5 Reasons He Avoids You Like The Plague After Pulling Away (And How To Fix It)

[@c.j.mackay4032]

“If a man is pulling away that does not mean ‘convince me’, that does not mean ‘chase me’, that does not mean ‘try harder’, that’s not what that means” REAL TALK

[@ChristinaOstil115]

That means the guy should buy his own girlfriend.

[@cherrylane79]

If a guy disrespects you from the start, that will never change.

[@plawton35]

Just BC he needs a minute, does not mean he’s disrespecting you. Jump to conclusions much? That kind of thought process will be projected as disrespect itself.

[@Lauren_22613]

IMO and from my experience, you don’t want a guy like this. I’ve been single for almost 2 years and it’s awesome!

[@fabbiemaurice9459]

If I step back or pull away too, I don’t want you anymore

[@lashondarochell7584]

Exactly I am not jumping through hoops for no Man!!

[@user_abcxyzz]

The proper* way is to make it verbally clear. If you ghost or anything to that effect, then you leave it open to interpretation. Make it verbally loud and clear, otherwise you also risk having a stalker.

[@camellia8625]

Why would anyone want to date someone who pulls away? Pulling away is indicative of disinterest and/or uncertainty.

[@lashondarochell7584]

Thank you!!! I don't want a Man who doesn't want me

[@joannecarolyn5018]

This is exactly the situation I'm in. 6 weeks in, he's 49, I'm 47. Thank you so much for this video, Elliott 🙏 It's a Godsend ❤

[@jessie0078]

Same 6 weeks of consistency and now…radio silence while he is on vacation in Florida

[@flyandshy00]

@@jessie00786 weeks? You’re not even official. You should be dating others. Block him.

[@queenmimi4966]

So it never gets better huh. The same bs no matter their age…. Ewe. That’s sad, 😐

[@plawton35]

You forgot to mention that even though they come back, they may still have an avoidant personality and will most likely avoid serious situations in the future. I really don’t like the reality of that, but, that is narcissistic behavior. They feel burdened and annoyed when attention is not on them, especially when others need something.

[@GG17250]

Yup, he is emotionally unavailable....bye buddy!

[@Sparksflymich]

more videos on how to get over an emotional unavailable men please!

[@sonyasspot355]

I’m dealing with this one guy, and I allow him to miss me and it works since he and I do not want a relationship, but it really works, he be calling, and wondering where you at, and don’t have another man under your belt. Girl he will blow you up.

[@pam164]

That only happens if he is really into you.

[@plawton35]

If you tell him you don’t want a relationship BUT you still reciprocate the attention- you’re either lying and playing him or lying to yourself. He probably just wants to F you- which is probably all you want anyway. Girl, value yourseld more than that BC guys will F ANYTHING.

[@carlf.9035]

Smart video. So summary of this, treat yourself like a queen.

[@lashondarochell7584]

When a Man pulls away I simply allow it. If I know i have not wronged him I am respectable to him then why should I jumped through hurdles. One thing i realize the Man who ready for a relationship and is emotionally intelligent. you dont go through these mental gymnastics with the Right Man.

[@maxonout]

Always less words. Wordy words should be fun, funny etx. When there is important stuff, cut the words 80%. Making a guy jealous WILL BACKFIRE. If you are giving space, just give it. No need to do anything to show him how much you dont need him. He will likely believe you.

[@2.22am]

Elliot i have done a lot of mistakes when he broke up with me around 5 months ago. First 2 months i was all over place and would initiate contact all the time. But now I understood that's all the wrong i was doing. He's still not contacting but I'd never initiate contact anymore. In the meantime around 4th month he came back asked me if we can go back into the relationship which i refused to check how much he meant it because he dumped me for a girl he met online. Guess what i didn't hear from him after that call. It hurts but sometimes i laugh on what i meant to him.

[@pam164]

He hasn't been serious about getting you back.

[@2.22am]

@@pam164 i know babe, you didn't need to be this direct 😭

[@truthtimetarot]

​​​@@2.22am @pam164 YO!! WHY? JUST WHY WOULD YOU WRITE THAT. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE? PAM, HOW ABOUT YOU MAKE VULNERABLE STATEMENT AND WE EXPLAIN TO YOU PAM HE'S JUST NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. 🤔 DON'T BE A TROLL PAMELA. PLEASE AND a... THANKS. 👋

[@MsLondy96]

​@@2.22am You deserve love mami❤

[@angelmason23]

Is it just me or is Elliot getting finer…like wtf dude

[@LotusSellers-r5z]

It's not just you. I think so too.

[@genevievemarsh4154]

Absolutely fantastic advice and strategy. Well said Elliott 👏🏽

[@Youareloved511]

Best advice just so down to earth 🙏

[@MoonFoxSassy]

These thumbnails are killing me 😂☠

[@theempress8947]

Elliot I just love the opening picture.....😅....

[@amandaserle3343]

No he told me from the start he wanted a refund blocked me for no reason whatsoever 6 weeks ago. Weirdo!!! Thank god was never in any way intimate with him.

[@zahraasadollahzadeh1160]

Amazing stuff 👍 thank you so much 🌹🙏

[@odijana79dijana31]

So amazing 👏 i appreciate watch your videos so much helpful thank you so much

[@Fionanah]

So timely

[@YF-ey7uq]

I called him out with compassion and he dissapeared didn't even reply

[@zaravr]

We started talking Thursday and he asked me for a date to meet on Monday and then said I’ll get back to you 😂

[@trailerparkbarbie2882]

thnx 4 the help elliot...oh i love your thumbnail!

[@JayCee539]

The man is just not interested…period

[@sheriwl]

Another great video

[@amandaserle3343]

He blocked me 3 hours after sending me a really nice voicemail message.

[@plawton35]

So? Move on.

[@amandaserle3343]

@@plawton35 Oh i have.

[@karenKristal]

Oh dear lord, the more I hear the less I wanna get involved with anyone 😅

[@saras.2173]

I have this same reaction when I listen to Elliot’s channel. I think it’s because Elliot operates in the presumption that the average man objectifies women and disrespects them.

[@karenKristal]

@@saras.2173 well this is true isnt it? And then everyone is whining that men are sex starved and needs loads of sex with loads of hot young women or they get violent and depressed. Why would any woman see things as safe, never mind worth bothering with??

[@punkofmudd]

What if he met someone else and they’re “hanging out” but he wants to be friends and always stares at me at social events (mutual social circle)?

[@plawton35]

Let him figure out how much he wants to hang out with them and you keep doing you, authentically.

[@lashondarochell7584]

Don't pay him no mind you dealing with a "Grown Boy" point blank period

[@ShantaFuentes]

So glad I seen this

[@blackcarriebradshaw]

Elliot why are men SO terrified of relationships?

[@ElliotScottDating]

They're not lol.

[@Jules-740]

I don't have social media.

[@mix24127]

Love this haircut!

[@carlf.9035]

So if a guy ghosts us we must remember to give him an ultimatum and tell him that even if they're busy or whatever they could've just sent a short response and to not disappear like that cause it doesnt work for us that way. If we don't say that they won't know what makes us upset and wont know our worth.

[@Zane-zr7ic]

Nope honestly that showsnyr annoyed silence is more golden Disappear also show the same energy . Don't chase he will be back if u realt still want him if be shows same hand of cards again at that point take him out of ur phone he don't even owe him an explanation

[@annas9720]

Loool love the thumbnail Elli

[@HilendaH]

What if I cut him off because he confessed his emotionally detached/unavailable and then he unfollows me& has me unfollow him too. Should I follow him back?😅😭

[@hollyforbes]

Yesssss Elliot 🙌🙌🙌

[@pam164]

Good video.

[@flyandshy00]

Women wouldn;t care about 1 guy that doesn't pay attention to them if they had options or if they were not anxious about getting married by 30, 35 or whatever the number is. Not everyone is meant to find the one, that's the truth, just accept the reality and relax about it.

[@jajarounette95]

That is true everytime I stress about dating is when I think about my age (soon 28) and I have never been in a relationship…

[@pam164]

​@jajarounette95 A lot of people meet in their early 20s, but 28 is not old. You're still young.

[@annakarina8417]

​@@jajarounette95most people these days getting married around 30 or later. It's all OK. Write down what you look for in man and date with this intention in mind. Confidance helps a lot.

[@ksref]

Exactly how I fixed my love life- simply date multiple men always until they want something real. When one drops off, replace him

[@maxonout]

For that reason, dating over 60 is the BEST!!

[@StephGarcia1]

11:24... Half the male population would call this a woman being needy. Gonna go die now lol.

[@LittleBird888]

Here’s a thought, he just wanted sex.

[@plawton35]

It’s always possible. No matter what.. value yourself.

[@Ravilette]

Elliot, what do you know about Ja Rule 😏

[@ElliotScottDating]

Girl I know everything 😁

[@magicalfairylife]

0:38 😂

[@magicalfairylife]

4:24 call him out

[@anastasijabeograd3903]

I don‘t want him to sleep with someone else or spend time with another girl if I stop also communicating 😭 After three days of silence from hin and NOT open my last message… I now texted him whats wrong bc I havent heard from him and now I am waiting for his response

[@reallyree6164]

Did he come back? How are you?

[@lottiebowdenbowden238]

Is he sleeps with someone else that tells you enough about how he feels about you, you are leaving yourself open as a back up tho

[@flyandshy00]

Don’t text him first. Made a mistake sleeping with him. Block him. Learn from it. Do better and move on.

[@zanecliffo3685]

That was his response not replying to you

[@danilaroche1156]

In most cases the woman can't leave him be for a long time is because of sex. Do you know what a soul tie is? Its in the bible. Women have a hard time being logical with their man after sex. Some men too.

[@danielleglen7869]

My God you have to be a 6 or higher to get respect! That’s so messed up!!!

[@chiobabe2180]

Elliott is fine Af whew, where can I find this type of brad 😅😍😂