5 Tips For A Happy Marriage | Things We've Learned After 13 Years

[@JeremySiers]

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[@bc_views]

It’s appreciate that you’re putting your private life out there for everyone to see and dropping knowledge with intentions to help others. The best vlogs are the personal ones. Take care you guys and God bless your family and marriage!

[@283blood]

Brother, you have a whole room dedicated to cigars, and alcohol. THAT'S a good way to have a happy marriage🙂

[@JeremySiers]

😆 definitely doesn’t hurt!

[@vladimirvaynkhadler8726]

no shit

[@politicallyinsensitive4200]

Hell yeah; stay drunk the whole time.

[@nojoke420]

My wife and I have been married 13 years today. You’re right, it isn’t easy, but it is worth it.

[@JeremySiers]

congrats! 👍🏻

[@DavidRamseyIII]

As a child of divorce surrounded by other children of divorce, your kids are at such an advantage being raised by a committed couple. Society thanks you!

[@dudaoutloud]

I am 27 years into a marriage with my best friend…all 5 tips are 100% right on!

[@PaPa-Sohns]

Love when you guys do videos together. I’ve been married 35 years this June and your right about that you have to be best friends. Need more videos please. 😎🥃

[@CMathewGomez]

Congrats on 35 years!

[@Theorcman2008]

Me and my wife went through the worst possible scenario you can think of. Statistics say we shouldnt be married anymore. Our marriage for sure was on the brink of death. 2 years later and its 10x stronger than it was. Some times I think people give up to fast. I love my wife more than anybody on this planet. I also love my two daughters. And our kids are way better off with both parents showing them LOVE CAN WIN!!!!

[@issacjones4237]

What gives

[@russmode]

Nicely stated, God bless!

[@TheGardnerFamilyYT]

The best free marriage counseling I’ve ever heard! Congrats to y’all

[@fmfdocbotl4358]

Just celebrated 23 yrs this month. When I got out of the military I told my wife "now you're stuck with me all the time" lol. My wife and I travel, she smokes cigars with me and we also can do our own thing. My wife is probably the more serious introvert and I'm the sarcastic joking introvert. Now that I'm retired she enjoys my gardening and taking care around the house and my cooking, the only times she has got stuck with the cooking duty is after my surgeries. Congrats on the 13yrs and hope many more come your way.

[@Beardedfurflinger]

Dude as a Veteran myself that's how we roll & know how we are,sarcastic,serious when needed but cut lose mostly,we know what it's like,not knowing what the next moment will bring,thank you for your service 🤟🤙

[@RonSmith472]

Been with my wife for 28 years, she was 21, I was 19. Raised 4 children been through it all. The one thing that kept us together is love with NO conditions! I've been dedicated to her success and she's been dedicated to mine. We had the mindset that there is no deeper commitment than ours to each other. Now we're 46 and 49, empty nesters, with 5 grandchildren living our best lives!

[@JeremySiers]

Solid advice my friend. Congrats on 28!

[@RonSmith472]

Thx bro

[@gregpatterson8526]

As someone who has been married and divorced twice! I can attest that everything mentioned in this video is 100% true!

[@timfehn4637]

I'm actually getting married in August this year so this couldn't have came at a better time!

[@JeremySiers]

Congrats my man!

[@conspiratornot2215]

Congratulations! Heres wishing you much happiness in your marriage.

[@timfehn4637]

@@JeremySiers yup august 21st

[@connerman5000]

Congratulations to you and yours may God bless you with many many year

[@danduane1413]

By all means, please heed their wise words of advice.

[@NNICKKK]

The best part about this video, is just the positivity. You’re a great creator Jeremy. All the best to you.

[@ThruVisualMedia]

Dude, just watched this video, and OMG you and your wife are just like me and mine...We each had 2 failed marriages before we got together and we have been together for 16 strong years now. We give each other our own space and we are still the best friends when together, her strengths are my weaknesses, and my strengths are her weaknesses, and we compliment each other. And we have both been blessed with each other. May God continue to bless your family always!

[@josephmayes8302]

Jeremy, I’ve been a minister for 33 years, and been married for more than 26. And I can tell you your advice today, is spot on. Thanks for sharing a part of your life with us. Much respect to you and your wife, wishing you many more years together. Oh by the way, I love your cigar and whiskey reviews! You ever come up to Virginia, we’re going to smoke a few together!

[@JeremySiers]

Much appreciated kind sir and the same to you. 😉👍🏻

[@bluemagnum5005]

I have been married for 24 years. My wife and I were married prior also. What you just put out is SPOT on. We are EXACTLY the same way and we are 24 years strong. Congrats to each of you for finding your best friend like I did. Keep up the great videos.

[@kctopbbq]

Great episode and spot on across the board. Been married 34 years to my best friend and managed to get 2 kids thru college, daughter married and son engaged..both living on their own. Couldn't have done it without practicing the things you talked about here. Great job Jeremy and congrats on 13 years!!

[@zigthepolishguy2610]

Hi there. You guys are totally right. Marriage is not just one person way. I was datng my wife for 22 years. Right now we are married for 5 years and we are still together. Relationship is love , anger, sex and many more not just feeling up the empty space of your partner. Keep the good work of be with someone who you love. ✌️

[@WhiskeyStraightAl]

Love is blind, marriage is a real eye-opener - that's what my dad told me! Happily married 16 years to my best friend and we constantly joke around. Great vid guys. And here's to many more years together!

[@johnneischii6974]

"She threw a tissue box at me." 😂

[@samuelfink4799]

Good advice guys. I’m 53, married had my kids with someone that I didn’t like and stayed in it for 19 years, worst mistake of my life. Now as an older man and hopefully wiser I tell the young guys I work with to find someone you want to share a cup of coffee with because sex isn’t the end all be all you thought it was at 16. Remarried someone I liked and lost her to a brain tumor in 2012 and haven’t ever mustered the courage to do it again. When I see people like you I must admit I’m envious of what you have.

[@philcollison1754]

My story with my wife is very similar. Met in high school, dated for a bit, broke up, we both got married young to other people, then divorced, she reached out to me and we have now been together for 6 years! Cheers brother!

[@ksteak27]

Same, brother... been married almost 19 years and together for 25 years... we never fight... we just have learned to be selfless, put your spouse first, love Jesus.... never lived with her or was intimate with her before marriage.... no test drive here, but we believe that when you make a promise, you mean it for life. My wife is the only person I truely want to be with every single day of the rest of my life. On 7/20/02 I promised to forsake all others and love her until death parts us.... and I mean to keep that promise that I made to the woman who committed herself to my word. That's what real men do. Real man shit (pardon my language lol)

[@JeremySiers]

😉👍🏻

[@kurtjohnson3215]

Married 31 years. It ain’t easy as we operate a business together. So our stress is doubled, but we are managing our work and personal lives. Cheers.

[@starmusicsd]

The handmaid's maid tale kicks ass, I always watch it with a nice cigar and bourbon

[@fabiof.6667]

It‘s so calming to see a happy marriage.

[@cindylewis2624]

From 1 of ur female fans, u & ur wife do have great chemistry & look like u have lots of fun together. U also show u have a lot of respect 4 each other. Wish u many more happy year's together.

[@matthewkeith1180]

Been married for over 30yrs now to the same awesome woman that puts up with all my stuff!!! Good advice y'all. Love the chemistry y'all have. Always good to see ya.

[@JeremySiers]

Congrats on 30!

[@matthewkeith1180]

@@JeremySiers thank you

[@annahenderson1730]

I loved this! You two are so cute, and these tips couldn’t be more true. I know it’s a long shot but I’d love to see a collaboration with you and Carl Murawsky. I think you guys would make some great videos.

[@annahenderson1730]

@Neon Thunderbird similar style to Jeremy but more focused on clothing, boots, and work gear.

[@Bubbusz]

Hi there, guys. I totally agree with your view on the matter. Where i live, a marriage is often compared to being imprisoned (as a joke of course but that says something about overall attitude) and people instead of making a team together, they confine each other. I know many, including my parents. Looking at you guys, having healthy and mature relationship just makes a heart grow. I congratulate you 😄.

[@M9A1MAN]

As someone whos been with my wife for about the same amount of time, these 5 tips are spot on. We followed these 5 exact tips and they work.

[@FondyCrew]

You two kids seem pretty solid. I was married once before, and although I don't plan on doing that every again, living with a partner requires a lot of the same advice. I can't say I disagree with any of your talking considering my own experiences. Channel is solid dude.

[@ninkendo7714]

Love the intro clip!! 80’s baby, married 24 years and still laugh with my wife all the time:)

[@waliamanik1]

Proud of you guys. I have been married for 21 yrs and have been together since grade 9. Happy happy happy

[@JeremySiers]

Awesome man! Congrats!

[@russmode]

27 years married, 32 years together, 4 kids, made it through trials, things better than ever now, started dating when we were 15. God is good!

[@josh9455]

Me and mine are working on 17 years. You are preaching the truth boss! It you don’t like one another, it ain’t gonna work at all. Keep up the good work boss!

[@miketobin2674]

As a Christian, who is married to a Christian, I really appreciate this advice. My wife and I did not live together, HOWEVER, we did communicate expectations and spent a lot of time together before marriage. We understood we are both different people and support each other in any way we can. I think one tip that has been amazing for us is to realize we are BOTH ON THE SAME TEAM. It’s not me vs her or her vs me. When we get upset or frustrated, we remind each other, we are on the same team. Our intentions are the same and not taking one bad decision so personal it ruins the relationship. We communicate through it and respect each other as much as possible. Love your channel! Thanks for all your content

[@josephart1021]

You guys are great, we are 39 years married together for 42. She is my best friend . 4 children 5 grandchildren . keep it going !!

[@JeremySiers]

Awesome man! Congrats on 39!

[@coobay4786]

Married my best friend 47 years ago and she's still my best friend. My opinion that's the number 1 key to a successful marriage.

[@DJRageVidz]

My wife and I agree with your tips and have been happily married a long time. We have similar chemistry to you guys. Thanks for being a great example for others. It's much needed now a days.

[@ExKUKicker]

The two of you seem to have, not only a solid foundation but, great chemistry...Trust...and acceptance that you aren't perfect people, shit happens. Great Relationship Suggestions. Now...the next cigar/liquor review please!🤜🤛

[@60tree]

This is perfectly put guys! Me and my wife just had our 3 year wedding anniversary, however, we’ve been together for almost 12 years. A lot of my friends struggle in their marriages because they fight a lot or they do everything together. In 12 years I can count on 1 hand how many big fights we’ve been in, all of which were my fault 😂 Keep the content coming man!

[@colingoldthorpe5918]

She got you with the "how about you get into that Gym" comment. Been there heard that before too. Your a lucky guy Jeremy, I've been married for 26 years and you are so right you cannot control each other you just gotta have fun and enjoy each others company. You only get one shot in life there is no reruns !!!!!

[@circusfreakRob]

Spot on, all of it. We've been at it for 23 years now and still going strong. I hear people say all the time "marriage is hard, but it's worth it". I dunno...I found "my person" and marriage has always been the easiest part of my life. Cheers!

[@JeremySiers]

I agree. Our marriage has always been super easy. I think if your with the right person it should be. 😉👍🏻

[@christopheralbuquerque8300]

👍👍. My wife and I lived together for years before we married. We have been together for 21 years now and married 17. Its been great.

[@tobaccolover1106]

Hey brother I have to let you know something I am so thankful that I came across your channel you are the reason I smoke cigars and drink whiskey and I’m glad I took the time to watch your video I’ve been smoking cigars for a year now and I love every second of it it is my lifestyle thank you brother🔥🔥🔥

[@donwilbanks2226]

Great advice! 37 years for us in September and you both hit the nail on the head.

[@kenjohanning1163]

What is it with wives and leaving the peanut butter on the knife. Mine does this as well. We are going on 20 years in October. Both our first marriage. You hit all things bang on. My wife and I are best friends. Advice I received was pick your battles wisely. My wife and I have never yet had a drag out fight...a few arguments but we agree to disagree and move on. My wife and I did live together first which is an eye opener. The little quirky stuff you find out about someone when you live with them is better found out before you tie the knot. Great video. Love your channel.

[@arthurcaves]

Thanks a lot man! Going through a hard time right now and this was really helpful and liberates. You’re wife has an amazing way to deliver the message when she speaks, she’s great, you both are… Thanks again! 🙏🏻

[@JeremySiers]

Glad it helps man. Keep that chin up and keep on hammering. 😉👍🏻

[@arthurcaves]

@@JeremySiers will do! Thanks Chief!! 👊🏻😆

[@travisthompson9104]

This was great. Agreed on all points. My wife and I are just past a year of marriage and loving life. You and yours appear to have a great friendship. Keep the content comin!

[@MacYYur4me]

Great advice all around. Life will constantly throw curve balls… and a good marriage will adapt.

[@franciszawalich6821]

My wife and I have been together for 32 years and married for 27 years!! You guys nailed all 5 things!!

[@JeremySiers]

Congrats on 27! 👍🏻

[@franciszawalich6821]

@@JeremySiers thank you sir!! Congrats on almost 13!!! 😂😂

[@manuelvalladares8088]

I genuinely like this guy. I have woman like her and a relationship like that. I feel very lucky.

[@philoufl03]

Been married closed to 18 years. 100% agree with you and seeing you guys was like watching us. We r the same. 😁😍

[@lewistalmadge6703]

It looks like you both have fun together. I relate to many topics but my personal experience is years later when some of the baggage showed up (adult children from prior marriage) is when the arguments started - still in that place so hope it improves. Thanks for the advice.

[@andrew_barros]

Late to the party. Instantly laughed at the intro, and actually just watched that movie with my 10 yo daughter and she loved it. I grew up with that movie as well, Great movie!

[@evelynmueller6523]

I can relate to every point you made. Great to see someone else with the same philosophy of life....

[@Beardedfurflinger]

Married twice,the second lasted 26 years till her passing in 2018,we had 2 rules in our house 1)Never try & change the person that you married or love 2)Never go to bed mad or arguing,all you do is lay awake & stew about it,great video & awesome stuff

[@TIMEnayda]

You guys are so nice together!!! Thank you for making this video and sharing your experience

[@chigga76]

Great advice and definitely live by all of those things. Enjoy at least another 13+ years friend.

[@chriscrist911]

Enjoying catching up on the older videos.

[@ironfae]

That opening clip🤣🤣🤣 You’re TOTALLY my bro. 👍

[@car4fowler]

Thank you for saying you need to marry your friend ❤️ I was married 30 years to my best friend I lost her Last May .

[@tekeek]

Agree 100% already just based on #1. The rest are also spot on. Those 5 tips are all you need, IMHO. You guys are awesome and sound just like my wife and I.

[@dariuszciupinski7277]

“He who knows, does not speak. He who speaks, does not know. " - so much from Lao Tse (Laozi), who, after writing these words, teaches on another 500 pages about the same (roughly speaking). Anyway, what I like about what you do and say on your channel is (for me) a clear synergy. When I see how you treat friends, loved ones, animals, I see consistency and it gives credibility to this channel and the Host. Greetings from Poland and all the best for you and your loved ones. (y)

[@katwalk6898]

Hey Allison!!! So glad that you are well!! Miss workin with ya!

[@anthonymotley5388]

Thanks for the tips bro! My wife and I are bests friends and we both are on our 3rd marriage. We share all 5 of your tips and have been married for 9 years now and going strong!

[@davidkilby1043]

Great video, brother. My girlfriend and I met after the fires in Oregon last fall. Living in a hotel room will tell you everything about a person. We haven't argued hardly at all

[@DennisJPolson]

I’m fairly late, but still; “It’s time…!” You and Allison have such cool chemistry. Great topic and video, brother!

[@losd2472]

Loving this video. Just got married last Oct at 41. So glad that I waited.

[@dominant1100]

Recently got engaged and been with my better half for 10 years, we were high school best friends and started dating after high school.

[@clutch_50k79]

This is a great video and I agree with everything 100%. My wife and I have been married 25 years and it is successful because it is a partnership. I also recommend having a motto. Our motto is: "Nobody gets out alive."

[@CMathewGomez]

This one was timely. Just celebrated 5 years with my wife yesterday. Thanks for sharing your insight. 🙏🏻

[@mike61762]

Great VLOG! After 37 years of my 2nd marriage, I couldn't agree with you more. I see a lot of our relationship in your relationship and vice versa. Wishing you two the best.

[@theEDCgeek]

I agree with a lot of what you mentioned...You definitely must like the person you are with

[@jimcompton7676]

13 years, congrats! It's the early years that form the foundation for the future ones. My wife and I have been together since teenagers. Dated 7 years before we got married 40 years ago. So, been together almost 50 years. There are always bumps along the way, but you work through that together. Great video, thank you.

[@JeremySiers]

Totally agree my brotha and congrats on 40 years!!! Thats impressive!

[@carlosfernandez1]

Mínli & Kako Co. Inc. It's a partnership that has been on for 44 years. Ok...that's my wife and I. You nail it. Awesome video. Thanks for sharing.

[@benniecogar2699]

Been married to my lovely wife for 31 years, couldn’t agree more!

[@PhillipGibsonPhotography]

I relate with this so much. In my first marriage it only lasted 10 months. My second marriage has been a lot better, but her family also leaves the butter out....WHY! Great video bud👍

[@nickv5966]

Respek!! Drinking whiskey and enjoying positive feedback loop from how me and my wifey have done it all along. We on the same page brother and sister, thanks for sharing!

[@patrickschleihs]

Her laugh at 7:54 is just adorable...

[@OneNationSoul]

The secret to a successful marriage is 5 points: 1- Intellectual maturity 2- Understanding 3- Waivers 4- Sacrifice 5- Knowing (When/Where/Why) and respecting personal space, spatially and psychologically.

[@guitejada]

I'm not even married and don't intend to, but it's nice to watch any of your videos!

[@conspiratornot2215]

I enjoyed listening two you two. You are right on all of your 5 points. My wife and I will celebrate 31 years on November, and she us without a doubt my best friend. We enjoy being together even if we are doing different things. Congrats on being a successful couple, I wish you many more years of happiness together.

[@JeremySiers]

Thank you kind sir and the same to you. 😉👍🏻

[@alcornel71]

Awesome video with great advice. Thanks for sharing with us. Look forward to the next video.

[@MichaelWilde.pushbikegraddad]

Wedding anniversary this coming Friday, 27 years, retired two month ago and the wife retired this week, our jobs meant we only saw each other in the evenings,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,God knows how we will get along now we are off all the time together! Great video by the way!

[@JeremySiers]

Congrats man!

[@MichaelWilde.pushbikegraddad]

@@JeremySiers cheers, will let you know how I get on, will she put up with my ways

[@IgorCecelja]

I've married my best friend and the life we have is amazing. We had 3 or 4 small argues and thats it. We have one rule in the house. If we get into a fight, we have to sort it out before we go to bed. Pro tip, never ever go to bed angry, sort it out.

[@alighanadian7207]

Good stuff right there man. As someone who didn't have a father to teach him these sh*t, I appreciate it.

[@s.rankin9111]

Great video. Good to know I'm on the right track. Now all I need to do is to put a ring on that damn finger. The one thing I've learnt, is sometimes you have to be the bad guy. If you significant other is in a bad habit that is detrimental to them, you've gotta help them better themselves. Also, who the hell down votes a video about a happy marriage??

[@seanmendoza5722]

This is a great vid for newbies I’ve been wit my wifey for a lil over 20 years now brotha and you and ur wife hit a grand slam on each other’s views keep bringing that 🔥 and stay blessed brotha 💯💯🖤 !

[@JeremySiers]

Thanks brotha and congrats on 20!

[@colinettema8445]

Perfect timing for getting married in august! We already have so much of this going on and I knew very quickly it was something special but hearing it put into words is great! Love the content Jeremy keep it up!

[@timtam39tw]

I stubbleed upon your channel and I love it!

[@archietyler6759]

Hit it on the nail bro!!! I just celebrated 30yrs and I totally agree! Good to see ya my brother✌

[@JeremySiers]

Congrats on 30 my man!!!

[@johnboot6732]

Its amazing my wife and I always say you have to be best friends first! But I couldn't agree more.

[@davidlittle6621]

Interesting content. I'll use some of it. Keep up the good work!

[@nickscudiere3843]

Most accurate video I’ve watched in a long time. “Tip #2” holds very true. They all hold true, but that’s an important one to say the least lol. Which direction the TP goes is important!! Haha

[@Buzz_329]

Any word on the cigar journal bud?

[@JeremySiers]

Man, we are held up in a bad way. Hoping to get things back on track as soon as possible but some of the material in the journals is held up because of supply chain issue with Covid. 😞

[@Buzz_329]

Ahh that sucks. Been holding out on getting one cause I have a feeling yours will be nice. Oh well, good things come to those who wait...

[@allthehui]

Handmaid’s Tale is SO GOOD 👏

[@davidjoslyn1021]

My bride and I been going for 41 years plus 5 years looking under the hood. (That didn't sound right) Son and daughter, later two grandsons and loving life! You are right. You are doing what we did! She's my best friend and we are enjoying getting old together. We stay out of each others way! Lol

[@JeremySiers]

Congrats on 41!!

[@CigarTitans]

Congrats to you both. Relationships are reciprocal and take a ton of work! Blessings to you both!