I went off social media for the month+ of Lent...I replaced my scroll time with watercolor painting... best thing I've ever done. I'm far more engaged in the world now. Just got back from a 6km hike up into the mountains. Things i didn't have "time" for previously.
@SabitaPun-uf3di7 ай бұрын
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@brynne777 ай бұрын
Good for you!. I tend to read a lot. Good distraction from looking at my laptop (I don't scroll through phones, but look at my laptop, maybe more than I should).
@andreascott30013 ай бұрын
So we all watch videos including this one ...one after another and she says.. check out the next video 😂😢
@lindaszilagye7943Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. That inspires me to do the same.
@PeacePatch18207 күн бұрын
And now you're back to it. Lol. 😂
@MsCorky28 ай бұрын
Gosh this guy is excellent. Please have him back and for longer.
@janetderouin95337 ай бұрын
I like to wear red, bright pink, and bright colours to the gym when exercising. The colours make me excited to exercise. I love exercising and I love life. My life has some sorrows like giving birth to a disabled child, having a husband with kidney disease, still waiting for a kidney transplant and me having a diagnosis of a mental disorder two years ago. I had brain surgery 2 years ago changing my mental disorder to one of a having a growth on my brain. I had brain surgery and the tumour was removed. I have changed my life now to one of joy and excitement. I have found colours and taking charge of my life has changed me to enjoy my life. I live in a small city in Canada where I walk everywhere to buy groceries, live beside a river, enjoy the beautiful countryside and enjoy my lifestyle. Thank you Mel! And your guest!
@BP-tg1nd7 ай бұрын
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@danielgoldberg53575 ай бұрын
That’s inspiring.
@lynnmichelle54828 ай бұрын
Stretching, moving, meditating at the end of the day, these are what help me feel relaxed and give me a good night's sleep, or doodling , colouring, drawing, research shows this also calms and relaxes the brain and helps with pain, anxiety, stress also. Build a happy little habit and it grows and helps you become motivated and more present ❤
@jessicawinner87597 ай бұрын
I did the same thing with the Eclipse, twice!! Drove 7 hours to my friend's home and we then drove another 3 hours south to capture 4 minutes of "magic". We also spent 6 hours hanging with butterflies a different day and we hike together whenever we get the chance. Next year the two of us are going to Alaska to chase the Aurora Borealis, ride a train, and soak in Hot Springs. I also walk around my yard barefoot almost daily [earthing] to receive the benefits of grounding and a silent mind. I absolutely love that I have found a way to disconnect from the mundane and absorb the awe of our surroundings and what nature provides us. My anxiety has nearly fully disappeared!!!
@dawnm31342 ай бұрын
beautiful! I also love to walk in my yard or along the ocean barefoot - and when its frosty it really helps disconnect from the mundane !
@loredanafetescu24 күн бұрын
What do you do for work? Genuinely curious
@kopsie63798 ай бұрын
You've done it again Mel. Great guest, amazing insight from this gent.
@joea86508 ай бұрын
Terrific guest. Engaging, insightful, wonderful communicator. A must return guest. Thanks for sharing!
@bobmoore62488 ай бұрын
I live in N ID. For years 1 of my favorite things is to do is set my chair or cot up in a mountain stream and read the Bible. You can hear the sunshine and the peace.
@pennygeddis91488 ай бұрын
Thank you Mel and Dr Adam, I'm grateful that I don't have a SmartPhone - my wife does that scroll thing constantly when she gets home from work. I hope that she will watch this and maybe change that empty feeling. There's so much more to life than endlessly scrolling. Thanks for the colour and being out in nature tips too - I always feel better when I walk outside. Now I can see why!
@MargaretKoelmel-b5k2 ай бұрын
I also love being in nature. It is very calming
@ginwilcox95558 ай бұрын
This is a great Podcast! I truly miss spending time outside as I've been working for the last many months toward a promotion (that I'm not sure I even want). On my next day off I'm going to clean up my porch and make a cozy spot so I can easily give myself outside time every day. Thank you, I needed this push to take care of my own mental perspective.🌳
@calista12808 ай бұрын
Don't forget to take a walk outside too. Important to get your blood pumping for good health and GOOD SLEEP!!! 😴 💤 🛏 PS It also clears your mind of all the work stress & increases endorphins, the feel good hormones...
@iluvcupquake1237 ай бұрын
@@calista1280sleep❤eating❤being present❤️timelessness❤️reinvigorating your youth by emotion and physical means❤️
@janetwilliams35178 ай бұрын
As a marketer, I've studied colours and what comes to mind is that colour is often interpreted very differently around the world. For example, white in Western Society is associated with weddings, cleanliness, etc.; however, in some Asian cultures, white is quite the opposite: it represents death, for one.
@carrad123456Күн бұрын
yes, specially in some of the Hindu communities. but at same time in some Hindu communities bride wears white ! so there are extremes everywhere.
@kimberleylangford55367 ай бұрын
In my city (Calgary, Alberta, Canada) we have many natural parks. My son and I get out to them as much as we can. Nature restores my soul! My son used to spend most of his free time online, and I know that getting away from it and into nature has been so good for him. TV is my problem. I have to get back to spending my evenings with a good book!
@maria-wh3km4 ай бұрын
That is so true, I almost stopped social media and scrolling and to my surprise these days I can focus again to read books! I almost was thinking I lost my ability to read!
@MakeupEsquire8 ай бұрын
Mel.... I absolutely love your content. You have helped me in so many ways. Thank you for being here and making my day every time I get notified of new content. Stay safe and have a blessed day. 💜
@mariahs2457 ай бұрын
Great show - as always. Love Mel’s curiosity and humility she brings to her interviews.
@mamafaramokgopa47158 ай бұрын
The mirror also helps a lot when making sales calls. You look at your self and your attitude changes completely particularly if you are not in a good mood. You start smiling and the other person on other side of the phone can actually feel it. Which will certainly redirect your output 🎉
@jeanbartrum27738 ай бұрын
Greens make me feel relaxed ,Purples make me feel focused but relaxed ,Yellow makes me feel edgy and energetic.Colour is powerful this is why it is used in politics and in authority and in hospitals and institutions. Red can give you confidence ,Blue clams and Greens x
@user-q9927 ай бұрын
Scrawling and iPhone is not always a bad thing. That is my favourite tool to go to when my narc husband goes into silent treatment for weeks. He hates my phone because when I am listening to podcasts like these or watching old favourite movies or songs, connecting with my friends and family, he knows his crappy behaviour becomes insignificant and barely noticeable! 🎉
@brynne777 ай бұрын
Maybe not, as long as you don't spend too much time on it. And try not to make excuses about why you 'need' to use/scroll through it.
@user-q9927 ай бұрын
@@brynne77 I don't make any excuses for anything I do. I don't need to convince anyone. I will do what I like, just as everyone else in the world 😅
@mnlsgray5 ай бұрын
@@user-q992, Dr. Ramani is great.
@mnlsgray5 ай бұрын
Dr. Ramani and “Surviving Narcissism.”
@ritaowens73782 ай бұрын
DIVORCE
@SimpleCleanAndGreen7 ай бұрын
I love spending time in my garden!
@darkkstar56478 ай бұрын
The irony of having even found Mel Robbins and others if not for scrolling, and then being click-baited by her to watch yet another video with "more info." LOL
@Agangelone7 ай бұрын
I listened to her pod cast. I don’t watch it. When I’m cleaning, I put Mel on. He is talking about being on your device doing anything that doesn’t bring you a sense of well being.
@darkkstar56477 ай бұрын
@@Agangelone we know what he's referring to. I'm referring to the irony. CHEERS! SM is SM whether it's vid, podcast, a Xeet, Insta ...
@annswallow22476 ай бұрын
Not lost on me. However, way better content than just mindlessly scolling.
@janetstraw1916 ай бұрын
👍👏👏👏😂‼️
@geraldineb.92042 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. I have to tell myself. Enough for now 😅
@ashleyhutchison51128 ай бұрын
I just love your show Mel! You really are a lighthouse ❤
@calista12808 ай бұрын
I'd be more interested in how color affects our moods
@shaungraceregoita62867 ай бұрын
You are the best Mel and the guest.❤❤❤
@darrelmakela17264 күн бұрын
It is really hard to rap my head around the average time spent looking at a screen could be 20 years! Wow! Stopping cues, I am going to create more of those in my life. What a simple concept. Great podcast with Dr. Alter
@Ela_India7 ай бұрын
I’m a big fan of Adam Alter’s work. I will buy every book he publishes because of the work he puts in, to put productivity into perspective. His book Anatomy of a Breakthrough really helped me understand my own approach to creative projects and the challenges we face while trying to finish a long drawn out project. Great interview, thank you
@ReginaLacanienta7 ай бұрын
What are his books? Thank you
@Ela_India7 ай бұрын
@@ReginaLacanienta Anatomy of a Breakthrough
@jpl02028 ай бұрын
Mel, this podcast was one of your best. The sad part is we won’t know the effects of internet device babies for many years. I see kids who are small enough to be sitting in a grocery cart holding a device with a screen just to keep them entertained.
@faygreville83687 ай бұрын
We do. Theres many reports now coming out and its all.BAD
@lizielita7 ай бұрын
Great interview, thank you. Love the way Mel talks, which is clear, well pronounced and slowly. I can follow and understand everything she says. Thank you. He's great too.
@seanshah69058 ай бұрын
Wow what an eye opening interview! Many take away learning points for me. Great job Mel & Adam! 🙏
@JoanneG-f9g8 ай бұрын
I’m due for a smart phone upgrade grade .. and very much considering a “ flip phone” .. I leave my phone off and at home base most of the time… I appreciate the explanation of difference with TV screens, and “ interactive devices”. Great podcast! Thank You both!
@janethecht82638 ай бұрын
You just have to be thankful for life❤
@tiffanyblackwell23788 ай бұрын
The most beneficial podcast I’ve ever heard because it is something I can do today and possibly have the strongest impact on my life.
@marcelobonandi7 ай бұрын
Mel, you can claim you did find your purpose of life!!! THANK YOU 🙏
@lisavillanueva56288 ай бұрын
What great information to help me make changes. Thank you Mel and Dr. Adam.
@yuliyayakubova59545 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Mel! I learned so much! I also purchased Dr. Adam's latest book on Audible and looking forward to dive into it!
@maryrico78168 ай бұрын
Yes agreed but by scrolling I found Mel. So how do we listen to Mel podcasts it's on our devices!
@missyhash30188 ай бұрын
Started listening to that book- you’re right it’s very enjoyable
@kathyiseri11975 ай бұрын
My heartrate literally went up as the show went on! Love it, thank you.
@CharlotteCarroll-i5y4 ай бұрын
It's also because your podcasts are so interesting ,but I am on it all day , Wayne dyerdr Ramani ,ester hicks and Mel Robbins you are my favourite people and Lewis Holmes x😊
@stephaniemontoya808 ай бұрын
I LOVED LOVED LOVED this! Thank You, Mel❤
@jeanbartrum27738 ай бұрын
I trained as a colour therapist and that sounds a bit pseudo but focusing on colours and even wearing certain colours ,try this when you are getting dressed for the day be more colour conscious about how this makes you feel .
@hatchet82097 ай бұрын
Warm color and cool colors and also color temperatures
@zeemarie19988 ай бұрын
This is an amazing episode!! Thank you so much Mel!! We love you!! 🖤🖤🖤
@pharmclare7 ай бұрын
Wow, so red color is that powerful. I need 20yrs back. ❤
@andreinachacin36 ай бұрын
I am "addicted"" to you Mel ! Haha Don't want to miss anything you post!
@teresaanneluxxchiccadvance64418 ай бұрын
The internet is addiction to discontent. Which causes Divine discontent. Never ever satisfied always more & more until emptiness becomes noticeably boring if you notice at all. Discipline is the answer by deciding it’s just a tool for your work, school etc.. DECIDE! Why you utilize it as a purposeful too. Otherwise your choosing to dump yourself down. It’s a choice!!
@sue-annthandy53878 ай бұрын
There’s a brilliant film & Q&A on iPhones, 4 billion selfies what we scroll & look at daily😱🥵⁉️blew my mind, From the 1st photo, 1st film, 1st iPhones I think it’s called “ the Fantastic machine??”
@lauriebertrand93197 ай бұрын
Great Podcast! Everyone needs to listen to this. Thank you!
@kyleamahoney25198 ай бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this message!! Thank you so much, great speaker
@jenniferstromsoe49248 ай бұрын
I needed that! Thank you so much. Both of you. Just great!
@notaclue8227 ай бұрын
This is so interesting. I enjoy knitting and it would be a timeless activity. I know that what he says about feeling empty from scrolling is true.
@HeatherLandex8 ай бұрын
Using screens even affects our eyesight, so when we go out in the real world we get headaches or light sensitivity as we've been focused on a light in close proximity. We become short sighted, the literal physical kind, although of course it's also a good analogy.
@MargaretKoelmel-b5k2 ай бұрын
I also wear pink as well. Red and pink are my favorite colors.
@beatapluta92967 ай бұрын
This is so dangerous- all people (especially at schools) have to listen to it! Thank you for sharing this all important information!
@MargaretKoelmel-b5k2 ай бұрын
I love cooking for my family so this month i will focus on improving my cooking skills.
@julielevesque26688 ай бұрын
I own a laptop so it stays home. I own a flip phone with no internet by choice. I don't want to be distracted constantly. I do not drive so no need for a GPS. I do what I need with the internet and then shut it down. I only have Facebook and KZbin for scrolling and that is enough.
@lindygates8 ай бұрын
It seems the world will not be able to survive if the internet was to be eliminated and that is very sad and scary to me...I turn the ringer off on my phone, so no distraction, and only check it when I want to. I don't like it's the ball and chain that it's become. ....people use gps for everything and if they suddenly lost their phone they would be lost. Very sad to me.
@susanlynn12138 ай бұрын
That is in compatible with a business or career
@khillikialea2 ай бұрын
I Love you and your amazing content. Thankyou hugs kisses
@calista12808 ай бұрын
A very simple solution is for families to take a walk with the kids in the neighborhood after dinner. Catching up on everyone's day & stopping to chat with neighbors and friends! 🧡 PS: Leave the phones at home!!! 🏡 OK, maybe Mom keeps hers with, in case of Emergency...
@dawnm31342 ай бұрын
brilliant solution !
@ElizabethLucas-p6v2 ай бұрын
❤You have great podcasts Mel great guest speaker ,great interviewer , 🎉
@stellaaplin78998 ай бұрын
Thank you Mel xx
@abcdefglo8 ай бұрын
I've quit drinking but I am definitely a doom scroller!! This is so eye opening, fantastic podcast Mel!
@patrycjanoworycka6 ай бұрын
One of the game changer. Good littles habits, so simple. You are/ I im/ we are only live once.....so it is worth to make it good. I love scients- bay the way im too( medical uniwersity and nature uniwersity ). Im really greatfull for that interview. Great job Mel and Adam. It was pleasure to listen that☺️☺️ Grettings from beautiful country- Poland. Patricia 😊
@gamacaluso7 ай бұрын
Wow this was fascinating….thank you Adam and Mel 🥰
@CharlotteCarroll-i5y4 ай бұрын
I will thanks Mel x
@brownoart8 ай бұрын
great episode!! def will take the advice i hate my scrolling habits!!
@ZakKlemmer-LivingInTucson7 ай бұрын
This is an excellent interview! (and it's on a screen!)
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
You Mel are awesome!!❤️
@Mah_Emami8 ай бұрын
Amazing, so helpful! Thank you so much 💚🙏
@mettebecklisberg7 ай бұрын
Loved this Mel - so many AHA MOMENTS 🤪🙏🏻❤️ I have shared it with everyone.
@stephb918 ай бұрын
Loved the practical ideas to help yet still embrace the digital life we have. Thanks
@whitneytriplett36107 ай бұрын
my high school niece in Canada is required to turn in her phone at the beginning of the school day and retrieve them at the end of the day is a commendable policy.
@tinaz237 ай бұрын
Wow where? I'm in Canada but that's not the case here
@brynne777 ай бұрын
Very good. As a result of this, are the students at that school actually talking to each other instead of scrolling through their phones?
@alienautopsy93268 ай бұрын
God bless Mel Robbins.
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! ❤
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
I have to cut up my cantaloupe!! So after this podcast that’s what I’m going to do!! Thank you so much for the advice!!❤️
@katerynasobolieva43878 ай бұрын
Wonderful podcast! Thank you!
@lucy50974 ай бұрын
thanks a lot!
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
I need to get more physical activity!!❤
@calista12808 ай бұрын
Smart phones has saved me from making lists of things to look up when I get home to my computer! Now I can look it up right then. 😉
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
You are awesome!!❤
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
That’s awesome!!❤
@margarethernandez60068 ай бұрын
The mirror thing is very interesting!
@diegoHernanGuevara6 ай бұрын
Thank you from Colombia. Good video
@katybrown46878 ай бұрын
What a beautiful train of thought, thank you both for sharing 🙏🌿🩵🐬
@MargaretKoelmel-b5k2 ай бұрын
This is so interesting because I love wearing red this year and I feel very confident plus I just bought a red Ford Mustang Mach-e.
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
I listen to your podcast!!❤
@lisasexton94208 ай бұрын
Get your own dopamine and peace... exercise, music and nature
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
Awesome time ❤
@annamagdalenalindeque83967 ай бұрын
This was amazing!
@michelleroselilley46378 ай бұрын
I would travel 5 hours to visit my Mother, and she would just sit there like a zombie on her phone, scrolling, clicking, liking, and commenting. It really hurt, she is addicted to her phone.
@lindyvandenbosch95398 ай бұрын
I am so sorry
@michelleroselilley46378 ай бұрын
@@lindyvandenbosch9539 ❤💙
@MoonLight-bu9hz8 ай бұрын
Get her interested in hobbies maybe plants, good book, knitting book club, gardening?? People who are lonely or disabled don’t have much choice.
@louisagomez5857 ай бұрын
Plan a simple outing on the day of your visits🌳
@lindygates7 ай бұрын
Don't let other people control ur emotions, I know it's hard, but it's not impossible. Maybe Don't go see ur mom for awhile, and see if she misses ur visits....if she asks why ur not visiting, have a honest conversation with her how it makes u feel when hee attention is on her phone and not you....if she cares about ur feelings she may see what ur saying is true and will try to get better. For you❤. She's ur mom and she should be able to focus on ur visit or maybe she doesn't need the visit? Idk. But I have 3 kids amd they are always looking on their phones when I'm around so I don't hang with them much anymore. I feel not important enough for their attention so why put myself In that situation that doesn't make me feel good. It's a 2 way street. We can choose how and who we spend our time with. Good luck and hope u can find a resolution.
@dalizard888 ай бұрын
Great topic, Mel! Love your show! Makes sense that stores use mirrors to check customers.
@imlv26148 ай бұрын
What a handsome doctor❤
@lorierrigo24367 ай бұрын
Sooo great …. Love this …. So great ❤
@iqraaijaz83718 ай бұрын
Loved it
@jstsayn91336 ай бұрын
Mel.. nice haircut. Thank you!
@christijacobs31998 ай бұрын
Feng Shui has talked about color for as long as it has been practiced. Pay attention to what color you paint walls in your house
@SevilayKuhr5 ай бұрын
Omg!! I was shocked when you said “treadmill “ Mel! I am literally on treadmill, walking in sweat and listening to the video… Ha ha! Anyways, thank you for the video!
@stellaaplin78998 ай бұрын
I like the mirror in the fridge. I think this would work for me. 😂
@AwaJobe-sz6bj8 ай бұрын
This is really interesting ❤
@pamela18127 ай бұрын
Amaizing❤❤
@suekremelberg76445 ай бұрын
Awesome for training parents to get their kids to not using their phones!!❤
@Deasi_7 ай бұрын
Thank youuu❤❤❤
@michaelmekonnen648 ай бұрын
Ene beken wist gifa bil 2 sehat internet ketetekemku yebekanal. Abzanawin gize ke sewoch gar megenanet selemalchil new yehen yemadergew... Yeziya freedomun bageng des yelenal. Yehe bayehonim yehenin lemekenes betam efeligalehu. Bezihe gudaye betetebaberung betam des yelenal.