50-50 Is a Scam , Childfree or Not! Decenter Men

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[@alchemygold8786]

When men are going through their feminine era. Women stay single.

[@hawkrose2698]

💯

[@armanijack2927]

Yes, men think they deserve an award for not cheating or being abusive. That is insane. Treating a woman like a human being is seen as an option for them instead of the standard.

[@rosellegurl7445]

My ex didn't understand why I dumped him because he never cheat or beat me smh.

[@mikhalaa746]

The day a man ask me to go 50/50 is the day i laugh in his face.✌🏽

[@misssonyalee6159]

😅👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍👍

[@donnamcintosh2109]

That is why women should not allow themselves to be shamed for not wanting to date or marry down.

[@armanijack2927]

While you’re doing 50/50 trust that he’d never ask his dream woman to go 50/50. If he gets the opportunity he will leave you for the woman that won’t have to pay for the relationship.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

yup

[@donnamcintosh2109]

BINGO!!

[@alchemygold8786]

This is true… my ex saved so much money when we were together. He bought toys like a bmw, motorcycle, new wardrobe, traveling alone. Meanwhile I am saving my portion of my paycheck for our children, the household and even a rainy day.

[@alchemygold8786]

Now he can barely pay child support on his own.

[@prettyla5553]

THISSS!!

[@yasminogbu8929]

Unbelievable! Shocking

[@DhalilaD]

Yet you’re still talking about him like a child…. “toys” mam those aren’t toys . pick me mental still

[@nono-tg8dn]

That part when you said men don't realize that everything they want is driven by emotions went DEEP 😱

[@bougiehippie]

The man should pay all the bills and your name should be on all businesses and assets acquired during your relationship especially if you are helping him build. If he refuses dont help him. And never let a man know how much money you make.

[@mahilla]

💯💯🙏🏾

[@theblackrose7935]

Yes women are far more diverse from one another, where there are only a few categories of men.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

omg yes 😂

[@hiniewinie]

35:52 girl, shera7's golden quotes is reverberating in my head when you talked about this " I'm a woman. I don't give; I receive."

[@chokoladkallc]

FACTS‼️It's financially investing in HIM. Can't wait to hear your thoughts on this.

[@ashleanycole]

Facts

[@AdayBB231]

Side note i need some more child free single women friends

[@femmybetts5494]

Girlll here I am. Let’s link up

[@Rosaline1700]

Here girly!!!!

[@donnamcintosh2109]

I wished I would have had the single and child-free mindset a long time ago!!

[@AdayBB231]

@@Rosaline1700 hey 👋

[@Rosaline1700]

@@AdayBB231 how r u?

[@bougiepeaches5497]

More like 90/10 relationship.🤮

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

i BANISH ANY WICKED MEN who think they can approach me with 50/50 propositions! 😂😂😂

[@sydneyg4664]

12:00 omg yes!! women have everything we need within ourselves. that’s why i believe that women always have and will be the true providers of the world. we naturally provide joy and comfort to ourselves and other women. ❤

[@Iam_Celene]

I had someone get mad at me for saying it’s unrealistic and highly unlikely a man is going to shower you with gifts and trips and affection and expect nothing in return.

[@tassys]

It's true. They always expect something in return. Even strangers think buying a drink or a meal gives access to women's bodies.

[@Zoemaria_1998]

Nothing in life is free

[@DivaDivine88]

Nothin is free but your boundaries are exclusive

[@taesimmer]

It is still so hard to accept all of this even knowing it's true. Unfortunately, even growing up I saw lots of couples putting hands on each other, bullying each other and ultimately staying for the flicks. I always thought dating was for getting married. These days the idea of dating without marriage is a lot more realistic and ideal. I'm not "lonely" but I'm also not losing my myself in someone else. If love takes, sacrifice, turmoil, abuse, loss of passions, depression and anxiety- I don't want it.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@taesimmer yes I agree , it’s hard to accept . But I feel so much more free after knowing the truth because it helps me to not over romanticize men in general

[@SevenofEleven]

It's 100/0 and he's taking your life force every moment that passes by Just leave him, sis. Life is so beautiful when you're not stressing

[@CreolePearls_]

50/50 relationships and marriages seem real draining 😕 you are basically being used by men to financially support his lifestyle at your damn expense 😠 if a man can’t afford to carry more than 50% of the financial burden than he shouldn’t be dating at all. Majority of men make about 50k a year 🙄

[@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner]

I have been feeling down for not being married or having kids since I am in my mid 30’s and a career that sucks. Your channel makes me feel better. Thank you for all of your advice!

[@Islandgirl7000]

I don’t know why WE put some much trust in the leadership and capabilities of men - Weren’t we all in elementary school, middle and high school with these boys ? When did they magically become wise and astute leaders ? At 18? 25? 😂

[@noodles2pasta]

😂😂😂 no for real! Lmao

[@mothership9234]

EXACTLY!! They’re dumb!!

[@mscherryboss]

The way you break down the nature of a man makes them such a turn off omg 😂

[@AnnaGrace603]

YES! I had a man who had slightly less money than me. I always felt bad about it when he could not afford something. So if we were at a festival and I bought myself a dress, I bought him something fancy too. Everytime I got myself something in his presense he got something too. It was complete role reversal. He was doing nothing for me. He was only hanging on my skirt like a Mamas boy. I also paid his dept to his dealer cause we wanted some weed and he would not get any. Since women are the natural givers nurturers and providors.....a women can't help it but help him out. Women are just way too nice and have too much much heart. He was like a princess....He got everything from me since I could not NOT share with my boyfriend. At some point He got so used to it that he didnt take any Money with him when we went on vacation. I never felt so castrated and disrespected in my femininity. Since that I have major résistance against men who want 50/50....its immidiate TURN OFF 🤢🤮 P.S In the end he wanted children and be a stay at home dad. His appartment was a huge mess. No Sir!

[@Fbdnsnab-g9d]

16:25 I never comment on anything but this struck a nerve with me so much I have a desire to share my 2cents on the topic. I’m a lesbian and dated a woman with whom I lived for almost a year. Ladies trust me, it’s not just men, it is literally every single gender trying to make their lives easier. While we were in a relationship we lived 50/50 (rent, food etc) It was important for her from the jump that we do everything 50/50 from the start. At first I assumed it was ok but then I quickly realised that it did not make sense, since she was earning more than me. Over time we started arguing more and more, since she felt that I could be doing more around the apartment bc I was working part-time and she did full time (due to visa restrictions I can’t work more hours) I enjoyed cooking so I would always try to make a healthy meal for us both, since I felt bad that she came home so late. Shit hit the fan one day while we were arguing and she stater how annoyed she felt that she had to do the cleaning and the laundry( at that point I just used weaponized incompetence bc I couldn’t be bothered) I clearly stated to her, again another woman, how I had done all the cooking and that It takes more time and care to do that than just put the clothes in a dryer. Her answer -like it’s hard you’re already doing it for yourself just make me a plate too. I felt incredibly annoyed since I had to give up more than 50% of my paycheck to pay rent,for a flat that I hated (it was too big and the decor was the classical ikea millennium white no creativity whatsoever ) While she was paying far less than the apartment she had previously lived in, my expenses went up. It was great for me too bc I didn’t have to share an apartment with roommates too, but roommates are far less demanding than SO. She could save up money and travel while my resentment grew. I expected to be wined and dined since I was her gf and tbh objectively more attractive than her. We got in this argument when I asked her if she could pay for my make up since I didn’t have so much that month. Immediately this woman starts talking about gender equality and LGBT rights saying how we’re above straight relationships, how we should be doing 50/50 bc we’re equal and that it’s offensive how I view her as a man in the relationship.😂😂 long story short ladies, they want the feminine touch in their lives, to walk next to you when you look hot in a dress and guys stare at you, when you cook etc. but the moment you expect something back it’s like I’m setting back feminism and lesbian rights 50years back😂😂

[@Fbdnsnab-g9d]

Sorry for the grammar and typo mistakes I got too riled up even thinking about it 😂 😂 can’t be bothered to re-read this tomfoolery 😂

[@TMeyer-ge5pj]

I agree. Relationships usually are just people trying to make their domestic lives easier. They're not usually because the people share a deep connection unfortunately. That's why I just want to be single

[@0l0l00l0]

Wow thanks for sharing this. Im straight but I definitely always felt like its not just men I have to watch out for but just people in general who can take advantage of my pretty privilege.

[@chokoladkallc]

Wow, it's good that you got out of that situation! Maybe it's just an unhealed masculine energy trait (man or woman) to try to pull the 50/50 scam 🤔

[@Fbdnsnab-g9d]

@0l0l00l0 I was an idiot for a long time bc I felt that I was better than others by acting like a martyr and not TREATING PEOPLE LIKE KIDS DID TO ME IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. A few weeks ago I came to the realization why tf am I comparing my dumbass 12yo who was so awkward around people with actual 20 something grown ups who are just plain old nasty people. What I gathered from ppl observing is that the more privileges you have stacked up ( which usually don’t go hand in hand) ppl are more nasty. Pretty+kind = that’s not possible smart+ pretty= they’ll humble you by saying you’re naive and the one that I found to be the worst for people having a loving family+ financial security bc of your family They always say stuff like Oh money doesn’t buy happiness they probably have a fucked up family situation or mommy/daddy issues and when I pull out the fact that my dad is my bff 😱😱😱 it’s always those people

[@thebeautystandard]

"I'm purchasing an image" that's a BAR.

[@ashleanycole]

No matter what you do they will try to push to get the max out of you with the least effort or investment. I don’t give men money ? They only use it to make themselves look more important or special than what they are .

[@annadenise8902]

“…he gotta whole other family in AFRICA” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@noodles2pasta]

the facts of this is crazy! 😅

[@fireinthesky_71]

"While you in the kitchen cooking chicken..." that's real talk right there.

[@ElysianGhostPrincess]

I too enjoy an avocado with a sprinkle of tajín 🥑🌶✨️

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@ElysianGhostPrincess omg I just found another avocado in my fridge I’m so excited 😂

[@ElysianGhostPrincess]

@ExoticalsUnited ooooooo so exciting!! I really want to make an avocado rose toast paired with some cherry tomatoes 😋 I discovered it while visiting a coffee shop and it was delicious ✨️

[@AndyJ-le7tp]

In regards to your comments about women being happy living in an apartment I can attest I own my own home but fantasize about downgrading to a one bedroom apartment and having it cleaned like you do homeownership gets to be too much 😂

[@talkingtochapri]

59:06 this is very true 💯 the confidence and audacity of married males is something else 🤭💀

[@logie17]

When I was in college I remember girls buying guys tickets to expensive concerts and pro football & hockey games and jerseys to go with it. I asked one girl what her boyfriend bought her in return and she said a bathrobe lol. I wanted gifts from men but I had no power to ask because all the other girls were buying men gifts and I remember feeling angry. Millennial and Gen X women are some of the biggest pick me’s of all time.

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

wife: “i just had to pay for the kids school curriculums, plus the insurance didn’t cover their last visit” husband: “well, you’re the one who wanted them to.. anyway, i still need that half… by tomorrow.. the 1st”

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂😂😂

[@Rosaline1700]

I already agree!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

💀

[@alchemygold8786]

Well the way I see it, as adults we have the responsibility to get therapy and self growth. I do not feel bad for men that feel bad for themselves or lonely.

[@eleusinia_]

30:42 - that still took me out as you were explaining the meal prep scenario 😭

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂😂😂

[@tfotw21]

You ate this. #exoticaltax 😂

[@Juliee-f3x]

😂🤣your videos are so funny. But nothing but facts spoken. like they be acting like they are about to be USED by us women when they pay bills. Meanwhile what we bring to the table cant even be quantified🙄 like you said

[@food4thought692]

And when we do try to quantify it most of them can not afford it.

[@Juliee-f3x]

@@food4thought692 right!

[@stardust464]

Every woman needs to hear this message honestly

[@rykie8081]

Date him when he is stable. Don't wait for him and build with him.

[@Godis4me1978]

❤ agreed and this is why men are the new women and shaking these women's purses

[@jennarubi_]

This video is such a slay

[@sarahm7842]

Hearing the last 1 minute, an example of their inner dialogue, was so chilling. It reminded me of the Dexter voice-over. Stay safe from these sociopaths ladies omg

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

imagine having to spend major unexpected expenses (house repairs, car repairs, health care, child care) then your man walks up to you like “so where’s your half of the bills…” this scenario makes me wanna 🤢🤮

[@ExoticalsUnited]

And then imagine him asking you to bend it over and bust it wide open after that 😂 omg I can’t

[@PrincessPowerranger]

50/50 why is it in wealthy families the guy has a man cave but the wife doesn't have a princess flow room, why does he get to have two rooms in y'alls house. The math isnt mathing its more like 75% vs 25%, also a lot of women are not even allowed in their husbands man cave

[@Lyndell239]

10k is a small down-payment for a house where!?

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂😂😂

[@jayee2188]

A good amount of the Midwest.

[@Lyndell239]

@jayee2188 Where in the Midwest is that 20% of a home for a down-payment? I'm genuinely curious!

[@jayee2188]

@@Lyndell239 places where the KKK are still alive and well and that’s the trade off! Look through pockets of Indiana and Missouri, KY too. 🤣

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

30:43 💀 😂 the way EU drags men with their medical issues is the funniest ish

[@JG_SmileSOBright]

Words cannot express how on target this commentary truly is. Even though I'm married to a man that worships the ground I walk on, I am firmly seated in your amen corner! You should do seminars.

[@AnnaGrace603]

The problem is that women dont know how to be in a relationship with a man without centering her life around him. The man will center himself. Many men are inheretly selfish. They will try to sweep a women of her feet and once they reach their goal they become lazy about the relationship. A women also takes on the negative emotions of a man. A women can't help it....she is like a sponge for his negative emotions. That why some women develope all kind of diseases while in relationships with men. Psychologist Gabor talks in his podcasts about it. He is a smart, mature educated man. And even he admits that he was a third big child to his wife and that most men subconsciuosly search for a mother in a women. Really makes you think twice it you want to give another men a chance. All my exes made me suffer and sacrifise for them

[@yasminogbu8929]

It’s 9.47pm, back from work. Had a few cocktails now in the bath, ready for this damn good episode! Bring on the “ Is 50/50 a scam…” 🍿

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Nice! I just got done decorating my patio for fall so I’m having a soft girl night too! 😍

[@yasminogbu8929]

@@ExoticalsUnited ❤️

[@miabennett6126]

Girl I cannot stop snapping to this you are on point 👏🏾

[@adarateranroldan]

18:00 agree about the lack of deeper thought

[@Id.rather.be.a.dragon]

Such an important video. 💛

[@Iam_Celene]

Did you hear about the story of that woman in France in her 70s where her husband of 50 years allowed dozens of men to come in and assault her in the middle of the night where she was sedated. I definitely think it’s something to talk about because those men looked “normal” and there was one journalist and one nurse. If this doesn’t make women want to rethink marriage at least how it stands today I don’t know what will.

[@SaskiaTheBoss]

i was super skinny all 2020-2022 & i was still not impressed:m,’x it’s not even the weight, they’re just trash, which is why i’ve remained single all my life & decided to upgrade myself so i can meet better men of a higher class

[@DivaDivine88]

My ex keeps saying if i take him back and get a place with him, the "keys to the Kingdom" are mine 🙄.. meanwhile he's living with his mama, drivng the broke down car i sold him, he owes me money for a vacay we took last year and for belongings of mine that he destroyed and tickets he got on the car 😂...oh, and the cherry on top is that he doesn't qualify for any loans, or an apartment bc of past eviction.. but yet he say he will pay all the bills and take care of me and talking about babies.. i moved back in with another ex that i felt safe after all his abuse and wmhe want me to leave him to live with him at his mama house or getan apart in my name 😂😂😂😂.. I'm like boy WTF do I look like✌🏾⁉️

[@gwenjohn8673]

Fantastic content x

[@sablesupremacy888]

I have to try the avocado with tajinn now

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yes! You should try it with tahin, sea salt or seasoning salt! Whichever one you have on hand !

[@sablesupremacy888]

@@ExoticalsUnited I got you! I want to eat healthy snacks.

[@lifeofmim]

I just love this channel so much. That’s all ❤

[@meredithgrey777]

24:54 OMG 🤣🤣🤣😭😂😂

[@ExoticalsUnited]

😂 they should be happy if they’re even attracting an “average at best” woman

[@meredithgrey777]

@@ExoticalsUnited The misogynists are gonna hate that one! I'm going to start using it immediately 😂

[@Whoknows688]

Did you see that SylisDaGoldenPeach responded to you? She's upset because you called a spade a spade 😒

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Yes I saw 😂 and she’s still spiraling saying that she has no self esteem because her LS mom never called her beautiful …

[@Whoknows688]

@@ExoticalsUnited absolutely W I L D

[@geminigirl3800]

I want to be with someone and start a family but some less ambitious people make it a like a challenge just to make me feel bad.

[@jasmineali5699]

Have you made a video about the conditions you'd consider before marrying a man? Would love to hear it!

[@ExoticalsUnited]

@@jasmineali5699 no because there’s no evidence to show that my conditions will be met 😂 LMAO but no I have decentered dating content on my members and patreon . I don’t post dating strategy content publicly

[@jasmineali5699]

@@ExoticalsUnited LMAO. I've been struggling for years to find a reason to get married and I still haven’t come across any content or real-life example that makes me realistically see myself in a marriage. So, I’m just going to keep doing what I do-stay hot, fun, and unbothered. I’ll take a look at your Pateron soon ❤

[@PercivalWilliams1990]

What do Do You think 70/30, or 80/20 relationship? Also coming from the Christian religion the man as the head of the house must provide for the family.

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Oooooooh I have a lot to say about Christian relationships but don’t wanna be offensive 😮 as far as 70-30 80-20 etc , I’ve noticed a lot of men will gradually try to push those into becoming 50-50 over time . there’s a pattern where in almost every scenario, he’s trying to extract as much labor out of the woman as possible . If it’s not financially it will be in other areas. And don’t even get me started on the women who help men build their businesses for free ? Like Elon musks ex wife and Jeff bezos’ ex wife etc ?

[@PercivalWilliams1990]

@@ExoticalsUnited I'm all ears. I grew up very Christian. My father was the breadwinner. Mother was a house wife

[@DreamGirlHub101]

Girl I would love to collab with you. You're so smart and inspiring ❤ 00:33:51

[@ExoticalsUnited]

hey girly! yes lets collab! if youre interested you can email me at [e-mail] otherwise this comment is gonna get lost and i'm gonna forget 😅

[@DreamGirlHub101]

@@ExoticalsUnited Girl! You know you tha G.O.A.T. ! ! Decentering is changing so many lives. Women are setting theirs elves free. I get random women talking to me about their ex or bd. We waking up!

[@DennisAkosah]

Why date or marry women whiles you can just have fun and move on !! I don’t understand men sometimes

[@DreamGirlHub101]

Talk to em!😂

[@Afrocreolebombshelle]

Yessss ❤

[@noodles2pasta]

EU please tell me whereeeee in the world you live where your total expenses are $2,500 ! 😮

[@ExoticalsUnited]

LMAO! i live in the US but i'm very meticulous about my expenses, my groceries, i meal prep, I calculate my gas etc. oh and i also have no kids. as far as beauty stuff, i get everything on groupon to keep my expenses low. 2500 is actually a bit high, i usually try to stay around 2200 but i tend to spend more money in the summer time so theyre higher because ive been going out more . i might make a members video on how i have managed to live in luxury places while keeping my expenses low but im not afraid of couponing and stuff, thats basically my secret. so if a luxury apartment has a deal going on, i may be more likely to move there. when i grocery shop, i calculate how much each ounce of food costs by the cent, etc. i can talk more about it .

[@noodles2pasta]

Would love that. My rent alone is 3000 . I’ve been keeping track and on top of my finances and I don’t think I live this super extravagant life yet my total expenses are almost 9,500 😅 Is the members channel on patreon?

[@princesspeachy4862]

32:03

[@ChristianaMaru3]

Just to be on the same page, cuz I take things very literally; Is this suggesting that women shouldn’t marry? Instead of marriage, or dedication to a man then what? ? Be a lesbian? Have a man on the side? Live separately? Be celibate? What instead? What do we do with the biological drive to pair bond?

[@ExoticalsUnited]

Uh, your lifestyle is up to you . Never blindly follow content creators on KZbin . My channel is created to inform you and make you think. That’s it.

[@ChristianaMaru3]

@@ExoticalsUnitedyeah I get that and wouldn’t blindly follow or anything. Just curious about what could be done if a girl wants this independent lifestyle, and doesn’t necessarily want to follow the biological drive.

[@TLW369]

♥️👏…third.

[@lareineii]

👸✨️💯 🍸

[@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner]

I have been feeling down for not being married or having kids since I am in my mid 30’s and a career that sucks. Your channel makes me feel better. Thank you for all of your advice!