40 Harsh Truths I Wish I Knew in My 20s

[@Solar750]

As someone who's been there and had success, the one regret I have is not starting a family sooner and having more kids. The irony, is my professional life took off after having kids, and not while I was griding 60+ hours a week in the office. Most importantly, in hind sight, the kids are the only things I've accomplished that matters. I am financially secure, which is great, but means nothing without the family. I have mad respect for Graham and the accomplishments, but until you have kids, just about all other advise needs to have an *. Especially young men out there, terrified of the culture and risks of relationships, be guarded, but not withdrawn.

[@Hunter-ox6kh]

Well said sir

[@LeviRobinson270]

Prosperity doesn't come out that way overnight. What Most people see at a glance-wealth, a perfect career, purpose-is the results of hard labour and hustle over time. I pray anyone who reads this will be successful in life...

[@Apex81991]

​@SggdgffIt's not ignorance but unprofessional broker in the market

[@Apex81991]

Natural, there's a lot of math involved in forex trading. but this is often presented in forms of daunting technical charts, indicators, patterns.

[@Apex81991]

Trading systems allow you to limit the factor of emotional influence on decision-making, as well as to give the trade a certain degree of systemic character.

[@Doglover71_]

​@OliveLeeeYou're right, Investing in crypto currency now is the best thing to do especially with the current rise in the market

[@Doglover71_]

people are really making a lot of money from it...

[@PolineChan]

The last point actually makes sense. If you keep pushing yourself and set a new goal, you'd have satisfying journey of your life. If you reach one goal and start chillinh, you'd get boared quickly and might regret later of the stuffs you should have done. The journey is what makes it worthwhile, not the destination.

[@LazaroValle-tg4qy]

Thank you for all the things you have showed us over the years, you became my role model when I never had one 25 year old male here, and right now I’m trying to fight against the odds to someday be in your shoes to inspire others and make change!!🙏

[@james5460]

Great pointers, but it takes time to realize them. Those who succeed do less damage to themselves until they figure it out. But these aren't things you can just tell someone and they suddenly follow them. Everyone must learn for themselves.

[@SocialConciliation]

My mans said “I hate when I wake up at 11AM…” the audacity 😂

[@docthegaffer]

54 year old here. These are pretty much all true.

[@communism_sucks]

48 year old here 16 years in business for myself and yes all true. The last statement I feel the same there is enough and if there’s more God wants us to help those in need. Put yourself in that position a pillar in your home a pillar for your family and a pillar your community. AKA man up. Great video ✌🏼👍🏼🇺🇸

[@Laz3rCat95]

I don't necessarily agree with number 16 because sometimes someone who has lived a terrible life may be giving you solid advice so that you don't make the same mistakes that they did. Overall, I agree with most of the points made in this video, though.

[@conniesmith3837]

May all your desires be fulfilled except one, so you'll always have something to strive for.👍

[@mikaelajimenez6145]

Wish someone would have told me all those things in my 20s learned the hard way and at 35 all of this is true. Such terrible experiences trying to please others or get advice from people that I would never want to be in their shoes but thats all who was "near" me.

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

I'm in my 20's and this is very helpful.

[@CheeseQueenAtTheCheeseShop]

Graham, you misplacing your wallet reminds me of what Jon Richardson (a British comedian) said. I'm paraphrasing here but : in life, there are putters and leavers : people who put things in designated places and people who carelessly leave their stuff around, never knowing exactly where. Proactively choose to leave your belongings somewhere and you'll always know where it is, this way you don't have to search for it when you're in a hurry. Now I let you guess which one I am and which one my husband is. ^^

[@tamaranicoleofficial652]

This video was really damn good!! Thank you

[@Sailor_Moon_Motivational]

a lot of great advice and insights here

[@deelehey2827]

Oprah gives advice about things she has never done…marriage, raising children, living a middle class life….

[@InvestingRobinhoodInvestor]

Great nuggets of wisdom! Thanks for sharing 😁

[@untouchable360x]

Hard truths cut both ways.

[@Traestar]

Would be nice to interview Dan Martell himself

[@TheGrahamStephanShow]

1000%!

[@CharliniAlmeida]

Second that 👍 Dan X Lewis Howes interview was 🔥

[@retnuh1262]

I also noticed the goals I talk about are the ones I don't achieve. Whereas the ones I keep to myself, I tend to achieve

[@realhi-fihelplarry8047]

Not acknowledgingly people is what basically all people do in this world. The best thing to do is to care and indicate you understand, and then say you don´t agree, and then just don´t fight. Not acknowledgingly people is one of the reasons why the country is in such a bad state. At least 20% of the worlds problems could in theory be lessened by doing this.

[@ivarlast2966]

Here's what I wished I knew when I was much younger and I'm going to be advising my younger self. My advice to everyone is this : if you want to grow big this year especially in your finances. Be willing to make investments. Saving is great but investing puts you on a pedestal where you wouldnt have to worry about savings as you do now. Thanks to larysa Caba, my portolio is doing really great and im proud of the decisions i made last year.

[@ivarlast2966]

Making over 18k monthly is because of her.

[@bigelbow4854]

I feel one Of the greatest challenges that we first timers face in the ma rket is that we end up losing all we have,making it difficult to find ourselves back to our feet. My biggest advice is to always seek the services of a professional just like I did when I ventured into it for the first time. Big thanks to Larysa Caba. I now make huge profits by weekly through her services while still learning to stand on my own.

[@dominicleong4385]

I know larysa Caba. she trades for everyone I meet. I met her twice at a meeting in Germany and after her lectures from Ella I had to personally ask her to be my financial advisor. she is definitely good

[@annddyyy-6920]

I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Larysa Caba with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.

[@leticiaenraz8514]

I just looked up her name online. she is licensed with credible certificates and has an amazing track record. Thank you for the message.

[@sasukesuite1]

12:17 is why I bought a Model S Plaid. Cut me off, you get gapped.

[@boooob143]

I do the same thing at the gym except instead of listening to Tony Robertson I listen to Graham Stephan haha.

[@stevenporter863]

9:55 Not everyone advertises their successes. You can't always tell by appearances.

[@ojyochan]

Good advice and I agreed with your reactions and input to it

[@pct2025]

I just put graham on 1.25 speed 😂 after he mentioned it. I think I’ll do it for all podcasts!

[@FoxThief26]

2x speed game, get it

[@elizabeths.3634]

All around great video with good advice.

[@Sam_deandrae]

Another great video

[@TheGrahamStephanShow]

Thanks again!

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

I've seen this video and he gives good advice.

[@hieronimusrexx9203]

There is a place to just being happy. Stop everything and take the day one day at a time, one moment at a time. After a certain threshold it's just more meaningless and more about ego than anything else. If you invest in anything first, it's your health. Health is wealth. And real health not some bullshit diets and workout regimen, but a holistic approach to food, sleep and exercise. You don't need to run marathons and do iron mans, in fact those activities can be seriously detrimental to your health down the road, but you need to eat well and get some decent aerobic and anaerobic activity everyday for at least 20 minutes.

[@fitnesskiller0165]

All these routines fall off in the summer

[@louisianabeast]

Late but liking!

[@bvoyelr]

Disagree that looking for the sign is itself the sign. That's only true of things that are obvious virtues: getting healthier, making amends, fiscal responsibility, etc. I wouldn't even say the axiom extends to morally neutral things like starting a business or making a large purchase. I can technically afford a Ferrari. If I looked for a sign that I should get a Ferrari, that does *NOT* mean I should get a Ferrari. Similarly, I sometimes muse on becoming an independent contractor. I know for a fact that I lack some of the fundamental networking skills necessary to succeed in it, thus, I don't. If I looked for a sign that I should make the leap into this next stage of my life, I'd find it, make the leap, and just live on savings for a few years until I came crawling back to the corporate 9-5.

[@Komsek25]

42 years old working single mom

[@DavidKnicks]

He makes alot of sense

[@tinypeanuts]

This man is neurotic with his 2x speed stuff 😆

[@Real.Estate.Report]

Ha I just watched a video this morning called “I’m 40. If you’re in your 20s or 30s watch this.” Was good, similar concept. Will check this one out too.

[@EggTeeVee]

whos the guy in blue talking about The Tooth Fairy

[@klausmichaelson6443]

Love you

[@TheGrahamStephanShow]

❤️

[@Chris-eo1bp]

did he mention the mistake of scamming his community ?

[@donaldlyons17]

Doubt it he got paid well by doing so!!!

[@Avel-u2o]

Where’s the reaction to your appearance on Romain! We want the wifey too!

[@donaldlyons17]

HOW THE F CAN HE HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY? LIKE IT WORKED OUT DESPITE FOR YOU!!!!

[@MikeBarnhill]

Dan is the man. My bro and I just joined his coaching programs.

[@emoney1231]

Not bad advice, but I refuse to take advice from a guy who poses with supercars for his inspirational KZbin videos. I don't want to associate with the audience that is inspired by that.

[@donaldlyons17]

logical!!!

[@ruthkief8962]

Speak for yourself but u never do

[@adaml5851]

Dan has an intellectual handicap.

[@motoh1313]

🎉

[@adimarzero4893]

I appreciate the content but the thumbnails so cringy

[@erinjk123]

I guess I'm beyond this. A lot of your younger years is avoiding bad people that wreck or disrupt your life. Don't let people take from you or mistreat you. I mean you can be giving and spend time with people, but maybe do the good stuff for the family or people that will actually be in your life later on. Maybe you'll get lucky with someone that is actually worthwhile. Pretty no much from my 20's is currently in my life besides family.

[@sky37blue]

You wouldn't be the first person to have PTSD from financial services. As an industry it is full of snakes and toxic offices.

[@Glanzern]

Unless they are slow talkers. 2x speed comprehension is basically nonexistent. I stick to 1.2 - 1.5 depending on the speakers speed.

[@davidaizuss8481]

First?

[@Noxesiv83]

No

[@TheGrahamStephanShow]

Did it!

[@Kyle-xd1ci]

You lost me with the God preaching

[@EggTeeVee]

"god" and "the tooth fairy" are interchangeable

[@Laz_RS]

Religious propaganda...

[@AA-le2zv]

Be careful this guy has advertised scams and denied or ignored later

[@billclinton-f8n]

Is PLTR a good stock to go all in on? Or should someone start on popular stocks such as NVDA, or MSFT. I want to invest around 200 grand from my cash savings.

[@BrianMattews-i7t]

Meta investors have made a killing in the past two years, with the stock up 480% 🤯. Buy META!

[@AverageAmerican-m2m]

I agree. I also work with a CFP who has a good understanding of both the digital market and stock market. These days experts who have an all-round understanding are in short supply. This last quarter alone I've already made more than 150k in net profit.

[@Too-old-Forthischet]

This sounds incredible. Could you recommend who you work with so I can check them out?

[@AverageAmerican-m2m]

My CFA ’Sophia Irene Powell , a renowned figure in her line of work. I recommend researching her credentials further. She has many years of experience and is a valuable resource for anyone looking to navigate the financial market.

[@viewfromthehighchairr]

I’ve just looked up her full name on my browser and found her webpage, very much appreciate this