5 Examples of Toxic Parenting

[@Psych2go]

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[@supernatural.unicorn]

:)

[@eri2525]

I’m so thankful for having nice parents🥺❤️

[@frainium8644]

❤

[@laylaholt566]

Happy weekend to you too! ♡

[@Psych2go]

@@eri2525 I'm happy to hear that. Being grateful for our parents :)

[@anubisd613]

I hate when my parents say: - "Why are you not like your brother or sister?" -"why you can't speak normally?" -"or, in my time I was the best at school"

[@anjalimane4711]

Mahnn I can so relate to this one!!

[@meep7895]

They always tell me why can't I speak normally and I really am not sure why but they continue to ask me it and it brings me down cuz it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong but I just don't know what it is that I'm doing wrong

[@rayanaaweys8317]

Same I realy can relate to this

[@amiyeet-2976]

Same.... my mom always told me that she had bad grades when she was my age and then when the finals came... POOF! She got all A's on every subject

[@th3lostw4nderer]

Same

[@XIANC]

Child: *makes a compelling argue and tries to defend themselves* Parents: I don't like your attitude

[@Psych2go]

You should do a tip video.

[@XIANC]

@@Psych2go I just want to say your channel inspired me so much and changed my outlook on life. Please continue and aspire others💕

[@sriktango2646]

XIAN C. I can relate😓.

[@IoH_AwoL]

Parent: That is not how I see it.

[@meep7895]

My sister told my mom to close her mouth when eating when my mom did it intentionally and then my mom went on a rant and yelled at my sister for no reason whatsoever. Life is so stupid

[@aliciaastefanei2475]

*Me:* *breathes * *Mom:* "I DON'T LIKE YOUR ATTITUDE" *Me:* "What attitude?" *Mom:* "DON'T TALK BACK TO ME!"

[@sw4ggynutz466]

Lmao

[@certified_npc3]

Lol I sometimes just do a little huff, and then my mom thinks I’m having an attitude :P

[@nightappleispoisonapple1775]

Exactly I hate it

[@sosopwsi829Jjw9]

I agree with the mom. Gachatubers are a disgrace to humanity.

[@carter_RU]

Funny how my dad says “I’m the adult your the child” parents sure don’t act like an adult

[@am-zj4mq]

"You're just a child. You can't decide, WE decide what you do. You can’t." - My OWN Mother.

[@manjirosano1707]

That's the most disgusting toxic attitude istg

[@jforquick]

Here also👌

[@derekmaullo2865]

Your mother is a a$$ parent

[@ishi9649]

True

[@doomspidey1737]

Yeahh heard a similar but longer version of that for something so tiny i don't even remember what it was

[@wasssuuupp4401]

*when you actually win an argument with your mother* Her: _Smells like disrespect_

[@Leuncakk]

i felt the same thing exept its my dad

[@lewmoss]

100 like❤️ love your profile pic and username

[@proudtobeanerd5340]

Whenever I win an argument with my dad, he just shuts down and pretends it never happened, like he was right all along.

[@nsingh681]

@@Leuncakk relatable

[@Taekooks_daughter]

She be like : okay okay!!! I'm just watching you ! How far you have gone! Okay!

[@pranavyeole102]

I've got so emotionally numb towards my parents and their feelings, I don't care or have respect for them anymore

[@chiskw1668]

I know my dad is super abusive he beats me and verbally abuses me but I’m to afraid to tell anyone I’m currently in my bathroom hearing my parents yell please give advice I’m scared

[@chiskw1668]

Mara Wrecklesslittlebastard idk they stoped now but I’m not sure if they’ll start again

[@chiskw1668]

Mara Wrecklesslittlebastard I’m doing a little better now but still a little worried thanks for the concern 💕

[@mariehawthorne3464]

@@chiskw1668 How are you right now?

[@grungegirl229]

Sameeeee yep

[@bhumikasrineel6799]

Not a single point missed. Everything related.

[@lexxy6305]

okay, that's really sad... are you alright?

[@Yuseigo]

ow

[@coledoeslife]

I've been there, not saying my parents were like this but, one of my close ones parents were exactly like this. And knowing them so well, I know for a fact how much can it affect ones metal and social growth. And unfortunately, it's not in anyone reach of power to fix this except yourself, but what I do hope is you don't let these factors dictate who you are, you're a human at the end of the day, and you're as unique as a human gets. I hope you'll hold up well. Stay Blessed, You're Loved.

[@rebbecachunn]

I feel you. Try to find friends who are understanding 😊

[@packersnerd]

Yeah same

[@izzatulamniaisyah6391]

0:23 *1) The controlling parent* 0:47 *2) The parent with unrealistic expectations* 1:12 *3) The parent of verbal abuse* 1:39 *4) The invasive parent* 2:03 *5) The neglectful parent*

[@rynsummer1711]

Thanks a bunch!!

[@moodyflowers8740]

Thank you!!

[@Great_WesternTVFan]

My dad is number 1 and 5

[@vyn6649]

My mom is 3 and my dad is 5

[@798_rei]

Thank you so much!

[@anika4320]

“If you’re trying to make everyone hate and leave you, it’s working” - my mother

[@vanessasonica]

I think I had a nightmare mode toxic mother, cause mine was a combination of all of them. Probably explains why I grew kinda f*cked up & had to mature way too fast losing a chance on a normal childhood

[@Leuncakk]

🤔i hope you are okay

[@Bilbojack4]

I'm so sorry for you. My parents were maybe not all 5 but they were neglectful, I don't even know what checking on your day means.

[@kurttoy5035]

Sorry to hear about what you went through. Hope things are better for you.

[@dingusdeduck2621]

I had to mature pretty fast too. Well I don’t think I had to but it felt like I had to.

[@mickeymousewithouttheclubh6584]

Same

[@bipbeedippy3954]

Me: **gets this notification while I'm crying in my room because of my parents** Me again: **watching this video while still crying** My dad through the door: *"what the h*** *is wrong with you??"* _Hmmm I wonder if I have toxic parents..._

[@Drm-Rose]

You have selfworth!

[@franzferdinand9093]

You can just say ‘hell.’

[@Ipsit_Patki]

Stay Strong, Ignore them, develop a hobby, spend as much less time as you can with your parents. We are all in this together.

[@sarahscalpel561]

ya you have toxic af parents...welcome to the club, now have fun like the rest of us undoing the damage as you grow and free yourself, I suggest def working on setting up your boundaries with friends, getting your own place eventually, make you priority first, I haven't been doing that and it's not good.

[@CassieWolf6630]

Hippie Dippy I know what is like to deal with pain of my own toxic mother sometimes we even argue because my mother doesn’t understand that being myself makes me happy and free. So please see my video? Thanks for reading my comments 😢

[@sawahuda927]

Psych2go: Do you relate to any of the parenting types in this video? Me: yes, all of them.

[@GabrielDeOliveira721]

Yeah, me too. It suck that all of them are my father, but now I noticed that my mother have some too

[@Areallykissablecactus]

@@jasperanimates5673 No

[@avamyers9715]

My mum is just all of them combined.

[@Areallykissablecactus]

@@avamyers9715 My father is

[@internetdemon4113]

Bro me too

[@idontknowbutitsok9739]

Yesterday my dad hit my sister, she asked him a question and apparently gave him attitude and he hit her, she was on the floor crying and screaming and he said “let me get my belt” but he dropped it trying to stop himself and then I told her to run outside. He went and tried to drag her back inside. Today we had a family discussion and he said he did it out of love. My mother is always calling useless and she claims that my sister is more beautiful than I am. She calls me an idiot and compares me to my cousins and my self esteem is really low..😢but I drew a picture for my sister of a warrior girl- I’m 11 by ze way tee hee I’m not asking for your pity, just telling you guys what’s going on haha but I know there people who have a worser situation than me so I should just be grateful 😁 I don’t know why this blew up, also you guys have sad stories, and this has been going on my whole life so I just cope but I hope everyone if comments is doing fine

[@yousefsh7949]

Damn man, you should talk to somebody about this or a freind, because your parents shouldn’t treat you this way

[@nuzhatmarzana3497]

。Sonya 。 no you shouldn’t. There is nothing to be grateful about. Trust me I had the same situation and now I’m 28 out of their house still suffering mentally. It screws you up for life, in my case it did.

[@GabrielDeOliveira721]

Do it out of love... Just a lie, they don't know how to control themselves and act like animals. You should tell someone from your school or some authority, they don't have the right to do that. I was abused too and now I have one more sister in your age, they will not treat her like they treat me and my other sisters. Good luck and don't forget that you are more than you think you are.

[@athena_the_avocado]

You should talk to someone about it. Try to get some help with your situation. And, I don't know you, but you are beautiful. Beauty is not on looks but how the person acts. And, grateful? Girl, you are in a *bad* place, you need to tell someone. This is putting pressure on your self-esteem. You are beautiful, you are amazing. The only words you should listen to are your own, and it should be positive ♥️

[@Freespiritedqueen]

Hi sweetheart.. is there someone you can trust that won't betray you that you can go to and explain what is happening? That doesn't sound loving to me.

[@MarkJones-yu1rs]

What helped me the most with raising my children was the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. It is honestly a game changer

[@kalaiarasi2330]

What's there in this .. wil it help me to over come... Abusing , expecting and using verbally negative words and statements to my kid? Pls help

[@sujalpatkar5151]

what helped me the most was memorising all the ass whooping patterns that my mom use.....and intentionally wearing full sleves and full pants in hot summer too.

[@Lotus-bo3rw]

Imagine watching this with a full volume with your fam in the house. *yes I'm that brave*

[@seashelld1577]

the arthemis what was ther reaction

[@Light-tc4kz]

are you alive?

[@natashashakya128]

But my parents don't understand English so i cant

[@zeros-gy7bl]

💪💪💪

[@laeticialana]

I'm not brave enough to do that.

[@radudancoroian5169]

"5 types of toxic parents" Me: Why is my ptsd activating?

[@ViGsT]

"Why do I hear boss music?"

[@porcelaineface4185]

"why can i suddenly remember shit my brain had blocked out for years cause it was to heavy to remember in the first place?"

[@sirena9689]

😂 me tooo

[@tinypancake_1371]

Well that's... relatable

[@VEN_US0]

Haha so true lol

[@nry6556]

I remember when my mom looked into my diary and she asked me about it. She also scolded me for not telling her about my true feelings. And I got slapped. After that day, I hid my diaries and acted like I am happy infront of her.

[@Lucky_Number113]

That's how my Dad was when I was younger. I wrote in my diary about how I was being bullied at school and I used some strong language; when he snooped into it he got mad and scolded me for cursing. I just love how the words I used mattered much more to him than what I was going through and what I was writing about.

[@nry6556]

@@Lucky_Number113 Dang. Some parents... They just need to understand their kids sometimes. I mean like, these things could led us to feel like we can't trust our parents anymore.

[@yaurfeiussystuhncc]

Deym this reminded me of me cursing abt my probs in life while talkin to my friend who was actually helping when i was at 5th grade and my mom saw it slapped me til my mouth bled and forced me to sleep in this dark plain room without a fan and only a bed and it was hot as heck but aside from that i cried all night... it was a few days b4 my bday... she also reminded me this event on my bday thinkin she a gangsta when its a dumb bitch move

[@nry6556]

@@yaurfeiussystuhncc sorry to hear that, i guess that parents doesn't understand us much because they never experienced it. Or maybe they have some problems too when growing up and they decided to let it go on their children. I'm gonna be honest, if anyone tries to pick a fight with me, I would yell at them and it felt good. Just like my mother, yelling at me just because I asked her a question.

[@vanessac.6533]

po po u should really talk to someone bout or at least find comfort away cuz shes not capable of taking care of a child if she thinks she’s all gangster and shit when she placed u In a room and slapped u

[@sloanemilla]

My parents are good parents, it’s just they never recognize how hard I try. They always yell at me for not doing enough, tell me what I’m doing wrong. They just scream and scream, and whenever I make a valid argument to get them to see, they say I have such a disrespectful attitude. I just want to be enough.

[@lamarasawyer850]

That's because u ARE enough. If ur "parents" can't appreciate u 4 u, then those aren't parents. I'm sorry if I sound blunt.

[@itsdevsahoo]

Bro what's ur age if u are not 17 or 18 u haven't faced the real situation dude

[@lamarasawyer850]

R u sure u wanna say that? As 4 my age, I'll say I'm in my early 20's. Again, I'm sorry if I sound blunt. U can hate me all u want.

[@sloanemilla]

GRAVITY you can’t judge the status of somebody’s situation by their age.

[@itsdevsahoo]

@@sloanemilla I can't judge but the real thing comes when you go to your Teenage it's just my choice dude there are still some good parents in this world who respects to there kids but they don't say that you are a mistake

[@aartikavali6550]

Even though my parents were physically present in my life I always felt that they were emotionally distant. They were just present in front of my eyes

[@kgvideos23]

I feel the same sadly

[@laeticialana]

Honestly, same.

[@milkncookies4632]

*My mom yelling at me* Me: defends myself while saying stuff in a tone because I’m mad My mom: WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO?! Me: *hiding in my room and punching the wall because she’s annoying*

[@rohahayzza2175]

I feel you😔

[@izukumidoriya7283]

You ain't alone

[@7teenXbeans]

you will literally have a loggical answer and they turn it against you and just say" Your just saying that because you addicted to the internet" or "were the parents your the kid" OR 'when i was little we got hit with spoons"

[@tanahnyawhatley492]

​@@7teenXbeans, I can relate with that. I'm adopted along with my two younger brothers. We're in our 20's and our adoptive parents are in their 60's. Okay, so I'm the only daughter my family has and born with seizures and take medication for it. I don't remember what bad thing I did when was younger, but my adoptive mom slapped the shit out of me and caused me to go into a seizure then had the nerve to call my grandma to inform her. She had to say this "the next time you fall out into seizure, I'm leaving you right there on the floor until you wakeup" and this happens when I sometimes forget to take my medicine if I'm too busy. She has no respect for privacy, she'll tries to check my phone and I have a password for it and she's say "why do you have a lock on your phone?" She'll read through my journals, what's the purpose of giving me a journal if you're going to look through it! She sent me to DCIS in 9th grade, she complains about my body weight and hair. She's literally in her 60's and I see women her age or older with better hair than her. How you going to gaslight your child about their but have a stupid excuse for yours. She spoils the middle child the most and he's willing to yell back at her when she gets up in his face. He has two children (a boy that is three and newborn girl which is a few months old) and doesn't want to interact with them. I feel like if this keeps going on my mental and emotional state will complete break. I have a pet dog that's trying to keep me mentally stable

[@ThatOneBeginner]

Me: freaking punching myself cause i hate myself

[@yournamegoeshere7584]

im not even on the second one and i can relate to my parents omg

[@cepoiuanca2383]

It is somehow worse when you already know the toxic relationships but you try to find out some advice. 🙄

[@koyang341]

how is this one month ago-

[@chiyu.tamade]

Ikr

[@Psych2go]

It's been a month since you've seen this video. How are you feeling now?

[@yournamegoeshere7584]

@@Psych2go much better, since i finally beat my brother in wii sports boxing but srsly tho i am feeling good

[@nandinikhurpa3476]

My parents are my reason of low self esteem ...my dad body shame me and beats me for crying while my mom always complains about me to other people saying I don't study or clean my room even when I do

[@RawrKannibal]

My mom bodyshames me too. She tells me I'm so skinny nobody is gonna love me... I have eating dissorders

[@mrpennersprytnylisek4738]

Same but without bodyshaming.

[@shaistaaaa]

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[@galaxytheicewing5146]

If parents are going to hate their child like this why happen child if they hate them so much

[@emerie.]

well I asked my mom... "should I had an abortion?" and "I expected when youll grow up that youll be helping me and my life would be easier! But look at you! My life is even harder with you!" (sorry for my english)

[@ellie8983]

@@emerie. That's absolutely your mothers fault for not being mature enough, please don't blame yourself for this!

[@PlaceholderDoe123]

Wuik Ely That’s not a mother. That’s a birth giver. Sorry but not sorry, that’s absolutely unacceptable to say to one’s child.

[@-randomuser-4897]

@@emerie. She's the worst. These trash. They just don't make any effort, they think everything is going to be easy and happy, but then they just complain about how life is hard, even if their lives is easy compared to others, that have to support them. I'm so sorry for you, you just weren't lucky... I hope you'll be okay soon - (It also counts for persons reading this comment, i hope you're kind of okay... I can try to help, i don't think i will judge, so please talk about it or you need to.) Have a nice day!

[@loisrabies8713]

Probably selfish reasons

[@ffestivelizzie]

My parents always say I’m over dramatic. _I’m over dramatic?_ Try living with: • Anxiety • Depression • PTSD & daily dark flashbacks, to the point where I have a panic attack • Having a toxic relationship with every single member in your house, and being stuck with them in quarantine • Daily anxiety attacks, to the point where I feel like I’m going to suffocate • Not feeling comfortable speaking because your parents always say I’m always loud or quiet when I’m speaking to them • Not being able to sleep due to consistent nightmares caused by parents • Crying myself to sleep every night because I’m scared of my future because of the present • Parents not caring when I’m in pain, saying I’m a hypochondriac, “You’re fine, stop overdramatizing the situation.” • Knowing that your own father wants you in _prison_ for trying to get mental help *I think you can tell, I seriously want them in my own shoes. I’d love to see the look on their faces.*

[@jkka1477]

I feel you

[@nsingh681]

Same my dad wants me in person for trying to get mental help now if I don’t listen to them they’ll forcefully put me in rehab or prison

[@laeticialana]

I feel so bad for you. I hope you get better soon.

[@toowiggilyforschoollikerealy]

they never put the factors into perspective i also have anxiety and depression+adhd and 90% sure im also a highly sensitive person. i will have a panic attack if we start having a worse argument and i know they judge it and 'im dramatic' sorry i have bad mental health i guess

[@laeticialana]

@@toowiggilyforschoollikerealy it's ok

[@LilChuunosuke]

It's crazy how toxic my parents were growing up and how wrong they always were about me. One big one I was recalling the other day is that they'd call me a slob, a hoarder, lazy, messy, etc. I moved into my own place a little over a week ago and I've practically cleaned every single day. I almost fell in the bathtub standing on the rim to wash the tile near the ceiling. And I've spent hours in the middle of the night cleaning other people's houses when living with them. They just want to hurt you. I don't let them have that control over me anymore.

[@NenaLavonne]

Remember you are enough and worthy, no matter how your parents made you feel ♥️

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for always leaving positive comments. Do you have any tips videos on this?

[@NenaLavonne]

You are so welcome, thank YOU for making such quality videos on mental heath topics ♥️ This channel deserves an award! To answer your question, I have a few videos specifically relating to the topic of feeling worthy and enough. So many of us struggle with this 😔

[@spaceboxpilot]

thank you ☺️

[@sanskriti5463]

Thankyou✨

[@derekmaullo2865]

​@@NenaLavonne Thank you. I hope I get out of this hellhole

[@hel2727]

It's hard to live in this world knowing that people who gave you life and who were supposed to love you, make you feel like you don't belong not only in your own home, but anywhere.

[@suvigyamishra2003]

psych2go: verbal abuses like lazy and useless; me: what ??! these are verbal abuses? these are what i hear at the very least

[@izukumidoriya7283]

Same I use to hear this kind of stuff from my parents at first didn't realize but now....it broke my ❤️

[@BellHope-bl6pp]

no fr my mom was calling me every name under the sun and threatening to kick me in my can't. I had no idea being called lazy was abusive 😭

[@didih6749]

When I told my dad about my mental issue he just said that I’m overreacting and that I’m egotistic. He said that all of this was my moms fault, and after that he and my mom got into a huge argument, after that I been afraid to tell him about anything that’s about me. But my mom is always on my side and she has helped me a lot.

[@srinidhi_007]

I want to leave my house. I want to be a doctor and study abroad it will take more 5 to 6 years can't wait to leave. My mother verbally abused me , teases me and once she said she has problems since the day I was born.... my dad also mocks, taunts and threatens me while scolding....

[@Psych2go]

Hope you achieve your dreams whether that be becoming a doctor or starting a business of your own!

[@whyar3y0uga34]

@@Psych2go Kids should make a bank acc. only they know exist

[@Gigachad10]

Bro this same shit is happening with me to

[@srinidhi_007]

Thanks for your support psych2go and I do speak to my friends about it and even they face the problem one of my friend gets beaten with a belt that why she is poor in academics. I feel so bad but I am brave now

[@itsdevsahoo]

@@whyar3y0uga34 children under 18 cannot even have a Bank acc coz the fucking govt says children can't use banks later did they know that children are more smatter than adults govt says that children can have a savings account which can only accessed by parants Why The f... Then we need to make a savings account we can keep it in our home much safer.

[@claudiarobinson587]

I had an abusive father, and I have a controlling mother.

[@Psych2go]

Sorry to hear! How are you coping with this situation right now?

[@irisleoncito5397]

1 £|l ^

[@spongeyspikes09]

Me: nearly forgets chores Parents: (about to rant) Me: And here... we... go! Parents: (rant)

[@madelineoneele6613]

Lmao felt that

[@spongeyspikes09]

@@madelineoneele6613 wanna know who doesn't feel that? Parents

[@toxictess7299]

Omg yes it sucks

[@spongeyspikes09]

@@toxictess7299 nowadays even their thank yous feel meaningless

[@saumyarajput8877]

@@spongeyspikes09 facts man 😔✊

[@gameacc7771]

me:*tries to explain myself to my parents without crying* ( i have a habit of crying when upset) them: SensiTiVe lMao

[@Taekooks_daughter]

My parents get super mad when I do this and even it's not my fault they yell at me first for crying then they solve the matter 🫠

[@kwonsoyeon8153]

I hate it,when I get scolded for the smallest things and when I explain MY SIDE they would just say "Now your talking back?"

[@SocksThePup]

This is what happens when I try to defend myself 😂🥹

[@Not_QuQu]

Same, i wish to never exist

[@shaistaaaa]

Our parents did so much for us. Sometimes they use harsh language so we can avoid commit mistakes. Forgive them, kzbin.info/aero/PL0852F983749E85B2&si=OLENqlozRZP5xZJZ

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else.” ― Mae West

[@kellyhunter3990]

Books In Review omg that’s actually great

[@poojars5594]

Yess!!!

[@nsingh681]

That speaks my soul

[@shreyabhor8213]

that's such a beautiful quote

[@ayla7672]

I relate to the 4th one.They won't let me even close my door.I also caught them looking through my phone while i was away from for a few minutes.But thankfully thats all.I have a good relationship with my parents and im thankful for that.

[@emerie.]

lucky you

[@grapekork101]

You start arguing with your mother *You use logic* ... It doesn't seem effective

[@nettspend_penis]

It has no effect, mother uses "sounds like disrespect"

[@7minutesago4yearsago29]

You use: *do or say whatever she wants so you don't have to deal with this bs anymore*

[@AbgHadi]

Who names their Pokemon "You"?

[@grapekork101]

@@AbgHadi :v

[@heldskydiver5662]

Mom is appered to be imunune Sorry I’m really bad at spelling

[@rakariwilliams]

"I brought you into this world and I can take you right out" Me now realizing that was a death threat by my parents😶

[@zeidmuhammad8206]

Heard that one growing up.........smh

[@priscilla3215]

The other day my mom asked me to help her look for something and when I couldn’t find it she got mad at me and started being hostile so I told her “Stop. Don’t talk to me that way” and honestly I don’t think I was wrong. My brother sworeee that I was being so disrespectful but I’m so tired of her treating me so poorly

[@nicolepark2511]

literally, this week has been so tired. i just cutted bonds with my dad and called him out because of everything he put me through, just like my mom and I cant even explain. it hurts si much to let go of everything you wanted, that was a happy family to move on, never thought it'll hapoen either. Thank you very much to pysch2go and everyone envolved for helping us by talking out all this topics when we just needed them. Thank you!🙌🏻💜

[@randa4613]

im so proud of you stranger

[@JenLOL05]

me, an asian watching this: •_•

[@Psych2go]

Tiger parents?

[@qai6753]

@afootineachworld tru-

[@qai6753]

I'm asian too, Imao (Idk what funny about this, I just-)

[@zemiyac.2949]

My eyes are bigger too now Jk, i totally relate to this.

[@Glamode]

It will be okay, but the hardest thing about having toxic parents is being strong willed enough not to reproduce their parenting with your future childs.

[@uhhi5712]

My mom keeps pressuring me to wear short sleeves. But I can't. I keep telling my mom that even with SPF 50 suncream I get sunburned easily. She said it's because the suncream is probably old. So she's getting more soon. I don't want her to. I told my sister about the real reason why I can't wear short sleeves. She said she'll bring me to the doctor to talk about it when covid is gone or nearly gone. But we don't know when that will be

[@da_og_demonslayer6712]

oof

[@spareaccount9074]

same, but i avoid wearing short sleeves because i'm self-conscious.

[@Psych2go]

It sounds really unreasonable to have your parents decide what you can and cannot wear..

[@uhhi5712]

@@Psych2go I told her the material of hoodies makes me look more flat so it helps with my dysphoria. That kinda worked. But now the weather is back to cloudy and windy, so I'm fine

[@xioviewergirl0415]

Omg my mom tells me what to wear! Every sunday my mom says 'put on a FANCY dress' but I hate dresses! (No offense) they itch :c (my dad doesn't care what I wear thou)

[@clearedaccdead1]

I cried while watching this cause' it's so relatable and I finally found someone or something that understands me.

[@Annaxoxolei777]

Same

[@deflowerdefile]

Yesterday, my mother was reading an inspirational quote which said "Don't compare yourself with others. The sun and moon shine on their own time" and she really seemed to like that phrase and began preaching it to me which I thought was hypocritical seeing as she always compares me with my sisters or other people I don't know. So I asked her, "If you like that so much why do you compare me?" to which she ignored and literally began posting the quote on Facebook.

[@ita7289]

my parents neglect me and i wish they would give me some attention, but when they do give, the kind attention is not what ive wished for :(

[@sadymorris8597]

my mom used to be super toxic, and im so glad shes getting better :) she seems happier now and im glad our relationship is healing. she still makes mistakes, but im glad shes trying :)

[@rainreevayt8473]

To be honest i have verbal and neglectful parents always gone and when they're here i get nothing but the words of useless,ugly,fat,lazy,not good enough

[@itsmaddy4852]

when your mom falls under all the categories: 👁👄👁 “that’s why I’m depressed”

[@moto_kalo]

Was I the only one that teared up while watching this because of being so mentally/emotionally scarred in a negative way?..

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." --Lao Tzu

[@vuong_square0606]

All asian kids have experience this: 1.being yell but the type that makes you cry 2.being hit by their weapons 3.slaps 4.the type that loves the youngest more than others Me i have experience slaps, being yell and cry, being hit by a big stick that shapes like a ruler and the last one. My dad or my mom likes my younger brother than me (sometimes) Once i was walking upstair, he slashed his leg into me i almost fell down And i yell : MÀY MUỐN TAO TÉ CẦU THANG À?! Translate: YOU WANT ME TO FALL DOWN STAIRS?! My dad : stop yelling at your brother 🙄

[@dariancomsa7204]

Is "weapons" an *accidental* mistake or did you really mean it

[@Lucky_Number113]

green Soap Same here. I remember when I was little, my mom hit me with a personalized ruler that my favorite aunt had given me as a present and broke it. Yes, I had been bad and I deserved the punishment, but still. 😢

[@bettyghirmay3271]

same here in my country its seen as normal to beat children as a form of punishment but there is a difference between beating and punishment. if a parent is 'punishing' their kid till they have bruises is not punishment its beating and its not acceptable.

[@yaurfeiussystuhncc]

I was yelled at and dragged out of our car while cars were passing by with a village nearby and getting slapped and pinched after. When i was younger I use to have a few bruises when I come to school and even feel like crying because of emotional pain not physical one but I'm known as the happy one or the one who laughs all the time in school. Little do they know huh. Up to this day i still get slapped and kick at times when they want to for not smiling and I'm 15. No wonder y

[@bettyghirmay3271]

po po am sorry you had to go through that, I have scars on my face cuz of my mom but you will get through it.

[@athealien]

The man the world expects me to call my dad is literally the reason I spend almost everyday hating myself for existing

[@bandobssesd6190]

Same, but it’s my “mom” for me

[@sochidala8093]

Brendon Uries forehead same 😒 btw I like your profile pic and username

[@nennie-u4m]

Same situation, but both of my parents.

[@jasmitganvir30]

I'm happy i don't have a dad ...

[@athealien]

@@jasmitganvir30 Lucky you.....

[@mustanggt5713]

Parenting plays a HUGE role in a child’s overall development. I had over-involved and intrusive parents who always dictated the way I talked , ate or behaved . They even heavily influenced me in my career decisions. I grew up to become an extremely reserved and scared adult with zero leadership qualities required to survive and thrive in this world . Today I regret and wish they had treated me better so that I could have blossomed into something bigger and better .

[@breannab4710]

Love when I’m trying to explain why I did something and the response I get back is being cut off and told to stop back talking and being so disrespectful

[@FunBun7]

Edit: hahahaha getting help nuh my dudes all I learned is how to shelfharm deeper but hide it better

[@justsomebodyyoudontknow]

*lucky you, because when I told her about this she just lashed out on me and said I was a disappointment, a mistake to her and that I am ruining her life.*

[@FunBun7]

@@justsomebodyyoudontknow aw I'm so sorry :( Do u have a sibling u can talk to to help u talk to your parents, my sister found out about my self harm and helped me talk to my mom so she understood. Or maybe next time I go to the doctor talk to your doctor and they may be able to explain how you feel to your parents in a way they understand

[@Psych2go]

So happy to hear! How did you start the conversation?

[@justsomebodyyoudontknow]

@@FunBun7 unfortunately, no. No one that I could trust.

[@FunBun7]

@@Psych2go I just told her that I don't feel well and all that went on in my head and school and what happened to make me feel the way I did and that I wanted to seek help go not feel that way.

[@reykrows2155]

Anyone who's reading this, hope u take care of ur self 🤗

[@toniidowu6301]

You too angel💓

[@2Ducks.]

Thank you!💕💕

[@naynikag7792]

Thank you and same to you💕

[@dzeroprime1500]

Thank you, i'm doing my best :)

[@pennwhip]

Thanks

[@Great_WesternTVFan]

Me: *Exists* Parents: STOP SHOWING ME ATTITUDE

[@lilY-f1t]

My parents were scolding me because I was doing a thing where they tell you to tell them about yourself in online school and they thought I was being lazy. It was just hard to think of some stuff. When they saw what I put they started scolding me for “being lazy”. I’m not even sad anymore I’m just angry at this point. And I also miss my dad. Things were better when he was by my side. And I’m glad to see that people are here to support others and it’s really good to me. I’m crying right now and i hope you all have a great day.

[@shaistaaaa]

Our parents did so much for us. Sometimes they use harsh language so we can avoid commit mistakes. Forgive them, kzbin.info/aero/PL0852F983749E85B2&si=OLENqlozRZP5xZJZ

[@madwild14]

I had this private book where I wrote down my thoughts. It really helped me cope with challenging things in my life. My mum knew is was private but went into my draw looked through it so now I don’t use it and just bottle everything up inside

[@shaistaaaa]

Our parents did so much for us. Sometimes they use harsh language so we can avoid commit mistakes. Forgive them, kzbin.info/aero/PL0852F983749E85B2&si=OLENqlozRZP5xZJZ

[@anushmitapaul3963]

such parenting does affect the way a kid grows up, they subconsciously do things that make them feel they're not enough.

[@VEN_US0]

Army?

[@miraculousfan1975]

exactly....

[@nsingh681]

Isn’t this like a virus

[@PhilippineLuLu8423]

The second type best describes my parents. I think it's the boomer mentality. They be like, "how come you're just at #3 at your class? When i was on high school, I'm the Valedictorian of our class." and, "Stop meeting with those kind of friends. They will bring you down, we have better plans for you." I got nothing to do bout it.

[@Gigachad10]

Yeah bro same here I came 2nd in 11th this year and when I said my father he was like who's first.he didn't even say congrats.cant believe our lives are similar

[@qai6753]

My family always praise me if I got #1 in my class, but my mental health is decreasing and I got #3..... Now, they insult me for everything..... Sorry for my english 😣

[@nisandilinara4173]

I can relate to this...

[@xioviewergirl0415]

I graduated but my parents wasn't impressed!!! Well my dad cared for me luckly unlike my mom who muttered 'good job' they are only happy when I got 100% :'l

[@brunodacruz5402]

I can relate to this . It's almost as if it's never good enough

[@little_swan07]

Me: **has studied music since 1st grade because i want to be a musician** Dad: DOCTOR!! 😡

[@izukumidoriya7283]

Follow your dreams! Cuz it's your life not your dad's or mom's

[@GalaxiaVi]

My dad was all of those, and my mom can be a bit harsh on her words too, but she’s so much better with all this. Thankfully my parents are not gonna stay together and I’ll be with my mom.

[@witchfactor1051]

Apart from the last one everything!!! I don't know why I am crying after looking at every video !!!

[@Rosa-ip9tk]

When I was young, I already decided I have to be a good parents in the future, as I think mine is not supportive enough and giving me not enough personal space . I already dragged this video to the watch later list , hoping I will rewatch this video when I become a mom of my child . I want him/her to grow heavily without issues with parents.

[@laeticialana]

Same

[@jaaneman2993]

Both of my parents are neglectful I guess. I never knew it was a toxic thing. I always thought I was just being weak, because other children for sure have it worse. However it does hurt when you work up the courage to tell your dad your suicidal and depressed and for him to put no effort in finding a therapist/ or even checking up at all afterwards. And there’s so much passive aggressiveness and anger constantly too :0 I kinda barley know my parents and they barley know me 🥴

[@jquiet6487]

i feel like things may become worse if something is not done. have you tried talking to them? take note of their reactions and what they say

[@profanadordewaifus166]

psych2go: 5 types of toxic parents me: all of them

[@dinahnicest6525]

"What's wrong with you? How could you do something like that?" "Bad upbringing, I guess."

[@mekotan6106]

I was raised by my grandma and she was pretty much all of these but the neglect. She was way too involved in my life to be neglectful😂 But, I think these videos are great. It gives me the knowledge to know that how she treated me was wrong. And it creates great dialogue with my therapist❤

[@CelineOng]

A bit of verbal abuse and neglect from mum

[@mikey_m114]

uh oh spaghetti-o, my parents are already falling under the first one

[@vAqeii]

Type 1: They destroy your Minecraft house

[@An-dj7of]

Worse, delete your minecraft world Lmao this comment section is gold 😂

[@kchoi8144]

ANg3z0ckt worse, delete ur Minecraft server

[@xxlilionxx6538]

Worse delete minecraft

[@crystalsnow692]

Worse,they delete Minecraft and demands you to never play it again

[@rainadatkween7959]

Worse, destroy all of the devices you have Minecraft on

[@sparkIejumprope]

I love my parents and I know they love me but I hate when they say things like: -your being wayyyy to loud!!! (my voice became naturally quieter because of these remarks) -(whenever I ask my mom to leave my room she gets mad and says she doesn’t want to talk for the rest of the day. She gets so mad over me just wanting time to myself.)

[@TashNellieMcCoy]

I was in this situation myself as well. I also went through domestic violence in the home as well. I had no food, no money, old clothes etc. I went through a lot. Thank goodness I left without saying anything and that was over 3 years ago. I was living in those conditions for over 13 years (2006 - 2019). I had 6 breakups because of them. I almost had an arranged marriage to someone I didn't know. They broke me and my hubby up when we were dating. I went through heaps. I got married behind their backs without them knowing and left the house 6 weeks later for not coming back home from college. I'm living my life, I'm well and happy. A little over 3 years now, I just turned 29 not so long ago and I'm enjoying my life the way I want without any rules or restrictions.

[@ScrubbedSoul]

How did y'all know I needed this? I'm planning to send it to my parents along with another video of yours but I'm too scared to do it... They don't understand things like depression and all and so I guess I will hesitate at the last moment 🤦‍♀️

[@alexanderyap8831]

I just got finish a fight with my dad an hour ago, and here i see a recomended video about toxic parents that was uploaded 2 minutes ago? Hello? is somebody listenning?

[@alexanderyap8831]

@@Taimur_Muaz nah, its just how he doenst listen to me and doesnt care about my well being, just wants me to do well in school and stuff.

[@blahbla5027]

0:32 i can relate to this one, because i want to be an artist but they always say that i cant make money by being an artist.

[@Psych2go]

Show them by being a youtuber and doing your arts online :)

[@emerie.]

I got to art school and my mom hates me now even more than before :) Saying that im just lazy to study, i have no future... And you know what? I dont care. It was the best choice in my life, Im really happy to do something I love. Im not listening to her anymore, it never helped me a bit.

[@dariancomsa7204]

Being a succesful animator on youtube takes a lot, but you can start by being the animator like an already famous animator (Domics, for example, hired 2 animators to help him with the videos)

[@blahbla5027]

Thanks for all the replies!! Y'all are really inspiring! btw if there's anything wrong in my grammar im sorry heheh THANKS A LOT!

[@shirosua]

That’s what my mom tells me all the time

[@savetheamazingcakes3515]

You know, number 2 feels like something I can relate to. I- I hate the feeling of failing or letting them down, but I don't know why I feel so pressured about it. There aren't any ways I can detect that would make me feel so pressured, though...

[@ddeonukim6041]

everything here speaks a lot from me, i’ve been on trauma’s every since childhood(my grandparents raised me and my parents come over once). Then get abused and lots of things … for those who experience these i hope you guys can find peace 🥺

[@ives3572]

I grow up while they only get older, one day I'll be happily on my own while I leave them all alone to die alone.

[@emerie.]

Its sad but... my plans are the same, I dont need toxic people around me.

[@dariancomsa7204]

Same here. My mom is emotionally immature. I will miss my dad, he loves me but he is mostly absent emotionally. He also gave me the impression that I am not the kind of son that he wanted. He also has some bad health problems, which make me feel even more guilty that I want to leave and never come back. Still, what I will miss the most from home will be my dogs. It is so hard that only my sister know how good emotional support they are for me.

[@juliaastarina8763]

I still feel my parents are toxic even when each of them has 'graduated' from the second and fourth type.

[@royalredbird9717]

Me:*reads title. Me: Relates to all this. Also me: Well I'm having a lifetime subscription then.

[@epicvizard]

I love your voice so much. It’s so gentle, kind, loving. Even though you’re just a KZbinr, I haven’t heard a voice like that in a while. Thank you.

[@nataly1796]

My parents are the type to act all lovely towards me on public and when were home they treat me like shit:))

[@icedcoffee278]

I feel you

[@YouKnowWhosBack]

"Stop looking at your phone while eating!" Me: only does it once or twice. My mother: doesn't even shut the device down Her: because I am a parent. wtf??

[@roamingtheinternet8652]

HFHFHFFH this makes me so mad, that we're not allowed to be on our devices but they apparently can cause they're a pArEnT

[@sharulathak]

I'm an working adult now, still my mom controls whom I'm around, friends whom I spend time with

[@poojars5594]

Are u indian

[@kavishap6136]

Me: *Mom I'm depressed* Mom: *It's just a phase...and gives 5 hrs of lecture* Me: *~Even more depressed now~*

[@chongziyao7512]

Me: Proposes the idea of bringing my brother to seek mental health professional. Father/Mother: That's a waste of money, so no.

[@RoaringRecip]

Based

[@djboo7779]

So many of my friends have literally the most toxic parents. This video hit the nail on the head.

[@destinynoir2004]

That sums up everything with my mom. My mom is a toxic parent, she never liked my opinions, she never liked my dreams, never liked my dyed hair, and lastly she never liked the way I wear. Putting up and excusing her bad behavior has gone long enough I'm ready to sever ties with mom cause I don't want a relationship with her anymore nor do I want her in my life, the person I ever trust is my dad.

[@sadguy3871]

Relatable 😭😭😭 The toxicity is too much for me these days that my mental state is not good anymore

[@rianna246]

me: **never gets a perfect score in anything** me: **got everything said in the video** me: **realization**

[@blk9060]

I'm planning to leave my parents right after college. Going to a city where no on knows my name and having to live my life for the first time ever.

[@lvrlark]

When I was in kindergarten-4th grade, my mom was nice, and only scolded me. But now I’m older, and she tends to use harsh tones, and call me lazy, irresponsible, disrespectful, no help, and very occasionally call me useless. My mom is also very invasive. She will go through my phone, computer, and even room when I leave the house or leave my technology out. My dad is the only person in my household that I trust going to. I don’t tell him about my mom, as I’m scared that he will turn on me also. I have had many issues with negative behavior from my mom, and occasionally my dad, such as cuss words, harsh tones with each other, fighting about unreasonable things like dishes, and they will yell at my older sisters as well. I know that the way my parents talk to each other sometimes has made my mental health drop, as well as the constant teasing from my sisters. They are both in high school, and I’m still is Middle (Junior High) school. I’ve experienced lots of silly teasing from my sisters before, but lately it has been getting worse, they have started insulting my body, voice, height, weight, and other things. I have recently gotten stretch marks on my legs, and my older sister (middle child) laughed at them. I’m also very skinny, and I can’t help it. I’ve tried gaining weight, but I ride horses so I tend to get a lot of physical work, and burn body fat often. I also have one main thing I’m hiding from everyone. I’m Pansexual. My family is a religious family, that follows God. I’ve prayed to him, as I know he accepts me. In 6th grade, my mom was EXTREMELY invasive of all my personal belongings, such as horse stuff, technology, and room. She also makes me slightly uncomfortable as she doesn’t give me much “personal space”. I mean, not like the physical, but mental. I can constantly hear her voice in my head telling me I did something wrong. I feel no personal space with her voice always telling me I’m wrong. She can be quite controlling also. I want to see a Mental Health Doctor, but I’m worried about my parents reactions, so when schools open back up, I am going to have visits with the school counselor. I also lost my horse last year, and my mental health hasn’t been the same since, and I’ve felt sad for over a year, with maybe a month of happy days (the days added together that is) and maybe 4 months of angry days. (Added together again). I also wasn’t a panned baby, unlike my sisters, and the miscarriage my mom had before me. My mom says I’m a “Rainbow Baby” which is a term used to describe a baby successfully born after a miscarriage. Although I get a special name, it doesn’t make me feel any more special knowing I wasn’t planned. Today my sisters also called me a mistake, even though it was sarcastic, it still hurts. I’m NOT asking for any pity! If I want anything out of this comment, it’s tips on how to handle this. Not pity. I’m 13 and I am in 7th grade, and all my friends tell my I’m too young to be suffering from any mental illnesses, but that won’t stop me from sending things like this on social media to help attract any tips. Praying for anyone and everyone with a Toxic Parent, or with multiple toxic parents. Any tips on how to figure this out would be greatly appreciated

[@whyryenne1847]

I remember as a child I ran distance for my school. I used to shake and feel nauseous before every race I did for my school because I wasn’t very good at running, but when I managed to fail my parents would sit me down and criticize my abilities and tell me how lazy I was. It’s taken a lot for me to overcome that fear of running and sporting events. I’ve just recently been able to finally stop running despite years of hating it so much.

[@ayamtaken2580]

Psych2go: What type of toxic is your parents Me: YES

[@renie5575]

my parents always make me stressed..they said i am "lazy" and compared me with other kids who are the same ages as me.

[@yugixyami4ever]

Psych2Go: posts the video Me: Do I want to watch even though I already know my parents are toxic from the other videos? Me 2 second later: Yes

[@madhulikajha4682]

Thank you Psych2go for uploading these videos! Your videos are really amazing, helpful and knowledge widening.🌸

[@memandylov]

Every single one of them. It's crazy how a parent so neglectful is also so invasive. My existence only ever mattered when it affected them