5 Questions That Will Change Your Life

[@g.r.s5200]

I'm going to have to watch this again. With pen and paper . Need to do lot of work on myself thank you.

[@DesignersDelusion]

The first ones a really good one. Picking the number 1 worst thing you don't want people to know about you is very confronting, yet puts things in perspective since you have to choose 1.

[@franciscoferraz9336]

5 was a big one for me. Much to meditate about. Thanks, man. Btw my hard thing today was convincing myself to write this comment 😁

[@waylonsmith8798]

This is such a great topic and so important, I appreciate the advice Conner!

[@Photik]

Acknowledging our shadow, dealing with shame and guilt and not allowing them to rule your life, Locus of Control, having goals and taking manageable steps to move towards them, and scheduling a time of your day to work through your worries and anxieties are all steps I should take to manage all the topics covered in the video, but it's all easier said than done. Action is the hardest step for me. That, and keeping things moving once you get the ball rolling in how you think about things, logic your way out of your emotions, recognizing what emotion you're actually feeling, being less reactive and defensive when people give me criticism and feedback.. Etc. Anyone else struggle with these things? I'm not alone, right?

[@pippilong89]

Reactive and defensive, traits I so possess. I know it's really relative. Wisdom and past understanding of the one dolling it out pretty crucial. Critical words from someone, weigh it? Do they care , is that really me??

[@Ridingrules10000]

I don't think you can logic your way out of your emotions if you don't take the time to understand why you feel the way you feel. It may or may not be appropriate for the situation, but there's always a reason why you have that emotion. Being afraid of a bear is entirely logical. Being afraid to go for a walk in the woods doesn't seem logical unless you make the connection that it's not the walk in the woods that you're afraid of. From there, you can make a logical assessment of the danger and risk.

[@petergonzalez1719]

I'm so scared of new experiences. It's weird because, I'm outgoing but there's always the fear and doubt that creeps in before my next journey in life.

[@NestPavel]

Yeah, I struggle with acting too. And struggled my whole life actually. Now I understand that I have heavy "freeze" response when it comes to initiative. So yeah, you are not alone in this.

[@GG-bw3uz]

This video was so truthful and illuminating to the point it uncomfortably hit close to home. Bravo. Change is... after all - unpleasant and uncomfortable.

[@cabie58]

So happy i crossed paths with you via KZbin. Good stuff, man.

[@richmckeemusic]

Brilliant stuff as always I really appreciate your content

[@petergonzalez1719]

This video could have saved me 4 months in rehab. Very well said.

[@gregr1154]

i really struggle to wrap my head around the 5th question - maybe it's lack of understanding, or the phrasing, or something. i can answer the first 4 and as you mentioned the answer can change on a given day for some of them, but #5 has me drawing a blank...

[@Bruhne]

Very good!

[@practicalimagination0909]

We need adventure

[@jrm13]

Delete the apps. Buy a motorcycle.

[@ajlw8228]

thx for your videos i want to ask in ome of your previous videos you said that you write 20 thing to do when you want to watch porn could you please tell us what are they because i only have walking on my list and most of the time i cant walk when iam horny cause iam tired or it is so diffcult to do so i will just do the things then regret

[@murranz]

Should we not hide things?

[@a.d.b535]

Not from ourselves.

[@ManTalks]

@@a.d.b535 Exactly.

[@tamasgyorffy1]

17 min: error. Low-dopamine (e.g. ADHD) induced procastrination is neither lazyness, neither fear. Not a iota of it. If you believe it should be included in the range of your affirmation, your are seriously delusional. So your proposition is wrong. Best regards