrate more with friendships. That platform could be anything from a coffeeshop to a discord server for friends, but as long as it doesn't detract from being yourself, it gives you a chance to breath and be productive

[@indridcold8433]

Not all should be ourselves. For instance, I am in top health and take care of myself immaculately. However, nobody should be stuck with someone like me. I am terrified of making friends or a girlfriend.

[@goldschuss2496]

@@Psych2go I think the much more important message is: Take a step out of your comfort zone. For some people this may be try partying or going to the gym to improve your looks.

[@locrianphantom3547]

I mean, yeah, but it does say “anyone” and only specific people will like you.

[@river-t4y]

1. Don't tell people about yourself. 2. Be attractive. 3. Be socially active. 4. Be yourself. Gee thanks for the tips

[@Squotty_Patty]

As a person who understood that video basically in the same way as you, I believe that for us the real start on this list is "take care of your mental health". Low self esteem and lack of faith in ones abilities is a wall that has to be dealt with first. And the answer for our problems will be therapy, what I know but somehow I can't make myself to do that step...

[@Leo_the_shark]

welp i'm missing the second one-

[@Cingiturvin]

@@Leo_the_shark Mood-

[@slm20408]

@@Leo_the_shark im missing the 2nd one and the 3rd

[@Wokovsky]

@@Leo_the_shark I bet you look amazing, don't give a crap about how others think you look!

[@youtubewatcher6933]

Conclusion 1. Be mysterious -less time on social media -more time on hobbies and your goals -listen more speak less -focus on others more than you 2. Good looking -face -haircut/change hairstyle -dress well -good hygiene -learn how to best express yourself socially -exercise -diet -embrace bad personalities and highlight good one. 3. Have free time? -fill schedule with fun and interesting activities -if people asked you to go out and you want to go and make friends, go. -don’t play breadcrumbing and benching -don’t go or be occupied by others a lot. Go hiking, hit the gym or party. Flow as the way you want. -be active and productive 4. Best version of yourself -genuine. Don’t pretend being someone you’re not. -find the aspects you can work on. -find qualities you admire and integrate them into your life 1) physical attractiveness = gym and improve your looks 2) personality/self-esteem = self-reflect, developing habits, saying affirmations

[@TwoSetViolinEdits]

When I don’t have time to make time for free time 💀

[@robertreimann1846]

@@TwoSetViolinEdits Well, you had time to watch this video :)

[@TwoSetViolinEdits]

@@robertreimann1846 yes, because i was in the car. And I didn’t really watch it all.

[@solisimperium1203]

​@@TwoSetViolinEditskap

[@Ak_Paranoid]

u got my thanks

[@LowKeyTroll]

1. Take something that belongs to them

[@OceanAce]

Instructions unclear. She isn't breathing, paramedics aren't helping, and the police didn't even let me rinse my hands.

[@akshatsingh3152]

Genjutsu release!

[@Lavenderrose73]

What do you mean, be a thief?

[@Psych2go]

Make sure it's something that's actually valuable to them ;)

[@Lavenderrose73]

I don't understand at all.

[@rubberdug]

0:33 Give room for mystery 1:47 Develop your physical appearance 3:21 Keep yourself busy 4:10 Be the best version or yourself at this moment

[@Psych2go]

Appreciate the timestamp you typed out!

[@Someone3951]

i cant stop watching 400 times 14th lord :(

[@FROCKT]

Cool, thanx

[@justanotherfishthatcanacce9368]

thank you :)

[@axjagfilms]

I made it 666 likes 😔 Someone save us

[@DevSaBlade]

0:11 I know, I am wanted in 3 different countries, I am so happy

[@Nouuurita009]

😂

[@KoeruItsuki]

💀

[@Cherrycreamsoda1]

My therapist gave me some great advice recently when it came to relationships. She noticed I was usually the one feeling 'responsible' to make a relationship happen by confessing my feelings, putting in effort to make it work etc. She suggested this time, with any new crush I might have, I simply sit back and let them come to me, especially since I'm a girl and most of my crushes are guys. I think I tend to attract the wrong people with my habitual methods, because others start to expect to receive without having to give much. When I let people approach me and be the ones to start the relationship, I know it is someone who will care about me enough to put in effort, rather than just being after attention, and that's what I really want, so that's what I'm going to do :))

[@DrewLSsix]

@@Someone3951 what?

[@thenoo1stnamethenoolastnam939]

Lame af.

[@Lavenderrose73]

Some stupid idiotic things we just don't grow out of as quickly as we would like, and Heaven knows I've done my share! I'm almost 50 and never married, and I will definitely consider the things you've said!

[@Lavenderrose73]

​@@Someone3951 And how well is that attitude working out for _you?_

[@Danielsonic87]

For me a true girl is she that makes the first move. Is nothing bad with this, I think that you have to try until you get the man that really gives you more than a date and gives you very importance: the men are tired to try always the at first with a girl: I talk like a tired man, 35 ears old and received very thin trial form girls, I love to receive more ut I never give her a no, always yes because evety girl that gives me a will to make something gives me some good vibes and I don't want to feel that her fells what I get on many times with a girls. I admire you

[@officialkkkanyewest]

Fun Fact: If you commit a crime, tons of people will chase you.

[@OneOnlyAnd]

tysm ❤

[@Uzvri]

Well no one’s chasing ME… ☹️

[@King_Sus]

Lemme try this rq

[@BreadGood_21]

This video is so wholesome and sweet and all the comments are fucking unhinged 😂 love it

[@zoranstam9136]

I did a war crime and now I can only live in Somaliland as I’m banned from the UN, but now there is a coalition army consisting of 10,000 mechanized infantry chasing me!

[@Eluderatnight]

Working out is always a good decision. Keeps you young, makes it less likely to get injured, makes you feel and look better.

[@JonathanRuiz]

I'm glad you added that last part. There's nothing hotter than just being yourself. You want to attract someone compatible with the real you.

[@Psych2go]

Yes, the point is you have to find and work on yourself. What are you doing now to accomplish that?

[@jadsaade]

what do i do if i don't have a crush

[@JonathanRuiz]

@@jadsaade thrn just be your happiest self by yourself

[@jacksondavies1451]

Everyone told me to be myself and that didn't work. BS message. Be the man you want to be. It was only after improving myself for a few months that people wanted me.

[@doomguy1015]

@@Psych2goima start deadlifting and bench pressing

[@pristachio]

an attractive mysterious person is found hot but an unattractive mysterious person is found creepy

[@Shahil-v1x]

This is so true 😂

[@skii_aini671]

I can't tell which one's the attractive and unattractive. I'd be creeped out on both 😰

[@WaterFly2149]

So true 100 pts

[@luckyy3691]

It's funny that they're often interchangeable

[@hani4506]

Tru but its regardless of appearance everyone can be attractive, ur saying this like attractivity is based on looks (correct me if im wrong tho), i know sm1 whos not conventionally attractive who's approachable, friendly, and has over all this very warm aura and thier mysteriousness is (atleast by me) found hot.

[@sapphireenvy]

I’m happy to say I already do a lot of these :) Earlier this year due to my depression, I became quite shy so I didn’t talk much but learned to listen more, completely disappeared from social media, and became very immersed in achieving my goals. And I am getting better with my mental health. Take care of yourselves

[@Steveobrine_Official]

That's great to heart!

[@asphaltmessimer1384]

Hope you are doing well now. I'm in the same path now. Let's see how it goes. Good luck and take care!

[@cerendiken7750]

OKAY OKAY OKAY!!!! So you are making videos about about mental health, realitionships AND making references to manga, anime, webtoons?!?! Babe...your perfection is killing me

[@Psych2go]

Love it!! We shall continue making it more and more perfect! What else should we add?

[@dilaragenc5792]

Would it go against Psych2go morals to make an 'Olgami' (official webtoon title :Trapped) reference? Bc Han Chaeh and Park Yoonsoo are.... sry... toxic. (Enemies to Lovers, vampire story) Olgami is famous.

[@alcides008]

@@Psych2go anime reference is enough to make me smile lmao

[@hdajq892ey7]

ikr, and the calming voice makes me feel safe idkhsfdbdkd

[@MrDominatord7]

@@Psych2go include an Evangelion reference, suits the mental health setting quite well

[@MessiFromMcDonalds]

1. Be an introvert 2.We go Jim! 3. be busy 4. be yourself This video is a life saver, I got my angel🤩

[@Trasea]

I think for most of us, we are chased by those we aren't that interested in... and ignored by those we ARE interested in. There's an energy give and take... and you have to consciously reverse it... force yourself to be more reserved and less expressive toward those you love, until you feel their love in equal measure. (Now, if only I could take my own advice!)

[@abbdas22mohammed]

This is one of the best advices Can I talk with you Trasea

[@chiken-no0dle_sooup965]

j@@abbdas22mohammed woah dude do you happen to know this woman? Cuz like if you dont please chill a little she dont know you if you do then by all means go ahead.

[@ranroon273]

hhhhh right But still what you said is true

[@Sneha_BTS_Army_2013]

Best advices out there honestly! But I would say even being reserved and less talkative still attracts those kiddos to me in whom I am not at all interested and so all I have to do is ignore them, sometimes it becomes too much that I feel like just punch either their faces or a wall I mean you creeps don't need to stare like that at all

[@Ysfhahahshs]

This is great advice! I’m a chaser so I can see why that’s a problem. The one I’m chasing is clearly not interested in me and I need to respect him. I feel that all chasers are chasing someone not interested in them, which is why we don’t get a response. That’s so messed up bc we’re not respecting boundaries 😢

[@amyli092]

Keeping myself busy is something that, for some reason, is just hard. Laziness isn't always my top excuse though. Sometimes, I just don't have the energy to do anything more.

[@liamnicholson9464]

No excuses. One has to ‘give energy to get energy’. Go do some “hoovering”.

[@trolleycartwheel9409]

@@liamnicholson9464 say that again while having multiple jobs and a 4 hour or less non-continuous sleep.

[@farhanishraqifti1489]

@@trolleycartwheel9409 In that case aren't you technically busy? How could you have multiple jobs only have enough time to get 4 hours of sleep and not be busy? If you have any extra free time shouldn't that be spent getting sleep?

[@kentcampbell122]

@@farhanishraqifti1489 I think they were referring specifically to the “give energy to have energy” part. That giving enough energy to hold multiple jobs will not give you even more energy.

[@amyli092]

@Liam Nicholson Tell that to someone who has to work full-time while also going to school and struggles with depression... it's not like being lazy is a choice 😒

[@IamtoogoatedCJ]

i don’t know why but the voice makes this video so chill

[@fr3shlian716]

"We are all work in progress" must be among the best quotes I've ever heard

[@Psych2go]

We truly are and everyday we are one step closer to the best version of ourselves!

[@unreadv2522]

Banana

[@ArabCatbewildin]

I never thought I could be the one who is chased by, my entire life I was the person who chase other people and give them love and appreciation, but that never happened to me. I’m sure from now on I will use these signs and start to focus on myself. Thank you Psycho2Go so much for uploading this amazing video. You are one of my favorite channels 💕

[@justincase1535]

Don't forget you do not always need to be the strong silent type if that is not you. People are also drawn to the rather cheerful ones as well. I would know.

[@ArabCatbewildin]

@@justincase1535 You’re right, thanks for the reminder though 🌸💕

[@ΓΕΩΡΓΙΟΣΔΗΜΟΠΟΥΛΟΣ-θ4υ]

You can also get to their hearts using rasengan!

[@shubhampawar8862]

Bruh .... you already have hinata

[@ArabCatbewildin]

@@shubhampawar8862 LOL 😂

[@-Sunshine_sushi-]

“Be yourself don’t try to be someone you’re not” Me: Chills

[@OceanAce]

This video is so much better and wholesome than all those pick-up artist videos.

[@michaelokeke4976]

Those pick up artists are so cringe

[@Someone3951]

We can all see that

[@Kindness8811]

And these Psych2Go videos give more useful ideas 🙂. Pick up artists are mostly very toxic. They don't treat others nice!

[@Psych2go]

Thanks so much! What did you like about this video? :) -Monica

[@Kindness8811]

@@Psych2go @Psych2Go I like most. But I also really like, that you gave a scientific explanation why mysterious people are interesting. Because they can give new information 😊 which can be useful. Science is important to me. And I also like that you point out hygiene. Pick up artists never do that. They just say that it's women's fault or that men are either alpha or beta or whatever. That's not nice and it's wrong. It makes people probably very sad too. Listening as you point out is very important. The thing is, your video doesn't devalue anyone or make weird claims that hurt. You give ideas to improve. Even if you don't have a partner, through these ideas a person can improve anyway and feel better 🙂

[@maissie]

It's funny how this is the only video about this topic that I watched that wasn't very toxic and manipulative. Good job, Psych2Go!

[@Lavenderrose73]

Yeah, Psych2Go seems pretty good, very genuine.

[@SantoshSharma-dl2be]

alright i just started the video but paused it just to say YOU HAVE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL AND CALM AND SMOOTHING VOICE

[@rahafabbasi802]

I love how "develop your physical appearance" goes into why and how you can be attractive, it's not "be attractive conventionally", it's being attractive in a way that's healthy for you and makes you feel great. As in developing yourself socially to what you're comfortable with rather than, develop it in a way that makes you the life of the party! It also pushes you to be healthy, not skinny, which is awesome for those who develop differently weight wise and has a different healthy appearance! Finally, I think it emphasizes that being beautiful in a way that makes you happy and healthy attracts the type of people who are attracted to that version of you, where you're happy internally and externally, and that would only attract people who are attracted to the you who is happy internally and externally. Have a wonderful day :)

[@Cerulean_XD]

I feel it’s something everyone should follow instead of looking at what society pushes.

[@Dan_om3]

Well put!

[@Theonlydollyever]

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[@pixelzebra8440]

Nahhhh i think it means socially attractive

[@that-bi-in-your-wifi]

my heart: They think I'm fat? Stop eating, silly! That's a good way to get skinny! They don't like brunettes? Go blonde! Don't like earrings? Stop wearing them! Want money? Give money! (to myself) Physc2Go: DO 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄𝐓𝐄 𝐎𝐏𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐈𝐓𝐄. my brain: that's unhealthy everyone around me: damn she's attention seeking my heart: ?????????

[@aaso2000]

i always end up chasing people because i like their vibes... but generally, months after we end up being good friends

[@demonsoul001]

Just steal their wallet. I swear it works every time

[@BellZingVRamdgames]

Ok thanks

[@Btwsunverise_coco]

The thing is I got chased who I was interested in but he probably doesn't have a crush so I leave him alone to give him space ://

[@jerrybecool]

THAT'S SO SMART BRO I'MMA TRY THAT OUT

[@nina_beana_bana2177]

"What is it about the silent and mysterious types that makes you want to learn more about them?" Levi LITERALLY popped into my mind right before he was discussed! 😂

[@Psych2go]

Glad you enjoyed the reference! Feel free to name drop any other great fit!

[@Truesurvivor126]

@@Psych2go ik one giyuu tomioka hes literally levi with a breathing style (kinda)

[@GIYO_TOMIOKA]

@@Truesurvivor126 giyu literally levi,🙃

[@hrishanhazari2891]

@@Psych2go ayanokoji came to my mind first fr :)

[@UN1VERS3S]

​@@Psych2goBut Levi is not mentally healthy, plus he's fiction, don't try to do that in real life, it's anti social. There's time to be serious and there's time to be goofy.

[@kieransmith6820]

I just realized my ex was benching me. Now it all makes sense why she never felt super attached to me during our relationship. She lost feelings and moved on like it was nothing

[@blueblockybirdd]

This channel is the only thing keeping me sane rn.

[@familiarflez_3000]

I'm always the one chasing people around, and that, probably is why I get called a 'pervert' leaving that as it may, thank you so much for this, psych2go! you don't know how much this video means to me!

[@Psych2go]

I’m happy to hear this video benefits you! Will you start using these signs?

[@random_mochi_online9664]

I get called a simp :,)

[@jigsawbilly]

@@random_mochi_online9664 and I am called both a simp and a pervert💀💀

[@jigsawbilly]

@@random_mochi_online9664 even tho I'm just a really friendly person (more friendly towards girls)

[@Someone3951]

I dont chase I rather go to a bar

[@khalilahd.]

I was worried with the title but I love it 😅. Also props for using AOT as an example ❤

[@Psych2go]

AOT Fan? Who is your favourite character in it?

[@aryldeiparine]

It's not always the mysterious ones that is attractive but the one who is open and truthful to his or her feelings, the one that able to empathize and understand others. It really depends on the person whether they like mysterious one or the one who is open and truthful to his or her feelings.

[@lil-nb4wy]

"avoid pretending to be someone youre not" hits hard especially for people who are introvert and obsessed with their crush can be relatable.

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). Give room for mystery 0:33 2). Develop your physical appearance 1:47 3). Keep yourself busy 3:21 4). Be the best version of yourself at this moment 4:09 Hope this helps you out.💙💙💙💙

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for the timestamps!

[@khalilahd.]

Thank you!

[@THANATOS-PRIME]

Thanks

[@nis_bea]

​@@khalilahd. thanks

[@Someone3951]

15 420

[@BetterYouNow9634]

That last one is so sweet. Nobody wants to play the role of a stranger in their own life. It must be very tiring if you can't be yourself. Love it!🥰

[@-Sunshine_sushi-]

It’s easier said than done,

[@LonerBecause]

I want to be chased for once in my life, I was always the one undesired.

[@Psych2go]

Focus on yourself, build up the confidence and let love flow to you!

[@LonerBecause]

@@Psych2go I have super good confidence and 100% focused on self building. I just haven't met the one for me yet. I really appreciate you answering.

[@neofulcrum5013]

I feel ya. That would be great

[@depresso1520]

Same here i have no confidence

[@Someone3951]

wekk sad life

[@solarseren]

I actually don’t mind not being chased. This is because I’m more of an independent person, and I like being alone better. But I also wouldn’t mind to have someone who is willing to like me for who I am

[@Psych2go]

It's great to know yourself and attract the right person who comes along, however, do you feel that this could hold you back from growing as well?

[@solarseren]

@@Psych2go I guess… yes. But I can’t help it, my personality is that of a shy person, a bit too shy in fact

[@dark.1775]

@@solarseren glad to see the same person as me

[@solarseren]

@@dark.1775 ah me too I’m happy to see people like me

[@rosydipo]

I just told my crush I like them and I think I scared them off what shall I DO?

[@seanyukler3717]

My father taught me an old proverb that went something along the lines of "when a cat finally catches the bird they get bored with it." I've found this out with personal experience as well. I used to pour my heart and soul out to my crushes and it would bore them. I am still a firm believer in approaching your crushes, but the ultimate key is balance. Don't be too overbearing or too open. Don't be keen on trying to impress them with your awesome personality. Keep it cool. Stay quiet and listen to them often. Over time they'll want to learn more about you. It really helps!

[@ahoyitskait]

HAVING PEOPLE BE NICER TO YOU BASED ON HOW ATTRACTIVE YOU ARE IS SO REAL! when im not wearing makeup people never even try to approach me, but even with the tiniest bit of makeup more people choose to talk to me. cant tell if i hate it or love it

[@cindytram471]

Maybe for shallow people, it’s the overall appearance. You have to be pretty both inside and out.

[@ihavealottanames]

Timestamps: 0:34 Give room for mystery. 1:58 Develop your physical appearance. 3:23 Keep yourself busy. 4:11 Be the best version of yourself at this moment.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for including the timestamps!

[@ihavealottanames]

@@Psych2go no sweat. keep making contents like these, please!

[@Someone3951]

16th 440 :|

[@SunshineSetting1]

The thing about self confidence based on your looks is that everyone is pretty or handsome in their own way if you just look unbiased.

[@Onix.wuaaaa]

i think a really attractive thing to do is being kind and showing the person that they aren’t „out of your league“

[@Psych2go]

Would you like to provide an example scenario?

[@Onix.wuaaaa]

@@Psych2go well mabye when they don’t leve you on reed to „impress“ you or they don’t play hard to get. And if they show you that they’re interested. Thanks for asking ☺️

[@Parahelion]

@@Onix.wuaaaa As a guy, I wouldn't ghost you or any girl for that matter. For some reason I'm the only person in this world who can manage to both answer your texts as soon as you text them and have a life. Crazy.

[@Onix.wuaaaa]

@@Parahelion well congratulations you’re a nice person

[@a-voided]

Love Lookism! It brings light to so many more problems other than appearance-wise! I can't stress it enough as a recommendation if you don't mind the gang fights(which are absolutely amazing!) Also love your videos! Many of your videos have been of much help to me in hard times and some cleared doubts I might have had about certain things... I couldn't thank you enough. Love what you do.❤ Hoping anyone who comes across this comment is having a nice day/night and if you're going through tough times... though there's not much I can say... it will get better eventually. Everyone keep fighting!✨

[@aish_seojudin]

I love the way they connect such sensitive topics with daily life.

[@Anne-cs7mu]

positive mindset and self love. that's all I need. these days I have been feeling way better because I feel beautiful and love who I am. got chased by people and glanced over when I walked into the room. It's funny how people treat you differently when you make yourself more available. but, as this video said, people tend to be more easy with people who looks good.

[@Psych2go]

That's true that outer appearance can play a big role, however, the right person at the right timing may find the qualities that they look for in you. Do you think you will be meeting someone like this soon?

[@sarahkinsella5733]

@@Psych2go your funking done ed ..

[@FuzenHua]

There was this book I read called "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, and one of the things they wrote is to be "hard to get, but easy to be with". Playing hard to get does sound manipulative, which is just not good to do. However, they did explain that what they were actually trying to say is don't completely free up your schedule out of everything the moment your crush or your date asks like a last minute meetup. I think the most important takeaway out of that is to make sure you got your own life activities prioritized, which is a subset of self-love and self-esteem

[@ainternet_userisnteveryone524]

U have that book in physical form? Or do u know any website to read that book (or any other) for free?

[@FuzenHua]

@@ainternet_userisnteveryone524 I have the hard copy at home, not sure if there's a PDF of it It's a bit of a hot topic of a book which I can understand. If u buy it, make sure u read it with an open mind

[@themoon5201]

I dont know if im being flirty or just being friendly🤷‍♀️ I just went with the flow when it comes to interacting with people

[@Cozmonimbus]

I like the disclaimer at the begining of the video 0:16, which lays the groundwork for the rest of the video. Without self-love, self-validation, and contentment, no amount of friendship will give you the love and peace you deserve. (Skips rest of video) Alright, moving forward, wow what an informative video, I sure have a lot to work on.

[@jessicaluk74]

I'm always the one to fall in love everytime and they won't reciprocate the same everytime. Yeah it's fine, it's not like it's end of the world. This video is really helpful. I might have a chance someday I'm struggling with self love ,so this will take forever

[@veronicasmemories]

Your voice will never not get old. It's so understanding no matter the topic

[@xCCflierx]

Numbers 1 and 3 are most important for me. FOCUS ON YOUR HOBBIES!~ KEEP YOURSELF BUSY!~ I have no idea about who I am as a person in general. I struggle making decisions on my own due to trauma and codependency growing up. I do not spend much time on hobbies. I do not spend much time making plans for myself. So even IF I were to ask somebody out on a date, where would I ask them to go? If I already have plans for the week, I can ask them to go with me. If I don't have plans, I have more hobbies and it will be easier to find something to do short notice.

[@bloodycorpse0]

As an introvert (I did the myers briggs test and I'm 97% introverted and 3%extroverted) 1. I listen most of the time and others speak, and I am mysterious, but when someone talks to me I get so nervous I mess everything up so that's a reason why people more likely aren't going to 'chase'me 2. The key to looking good is self-esteem and yeah no I do not have that 3. I hate being around ppl as weird as it sounds and I get so drained after socializing and my energy before meeting with someone is low already 4. This is the most hardest for me, I am like this shy girl that always helps etc. but when I'm home, I am like a whole different person. I'm sometimes funny, I can have my moments being loud and I can make conversations without being nervous. Idk why I am like this, I'd love to be myself and I think people would like me more if I actually opened up and was myself, but it's not easy. I just can't. And to be honest, the people I am around with ( my friends) show little interest in me. Because I don't talk so much. wonderin if anyone can relate

[@TM_Films1]

100%. I’m such a nervous person it takes months for be to not get nervous talking to a person. I met a girl in a class recently. I had known who she was before, and I definitely found her pretty and cool, but didn’t think anything of it. We started hanging out, not outside school very often, but talked a lot in class. We made eachother laugh, a lot. And then, I realized, I liked this person. And now I’ve messed it up. I started getting nervous. More that usual, or around anyone. Now I can barely form a sentence around her and it’s pushing her away. My self esteem has also taken a big hit this year and it’s really just so bad. I leave that one class I share with her angry and sad and drained. I can be fun, and cool, I really can. But now I really can’t in this class anymore. It sucks, it really does, I relate to you, and I wish I was at a point in my life where I could tell you it gets better, but I can’t. Good luck bro, I wish you the best

[@bloodycorpse0]

@@TM_Films1 oh damn, I really hope it gets better for you, but sometimes we just can't seem to do anything about a situation and sadly have to move on. I really hope that you'll talk with her again one day but also find new friends that are like you or accept you for who you are

[@Timo_tvq]

I wanted to reply cos I can relate 100%, I'm also this guy who tries to be helpful and tries to be liked by everyone. It used to work really well for me but after a while you kinda start to forget who you are yourself and what you like to do. Instead of what you want to do for others. That's also why I kinda left most of my 'fake' friends which were quite a lot of people. I just have a few people that I talk to often, and one dude who is just the same as I am. It feels good to have someone where you can just be you and where u don't have to put on a mask. Just like you said, I can also be fun and relaxed at home or with a friend(at least I hope). But when it's with a person I like or with groups of people I just get too nervous and stuff that I can't really show who I am. One thing that has worked for me is just doing some new stuff. Like changing your appearance slightly or doing/buying something new that makes you feel good. Cos if you feel good it also boosts your confidence a bit. It's just baby steps but I really wanna improve myself and I hope you guys are trying to as well.

[@irkovi]

Your voice is sooo soothing and calming girllllll!!! 💚💚💚

[@stranger854]

My friend said that I'm too attractive, but I'm always silent and don't do conversations. Whenever I have a crush on someone they crush me back, but I'm not that confident to confess about my feelings, I just stare and wait for my crush to confess to me. But I still have no boyfriend. I'm just being me I dont fake my personality. I asked my friend what is the most attractive part of me and she said, ur smart, pretty and kind, youre a shytype of a girl which is attractive to some men.

[@sxph_xe]

Imagine having someone chase and WANT you 😭☠️🙏

[@Psych2go]

That is definitely possible! Focus on yourself and you will attract everything you want in life

[@Someone3951]

Imagine that but bob the room mate suks at hell on attracting atleast one person we drank some vodka at the bar to make him feel better

[@riannaandemialways]

0:00 Intro 0:33 Give room for mystery 1:47 Develop your physical appearance 3:21 Keep yourself busy 4:10 Be the best version of yourself 5:20 Outro

[@santionguyen2708]

1. Be mysterious partly: spend less time on social media and more on your hobbies. 2. Develop your physical appearance: ofc, always 3. Keep yourself busy: avoid breadcrumbing and benching, yeah, don't waste your time. 4. Be the best version of yourself at this moment: ofc, believe in yourself.

[@wojtexvortex]

Love your videos! I for example started working out like 2 months ago and never felt so happy in my life. Now I see woman looking at me non stop and even though I don't have anyone I am really happy by myself for some reason. I see couples hugging and kissing and it doesn't bother me anymore. I am just happy. Maybe in the future fate will bring me someone to my life so we could be happy together :)

[@_.ThePingy._]

@Psych2Go 2:49 I absolutely agree that sometimes changing one's appearance may go toward building one's self confidence. However, I fear that people might see this approach as needing to change themselves, not for respect for themselves and empowerment, but for goals toward being attractive for whomever their chasing. I just want everyone to know that you if you ever have to change who you are for somebody else, at the very least, re-consider if it is really worth it. (P.S. Love the content, and the animations are AMAZINGG!!!)

[@shanzothaman8929]

There's a girl I want at school. At first I watched this vedio for tips on how to make her want me but now I see that it's not important, all I have to do is just be myself. If she'll want me that would be nice but if she doesn't it's ok as long I'm still me ❤️

[@mtfujjie8428]

Just here to comment that you are building better life each day for people , god bless you ❤️😍

[@Psych2go]

You are so sweet, thank you for that message!

[@DIHEINLAKDINU]

bro your voice and these videos are so relaxing

[@Sayne808]

So basically self improvement +being a little mysterious. Nonetheless these are great tips I recommend anyone you did a great job on this video❤

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your feedback! How long have you been apart of the family?

[@Sayne808]

Almost a year ,I subscribed last winter

[@ChimeraSliver]

Hey Psych2go I just wanted to say. Thank you. I have watched a large amount of your videos, on my off time and they helped me realize i may not have been as happy or content with myself or my situation as I had thought and they drove me to seek the help I needed, originally when I had first watched a couple videos i was staying up for 2 days and sleeping for 12 to 14 hrs getting up anywhere from 12 to 6pm and I was bearly taking care of myself at all. It was just enough to keep myself going however over the last few years I have made a complete turn around, I got help talked to a couple perfetionals and now am sleeping every night, eatign every meal and pursueing some of my interests again, it is tough sometimes still but I've uses some of the tips you guys have pointed out and they really help... Getting up on time thats a win? Go me! Don't have an art piece turn out the way I wanted? Its fine its not easy with out practice or it gives the piece a bit of character... I just wanted to say Thank you for the videos and I hope others will or continue to be helped by them I know they helped me and the start is never easy but I got my perverbial ball rolling and once I stuck with it it got a little easier until I didn'e even realize I had gotten so far that I wanted to come back and... well, thank you and show share a bit with a channel that probably saved my life

[@JohnNalletamby]

Omg this KZbinr has made life so easy and now I don't really feel burdens so I'm filling enlighted because of u ty

[@giulifritas]

I love how this is fit for all ages, and you take the time to read and reply to each feedback and comment. Just came here to spread positivity because your drawings get better and better each time, and I’m so proud on how far you came until now!!❤️❤️

[@elliotthefennekin6506]

Tbh for me after a bunch of rejection and such I just learned maybe I'm not so cut out for dating or becoming attractive. Maybe it could be considered giving up but I'm alone and not going to have much friends if at all and learned that having friends and such is overrated. I don't like to be with people and I wanna keep it that way.

[@DindaNastiti]

Hey that's what I have been thinking "I give up trying to make friend and just accept the fact I am lonely af and I wanna keep it that way" and oh yeah I got rejected too and I hate when I look desperate in finding someone so I stop

[@terrortalks3037]

For me it's about being around the right people. I've met plenty of people I didn't mesh well with, but I'm glad I kept working on myself and putting myself out there. Working on myself helped me to heal from the rejection and loneliness. Remember, life is more than just this moment.

[@icxicle5498]

The most realistic comment here, I hear you broskie😪

[@georginasiaw6605]

I think you will eventually meet the right people for u

[@kzZnAT0r]

Yep, so many times. Best example I have was this boy, he loved sport, theatre and was really funny. He really values family and always makes me laugh. I’m still good friends with him now😊

[@vanessatears4312]

0:44 caught me off guard I couldnt help but laugh 😂😂 out of all characters I would never think it would be levi ackerman 😭❤️💖Such a beautiful mysterious man. By the way self love and self validation and understanding is key points as well

[@adi9296]

This is a brilliant video on self love and self care. Of course these qualities will make you more attractive but more importantly, you'll look inward to figure out yourself and what makes you more happy and authentic, to the point you realize that you don't need to chase validation. This way you'll always have your back, regardless of external influences. Thanks, Psych2go, for this reminder. It comes at a time where I really needed to hear it.

[@YaboiFoxTale]

I really like the references to relevant external material in this one. Makes it engaging and helps your advice come off as more grounded, as you can find real world examples of the principles you preach. Keep up the good work!

[@hunterscrocs]

he gave me a stuffed animal before our school’s thanksgiving break. still going crazy over if it’s like a december 3rd sweater thing or just him being nice- 😭

[@mollycorey5307]

bringing in Levi 🤣🤣 I was so not expecting that! and yet, it made absolute perfect sense and was a great example! thanks for the super uplifting video!

[@rennysartst]

Now I understand why some people got interested in me. I do all these things. Although my social skills could improve a little, I might be a bit too cold. Also I've been chasing after others myself but out of fear. I was afraid of being left alone. And, in the end, several circumstances in my life made it happen.

[@kazooki-bahooki]

I watched this a while ago, and tried a few of these things. I may have noone chasing after me, but I used to be really insecure about the fat on my body. Now, I love wearing things with thin straps that are close to my body, because I find the way it makes my skin pop out beautiful. Before I watched this, I didn't know that there were ways to boost me up like this. Thank you. (No, I was not paid to say this)

[@BCSchmerker]

+Psych2GoTv *Thanks for tactics I may consider for an anxiously-attached date:* 0:33 (1) Room for mystery 1:48 (2) Development of physical appearance 3:21 (3) Keeping busy 4:09 (4) Best version of oneself in the present

[@L8trjoker]

Watching these videos makes me realize that growing up i lacked a lot of social skills…

[@idkwhattowrite4]

1:02 “mystery is linked to fascination” i dont think anyone would simp over Levi if he was a goblin so…

[@yowkwii]

You’d be surprised ☠️☠️

[@Callme_Ishma]

This is the best channel ive ever seen thank for giving the best advices ever!

[@kookiekat8366]

"...but sometimes you just want to feel wanted." that is the most *accurate* representation anyone has *ever* said about me

[@Starszi]

Tbh if someone really likes u they will love u just the way u are ❤️

[@javierarayentapiaorellana4238]

dont change yourself for someone else . if they dont love you the way you are , they dont deserve you

[@graceoak5676]

i love how they make it very clear to do things for YOUUU very impoweing word in my opinion and it helps a lot of people like when she said "do something to make YOUUUU more impowerd" and i love it:]

[@p.i.m.6008]

Thank you for the constant videos! This channel will always hold a special place in my heart! Psych2go is nothing, but beneficial, informative, soothing, and visually pleasing along with being interactive from time to time. Amazing team!

[@luuketaylor]

The point about mystery is a tough one for me. I'm quite extroverted, and because I don't want to give standard, "canned" answers to most questions, I'll reply with a fairly personal or detailed answer. This removes mystery, and also sometimes results in me talking for longer than some expect. I'm working on still giving personal answers, but ones that can lead to follow-up questions, rather than me going on and on.

[@linojvni2038]

just like me fr

[@Andreaslifestyle]

Tip: If you're around someone (Mainly your crush) say something mysterious like, if they ask you "why are you so quiet?" Say something like, "there's a reason" Then walk away. That way, they'll ask you about it later, and you'll have another conversation starter. 🥰

[@DungNguyen-jf4in]

1. Make room for mystery (never talk again could be ideal) 2. Change your style 3. Keep yourslf busy (by working to death... maybe?) 4. Be yourself

[@snas1686]

As a silent person I can say that out of the one girl that was interested in me during my life. She lost interest once she knew more about me. Soooooo when people want to know you because your silent and mysterious then reverse once they know you a bit more. Kinda hurts ngl. Tho ngl I did messsss up biiiiiig time. But I'm saying this as I've seen it happe to others many times before

[@glitzygirl2412]

Yup, it happens to me too. Ngl, I liked someone before, he's so mysterious & cold. I just met him online, and we've talked for 1 year, I've started to like him because of some of his personalities, and I confess that to him multiple times, though I haven't seen his face. Until the day, he showed his face, I admit he's handsome & cute at the same time, but I dunno, my interest for him just fades, we're still talking but I don't have feelings for him anymore when he started talking about himself...

[@mylesdacosta1509]

Keep making videos they are great❤ and your voice is amazing it's so calming u can make someone fall asleep after a long day

[@animarts954]

Eye contact and not being interested in them. It works . -someone who has had multiple stalkers Stay safe y’all 💕💕

[@KaustubhCreationz]

are you serious ?

[@animarts954]

@@KaustubhCreationz they like it when I stare deep into their soul. But I’m just trying to assert dominance

[@kuronagiyurei]

If i could self-analyze myself I would be introvert and a really sentimental guy, I like to talk about something related to emotions that make feel touched, like getting emotional for certain series or feel stronger for certain advices. I have a defect though, my lack of sense of humor and tend to get easily offended that makes me end in ridiculous "salty" scenes pretty often for the lack of attention or feeling of injustice. IDK what kind of advice should I take to get more kind people around me?

[@noobfolife1206]

To be fair. Focusing on what you're good at will surely attract the right people in your life. There's no guarantee that they'll be what you expect but the people who come in your life through something you like are always a blessing. You and I are very similar and this worked for me so I hope that works for you as well. But a sense of humour really does help to surround yourself with people you like. And since you said that you lack sense of humour, I really don't know what to say about that😅sorry.

[@kuronagiyurei]

@@noobfolife1206 oi thank you 😊 And about the lack of humor part, is just that people tend to do dirty jokes or treat sarcastically each other, and that's like a weak point 4 me since I'm autistic and these kind of social interactions are like a nightmare for me. Gaves me lots of headache and my anxiety increases awkwardly bad 😔

[@meilirizz]

@@kuronagiyurei Positive affirmations might help you with that. Right now, you are affirming negative affirmations like '' I lack a sense of humor.'' How about saying '' I have an amazing sense of humor.'' Yes! It is untrue but as you affirm this throughout your day every day, the people around you will notice the difference and you will notice the difference too. Try it! It's worth it.

[@mainex6316]

idk but i dont even care about the videos i just love the voice of this woman

[@hi9224]

YOUR VIDS R SO USEFUL TYSM

[@Psych2go]

You're welcome! How do you feel about making someone chase you?

[@wanterofjustice3878]

2:40 Also, “Lookism” is pretty toxic in that one overlooks those whom would otherwise make for a great partner or friend.

[@glitzygirl2412]

Quiet true. I guess if you're looking for someone, especially online, looks will be first. But when offline, I guess you're more likely to find the real one..

[@wanterofjustice3878]

Actually, I don’t look for a partner or friend online, because people are generally deceitful and with tech being as it is people have even more ways to lie. I much prefer a more outdoor setting then anything else when meeting someone new.

[@Excelsior1937]

The quality I most find myself drawn to is an enthusiastic and playful personality. I want to integrate that attitude and mindset into my life, but I also don't want to force it since I've known people who were clearly trying way too hard without actually being happy inside and it came off as really fake, so it's tricky.

[@annakaunda4316]

i love how you used levi ackermen as an example n how u stated out about his fan girl thing especially because i am apart of the fan girl society

[@randomperson-xy2mv]

2:04 well that's depressing

[@ankijam3105]

Great tips. From now on I'll try to talk more often with people and have more hobbies. I appreciate your time for helping out people in the internet.

[@meliodas197]

0:49 HIT EM WITH MY BOI LEVI

[@ВалерийУ-м2ь]

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