5 Phrases To Say/Text When He Pulls Away Or You Haven't Heard From Him (Make Him Chase You Again!)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@AdrienneEverheart]

Great video Helena

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love all the phrases and tips you shared, Adrienne! 💗

[@Tttt2345zzzzzz]

Girl, are you a capricorn? Your beauty is striking.

[@debb4598]

Yes please! Do a video for women over 40!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Debb, this video should be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@7M3LLiS7]

“Men do not always respond the way that WE believe they should.” 10000000% 🙌🏼 thank you for reiterating this.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you, Michaela! 💞

[@CM-xn3pg]

I'm in my early 40s . I met this guy online. We started chatting every day for over 3 weeks and he suggested we meet . We agreed on when and where to meet. 3 days before the date he went mute. I waited until the day before our suggested date with hopes he would text but nothing. So I just forgot about him. A week later he texted me saying he was sorry, that he had to travel and only got back. I did not respond to him because I thought it was so rude and insensitive of him not considering informing me about his "travelling " before he travelled so that I didn't have to wonder what had gone wrong.

[@margomazzeo1680]

You did the right thing!

[@lovelv1278]

He was lying . Know those men all too well! Good for you girl !!!

[@kimgordon3695]

Yup that's called ghosting & he's just using his options

[@kimgordon3695]

Smart BOUNDARY

[@natakijean-baptiste1746]

Sometimes you will never know , and we have to be ok with the 😮

[@marykathleensapp6937]

Though you are both young, a video about starting to date again after 60! Old 👵 people need love as well...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos should be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXaZfalvrLNjeK8.

[@stephaniebeatty9701]

I'd love to hear more about things with women are over 40!!

[@starlightskiestarot]

@@AdrienneEverheart Im getting this one ASAP and I think 500 ways next cause I really dont know how to communicate well .

[@traceycorry4151]

I would appreciate that also.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

And please do go read my latest blog! everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/

[@aletham.harvenph.d.7907]

Yes, please!!

[@aletham.harvenph.d.7907]

I love 💕 Helena! I love the advice! It’s just that it seems like women always have to be super “understanding” to our mental and emotional detriment. Our standards for men are so low, that as women, we’re still over functioning (having to account for insensitive and selfish behavior) just so we can have a man in our life. All young people need to be taught basic dating etiquette, so as they mature, they understand basic rules of decency, like effectively communicating their thoughts and feelings, including the need for space. Women shouldn’t have to compensate this much for men’s lack of understanding on what we need as women. *sigh*

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Aletha, I actually believe that you should never tolerate bad behavior. Your first priority should be taking care of yourself and putting your OWN heart first - so if you feel that you’re being “understanding“ to your own mental or emotional detriment, that’s a BIG clue that you’re with the wrong man (it’s also a huge attraction killer in relationships). Hope that clarifies things! My latest video on five things high-value women never do with men should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2K1qYNuba-nq5o

[@staceyannsawyers7392]

True, it's tiring.

[@joskinner1442]

100%with you

[@kar3n35]

If a man pulls away... i dont over think because theres many reasons whay they might be pulling away. But when they wanna comeback like nothing happend... im not intrested anymore. Or ill say im busy. Inconcistency for me is a turn off.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I’m happy to hear that inconsistency is a turn off for you! 💛

[@Powerskaty]

I'm almost 42. Yes please! I am liking Adrienne. I'm never married, no kids but most normal men my age have kids that throws an extra kink with time availability. That's usually not talked about in these videos. It's definitely different at 40 in multiple ways.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Katy, this video might be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@Powerskaty]

@@HelenaHartCoaching I was saying yes... I'd like to see what Adrianne says about dating over 40 since she mentioned it. I'll check this out in the meantime. Thank you.

[@deirdrearnold]

Congratulations Helena on your engagement delighted for you both ❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! 💗

[@celissewillis9399]

He did the first one over a week ago. Very open, warm conversations. It had been going really well for awhile. Then said he was going to call me back, & hasn’t since. He got distant, only responds with short & direct messages, but stalks my Facebook stories... So I decided to just not engage too much anymore. I’ve messaged him twice since right before Christmas & right after, but I won’t be initiating anymore convos. We haven’t had any fights or drama. The communication “distancing” is just odd in how it’s played out, since he’s still technically watching me on social media, but not saying anything... I did the “...😝” awhile back & it was confusing/funny to him lol

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Celisse! This video might help give you some clarity around social media: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n3e5iJ-OZ7Sfo6M

[@christinefisher3109]

You two are absolutely my favorites. I truly believe that you are both honest and sincere. No mumbo jumbo. Thank you both.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Honored to be part of your life. Thank you. 🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome, Christine! ❤️

[@ellieadams3598]

I love the idea of you guys both doing a livestream talking about specific advice for dating over 40!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Ellie, this one should be helpful in the meantime if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@joyyoussef4020]

I am 53 and have been "dating" this man for 3 years. Hebis wonderful, just frightened over the label thing. We do not live together. I live with my 91 yr old mother. The only thing I lack is security. Does a label provide that? I will have to explore what security means to me. YES, dating is hard when you are older! Would live a video on this topic

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Joy! Yes, I would get in touch with what feels good to YOU in a relationship. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKjKmXuggdN0eKM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/foPZe3iAa96ae5o.

[@andreacruz108]

I sincerely love you both. I feel like you are one of the most genuine and giving women in the field of love couching. I have practiced (when I remember 🙈) many of the advice you give and I feel like it works. I mean I helps so much to keep me centered and focus in myself and to remember that the right guy will stick and that is impossible to mess up the right thing. Thank you and my best wishes to both of you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Andrea, I’m so happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing your experience here. ❤️

[@daviddickenson1243]

Hello Andrea

[@oOannina]

Hi Helena, thank you for the great video! If you are searching for a possible next video topic I have suggestions: I found myself having troubles to actually lean back and step into feminine energy - thanks to all the videos you did I am stepping in this energy easier now. But being in the feminine energy does not only mean to lean back, it also means to appreciate what a man does, right? But, I recognized that it is not easy for me to communicate appreciation (finding the right words, gestures, etc). I think when I try to appreciate my boyfriend I rather sound like a mom appreciating her child. Or, out of the fear that I don’t appreciate enough, I can tend to appreciate too much or too „intense“ (in my view). Maybe you can show us ways or inspirations on how to appreciate a partner. I think this would be helpful to many of us 🤗😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! This is a great idea, thanks for the suggestion! The end of this video should be helpful in the meantime: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hn_KXnuce7-miJI

[@denise331]

Thank you, thank you thank you, because if I had not listen to you guys, I would have screwed up this new relationship because of my insecurities & not understanding how men are different. I really had no reason to be insecure! You both look beautiful

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad this was helpful. ❤️

[@laurac964]

It was going great and we hit the first bump of energy lost and I acted far too masculine … and it backfired. Then he came back around a year later and I was feeling more in my power and stated well I am not an escort ( because he was coming back with sexual vibes ) so you can ask me on a date and we can talk about closure or try again . I was so proud of myself and then he didn’t ask me on a date in the time I thought he should … two weeks. So I booped his nose with a friendly text … he send back more I am with friends … so I spun out and was like okay I am seeing someone new but wanted to see how you are …: not proud ( and not seeing anyone 😂) but it was like nah dog wrong answer

[@GoodThingsEtc]

Two weeks into online dating, he has not video chat or made a coffee date. Today he told me he would video chat later and it’s now 10 pm and nothing! I have done nothing and refrained from email or message him! Perfect timing as I am so disappointed! I wrote a letter in word to let off steam ! . In the letter I phrased 2questions . 1.Ask yourself this question do you make mum, daughter, friend and work a priority? If you answer yes to all the above then I am not the woman for you! 2. If you tried 3 times to make plans with me three times, and I never showed up, how would this make you feel? Should I send this after a few days? His excuse tomorrow will be he fell asleep or he got busy! Omg I’m so not an an option!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If he’s flaked three times I would simply drop him and move on - he’s showing you very clearly that this isn’t a priority to him and there’s no need to continue putting any energy into this at all, in my opinion. 💜

[@LivingTithe]

Love your program. For real self confidence we need to put God first. No sex before marriage

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💜

[@happiness6488]

What about the early stages of dating? like if he pulls away after first 2 or 3 dates and we like each other?

[@absolutely101]

Thank you! I love seeing the sisterly love between you two! So regarding the man completely disengaging before commitment: He is 47 and I'm..yeah..65. he came after me. 6 weeks in I kinda had a mini breakdown, a convergence of personal events in October and finding out his opposite political views made me very scared. He tried to listen but just blew up and walked out and called me ignorant. I didn't allow name calling and he apologized but still was angry and pulled away for almost 3 weeks. We were friendly but really never got back to romance. More difficult is he has life goals and works till he drops leaving no energy to devote to himself or us so we gave up. He's already coming back around, curious and missing my company. He would have to make major changes for any relationship to work. How do I handle it/ enforce my boundaries if he starts working his way back in? I need like a whole course book lecture etc on handling boundaries. I love this man very much.

[@absolutely101]

@@selfhealersdiary Thank you so much! I made and allowed a little warm contact after Christmas (he brought me a small present) and I will on new years to my small 2 hour gathering if he's around. I am being warm and not shutting him out for the holidays, I think that would be a mistake. But I am going about my own path and counseling /healing... No idea what he is going to do for himself, if anything. I just gotta let that go unless he makes a romantic move, then I gotta figure out how to handle that. Right now... Focus forward! Without attaching him to what I want... Well said, thanks!!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree! This video on boundaries should also be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZi3i3SAj9NkhKs

[@Forest__Dream]

For me, it's not necessarily the age gap bc anything can work out. It's the fact that you said 6 weeks, and you also say you loved him a lot. He may feel that energy, and it can scare him off since it was so still so early.

[@chrisbigarani1691]

I'd love to watch a video on this topic (for women over 40)!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Please go read my blog about walking away and posted above. You’ll want Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! This video should also be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@georgeeruiz536]

I'm over 40 & I agree that the game has a little bit more challenges! I would love videos or topics specific to us women over 40. 💖💗

[@chrisbigarani1691]

@@georgeeruiz536 Yes, I'd like to know, for instance, why we have to totally walk away and go no contact in order to see if the man is coming back around. Can't we create boundaries with men, and still be in limited contact with them? Idk.

[@georgeeruiz536]

@@chrisbigarani1691 😏😒😩😩😩 I know!! So many questions!!

[@marthanorrell3867]

Yes, over 40 will be great! I am divorced and relearning what to do when dating...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Martha, these videos might be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZm9kH2Vj89sgJI.

[@alayahilliard]

I love when you two lovely women are together. Your energy is amazing! Congratulations on your engagement, Helena.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you 🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Alaya! ❤️

[@amalmaroufghneim5758]

Congratulations to you Helena for your engagement. Delighted for you both.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Amal! 💕

[@marycosio9295]

Love you ladies and thank you for your incredible advice that we never had while growing up and beginning to date and needed so much!!! This advice could have saved me a lot of time and even my marriage which ended a year and a half ago 😞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome, Mary! ❤️

[@aletham.harvenph.d.7907]

Remember... it still takes two to make a relationship work. Your partner has to show effort too and make appropriate changes. :) It’s not all you!

[@alayla3281]

How do you know if he is pulling away for himself or because he has another woman someplace? Seems there are a LOT of men who have more than one woman they see. A friend had an investigator check and the man lived with another woman afterseeing her for months

[@brighteyes4me]

I'm interested in the over 40 tips. I'm recently single for the second time in my life and the first was at 36 and second at 46

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I suggest my blog: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/ and i suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! This video should also be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@amac9766]

Needed this. Thank you so much. Especially the part about having a good trip and then experiencing distance. I'm experiencing this now. What about if the trip was to meet his family over the holidays? It went well, but I was anxious and in my masculine almost the whole time. I'm nervous that my masculine drove him away or that he realized he doesn't want to be serious.

[@amac9766]

(big fan of both of your work btw! I have 500 ways and FEMM!)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Amanda! These videos should be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qH-zg5iwhtCZe5I and kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJPXp56qf7usb8U.

[@Peacepeacelovelove]

Absolutely amazing advice🙏🏾. I’ve been dating and have never felt so confident. I’m over 40 would love a vid on that!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Jennifer! These videos should be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZm9kH2Vj89sgJI.

[@Peacepeacelovelove]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you❤️

[@batraworldwide720]

Congratulations Helena!!!! So happy for you ! Great video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Sonia! ❤️

[@carolynadams53]

Wow I love the way you put the apology and how to proceed and make things right

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you, Carolyn! 💕

[@NRenee111]

I deleted his number when he decided to text me again after my two attempts at a text and a ignored phone call; My response was "Not to be rude but who is this?" I knew exactly who it was but after trying to play in my face you are now a stranger once again. who has time for these games. Communicate or Go away.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Nicolette! 💜

[@Fiiii4567]

Hart to Heart (ever) You two ladies are pure joy and love. 💕💞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you so much! 💖

[@charismaw1040]

I’ve recently reconnected with someone I dated last year. We ultimately fell out because I didn’t want to meet his family. I wasn’t ready. I’ve noticed a shift in the dynamic. I’m initiating contact. He’ll reply and flirt, but it’s like it’s all on me now. He picked me up last week when I was stranded. He seemed more than happy to help, but the mixed signals are really confusing me. I feel like I’m being punished for not meeting his family.

[@dedeejohnson1111]

Yes, would love to have a advise video for those over 40!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos should be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oXzGp52Fn9iia6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo.

[@amnajaved6894]

Hey Helena First of all congratulations. Second... Can you cover when the woman is sort of busy and working and maybe pulling away emotionally to take a mental break and how to confront the partner without scaring them away?

[@amnajaved6894]

@@selfhealersdiary thanks for the reply. I mean there are days women too feel overwhelmed and just want a day or two off from their partners

[@Maestramil]

I reconnected with a high school crush ,we are both divorced , we live 4 hours away, the thing is that he works to much, tomorrow is our first date, and instead of him taking the day of or taking a half day, I would have to meet him after work, I d you I would have to drive 2 hours and him the same to meet in the middle, so we would just have a few hours , he used to call me text everyday and now he is not so much, and when I give up and call him at night he is about to go to sleep

[@DC-if9sv]

Yes to a video on men over 40

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@socialite8218]

Congratulations @HelenaHart 💍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! ❤️

[@Thegardenersclog]

How do you end up living with a guy who pulls away after spending a weekend with them or a week with them? When do they grow out of that?

[@MultiViejitas]

men don't grow... this is the lesson we need to learn

[@tnt4648]

Thank you so much!!! This is really going to help me going into a new relationship. We are seniors. 😍🥰❣

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful! 💗

[@IsabellasQuickRecipes]

What beauties these ladies are!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Isabella! 💖

[@laibamaqsood9613]

I love this video, it's so helpful... I have a question, how can we give a call to our guy any time when we love to talk to them in a feminine way? Please Helena make a video about this topic. I really need to know. Love from Pakistan 😘❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree! Here’s a link to the video on how to initiate while staying in your feminine energy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b5rFq5JsYtBqd8U

[@laibamaqsood9613]

Thank u soo much for mentioning that video I'm watching 😜..... ❤️❤️

[@sadrakarugendo2544]

Congrats helena, one day it will be me. I still have hope in marriage.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Sadra! Yes, absolutely! 💗

[@Kirstenlovestravel]

Would love a video specifically on over 40’s

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@lisebujold7865]

So nice to get you both in the same time ! Very good video. How do you manage quantum dating , because sometimes it's hard to give attention even to one man. And i know them from the same place , so it happens sometimes they are there all together and it makes me in a delicate situation lol 💓 Have happy holidays both of you xx

[@lisebujold7865]

@@selfhealersdiary you mean if dating differents places would be less conflictuel ?

[@komalchaudhari2046]

We as females have a tendency to follow men when we see certain responses from them, but once u realise, it is more about to satisfy their ego, and the connection was just physical attraction, putting an effort seems to be worthless..

[@AdrienneEverheart]

A man who desires commitment will invest in you, but be careful you're not too much up in your head. Relax in your body, enjoy your time with the man and let things unfold.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Here’s my blog if you Misses it: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/ I talk about exactly what you are referencing here!!

[@lorareffett370]

When they're older, They pull away & take a Lil longer to come back in their masculine energy!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Yes, men get comfortable on their own. This is why you want him to feel his life is much better having you in it. He has to miss you and feel inspired to claim and care for you. diamondgirl.me/femm

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Oh and my blog: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/

[@rowboatwilly2541]

That’s a dismissive avoidant, run away. Soooo somehow emotional maturity goes down as we get older??

[@joliemiranda5685]

This is indeed phenomenal! Love this!!!!! 💖👍 Helena is truly glowing!!! Happy for you for your engagement beautiful!!!!.. Really wish you a beautiful wedding ceremony also, my dearest coach Helena 🤗😘😘

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Jolie Miranda! ❤️

[@cindyriehm7411]

Thank you. For the advice. In the beginning I was told that he answers when he can. Okgot it... so I ride out those times given this training of sorts. I was also m told I needed my own things to do. Got it ok. I dont always like this but I was warned. Sure they need to recharge. Catch up on works , chores. I didnt know I w the testosterone levels! That's good to know!

[@刘婷-f3z]

Date 8 months exclusively, still feel no commitment, every time I ask or talk, he will be so defensive and angry. I have tried walking away a few times, but he will come back even I ask him not to contact me. But still things get back to normal, he only wants to meet me when he feels like it, and I am too available I know, I just want to see him more, but he can’t tolerate more than twice a week, sometimes less. I have pushed him too much previously, my decision now is to step back and no initiate contact from me, he will contact me every day, but why he wouldn’t want to spend time with me even he is free by himself

[@SashaSamara]

I have been dating for three years, and we meet about once o month, since it takes 6 hours to drive. So when we meet , its 2-3 days together. 2 times a week would be heaven to me. Maybe he needs time for himself if his job takes lot of energy ?

[@latashalewis873]

I would drop this seems toxic.

[@themeshandale]

Great video, yes please enlighten the over 40 ladies!!!!!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! This video should be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@kimgordon3695]

Ps . I've watched you so long & find your engagement to Tom perfect

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Kim! We got married a few weeks ago! 💞

[@Amalhirad320]

two beautiful coaches thanks for you giving nice idea

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Happy to help! It's good to put yourself in these situations to see what you'd say or do. It's good practice!

[@ellielopez4410]

I love both of you together 💛 Thanks for all the good advice. Yes!! On the new video on women over 40🥰🎁

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Ellie! This one should be helpful in the meantime if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@ellielopez4410]

Thank you so much Helena. Congratulations on your engagement 💍!!! Have a happy, blessed & Prosperous new yr 😊❤✨

[@GabrielaCondrea]

I appreciate both of your advice so much! Question about asking questions of a guy while texting/in person... If he says hi or asks how I'm doing, I answer with a feeling statement, and then is it masculine energy to ask "how are you?" I was raised that that is the polite thing to do, but what do you advise?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree! It’s all about where you’re coming from - if you aren’t attached to the outcome or the result, you can do anything! 💕

[@Chosen302]

My guy was strong and amazing for 2 weeks then freaked out and said he is in his head And now for the past 3 weeks he just checks in and says he is in his head and that he will talk to me soon” He has said this 3 times but nothing. I don’t know what to do

[@kimgordon3695]

15:00 it's A BOUNDARY

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! 💞

[@teenafrench7236]

Awesome Helena 🤩...and Adriana is right...you are extremely beautiful 😘

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you so much! 💖

[@TKL314]

I’ve been talking to this guy online for the past couple weeks. The first week he seem very initiative and messages me everyday, but this week I’ve yet heard from him for a day until I message him to check on how’s his day. I don’t want to wait on a guy but I also don’t want to assume he’s not interested because I want to move forward into meeting up. I’m wondering if this convo is just getting dry?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I always say it’s not “real” until you’ve actually met in person and things are moving forward, so I wouldn’t give this situation any weight in your mind at all until that happens. You can always let him know that you’re interested in talking on the phone or meeting up sometime, and I wouldn’t continue to be his “text buddy” after that. If he doesn’t move things forward, he’s showing you that he’s a time-waster and it’s good to know that right away! This video should give you some ideas on what you can say when you’re ready to do that (and make sure you’re keeping your energy open to other men in the meantime!): kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5XZo3SHhL9obMk

[@TKL314]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@TKL314 You’re welcome! 💕

[@amandasheridan7380]

I'm in my mid 50s , are there any tips for this age group?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Absolutely, and this video might be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo

[@araviaje625]

Thank you so much for these helpful advise. My bf is does not communicate much, he’s more of a doer than talker, however, if I don’t initiate the convo, I wouldn’t hear from hear as well. He works in a ship and comes back every 3-4 weeks. he told me he’s coming back last week, asked me about my plans and i asked him back, he said ‘no plans babe’ , i tried to suggest him a welcome dinner, then he said ‘we will see about that as im stuck with payment for my house’, i just said ok no pressure, I’ll let u settle yourself first. He said ok babe, I didn’t reply after that and it’s been 1 week and he hasn’t updated me whether he’s back or not nor check up on me. I don’t know if I should reach out again or let him be and wait for him to msg me. So confused really 😭 We used to meet whenever he comes back from the ship but last week, he just told me he’s coming back but didn’t really do any plans nor ask to see me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Ara! 💕

[@FEMSuccessCircle]

Hi ladies, I love these collaborations

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Charise, I’m glad you like them! Here’s the latest livestream I did with Adrienne if you haven’t seen it yet and want to check it out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2mkhp-Fmcmearc

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you. Keep on watching.

[@melanieholstra4397]

Where are we meeting all these guys?? I can't seem to meet anyone. Also, The over 40, men leave and come back to commit thing would be amazing!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’ll keep that in mind for future video topics! These ones might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqO1pXmsocifmqc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nmK2epulqqZ8fpI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnOlZJWudsRpeac.

[@mieshacanb6967]

YES DO A VID FOR OVER 40!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Miesha, these videos should be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oXzGp52Fn9iia6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqe6dIebj6mmjpo.

[@mieshacanb6967]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you sooo much!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@EmmaBrookeMusic]

Yaaas Helena show us that rock hunni 😍

[@happiness6488]

thanks for the video, you both are amazing ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Thank you, your feedback means a lot to us.

[@cheetahcat3940]

If he can't apologize when doing something wrong he's not worth holding onto.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, thanks for sharing! 💕

[@wholeheartedlyjaninarene]

Hi! I'm looking in the description box for the link Adrienne mentioned for the blog on why walking away works, and not seeing it, specifically. Could you please help me know which link it is, if it's not listed in the title? Thank you so much!! Helena and Adrienne you are both helping me to transform my life!!! 🙌🔥❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Janina! It’s the fourth link in the description of this video. 💝 I also just recorded a new podcast episode with Adrienne that should be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/7n13FZV2zzz9xrCOvN0HEe?si=qYDARsRtTXGvw9jrc19HTQ …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000540171948

[@anaposo]

This is an awesome video!! Quick question: my non committal guy and I got into a fight because I was clingy and I told him we're not talking for 2 weeks. Yesterday was the end of the two weeks but he hasn't said anything? Should I wait for him to text me or should I contact him since the 2 weeks have passed?

[@lovepositivity2632]

Move on girl don't waste your time I wasted three years obsessing over a guy finally now I've moved on now I no longer entertain men who are unworthy of my time

[@sweetvonbettie1]

Sorry babe i hope u moved on but if it worked out kudos!

[@starlightskiestarot]

U both are such lovely women...thank you!!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@kaoshi_kutie]

Absolutely adore both of you ladies!! 😍🥰❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you so much! 💗

[@ferA729]

Helena, I agree with everything you both say but when is it not too soon or not too late to bring up this conversation ...? What if we just let things unfold organically without pressuring anyone... what are your thoughts on this ? 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

That’s always a good option, in my opinion! Every situation and relationship is different, so we encourage women to get in touch with and follow their intuition in terms of the timing. 💗

[@carissakelly1058]

Excellent all true. I had to walk as well. I felt my value dramatically increase

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Carissa! 💗

[@reemshaleem]

After you've apologized, any tips on how to gain their trust again if you had done something wrong? (Not cheating)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Reem, I’ll keep this in mind for future video topics! Thanks for the great suggestion. 💕

[@lottienielsen5060]

Congrats Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Lottie! ❤️

[@rachelcoloradomy3kidz778]

Over 40 divorced both woman and the man with kids and both married for many years... Didn't mean to find this attraction and she's ready he is but pulls away and puts himself down to get her to not persue him in some conversations? What's the psychology for this on the man's end?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It could be a number of things - this video might help give you some clarity: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKjKmXuggdN0eKM

[@Coolkatzetier]

What to say if your ex is disrespectful towards you when he initiates contact or trying to make you jealous?

[@seonona]

I so needed this weeks ago. But thankyou.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@kimgordon3695]

Thank you for explaining terms 😂 9:54

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💛

[@katey624]

What if he had said “we’ve become soo “close”…. And I asked to see him the next day….and he ignored me….and then kept ignoring me….and then that frustrated tf out of me and I couldn’t figure out why he didn’t respond to me asking if he was okay the day after….and 4 days went by and all he did was send me a TikTok about a girl blowing up a guys phone….I don’t understand this….because I didn’t blow up his phone…ughhh never mind no one’s gonna respond on here but I’m literally so confused

[@user-gv7qs8lp5t]

I hope things are okay now sis but honestly sounds like you deserve better than him and his mixed signals..

[@sweetvonbettie1]

Help! So been talking to a fella for month half had r date ..he is crazy about me,,saying that im am amazing person, so genuine, n raw n beautiful and feels very sexual towards me n i told him that i wana get to know him more, before all that and he is totally all for it plus told him i have a hardtime trusting fellas, so he may have to prove me wrong haha challenge is always good..and he is willing to wait till im ready.. had a few convos after that very flirty n good n suddenly this monday nothing no txt , tuesday sent a quick voice msg saying hope he doing well n im folding my clothes n saw the shirt i wore on our date n it reminds me of him, said a lil joke on the side lol it was humorous , cute , feminine n hope to hear from him n bye , he msg back wit in a few hrs cus he works a lot, n said lol called me ace cus that was our inside joke , amd said he doing good. I replied oh thats great hear. N thats that ..no txt after that n he moved to just replying to my stories n snap..we were flirty n great convo.,.after that no txt at all is been almost 3 days..no txt he has since posted stories, check my posts, i even stopped posting for 2 days just so he can wonder where am i lol i posted one today n sure enough he looked. Should i send the ...😊? @adrienn @helena

[@kayuhfainweh8716]

Hello Helena just found your channel and is really helping me .... Please i need your help am in a committed relationship for over a year now and my guy just traveled like two months ago, we have been doing well but i just noticed he began to pull away like two weeks ago after we had a querrel on the basis of assurance in the relationship, he less text or call me or even express his feelings like before. I tried talking with him he says there is no problem but he is actually pulling away what can i do?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Sandra, these videos should be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHbOq2CFiLt3mNE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYe1gqOdiMmgmNE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bKOQoH5rZ56em9U, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJXPe3iMibSgasU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/bpavkGmspb2em7s.

[@bezzerbear]

Adrienne where is your sweater frommmmmm

[@deirdrearnold]

Thanks Ladies love you both 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Deirdre! ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

We appreciate it!

[@sourgummiez]

My favorite 2!!!!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thanks Courtney! ❤️

[@samanthaclark1547]

We are very close and its an LDR. His grandfather passed away last week and he cant get back home. I never received a good morning text and i havent heard from him today. We are in contact every dsy. I texted him and he said he was ok but was out. I think he is trying to cope with the death in his family. Do i not msg again and when he does reach out, what do I say in return.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqPQpqagoK1gopI

[@TanyaP822]

Thank u HH..I APPRECIATE THIS.❤🙏👏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, LaTanya! 💗

[@Valentinovixen]

My dude comes over on Saturday , stays all day Sunday and then leaves - and doesn’t reach out for a few days . He’s so up and down it’s different every week. I don’t know if I’m on his Saturday rotation or this is his flow 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@christinegerard4974]

Take care to be respected and not …used !

[@Valentinovixen]

@@danilaroche1156 this is last year. And been over

[@kimgordon3695]

Helena & Adrienne 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Kim, thanks for watching! 💕

[@RommanysWorld]

Helena, thank you for all your videos. 🤗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗

[@bernicebartolo7766]

How do you react to the guy that just said he wants to be with you than doesn’t initiate any message nor want to message you? I know the best is to ghost back, but the words he told me make me mad because they were all lies. I feel like messaging what I think, but I know he doesn’t care and I guess I just need to let it go, however much it hurts .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’d watch his ACTIONS, as that will usually tell you everything you need to know about his intentions and interest level. If he’s not showing you that he’s serious about moving things forward, I would move on. 💜

[@9Dreamz13]

If he says goodbye, and says he can't proceed with you, is there any chance of him coming back? I could see it going both ways.

[@9Dreamz13]

Let me add that we were in the "talking" stage, and everything was going great. It looked like it was going somewhere. he disappeared after seeing me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If a man disappears that early in the dating process and flat-out tells you that he can’t proceed with you, I would BELIEVE him and move on. 🧡

[@Sugarlips321]

Nice advice ladies but i think if you have to ask...🙄

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Susan! Every man and situation is different and there’s no “one-size-fits-all“ advice, but hopefully this gave some ideas for women who are with a good guy who’s not quite sure how to handle certain situations. Like Adrienne said in the video, “If you’re always expecting perfection in a relationship, prepare for disappointment!” 💕

[@AdrienneEverheart]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Good answer and so true. It's always up to the individual and giving things another try doesn't hurt a thing, :-)

[@SashaSamara]

I dated for 7 months, and then I thought he was proposing. He sad he likes to cook with me and eat and watch tv,like a family life that he always wanted. So I thought he was just shy , so I wanted to help him a bit, and asked if I had a chance with him ? He freaked out and said no, and that he never flirted with me ! I cried, he was nervous. Then he calmed down and said that he had been so worried I would loose interest. Long story, 2,5 years later we are still dating, no proposal so far, but we are closer to each other and talks about everything and he looks so loving, I can see it in his eyes. He's got asperger.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. This video I recorded with Adrienne might be helpful for you going forward: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJmkY3SLe5WBmac

[@estherJ67]

How do you mean, He has to walk away before he can come back after 40??

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree! The link to Adrienne‘s blog post on that topic is in the description of this video, too. 💜

[@Lola.Arzila]

Las amo‼️ I love both of you 💕✨

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

We love you too! 💞

[@MissyASTB]

Hopped on so fast!!! Was about to text himmmmm

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hope the video helps! 💕

[@MissyASTB]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@MissyASTB You’re welcome! 💜

[@MissyASTB]

@@HelenaHartCoaching also congratulations on your engagement 💕💕💕💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@MissyASTB Aww thank you so much! 💞

[@tinaorozco7103]

I did the ...🙂? Text and he text back right away.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Awesome Tina, thanks for sharing! 💕

[@kimgordon3695]

24:00 call them IN

[@kimgordon3695]

key principle of DIVINE FEMININE

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, thanks for sharing! 💕