6 Ways To Be Instantly More Attractive

[@george8214]

59. Married for 30 years. Grown child. My life is WAY different than yours but I can still pick up bits and pieces from your posts and I’ll look forward to the next one!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you George!

[@SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi]

"Dress better than average". I like that. I am a substitute teacher here in Atlanta and the "compliments" come at me nonstop even from my teenage students of both genders. As always John you're batting 1000😊❤🎉!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@chuckcribbs3398]

John, you are 100% right about dressing neatly. Look at the workplace. It’s become sloppy and way too “it’s all about comfort.” I’ve been updressing per your suggestions and it really does make a difference. My wife has been very complimentary!

[@noName-kn1lx]

I think businesses need to rein this in. Tired of dealing w employees who look like they rolled out of bed.

[@40OverFashion]

Good man! Thank you for sharing!

[@positivelydark]

I have recently made the change from dressing in your normal jeans, t-shirt, and sneakers to button down oxfords or nice polos, chinos, and nice shoes. The difference in how I am treated, especially by women, has been amazing. While I was basically ignored and invisible in jeans and a t-shirt, now I get compliments and women look at me all the time. Dressing this way also makes me feel more confident and attractive, which has helped change my mood and my confidence, for the better. If you have not made the switch from jeans and t-shirt to a nice oxford shirt, chinos, and nice leather shoes, try it. You'll be amazed at how much better people treat you and the attention you'll get from women. BTW, I'm 53.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely true!

[@scott88]

I have been watching your videos for quite some time. Over that last two years I have completely redone my wardrobe. I feel way more confident and feel a lot more comfortable now. More than I did when I was in my 30's (in my mid 40's now). It doesn't take much to look better. And.....IMO I would rather spend my money on looking better and dressing better than others. It goes a long way thats for sure.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing! Cheers!

[@AlabamaSkunkApe]

Make your bed - every day. Right when you wake up. Off to a great and productive start of the day!

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@ronm6585]

Thanks for sharing John.

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching Ron!

[@calmingguitar1308]

Another good video. With that textured polo combined with chinos and loafers, no wonder you got some compliments and heads turned Thanks for posting this video, love it!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@guyh.4553]

Can't remember which Commander it was but he was a Navy SEAL. His belief was "Make your bed 1st thing in the morning, that way you've done one good thing for the day and you're prepared to start the day out right." And that is why the military instills that into every soldier at basic. 😊😊😊

[@Pentonavalsolutions]

ADM Mc Raven.

[@larrypresnall5360]

William H McCraven. Read his book years ago!

[@larrypresnall5360]

I see someone beat me to it. Still a great book tho!

[@guyh.4553]

@@Pentonavalsolutions THANK YOU! That is who I was thinking of but couldn't remember. 😁😁😁

[@1533ramsay]

I'm with you on this video. I hate t-shirts.

[@anwarosman7804]

Thank you

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@anwarosman7804]

Thank you verry much i like this Channel

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@seanc546]

I'm getting that slick collar! I hate how some of my dress/button-down shirts wind up looking if I'm not wearing a tie.

[@mikereese15]

Great tips as always. And you nailed it. So many of these things just build a sense of pride in you which overflows into so many other things. And thanks for the links.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@ronpruitt3832]

I am pretty sure that I first heard of slick collar on one of your videos a couple years ago. I ordered a set but they only had two sizes back then. It doesn’t matter as I really only use the large size. They work great with my dress shirts. You don’t even realize you are wearing it until you start to take your shirt off. It is a great item to have. All my life I had limp plackets. Not anymore. These are highly recommended.

[@40OverFashion]

Very cool! Yeah it’s funny, you take your shirt off and the thing goes flying across the room because you forgot you were wearing it! :)

[@northernmichigan4108]

Great advice, well done.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@davidswank6428]

All good words to live by, step it up boys! Thanks

[@MarkGray-u4i]

I just puchased the collar stays from your link. Thanks, John. The "Snowball Effect" is 100% correct. You'll feel empowered, just by the doing. Keep it up and becomes a habit! Great advice, John!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you! Will do!

[@toobasaurus23]

Thank you for a great video, and the collar link. I've been looking for something exactly like that for a long time. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

[@bryansipes3601]

Good points friend.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@KEITHZEALEY]

Solid advice. So little effort is needed to stand out in all aspects of life.

[@40OverFashion]

So true!

[@greglewis20]

Well done video and content. I hang dry shirts and pants. I just spent three days attending Charlei Kirks People’s Convention in Detroit. I met young people from every state in the union. Most guys wore suits and ties and most women wore dresses. Amazingly, The guys shoes were coordinated with the color of their suits. Don Trump Jr. had on worn Adidas white tennis shoes and jeans that were way too long. He was one of many speakers including his father.

[@englishdave8635]

Love those slick collars, they make your shirts look great. I have 2 sets now, and don't wear a shirt without them. and you don't even know you have it on. thanks for putting me onto these John

[@40OverFashion]

So true! Thanks for commenting!

[@scott88]

Hobbies are key (at least for me) of what makes me happy. I strive everyday to get just a little better at them. Even if its just for 10 minutes a day. It helps me feel that I got something accomplished (other than work stuff).

[@40OverFashion]

Love that!

[@dialedindetail5899]

My main interests of passion are cars, watches and fashion so I definitely lean in 10:01 to those subjects. I know what you saying about the low bar. When I go out where I live I am usually the only guy in the room not wearing a T shirt and the only one who not only knows what a pair of chinos is but owns many pairs. Love your stuff dude!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@scott88]

Oh...I have chinos in almost every color of the rainbow. Trying to find some pink chinos....having a hard time finding my size.

[@hoozat007]

The collar thing looks good. I just ordered a set through Amazon - I’m in Canada and the “flat-rate international shipping charge” was more than the product.

[@chrisb3902]

Great video John!!!

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

[@chrischater8645]

Great video. Where'd you get the white polo?

[@40OverFashion]

Right here on Amazon… amzn.to/3Q4ToAi

[@wallylasuer6886]

Thanks for help and content, 100% truth

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks Wally! Cheers!

[@lorisbarbieri7771]

Great advice as always! Thanks again.

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@MarkGray-u4i]

Always adding value, John. Thanks brother.

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!!

[@mikram2613]

And people make sure you change the sheets once a week and when you get up in the morning lift the sheet put a stick under it and run the fan keeps the bed nice and fresh

[@Angelbonilla1982]

John always gives good advice!,🎉🎉

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@michaelhogue2891]

Where did you get that Polo shirt your wearing with the Blue Chino's?

[@40OverFashion]

Right here from Amazon… amzn.to/3QjT7tA

[@bcwrangler]

Great video John! I enjoyed the acknowledgment from the ladies you're standing out.

[@40OverFashion]

Much appreciated!

[@southerngirl773]

Great advise!

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching!

[@mariolafrance5806]

Hi John. Love those tips. The "dress better than average" stroke me in particular. It's so simple but so damn effective. Thanks !

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@markw4263]

I just ordered some of the collar thingies - they sound perfect for polo shirts (which my girlfriend likes but I don't). Thanks for the lead!

[@40OverFashion]

Enjoy!

[@spicykimchi1]

After that girl said, "Damn! He's fine," Kip Winger came out of nowhere, singing, "She's only 17!" And then you interrupted with, "Come on, man. That '80s song hasn't aged well. Now get back to work at the food court, Kip. That Sbarro's pizza isn't going to serve itself!"

[@Toneloke-3000]

Kip is worth 3 million he's not working any food court. Still making music Still touring

[@spicykimchi1]

@@Toneloke-3000 I figured that Winger was doing well. I was actually going to use Gene Simmons with "Christine Sixteen," but he's obviously richer than Kip. Er... "Jailbait" by Motorhead? I sure that there are more rock songs about underage girls, but I'm drawing a blank.

[@Toneloke-3000]

@@spicykimchi1 LOL cherry pie comes to mind

[@40OverFashion]

Hahaha! Love it! “Daddy said she’s too young, but she’s old enough for me”

[@davegoetz8157]

Don't forget "Tonight I'm Gonna Rock You" off of the Spinal Tap movie.

[@jonathanl2748]

Great video (As always)! I sure wish more guys would watch this channel as this is important info.

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that!

[@1bigoptimus]

John these are all fantastic ideas. I've had similar situations like your mall experience. It's so easy to dress better than average because most guys don't really try, or worse don't dress there age. The other ideas are all great as well and things I live by. Great content. Keep it up.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much! Will do! Thanks for watching!

[@carltonmcgee8878]

Nice tips. Acessories are an instant upgrade to ones attractiveness. While on the train a young lady sitting next me recognized my watch and complimented me on how nice it is. I told her that I collect watches, and this is a collector's piece. She thought that was interesting because she stated that she doesn't know anyone that collect watches. Peace.

[@40OverFashion]

There you go! Thanks for sharing!

[@alwayspooh1588]

Again with the absolute stunner at 8:53 of the video!!! That lady is beauty personified! Who is she???

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Wish I knew!

[@alwayspooh1588]

@@40OverFashion Aaah man! Me too!

[@RedRoyce]

Like always good info! I was wondering how things are going with the TRT? Could you do an update? It would help many I'm sure who are on the fence about it. I'm 64 and yes my labs showed low but not below 300 so my GP said no. I said I was more then a report on paper and had all the tells of low T. Do I go to a clinic now? A question I'm looking into. Anyway it would be great to hear your update if you could or would like to. Thanks for all your help for us men.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely! Thanks for the suggestion! I’ll make an update soon. If you’re late 40s or older, and your T level is in the low 300s, I would consider talking to someone else.

[@tjman4943]

What shirt are you wearing in this one? I'd liketo find it or something similar

[@40OverFashion]

Sorry, that shirt is probably four or five years old from Nordstrom. The brand is their house brand called, calibrate.

[@michaeltootikian4402]

Excellent video John

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@emiliogarcia4367]

Hey John, Great videos, been watching them for a while. Quick question where did you get the white knit polo on this video? Thanks! Emilio

[@40OverFashion]

This is the Amazon link... amzn.to/3WshNUD

[@emiliogarcia4367]

Thanks Brother

[@peterquinlan9411]

Love the white knit polo, where did you purchase it ?

[@40OverFashion]

Check out my Amazon video from last week… kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZDUaXl9nrakedksi=VYWrKnIo8vQKzUH2

[@jaimerodriguez3408]

To be fair that outfit you showed looks very good. I’m sure I would’ve stared at you if I was there. I own two Henley shirts that you don’t see anywhere, and when I wear them to the mall I get lots of looks from girls, so you’re right about that. Great video!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@chrialivest]

As usual, interesting content. Always appreciated. #Legend family

[@kenhowell8403]

Couldnt agree more about keeping your car and home clean. Mine arent immaculate but they are neat. It just shows that you have some self respect and you aremt waiting for mom to come and clean.

[@40OverFashion]

Exactly!

[@grozwano]

Great great video

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

[@G.Charles73]

You're a f'in DILF Johnny! That's awesome! If the younger chicks are tossing you compliments, you are on-point. Keep going on your mission brother, your progress is an inspiration to all of us.

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that! Thank you!

[@Tom-xj2eh]

Good video . Looks like that weight lifting program of yours is paying off, my respects.

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that! Still working on it!

[@TheGreggmelvin04]

Love the topic & information. #Legend

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@mort6913]

Solid advise. 👍

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching! Much appreciated!

[@richardfear6716]

Oh your so true my house is spotless and car I make my bed everyday and funny I look like you lol

[@davidwhelan5735]

That's a great shirt where is it from?

[@40OverFashion]

It’s actually from Amazon… amzn.to/3Q4ToAi

[@davidwhelan5735]

Thank you.

[@m.allenbruce8327]

My car stays clean. No one is allowed to eat or drink anything in my car. My shoes are always shined and my sneakers are always clean.

[@ozzyolof9209]

My boss would “judge”his employees by the way they looked after their cars

[@alfacentauri3686]

Classic point on the attitude to your profession. Are you just cutting stones or are you part of building a cathedral?

[@40OverFashion]

Great perspective!

[@movingart8026]

Another solid video! 💯

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@movingart8026]

@@40OverFashion You're very welcome!

[@bobmetcalfe9640]

As well as trying to be interesting, you should also be interested. The sling gets you more brownie points than talking.😁

[@Shreadington]

Thanks to your channel my style game is on level 10. My teenage daughter will come up to me and say, dad do a pose. She'll take a picture then send it to a friend that asked for a picture of me! It's an uncomfortable validation but like you, if young girls notice, I'm sure older ones do to. I recently just learned the DILF term as well lol. Thanks for the great content.

[@40OverFashion]

That is awesome! Haha! Live well my friend!

[@sparkyblazeup1]

Here in Oklahoma the dress code seems to be a t-shirt, overly long jeans and a baseball cap, even on special occasions.

[@40OverFashion]

Yep, same over here.

[@defendingyourbrand6547]

I’m gonna go wash my car now John! My Achilles heel.😂

[@40OverFashion]

Haha! Good man!

[@downpeppertreelane387]

I would add to go out and try different food venues in person, instead of simply using Door Dash at home. Mix it up, find happy hours, and sit at the bar area, which is usually social...

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely! Very well said!

[@noName-kn1lx]

Door dash?? Soggy expensive food eating at home? 🤮🤮

[@officialcamify]

Topics you choose and make videos are always good. Other youtubers like alpha m and alex costa should learn from you cause their videos are kind of repitative. You are my favourite KZbinr same as Ashley Weston ❤

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that! Thank you!

[@johncoote5134]

Dress better than average - easy here in the U.K. buy cheap buy twice Buy classic - buy quality Mix match build Soooooooo easy

[@kiwioutdooradventuresnewze4999]

Wow was going to buy collar stays but when it came up $160 for shipping and after a laugh I think I will just have to put up with floppy collars

[@loungejay8555]

3:22 I had no idea such a thing existed. I need one of those.

[@danielj3010]

How good do you feel dressing well? The bar is set so low, so why not?

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@alwayspooh1588]

How to be more attractive: own a Ferrari, have lots of money - instant female attention! I quote Good Charlotte: girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money!!! Only (kind of) kidding. Great video John, and very relatable advice. Have a great day.

[@40OverFashion]

Good one! Thanks for watching!

[@bills2north]

Damn! The other day I held the door open for a lady & her friend she said, "Oh Thank-you, and what wonderful jacket!". I think they were in their mid-80's!!! 😂❤

[@40OverFashion]

Haha!

[@omarcortes5754]

They were right, you are fine. And guys, don't be nasty. Keep your house as clean as possible.

[@40OverFashion]

Exactly!

[@Carl-x8y3c]

I have found in my life that alot of men ask me what job do I do. I think some men judge me on what work I do. Conversation is very superficial. It's fine to like what you are wearing and feel good in it. But a person doesn't need to be dressing to make themselves more appealing to someone. That's shallow. I take a person how I find their personality and nature to be , not by what they are wearing.

[@davidbowman2035]

Just spotted the "Goodfella's" photo.😀

[@40OverFashion]

Good eye!

[@Cuandoman]

Hilarious thumbnail. The ever classic "throw a hot girl up here" method.

[@40OverFashion]

Gotta play the game.

[@stevejones7574]

Just tell them you're a pilot!🤣🤣

[@jessdomingo3422]

We feel sorry for you, John. Sometimes, being so good-looking like yourself is such a drag. Forgive those young girls because they only have good taste in classy men. 😊On a more serious note, again, many thanks for the insightful content as usual. Bringing another angle to being more attractive is truly enlightening. By the way, I took a screenshot of your outfit at the mall you mentioned. I will also try to wear it to the mall. Will be happy to get compliment even from the not so young. 😅

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Much appreciated!

[@alwayspooh1588]

I see too many people with a lack of pride these days - their clothes, their car, their grooming, their front gardens, their speech. People need to take pride in these things. Like Jordan Peterson said: if you want to tidy up your life, start with your bedroom!!

[@danielj3010]

Very simple, eat well, dress well, and exercise.

[@40OverFashion]

It really isn’t that hard!

[@MarkGray-u4i]

As a professional in home sales person, I have found you can tell what's going on, on the inside of the house, by seeing whats going on in the outside of the house. A car up on blocks with an oil puddle and an unmowed lawn... that's what's going on inside too. Same with mankind. Sloppy dresser, overgrown hair, long nails and a dirty car... that's what's going on inside the man as well. Not to judge anyone, just a heads up on how we are perceived.

[@grozwano]

Clean shoes and in good condition

[@francis.valencia]

Damn, he WAS fine. 🤣

[@40OverFashion]

Haha! Crazy.

[@bryngolden9133]

Making your bed and having a clean house/ car is a proven stress reducer. No one wants to be around a stressed individual

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@bobrew461]

6:03 i wash my nice shirts by hand.

[@alpabopo]

Most of this tips are very useful for men under 30. If you’re 30 + years old and you don’t know that you need to keep your place, car and clothes clean and organized, then it’s a lost cause.

[@mrmillmill]

There are people that are miserable though and its deeper than the desire to be attractive.

[@w.adammandelbaum1805]

"Every girl is crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man"...with cash and net worth. You look like this guy, you won the gene pool in a Mayberry sort of motif. There are other venues than SoCal where women would find this gent "nice looking" but their lower forty wouldn't be getting irrigated any time soon. Blandsome. Still a good purveyor of useful content for those who aren't on the interoffice memo distribution list of style.

[@davedove67]

Look like you made an effort, instead of looking like you have given up.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@mynala110]

You don’t want to have a limp placket 😂

[@40OverFashion]

Haha! Nope! :)

[@Project-Masculinity]

Get 6 pack 6 Foot tall 6 Months single 6 hundred HP car 6 Figure Income 6 inch’s down below

[@e-dub6586]

I cant stand a messy car. I barely have anything in it. You would think i just bought it.

[@40OverFashion]

You and me both!

[@gerdwollanck5990]

If the first thing someone is interested in is what i do for a living, i'm out.Tthen i immediately know how superficial the questioner is. yawn. He made a bad first impression.

[@robertreynolds2726]

The number one way to be more attractive is to show them the money. You can be an overweight slob, but if you have money you won't have any problems

[@w.adammandelbaum1805]

Ah, truth among the bullshit.🤗

[@michaelblazin4093]

No it does not. Women want social validation. That is the currency that matters. She won’t get any standing next to that guy.

[@40OverFashion]

Wrong. Keep telling yourself that if you want. It’s just an excuse.

[@w.adammandelbaum1805]

@@michaelblazin4093 seen a bunch of rich slobs with hot women and I've seen some handsome guys toting farm animals. While it's better to be rich and well turned out, and it's better to be poor than ugly, still one learns from what is experienced in their environment. Women can get their validation from the car she is riding in that the slob owns, the jewelry he bought her, the champagne she's swigging. Those of us that don't make a living pushing feel good fashion advice aren't making excuses, they're observing reality.

[@wallyg77]

DILF ALERT 😅😅😅😅

[@40OverFashion]

Haha!

[@Romero610]

The only attraction they care about is the money. You can dress like crap, be out of shape, but if you got the cash, you get the ladies. It’s all about the coin bro. Money isn’t everything, it’s the only thing.

[@manuelluna5695]

Bullshit, this is not for me. 😂