4 Ways To Escape The Friend Zone

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Hamza Ahmed

Hamza Ahmed

Жыл бұрын

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@rockysalvatore435
@rockysalvatore435 Жыл бұрын
Hey Hamza, I'm curious why you never talk about race. Is there any reason why?
@Hamza97
@Hamza97 Жыл бұрын
cant change/improve it so thinking about it isn't worth our time. Focus on what you can improve.
@human.7247
@human.7247 Жыл бұрын
@@Hamza97 Hamza idk how to thank u bro , you've made my life a lot better through those hour long videos
@fionnleamy844
@fionnleamy844 Жыл бұрын
If he makes a thing about race he is creating more division
@rockysalvatore435
@rockysalvatore435 Жыл бұрын
@@Hamza97 that's not what I meant. Your entire channel what I've seen is looks maxing and some self improvement of men. You made a vid about how society has left behind men, I forget which one. So men are outcast in a gender sense and you speak on that, why not the racial aspect? Do you think there isn't something similar going on in that sense? I'm genuinely curious and that's what I was trying to focus on. Not a looks maxing thing.
@rockysalvatore435
@rockysalvatore435 Жыл бұрын
@@fionnleamy844 nope. Is making a thing about gender not division?? Tell me why you believe and stated that. It's ok for him to talk about gender based stuff but why do all you red pill types always do that and treat race as some holy and untouchable subject?? Do you hear yourself sometimes man?
@SEliteGuitarist
@SEliteGuitarist Жыл бұрын
Being in the friend zone is like losing an item you care about. When you stop looking for it, it will either return to you, or you will realize that ultimately it doesn't matter you lost it in the first place.
@danieldose1657
@danieldose1657 Жыл бұрын
frind zone = fu+k other girls until this girl wants you
@jootirmoy
@jootirmoy Жыл бұрын
help me bro, i need advice rn i’m talking to a girl i had my intentions clear to her from the very first moment. she says i’m a great guy but she doesn’t wants to be in a relationship in a rush. she says that she wants to know me and also wants to let me know her better and then maybe start a relationship with her. i also tried being stoic and patient and she double texted me as well, she sents me snaps, and replies to my stories if i don’t text her. i’m soo confused. so am i friend zoned? help me :)
@poorperson6866
@poorperson6866 Жыл бұрын
@@jootirmoy seems to me like she doesn’t know what she wants. It’s attention without intention. The attention is nice and probably fires up all those chemicals in her brain but she isn’t necessarily talking to you with the intent of pursuing any real relationship. Perhaps she likes the thought of sharing a level of chemistry with someone else but is too scared to really commit to you or just doesn’t want a relationship (with you). She is clearly friend zoning you if she said that stuff and although it may sound like you still have a chance, don’t force it. Double down on self improvement and make your future self happier first then the rest will come naturally.
@SEliteGuitarist
@SEliteGuitarist Жыл бұрын
@@jootirmoy sounds like she's wanting the benefits of a boyfriend without having you specifically be her boyfriend. As soon as a man she wants comes along, she will drop you faster than picking up a hot rock in summer. You need to let her go because all you're doing is causing yourself pain and stopping yourself from finding a girl who's actually into you. Women who are interested in you are interested from the moment you meet. There is no hesitation, no chase. It very easy to tell and they won't wait at all to claim you as a boyfriend. If she's telling you that you have to wait to MAYBE be in a relationship, then she isn't interested and is just looking for free attention and gifts.
@electric2018
@electric2018 Жыл бұрын
@@SEliteGuitarist w
@TheREALHugo4
@TheREALHugo4 Жыл бұрын
Step 1: Dissapear (Give her some space, don't go around her too much.) Step 2: Create a new identity (A.K.A, a better version of yourself like Adonis for instance) Step 3: Make your intentions known (Don't play the mysterious type card too much otherwise the girl is gonna think you're just a creep) Step 4: Forget her and move on (If you want to be more than just a friend for her, just focus on yourself and move on) Enjoy
@Self_improvement2023
@Self_improvement2023 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the summary
@kinshukagarwal8354
@kinshukagarwal8354 Жыл бұрын
You are the nigga who used to comment on foreverworld's channel?😂
@emperor719
@emperor719 Жыл бұрын
Thank u ,saved me too much time
@gabrielguzman6018
@gabrielguzman6018 Жыл бұрын
Step 3 is a a big one let her know by flirting/eye contact/smiling
@gibrilsi
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
Good summary my guy I’ve really been inspired to make motivational just like Hamz it feels good knowing I’m helping other people
@mohang9969
@mohang9969 Жыл бұрын
If a girl wont take you in your worst they dont deserve ur best. Stay up kings.
@Shibatsukiyomi3
@Shibatsukiyomi3 Жыл бұрын
But bro shes is so beautiful
@mohang9969
@mohang9969 Жыл бұрын
@@Shibatsukiyomi3 doesn’t matter there is always better 🤷‍♂️ don’t be a munch
@user417dpd2ihe
@user417dpd2ihe Жыл бұрын
Easiest tip. Reject the friendzone. If she says "we could be friends" just say "No. I am not interested in being just friends with you."
@jan7844
@jan7844 Жыл бұрын
And then stop contacting her
@the-plug2164
@the-plug2164 Жыл бұрын
Perfect response
@jpebrz
@jpebrz Жыл бұрын
Works like a charm, said this to a girl once, and she wouldnt leave me alone afterwards, after a while she accepted going out with me
@jan7844
@jan7844 Жыл бұрын
@@jpebrz yeeeah
@RealAlphaMale69
@RealAlphaMale69 Жыл бұрын
@@jpebrz and then you woke up
@thugginthatshitout
@thugginthatshitout Жыл бұрын
Getting friend zone is not that sad its sader when she likes you back but you didnt realize and you realize it late
@derickrivas4473
@derickrivas4473 Жыл бұрын
happened to me twice in the 9th grade
@zlion8620
@zlion8620 Жыл бұрын
This was the case for me... *Sigh* I blew it.
@boximoe469
@boximoe469 Жыл бұрын
@@zlion8620 Same man, same
@goofyahhmeme4784
@goofyahhmeme4784 Жыл бұрын
Fr 😂
@elmaik1561
@elmaik1561 Жыл бұрын
Feel ya
@professionalsummarizer
@professionalsummarizer Жыл бұрын
*Summary:* - Disappear and Improve Yourself 👻📈 - Change your identity (😔to✝️🏋️‍♂️) - Making your intentions clear ❤️ - Forgot her and move on 🚗💨
@christianoronaldofan
@christianoronaldofan Жыл бұрын
Thank you bro
@kelpokonsultti
@kelpokonsultti Жыл бұрын
@@ren.8137 Only Jesus can renew your heart.
@kelpokonsultti
@kelpokonsultti Жыл бұрын
@@ren.8137 From Jesus himself. He claimed that, and either he’s lying or telling the truth. I accept it as a truth and He set me free.
@christusvivit8262
@christusvivit8262 Жыл бұрын
@@ren.8137 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
@lillooseleaf9292
@lillooseleaf9292 Жыл бұрын
@@ren.8137 He gave you the answer dude
@Masculine_Virtue
@Masculine_Virtue Жыл бұрын
If you have Discipline, Patience and consistency, success is inevitable and foreseeable In anything you seek 🔱
@legeb80
@legeb80 Жыл бұрын
shush
@rpg-enjoyer6927
@rpg-enjoyer6927 Жыл бұрын
@@legeb80 shush
@AALLEEXX-ml9sg
@AALLEEXX-ml9sg Жыл бұрын
To whom shall I give the credit for the quote?
@hopree2839
@hopree2839 Жыл бұрын
@@legeb80 sheeeeeeeesh
@TheREALHugo4
@TheREALHugo4 Жыл бұрын
@@legeb80 Dude, have some class.
@amin_dhou
@amin_dhou Жыл бұрын
Being direct of your feelings and intentions is basically the key to not stay in the friendzone.
@BrandonVerse
@BrandonVerse Жыл бұрын
I’d rather take a rejection upfront than be strung along, I don’t have the time. I think the best thing to do is to withhold your time and attention for women who are being flirty and romantic with you. If she’s not doing that, no attention for her. If she doesn’t care, you just move on.
@gibrilsi
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
Facts it’s definitely time-consuming and I don’t have time for that I’ve got a channel to grow! 💯👍🏾🔥
@mahmutpekkara
@mahmutpekkara Жыл бұрын
man.. I just love the honesty of Hamza, he literally explains his whole life, his mistakes.. mad respect!
@mexicanson
@mexicanson Жыл бұрын
Trust me, I was in the friend zone twice! But I managed to fight my way out of them. You just have to... disappear out of their lives, and improve yourself overall, physically and mentally. It also helps to smell nice, and dress nice, too. But don't overdo it. Key takeaway: "Less is more." You got this, Adonis! 🤜🤛💪💯
@gamerzhardware4853
@gamerzhardware4853 Жыл бұрын
less is more fr
@ayaan6624
@ayaan6624 Жыл бұрын
Should I unfollow her on social media , or show her ,what I have become
@mexicanson
@mexicanson Жыл бұрын
@@ayaan6624 Depends. Did she cause you a lot of mental distress, or emotional damage? Cause if she did, I'd drop her like a ton o' bricks. That's just me. It's your call.
@ayaan6624
@ayaan6624 Жыл бұрын
@@mexicanson yah man , she told me stay with me , I want you to be my good friend, after destroying my mental health , she was telling me I love you but I am not ready for relationship, I am scared of relationship, s , I thought maybe she needs time , but today i got my answer , and it hurt my ego i am feeling worth less right now , she is also like below average girl but still i fall for her
@mexicanson
@mexicanson Жыл бұрын
@@ayaan6624 I went through the same thing 5 years ago, with this other girl I knew. She told me she didn't like me, and only wanted to be friends, but you could tell she wanted to be with me. Girls play games like that, and you can get yourself caught up. I'd ditch her. You could find someone better, in my opinion. When you do find the right girl, it should be easy like breathing. You like her, and she really likes you. Look for her heart condition, and never date anyone toxic. That's just bad for your health, my dude.
@sempaikxng
@sempaikxng Жыл бұрын
I learned focusing on your mission brings women to you, ever since I started focusing more on my mission to make self improvement based music, people not just women in my life are more respectful because I’m driven
@bw0ns4mdi35
@bw0ns4mdi35 Жыл бұрын
This. Since I've been more focused on my self improvement, my career and personal projects, I get more respect and attention from overall people.
@sempaikxng
@sempaikxng Жыл бұрын
Thank you, that song has become an anthem of my life. Glad people like it
@gibrilsi
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you my brother that’s right I’m more focused on improving myself and my YT platform and people have definitely been trying to grab my attention
@deadpl55
@deadpl55 Жыл бұрын
The thing is you start liking your career and girls doesn't matter that much on that point
@Alex-qi3gz
@Alex-qi3gz Жыл бұрын
after this girl friend zoned me i started going to the gym and moved on and basically focused on my self and now i've gotten so much more girls
@redxangling3179
@redxangling3179 Жыл бұрын
Yessir
@silver.curry.7247
@silver.curry.7247 Жыл бұрын
Guys I've officially left the friendzone... Now we're not even friends
@ImperatorRalph
@ImperatorRalph Жыл бұрын
Good, good.
@inanitas
@inanitas 7 ай бұрын
Good on you tbh. Don't let some b use you.
@Aju-mf7id
@Aju-mf7id Жыл бұрын
Tbh if you have been friendzoned its not worth the effort of getting out because you'll probably end back in it
@shpho
@shpho Жыл бұрын
I wish I could hear this much earlier At January 2021 I met aome girl, she was amazing, we connected on the first meeting. I remember how we used to cuddle together, watch stuff together. I was so happy with her. One time, we we're goofing around in bed and she kissed me in the forehead, and then instantly apologized. I was confused for weeks, because she never wanted to talk about it and I already was into her after that. Months later, still confused, I was friend-zoned. And yeah, I didn't leave, I stayed as her "friend" entire summer. At October I noticed she met someone. I was really envious at that time, like never before. I experienced so much anger and envy in my life that I questioned if it is really me. I couldn't believe I would ever in my life get so hostile towards someone else. After being kind of friend-zoned second time when she said she got into relationship with that dude, but "she won't leave me because I am her best friend". I was so broken thst I planned my suicide by jumping off a high building. The only thing keeping me alive was going to gym (it was my 3rd month of going regularly to the gym). At February 2022 I was on her birthday, well her boyfriend was there too of course. The only thing I remember was the album that dude gave to her with lovely photos with them. By that time when I was looking at these photos I was drinking vodka in high amounts, I got drunk, had a breakdown and got home. In March I was highly devastated by envy, constant anger and guilt for everything I've done wrong to the point that I cut contact with her. I was trying to see if she cares about me at any rate by that time. I didn't write anything to her - she never said anything to me since that. After being completely heartbroken I found the video made by Hamza and got into self-improvement. If I never found this channel, I think I would be dead by now. Thank you Hamza, you saved my life.
@dragonstream1779
@dragonstream1779 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you are here, man. You get to see how far you can go, how much you can achieve.
@rafapereira1301
@rafapereira1301 Жыл бұрын
not your loss bro, trust me
@Windperfire
@Windperfire Жыл бұрын
How's it now good brother?
@shpho
@shpho Жыл бұрын
@@Windperfire To be honest - yes. I haven't felt so good in a long time. I am actively changing my diet, sleep routine and working out hard. My gym results are getting better and better. I am also more used to being alone. I don't care about girls now, I am focused on different aspects of my life.
@averageinternetuser001
@averageinternetuser001 Жыл бұрын
W
@jluis333
@jluis333 Жыл бұрын
40 years ago I was put in the friendzone by 2 really nice girls. recently out of the blue I took them out on a dinner date to meet my wife after they got divorced and live alone or with their mothers. The nerd of yesteryear turned out to become a medical doctor who trains krav maga and has no debts, 3 houses, 3 luxury cars, travels abroad frequently and goes to the opera. Is this revenge or compassion?
@nogotochki_donetsk
@nogotochki_donetsk Жыл бұрын
Imagine being that pathetic manchild, you’re actually looking for validation on KZbin while claiming being successful
@Raul-oz5mg
@Raul-oz5mg Жыл бұрын
I think maybe you wanted to show off a little bit, but that may not be a big problem. Btw, you have a brazilian name, are you perhaps from Brazil?
@jluis333
@jluis333 Жыл бұрын
@@Raul-oz5mg Portugal, the small country that had the greatest medieval empire including Brasil
@gabrielcastro2524
@gabrielcastro2524 Жыл бұрын
@@jluis333 portugal caralhooo
@MattGarcyaDC
@MattGarcyaDC Жыл бұрын
lmfaoooo
@mackinbox
@mackinbox Жыл бұрын
I wish I had had this video a few years ago when I was down bad after being friend zoned. You’re doing God’s work here Hamza
@MMORPGFreaky
@MMORPGFreaky Жыл бұрын
I wished I found your channel 6 years earlier.
@user-li8kp9jb4h
@user-li8kp9jb4h 7 ай бұрын
Me to my man
@coyoterangersmedia5263
@coyoterangersmedia5263 Жыл бұрын
I was hesitant to watch this video because I was scared of the hard reality of what's happening between me and this girl right now. But no, instead, I watched it and finished the video feeling relaxed and ready to change myself for the better. Everything you said in this video is spot on. Thanks
@sameenergy9414
@sameenergy9414 8 ай бұрын
Update? Did you get the girl?
@Jamesix3
@Jamesix3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you man, that's all I need to say.
@zadok6709
@zadok6709 Жыл бұрын
Listening to your story I just felt how true the phrase "love is war" is.
@ErikMartialArts
@ErikMartialArts Жыл бұрын
This is the exact video I needed, thank you.
@gowthama2950
@gowthama2950 Жыл бұрын
I'm happy to have found this channel I admit here, I am that Guy who sends paragraphs☠️
@eddiereyna1155
@eddiereyna1155 Жыл бұрын
Thanks hombre for helping thousands of lost souls
@shahirkazi8766
@shahirkazi8766 Жыл бұрын
This is fax. I went through the same journey myself and everything that you’ve mentioned is on point. I just wish I’d stumbled upon your videos a couple years ago so that I didn’t have to learn everything through trial and error.
@alexbarbolat3412
@alexbarbolat3412 Жыл бұрын
This video has the best timing I've ever since, I just asked out my crush I had since over 5 years, to get a "I really like you as a friend, but I need to learn to love myself more before giving back to someone the love this person gives me" I'm not even mad at it because I wasn't expecting it to go well anyway, but I had to break it to her in other to move on to a new chapter. Yet, after this event, I was scared of keeping this voice in my head telling me "oh maybe just wait some time and she'll be ready for you" Your video hopefully opened my eyes in learning on moving on, close this chapter and focus on something without relying on her or caring about "what she's going to think about me if I do this" The story you told in this video about the Greek girl really reminded me of myself, I will now see how the future is ment for me, but I am really concerned about the fact that I might be "moving on to try and get her back" like you also did with this one girl
@matanpaun6139
@matanpaun6139 Жыл бұрын
I used to watch you and you really helped me. I got back to see how are you doing now and you are doing amazing. Thank you for helping me change.
@joshuamalamion531
@joshuamalamion531 Жыл бұрын
Wish this video came out months ago. I was going through almost the exact same thing Hamza was going through but I'm also glad through his other videos, I have indirectly been following these steps. And yes, I'm very glad about the emphasis on the final step. It sucks cus you may truly care about this girl but at the end of the day, if she doesn't actually value the attention you give her, (in a good way, not like simpy attention), it's her loss. To my other dudes going/who went through something similar, y,all got this. 💪
@mostlypotato6598
@mostlypotato6598 Жыл бұрын
I needed this 5 months ago. Thank you for this, we can only get better :)
@thedenisod10
@thedenisod10 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips Hamza
@omidalekasir4736
@omidalekasir4736 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this! Thank you
@reformedsaber1936
@reformedsaber1936 Жыл бұрын
Hello Hamza, I just wanted you to know that you appreciate video you make. It means a lot of us that you are helping the rest of the younger men out. Thank you :)
@thejoxter6315
@thejoxter6315 Жыл бұрын
Hamza should make a book or course on this stuff step by step
@BF-eb4xs
@BF-eb4xs Жыл бұрын
I need to improve approaching and sparking a convo up. Hamza gave a good pointer at the start… pay a genuine compliment. Whatever it is, outfit, this and that. Good tip
@user-fd5kc6nu4c
@user-fd5kc6nu4c 9 ай бұрын
thank you so much bro
@lil.trizzy69
@lil.trizzy69 Жыл бұрын
ive watched so much hamza i start hearing his voice in class its crazy
@youssafsu2307
@youssafsu2307 Жыл бұрын
Damn Hamza got ice spice obsessing over him
@lil.trizzy69
@lil.trizzy69 Жыл бұрын
@@youssafsu2307 lol
@politelyright1
@politelyright1 Жыл бұрын
Me too :D
@itsathejoey
@itsathejoey 7 ай бұрын
I totally agree with Step 1, but it isn't going to be two weeks. I disappeared from a girl who friend zoned me for almost two months now and still haven't heard from her. I've moved on though and if she really wants you in her life she will reach out.
@frenkykukaj
@frenkykukaj Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these videos Hamza, genuinely
@the_carnivore_viking
@the_carnivore_viking Жыл бұрын
This video is all facts. I wish I had this a few years ago when I was going through this for the first time. Thank you for this man
@connororgeron7818
@connororgeron7818 Жыл бұрын
It's quite crazy that this is what caused me to stumble upon you're videos a couple days ago. Now to see you post something about this it feels like you're directly talking to me. Seriously man, thank you. I'm excited to be a better person, and actually be a man. I love your content, keep up the hard work brother, Godspeed!
@stove4015
@stove4015 Жыл бұрын
I did the whole venting thing to my Girlfriend and then she broke up with me, but then I used your strategies and I managed to get her back!
@rosenvladev9654
@rosenvladev9654 Жыл бұрын
bro. careful with this
@winstonooi4603
@winstonooi4603 8 ай бұрын
careful
@stove4015
@stove4015 8 ай бұрын
@@rosenvladev9654 wym?
@stove4015
@stove4015 8 ай бұрын
@@winstonooi4603 wym?
@cedriczeq6643
@cedriczeq6643 Жыл бұрын
bro, just thank you for that video. I really needed someone to tell me this straight to my face. Thank you Hamza
@BigCraig9085
@BigCraig9085 Жыл бұрын
Ngl this guy has helped me so much
@thisguyrools2807
@thisguyrools2807 Жыл бұрын
Only way out of the friend zone, just move on to the next one. Live an awesome life. Hook up with other girls. You'll realize you don't need that girl. Small chance she'll change her mind when you aren't giving her attention and validation.
@muslehdagenah9636
@muslehdagenah9636 Жыл бұрын
Hamza you are one of my reasons on why I will change to be the man that I desire to be. I will do whatever it takes to become the man I desire to be. I’ve been watching ur videos for a couple of days, they’ve been inspirational and helpful, and I’d like to say thank you for the advice and help to keep masculinity on top.
@Hamzafan522
@Hamzafan522 Жыл бұрын
You are saving my life Hamza, Thank you
@xablep8849
@xablep8849 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ShakierElk
@ShakierElk Жыл бұрын
Hamza, If you are reading this, thank you bro, I used you doubt but I started exercising and started to meditate and I'm looking forward to trying to gain a more aesthetic body and greater people skills and honestly I am determined to achieve those goals before my 20's it's a long road but one that's worthwhile.
@bhushandhodi4622
@bhushandhodi4622 Жыл бұрын
This video is so accurate and so True.. everything happend same to me..
@tabishsayyed750
@tabishsayyed750 Жыл бұрын
Can you explain your story mate
@Motivacion-bq3oj
@Motivacion-bq3oj Жыл бұрын
Hamza thank you so much for everything hope you read this
@africaunit9437
@africaunit9437 Жыл бұрын
I just start watching you recently. I so needed to hear these words. I got friend zoned G 🤦🏾‍♂️
@khyzer7865
@khyzer7865 Жыл бұрын
I agree with what u mentioned in this video about: improving urself, changing ur identity and being open about wat u want. But I DNT agree with the idea of being a 'f*ck boy'. I am hesitant with the people around me as I want a genuine and caring person. But when I see the indicators they aren't the one as they may be too moody, inconsiderate, are ignorant I won't hate that person they only need some guidance but I find it hard to explain this to others without somehow making them feel like hurt or something. I'm already working on myself but if I see them do things where they DNT really prioritise me or engage clearly something is wrong. But I've become a better person I work out now, I am more sensible, I can engage in Convo, but some people won't realise wat they have until its no longer there.
@Fyice
@Fyice Жыл бұрын
I can relate to so many of these points… Wanted to get to know someone better, but i got friendzoned after she thought i was asking her on a date. I stopped contact with her and started on improving myself. Randomly saw her on my way out of the gym one day and we started texting long paragraphs to eachother with life-updates and shit. She even said she thought back to the time i asked her to hang out and brought up that we should meet up some time. I then showed her my desperate side and that i hadn’t changed my identity. We never met up. Big rip All in all, this video hit me hard and taught me a lot and i’ll use it to the best of my abilities. Thank you hamza. You’re the goat.
@lewismountstephens7620
@lewismountstephens7620 Жыл бұрын
I’ve made these exact same mistakes that you made Hamza. Glad this video is here to confirm I’m now on the right path
@gabechildress5854
@gabechildress5854 Жыл бұрын
Bro you are reading my mind I needed this so bad
@Mertt07xx
@Mertt07xx 7 ай бұрын
I disappeared and she texted me 3 months later😂
@gaurav7835
@gaurav7835 Жыл бұрын
This and the last video is what I really needed after breakup to change myself from needy to masculine ,self focused Thank you Hamza❤
@safacalknl5103
@safacalknl5103 Жыл бұрын
bro thank you so muchh
@relaxingsounds8551
@relaxingsounds8551 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos Hamza!!! Keep up the good work
@JasonValadezVEVO
@JasonValadezVEVO Жыл бұрын
A lot of women and a few simpy dudes will disagree with this but I had a girl try that "can't we just be friends ?" shit on me once. It took me a nanosecond to realize her game and told her "Nah, I'm good. Out of respect for my future lady, I don't keep women as friends" and walked away. She's either looking to keep you as an option or an emotional tampon.
@sheepisfortheweak6164
@sheepisfortheweak6164 Жыл бұрын
Usually if I get friendzoned, I simply say: "Sorry, I have genuine feelings for you and my intention is to date you. I have no interest in being platonic friend." What dudes say about that, the whole 'she'll chase you' thing is a bunch of horsehsit and that's not why you should do it. It's just about having selfrespect and choosing your mental health over a pity friendship
@ethiopiakassahun841
@ethiopiakassahun841 Жыл бұрын
Thank u hamza
@brahandsickkunt47
@brahandsickkunt47 Жыл бұрын
Love your vids and work, i would like to see you talk about work and ,, first time". How to look on work as a teen, what to expect and understand, and what to expect and prepare physically and mentally for ,, first time".
@lezoking6801
@lezoking6801 Жыл бұрын
Dont improve yourself for any female. Improve yourself for yourself
@m0ncherii
@m0ncherii Жыл бұрын
I remember when I really liked my ex and she left me, I was devastated for a long time. These days now I find it hard to ever think of going back to her, I realized relationships were a preferred indifference. I'm happy working on myself, looking into philosophy, and working hard on my academics. I can see things similar to this video in my life, and at this point when I think about my ex I realize I'm happy she left me, because it changed me to become a new person. One step closer to Adonis
@luisbendezu6372
@luisbendezu6372 Жыл бұрын
I strongly resonate w u, glad you find a way to become a better person. My ex dumped me in 2019 and I wished to go back to her until I tried to contact her and she blocked me, 2 years of suffering ended up in 2 seconds, now I feel really grateful she crushed my heart bc I became someone stronger and better. Cheers! Keep focusing on the work!
@MohammedIbrahim-wk4jb
@MohammedIbrahim-wk4jb Жыл бұрын
Aye this guy is on poin this is exactly what I wanted to hear he matched my situation sooo good and now Ik what to do
@ohbhai4102
@ohbhai4102 Жыл бұрын
Brooo may God bless youu
@Healthandwealth9422
@Healthandwealth9422 Жыл бұрын
You have one way to handle the friend zone Accept it and move on to the next girl, it’s a numbers game so don’t waste your time on the girl that friend zoned you
@dy7296
@dy7296 Жыл бұрын
Recently, I gained some look-based compliments from women, like "You are in a better shape than XX months ago." From a random woman I just saw a few times when doing running cardio or "Your Face is so clean. What kind of skincare did you use?" from classmate. It's a good sign that I'm on the right path but that doesn't effectively mean I'm within my goal yet.
@joshuakakooza5736
@joshuakakooza5736 Жыл бұрын
Well done brother
@averageinternetuser001
@averageinternetuser001 Жыл бұрын
Same here, my classmate also told me that I did pull a light glow up
@muhammadanfall8487
@muhammadanfall8487 Жыл бұрын
Love the entrance you make these days for Adonis !
@chadko4102
@chadko4102 Жыл бұрын
hey hamza love the new video, i was wondering if you could make a video on how to move on from previous relationships
@kushagrasingh3763
@kushagrasingh3763 Жыл бұрын
As a teen feminine(ish) man who's been through childhood trauma and is shattered, where do you draw a line between being needy and finding comfort, understanding and a parent-like-figure in your partner/potential partner. Because sometimes it's gets too fu**in hard to deal with stuff all alone. I desperately need your take on this Hamza.
@bengalboypaco3140
@bengalboypaco3140 Жыл бұрын
Love yourself first
@Dalabombana
@Dalabombana Жыл бұрын
You need therapy first. Trust me. Work on yourself first. You are still so young seek therapy before opening up your trauma onto others.
@annaaffkhan
@annaaffkhan Жыл бұрын
my past self can strongly relate to you homie from my experience you have to start loving yourself first giving yourself positive affirmations say no to people stay away from fake or toxic friends try to make your own decisons these are the basics that you can do to stop the "being needy and finding comfort" because i was exactly like this But now alhamdulillah iam good bhai
@pathwaybyCalebCheng
@pathwaybyCalebCheng Жыл бұрын
@@Dalabombana is there any free online therapy nowadays?
@boom-jr8vi
@boom-jr8vi Жыл бұрын
try and find a best friend who you KNOW you won’t fall for (for me, same gender cuz im straight) and vent to them. if the girl you want does want your attention, she’ll ask why you don’t talk as much anymore. then you hit her with the “i dont want to be friends, i wanna date you”. you probably get a straightforward yes or no. won’t 100% work on GETTING her but hey its a good way to find out her feelings i’ve found.
@tolvajtamas8567
@tolvajtamas8567 Жыл бұрын
Its strange how I did all 4 of these things with my ex while also commiting all the mistakes you mentioned. Tho it took me a lot of time to move on, and I still havent been in a relationship since.
@tsbts3990
@tsbts3990 Жыл бұрын
Hamza my brother i see you got already to 1milion subscribers congratulations 👏 I haven't see you're channel in a while
@louisaesthetics47
@louisaesthetics47 Жыл бұрын
Man i needed this a few months ago
@parkerbettinson2797
@parkerbettinson2797 Жыл бұрын
One of the best things I ever realized when I was friendzoned that helped me move on? I realized the kind of man she wanted to date was not the kind of man I wanted to be. I realized I would much rather be in the friend zone with her than be in a relationship, because being in a relationship would require me to compromise my values and individuality.
@xCreepy
@xCreepy Жыл бұрын
I've been following the 7 best workout routines you have posted in the description, but ive been confused about how often i should do them since some of them combine the same exercises which makes me feel like i shouldnt be doing them daily, for overworking the same muscle group and not giving it time to rest. Is there any weekly routine i should follow like 6 times or 3 times a week? Im doing the home version by the way.
@seansamson2307
@seansamson2307 Жыл бұрын
Hi hamza, im actually in this situation rn. I will try my best to do what you said. Ik it will work! I trust you bruv
@alexomastoras
@alexomastoras Жыл бұрын
you are a life changer
@iwantgoals1566
@iwantgoals1566 Жыл бұрын
Had a girl I was friends with at uni try to call me out for a random bike ride in the city once when I had so much shit to do. I remember getting straight to the point and asking her if it was meant to be a date or not. She got so confused and angry she stopped speaking to me completely. But it felt sooo good to finally not be strung along by some bimbo who’s never been told no in her life. Funnily enough she called me back a few months later. 😂 This red pill shit is real guys. Value yourself, turn your life around and women will flock to be part of your much improved lifestyle.
@noubek1045
@noubek1045 Жыл бұрын
The first tip worked so well. I ghosted her for two days and she got texted me. Exept this time i ignored it because she was disrespectful towards me
@destinyup1710
@destinyup1710 Жыл бұрын
As a man you shouldn’t have ANY women who disrespects you. If she doesn’t respect you maybe as a joke then it seems like shes just toying with you and doesn’t mind getting on your bad side.
@geraldthebusdriver3491
@geraldthebusdriver3491 Жыл бұрын
I actually prefer your content over most KZbinrs like this other ones just make it too difficult and hard to understand you're just straight to the point and blunt and I salute you for that
@jobvandelaar7977
@jobvandelaar7977 Жыл бұрын
Hi Hamza, Ive been watching your videos for a few weeks. They helped me a lot. I have a question: could you perhaps make a video about a night routine that has worked for you? I have some strugles with this
@emersongeorge2863
@emersongeorge2863 Жыл бұрын
i usually work on myself im patient i know life will send me the right woman
@politelyright1
@politelyright1 Жыл бұрын
Fax
@theivantang
@theivantang Жыл бұрын
You can actually get out of the 'friend zone' in one easy step: leave her alone & find someone who's actually interested in you.
@Ang3la990s
@Ang3la990s 11 ай бұрын
So you guys just wanna be in a relationship with girls? That sounds thirsty asf
@ess_jack2938
@ess_jack2938 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this video for so long finally it’s out
@MarcosLopez-li5ub
@MarcosLopez-li5ub Жыл бұрын
Thank you Hamza for this video, it made me remember when my first "girlfriend" (in Spain we call it "novia" as a way to call your parthner before marriage) me and a friend deducted that she wanted to state her love for me, and I told her that I also had somethingto tell her, we agreed for me to tell it first, so after I came from holidays we organised a "hang out" and because I was so fucking insecure I made her tell it first, and when she did I hugged her and kissed her on the cheek (at the time I had phalinxitis or just throat sick) starting to date her, we probably broke up because I had too much femenine enegry, and she had to much masculine energy. At this point I was a third of a year into self improvement. Now I am two thirds of a year into self improvement, you helped me a lot, I experienced the rewards of being masculine, two weeks ago a couple of friends of mine and I started a "tribe" al, this because we spent two days in a trip, now me and one friend of mine who also had a great importance in the making of our tribe, both of us are the "leaders" of the tribe now, and we're having a blast being so masculine, my friend almos got a girlfriend from the tribe, I didn't, those girls were too degenerated for my standards, I haven't partied in my life, so I'm putting up that standard. To end this coment Hamza, I cannot state how grateful I am for your videos, keep it up dude. Thank you a lot.
@vvsxx
@vvsxx Жыл бұрын
honestly, the way you get into the friendzone is because you talk to a girl in a friendly way. if you don’t want to be in a friendzone situation try not to look friendly but have some rizz and shit
@HerrEngelsman
@HerrEngelsman Жыл бұрын
What us 'rizz'? like banter?
@Delta-tr2kb
@Delta-tr2kb Жыл бұрын
@@HerrEngelsman be flirty, show her you're interested in something more.
@vvsxx
@vvsxx Жыл бұрын
@@Delta-tr2kb thats what im sayin
@bigcalvesguy
@bigcalvesguy Жыл бұрын
Adonniiiis: I AM NOT IN THE FRIENDZONE I AM THE FRIENDZONER!
@johnfeminella9839
@johnfeminella9839 7 ай бұрын
I'm in that exact situation right now and everything you said is 100% correct comes down to growing a pair of balls! This is the first time I'm seeing you you got my attention God bless you
@PassionateZezo
@PassionateZezo Жыл бұрын
Omg hamza on fire
@ethanoptimized
@ethanoptimized Жыл бұрын
Lots of young men will benefit from this video Hamza, I'm grateful you're pumping out such great knowledge! 💪
@clizex2.082
@clizex2.082 Жыл бұрын
Pumping ? Make Me Remember Crypto 😂
@ahmedkharal7438
@ahmedkharal7438 Жыл бұрын
Just got friendzoned,the pain went away in an hour 😂
@JasonValadezVEVO
@JasonValadezVEVO Жыл бұрын
W
@victormbugua3653
@victormbugua3653 Жыл бұрын
True. Work on what you think about yourself and let go. I would suggest reading David Hawkin's book on the Art of letting go to become more self aware. Cool video love you all brothers
@justphoenix2396
@justphoenix2396 Жыл бұрын
I praise all the messages you speak about. At this point I watch your videos to get a laugh hahaha
@Inazio1311
@Inazio1311 Жыл бұрын
So theres a little story that i experienced that i found great Once I started talking to a girl at school and one day out of nowhere she went to talk to another boy, that crushed my soul. So I started to get into self-improvement so i went away from school for a while to focus on other things (not self-improvement) but i came back different, so guess what, the same girl started hitting on me, i accepted but moderately without romanticizing or wanting anything serious, so I started hugging her (asking for permission and she always let me). I sent her a distance kiss in the air one day, this girl loved it, them one day the same guy was waiting for her, when she arrived i didnt lost any time, i took her under her arm and walked away, I held her hand and walked some more. Shortly afterwards the boy came up to me saying he was her boyfriend, like she never said anything to me about any boyfriend, after that she tried to come with this friendzone bullshit so I replied "It wasn't what you implied, but it's your decision" And blocked her, she was probably some unfhaitful bitch who will replace her in the first opportunity. And the best part is that i dont give a fuck, because its not my problem. Im glad that i didn't get attached before anything.
@furiousboi2621
@furiousboi2621 Жыл бұрын
Trust Me I'm literally waiting for this video from you. thanks' a lot bruh
@talon_smith
@talon_smith Жыл бұрын
Wish I had this only a couple of weeks ago. Great advice I’m going to pass on to my friends
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