5 Common Problems Of The INFJ Man (With Solutions)

5 Common Problems Of The INFJ Man (With Solutions) | The hardworking and empathetic male INFJ personality undoubtedly faces issues that not many other men can relate to. Having the rarest personality type and an emotionally vulnerable side, the complex INFJ man knows that the INFJ personality type can seem like more of a curse than a blessing a times.
INFJ struggles aren't unique to the male infj traits, but men tend to struggle with the INFJ type more because of the difficulty in relating to other men around them. Whether it's an infj-a or and infj-t, the infj contradictions don't make it easy. So, INFJ men, comment down below if you relate to these 5 common INFJ man struggles, and how you manage them.
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[@GMorgan20]

Life is hard as an INFJ man

[@PSYCH-O]

Absolutely challenging at times for sure 😓

[@Anklebreaker_official]

The number 5 solution is really something that helps. The moment you stop holding back your thoughts is liberating. Let them be intimidated, not your concern but something THEY have to work on :).

[@PSYCH-O]

Yes!! Well said, my friend - thanks for sharing.

[@aaronmatthewcasey8562]

These are. All things I have had to deal with in life, and to a big extent not very well. Realising I am in this personality type, just recently, makes sense of a lot of feelings of being somehow different. I wish I had of known this much sooner. I've spent alot of time wanting to be ' normal '. Now I feel fully OK with who I am. Shame about the other issues in my life, but we all have our crosses to bear lol. You have to laugh. All the best every one.

[@Anklebreaker_official]

@@aaronmatthewcasey8562 Same here man. Really can relate to your struggles. But once you accept this, it makes things so much easier! :D We have a small circle, but man is it peaceful.

[@aaronmatthewcasey8562]

@@Anklebreaker_official cheers m8

[@4theloveofAJ2023]

WTH? I wondered why I get "The Turbulence" at work and start looking for a better job. Currently, my job has found the proper level of challenge and improvements to keep me engaged. Last weekend I was at the club & this guy told me that he felt like I could see into his soul. He didn't flinch. It was the best feeling ever. I absolutely hate small talk when I have things to do... so much that I'm rude about it. I apologize, but keep going. AJ on the War Path is a sight to behold.

[@rakrondewl]

Wow, this all hits close to home, especially the self esteem bit, haven't heard that touched on that much in association with the INFJ. I don't like to think that other people have to suffer through it but at the same time it is comforting to know it is somewhat common and I ain't just more broken than everybody else.

[@Alex-vc5dr]

This is true. I am in a career crisis right now. This phase of my life is extremely overwhelming.

[@messenjah71]

I’ve been there, too. Bless you in your search.

[@Bai699]

the people keep telling me I lie by omission. I told them because I don't want to hurt them. BUT after I told them the truth. they couldn't take it. which exactly why I didn't tell them everything at the beginning

[@David98004]

"It's not what you say it's how you say it." As an INFJ, we more than often tend to speak in a more monotonous fashion, which is okay right, but if you want to catch someone's attention in a conversation, it's important to add color to your voice. Color commentary is a skill that anyone can learn by simply changing the pitch, speed, volume, and cadence of your voice in the process of delivering a message.

[@renee.ssance]

Infj girl watching this to know my other infj male friend better 😅 can relate to everything, yet I learn something new too. Proves how much I know yet don't know my own personality 😭

[@davidcook680]

Do you think women could like a INFJ male true self? I have always been sensitive. I mean I don't like competition or conflict. It just seems most women wouldn't like men like this. Alot of things that society says a man should be. Isn't what I'm like.

[@messenjah71]

@@davidcook680I’m like you, my friend. All I can say is I married an INFJ female and it works.

[@peterparker4294]

I have been misunderstood by people all my life. I’m not just some Guy to take advantage of. People always testing me which they shouldn’t. I’m always lost in my own little world and I daydream a lot. It’s tough being an INFJ. I don’t really understand myself and still learning everyday.

[@Taurusboy07]

Wow. This channel knows me more than I do lol. I am learning/confirming more each day of why I think the way I do.

[@stevenwilgus5422]

I precisely fit every feature outlined in this video. As an older INFJ/A, I got entirely burned out on establishing a career. I hope my younger likeminded INFJ's take head an self correct. While the MBPI is regarded as somewhat circumspect by some, I find the observations to have uncanny accuracy.

[@PSYCH-O]

That's great advice, my friend - thank you for sharing, and we appreciate the feedback! 💙

[@handleguy]

It may even be that some recoil from the honesty of the mbti. I found the description of the INFJ to be liberating, but not everyone may see it that way.

[@DTheHAge]

Concerning finding the right job. That's way more difficult than shown here. Some time ago, I had a talk with my mother when she showed me what good I was doing in my job. I was protecting the mobile communication, protecting the value of the euro, helping the environment by improving remote working and protecting many other things and companies. Should be enough, right? Not for me (and I'm not proud of it). I felt that I wasn't using my full potential, doing just 1 job. When I started entrepreneurship/startupship, I saw what I was missing. Using many different skills, the technical skills, the social ones and the prediction skills. And also learning all the time. I don't want to say that every INFJ wants to be entrepreneur. I know many INFJs who like to be just a writer. But if you have the idea, try it. I was too scared for it about 10 years. So I really advice you to do it if you feel ready for it at the first thought (not the second critical one ;)).

[@davidcook680]

Thank you for making these. You have no idea how much this helps. Especially talking about INFJ males. It just makes it okay I'm like this. I always felt shame and afraid that how I am. Isnt what a man should be. I really appreciate these videos.

[@kentkirkland7230]

Your conclusions are so correct. Had a tough time with these traits when younger. Especially the intense personality and evasion of small talk. People just don't want to deal with it. It gets easier as you age, and being alone is fine. Have worked alone for many years. But please, please lose this repetitive jingle. It gets on INFJ nerves. Go ahead and experiment. But keep up the good work,

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the feedback and for watching, my friend 🙌

[@sunset9729]

Alone time yes I could but I don't. When I do get alone time I let my mind free and solve problems always explore.

[@PSYCH-O]

Ahh they can be some of the best times for an INFJ!

[@r22gamer54]

as an infj man i do not seem intimidating im short and everyone treats me as a baby

[@messenjah71]

"Not everyone wants to talk about life and death at a cocktail party." Yeah, that’s precisely why I don’t go to cocktail parties. We’re not here to waste precious time. The question of life and death must be answered by everyone eventually. INFJs have chosen this personality for the purpose of answering it. And so on. You get the idea; I’m one of you, lol BTW, I love #5. I’m going to proceed by fully accepting my personality type. The tsunami I bring will now be a joy to watch as people are either swept away or found strong enough to withstand the waves.

[@janayialove4414]

You catch that that scene, he had two girls by his side ✌🏿

[@ResonantNewt]

I relate especially to the self worth part

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

Oh hahaaa! These dudes' solution to their so struggles is to be loved 'thoroughly' and 'seen' , respected and cared for very well. Then they'll truly play themselves without a doubt!

[@PSYCH-O]

Agreed!

[@infinitedonuts]

These are pretty relatable.

[@chriselliott8509]

Every day. I love people and I care about them, but I also hate people. I took a day off today just because right now I hate my job and I didn't sleep good last night. They can muddle through a day without me. And what if what we believe about the afterlife gets manifested so hard that when our energy or consciousness goes back where it came from, that's what we get?

[@johnm.castillo3163]

I swear this could've been me writing that. A momgth ago I was so drained and felt so abused by management that I called off. And did I feel guilty for it? Not at all. Maybe it's our fault for not speaking up but we do. We TOTALLY do. I am going to be leaving this job in a couple of weeks. I will miss the work and the clients but staying there is not sustainable. I hope you can find peace brother.

[@messenjah71]

The key is to understand true forgiveness and to apply it. This is what removes the cause of hate and frees you to joyfully be your INFJ self. I speak from experience.

[@dob-jimmykemper7524]

At my work I was reported to HR for making a woman feel uncomfortable (the stare). Hahaha luckily I am on good terms with the HR person and they are aware of me :-)! Yes the struggles are accurate but I say challenge accepted! Finding work arounds is the INFJ's intuitive will power.

[@PSYCH-O]

Well said, my friend!

[@peterparker4294]

Same I try not to stare but I can’t help but appreciate beauty and Life around me. I was not reported hopefully never 😅 the stare of Death we call it.

[@DominicMcCool]

This was actually pretty good.

[@Jyval]

Oh wow.. I can relate to every word lol Thank you for the video!

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[@renlerose7964]

Im INFJ male and i solved all of this :)

[@lilithdarkspire9366]

Don't know if it's just cus I'm gender fluid or if it's cus INFJ men and women aren't really that different, but i relate to most of these even tho I'm assigned female at birth I just think that it's not only MEN with these problems

[@PSYCH-O]

You're exactly right, not only men face most of these problems!

[@TeamTamahakk]

enby amab here, and i believe that these are all just very human traits period. environment and upbringing, with a bit of soul and mind

[@amirhrz]

I like your ideas and they're mostly true, but as you said in the video infjs are not interested in small talks and this video seems to be a small talk about the subject... I think you can be more deliberate and direct in that matter... Good luck

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This is very accurate

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[@Rounder2205]

I’m in the seventh ring of hell when it comes to my career

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All of these

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