7 Habits That Make You Emotionally Weak

[@VeryAwesomeSheep]

0:45 Not believing in yourself 1:29 Not taking care of yourself 2:14 Emotions > values 3:50 Judging yourself for how you feel 4:32 Needing to find a reason behind everything 5:06 Trying to control and plan everything 5:55 Letting others control you

[@Psych2go]

That was quick!

[@kookmi4122]

I do all of these 👉👈

[@sillycatsayshi]

@@kookmi4122 i do some too and i think that's a sign that we should stop feelin and thinking that way. let's get stronger

[@musiqueenhere6113]

@@kookmi4122 mee too🥺

[@kookmi4122]

@@sillycatsayshi yes we should get stronger but IDK somehow the situations make me feel weak and useless...

[@stevenquartz3743]

I literally could not think of a better narrator for a show like this.

[@lurelin4812]

LMAO I THOUGHT YOU WERE BRIGHT SIDE FORREAL 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hosurosh4846]

Yoooo I know you!

[@lurelin4812]

@@hosurosh4846 Me?

[@hosurosh4846]

@@lurelin4812 a no my bad, y mistake Steven Chanel with other one. I do not know you but...hi, nice to meet you good to see you in this chanel.

[@tjongejongeman8153]

Yes, the voice is very soothing.

[@guesswho7394]

“Being emotional doesn’t make you weak. It just means that you’re strong enough to be vulnerable” -Me, 2021, lol

[@help5344]

Yoooo

[@sentientloaf7939]

Dayum, you should be a motivational speaker

[@mariel1417]

You can be emotional and not strong emotionally at the same time. That’s how a lot of bad psychological deseases start..

[@mariel1417]

@V Maverick we all are vulnerable to certain things, that’s how life goes. The thing is not letting it stop us from progressing in life.

[@mariel1417]

@V Maverick I mean if you want to do it go ahead, but I wouldn’t recommend it. I’m guessing you are not open to anyone which is alright, but that can actually be bad in relationships (of any kind), primarily because of lack of communication.

[@Emi_Tempi]

Not gonna lie, this comment section is one of the most lovely and caring people I ever saw on any platform. And since you read this, you are part of the lovely and kind section.

[@haru2531]

🥺

[@greenbird777]

☮💚 thank you, I needed that

[@thedarkknight6348]

True

[@rachelvoss5519]

Agreed, and being kind to others comes easy for me. Now for the more challenging work of loving myself

[@larrylane9872]

Thank you!

[@uselessvad2444]

There are no wrong feelings or emotions. There can only be a wrong expression of what's inside

[@IshaSharma11]

True,

[@Noemy_Corea]

Well said 👌

[@piggyv6386]

snoop dog is always right lol

[@savageunitato100]

I read this and I'm like wow. But then I look at you profile picture and-

[@piggyv6386]

hehehheyeyeuehhehe

[@Anna-nw1ge]

The most important thing is to love yourself ❤️

[@Psych2go]

Yes!!

[@JustaRegularYoutubeChannel]

❤❤❤

[@rayjones658]

😐

[@rashmi6672]

That's the only thing I can't do 😭😭

[@commerce-usa]

Agreed. If we can't love ourselves first, how can we love others? Start by taking care of yourself.

[@donttalktomeplzimsad]

Something that makes you emotionally weak: having an argument with strangers whom I don't care about, about the topics I'm sensitive about. When I have zero social interactions in real life cause of my social anxiety and people drain my energy.

[@greenbird777]

??: Sounds familiar. For me, it's not that I don't care about the people I "talk" to on KZbin, it's just that this is all I can tolerate right now. I don't have enough energy to keep real relationships going. I think it's because I need a lot of control over my interactions with people - here in the comments section, I can respond to others, or choose not to. I'm free to act honestly, and instead of anger over all the times I DON'T respond, I get socially rewarded for ANY attempt I make at connecting with others. I wish my family would try harder to understand this piece of what I'm going through. Instead, they get angry or hurt because I'm not socializing the way they want me to.

[@ironically_iconic9848]

I’ve done this too hhhhh

[@Leya_877]

This channel knows me better than I know myself..

[@happisoul9616]

Yes I also feel in every video that how do they know myself sooooooo much..... Thank you to this channel and alll the people 🙌❤️

[@IshaSharma11]

Aww

[@Psych2go]

we got you, psifam x -monica

[@chrysigabriel543]

Relatable

[@crazymadstriker766]

Me too lol but it helps

[@archanasaravanan4206]

1. Not believing in yourself 2. Not taking care of yourself 3.emotions> values 4. Judging yourself to others 5. Needing to find a reason behind everything 6. Trying to control and plan everything 7. Letting others control you

[@dahgnzg5508]

@Damon Salvatore if you feel bad with that, you should tell them about how you feel about them doing stuff like that. I know easier said than done but parents aren't someone you should be scared of or to avoid.

[@charvisharma893]

Most of the time, I feel something, heavy and weird. But I don't know what that actually is. I feel like I'm not worthy of anything, and my mind goes cloudy and clueless. Everyone always says, "Love yourself, believe in yourself," But it's easier said than done.

[@hsaqib8995]

Human beings have this desire, a longing to belong, that they are cared for, that they are loved unconditionally. And to satisfy this desire, they look for all the places they can receive it. Some find it in their family, some in their jobs, hobbies, relationships etc. And when these needs are not met, they become depressed. And this is inevitable since the longing/desire cannot be satisfied completely by these things or people since all of them are temporary. This is where faith comes into picture. When you have faith, you know that there is someone out there, a powerful being, who created you, brought you into existence, takes care of you, and looks after you so much so to the point of never taking His eyes away from you. Not even for a moment. When you know that this is your God, your creator, your maker, the most merciful. You know you're at home. After all, “The only one who can truly satisfy your heart is the one who created it”. “Truly, in the heart there is a void that cannot be removed except with the company of God; and in it there is a sadness that cannot be removed except with the happiness of knowing God and being true to Him; and in it there is an emptiness that cannot be filled except with love for Him and turning to Him and always remembering Him; and if a person were given the entire world and what is in it, it would never fill that emptiness.” Almighty God says: "Truly in the remembrance of Allah(God) that hearts find peace" Qur'an 13:28 He also says: "He is with you wherever you are" Qur'an 57:4 When you believe in this, you are at peace at all times. You feel you're taken care of, you're loved unconditionally, so you become happy & satisfied even though you're in the middle of the storm. Our purpose in life is to recognize our creator, the Almighty God. So find out the truth of your existence today and seek the Almighty God. For if you seek Him, you will surely find Him. Start with Islam, the true religion of Almighty God. Peace.

[@mastermitser5693]

Happiness isn't the same thing as success

[@charvisharma893]

@@mastermitser5693 ty and yes, but success is one of the things that makes me happy.

[@shaunaleessnackidies]

You may need deliverance, pray or ask someone to pray for you that you be set free from that, and say out loud Satan and demons you flee from me now in Jesus name! It works. It’s worked for me w fear, an eerie feeling, bad dreams or visions, bad thoughts etc.

[@art1st1cly]

i feel like the only reason i might be emotionally weak is probably because I've been pressured my whole life, I kept forgetting how emotional is important cause my mom made me believe intelligence is more important than that. honestly I don't even know where to begin with

[@goyeolv]

i gotchu guys B) 0:45 -Not believing in yourself 1:29 -Not taking care of yourself 2:16 -Emotions over Values 3:51 -judging yourself for how you feel 4:32 -needing to find a reason behind everything 5:06 -trying to control and plan everything 5:55 -letting others control you

[@secrets5870]

how did you do that so fast :0 thanks!

[@nxxna7949]

I can't even get help because my parents are the main cause of my trauma they don't even care about me, I can't even tell I'm depressed, I have anxiety and trauma they won't care but scold me for this, telling that u are just a kid u are overreacting. I can't seek any medical help. It feels like I'm locked in a cage. They are the cause I'm so cold and then scold me for being cold and not happy and cheerful like other children.

[@IshaSharma11]

Well said

[@luna22180]

That is why it always trusfrated

[@luna22180]

I can understand u even my life is the same but I never did them that I have depression, I hope we get up with positivity and happiness one day

[@haphephobia]

My parents are good, but looks like the depression part is always relatable. İ gave up already, instead of making them realize i am not okay i accidently made them think i am crazy-?

[@kellymai7373]

Your feelings are so valid. What you're going through is something that is beyond your control, and all you can do is to be gentle with yourself. I know that it sucks to feel this way because I myself am going through the exact same thing. They're constantly invalidating you through manipulation and gaslighting and that's what ruins us most. But always remember that there is still hope. What you're going through is temporary. You WILL get through this. You are so very loved and so IMPORTANT, and you deserve to have your voice be heard. Thank you for opening up, it takes so much courage and strength to put it down on a video. You are amazing

[@jackass315]

essentially , as much as you can , maintain perspective and don't get lost in the mire , situations and emotions will be challenging at times , but if you hold onto your frame of mind for as long as you can and train this ability you will become stronger , you are not your emotions , remain in your mind , accept and try to just observe the emotions as they pass over time and avoid the trap of feeling bad for feeling bad , massive massive thing , i used to do that all the time , pain and hopelessness lie , its not going to be this way forever , even if you believe and deeply feel it will , it is hard to put into words how strong this effect can be , pure defeatism , and it will make things worse , or less good than they could be , this goes for all of life , its not easy , but it is important , its not your fault , but it is your responsibility

[@chelseaharridass4531]

I don't have any faith , confidence or trust in myself . And it makes me uncomfortable when someone gives me a job to complete or if someone says they like me . Because I'm never ready for such a serious job or commitment . It always makes me pressured and I don't know why . I end up feeling like my world is breaking down even if its such a small thing , cuz I can't even take care of myself so what's a responsibility to me? People normally attack me emotionally because I'll most likely do something on impulse to that person or myself , hopefully I'll overcome this problem .

[@jeannes.356]

Hi Chelsea. Maybe if you find something you're really passionate about or care about someday, you'll be more focused on it because you want to work on it and help out as much as you can. For me, it's shelter pets. I just keep wanting to spread the word on fb etc because I feel so strongly about it. Then you get good at it and you build more confidence and true purpose.

[@lauraguerrero4708]

This is me!

[@lauraguerrero4708]

Let me know if things have gotten better for you. I want to be a better person in this aspect

[@the39wow]

i wish naphia would animate every video, the artstyle is sooo good

[@Psych2go]

i support the naphia fan club x -monica

[@nehabhardwaj8733]

Video suggestion : How to recognize a mature person. 2• Habits that make u emotionally stable/strong 3• singn someone is taking advantage of you

[@BrigadieraRanaLogica]

I like them

[@nehabhardwaj8733]

@@BrigadieraRanaLogica thanx😊

[@soulfulhuman8724]

Indians are everywhere. 1 and 2 are good idea, 3rd is already there on the channel

[@nehabhardwaj8733]

@@soulfulhuman8724 thanks dude

[@nehabhardwaj8733]

@@soulfulhuman8724 thanks dude

[@Sennajones2234]

I was not fully aware of all the examples given, I have emotional work to do for myself, thank you.

[@river_______3010]

Could you maybe do a video about not knowing whether you love someone or not? It would really help me :D

[@Psych2go]

We have a video on 6 Signs Someone Truly Loves You Without Saying It kzbin.info/www/bejne/fGiWqX2ba5hkqNU

[@IshaSharma11]

👍

[@Veriox22]

I mean if you doubt your love towards someone, most likely they are just a crush.

[@joli2554]

@@Veriox22 unless you have ocd or overthink too much

[@itsyuraaaa]

i absolutely love Naphia's animations. gosh, they're always so stunning

[@Psych2go]

Thank you too! :) Glad this video helped you.

[@Th3_WiseWolf]

Hope everyone grows emotionally stronger in the coming days. We're in this together!

[@Raikoho150]

I recognise all of these in myself, but I just cant figure out how to cope with them. The more I watch these kinds of videos, the more I see of myself already buried deep into a hole I cant get of. No reason to believe in myself because I constantly make mistakes and they keep getting worse. There is no point looking after myself because I cant get a break without being judged. So I judge myself as such. I've been controlled by others that I've left behind, and keep failing to gain control because I feel so lost Identity wise. I cant even tell what genuine emotions are anymore.

[@kleashuli1647]

Don't be so harsh on yourself. Know that you're not at your healthiest mental state. Take a break. Journal, meditate, listen to calming music (lofi hip hop radio really helps me) and talk to your closest people. Just like everybody else you have flaws, make mistakes, but make sure to acknowledge your strengths and achievements. You are expressing yourself here, not bottling up your thoughts and emotions. Good job! You've made it this far. This is a big one. Do not believe everything your mind says. Take a deep breath. Punch a negative thought about yourself with 5 positive ones. Let this become a habbit. Look after yourself. You got this!

[@user-uh3hd3io3z]

Upon reading this I feel like a hug is the best response to what your saying. So whenever you feel your worst just know someone is sending you warm hugs every time. 😊

[@isoul3857]

Awwww 🥰🥺love you sm. Don't worry it will heal soon. One thing i know is the first step is grateful. Cuz u can't change from hate. I believe on u baby 🤍🤍💕 don't be down god over there on Ur heart. I love u so much u are meaningful ❤️ I love talk to u 🌼🤍 it's okay maybe not now u can heal Ur self but later it getting better. With god we can

[@carolineforbes7748]

But u r truly genuine here.. When u expressed ur emotions.. Accpt urself as who u are.. N also learn from ur mistakes.. Its okay to keep making mistakes.. If u dont make mistakes u can never learn from them.. Ive also been where u have been n still processing.. Jst remember tht ur worth anything that anyone else is worth of❤️

[@semyonpronin3652]

The third point deserves a separate video itself. Very often it's so hard to control your emotions which leads to irrational decisions

[@tienthanh21697]

I struggle even to just take care of my self. I don’t have any motivation at all. i tend to leave my body the way it is although i know there’s a lot of things need to be changed

[@user-pu1rk2pc8m]

Bold of you to assume I'm not already weak emotionally and physically

[@mic6074]

You and me both. I always seem to seek approval from people in my life before doing anything.

[@Psych2go]

you will get stronger x -monica

[@user-pu1rk2pc8m]

@@Psych2go bet

[@myusernameissolonglolimgon8700]

@@Psych2go bet

[@rubyjulivre1136]

I always tell myself that, being emotional is not a sign of weakness, but a proof that i have kind, loving and big heart which takes some time to heal than anyone else 😊

[@user-dl3vn8ze9n]

"Being able to stand out from the crowd and be yourself is a sign of emotional strength." No... I just do it to not make myself miserable.

[@brianna6262]

timestamps for you guys

[@lunalxs]

THESE ALL ARE SO ME (•‿•)

[@Berries.creamm]

There’s already like two other ones lol

[@brianna6262]

​@@Berries.creamm im aware, they posted after mine. I got here like 30 seconds after the video was posted lmao

[@sarieeele218]

Okay so how can i STOP doing all these ??? I'm so so sick and tired of trying

[@mastermitser5693]

Just Stop It.

[@reshh7]

hey maybe a video on why some people tend to get attached too much (attachmental issues) and why some people are scared of commitment?

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

symptoms of emotional exhaustion👍 lack of motivation. trouble sleeping. irritability. physical fatigue. feelings of hopelessness. absentmindedness. apathy. headaches.

[@tasmiyah6992]

I have all of these symptoms...😭 I dunno what to do...

[@phantasmalegionariiketchupsvm]

...

[@hansandhispanzerfaust6236]

I have literally all of these, i am concerned about myself

[@HyperSarcasticAvocado]

You know me so well

[@tasmiyah6992]

@@hansandhispanzerfaust6236 mee tooo😭I'm sad coz now it's affecting my daily life now...even I can't study properly...coz I can't concentrate....

[@ghosts_bike8217]

I’m a 12-year-old kid going through some hard times in this video helps me a lot thank you and just so you know anything can happen but does that mean it will stop you and if you ever get bullied just say why you keep saying it don’t say anything else it breaks them down deep in if they continue to not answer so why are you not answering my question in a nice voice the word why can you dig down so deep it is infinite also if they have the same answer twice say but you already said that it’s a fun game and play with your friends to but back to the topic remember to always have fun don’t let anybody stop you I know you hear that. A lot but remember it dig deeper if you have friends that you can talk to talk to them I take my friends for granted or took my friends for granted and I regret that position to the fullest now it’s OK just want to be alone sometimes but don’t let your loneliness make your friends think you just used them take long breaks but tell them I’m gonna go on lonely break take it I don’t take one for like 23 months to get worried at that point so people take their friends for granted but I just want to say see you have a great day and remember a mirror and a pillow is always by your side so you have two people that always care never mind make that three me and one of them that care and a lot of other people do too sorry for all the grammar mistakes I use speech to text since I did horrible in school so goodbye have a great night or day❤️

[@apurplekitkat]

I may have been called out big time... but that won’t stop me from 🥺ing at the Michael plushie at 3:57

[@christinajane1980]

This channel opens my mind up to the possibilities of what's really going on inside. Being in an abusive relationship can lead someone to not knowing what thoughts/feelings are true / valid, or not.

[@thedoggydoggerton]

I’m gonna be honest, I kind of stopped listening because i got distracted by the fricking *ADORABLE* Michael plushie at 3:55

[@smallpotato5445]

OH MY GOD

[@TheCloud785]

I left my relationship because it was built around technology. I won't let this happen again. I've already told myself to never go to a dating site. I'll find someone naturally, how the Universe intended us to genuinely meet.. I love the videos here! They truly help so much 🙏🏻❤

[@JohnSmith-ns6dp]

In a pandemic?

[@sunshinexhaz8648]

@@JohnSmith-ns6dp That certainly makes it harder, but it's still possible. You never know what's going to happen (:

[@mastermitser5693]

The universe isn't conscious smh

[@sunshinexhaz8648]

@@mastermitser5693 Why don't you let people believe what they want?

[@mastermitser5693]

@@sunshinexhaz8648 but isn't the truth supposed to set you free?

[@holycrusader3130]

Please do a video on "Why you feel like everybody hates you/ why everyone hates you" I don't have any friends and I feel like everybody secretly hates me... Everytime I try to do something good...it doesn't work out

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for suggesting! We actually have a video on that! Feel free to check it out

[@Valholic9]

I'd rather more meet someone in person, because you can express yourself better than on text, and be able to spend quality time doing something we both enjoy and be able to meet eachother better

[@Psych2go]

yes! exactly :) -monica

[@graciellabautista6511]

100% on point. After recognizing these things, the effort to not keep going back to the unhealthy habits will be challenging. So, remember: believe in yourself. ☺️

[@lillyk3680]

I love watching these! I feel so calm and refreshed. 🥰 and even though I’ve stayed up the last three days till sunrise, I’ve felt way calmer. I love the people in these comment sections and the channel itself! I also am happy to announce my depression has decreased significantly!! I feel like I’ve surfed over a large wave and I can even clean around the house without getting drained! I do admit I sleep more often and am still trying to get my work ethic back up, but emotionally I feel so much better!! Thank you Psych2Go! You guys are a major key in my healthier mental state! You guys really helped me. 💖🥺

[@leanneneville2431]

So glad you are getting better, well done you, it’s not easy, just take a day at a time. You should be so proud of yourself. Kudos to you.👏👏👏👏👏💗🇦🇺

[@lillyk3680]

@@leanneneville2431 thank you so much! That’s really sweet!! 🥺👉🏻👈🏻 I wish you the best health

[@SoraFan23]

Video Topic: "10 signs someone is pretending to be nice to you, but they are mean"

[@patlanticocean8290]

How about 'Emotional Manipulation vs. Hollow Sympathy'. I say this only because I struggle to express empathy towards others about matters that don't immediately impact me. I WANT to feel something to help make my offer of emotional support genuine, but more often than not my brain is simply too analytical and so while I might SAY "I'm happy to hear that!" my THOUGHT is "There is literally nothing I can use this information for or any value in retaining this knowledge... ... ... but we better provide a positive response to avoid potential conflict." I'm not trying to harm you emotionally, like I said, I really do want that emotional support to be genuine, but I also haven't figured out a way to fabricate those emotions when I need them. P.S. Yes, my internal monologue uses the word 'we' rather than 'I' because I tend to refer to myself from a separate perspective, like I'm trying to mentor myself. Unless I'm berating myself in which case I tend to use 'you'. (Possibly me trying to disassociate my actions from myself? Trying my best not to self-diagnose).

[@Psych2go]

:(

[@saschafarnell7717]

@@patlanticocean8290 I know someone who has said something similar to what you just wrote (almost word-for-word) because it (frustratingly) confused me that he was unable to access any empathy or joy when I had bad or good news. It was never deliberate/malicious. It just felt a little invalidating. It turned out he was on the spectrum.

[@GodiscomingBhappy]

sooo true. listen to your gut incstinc usually works

[@raiynation]

My entire friend group, then?

[@nusratjahanshoshi7306]

Can you make a video on how to control anger ? It'd be a great help .

[@IshaSharma11]

Great idea

[@JassCodes]

Yes..It helps...

[@AintNoJohn]

Ooh, you should make a video about the house-tree-person test. In case you didn’t know, the htp test is a test where you draw a house, a tree, and a person with as much detail as possible and as much time as needed. There’s a website that lists all the small details that could be found in each drawing and how it hints at mental issues. It sounds like astrology levels of random, but it’s pretty dang accurate Edit: the htp test isn’t like scientifically proven (as far as I know) but it still has reasonable logic behind it, so it’s not perfectly accurate, but still pretty dang close considering how absurd it sounds

[@U.R.coolkid]

Ah, i might try this!

[@AintNoJohn]

@@U.R.coolkid yeah, it’s pretty cool! But you’re gonna feel really called out

[@AintNoJohn]

@LEE SZE HUI JESSICA 4D it is taken into account, but it makes a surprisingly small difference. My artistic abilities are very limited, but it still worked pretty dang well for me

[@Yuryn]

Psych2Go: Posts a new video Me:🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@Psych2go]

Aw! We really appreciated that 💕!!

[@IshaSharma11]

Same

[@bittersweet5766]

All me... 😭 my therapist said I need to work on boundaries, my confidence and being more assertive. I’m struggling so bad right now. I felt like I was getting better but these past couple days have been rough.

[@curtistinemiller4646]

Our strength grows out of our Weakness...

[@queenjulianalovesherfatban2064]

Does anyone else feel like most people think crying a lot means you're weak, even if they won't say it

[@ghostydude805zx]

In person because it helps u feel more connected than simply talking over a screen

[@knightwolf9863]

1. Not believing in yourself 2. Not taking care of yourself 3. Making decisions based upon emotions instead of values (Emotions>Values) 4. Judging yourself for how you feel 5. Needing to find a reason behind everything 6. Trying to control & plan everything 7. Letting others control you

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for the summary!

[@kefehak]

Cool

[@knightwolf9863]

@@Psych2go Thank you. But don’t forget VeryAwesomeSheep, he made one, too.

[@amelittaberretta9109]

I am a senior,alone, have been emotionally weak all my life. I have been subjected to a lot of ridicule and violence, thus, I am afraid of people, also out of fear I have become “A people pleaser”. All of the above made for an unhappy , sad, painful, meaningless life.

[@canpy143]

Could you please make a video on "online friendship"? These days im seeing this trend of making online friends and which is good and bad at the same time. It becomes pretty difficult in understanding emotions on screen and might lead to misunderstandings. So ig this type of video can help a lot. Btw love your channel! ^^

[@crazymadstriker766]

I dont know about your online friendships but for me my experience is they last for a few months then dissapear

[@heidiwholeandwell5914]

`My worth is not made but what I do but who I am.' Beautifully said! My childhood and young adulthood was informed by being an overachiever to seek validation... Working on this trait still as an adult.

[@niyati1218]

Lets take a moment to appreciate the person whom we always forget to-- Cindy!!!👏👏 Cindy, you have been a wonderful youtube manager. You always replied to all of our comments, at least you try to but their are thousanda of them. You have always wrote from your heart. Wonderful. Now, we want a face-reveal of Cindy- The voice of Psych2go.😊😊😊 Sorry for my English.

[@IshaSharma11]

Well said

[@niyati1218]

@@IshaSharma11 Thank you so much 😊😊

[@IshaSharma11]

@@niyati1218 welcome

[@charlottechadwick4767]

I love this woman’s voice. It’s calming and relaxing. It oddly makes me feel happy. Sending love to whom ever you are. 😊

[@Dioyt]

Video suggestion: How to be mentally stronger or less sensitive for highly sensitive people (HSP)

[@IshaSharma11]

Beautiful

[@ElisaClaesmusic]

I need this video too lmao

[@angiebyrne6249]

I’m a hsp and there isn’t too much we can do we just have to live with it mabye try to manage it and accept it

[@MAL341]

We cannot be less sensitive. We can only learn our boundaries and helpful routines, then maintain them very well.

[@soulfulhuman8724]

@@MAL341 right. 😃

[@rashidanwarsiddique7290]

The best thing in this channel is that both the videos nd the people in the comment section are so understanding,friendly nd peace-loving! The whole atmosphere is so understanding😊😊

[@sgvycnnjagvy]

I love this animation style. I hope there will be more!

[@Lettermanization]

Judging yourself for how you feel is a big one for me. Always had a hard time with that one since my parents always told me I shouldn't feel that way and to get over it. Always thought there was something wrong with me because of it but the more and more I learn about psychology the more I understand that my parents aren't the perfect people they think they are. Even if I am sad when everyone is happy, I should embrace the fact I am sad instead of trying to be happy and go along with it.

[@TheSoundofTanay]

Can we have a video for people dealing with mental health issues while in a relationship with someone? - P.S. - if someone wants to read my story, please go ahead: I’m in a relationship with a wonderful person. Problem is, I know my heart and mind are lacking because of the underlying anxiety and issues to do with sadness. Add to that dealing with the baggage from a previous toxic relationship. I don’t want to lose this person and I’m fighting a big battle mentally. I hope I find the peace I deserve. I want to be a better partner and person.

[@IshaSharma11]

Great idea

[@TheSoundofTanay]

@@varunprakaash9761 thanks man, trying my absolute best

[@cashmeremilk]

A few years ago I was so insecure I would’ve said I like to meet people online. Today I’d say the opposite, I love making new acquaintances 🤍

[@j_j0905]

I can't even thank u enough, this channel is like the only safe place i have♡

[@jakeofalltradesmusic]

I take issue with the first one, because in believing in yourself, you're also denying the idea that you have flaws, and when you do come up short, you show that you're arrogant and prideful and vain. I also think I should judge myself for how I feel. If I feel like cheating on my wife, do you think that's good and valid? No. I need to figure out why I feel that way and teach myself not to feel that.

[@kbjfhsigjcjfit]

I usually cry with even with the smallest things ever even if I don't feel upset. Is it normal or not?

[@ElisaClaesmusic]

I'm in the same case

[@rosalina462]

Same

[@questionmark.4444]

same

[@Psych2go]

it's alright to express your emotions, when it starts to bother you please consult a GP -monica

[@GodiscomingBhappy]

letting others control you, others recognise you prioritising their needs and taking advantage..... Great video, i feel identified in some of those but like any other "addiction" i am proud to say that despite some "bad days" i am a recovering "addict" and NO is a wonderful word that i use a lot these days

[@meokiejunnie9194]

Please make a video on " 5 Things that can help you to change your depressed mentality. "

[@vellrahm4311]

I cannot agree with the overall message of |5. Everything happens for a reason| To be honest, it depends on how you analyse things and what results you expect to get. I believe a question you can apply to this problem of overanalysing would be ''What's the meaning of life?'' While other might say, life is there to experience everything as much as you can and to just treat yourself with new things, another group says it's all about following a path filled with results, to an ultimate goal. Another may say it's about finding absolute peace, not happiness, not a negative drive, but absolute balance and peace. The issue with ''Everything happens for a reason'' would be that you look for an UNIVERSAL answer, while some things just cannot be answered for everyone. For example: While Wood definitely is brown, the meaning behind collecting that wood is different for everyone.

[@reshh7]

can crying easily be considered as being emotionally weak because naturally that's how people perceive it yknw...

[@ira179]

No, crying didn't mean u r weak, u can cry if u want, crying is a way to express our feeling 🥺💖 stay strong babe.

[@norM_ystical]

Well, people percieve the wrong thing, then. It's not weak to express your emotions healthily.

[@candaceshepherd7557]

I’m wondering how to notice denial in someone or what denial can look like in a person. I’m not talking about the “stages of grief” denial, I’m talking about a denial that can interfere with someone’s outlook on life and how they see things. I’m not sure how else to explain it, but overall I’m curious about what denial can do to a person overtime.

[@enieh112]

You mean another perspective on life and how some are denying REALITY from their perspective?

[@candaceshepherd7557]

@@enieh112 Yeah, I think that’s the best way to explain it!

[@enieh112]

@@candaceshepherd7557 Yeah... I don't know what it can do overtime. As someone who struggled with this myself before i accepted "reality", i just wanted to make sure what you meant since i've had a lot of confusion about this.

[@rinyearner]

I'm gonna get called out- Edit: I didn't get called out that much-

[@solstrean264]

That's good :)

[@MashedRaspberries]

I think i got called out too .m.

[@psychicareena]

I certainly did😂

[@louiskeiflin5858]

Call out for what?

[@IshaSharma11]

True,

[@SoCalRegisteredNurse]

I have a video suggestion relating to negative self talk and anxiety such as: all or nothing thinking, prophecizing (sp?), catastrophic thinking, mind reading. Those thoughts that tell us if we do something it’s all going to be wrong, or mind reading where we think no one likes us, etc. I’m not sure if you’ve done vids on these but I’m in therapy to overcome these thought patterns but I still have trouble with a few areas in my life

[@alyna9103]

I just love your relaxing and calm voice . Its peaceful here😌💜

[@fae3475]

0:46 1:Not believing in yourself 1:29 2:Not taking care of yourself 2:15 3:Emotions > Values 3:52 4:Judging yourself 4:32 5:Needing to find a reason behind everything 5:08 6:Trying to control & plan everything 5:56 7:Letting others control you (Timestamps that I made for me to use I think-)

[@tonythetiger5029]

7 habits that make you emotionally weak: 1. Having an older brother

[@nancsspaceee]

I aint seen no comment this relatable before.

[@enieh112]

Haha. I'm sure my lil bro agrees 😅

[@lauriex8832]

Unless you don't have one or they're nice to you. But even as a single child, life still sucks.

[@princessjoe834]

For me having an older brother is the only thing making me emotionally strong tbh ...Not to brag but my older brother is literally an angel sent from heaven just for me xx

[@tonythetiger5029]

@@princessjoe834 damn i wish i had that 😔 you hella lucky bro

[@michaelhargrove9]

I rather meet in person instead of date online because online they can betray anything and anybody but in person you can truly see who they really are

[@bloodblade6775]

I was emotionally weak but my emotions doesn't exist now..

[@VengefulPolititron]

sit quietly in silence. and think about your life. who you are as a kid. before truama. what happened to you. things you remember. like and dislike. write some on paper. figure out... what you need. and what you want they're different. and you are who you were born as. not who you want to be. accept that. I wish I did. accept you limitations. if you make yourself into someone you aren't.. it's ok for awhile. but it makes you miserable and it can destroy you. (it destoyed me and my brother) get help. cry. crying is good. love all. be kind. find God. most important.

[@bloodblade6775]

@@VengefulPolititron thanks alot for the encouragement I'll always remember your words...and about you can't you start life from the beginning (sorry if I made you mad).

[@weirdospectral]

1:48 : dream mug 3:59 : Michael from dream smp or Zombified piglin from Minecraft 6:03 : frog jacket or Karl Jacob jacket That only I can find, if you guys find other Easter egg, pls tell me so I can fix it

[@numberonemitskifann]

That's probably my daily routine edit: it *is* my daily routine

[@2.0.2.0]

Oh god

[@igorthelight]

You can actually change that if you will start working on your character That's not impossible!

[@meme-bc8tf]

About the one question about the dating app, you should be very careful, you never know if somebody has bad intentions, so you can decide to use any sort of dating app, but just don’t share personal information, you know, the information that people can take advantage of...

[@meme-bc8tf]

Anyways this video is helpful and now I get how people hurt themselves without meaning to emotionally

[@ehm_ily1]

Her voice is so angelic and calm and makes my day ❤️ #notisquad edit:i never get likes this fast

[@RealMetalJay]

1) that hit 2) that hit 3) that hit 4) that hit 5) aha that didnt hit 6) definitely didn't hit 7) dang yall got me that hit HARD

[@simplybagels7056]

I love Naphia's artwork ^-^

[@natureloving9595]

Cindy!! There is no need for "soothifying" channel as ur voice is so calm and sweet... I really feel as if u are my real friend bcoz everytime j listen to u, I become more relaxed ☺☺

[@pragyansingh4154]

This video is totally for me, I can't decide if I am overreacting to everything😟😟

[@Steamed_Kebab]

5:09 Actually glad this was mentioned because for months ive been planning out my future(literally every detail) and ive never realized it was actually harmful until now

[@pratitibasu]

Can we have a video on how to combat being hurt over and over again? Please? 🥺❤

[@cristopher7019]

Just think nothing is going to heppem when other hurts you because they have low iq they didnot even think how you feel but you can feel other pain and think what will happen because you are a genius so be happy

[@pratitibasu]

@@cristopher7019 thank you for your reply❤😄. It made me feel better. Have a nice day ❤❤

[@savannahcrabtree5402]

Video suggestions (if they’re not already there, there’s so many I often forget I’ve seen them): 1. Tips and ways to be kinder to yourself 2. Signs you’re in a relationship with a covert narcissist 3. Tips to distance or end unhealthy friendships/relationships 4. Signs of addiction? (I think in others is already there, so what about one with signs of addiction in you) 5. Signs your family/member is toxic or unhealthy 6. Signs of being overly subconscious of yourself (or worrying too much) 7. Ways to help heal (or face) trauma 8. Tips for ptsd or cptsd 9. Signs your therapist may not be the best fit for you/or is a good fit (this is a ridiculous suggestion because I know you guys are not licensed and just want to open ideas and perceptions, and that a video like this could have legal liability possibly idk) 10. Signs of breadcrumbing? 11. Signs your partner actually despises you (or hates) 12. Tips for practicing or reminding to challenge negative and self depreciating thoughts 13. Signs of childhood trauma as an adult (pretty sure this is already a video y’all have) 14. Signs you give too many chances. 15. Signs you’re subtly abusive or unaware Also, if able without getting in to any legal troubles, could y’all release a video of mental health books that you strongly suggest, a basis of what they help cover and what it targets in the book, and maybe your rating of it? I know the Body Keeps the Score is a great one as is feeling good (the new mood therapy), but to see other self-help/workbooks for mental health would be awesome. As well as they’re focal points. Thank you guys for being so incredible! You’ve truly helped me open my eyes to things I did was unaware of, dealt with, or simply was experiencing from myself and others. Which there in helped me confront it in therapy. Your channel helps so much to enlighten me and so many others and I love the content you guys produce.

[@savannahcrabtree5402]

Also maybe tips on how to make friends? Okay done now lol thank you guys for your videos!

[@carollynpiupiu8256]

I love the artttt, so cuteee 🥺

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! Have you discover any of the references? :D - Cindy

[@IshaSharma11]

Me too

[@andrewclarke3622]

As we start waking up of quarantine, I think DIVE sounds very interesting since I am interested in not just dating but meeting those around me. I have given online dating a try but am finding the process impersonal and disenchanting. This is, of course, part and parcel to the timing in choosing when to start the dating process. Been listening to this channel for a couple of years now and have always found the video both helpful and interesting.

[@IshaSharma11]

True

[@ritaevora9430]

I just want friends :( im tired of feeling alone i dont have motivation to do nun

[@randomserbianguy5677]

I'm in the same place as you, bud. I sometime feel like I'm living life on 20% battery.

[@hitoromi4363]

Same I'm tired of being a loner I just want friends but I'm too scared. Every time I talk to someone I feel like I have nothing to tell there's no words coming to my mouth I feel so speechless..

[@ritaevora9430]

@@randomserbianguy5677 yea but the problem is that no one also doesn't wanna be my friends I tried everything but idk it feels like I was born to be hated since the first day

[@ritaevora9430]

@@hitoromi4363 same and then they ended up hating u for no reason or call me weirdo

[@randomserbianguy5677]

@@ritaevora9430 I know exactly what you mean man. Cuz I'm literally dealing with that same feeling as of writing this comment. That's why I said I feel like I'm living life on 20%. The loneliness, the depressive episodes... it all takes a mental toll my psyche and drains my soul to the point where I can't even indulge in gaming or hobbies without feeling shit. The occasional """"friends"""" I do have, compliment me on being a good emotional support. But those words have lost all their meaning because they never show it through their actions. Everytime I need to talk or hangout with one they conveniently never make the effort to do so, only ghosting or declining my offer to such frequent consistency that makes me realize the reality that nobody really gives two shits about me. I don't even know why I'm trying to live life when it's clear that the world doesn't want me or even acknowledge my existence. If I was lying of the side walk you'd all walk over me. I'm tired of giving it my all only to be bested by a person who pours 5% effort in a relationship and somehow manages to be acknowledged and appreciated for more then what their worth

[@SlaySami]

dating online: the reason i like it more is that you dont get to see the person first hand, now that might sound bad cause theres been a lot of cases when the person might be a little- too old- but if we ignore that i believe that online dating is a lot better, since you dont judge the person first hand of how they look like and instead their personality and their value, you dont have to feel self conscious about how you look like

[@BrigadieraRanaLogica]

I'm literally not having emotions

[@kusanag1820]

Been depressed, then i found this and watched, now i feel relaxed after realizing some things, also thanks to the narrator's sweet voice , now i feel okay.

[@rosecatmull9244]

3:54 zombie piglin (micheal?)

[@aaronaustrie]

(6:00) When you say letting others control you the first person that comes to my mind is my father and grandmother. I can't deal with people who always think they can manipulate you or tell you what they want. that sometimes pisses me off to the core 😤🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@Tinkerbell-ck2ho]

I understand this but lets think about who are they telling it for, if its for your own good, its fine. But if its for something to their advantage, that is not accepted. One solution i could think of is to make them understand how you feel by having a conversation, but if they dont understand i dont really know what you can do to get out of your problem. I have faced this with my parents too, many times they just dont get what we feel and all i do is accept the reality and try to understand from their perspective but it always doesnt make sense to me too. All i can say to make you feel better is that you are not aone bud :)

[@lasagnabryce5660]

3:55 MICHEALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

[@IshaSharma11]

❤✔

[@obamashelf5500]

And Karls frog hoodie at 6:12 and a simile on the mug at 1:50

[@chandrakalagm6725]

Does anyone ever feel like switching off your life and just scream without a care in the world?

[@diywithcaren1302]

Video suggestion: How to reach your destiny

[@nothinghere8434]

2:56 I do not believe in current dating conventions. I do however think that purely text based conversations can give each person insight on their other counterpart's personality removed from physical appearances, weakening biases. That statement stands though on the assumption each person avoids deluding themselves with unrealistic expectations on their potential partner's looks/voice and let themselves be surprised which may not be a given. Same with honesty, but that's a problem transcending the realm of dating.

[@tjongejongeman8153]

So I am just a weak slob, now I feel much better about myself 😅🥴😥

[@ironically_iconic9848]

ha mood 🤤 WE NEED SOME THERAPY 😩

[@Andrea-fz3pm]

I can't believe I ticked all of these.. I have 7/7 of these... damn no wonder I literally break down after one project isn't performed to my absolute best