3 Things That Make A Man Chase You Again (Even If You Acted Needy Or Pushed Him Away)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@deepikabali9199]

I truly agree, Alex had literally changed my perspective over myself and make my values and standards raised in my own eyes again that too higher... He's really an angel on Earth! Thank you so much 🥰❤️💕 for collaborating with him Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! 💖

[@kelliem2506]

Thank you for this generous offer, hopefully it’s still available 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Kellie, yes - it’s still available! 💝

[@alenastewart9883]

Thank you Alex! 🤗 Please see my comment below, I would love some advice from you both.

[@janerodriguez2403]

Ladies, work on self-love and know your self-worth!!! Don’t worry about the man. Work on being a better woman for the right man.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here Jane, thanks for sharing your insights! 💗

[@lisawentworth6831]

That's a good point!

[@chonalyn298]

Been dating a guy for more than 2 months we see each other often bec we lived nieghborhood... At fist he told me he don't hve time to meet n go for date bec he worked too much I saw him everytime passing by go to his worked an going bck home... I invest feling to him already but he nver tell me what is our status yet btw I meet him online dating.... He pass to me his apartment key sometimes I go there waiting for him talked a hit then I go bck home... But suddenly I touch his phone and I saw he installed few dating apps In that time my trust to him suddenly become I dnt know... Then frnds of mind saw him recently active in Tinder... I dnt know our status so I dnt know if I have the right to confront him or I will just move on and do the no contact rule... Pls give me advice

[@blissreframed1681]

I love what you said!

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@chonalyn298 It's a bit hard to understand with all the typos/language and pieces of info missing...like is he just someone passing your flat that you casually used to date? The answer is simple...he has already blown you off and has other dating apps...that should be fairly apparent that he is not that into you. It seems like you have transfixed a relationship on him and have feelings [again, we don't know if you date or just hook up or perhaps just chat on the street...we don't know the level of commitment here]. But clearly, he is not that interested...you don't really have the right to confront him and the fact you are checking his phone says you already know not to trust him...sorry, just trying to save you more time and pain!

[@moraim6204]

1. Be distant, pull away and let him come back to you. Don’t contact him. 2. Show him that your life is better than his life. 3. Enjoy every moment with him, but without sex. Treat him like a brand new man, let him pursue you. Don’t sleep with him straight away. Don’t be needy!

[@kugelblitz65]

Yes! I will try it 😊

[@aferg76]

Thank you. The no contact is hard.

[@kugelblitz65]

@@aferg76 but the best thing ❤️

[@yasminyahaya7963]

Thank you very much for your candid advice,May God Bless you more.

[@savannahlibardi5163]

Show him that your life is better than his! I like that. Just don’t you think that that’s all they want someone who will help them look or feel better like it’s all about their benefit? Trust me I want my life better than his ha, just seems selfish to me if that’s what they are looking for. Hummm🤔

[@auntielisalisabopeepsa]

I’m exhausted 😞 I don’t remember a time more than this, how difficult finding true love is. It used to be so simple

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Me, too.

[@mailbericht5718]

Please do try something!!! Say "Finding true love is easy" "The person that is my soul match, is here"! I noticed that saying what you want instead of what you don't want makes a huge difference! Focussing on what you don't want is like praying God (the universe) for exactly that "what you don't want". And even if you don't see it, feel it, believe it... I wish you true love!

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Mail bericht I wholeheartedly agree. I have daily “I am” statements and a clear list of what I choose for my life and for the most part, I’m living some wonderful manifestations. I slip at times as evidenced by my me too comment above. Point taken! “My joy is returning.”

[@auntielisalisabopeepsa]

Mail bericht Thank you for the advice and well wishes. Being an advanced stage 4 metastatic breast cancer patient has made many things seem difficult and unattainable, however I’m a hopeless romantic so who knows? That itself is exhausting too. Anyway I appreciate your kind words 🙏🏼🦋🌸

[@GwenMotoGirl]

Auntie LisaLisa BoPeepsa I send you well wishes. ❤️❤️🌺 I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this. I’m a hopeless romantic, too, and I want it all.

[@angelicsparkles]

So basically give him 3-4 weeks of space and when he comes back let him pursue and take your time... and be flirty. In the meantime, live a fun & full life.💕

[@kugelblitz65]

Thank you for the tip 😊

[@itsBenzie]

But what if it’s already been 4 weeks and he hasn’t made a move. I do know that he’s got ways of seeing my Instagram.

[@furahayamoyo9193]

@@itsBenzie Then give him more time, and if he doesn't come back then know that he is not the one!

[@rosirose5727]

How about if back strong after 9 days no contact and when he test that u have the desire too he pull away again, would you start no contact all over again? Or that's yet? !

[@ronniemay3776]

@@miroliubabaltiiska8774 Well said. It's a fact most 'half decent looking' men are arrogant, game playing, mind destroying children! Why should women have to dance around them and their silly games. I'd rather be single and get a big, fat, hairy loving cat TVM x

[@enemiesenemy5571]

Whoever belongs to you will meant for you. Dont force nature otherwise you fall into destructions

[@mauritahowell1415]

my late husband told me on date 1..he was going to marry me and did..no games...

[@TheRima0208]

Thank you so much. This is what I wanted to read. Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Maurita! 💞

[@janasedlakova9135]

That’s what real man does! 🙏🏻💝❤️

[@nancycastro9863]

Where do I get the book

[@ginaenvy]

Men aren't real men anymore

[@AliBanana1493]

if the guy who left me cant see my value then.. maybe he isnt someone i should want back:

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If he doesn’t see your inherent value, I agree that he isn’t someone you should want in your life.

[@pascalledouven6238]

Mango Conchile if you can see and be the value you are people will sense it and you will attract people who can see your true being and love you , they wont go away then ( so it starts with how you feel about your self )

[@resarm5007]

@@tonyjohn6120 scammer!

[@nadiayofav8]

Exactly

[@jhssmith2004]

BOOM! well said. thank you.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

1.Distant, no reaching out. 2. Focus on yourself. 3. No sex. He gets no special treatment. Dont do the same thing. Be yourself, have boundaries. If you have sex, he'll think he's got you and you were waiting for him. I'd say wait 3 months, he says 4 dates.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights and takeaways here!

[@KatErina-ii6ru]

4 dates until sex? Hahaha! My body is a temple! Try again.

[@kimberlywood7783]

​@@KatErina-ii6ru yes.

[@TheRima0208]

Men need to GROW UP and not behave like a rubber band.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Not all men act that way! I explain more in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c

[@Hollins23]

LOL! I almost spit out my water that I was drinking! This is so true. I remember first coming across this concept in the book "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus." I hated it then, and I still hate it now.

[@liana2695]

Like a rubber band...hahaa!!! 😂

[@leesteal4458]

I learned alot fron this video. The main thing for me was the point that "if you sleep with him right away, he will feel like you were waiting for him."

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful, Lee! 💜

[@leesteal4458]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you my dear Helena. You guys are doing a great job. I am here from Love Advice TV.

[@savahbejin7511]

I’ve done this distance scenario a couple of times and it works very well. The men couldn’t believe I wasn’t chasing them and in fact, had other dates. I made them chase me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 🧡

[@savahbejin7511]

Want to hear another one? When I was in college, a bunch of my girlfriends and I were having dinner out one night. This guy came over and several of the girls knew him so he sat down with us. After an hour or so, we decided to go to a party. When we get to the parking lot, this guy says to me, “Do you want to ride with me in my Porsche?” I said, “No thanks,” and merrily got in the car with my friends. Oh, he chased me big time!

[@DoMnIsOaRa2o11]

did you tell them you are going on dates with others?

[@cenonya4967]

@@dreambig7425 it does vary but one thing I've absolutely learned this past year dating...they ALWAYS ALWAYS come back!

[@pampam7886]

Do you block him on all social media??

[@shyrasingh1149]

Ladies the time you get in between while he’s pulling back that is the time you sit with yourself and see your actions. It’s a beautiful way of universe saying you’re spending more energy on other people, invest some on you. So basically it’s a good sign. I don’t believe in showing someone that I have a better life than you but actually creating a beautiful life for yourself and people around you. Be kind, be gentle and remember the thumb 👍🏻 rule- “ Men have a habit of coming back.” It is women who once leave never come back 😌 Good Luck 😉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Shyra! 💞

[@yolied2745]

Alex is right! 4 dates. After 2 dates and no sex he disappeared and I kept my power and self worth and respect!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! Yes, a man who’s truly interested in something serious with you will be willing to wait for sex and definitely won’t disappear. 💜

[@genevievevision2life150]

He will respect you when you know what you want and need as a woman even more so when you realize your own worth and set your standards. He will live up to it if he is the real deal.. awesome video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here Genevieve, thanks for sharing your insights! 💖

[@fromdoormattoflyingcarpetw407]

Amen !!!

[@roseluz1765]

We are in this together, ladies 🌹 Cheers to all the other ladies who got their sweet hearts broken. It will get better, it always does . 💕🌹❄️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, it always does! ❤️ These videos might be helpful for anyone who’s going through that right now: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnuQXpmnrbaZeZI.

[@barbageddon2842]

Thank!!! I appreciate you!!

[@SenyoritaStoic]

Thank youuu ... 💜

[@aalyyy.]

together 💖💖💖💋

[@Jess-wk5jo]

@@aalyyy. I have question for you over affairs what affair would my be . Is this What my type of affair would be texting and meeting up and holding hands and kissing and hugging and watching films without having no no no sex? what type of affair would it be? To get back at morgan 1 emotional affair 2 physical affair without no no sex 3 romantic friendship. 4 emotional and physical affair without having no sex

[@AJLove779]

I've blocked him! Distancing myself from him is quite important....he left me and I know he'll regret it.....sooner or later. It'll be tough but 2 months he'll be blocked. I can do it!!!! Things are about to take off in my life!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Angela! 💜

[@manifesting5000]

How's it going?🙂

[@AJLove779]

Hi, its going. He's calling and texting but I've decided that if he wants me he has to continue to chase me. I didn't cheat on him no matter what took place in our relationship, I never cheated. He's still with the other person. So, I have to stand on my faith in God to fix and restore our relationship of 10 plus years because I'll mess it up if I try fixing it.

[@manifesting5000]

@@AJLove779 love what you said, I do the same, leave things in God's hands without interfering😊

[@cassandragutierrez2]

That’s the spirit 😃

[@acnymbacnymb2178]

Well I guess even if I distance myself from him for more than a month and he doesn't even care if I exist.Its my cue to move on.I need to have some self respect to know when enough is enough.Even if I still think he is the one if he doesn't feel the same,It doesn't worth it right?.no matter how hard it is and how heart broken I am.Sometimes I need to up and front with the harsh truth.I know I deserve better.Even if hurt now.Eventually I will get over.If you are someone like me...We need to live our loves and be happy.Don't wait for someone who doesn't value you for who you are and How loyal you are...You deserve better.Take care of yourselves.Love yourselves more.I hope you all find happiness and clarity you are looking for❤️

[@MyLunabella1]

I know it sucks. It’s so hard to face the reality that they don’t care and never did.

[@acnymbacnymb2178]

@@MyLunabella1 Totally...It did suck but after sometimes it all fade away.It makes sense and all dots get connected.Its their loss and we need to move on.We worth more than that❤️

[@josephinemunalem7719]

Very well said!

[@tayanmodapil9463]

I feel you.. same feelings here😔💔

[@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534]

Wisdom offered to us ladies I

[@jasmineblack849]

I love this! I was really in my feelings, missing my ex. I had to break things off because I felt that he did not value me. This really helped me put things in perspective.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad it was helpful! 💗

[@jhssmith2004]

i am never sleeping with a man until i am married. if he can't respect my celibacy he will not respect me. celibacy is the new sexy for me. great content.

[@samboriboun2213]

What if hes bad in bed??

[@k.h.413]

Yes girl! Ignore the car sale arguments. U know what I mean by now. Be careful though. I waited for marriage and it turns out this is narcissist bait like no other! Be aware of love bombing! If he seems perfect he's probably your worst nightmare. I waited celibate until I was 40 and married someone I thought was amazing. He asked for my dad's number instead of mine, won us both over with his door opening, love bombing ways. We are married a year and a half now and if I want sex more than twice a year I have to beg for it and its horrible even then. Meanwhile I have to hear his stories about how amazing all his millions of lovers said he is and how im just not his type. Wtf? Why marry me then, right? I gave up my whole career, sold my houses and my cars, haven't even seen my family and literally use my savings to support us. I know he's cheating on me and I'm planning my way out, but just wanted to say, as a good Christian woman, you've got the world's biggest target painted on you. Be so careful! Much love and your decision is absolutely right! Don't let anyone ruin it! ❤🙏😇🙌

[@localola7003]

@@samboriboun2213 😂😂

[@siaitsme6800]

@@samboriboun2213 She can "teach" him to be better.... 🙂

[@cheetahcat3940]

@@siaitsme6800 nah. Good sex is more about chemistry than technique.

[@maymcneal3326]

3 to 4 weeks to not contact him is excellent. This is the time frame that no one has said to give us "needy/in love" time. Also that he reassures us its an international time frame of all men

[@shervoncoleman6956]

Do you respond to his texts and calls or completely ignore him?

[@Namrata766]

​@@shervoncoleman6956You can reply but honestly speaking, anything like chit chat, hello, how are you shouldn't interest you much.. it's pretty boring.. when my ex texted me after a month I simply requested him to never text me again.

[@AmatielleSilva]

I am attracting my soulmate. I have no room for error. I will love him with the best and highest love I have been blessed to give him, and he will earn it proudly.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Love it, thanks for sharing! 💞

[@elopez198725]

Helena truly deserves over 100k subs from all of the amazing perspectives and her over delivery of content!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you, Emma! ❤️

[@helgacobian1915]

I like that: "he'll think you're waiting for him"

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@kerryhill9247]

I met a guy that I’m interested in, and I did all the wrong things. He’s backed off, a lot. I sabotaged it before it even started. I’m trying to live in the present and not overthink everything. He probably thinks I’m crazy now.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here Kerry, I know many women can relate. This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6vUgIl5eZytqq8

[@chrissy8386]

I was needy. Now my ex randomly messages me things to do with where I live. I just play it cool. I show on social media that I’m getting on with things, and getting into fitness. 😜

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💖

[@audreyorgnon7112]

Hi French fellow countryman ;) as I'm French as well. Such a cool channel you have here Helena, so glad to have found all this precious material 👌🏼

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️ Feel free to follow my podcast too, as I’ve officially moved over there. It’s available for free on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3 …and on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

[@deepikabali9199]

I truly agree, Alex had literally changed my perspective over myself and make my values and standards raised in my own eyes again that too higher... He's really an angel on Earth! Thank you so much 🥰❤️💕 for collaborating with him Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! 💗

[@rabitoclinic5199]

How did you do it! Can you help me

[@rabitoclinic5199]

How did you do it! Can you help me

[@vanessagrant564]

These two are experts ....distancing is so important and sexual repression oh gosh that's hard but worth it...no real dates during lockdown .....this is hard but flirting is easy....great advice .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Vanessa, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕

[@tussaneeloving2613]

Spot on ladies! This is my story. It works! And if it doesnt, he was not for you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! 💜

[@annetteculbert3712]

Tomorrow morning my guy is coming over. 2 weeks ago I broke up with him . This info is genius

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Annette! These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac.

[@meryjkin5703]

Thank you Helena and Alex, i will try my best , and i know my God will help me through this, of-course i do not feel good inside now, but my Lord will help me to be strong

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@StellaChilinharova]

Treat him like a brand new man..for real!! If he forgets your effort, why should you remember it forever, tomorrow is a new day, new give new take

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@sarahvasquez7794]

Dam this Guys good! His accent just makes me feel like he’s legit

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Alex is awesome! Here are a couple more videos I recorded with him if you’d like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac.

[@stephanieg4950]

Helena, i just love how you are so open to other coaches and uplift your community. People will see your actions and admire you for that. You know that a teacher is a permanent student ;) Such a rich life! Very nice advice Monsieur Alex. Oooooo....tres bons conseils!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Stephanie! I love that! ❤️

[@jacquinewman8125]

Hi Alex and Helena. I agree with this rule to a large extent and I know it works because I've done it naturally in the passed with the same person. However I'm dealing with an avoidant personality. We have become very close, but because of his uncertainty to commit at this time has left me vulnerable and I have made some mistakes. I also became drained and tired, so I distanced myself, and him in turn has done the same to me. Now I am feeling like he is possibly pursuing other avenues, could be fear based, but my intuition hasnt been wrong before. This being said, for my sanity and peace of mind I feel like I need to act in my complete authentic self and let him know by setting my boundaries. If he cannot step up then I am happy to walk away because this uncertainty and lack of clarity is driving me insane. At least with clarity I can move on and continue to work on improving myself without obsessing on the way he feels, because the way I feel is completely valid. I would rather walk away for good

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! These videos might be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rqacnoRsotmZmbc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKjKmXuggdN0eKM.

[@jacquinewman8125]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Wow! Thank you so much absolutely brilliant. Just one thing .. how does the avoidant typically react when the anxious personality type does the distancing? Also from the 2 videos, both amazing, but I am conflicted in going through with the necessary steps Antonio has suggested against the compassion and empathy required for an avoidant personality type.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@jacquinewman8125 You’re welcome! It’s hard to say without knowing the details of your situation, since every man and relationship is different. That’s where getting a coach to navigate your unique situation can be really helpful. ❤️

[@Lelough_]

I'm in the same boat. But unfortunately they will not give us clarity because they enjoy being chased but don't want to be caught.

[@itumelengmosailane1192]

Ladies love yourself first 2ndly respect him a man is not your friend 3rdly don't treat him like a hobbo 4rdly don't make him jealous by other men he will leave you with that guy 5thly be supportive 6th when he is confused or angry do not fuel his situation 7 when he treat you like a queen don't treat him like a second best he will dump and hate you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here!

[@melanie9108]

Restart from zero. That's good thanks!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Melanie! 💕

[@kymgarcia09]

This is soo true.. I'm dating someone for almost 3 months and few wks ago he started acting cold and distant, doing push and pull games, so what I did was I told him that I'm done with the games and ignored him, and to my surprised after 3 days of no contact he started reaching out again, so of course I have to play it cool and acted like i didn't care, told him that I've been busy hanging out with friends and doin my thing. And its been a week now and I noticed that he always initiated contact and being flirtatious again just like before lol..

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@SenyoritaStoic]

Thank you for the "treat him like a brand new man."

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@danielleemch8991]

I’m not going through this but I have before a long time ago that’s amazing it totally takes the pressure off the man and we should definitely have an amazing life I think in a relationship you need space to miss each other it’s two individual people coming together I think we need to be patient with each other love is patient and kind it is respect and understanding it’s not perfect because God didn’t create us to perfect and that’s so freeing when you don’t live up to the expectation of being perfect or expect someone to be perfect

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Danielle! 💞

[@ImranKhan-tj3dr]

I need u 👧👧💞💞💞😍😍😍🌹🌹🌹💕

[@elizabethbailey950]

Fall in love with yourself. Put yourself above. Let him keep running to catch you.... it's a crazy game of love🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’ve really found that with the right person, it never feels like a “game“ at all. I agree that it’s important to love yourself and put your OWN heart first. 💜

[@lilianakeya9868]

😂😂😂😂😂👏

[@JoannCarolus]

I've been seen. Thank-you SO much for this video! I did everything wrong, because I haven't done a lot of online dating. Boundaries went out the window as we were upping the ante via text. Ugh. Too much texting, sexting, and then in person: awkward, attracted, weird. Then: gone. I'm asking the Universe that I can re-gain my boundaries, self-respect, and earn his respect. Peace

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! These videos might also be helpful going forward: kzbin.info/www/bejne/d2K1qYNuba-nq5o and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZi3i3SAj9NkhKs.

[@lorenadelrio8409]

Alex has such a cute accent 🥰

[@kelliem2506]

Much gratitude for both of you 💜 This is only my second day of watching relationship videos lol.. I’m subscribing to both of your channels! Just started “hanging out” with a guy after being single and avoiding men for 6 years.. Says he’s gonna take me out, we’ll do this and that but never follows through. It’s my own fault because I made it too easy for him, no sex though! It just felt good spending time with someone after I’d convinced myself I would never want a relationship again. He hasn’t returned my text from a week ago and I want to run over there thinking something happened to his phone, (it happened before due to his job and apparently happens often). But if he wants to find me he can figure it out, he knows the general whereabouts of where I live. I’d go see him when he wanted me to 🤦🏻‍♀️ and I’m sure I was too needy so thank you for this video as I was really struggling with how to proceed! I have so much to learn now.. thank you both for all of your help!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Kellie! These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac and kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI.

[@TropicalRambutan]

I appreciate you guys a lot 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@chefqueen6452]

Thanks Alex for the thought ☺️😍 God bless may the almighty God gives u more wisdom

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Here are a couple more videos I’ve recorded with Alex that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac and kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI.

[@findingdori6219]

Date yourself first always Meaning Always put yourself first!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

[@santosacosta1199]

I haven’t seen my guy in six weeks and we started off with sex before friendship. I’m discovering that I’m happy with or without the sex, even if it’s amazing, because I’d rather be genuine friends. Sex is a byproduct of a happy healthy relationship.

[@judyjames729]

^^[phone]___

[@santosacosta1199]

Judy James this number looks super random

[@santosacosta1199]

Aboy Loveth congratulations to you! I’m super happy for your success and diligence 🙏🏼

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

@@santosacosta1199 hi 🙋🙋 I love love u u u u so so much also .. always .. forever .. really i like you i make u u so so happy every time i am alone i am single I am also very loveing very romantic .. i need you meete sm wsit for you my queen 💑💑💑💑💑❤❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍😍😍🌹🌹🌹🙋🙋

[@santosacosta1199]

@Mayer Clothier no sweety, I don’t. Some doors are better left closed.🙏🏼

[@1disciple66]

I love this guy! Growing up I always wanted to meet a French man😍 plus he has great advise😉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Alex is awesome and gives great advice!

[@zimjun7]

Alex, this sounds so good! You commiserate with us by saying that so many of us go thru this. What "we" need is comfort and reassurance and you give it!!! We all want that time machine that enables us to go back and erase our mistakes and do it right. Especially when we were "just being ourselves." Thank you for showing us some constructive advice. The heart is a lonely hunter, indeed!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4PIhGiPms6Gnqc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqvLoIdujt-Cic0.

[@zimjun7]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you, Helena. I have seen at least one of them.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@sadiyaidriss5900]

Great reminder ! I m now a changed person. Thanks to Alex n helena

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! ❤️

[@bolotabr12]

If a man ghosted me, forget it. There’s plenty of fishes in the sea.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that - I agree! 💕

[@liyuneshyohannes]

My answer for the third question timeframe is till the wedding day

[@dinzpink44]

WOW.ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE ADVICE

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! 💕

[@Naajrasx]

My man says I give him butterflies, well I donno how but he keeps saying this all the time 😁

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@starsilvia]

THANK YOU!! It feels so aligned! The thing is that I truly feel like acting the way Alex shared with us. It has become my need to start from zero; meet outside; wait for sex ...let him to pursue me and show me I count for him. It starts from me. 💗💗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Silvia! I love what you said here - that’s so important, this has to be 100% authentic. Thanks for sharing! 💖

[@starsilvia]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Yes Helena! I guess that when we embody all the teachings they become even more powerful! This video was an eye-opening for my awareness.💖💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Absolutely! I’m happy to hear that. ❤️

[@Sugarlips321]

Love these collaborations!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! 💜 These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.infoJFn2iiTjEx0?si=2CRpQiCrSJtSqx0C, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caacsi=5uVg7v2Sp_U5D_7g and kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4PIhGiPms6Gnqcsi=NsqfL0i2duFlzZLV.

[@faviolafikir2181]

I love the energy of this video!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💙

[@Svatey]

Thank you for this amazing video guys

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4PIhGiPms6Gnqc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqvLoIdujt-Cic0.

[@TariqYasiinProd]

Why am I watching this? 😂 I haven't had a date since i don't remember 🤣

[@TariqYasiinProd]

@@juliajane284 ok Julia, I'll do that now. Thanks!

[@TariqYasiinProd]

@@juliajane284 can you dm me? I need some info.

[@sharonwanjiru9959]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jrodgers1578]

I love that he relaxes me and make me want to listen

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that, thanks for watching! 💕

[@mitzcollectfromgreatness9972]

i love you alex i've been watching your video everytime and now me and boyfriend almost 4years already...thanks for your advice and you helene you are such amazing woman..thanks for you sharing you thought and wisdom i love it...thank you i really appreciate it...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@minhtrang913]

thank you. these tips really helpful for me. Love all ur works

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ My latest video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iWS0q6SQmNl0mac

[@fioni2728]

Yes I agree with every single step ... thanks for putting this video together for us 🙏🤍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Fiona! 💝

[@Motivationmomenture]

تشکر، استاد الکس موفق باشی🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@itsBenzie]

He has decided not to speak to me. He wants to rethink things. Been 28 days now. At first, I made all the mistakes: emailing, texting etc. Now, I’m quiet. Was I born to chase someone? Can’t they for once knock on my door? I will be distant and not engage this behavior till the other person takes a few steps of their own. You can’t walk people’s steps for them ladies! Let him walk to you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos should be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYe1gqOdiMmgmNE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJXdl6OmaKZrfKc.

[@Justiceone88]

Exactly

[@krisjohn6977]

I've been distancing mine 2 months now. I hope to hear from him soon🤦‍♀️😬

[@KinkeyMinx26]

Thank you for this so needed to hear this. Came across this by accident and never watched your videos before. But will now! Truly grateful for the advice as the patterns are so true for me. X

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful for you! ❤️

[@khumalomargaret6102]

I know lv wam lenna

[@naemiuunona1038]

Watching this exactly at the right time✅ Thank you Alex for the tip, surely trying this out....

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Here are a few more videos I recorded with Alex that might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4PIhGiPms6Gnqc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac.

[@PoojaGupta-vp1dr]

My man went distant all of a sudden and i mirrored his behaviour of no contact.now he msgd me this mng all of a sudden saying he has boarded the flight to come to my city for work and would be staying in my city for 2 days. I replied him after a few hrs saying that kool and welcome to my city. He replied saying thank you dear. Now I know he wants to meet me but he hasn't come fwd to ask me if i wish to do and i know he wants me to do the same as he has done his job of informing me of his arrival. Now I'm confused and unsure if i shud ask if he wants to meet if his schedule allows him to. I'm not desperate or needy to meet but I'm wondering what to do coz at the end of the day he's a nice guy. Please guide me 🙏

[@PowerfulHelenaSpell]

There is still hope, use law of attraction in my Bio fast results

[@MichaelRutzz]

​@@PowerfulHelenaSpell thank you it help save my broken marriage

[@angelinacostanza5673]

The problem is I always fail at the waiting game, but whenever I give up on them they do come back. I just don't have any willpower, it's not that I am that needy, but I just get bored of waiting real quick.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Angelina, I actually never recommend “waiting“ for a man. It’s not a surprise that once you truly give up on them they come back, as waiting just keeps your energy on them (which can keep them at arm’s length). This video might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6iafZajiM9-atk

[@aparnabhatia5072]

@@tonyjohn6120 I am in the same situation. I was married for 20 years and now I want my ex back, still love and care for him. I have tried real hard but nothing is working.

[@aparnabhatia5072]

@@tonyjohn6120 Are u a male or female? Whose number is this? What's the person's name? How much does he charge? How did he help u get ur x back? In how many months after taking his help, were u able to get ur x back? Pls, can u share some tips?

[@aparnabhatia5072]

@@tonyjohn6120 Is this the person's WhatsApp number? How many people has he helped successfully?

[@ktetsi]

awesome coach Alex, always enjoy yo advise.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.infoJFn2iiTjEx0?feature=share, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac, kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4PIhGiPms6Gnqc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqvLoIdujt-Cic0.

[@lihwamai7127]

Alex ur great...love ur advise😍😍

[@valengracevalenzuela522]

I'm so thinkfull this vedio really help me

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hn_Kf3SciLN6Z6Msi=5hU5XcF-3wuVNaLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6vUgIl5eZytqq8si=axYMzNo9fZ5JbRGv, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=ejkbtTFuiRVxIkv8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iJXdl6OmaKZrfKcsi=83nE9vDyTaIjlcLx.

[@bethkunda5042]

You guys are great, I like your couching sessions they re working for me

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Beth, I’m happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💗

[@leahlong4879]

I love Alex and I really love when you have shorter videos Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed this, Leah! 💙

[@jonareboton8952]

This is such a great help. Thank you! 😍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Jona, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕

[@yuliacanini3482]

Love this! Great advises! Thank you so much!❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Alex might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac, kzbin.infoJFn2iiTjEx0?feature=share, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqvLoIdujt-Cic0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4PIhGiPms6Gnqc.

[@sophiazayas3481]

You guys are such great people ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you, Sophia! 💞

[@SunshineSurfsup1]

Súper helpful ...I’m in a ‘dating dance’ with a guy from another country. Alex’s perspective really fit!! I think the typical American advice of 3-4 weeks is too long doesn’t apply to all cultures, so it’s really sage advice. Thanks for introducing Alex to me. Pieces of my puzzle just clicked because of him. I’m so grateful!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful! 💝

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

Am single ❤😍

[@marlaglaser9458]

Love this reminder! Love to have the book. Thx

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Marla, you can get Alex’s book for free here: click.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/7-powerful-messages-special-offer?affiliate_id=2242878

[@cherylduisberg1444]

Am I the only one that wouldn’t want him back if he had to take 3-4 weeks to miss me? I’ve chased a lot in my time and got the guy. But it makes you wonder if he settled or was too afraid to put himself out there. I want the guy to pursue me from now on. Usually the ones that do are not my type or in a relationship. But I’m okay with being alone now so I’m not even gonna stress the solitude.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If he has to take 3-4 weeks to miss you he’s definitely not the right man for you, in my opinion! 💜

[@sunbeam9222]

LOL. I was thinking just the same. Mine has been acting distant for 4 days and I'm so very close to drop his ass already 🤣

[@kuradang3703]

Thank you so much for the advice.. Its a big help for me❤️ Watching from hongkong 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Here are a couple more videos I recorded with Alex that should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gHfRY5yfic94rpI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqfNmKqimM-Caac.

[@mubikarimjanovnabob8779]

Thank you both really truly amazing videos. Thank you Alex for the books, got them already thank you❤❤❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! 💗

[@Lauren-ds3vw]

I would be really interested to hear your thoughts together on connecting emotionally.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Lauren, we actually talked about that in this video clip: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmrQkoqEms1kl8k

[@inside_the_waiting_room]

Yes!! Helena can you please make a video solely on emotionally connecting with a man in the early stages?

[@obehieboghoye2583]

@@HelenaHartCoaching what if you stays with the guy and there no way you can create the distance.howndo we go about it

[@Tluv_1955]

I needed this advice so bad I’m gona pull back completely for awhile and be distant Thankyou

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Tanya, I’m glad this was helpful for you! 💜

[@HELLO-b1p]

My ex blocked me I did the no contact for 3 weeks and I did call him twice which I regret, I noticed he unblocked me now! Which is good but maybe he done it so I call and he can stroke his ego....and no never I’m I gona give him that chance not while my dignity is concerned 😟

[@poweidethompson7256]

This is so relatable

[@poweidethompson7256]

Felt so good today, didn’t talk to the guy I like throughout today, he reached out first

[@bathrobespiritual]

Hi I’m giving a guy I pushed away bc he’s talking to other girls space but never said sorry for how I confronted him. It’s been 3 days should I say something?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If he’s talking to other girls, personally I’d just keep moving forward with your life. That being said, this episode might be helpful if you do want to say something: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrM …and I’d also recommend checking out this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs.

[@PowerfulHelenaSpell]

There is still hope , use the law of attraction in my Bio, fast results

[@MichaelRutzz]

​@@PowerfulHelenaSpell thanks , it helped me save my broken relationship, powerful

[@nidaarain6269]

Amazing way of explaining

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! 💝

[@shiekahalqatani983]

For me, I won't allow any man to sleep with me until unless we are not married. Why we have so much lovelife failure? Because we allow man to use us like a supermarket.In this days every women, not all but most of women do not value self respect, do not value ego and this generation, we normalize the forbidden things like sleeping with man without marriage,getting pregnant without marriage and making Family without marriage as well.. We have to change this mindset... We women should always remember that the more tough you are to get.. Is the more valuable you are....

[@HA-xq9eo]

Thank you for this video! My partner had been ignoring me and since I felt hurt and frustrated, I blocked him. It’s been almost two months.. it’s so tough! I’m missing him, but I have no other solution. I should carry on in my decision. I can’t unblock him now :(((

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜

[@giovanna8324]

You did the right thing, with dignity, bravo! Take the time to rebuild yourself, enjoy your freedon, your life, be proud of you & attractive. I'm living right now this new chapter of my life, and after the tears, souvenirs and regrets, I've started new activities, meet friends again, new people. I'm experiencing AMAZING moments... HAPPYNESS!

[@msstar7415]

I admire your strength ✨🙌🏽 you got this. The best investment you’ll ever make, is in yourself💪🏽 👑

[@HA-xq9eo]

Giovanna Francois absolument! Bien dit! Thank you for the golden tips :)

[@shrinidhipatil335]

I think you should also consider the case when u have disrespected him and he's lost interest in you so now u have to fix the relationship with him

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This episode might be helpful for anyone who’s in a situation like that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fnS8iqV7jc2GfrMsi=PVYzIYNHrYvQisWY

[@carolmattle5106]

I love Alex and you to Helena ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Carol! ❤️

[@jaycieantonia]

This was a very helpful video! Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💜

[@ziie6611]

Thankyou so much this is so helpful!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💜

[@kimgordon3695]

Beautiful collaboration 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Kim! ❤️

[@kimgordon3695]

The instant availability digitally has taken a bit of the mystery out of our Relationships ~We expect much & have less down time. #BeLoving...

[@santosacosta1199]

Great tips!! Love this talk. Thanks!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💝

[@SthrnCrossLady]

hmmph ..just been following his lead-- he goes off the grid for 8 days this time no contact ..im letting him go-- he has no respect /regard for my feelings -says when i express my feelings for him -makes him feel uncomfortable Whaaaaaa??? Im being true to me --smiling and confident that if he doesn't VALUE and APPRECIATE me as a high value woman to be in his life-it is his loss -altho i do love him so vm -Excellent advice -tyvm (brand new man -got it ) !! *living my life with grace and harmony!! tyvm Helena and Alex - Blessings and love xo

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Maree! Yes, I would let go of any man who doesn’t value, respect and appreciate you. 💕

[@luckylemon6277]

You two are great❣️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Karene! 💕

[@SisiTsoi]

This is such powerful message 👏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💗

[@angieatvegas]

I like the counseling 👌

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! 💕