5 INFP Qualities That Will Completely Blow You Away

[@tomralfe5428]

I came here for validation about what a bad-ass I am.

[@raisa1501]

Same

[@nevesprite5009]

Me too🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@isabelamagalhaes1513]

yes hahshahahaha

[@yelldax995]

Same hahaha

[@justmemyselfandi3131]

Aren't we all? 😎

[@palladion_44]

When you are an infp and you try to talk but no one notices so you just stand there like 😐 I feel you guys

[@Robidu1973]

Or worse, when they start making fun of what you are saying...

[@MasterCrash123]

And then they ask "Why are you so quiet?" That REALLY pisses me off.

[@adarynk]

This happens all the goddamn time lmao. I'll contribute something to the conversation and then suddenly everyone goes quiet or just completely ignore it

[@danhanies5371]

Thats me when i tried to make my student shut up...

[@Robidu1973]

@Primavera Regatta You've absolutely nailed it. That's what I have to put up with on a regular basis (I. e. constantly).

[@676bun]

Vincent Van Gogh never worked with anybody (on his paintings), didn't follow painters who had a bunch of buyers, he didn't paint what was popular at the time and in fact was told that a 3rd grade child could paint better than him and he should just give it up and get a real job. He was an INFP and now look at where his art is!! Starry Night is Iconic.

[@venelprince6889]

Infps make great pioneers!!

[@Trasea]

Good thing he doesn't live in 2020, he'd have a hard time wearing a mask with one ear. 😬

[@venelprince6889]

who's to say he would opt for a mask in the first place, he may have believed this whole mess was over exaggerated and not as bad as they make it out to be.

[@676bun]

@@Trasea haha... he may have cut off his other ear if somebody gave him a "dislike" on facebook.

[@Robidu1973]

@@676bun Who needs Fakebook to begin with? It's just a waste of time and energy.

[@ВитаминЮ]

I - intelligent N - nurturing F - fearless P - person

[@FlagrantVagrant]

If Nobody Found Peanuts

[@palladion_44]

@@FlagrantVagrant lmao

[@andytheindividual3862]

Yeah!

[@andreaexceedsrubies]

Love this!!!!

[@sarakjeldsen769]

Yes. 🙂🙃

[@maddogg6298]

I_am confused about life N_ever finish anything F_all in love with imaginary girls P_olitle to people and rude to myself

[@sindhujasai1345]

This. THIS. oh too perfect man.

[@LukeRieder]

LMAO! to good... to true ...

[@aitanacobo]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA PLEASE 100% TRUE

[@alliarsenic]

Stop with the negativity.

[@ninver6887]

As an infp who has lost many friends to the point where I don't try anymore because I always end up getting hurt/hurting those I care about and by doing/saying what I feel is right. I honestly don't know if I'm selfish or selfless.

[@kw267]

I dont know if this may help you, but I've discovered that I am both selfish and selfless. Whatever decisions I make tends to have both. Like giving a gift or compliment to someone, it makes me feel good that they feel good about it. And I think it's okay to be selfish and selfless, not because it's what I am but that it's understandable. To empathize with others and yourself at the same time. I dont know if that helps but thought it was a cool thing to talk about :)

[@fahmidaakter1336]

@@kw267 well put

[@madhatter4129]

OH MY GOSH you're my twin ! That's legit me right now and all my friends now fake toxic cows they are they pretend to be hurt now urghh

[@andthencametherain4419]

Well same but I hv realised that we are selfish when it's wrong when their morals their believes are pressed

[@fauna2836]

This could be my story. Haven't hang out for 2 years with any "friends"

[@greendragon8566]

Hello, I am an INFJ and stopped by to see why I like INFP's so much. *nods with appreciation*

[@corygingras1030]

Hello, I’m an INFP and most of my dearest friends are INFJs and ENFJs. I love you guys too.

[@atomiccritter6492]

INFP INFJ relationships can be great si similar yet so different at the same time

[@lonettehistoria1663]

@@atomiccritter6492 so true

[@princenduati1535]

@@atomiccritter6492 it's mind blowing yet great

[@laisoliveira2504]

Hahahah I use to do this too. I'm an INFP, but I really like INFJ's.

[@Denise-rg6py]

So true, people often ask me to think quick and to give a fast solution or answer, and i really hate that. I just can't do it.

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

It takes careful consideration to formulate a well thought out response 💗

[@tamaragarrett3625]

Why I hate being put on the spot. Job interviews are tough for me. I just have a understanding of how things work but it’s hard to put into words.

[@Robidu1973]

@@tamaragarrett3625 Exactly. That's why I prefer texting to talking. The latter may work if I'm capable of anticipating the course of the conversation and get my answers ready beforehand, but once it takes an unexpected turn, that leaves me completely dumbfounded. Happens quite often to me...

[@Robidu1973]

@@CandyApples4ever Sounds like folks who have Ne or Se inferior and so have a hard time noticing things. That could easily be aggravated if that particular person has the Si-Ti loop spinning (ISFJ, anyone?). Plus since INFPs don't have a Ni- Ti loop available (except for in the shadow stack, but that has other ramifications), our line of thoughts can be derailed way too easily.

[@bobbiellison4315]

Ever been in close proximity to someone speaking on the phone? out of nowhere they hand it to you to say hello to whomever? yep you should lovingly decline then slap that fool who should know you better by now

[@SyedMohdFahad]

more power to fellow INFP's..........🌼❤️🌼

[@ST74UK]

Hear, hear! 😎

[@nemesiszer0708]

Hi

[@SyedMohdFahad]

@@nemesiszer0708 ....🌼✌🏻

[@captainhennahead2323]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@haroldjohnson6831]

😖😣😌(indeed)

[@mx1ka_t1]

question for my fellow INFPs Do you ever feel like you want to say so much but you- you can't put it in simple words so no one understands you and you're just like: yk- nvm-

[@corygingras1030]

I felt like I was some sort of misfit my whole life. I got curious and took the MBTI test a few weeks back and landed INFP. As I read the bio, it shook me with how accurate it really was. I started looking more into INFPs, and it honestly comforts me so much to finally see that there are so many other people out there who are like me, and by extension, understand me.

[@sindhujasai1345]

glad you do : )

[@JF59122]

I doubt I'm an INFP because I am kinda short tempered

[@corygingras1030]

@@JF59122 inferior Te can give some INFPs short tempers. It can often cause them to snap while under stress, especially if their values are compromised or if they already have frustrations bottled up inside

[@JF59122]

@@corygingras1030 Oh...that explains it all...thanks....

[@imdav2002]

It’s weird Bc I can be such a people pleaser afraid to make people upset but if it’s something I strongly believe in I will always stand up for it

[@Robidu1973]

INFP here. What really baffles me is the tendency of various people to miss crucial things even when they are directly under their nose. Always goes like this: I: "I wouldn't do that if I were you." Other person: "Why not?" I: "I have an extremely bad feeling about it. Trust me, this isn't going to end well!" Other person: "You are imagining things. Tell me specific evidence on what is amiss." I: . o O (#$%&?+§!&%@) # Of course I could not. After all, it has "merely" been my gut feeling. Other person: *gets screwed up* Again other person: *looks thoroughly flustered* I: . o O (Told you!) The most startling thing, I have predicted that someone would get a heart attack if he continued acting the way he did, but he dismissed it. About ten years later... BOOM! Sometimes I really hate it when my predictions are becoming true.

[@nemesiszer0708]

Same. Maybe it’s my pessimistic side talking but i always feel like I know when something will go wrong.

[@Robidu1973]

@The Lucifer You don't have to go after magic to explain this when there are non-esoteric ways to do so. The key is a correlation of your cognitive functions, especially when dominant or subdominant intuition is involved.

[@notanartist9908]

Sometimes [well actually most times, for this INFP at least] it's difficult to capture thoughts and verbally vomit it as accurately as you want it to be understood..

[@Robidu1973]

@@notanartist9908 Absolutely relatable, and things are becoming even worse when people are pressuring you to speak your mind! 😵

[@moosamihran4839]

@The Lucifer he's a wizard, harry

[@michellemiles9966]

As an INFP I spent 50 years wondering why am I not like the people around me and why doesn't anyone understand me? Within the last 5 or so years I've begun to understand that my uniqueness IS my superpower and not weakness after all.

[@meredithellen620]

An INFP myself, I just switched my major to Counseling a couple weeks ago and now feel validated and even more excited to dive into the field! 😂☺️

[@atomiccritter6492]

good luck with your decision

[@PaulaLJones]

Thank you for this video, it was exactly what I needed to watch today. We INFP's are so often talked over, underestimated, or just flat-out ignored because of our non-extroverted quirks that it can make us wonder if we have any use at all in society. It was nice to watch a video reminding INFP's that we actually have a lot to contribute!

[@Robidu1973]

The problem is, a lot of the extraverted folks cannot seem to make any sense of us and so apparently tend to be dismissive. Add that being a Feeler is oftentimes perceived as weakness, you know where that stems from. However, what people fail to notice is that INFPs can become extremely nasty if pushed too far (Ti Demon): They would proverbially be dancing with the devil.

[@PaulaLJones]

@@Robidu1973 Very true!

[@radioheadphonez]

Last week, I hated my personality. I hated myself and I hated being an Infp. I started doing shadow work last week, did you know our shadow side is estj? I began focusing on intuition and tried to use to over my feelings like an infj or am entp... the results were astounding. I recommend any infps out here to try to be more extroverted and use your intuition more! I am practicing using my inuition to guide me when I do have to make fast decisions and using inuition to feel people out while I talk to them. Any infps that think they are shy and awkward, understand that you are an NF personality type and that makes us extremely charismatic and extremely charming effortlessly (inuitively). Just get out there, face the world and do things, say stuff... you would be surprised the things that come out of your mouth when you just trust your inuition. And I also dont believe any of us are limited by our personalility type. Intuition is everything, when you focus your inuition on spatial information and sensory information you can become really good at driving (while your still focused) and etc... I honestly believe NF types and especially NT types can be any type of person we want to be because of our strong use of inuition. Next part is just learning to control your feelings... so important as an inf... we can control our feelings, we can make ourselves feel good on command and can also become completely ice cold if we have to. That makes us awesome people to cohabitate with because we are catalysts of feelings. Go around a store just feeling GOOD and try to make everyone else feel that same emotion and omg, you find some powere there I am rambling

[@radioheadphonez]

I also noticed a lot of my problems in life was just me accepting bad feelings. I had no idea how much feeling I had inside so something like shame or guilt... fear, loneliness and anger can just cripple me. Now that I can recognize these bad feelings I stop, address is and start feeling good, feeling confident, feelings secure. And then it spreads like a wildfire. Now I love my personality type. But I don't think we are locked into any unwanted behavioral patterns either

[@CartoonyPirate]

Oh no.! now I'm determined! *sigh time to socialize

[@radioheadphonez]

@@CartoonyPirate how is it going so far?

[@CartoonyPirate]

@Jay bizness As expected, I failed miserably.

[@radioheadphonez]

@@CartoonyPirate oh... I am getting away from mbti and personality stuff lately... I've since heard some great advice (from paramanahansa yogananda and the folks of srf) that everyone is unique and we ALL have the power to change out personality! Intuition is the best! I wish you the best of luck! You can do it! Whatever you are trying to do, nothing is impossible with perseverance and a higher power of some sort!

[@carefulcarpenter]

INFP: Genius Creates; Others Imitate. 🌾🐡🌿

[@mirasolmoya5270]

Yup. I remember my school days, even at work. They said I was so rich, I have my own world...😂😂😂 yet other girls copy my fashion style. I feel weird and amazed about it. Even how I care and put my hankerchief on the desk, my bags, my shoes.. it's funny. I make an impact without being loud. Cute.😺

[@carefulcarpenter]

@@mirasolmoya5270 Most live a meaningless life of copycatting the pop culture of materialism. An INFP is more original and authentic.

[@cutielilly8308]

1. This is sooo true to me. I look more onto the quality or value of a particular subject or person rather than its popularity. I like it lowkey, so I appreciate people very much when they notice it and I could never be even more flattered and satisfied.

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

I’ve always been for the underdog too. I can’t help it. It feels inauthentic otherwise

[@miriamcooper1320]

Infp here... I am an autism mom.... this explained to me why I was always able to come up with new ways to help my son learn. It was awesome to see a new concept click in my sons head.

[@Danni317]

I'm an INFP and i completely agree with everything you have said. This makes me very proud to be an INFP.😀

[@sarakjeldsen769]

Yes. ❤ Always character over popularity! I love how non-judgmental we are, too!

[@ErikAdalbertvanNagel]

Wow, you probably already know and heard a lot. But damn you're looking wonderful!

[@stevemiller887]

The infp personality type is considered " The Healer".

[@dianadias3]

I was feeling dreadful yesterday because my holidays were over and I got back to the routine, that is so exhausting, I absolutely hate house chors.. But after watching you I feel better about being an INFP :) We just need to find our small space in this world where we can be happy

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Awwwh... I’m glad to have helped in a small way. Coming back to reality can sure be difficult xxx

[@antoinettenovella1630]

Love your authenticity and calling out hypocrisy.

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Antoinette Novella cheers! That means a lot xx

[@christopherjohnson4081]

I have heard Sherlock Holmes was an INTJ, was Dr. Watson a INFP since he helped Holmes out and often gave insight that helped bring about the solutions to the clues they encountered.

[@GetYossedLol]

5:12 I paused and thought of how I would respond to the ISTJ "cool bro, do your thing" you were spot on. Keep up the great work, Lex.

[@essameddineissadi7273]

i love her, i genuinly appriciate this lady and what she's doing

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Essam Eddine Issadi thank you, that means a lot

[@itsmeoyaa]

INFPs watching this : *CRIES* thank you *CRIES* someone actually understand me *CRIES* idk with the others but i legit cry my eyes out

[@roe2012]

Infp is a wizard in world where magic not allowed to exist

[@AwinoWrites]

Okay, that bit about not being able to think about things quickly...that's relative. If it's ideas about a creative project, I'm the Flash. If it's other things, I'm a turtle.

[@aviralsinghal1274]

Looking at lex. I have hope that i can be happy too in this god forsaken world.

[@musica02]

As an INFP I really relate to this. Most people around me come to me for solutions to problems and it make me feel proud about it. And I am shy around people until I am finished processing them and registering how I feel they are as a person. Thank you for sharing this video!

[@INFP_MAN]

I'm INFP from Indonesia, i'm so in love with your accent & the truth content, keep always being like this !!

[@valzugg]

I was surprised with the quality of that meme, it felt accurate to the point that someone probably actually had that experience

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Haha probably! Life of an ISTJ

[@istp1967]

Lex reminds me of a friend I used to work with; she looks like her, talks like her and thinks about stuff for a couple of days and comes out with great solution. . I'm convinced, my froend Tracy must be an INFP . . 😁💕👍👍👍

[@sheetal5812]

Thank you Lex for making this video! I really needed to hear that. Sometimes, I only focus on the negatives of being an INFP that I completely forget about the positives.

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

When culture continues to remind us of surface value, it’s very easy to undermine yourself. You are an amazing bad*ass though!

[@Robidu1973]

@@Lexmorningstarnz "A strange game. The only winning move is not to play." -- WOPR, from the movie "Wargames" I have a feeling that making people perceive the face value of something as its intrinsic value is done on purpose. People who don't challenge anything can be controlled better and, as a direct consequence, can be fooled more easily. Have a close look. I bet that you are going to detect a lot of narcissism behind all this.

[@eleonoralydia8884]

The cheating example you gave...you have nooo idea how many fights I've gotten into because something bad had happened and I tried to see things from the other side but got misunderstood!

[@eduardoricardo94]

Thank You Lex. Thanks for continually being an advocate

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

That’s kind of you to say, thank you, I’m glad to help 🥰

[@OCViews]

“Your weaknesses don’t change your strengths” just love it that’s awesome

[@mx1ka_t1]

That thing to be able to look at the whole picture is so true for me... Like literally, once a guy told me he k*lled a man and I was like: "Wait really? No obviously I don't hate yOu idK what iS the siTuatIon... What happend?" I mean- And the way you said that's not a bad thing.. Many people don't understand that and think I think these actions are right and you should do them- nO *obviously* nOt Like Everyone lives their own lives, and If I don't know the whole story I'm not able to judge them like that

[@baseera6532]

Character over popularity 💯

[@codenamemagenta3169]

i love your voice, Lex!

[@captainhennahead2323]

I see your drum kit back there! I’m an INFP drummer too! Since age 4! It’s my Superpower!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gillb9222]

'You do you, I'll do me" is one of my favourite phrases. I have no intention of forcing my views down someone else's throat but I won't let people do it to me either. Always happy to hear another viewpoint but will have nothing to do with someone who holds views I find offensive (racism, homophobia, anything that doesn't value others).

[@JohnJohn-wc1dq]

lex i wona tell you how much i appreciate what you do,being an infp in modern world is not easy when you see everyone do many worngs and you just ask yourself why can't they see the big picture of if they hurt or offend someone that someone gona unload it frustration on someone else and cycle go on,or how peoples are addicted to negativity radios news it's like a endless cycle of evil,you tell them that but they just ignore you as if they sleeping while they awake like they work on some automatic way,and even worse that they just load their bad vibe on you i mean you try bring happiness and smile to them but there are moments you just can't have it anymore ! so you answer unkindly back,and you feel bad about it ,but you know that ultimately you gona need to move the peoples with bad vibe away from your life even if it painful,meet them outside is ok but not in your home,sigh ...sorry about it,thank you if you read it and sorry again ,it's just seems in this entire world very few peoples understand infp and this like the only place...

[@diyak2182]

'Don't underestimate yourself' This!!

[@ARMEGETRON]

INFP's sometimes find themselves saying "Eureka!" "So that's how it's done!?"

[@Ustazgay]

6:10 totally agree.. also letting people do what works for them & what they like only means they will contribute even more to a company & benefit the company more 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@Lyin92]

Thank you for this. I think we INFP don't give ourselves enough credits for our stronger traits due to being overshadowed by society and other personality types. I really enjoyed watching your videos. It inspires me to also want to help not just INFP but others to be our true best self.

[@KxNOxUTA]

Firstly: Thank you so much. I recently foun this whole teminology of "INFP" and suddenly the doors slam open and there's tons of people thinking and feeling and acting just like me. It's amazing. And it's simply fun to confirm these things and for once not only guess but actually know that I'm "normal" within our kind :'D Or to confirm that me wondering about the reasns of so manny cummunication problems going on around me and me feeling like "the normal person" amongs people struggling with bad hearing, being deaf, blindness or color blindness. To speak in pictures. Always perceiving so much and needing many years to understand that it's neither the norm nor within the concept of others as a possibility. For I constantly seem to be doing and saying "impossible" and "odd" things in "unusual" ways with that trail of "having to explain my logic, because confused ppl around are very likely to get to a very 'odd' conclusion of what I'm doing and for what possible reason"....which is often dragging at my feet. Take that wonderful example you gave. It starts at "Explain why you'd even consider looking further than the blame game and the betrayal" and I'd be like .... (°_°) "How will you move on into any direction and be OK if you don't?" and "But it'll only repeat eventually if you don't learn now, so why not....now?". (T-T) Thinking about it.........I sure had high expectations of myself back when I started to get into the world of jobs. How could I expect myself to work at the mad speed of others when even just explaining my route of decision making to superiors take a while (until we figure it's no use assuming, we just gotta talk and ask questions as situations appear). Secondly: I love your voice and language so much. It's like balm to my ears. From the content down to the wording, the "painting pictures" type of examples, the sound, the atmosphere, the connected way of communicating with your audience. Splendid! Thirdly: This goes to my collection of useful links to share with people around me who can't make sense out of me but should have a chance for basics for we're stuck with each other for a reason or another ;D

[@Dgn404]

Hey, thank you so much for making all of these videos. I am currently in turbulent times and having an understanding voice to hear can really lift my spirits when I am feeling overwhelmed by some of the evils of the world. I found out recently that a friend (no longer a friend) was being abusive towards women and had to make an about face on our friendship which resulted in threats towards me but I have been sticking to my guns while I wait for the court to address his misdeeds an I keep in contact with the girl recently involved to ensure her safety. Anyway this is of course very stressful and your videos bring me some comfort so thank you

[@levipsyturner6480]

Speaking of supporting the unpopular belief in the workplace. I lost my job because I stood up for people in a workplace where the owner of the company would threaten peoples job's on a daily basis ("if you don't do this I will fire you", "I've increased your workload by 50% and if you don't like it or say something, you can look for another job"). Everybody was miserable working for him and wouldn't do anything about it because it had became the norm. He literally worked a guy to death (through his cancer treatment). I stood up against him and ultimately lost my job because he had too much protection being the company owner but I wouldn't have done it any other way and I have no regrets. I'm now in a company where the owners appreciate their staff and people feel a lot more inclined to do extra work for them without feeling miserable. So that point really hit home with me because I now represent the workers union in my workplace to defend those that can't defend themselves

[@Psy-m7k]

I love that you speak about truths as something unique to people. It gives me hope that we can really evolve to a world where everyone is accepted because people see that everyone is unique.

[@TheHSPExperience]

Great topic! I agree 100% with your points.. I'm also INFP. :-)

[@diyak2182]

Hi Lex, fellow INFP here! I just wanted to say that I loved your video, and I was laughing along at the most relatable bits, that triggered vivid memories, throughout! Thank you for expressing some positive qualities that we have, because I come across quite a lot of negativity towards INFPs in the MBTI community. Your video put a big smile on my face this morning so thank you very much for that! I hope you have a great day :)

[@michelleduckettakabohodrum4463]

I noticed your electronic drum kit in the background! I just bought one too! I'm an INFP. You speak truth.

[@jameshumphrey9939]

always the benefit of the doubt to others to a fault

[@thebluepineapplephoenix101]

Yup

[@Celalec]

I'm so afraid to use my intuition because even though it is strong it feels so judgemental. I have been written off, ignored, and misunderstood so much that It would break my heart to find out i did that to someone else. This leads to a lot of heartache as you can imagine. What I'm trying to say is I understand.

[@cherisewiltshire5232]

All very true for me and thank you for the reminder that we really do offer a lot to the world. 👍🏾😁

[@andreaexceedsrubies]

Yes, Cherise, thank you 😊

[@CherieH223]

I'm so happy I found this video. I feel understood in a big way.

[@thewanderingpumkinhead3806]

Fellow tribesmen, have you ever felt like nothing and everything can scare you. This feeling actually coexist so peacefully inside you.

[@ElizabethSampson]

As an INFP I can relate to all of this! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge on this! Don't forget about the little guy! You are talking my language! Fighting for what you believe!

[@PurpleGold.]

I wasn’t particularly good at maths in school, in fact it was my weakest point, but somehow I was sometimes able to intuit very complex mathematical equations in exams, pulling the answers out out of the ether by power of deduction. I lost points in the exam for not showing the “correct working out”.

[@torietorreano5214]

I got a lot out of this. I didn't expect to identify with this so much, but I do. These are all aspects of myself that I like, which I think is important to take in. Because if I like something about myself it's something that I have thought about enough to kind of be able to put it on a back burner. The aspects of myself that I am still unsure of I will not make a judgment call until I have had time to process. I feel that the information here is very well given and clearly well thought out. Thank you to all the other people for being supportive of each other, no matter what your MBTI is.

[@cuhhheesecuff419]

My intuition and day dreaming is so good at prediction it scares me. I hate telling people I told you so, I just offer support. But, I will definitely say the TRUTH/RIGHT over everything. I think I don't want to work with someone so bad is because, they have a hard time understanding us. And, I'm not willing to open up what I think or my ideas. Idk I'm so complicated it confuses me, I often dream about how it feels to not be so NF. Then I hate when someone feels like I don't understand. Please believe that im overthinking everything, and using my intuition on advice that was asked of me. I'm constantly dreaming of scenarios, memories, ideas etc. I just KNOW/FEEL even if I haven't been through it. Hence why I ask for more information on whatever the issue or topics are. I don't know why but, I just know.

[@AuthorTree]

I always felt like this oddball. Was in several leadership positions because I was given and sometimes because I wanted to get there. But left those positions to pursue personal peace and calm. After lots of research on why I am doing this, I found out in my notes from my MBA that I was an INFP. At that point in time, I was like I can be anything I want to be. But that came with a cost. I was burnt-out, depressed after going through several paths. Now I am taking it seriously that INFP is a thing. It's my personality and I should use it for my own good rather than trying to fit in the social norms (Be a leader, be a go-getter, earn more money, status, show that you are a strong man). I am taking a break for a couple of months and playing the role of stay-at-home dad. My wife understands but the rest of everyone looks like I am a weirdo, who gives up on things and searching for something that doesn't exist in this world. I am searching for more meaningful, scalable work that suits my personality. I am leaning towards coaching ( life or career coaching). Any INFP in those professions? If so what are the pros and cons you saw?

[@samglazier1433]

Wow hello sister. You’ve made me realise today that I really could do with other INFPs in my life! ❤ Subscribed

[@LARAco3599]

Omg!! This is all true, I am an INFP and an artist. I have found that I am a magnet for narcissists is this normal? I was in a relationship with a narcissist, so unfortunate but he was a musician and he to put me down he would tell me that the world doesn't care what I feel and that's why I don't have any followers, and whenever I posted something he would say...you only have 12 likes, why would you post that? But you're right, we post things we believe in and don't care much about popularity.

[@ambarnani]

Im having an overwhelmed at this moment and on the hermit mode 😌

[@syedaaliyahb]

Omg!! I relate to it so much with almost all the qualities. Hope you have a nice day whoever reads this. And smile dude🙂🙃

[@theharmonyofknowledge1286]

Lex Morningstar Could you possibly make a video about how to talk to ESTJs as an INFP and how to get them to actually listen to what you have to say,instead of always being interrupted mid-sentence when you're trying to tell them what they want/need to know,what you would think they would need to know,or just simply trying to enthusiastically share something nice/fun with them? My Gran is the ESTJ (me being the INFP granddaughter),and it sometimes feels as if she just doesn't WANT to truly understand me (despite me being interested in and knowing a lot about psychology)

[@venelprince6889]

Speaking from personal experience, do not waste your time with close minded estjs. Especially an old one. They’re not interested in new lifestyles. Estjs like to stick to what they already know. They tend to see suggestions as insults, to their capabilities as a human being. Plus you would be the last person to take advice from, because your gran sees you as a immature child no matter what age you really are, hence why she rudely cuts you off mid sentence, simple because as an infp you most likely talk softly with long pauses. They fail to realize you talk softly so that you don’t drone out your heart/intuition as you speak as it is a subtle quiet whisper. And the reason you talk slowly is to deeply think of the bigger picture as you speak. Plus as an infp you probably have a baby 👶 face lol. They see you as incompetent which is their own loss.

[@venelprince6889]

The only thing you should tell your gran is “a hard head makes for a soft behind”.

[@kyle_mutti]

Venel Prince good read bro damn.

[@theharmonyofknowledge1286]

@@venelprince6889 What does that even mean? I never heard that phrase before

[@venelprince6889]

It basically means ignorance leads to suffering.

[@naturalandvalid8576]

Profoundly thankful to have found your channel today...thank you!

[@chloemarie6610]

if your an infp you may also be a natural energy healer 🥰

[@camronkimbrel639]

I'm very thankful, you share. It makes me feel good, to know the things that make me, as a INFP, different aren't flaws. Because I respect the person you talk about, and realized your talking about me 😁

[@MrMagnusEmblem]

Beautifully informative delivery on this personality type. I'm happy I listened!

[@rod2562]

Your comment about being put on the spot and when given space/time we tend to come up with "genius" solutions made my eyes wiggle. It's a good thing.

[@jameshumphrey9939]

are leaders necessary? what are they even - their purpose and our need to put people in that position : )

[@Jadedgems]

Not everyone is creative or innovative, some people are inherently “followers”. Good at taking orders but not good at forging a path

[@jameshumphrey9939]

@@Jadedgems inherent in what you say is that innovative and creative people are more valued .... no one need take orders

[@f.j.9391]

As an INFP 9w8 I kinda value both. I grew up with an ISTP so my subconcious really developed really quickly that at time I questioned my INFPness but no according to my childhood emotional & thought process memories I was definitely INFP even got an EMO phase to prove that lol (half joke). But what was different was that as an 9w8, when I was a child I would have bursts of evil agressions or thoughts & now I have that under control. I had opposing thoughts on things take for example the sensory world, i would completely value too much about people's statuses & material wealth & that will come in an intense conflict with the humblistic & charity driven nature I had. Best way I can describe it is as two different people living inside me (no this is not DID just to clear that up) one goody two shoes trying to agressivley rebel, push, & persuade people to do the right thing vs an evil entity trying to play good & the angel in situations for example. I would have people asking me what should they do if they're sick of following other people in a general situation let's say. The very caring side of me (my masochistic Fi) would say like "idk just do you if you truly feel it's going to work out then do" (clearly knowing they're attached so they'll keep that certain situation going till they get hurt that's me wishing they do till they learn their lesson) & the other side of me will say "drop them, cut them out, don't come to me if these answers are obvious please" (usually I just feel apathy towards them but trying to give them direct advice just so I could get the issue solved despite my wording because I truly do care after all) I was like that during childhood as well mostly because I was hard on myself as well & that's one of my values that I probably value the most ever since I could remember anything.

[@flutenanyidk1806]

That's my favorite thing about the combination of two people strong in Ne and Ni. Ne gives Ni more to work with and Ni tends to come up with the absolute answer. It's fun and it feels like speaking different dialects of the same language.

[@Kyanite8]

Appear out of no where 🤗 Spot on!

[@bigelectriccat1]

I'm an INFP, and I felt insulted by a social media app that matched people by compatible MBTI types. That just seemed so exclusionary to me. Why should I not give someone a chance because someone told me that their MBTI type would be incompatible to me? Sometimes, I hate being this much of an INFP.

[@normiefd673]

i took a test and im infp. i stan animated films so the first one really hit me 👁👄👁

[@sammyjoon84]

Hey Lex, Fellow kiwi and INFP-A. I resonate with many of your videos, but this one is ultimately spot on.

[@sethjg3d]

Thanks for this video 😊... we forgot ourselves sometimes 😆

[@boomboom1258]

Thank you for making this video! I feel more confident in my personality type now. ❤️

[@swadhapardesi3730]

"most ppl underestimate INFPs," me: INFPs under estimate themselves as well! 😁 or atleast till they are still young adults.

[@muqali4203]

9:08 Weird, in another channel I just said that it may be that when introverted women cheat it may because they have no idea how to get out of a relationship. It's not really a defense of the behavior, just an explanation that may hold someone back from just assuming the person is evil. It's better to believe something like this anyway, so that people learn not to take things as personal and can move on. The downside of this is that looking for reasons that people do things can make you sympathetic to abusers... which is why our category likely sees the most abuse. We understand more about the human condition and feel for those who simply "see red" when they get angry and accept it as a limitation. It's actually sad to think of an abuser living life without a meaningful relationship because without our type, they will never find it. Listening to Johnny Depp fight with his ex reminded me so much of my first ltr.

[@boskourisic7015]

Thanks Lex, these are really good points. I can relate... 👍

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Cheers for the feedback. Glad you can relate 💗

[@MambaBreezy24]

An INFP is that character in a story who is known as a lonewolf but actually have the kindest heart. Individualists yes, but can touch and heal others.

[@adonai6256]

Ohh maannn u got my attention..... i,m like a rigid man who actually has a kind and loving heart inside me ..but..i dont show it to all peoples for my own goodness...its like a defense mechanism.....

[@joshfread1081]

never been this early to a video, feel alone hahaha

[@TheMattyman1010]

Love these videos! Feels amazing learning more about yourself!

[@matthijsn559]

Did you all knew Bob Marley is said to be typed as INFP, he was super confident and really spoke truth against power! The world need us! BECOME STRONG INFP ARMY!

[@accountabilityisadmirable]

Read he beat his wife and son too. Also John lennon

[@olysiber]

You communicate so much thru your eyes - a real gift you have 🙏

[@Daeva83B]

I am not popular at all. And i start to feel i do my utmost best to keep it that way.. :p Not on purpose, it's nice to be liked. But i just can't.. my opinions, my thoughts, my actions.. make me bloody invisible at times.. Very individualistic.. lonely at times as well... But a few people appreciate me.. which is nice... can't ask for more... :p haha

[@johnhatch220]

great, ... another video that has me upset that I can only give it a thumbs up once, ... well, .. here's a couple more 👍👍

[@that__guy_5049]

One time I was at work and I told an unhappy guest a coworkers name, and I tried to explain and justify it. The truth was I just don't want to lie.

[@haihaut7]

This video is proof what a true badass Lex is :)

[@bettyboo7703]

Fantastic video that really uplifted me, they are amazing attributes to have. Feeling proud 😊👍

[@Flxwer_Sxnshine]

Fellow INFP here

[@valzugg]

12:12 oh my god you're adorable, please never stop

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Hahha I had no idea what to say in that moment 🤣💗