7 BIG Reasons Why You Can't GET OVER Her

[@taga912]

The investment part hit hard for me, still in a marriage but separated for years and invested so much and too much and she still wasn't happy..it hurt to hear this message but I needed that. Pray for me bruh.. I'm moving forward...

[@batsilemaake8335]

All The Best My G...wish you all the best..

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏

[@rasyulio5026]

Beauty warrior

[@jonstersmall2716]

It's called the *"sunk costs fallacy"* in economics.

[@dalebrissett1045]

Bro you did your best...but your best wasn't good enough for the wrong person....Move on with your clear conscience....the pain will take a while but it will go.....let this be a teachable moment for you....Pay close attention to these narcissistic behavior......You are miles ahead of her in maturity....she couldn't handle your maturity....Just cut and move on............

[@IAMTIMBUTLER]

I’m number 1 and 7. It’s been tough but I’ve been on the grind since she left. - I cut out drinking, hookah, haven’t even considered dating, I’m just focused on my mindset, gym, starting another business, getting stronger in my faith and overall leveling up. - I know God got me so I can’t wait to see what happens next.

[@chaucerparks2042]

I'm with you on this 1..💯✌🏾

[@ernestoguereca4575]

amen brother im on the same path God bless

[@IAMTIMBUTLER]

@@ernestoguereca4575 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@lucianadams4232]

Ours was genuine but toxic. I did my wrongs, and so did she. Once I put the emotional aspect away and started thinking logically, I was able to move on. I still live her, but if God is not in it, it will not work. Thank you, Bro. Stephan. God bless.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@nichoseka]

You may not be able to stop thinking about someone but I believe you can love them from a distance if they are toxic

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

You're absolutely right!

[@dsanders799]

​@@StephanSpeaksforMenyour advice is awesome wisdom thank you sir you speak to me for sure

[@tarandeepsingh640]

Great message as always Stephan. Sometimes as a man, it’s not talked about how they can get played, lied to and still want to make it work with that woman.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@hurdyb1]

That right person, wrong time is real. The so be it is difficult.

[@marks9948]

man the second point is the realist, i’m going through this right now and it’s hard. you know you ended it for the right reasons but you can’t stop thinking about her because she’s a 9, ‘will i ever get someone that hot again’ ‘who will she get with next, will he be an Adonis’ it drives you mad. Rose tinted glasses. Have to remember just because you fancy someone doesn’t mean they are the right fit for you. Don’t force it

[@Nflames1]

Damnnnnnnnnnn bro you the truth my man....holding on to potential will literally kill you. Smh thats where I am, so hard to let go.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@SumSolutionsco]

It almost killed me. I broke up with her 2 months ago. Towards the end of my relationship and i went to the doctor as well as therapy and from what i told them, i almost had a legitimate heart attack at 25 yrs old. I have a ways to go with letting her go still. But i will get there.

[@bigboy23005]

Man the message I needed, didn’t want to hear, but needed. Best men’s content I’ve seen on the channel to date. Thanks man.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@24jsmith]

@@StephanSpeaksforMen 27:10 Hi Stephen, any chance you’ve done or can do a video on the piece you mentioned at the end regarding people who have a connection but not getting back together or struggling to do so because things became messy? Always enjoy your content

[@tashamack8701]

Stephan be dropping that knowledge. One of my favorites relationship coach. I agree with everything he is saying.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Sdy187]

This video is 🔥. I'm going through this right now. Ending a 5 year marriage and #1 I am a relationship guy. Don't like being alone. Definitely going to miss her Sex! Missing it already. #4 I saw her potential. She has soo much potential and I believe in her but she doesn't apply herself enough. She starts and stops.#7 My love is so real with her. But her disrespect was too much. Can't keep taking it.

[@ginahouston9352]

sending prayers for you on your journey... I'm in the same place... 🤲🏾🙏🏾

[@Sdy187]

@@ginahouston9352 Thank You. Sending prayers for you as well 🙏🏿

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@Sdy187]

@@StephanSpeaksforMen Thank You so much for your video and advice. I bought your book on finding Love after Heartbreak! I'm going to be okay! Just have to be patient and take my time to get myself together

[@rasyulio5026]

Feel same

[@Pheonix1111]

Stephan, I have never “slept around”. I have always wanted a “relationship man” (as you call it Stephan) who is my soulmate. But I realize from this video that they get stuck in the wrong relationships for fear of being alone. Now I can understand why I will die alone. To all relationship men: do not get stuck in the wrong relationship. You will end up missing out on a great woman (like me) and cause her to die alone. This is the reason why God has never been able to answer my prayers for an excellent relationship man (my soulmate) to come into my life.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@daves4687]

Stephan, I've watched a lot of your content recently and currently reading one of your books. I feel it's about time I said thanks. Your content and ability to share the real world struggles us men face is unique. Keep keeping it real. Respect from the 🇬🇧

[@jamesbondinspector]

I attached to her stunning beauty and the sex because it was so amazing. It especially hurts because the day before I met her, and this is god’s honest truth, I made a list of the qualities in a woman that I wanted, and those that I didn’t. This woman checked many of the boxes in the want section. But, over time, I discovered that she also checked quite a few in the didn’t want section. And I kept overlooking the didn’t wants because I was so enamored and lustful and proud to have her on my side where every other guy was checking around and envious that I had her. I see it for what it is now. I couldn’t see through the emotion until now. Thank you so much for this video. This really helped me.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@Violator2891]

The life boat analogy hit home. God bless you brother.

[@collinssishenyi9580]

So I read love after heart break, it really began to unpack so much emotion and pain, that I had to pause, now am ready to read and study it

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@suzy1750]

Dang. When I was online, #5 was HUGE with a lot of the guys I met, esp. the divorced ones. While I have no doubt that some truly still loved their ex, I also sensed that what many actually missed was the life they'd lost - the whole wife, kids, dog and picket fence thing if that makes sense? You could feel how lost they still were...while I never continued with any of them because, well, who wants to be with someone for whom being with you will always be second best (?) I always felt so sorry for them and wondered if they would ever be able to recover and bring their whole hearts to any future partner....

[@rjames9266]

This man is out here saving lives!!!❤

[@dustinquinton]

If you came up with these reasons on your own, you are a smart dude. You just made me realize the reasons for why it took so long for me to get over my ex.

[@AnthonyMassarelli]

Your right,I am a relationship guy and break ups are very difficult.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that 🙏

[@user-ub8uc8gq7r]

Perfect timing I had to break it off with my girl. Was hard!! But point #4 in this video was the reason. Thank you, god bless bro! I needed to hear this. I was holding onto her potential. She would show small flashes of those potential but I didn’t accept her reality.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@marktexas1931]

1&2 got me into a chokehold. You said it the best. Its been difficult bro

[@dsanders799]

Don't give what your not willing to lose that was deep

[@vernonhines3895]

Definitely hit home MY brother. Breakup is so hard to do when you really feel for someone... I see me so much in this discussion.. you can go on I'm very thoroughly enjoying this..need this... For me as the old saying go I rather loved and lost than then that loved at all Ty 4sharing .. your topics always good medicine 💊 and useful.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@hmaidhaydari9662]

My situation fits reasons 1, 2, 4, 5, and 6. Your videos have helped a lot. Thank you.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@geraldcurry5311]

It really sucks when we're forced to face this reality, loving someone from a visceral place!!

[@doctorgt3]

finally a video that actually helps

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@MrDaniels1914]

Reasons 4&6 really hit home. Thank you

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@whiskeywiseguy9976]

Man i love your content! Reason #4 still dealing with it. I like how you come from a place of peace n understanding vs arrogance ect

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@phumelelantengento1625]

Bro, I truly needed to listen to this. Got a lot out of it and now better understand why I’m still struggling. It’s getting better tho. I just need to get used to my new normal. Thank you brother🙏🏾

[@TheColtonStreeter]

Thank you Steph, I love you man, truly a message from God

[@TheColtonStreeter]

Divine timing

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@leandreware1307]

BEEN THERE NEVER AGAIN

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏

[@leandreware1307]

Thanks Bro congrats on your success

[@Ksollo708]

This spoke to my sole your content is a breath of fresh air keep up the good work brotha

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@valeriebyrd70]

I can relate to this but am learning from it all

[@arpocontracting1]

Great content, enjoyed it so much. Thank you

[@660woodworkingandreno8]

I had an unhealthy attachment & real love for her. She wasn't the one for me kuz I over looked her inability to grow & heal her past trauma. It sux so much man 😢

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but you need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@collinssishenyi9580]

Thank you for this Stephan

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@neilthadeussanoy6885]

This is really on point, especially the last one.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@IslandGurl85]

This is true, everything you are saying was my last relationship. He left me but he doesn’t know how to be alone I know he’s finding a women just to validate him as he doesn’t know how to be alone. We built together I did everything for him. 14 years he told me he can’t just get over it but yet he left the relationship now all I get is messages and calls checking up on me. He needs to be alone and heal but I know him he won’t do that. I wasn’t perfect I have flaws. I wasted my time I won’t go back. Bad investment. I need to float to safety. We were on different frequencies.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

[@kalmkingdomYT]

Just found this channel. Hoping too learn from this

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏

[@parishers6351]

Welcome 😃

[@ryanwagner3438]

This is real. I know our relationship became toxic and ended ugly. I never wanted a woman so badly when we first met. I am lost without her the best part of me died when we split up. She was out of my league and we had a beautiful family. Just an awful situation and don't know if I'll ever recover from this.

[@ekwnfhwndgv561]

I cant get over her because i really loved her for years she fixed my loneliness. i feel so sad, my chest feels so heavy im struggling to breathe

[@ekwnfhwndgv561]

How do i deal with this? Ive been this way for almost a year its getting harder and harder for me, it affects my life.

[@ekwnfhwndgv561]

Im deteriorating lmao

[@Luca_683]

Focus on doing activities like your passions,working out,reading etc and also spend time with ur Friends,this what i always did and do in order to move on.Also having both sex friendships also helps,it doesn’t cut it for me only having male friends as the male friendships can fulfil you in certain areas and the female friendships can fulfil you in other areas as well (don’t mean sexually obviously 😭) if you know what I mean and both will give you different advices you can use to better urself

[@pfoster1235]

Simple but a lot to unpack

[@jontripp8985]

Got the Audible version. Thank you!

[@mkoppguidingforcema]

Thank you for sharing this content. Multiple points were hitting hard and has given me a lot to work through, process, and correct

[@etuffg123]

YOOOOOOO! POWERFUL! I sooo needed that. 🙏🏾 Thank you Brotha! Keep bringing it!!! Peace and Blessings.

[@24jsmith]

27:10 @stephanspeaksformen Hi Stephen, any chance you’ve done or can do a video on the piece you mentioned at the end regarding people who have a connection but not getting back together or struggling to do so because things became messy? Always enjoy your content

[@ryanbarker3978]

You're a beast my guy!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@gaddaitherage8204]

Beauty: I used to have a problem w until I became very honest with why I want to be with this beautiful woman. For me, I sought validation from other people. To be around a beautiful woman. But once I worked on dealing w this, it got much better and I became a lot less attached.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@gaddaitherage8204]

@@StephanSpeaksforMen thank you Stephen! I recently discovered your contents. It is a breath of fresh air from many negativity on this topic, while still keeping it honest.

[@frenchy1220]

# 4 and #5 hits right on target 🎯

[@bigbazooka17]

Thanks this video helped but does th pain ever go away

[@chaucerparks2042]

Been there with the woman with Superior Felletio Skills..IT IS A POWERFUL FORCE..💯💯✌🏾

[@ricwnipp]

Thank you for your work and your wisdom. Recently gone through a divorce after an 8 month marriage. Have been devastated but have healed pretty well thanks to videos like yours. A lot of these points really resonated with me. God Bless.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@Eblade19990]

Very good video!!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@StevenJGMedia]

Great content. Very helpful.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@slugger43209]

Literally my situation right now.

[@kongming66]

Stay strong b. Gone thru it twice in the past 8 months, broke up a long-term relationship then got dumped 3 weeks ago after an intense situationship that I fell too hard into. Do you, but from my experience if you're a relationship guy you need to find your peace with it before you can move on otherwise you'll end up in another attachment that's not healthy

[@gabifiat6894]

Stephan you are very very good man..in what you do..thanx

[@SiccDogg2x]

Love you brother keep it coming

[@MsPangY]

My Baby Daddy Just Got Out Of His Marriage & I Knew His Sister & I’ve Been Divorce 3 Years Before Him But I Saw Other Videos & Your Videos & Knew This But I Couldn’t Say No or Didn’t Know How To Say No! Til This Day, We Have 3 Kids + No Marriage + He Ghost Me + I Have No Where To Go + He’s Cheating + His Ex Wife Disrespect Me + His Friends Talk Down On Me + His Mom Don’t Really Care Much + His Sisters Say What They Can To Me & They Do It When He’s Not There + His Cousins Not So Friendly + He Use Me Being Damage + Abuse Me Verbally, Mentally & Emotionally! So, Now I Have Finally Let Go After 11 Years! Now I’ve Decided Never To Trust Anyone In Highschool No More!! He Thinks Other Girls Would Be Real But I’m The Realist & It’s So Sad I Went Thru That!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 He Made Me Look Stupid & Being Someone I Don’t Like!! He Accuse Me When I Don’t Even Have No One But Him & I Know He’s Purposely Doing This or Found Someone! I Hope I Can Get Thru This … I Love Alone Time Now, Guess I Was With The Wrong One ☝️ 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@ksquareshow4480]

Thank you so much for this contact. I really appreciate the fact that you do pray for us as well.

[@michaelhansenjr.9661]

I'm definitely number 1, 4, 5, 6 and 7 I never had a girlfriend before, and when I meet my ex-girlfriend during the college year. I didn't expect to go on second base with her during the fourth week of hanging out with her. Plus, she has been through I a lot of trauma in her life that I felt at the time I could have helped fix and heal, and she show quality that I didn’t expect a woman like her to do for me. I was dating her. The part about the investment I was caught up in was that I was trying to impress her that I have my own money and I didn't have to ask my mother or father for any money, so in the relationship I put in a lot of my time, money, and patience with her. I used to ask her about some of her assignments, and when she don't understand them, take her on a date and chip in for a gas for her car, and just be patient with her when she showed me the red flag. Finally, I was madly in love with her although I had seen some red flags and ignored them because I believe therapy would have helped overcome some of the trauma she had been through, in which she was willing to try it out I was going to be there with her, and if that doesn't work I would just pray for her even more and more

[@SonicDephect]

Only halfway through these and guilty of every one 🙈

[@Draksavage]

The way you just explained everything I’m goin through 😞

[@jeffmoonwalker224]

Thank you man

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@abdihakimereg]

Your are the best relationship coach Stephen. You have helped me about relationship. Thanks Stephen

[@MichaelRe-c7q]

2 months this week and it honestly feels like it's getting worse.

[@hunncho74]

Bro be dropping straight knowledge 💯 pay attention young kingz …..🤴 🧠 ✍️

[@thehitmaster102]

I CAN UNDERSTAND THIS EVEN FROM A WOMANS PERSPECTIVE 😊

[@axlelf]

Thankyou so much Stephan, Amen and god bless you and the work you do. Top man🙏🏻👍🏻🙂

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may Go bless yo as well 🙏

[@heathergrahame9647]

I'm not sure how this fits into the conversation, but, in my experience as a woman, men are doers and, when a relationship fails or the woman leaves, the guy thinks "What did I fail to do?" And they think, "Well, if I knew what would have made her happy, I would have done it." And they feel cheated out of an opportunity because the woman left without telling him what she wanted him to do. But when I have left relationships, it's not because the guy failed to do something. It was because I felt that his personality and my personality just didn't gel as much as I wanted. If a guy's personality is not fully what I like, then, even if he does something I want, he ends up doing it in a way that I don't like. Maybe a better way of putting it is that I'm attracted to a guy's particular style, rather than the physical things he does. Yes, there really is a thing called compatibility. And it's got to do with compatibility of personalities. If a woman doesn't feel fully compatible with you, then she'll leave. It's not because you failed or she failed. It's just that you're not suited. Be thankful that she left - because it opens the door to finding someone who you're more naturally compatible with. It should be easy to get along with them. If not, move on.

[@petermwesigwa1571]

Number 4 is just on point 👌🏾 I hoped too much...😹🤧 Holding onto potential and not reality. Never again...

[@GabrielNg]

Damn so on point bro. Thank you.

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Caa310]

I feel this.

[@scottkohler8373]

I have a question for anybody willing to answer. Is it better in the healing process to continue finding out the lies and deceit that a narcissistic partner who cheated on you, then discarded you, or to try to forget completely? I am reading the book “Love After Heartbreak” but I’m a little stuck on this idea. I understand that in order to heal, you have to know what you’re healing from, but is it unproductive to continue discovering and understanding lies even a month or two after? I’m trying to figure out if each and every lie figuring out down the road is worth recognizing or if I should just try to forget it entirely. I guess I’m trying to find a balance between rumination/dwelling and just stuffing my trauma into the emotional closet. I just uncovered what was most likely another lie during our relationship, and while it does feel like a sort of a setback (more thoughts of “damn she really did suck and I didn’t deserve to be lied to/treated like that”) but at the same time it gave me more clarity on how truly awful of a person she was. Thanks in advance for any feedback

[@blossombrown5408]

No, finding out ever lie doesn't change what happened. It may hurt you more.

[@blossombrown5408]

Focus on what attracted you to her. Think about emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally ways that you connected to her. That will help you figure out your needs/wants, in a future relationship

[@Pheonix1111]

You will NEVER find out the complete truth from a narcissist. They are the worst liars. They will play with your mind and drive you insane. It is a waste of time.

[@lukas4016]

If it helps you to get a lesson from your past,than yes - you can continue. If you only focus on pain, then it has no sense

[@chrysanthemums4963]

I wouldn't suggest for you to know all the lies she told you as you already know she's a liar and if she's a narc as you say.....she pretended to be someone she wasn't to attract you and use you. So she's not just a liar....it's in her character to lie....deception is who she is. That's all you need to know. Forgive her and yourself so you will be free of any hate or bitterness towards her or yourself. Its a setup for you to be stuck in cycle of dysfunction and only connect with similar ppl in the future if you dont forgive. If you're a Christian, stay in God's word and prayer. More importantly....stay away from her and cut off all access she may have with you. Control and manipulation is what narcs thrive on....they're incapable of love.

[@RobStone]

This guy is good!!

[@barnold62]

Your just fine without the bell!!

[@annhector5161]

I helped my man after he lost his job but i did so cause he would look out he let me take him to work when my car had problems he was up early taking my son to school, so i was too happy to be there for him but it made him feel worse and i was just confused nothing i did helped we end up just fighting when i would spend money but i didn't want to have to hide my hard work i don't know what i could have done. We don't live together, staying in the same house made it worse. I just don't know, didn't he just see what value i found in things he did for me that money couldn't buy. I would bring him lunch i made for him and i can cook. I would got extra t-shirts he wore, shorts to be relaxed in i know he mentioned the other day he couldn't get comfortable when he was at my house, so yes i was grateful and supportive, my boys are very well behaved, relaxing music stress-free weekend going to play pool keep myself up cute respectable hard-working... I thought we were perfect when he lost his job things just went left should I not be helpful was I too relaxed about it all I didn't want him stressing over it he work so hard..

[@monarene44]

Sounds like you gave your all. Living in the same house made my situation worse too. Some men cannot commit. They can live with you and even come home every night and not complain about anything, but you’d have to be deaf dumb and blind to not know that you are there to service them and never take any issue with them. They are there to benefit from your ability to elevate their lifestyle either momentarily or for a lifetime.

[@jeffreylaury6549]

Wife going through midlife crisis don't know what to do

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

I pray that you are able to do what is truly best 🙏

[@jeffreylaury6549]

Thanks brother

[@geraldcurry5311]

It's as if your sincere undying love is wrong, a bad thing!!! That's a horrible mindset for anyone to have!!!

[@tommypellikan767]

You missed talking about pride and understanding. My problems with letting go has had a lot to do with that.

[@signyaselfque9257]

My bm got in a realationship with my best friend my brother somnody I been with everday Ben round us everyday then she get a preg by him and I jus can’t stop thinking or loveing this girl I need help and it’s effecting my life my new relationship even tho she cross me I still went back and she turn around wen back with him and had a bby input time in with her kids the wasn’t even minds I let her peruse her goals whil I sit and put kinds in hood I showed so much love and she still chose him I jus need some good addvufe and concleling cand you every morning I wake up I’m thinks about her I jus can’t let go

[@cinemafile7081]

wow. man i can't imagine how tough it must be . you got to decide & truly make up your mind to let her go and stick to the decision though it will not be easy. and keep praying and keep active and in other people's company. and stay away from the house where the memories are as much as possible untill you heal . throw away all the things that have attachments and memories . cry and whatever it is you feel like you must do

[@FreddieJerido]

I have seen for myself,what she is capable of doing,I’m been married for over 30 years,Even though that I know who she been with, I still have a problem moving on, fool I am! I pay every single bill in the house even with extra company, sad to say but it’s my oldest son with his baby momma with two of my beautiful granddaughters whom I love. I’m doing this buy myself with no one’s help,not even my wife,Man any help for me 25:37

[@MfonHillary-mz5fg]

No lies brother

[@rasyulio5026]

The Most important here it's the fact that God are the only path to overcome this momento really painfull i think that the last reason it's the better conselour couse my case it's that i really love her AND indeed i know that she Love's me hoewer it's nota the Time AND place really painfull bou that's it ty Bro fot tour support God blessings I'm a rastaman from colombia

[@trymechump17]

I’m In this situation but I have a kid with her

[@ggabbay0]

Awful. Sorry bro

[@ruuvq-sk8lr]

The part where he’s talking about the beautiful woman is how’s it’s been for me with my kids mom we still live together have sex often but it’s like the relationship is toxic she never listens to or considers what I’m feeling if it doesn’t go her way she’s not happy and I’ve kinda become miserable I’ve left a few times but every time I think about someone else enjoying her I keep running back cause she’s so gorgeous and I done put in 6 years and 2 kids into this relationship been with here since I was 17 turning 18 now going into 24 in 2 weeks I be hoping we could figure it out but it just seems as if we can’t for some reason she tells me she doesn’t wanna be with anybody else but it’s just like damn why can’t we just get this shit right and stop all the arguing like bro we’ll literally go from arguing about not agreeing at a place to eat to her being mad at me because I came home late from work and I didn’t feel like changing my 2 year olds diaper like bro I just got home from a 13 hour shift driving trucks and lifting stuff all day I gotta drive 40 mins to work and back home plus I got the responsibility as far as the bills go completely on me and in the past I felt like I was under appreciated because she wouldn’t cook and clean and when I got home she had a bad attitude and I wasn’t gettin sex for months at a time so eventually it lead to me cheating i know it wasn’t right but I felt helpless dawg and I really didn’t understand nothing at that point I still don’t really some days I feel like I’m just flowing through life letting it pass me by and other days I just don’t know but it’s getting to that point where I’m starting to realize maybe it’s time to let go but at the same time I really don’t want to I just wanna fix it she says she wants to fix it to but I guess we just don’t know how

[@commiezombie2477]

Laughing my ass off. He said if I don't make her my girl I might lose out on getting this consistently... Then he realized wait a minute, she's a little too good at this head thing lololol I know what

[@jonstersmall2716]

17:45 aka the sunk costs fallacy

[@tanistaylor]

I’m a 19 year old young woman who watches ur videos religiously with no relation 😭😭😭

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏 ❤️

[@stusssyj]

i’m sadly the first 4 right off the bat. Wtf was I thinking

[@Beatitupdrummer]

You just identified my situation to the T..😅😂

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

🙏

[@moneyvationreg6593]

I can’t wait til I heal my dumb ass went to the same girl twice smh

[@BadGalJodi]

Looking good 😌

[@geraldcurry5311]

Suppose you pray & pray & pray & it stll leads back to everything her? How do you handle that, i was in counsel with The Creator the entire time

[@ProofThatAstrologyIsReal]

number 4 is it fr

[@talksick508]

I’m such an idiot 3 years went by and I decided to reach out and just explain that I’m sorry for what I did She did majority but I messed up on how I reacted at times…. Now she just rubs her life in my face And I was too honest telling her how I’ve been…. She then will bring up past with us and send songs I’ll always love you And then flirted today sexually and says I can’t cheat on my husband And I’m the bad guy…. Mind u this girl cheated lied abused and toxic I kno I’m stupid…. I reopened a scab

[@HugoR022]

Why does it hurt more than every boxing fight i had? And why are women like this? Thank you

[@HugoR022]

Should have watched the whole video, she was fr 10/10 I can you tell you that .. but I'll stay strong

[@miamimacrepair1980]

Thank you!

[@StephanSpeaksforMen]

My pleasure ❤️

[@eb3644]

Men need to know that some women need the man to let her know it’s okay to open up. If they don’t express what is going on in the beginning then we don’t know if they want that. Otherwise it feels like wasted effort if they aren’t willing to be in a relationship. Men give mixed/confusing messages.

[@KardashBeauti]

is there a female version to this ?

[@blossombrown5408]

I think this actually works for both sexes. It's just specifically on his men channel. If you take him speaking to men out, it pretty much works for women too.