5 Ways to Take Care of Your Wife with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Embark on a journey of deepening your spiritual connections and fortifying your marriage with us, Ken and Tabatha, as we unfold the secrets to fostering a flourishing relationship in our latest episode. Discover the six integral ways to care for your wife, insights that have not only strengthened our bond but have the power to transform yours too. From understanding the unique language of love your partner speaks to the pivotal role of spiritual leadership, we share our most personal experiences and lessons learned in the hopes of guiding you and your spouse towards a more harmonious and spiritually aligned life together.
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[@brishelton7107]

“Being a spiritual leader is more important than being a financial provider”-Ken 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@melchisedec.]

“I don’t need you to tell me” 🚩 your attitude in not right in front God.

[@melchisedec.]

Girl you want a man who provides you with financial stability. A lot is revolved around him being responsible for just that. Prophesying can be your job as the queen of the household. ❤

[@heatherreese6867]

🙌

[@calebhill7055]

Shout Out all my single fellas prepping to build a family. You Got This King ‼️

[@yvonnecato3848]

His wife is really kind, loving and respectful.

[@TheRansomHouse]

I really admire how Ken and Tabatha communicate with each other. I like how he allows her a safe space to express her feelings and he seems to understand what she feels/communicates.

[@yvonnecato3848]

I like the fact that he said for him to function as a husband he had to have a relationship with God., that is powerful. Most husbands lack that attribute. A man of God.

[@daphnebailey6223]

I’m recently married, and my husband is the best. I couldn’t ask for a better husband. He works hard, and cares for me deeply. I can’t wait for our love to grow and see what it’s like in 20-50+ years😊

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Love to read this! Don't forget to always keep dating each other 🙏🏾

[@danielkempton9659]

Hi I'm a man and have just a phew days ago stumbled into here. I like it a lot. And it's helping me already. I've told my wife about you two and she smiled. She's a real cutie she thinks you talk too fast but loves it lol. She's having a breast reduction tomorrow.

[@latonyalee322]

I absolutely Tabatha and how she is so soft but yet so very strong! I love the way Tabatha looks at Ken!

[@fitbodyworksonlinepro]

He's a good husband and humble. He sees room for growth in the relationship. Conscious and Awareness for God is always helpful

[@noms3841]

This podcast is going far🙌, God's hand is upon it❤. Let's share the channel with everyone 💞❤🎉

[@makayadejarnette6671]

Thank you for the healthy modeling as uncomfortable as it seemed for Ken. 💕 We need more of this safe vulnerability! Love y’all.

[@JerandGelPodcast]

I love this. My wife has brought self evaluation to our relationship which I had never experienced before and I love that we can see how we are doing through each others view. It's beautiful. We have grown a lot and continue to apply more to areas we lack in our relationship. Love it. Thank you for sharing your transparency with us.

[@queenconscious2989]

I love the fact that they can have these constructive conversations and remain loving & respectful towards one another. Not everyone grows up seeing this, I find it beautiful 🥹❤

[@eboniestringer5952]

She is so graciously telling him the TRUTH! I hope that he receives it in love.

[@celestialbodee]

I am so glad I stumbled upon this. I was married for 21 years, and always dreamed of and tried to create this type of openness, dialogue, and communication. This is beautiful to see and gives me hope for future relationships.

[@tianajones961]

LOVE THIS !!! Thank you for being so open and honest i needed this❤

[@neicyh1181]

This is so good because Ken is open to hear his wife needs really listening. Men don't listen like this. Omg, this is sooo good.

[@devaughnstephenson6309]

Lol she said I don’t like the way you think … he said I gotta process that 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

[@MrJR82]

🤣✨️

[@Gracegirlyy]

Timestamp?

[@Mmathapelo8910]

😂

[@kerryg3885]

😂😂

[@TheRuchingDiva]

I love how they addressed many of the things some of us have observed on the outside 😂. Ken does come across as controlling at times, so it's encouraging to see him willing to "process" and admit his areas of opportunity.

[@tearrajay9197]

Yes I wondered if I was looking too much into it. But Ken does seem controlling at times. But I do appreciate what the info they give us

[@shahara7375]

I thought I was the only one with this thought. I value the gems they drop here. I believe Tabatha is very graceful, respectful and loving in how she deals with things Ken does/says that may be off putting and it gives me hope. Instead of lashing out , being argumentative or ‘snippy’ in her responses, she takes the high road and responds with love and wisdom. I know how tough that is dealing with a partner like that, so I commend her for being so loving and understanding no matter what. This is great to see. Thank y’all for sharing for with us ❤

[@yvonnecato3848]

When a husband is not affectionate it due to the fact they did not get affection as a child as well as they did not see it in home while growing up.

[@michecostafaith]

Tabatha is fired up 😂❤❤

[@teresarobinson1677]

Yes, spiritual leader.. its a deal-breaker for me

[@laquandahill1322]

I have watched a few episodes now, and I love you guys! this was the best one hands down, at least regarding marriage! The first 15 minutes was a sheer display of humility, kindness, and oneness, while accepting each other's uniqueness and differences .You guys had a tough conversation and let us watch it. I don't know if y'all practiced this, I don't believe so, but what a vulnerable, transparent, beautiful moment between a couple who wants their marriage to win and our marriages to win too! The whole thing was wonderful! Thank you❤

[@RollanskyDarote]

Love you guys and this message. Glad to call you guys my lead pastors.

[@yourbesttoddlermodelgionna2319]

Omggg Ken STOPPP 🛑🛑🛑🛑😂😂😂🖐🏾🖐🏾 Talkin bout Baby ima need you not to shake da table n not be kickin me etc 😂😂😂😂🩷🩷😘😘

[@cameliamoodie4928]

My husband looks so appetizing when he worships in spirit and in truth . It's so beautiful 😍

[@camilleumland6976]

Pray for singles wanting and wanting to receive a spouse!

[@paulmatthews8776]

Nice episode

[@debbyrene]

Pride thinks everybody should do things the way they do it.

[@buggwa]

Our strengths can be our weaknesses when applied during the wrong time.

[@Mmathapelo8910]

12:56 so honest ❤

[@lolitaowens484]

Blessings Ken & Tabitha ❤ I watch you guys alot my husband starting to watch also , Thanks for your obedience to the Lord I believe GOD has called you guys to this 🙏🏾 Thanks again ❤

[@tricepugh5739]

You 2 are amazing. The security is so serious. I tell my husband this all the time. I've voiced to him how i dont feel secure, and if you all knew what i deal with, you would completely understand.

[@venerullysse8819]

I miss you guys so much. Love you guys and thank you for everything you guys ❤️ have shown 🙏 me all these years later.

[@MaeDayTv]

I prayed the prayer! Thank you! ❤️

[@kisha732]

This podcast literally has blessed me. 😢

[@abbya8749]

I enjoyed watching you two. Love the honesty and open conversation. In listening to this discussion regarding Tabatha saying that doing things your way could not be better simply because she is just a different person and it's hard sometimes. I am thinking just because his way might be harder and that you are different doesn’t factually mean it won't work or that is the only way but rather I understand it to mean the best way or method that will produce the best results of two or more options factoring different aspect like saving time, quality of tasks, efficiency, performance, taste, profit etc. It seems like Tabatha is an emotional thinker and processes and solves problems from a personal and emotional fulfillment level while the husband is facts and results-focused oriented. I like what you two are doing. May God continue to bless and guide you through this ministry.

[@melissacastillo4307]

I prayed that prayer Amen 🙏🙏

[@Allan-c3o]

When the Grace of God locates you , miracles happen. Amen

[@kolynslester6858]

incredle show ever.

[@Roosieb325]

I love y’all honesty on this podcast. It’s so authentic and raw. And as a single man, I learned a lot of a gems.

[@TheKibiro]

Hey..you guys have impacted my family life soon very much ...am grateful 🙏

[@nikkispell9060]

Self awareness is great but like faith without works is dead so is self awareness without change. We are all works in Christ so progress over profection!

[@yvonneharris1770]

Good podcast .I enjoy it. My husband is not spiritual but he is a good provider. Pray that he will give his life to God.

[@kegomoditswemotlhabani649]

have recommended the podcast to my friend and encouraged my husband to listen ...few episodes i have watched .at first when i got married taking care of my husband was really emphazsed ,to tell the truth i had no idea what that meant until i listen to the podcast Lord i learnt and understood the meaning behind take care of your husband for the past 4 months we have been married..thank you

[@nishman1370]

Great podcast. This information can help so many marriages and singles as well. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. The security part is so huge for a woman!

[@maameodeadu-gyamfi7913]

Listening and watching from Ghana. God bless you both. Learnt a lot

[@maryroseidu4661]

My highlight: the tongues… thank God for this podcast.

[@keondrawalton9251]

My fiancé and I are reading the 5 love languages. It’s helping us love each other in our love language.

[@fridahkaloza8540]

I came across this prodcast last year, I have never been the same I have become feminine without even me knowing how, I believe my marriage will never fail as am preparing to be a wife, thank you so much may God continue to bless you. Learning and following from zambia❤❤

[@thyramccray724]

This is so good thanks to my daughter who got saved in your Church who invited me to Watch your Contents oh my goodness you are amazing this is my favorite thing to watch and trying to emulate your principles, thank you 🙏

[@teresarobinson1677]

This has blessed me so mich.. I'm divorced but if God ever call me to marriage again.. I'm listening

[@vena2g2006]

Thank you so much for doing this podcast. I’ve sent this to my husband not to shame him but to encourage him and let him know that he is growing in the areas of loving me better.

[@alessiajoy2906]

Praying for you. May you continue to choose God first & your spouse. May God's angels be encamped all around you in every area of your lives & your children so that no hurt, harm, or danger will come near your dwelling. Thank you for being willing vessels in helping the Body of Christ.

[@sharonnabagwanya7740]

May the good Lord continue blessings u for us. we thank the holy spirit for the great job that he is enabling you to do. ❤u people.

[@gaillastof8851]

Thank you. What stood out the most is that the way I want to receive love/love language does shift. I.e I may not want as much physical touch now after having kids because they are often climbing on me and wanting attention. ❤

[@KayQhosa]

The intro is 🔥🔥. Love you guys!!

[@paulinekirby-rodgers9791]

Thanks for what you.. I enjoy your content. I love you both..

[@katrinataylor406359]

I prayed that prayer today

[@elizacolvin]

THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. I’m single but this provides so much Wisdom and insight that I’m always seeking. Thank you for the love you both have for Jesus and for eachother, it is truly a beautiful kingdom marriage! This is what I want!! So grateful for you both! Really blessed. I also sent this to my parents because there marriage is so broken! Thank you for all that you do. I pray that our heavenly Father will continue to pour out his love upon you and use y’all to reach those who need Jesus to Revive there Life! In Jesus name AMEN!! Also speaking on wisdom and insight.. I am definitely one who struggles with making decisions and really acting on faith for taking next steps. Specifically trusting GOD in the unknown and really knowing where God is leading you. Wondering if you guys could talk about it?

[@yvonnecato3848]

I am hering honesty.

[@CallmeAri_]

Okayyy Tabatha 💪🏾 💖✨Not married but enjoyed this conversation, love listening to you guys

[@Feej81]

Great job Keep them coming ❤

[@teresarobinson1677]

Question? Do you study the person during the dating process. I don't want to misuse that word process. I couldn't think of another word. Thank you for listening

[@robinraymond6035]

This is such an awesome teaching!! Thank you so much and may God continue to bless you and your family🙏🏽

[@gettended]

❤

[@melissacastillo4307]

Amen so good 🙏 thank you ken and tabatha blessings

[@zaidagonzalez466]

Tabaka, you came to our church CALVARY CHURCH not so long ago. Your testimony was very touching and real. I’m very thankful for you your ministry as well as your husband. I have shared some with my husband. You guys are doing a great job we got continue and this journey so that we learn more, and be strong leaders with our families so that they could see Christ in us

[@stellanatukwasa4452]

Ohh my God am loving this,God bless you 🙏 Keeping helping us.

[@joyaustin3140]

Y’all got a new subscriber..God 1st you got me and then you’ll are actually communicating, I’ve never seen two couples more transparent. This is edifying 💕. I’m blown away

[@righteousmasculine]

I really enjoyed this video lots of GODLY wisdom

[@jstellato921able]

Excellent podcast! I resonate so much with not only this particular podcast, but everything you share on relationships & marriage! Thank you for putting out such quality content. God Bless you both and keep them coming! 🤍🕊️✝️

[@norahnakalanzi931]

I love this a lot, was Married before now Single, but this is good, being honest and open with each other, this is deep, thank you love love this. wow

[@asher579]

Thank you for being obedient to the voice of GOD,This podcast has really helped me get some nuggets on marriage as I am getting married soon much love from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

[@Mmathapelo8910]

I appreciate and love you guys, I love this podcast

[@hannahdavis8022]

Thank you, guys truly thank, you for these videos they help me so much! i do not have a lot of believers in my life so i look up to you guys as spiritual leaders.

[@phenyorakoma]

Love you guys ❤

[@TashaunaHowe]

Thank yall❤

[@mahoganybaptiste5491]

Pray for the people in Palestine 🇵🇸

[@sarahlehman8913]

You were treating her like a child when you said don’t hit the table don’t move your arms aroundi.

[@1jazzjasmine]

He shows a lot of signs characterized by Narcissism. But narcissists can never see how they’re wrong

[@yvonnecato3848]

He sounds like my husband is not affectionate, petty and egotistic and mean. I guess he has grown because he is listening to God. My husband needs to listen to God.

[@awsambdaman]

He doesn’t sound that way to me at all. He literally made an episode on how to take care of your wife

[@thebestfam9868]

Loved this!

[@arethaford3368]

This is so good!!

[@sarahlehman8913]

Why is this turning out to be a discussion all about him? It’s supposed to be her.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Please finish the episode ❤️❤️

[@yvonnecato3848]

I feel fear when I don't have security, because I am able to function on my own so if a husband is ''in the picture' he should play his part. I feel a sense of security with my husband as he never causes me to be jealous, However I feel afraid when he is unkind. I experience insecurity financially.

[@Mmathapelo8910]

11:38 ❤

[@tonystooltime]

I like this couple , but I wanted to hear from his wife on the topic. He kept asking her questions and wasn’t letting her speak.

[@jocelynreese4278]

Tabatha, I would love to talk to you in private. Is there anyway I could write directly to you? No disrespect to Ken. Love him, but sometimes you just need a woman to woman conversation. Please let me know

[@thembisamakhoba1606]

❤❤😊

[@yvonnecato3848]

Ken is trying to be defensive when his wife points out areas of lack in the relationship.

[@hollyrosario5355]

🔥🔥🔥

[@donnabrown8187]

Hey. I was married over 28years. Now divorce. I'm waiting for my real king It's getting hard. Any advice?

[@rebkatesfaldet5050]

🙏

[@lolitaowens484]

😅 and ya'll funny

[@michaelcarter7829]

This is refeshing

[@BBIMFAN]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@yvonnecato3848]

What she described as insecurity for her is trauma. She needs to be whole.

[@Glorifiedak]

🩵

[@Mmathapelo8910]

9:36 his face😂😂😂😂

[@christyrigsby9617]

He's too defensive