5 Helpful Emotional Changes After Divorce

[@eileenpillmeier3270]

A lot of this is about folks with kids. In many cases, there are no kids involved. Strangely, thank God.

[@piotrekmajkowski5422]

You are very right to learn from the mistakes. So I will not marry anyone and I will strongly suggest my sons not to do this mistake.

[@warrens1757]

What do I do if she was cheating on me for years, I am depressed and have no help. How do I keep connected to my children if can't even connect with myself?

[@nat9931]

Embrace depression, because is part of the process. It is a all process of time to reconstruct yourself little by little, step by step. Learning to be with yourself, watching this as an opportunity to find yourself. When someone cheated on you, only shows its realistic way of being as a person... And it doesn't mean you're not valuable, simply sometimes people aren't capable to see the value of the other. Focus on your own values, recovering yourself, healing yourself. You will arrive... Forgive to be able to let go all negative feelings. And reconstruct on positive feelings, being kind with yourself. You will find the force inside your heart to reconnect with you and your children. They need you present in the present to share with you.