First Date Rules || Make Him Fall For You 😍

[@shelbybrown04]

I’m literally going on my first date in 15 mins😂

[@brownasiangirl3794]

All the best gurlll ✨🤍

[@shelbybrown04]

@@brownasiangirl3794 thank you :)🤍

[@cloudxarepretty]

You posted this literal 6 min ago which means you're going there in 9 mins..Best of luck! 🖤 Tell me how it goes 💕

[@Pujarxy]

Good luck gurl💕

[@shelbybrown04]

@@cloudxarepretty he’s on his way to pick me up now haha and I will do :)💕

[@Mickeymous7174]

Revision notes 1. Never plan the first date (don't ask him to go on the first date) 2. Look presentable(nails, stains, perfume) 3. Be Mysterious 4. Do not do anything intimate. 5. Do not obsess over him.

[@bluebellbeatnik4945]

lol I asked him out for a drink and he said yes. the rest I agree with.

[@Poisedblood]

As a medical student I save this video for future bc I am currently focused on upcoming exams date lmao😭😂

[@kalkidanthings]

Same

[@ann-nicolep4251]

So relatable

[@Kaya-hi4pg]

So it is universal 😂

[@kiwiwooq]

For rule #1, I 100% agree. I was in a very serious long term relationship and this was my first mistake. I consider myself as an independent and strong women so at that time I asked him out. But overtime, I kept thinking what would have happened if I never asked him out. That was the beginning of this insecurity that I never thought I would face. Well as you can assume, that relationship did not last at all. Now I know where I went wrong lol. LADIES, LADIES, LADIES your dream guy will come to you. If somebody is showing a hint that they like YOU, trust me, THEY WILL COME TO YOU. Keep up the feminine energy ✨✨

[@smashh109]

💜💜💜💜

[@beingaesthetic7402]

I agree with you. I totally appreciate it

[@ashalmenezes2048]

I violated the Rule 1, what do I do?

[@penneysalvo2885]

Eat before you go on a date..don't be hungry and order a meal that's affordable

[@raunaknarayan4092]

Basic rule of life: if you want something good in your life then just sitting back and waiting for things to happen miraculously then thats the worst strategy you can use. My wife asked for the date… she was waiting for a very long time for me to make the first move I was in delusion that she has a boyfriend, if she would have never asked me we would never be together, she is a very strong woman

[@thelonercoder5816]

agreed lol. Sorry but if a woman shows no interest in me by never approaching nor starting convo, im going to assume she's not interested and will not ask her out on a date.

[@moviesnmoscato]

She's not saying never approach or never start the conversation. She's specifically saying "ask for the first date". I believe in showing interest, and then letting him make the next move from there

[@raunaknarayan4092]

@@moviesnmoscato Boys already have a lot of things to deal with on priority (way our society is structured) don’t play so many games or you may stay single forever.

[@ilajyrwana6374]

I get motivated alot watching her videos and hearing her povs. As an impact of her video I become automatically productive and positive as a girl.

[@Nimeshaa]

Awww that’s nice to hear ❤️

[@hanariaz784]

I know its weird….but please give us tips on long term relationships.(currently in a long term relationship) What to do and what not. THANK YOU GIRL… I LOVE YOUR ADVICES.

[@soothing_focus]

Yes pls

[@tasnimaesha5940]

GO girls GO!!!! All solid facts GIRL! Love you so so much sis

[@samiajerry9431]

After wedding u look more gorgeous 😍

[@Aloo371]

Im not going on a date but I definitely needed these advices as my relationship is falling apart due to my extreme attachment.

[@beingaesthetic7402]

Please don’t show extreme attachment. It’s not only ruin your relationship but also it will destroy you. Give yourself priority first trust me

[@Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss]

She is making valid points here

[@carmenamy123]

Nah, either person could ask first, it takes courage to make a move on either side

[@asmrbyamily]

fr both sides are waiting and hoping the other person will ask😭

[@PauLina-ji6io]

I‘m shocked nobody disagrees with her in the comments… Like wtf. This might work for a certain kind of relationship but not for any kind…

[@nolife8209]

1st rule is such a bs if you want him, go get him! bruh u shudnt have to wait for him to ask u out if it feels right for u to ask him out! and as a women, i LOVE to plan dates. and my boyfriend enjoys it, he is always up for whenever i randomly say "hey we shud do this/ go there someday". and i had also planned our first date lmao, and he was up for it. just do what u want and feels right at that moment, no need to wait around due to these bs rules.

[@sharanya181]

Right like wtf is that advice

[@madhu466]

Hey namesha, I'm also one of the brown girls, wanna say I love your facial features . Girl you're always there to heal me up whenever I'm at my lowest phase , I love the way you use your hands to express your words. Love from India ❤

[@shwetaphansalkar2525]

Nimesha just keep doing videos on these topics...you explain it so well and you have valid points❤️

[@infinitetimer27]

1:00 He ask me on a date and he said I could pick the place. I pick Applebees because their is nothing else I could think of. 😅 may I add, this is the first time we both have ever dated so.

[@hikkkies]

For me I feel like its so earthly and natural to date someone after having them in our life as a friend prior to date or being around a circle of friends for some time..Its so familiar about eachother and no anxiety or too attached of the outcome ❤.. 😊😊

[@thesaltypineapple7663]

I totally agree with being feminine and having the guy ask you out, which is what I would have wanted but the guy I’m into is kind of a wimp so I had to casually ask him out

[@danilaroche1156]

Why date a wimpy guy? Sounds like a lose.

[@Nightmare_-ix7dk]

Set rules for betas , break rules for alphas perfect example if she wanted to she would.

[@englishliterature8581]

You know sometimes I think if we gotta pretend or hide so much from the person we're aiming to spend our life with, then what's the point meeting that person in the first place? In my opinion, before anything else we must be genuine because that's something this world is currently deprived of. 😊

[@mahayaqub157]

girl looks exactly like a doll 😫❤

[@Karinalakhia]

Nimesha you helped me moving on from my ex thank you so much

[@zuuzuumahad3118]

I'm late but happy for u❤

[@mickeyythabeast]

“Do not bring that 50/50 bullshit into this channel”… IMMEDIATELY SUBSCRIBED! 😂🤌🏽🫶🏽

[@Rivaiye]

Me literally on the first date: *sees him* "okay when do we want to marry and how many children do we want" 😭 why am I like this

[@danilaroche1156]

It's a natural feeling but be wise and control yourself. You'll scare him off and ruin the process of his pursuit.

[@purplediary9260]

he asked me for a date, and we will go tomorrow.. so i think i passed rule number one...😁 and i got the right video on the right time love you sis😊

[@riyakaria619]

I love this series!!! 💁‍♀️

[@HJ-rj6lx]

I already broke the first rule.😥 please wish me all the luck in my relationship guys . I really really like him.

[@buse8068]

Me too sis :))) don't worry

[@Unhappysunshinez]

Yeah me too

[@Liebah11]

Fucking right girls it happend with me too

[@Bac2025-j3z]

i asked him for the date😂😂😂😂

[@Ryon-qy3jk]

!!! I asked him on day so I broke the first rule!!!!

[@roopshukla5150]

How to manifest a loyal, trustworthy basically an actual MEN ... Nd dude i swear you're really the queen nd you motivates me alott

[@ilmanaw132]

Youuuu loookkk damnnnn prettryyyyy 🥰🥰 so obsessed with ur videos gurl 😍😊

[@Anonymouss_99]

I looovveeee your perspective on being high value woman ❤

[@echomridha4694]

6 November my exam will be start. And 4 novembers i am watching "tips for first date" 😂😂😂😂.Though its not for me but i love watching your video 😅😅😅😅😅😅.Wish me best of luck for my exam nimmy😘😘😘😘.

[@dancewithme7435]

all the best 😂

[@Sunlovesbangtan]

But I think splitting the bill is a good thing, why depend on someone else to pay for you? It will hurt my self esteem (personal opinion)

[@garfield4882]

Then you'll keep attracting broke ass man who would want you to split the bill always

[@Sunlovesbangtan]

@@garfield4882 I don't feel , splitting the bill is a broke thing it will respect my dignity.

[@garfield4882]

@@Sunlovesbangtan Then you'll never find a man who's ready to lead and take charge. You'll always find men who need to be taken care of.

[@garfield4882]

@@Sunlovesbangtan you need to believe that you're worth his time, money and energy. And him providing for you is actually the bare minimum.

[@Sunlovesbangtan]

@@garfield4882 ok as I said personal opinion

[@btsgalaxy6315]

Gurlll Me who's never been on a date But still watching it because of nimesha But thank you for all the tips U are really like my elder sis for me ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@victoriaryan23]

Thank you… can’t believe all these videos nowadays men saying women should pay half the bill. Yeah ok maybe once y’all are in a relationship and been going on dates for awhile. but off the bat? Nah. Lately I been having a man keep asking me to coffee but he asks me to “let him know when” and to “choose where”. I still haven’t gone with him because I don’t have the energy for all that especially since I don’t even know him and this has confirmed my intuition.

[@jennifernyarko6779]

My date was canceled a while back ...glad I'm watching this now

[@noone_____]

Though I'm single and never going to get into a relationship. But still watching it, because I like Nimeshaa

[@RezaRahimzadeh-kx2db]

Well said, but girl has to be honest and tell the true if asked

[@uci1111]

i never had a boyfriend i’m 18 lol i feel bad sometimes 😢

[@aditisharma6951]

Bro I'm 20

[@Fg45662]

@@aditisharma6951 hm. Indians m. To chlta h yr😂 I m almost 22 and still haven't gone

[@aena5995]

@@Fg45662 dude sem 💀😢

[@danilaroche1156]

You have time..

[@shelleykris30]

Being a female is just a gender my mom told me if you want them that bad if he makes you happy you should ask him it's your life you're choice don't listen to her it's your life if you don't mind to ask him do it women should have love in there future I never been asked in my life if I want to go on date so if you don't ask the guy may not know you care that much about him so it's your choice your life My crush asked me out first but you still have a choice us Women should find love like every body else if you want to Women be strong just go for it women work very very hard to find a lover and respect

[@lakshmipriyam9600]

I liked your long hair version ❤️ than that before 2 years... It really suits u sis😍

[@dancewithme7435]

I love how u tell exactly what I wanted to hear thank u ❤️

[@narutomagar]

Thanks nimeshaa Di all the rules were accurate to the point

[@monday2756]

Wow. Love everything what I heard ❤. Thank you !!!!

[@ghondii_2618]

The way you said "Split the bill" 🤣🤣🤣 OMG!!

[@gracesplace3449]

So pretty 😍 Girl where were you before I made a fool of myself 100 thousand times before 😳

[@VanessaEnciso-fd4mg]

I'm actually going next week 😂kinda excited..thanks uploading ❤

[@ip3931]

God, I wish I could relate to the privileges of young women my age and younger like you! I don't even have afamily or friends never mind a date never mind a partner! You're so young and have achieved so much! I cannot relate at all! How on earth do you have it all!?

[@Kepe777]

YOU DON'T CHASE YOU ATTRACT...TRUE... JUST LOVE THAT❤❤❤

[@simarvishwakarma6193]

Ily gurllll❤ you're a good advisor

[@bubba283]

I love this, I'm a guy who just went on a date with a guy for the first time, I was so nervous someone would catch us on date that I knew

[@anjalipaswan6409]

More videos like this please 🥺👉👈❤️

[@rimshahashmat2629]

love you Nimesha, this video matches so well with my mindset 🤌✨

[@sashaenglish2755]

I love your message ❤️ Let men be men. In a world where men feel they can't be men cause women are equal.. Bollocks.. We love men just the way they are and treating a woman like a princess and taking her/ asking her out and paying for the date is a good thing not a bad thing.

[@calmcatto]

Okay but not oversharing is so important. Once I went on a date with this girl and we were having those "deep talks" ye know and then she really ended up crying and it got so awkward :/// And if ur lesbian/bi/pan/queer go ahead and ask the girl out. One of u have to and she/they might be too shy to ask so just do it LMAO.

[@dancewithme7435]

My first date actually went amazing even tho I was the one who planned it . Even tho the relationship didn't last long my first date was exactly how I envision it be so I am so grateful... The only advice I can give is that do what makes u happy that's the only way you are not going to regret doing it

[@TJ-wb6je]

Now you know why it didn't last long. If a man doesn't initiate plans to see you he's not that interested in you.

[@nabamitaghosh1134]

❤love you nimesha !!!! Your woman arge is 🎉🎉🎉amazing

[@shamriaquoreshi3298]

ahh why didn't you post this video one month ago. I went on a date with this guy and did everything the things that you forbade to do in this video. Lomg story short now he says he doesn't want to be with me. He says that he doesn't want to be romantically involved with me . He wants to be friends with good terms. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@Namiha-]

Keep shining babe❤️😘😘

[@manpritkaur9944]

Very well said good advice 💯👌🏻❤️

[@o046]

Nim your voice just calm us sis

[@Hafsatunnesarekmuna]

I'm going on my first date at 1st November, I came to rewatch... It'll help me soo much😭

[@__Onss__.]

Pov : I have never gone on a date but I'm still here

[@November22-p4e]

More making detailed videos on this we talk about more topics or questions asking for him in first date?

[@katrinabrown3561]

I’m about to go on a date today!

[@katrinabrown3561]

It was a cute date

[@unknown_too]

Idk I'm just getting obsessed with yo videos 😢❤

[@kmpwick]

Love you nimehsa, you are our Queen ❤

[@November22-p4e]

Please making series on dating conversation

[@swardahiremath3567]

I am literary learning things for you before going on a date

[@samanthahussain4219]

I'm going on my date today. First date everr. I'm so nervous. I like him alot. He asked out??? How the hell do that happened idk how he asked. I thought it was just me having feelings lol. But yea. In a few hours I'm going. So I'm here. Getting tips

[@Aradhyagurjar865]

Thank you Nimesha you r my favorite😍💕 one

[@youtubedotkom6285]

2:56 bestt🤣🤣🤣

[@Lifeofshubh14]

YOU LOOK SOO SOO GORGEOUS MAN😍

[@harshithasuresh130]

Hey nimishaa... We need more dating advices from youuuuu😭😭😭😭

[@Anna-zu9cq]

On the first tip I already realized that I messed up. I asked him first cause he’s taking FOREVER to say something about meeting up, but he acts like my boyfriend over the Texts. What do I do ?

[@nishatiwari5410]

You are too good Nimeshaa❤❤❤ love you

[@PoojaGaur-c1s]

I m seriously in love with ur thoughts ❤

[@sivasakthithangaiah596]

Most needed at this time. Thanks nimeshaa ❤️

[@bluebellbeatnik4945]

would you wear the outfit you're wearing now on a first date?

[@thepapch]

If he isn't financially stable it's fine as long as he is 100% honest??? Really girl? He don't gotta tell you none of that unless the relation ship is getting serious.

[@KhadijaX0X0]

I’m so freaking delulu it’s not a date I’m jus going to a place where he’s going to be and I need him to like fall in love me with at first sight?help😭

[@sutcheez3152]

I came here fir your looks and im finishing watching your video

[@radioactive6998]

Stick to the FORD stuff when talking family occupation recreation dreams. That would keep the first date going for hours

[@tagalogtutorgen]

The guy asked me for a meet up.. I didn't answer yes but the other day I follow up and suggest a place where we can go which is a public place... So we will meet after 2 days .

[@rubykaur5678]

Thank you for amazing advice

[@salonipal5891]

Can I tell him only my available time and rest he can plan what to do

[@yusrxn]

First 😚😚

[@ashubrilliant3538]

Going on my first date in 30mints 😊

[@nadira1258]

OMG she is such a good person ❤❤❤❤

[@Namiha-]

Lemme expose a Truth..... I'm eagerly waiting for your Video..... Btw happpy married life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

[@thelioness5840]

This suggestions definately helps me in future. But I like the sound you make " Don't do that" ❣️

[@bluebellbeatnik4945]

'not sleep with him on the first date' - luckily for me, I will be on my period! God knows what he is doing.

[@danilaroche1156]

I don't think you should sleep with anyone without a solid commitment.

[@deihnu8190]

love your advice 😘😍

[@rathnayakasalma8796]

I'm still single and I feel like I'm still not ready to have a relationship or dating...But I'm watching this vedio whenever it will be helpful to me😊 Nimesha my sister you are my motivation girl...Thank you so much and love you so much💓

[@romatailor1367]

what if he travels 3 hours to come see you but doesn't know the area well, is it okay to guide him, he told me he was researching things to do but he couldn't find anything.

[@KomalSingh-bi9fd]

Hey nimesha... Please tell me which hair colour you applied please please tell me the shade name ???

[@lakshmibishukarma976]

My crush said yes to go on a date with me guys😢😢😢 if you have any do's and don'ts please let me know😚

[@celestyclarke6748]

Plz share a vid on kinds of hair treatments

[@Wankhededeepika1]

Thank you for the good tips

[@sukanyasadhana]

Thanks for this 🥺🥺🥺

[@dulakshanasrimal1717]

U become more and more beautiful day by day. Lots of love form Sri Lanka 💕😍😍