7 Reasons Men Seem Emotionally Unavailable to Women- 😂 Clueless fem writer explains!

[@_Delta_P_]

I want to sleep when I want. Eat when I want. Eat what I want. Do what I want. Everytime I let women into my life they try to control all of this.

[@sophieruby5893]

Women are controlling? Have you ever heard of the Taliban?

[@Metallsturm]

True, noticed the same pattern in my previous relations. A guy just can't do what he actually wants without a girl over time either giving a side eye, or making those micro-drama actions, or nagging about it, or showing her displeasure by bringing chaos, or questioning what you're doing, because since it doesn't align with what _she_ likes it is somehow stupid, thus you should feel embarrassed.

[@sophieruby5893]

@@Metallsturm It's men who are bitter because women have freedom. Patriarchy proves men have control issues. No men have ever been under the authority of a female version of the Taliban.

[@logicallifeperspectives513]

Easy fix.... Don't let them

[@Au60schild]

Yup!

[@remivieilledent]

Being single is (sometime) difficult. Being with a woman is a nightmare.

[@geography_guy335]

If woman never values her man's thoughts and opinions he'll never trust her with his emotions

[@rezcellent]

This is a great comment.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Between my mom, deceased wife and last long term girlfriend yeah women don’t care much about what I think or feel.

[@easter_sunday]

Men should care less about their emotions and more about their legacy

[@alfredspic481]

For real

[@clodismccuien8082]

I just don't think women can understand a man's emotions... I'm not saying she is deficient... I'm just saying that her nature is different than that of a man... Emotions are experienced difference between men and women... I see it as placating to a woman's need to be useful... It doesn't actually help men... We say it does to make women feel better😅... But maybe it's just a personal experience... But I tell her what I feel she needs to know to chorale her emotions.

[@johnkimble4474]

Easy explanation... women damage men to the point that they can no longer emotionally invest in them. It's their own fault, but they're too self-obsessed to realize it.

[@melkerner]

1000000%

[@kevinfurr3311]

That is right. At some point when all you are getting is negative feedback, one gets to the point of what is the path of least pain. Withdrawal avoids conflict.

[@sophieruby5893]

🙄

[@jazz4asahel]

Well stated.

[@EyeSee4.8]

​@@kevinfurr3311 True I'm 100% tuned out.

[@RodVonLongrod]

Women: "We want Men who are emotionally available." Men: "And we want women who are Logically available."

[@cosmictreason2242]

One man among a thousand i have found, but a woman among a thousand i have not found

[@AwRighttttt]

Go back to the 50s then.

[@AwRighttttt]

Get yourself a blow up doll and F the world. it will save you alot of bother

[@Dragonstalon1001]

How many Dating Podcasts have you seen where the Host asks the Guests if they they've ever been with an Emotional Man, and 99% of the Women who said yes (that I have seen in those Podcasts), have all stated they lost respect for the Man because of it. They say one thing, but react completely opposite when it happens.

[@RodVonLongrod]

@@AwRighttttt I just need a flux capacitor.

[@rosswardrop465]

Well the answer .Men are sick of getting ripped off.

[@BlazeBuds]

Sad thing is women just think men are playing a game of chicken with them to see who folds first. Umm nope we arent playing we are done, you women can do what you want, just leave us alone and enjoy your cats

[@jamesowen4938]

Constantly rejected, too.

[@tdotsmooth]

Facts they think that because they play games all the time and they're assuming we do too but when in reality we're just checking out​@@BlazeBuds

[@michaelcoslo6497]

@@BlazeBuds Yes, and the reason men will win that game of chicken is that we don't have an expiry date like they do.

[@Joe-db5hz]

NEVER share your struggles, emotions, insecurities, etc. It WILL be weaponized.

[@guybenson3528]

I would have to modify that to "MIGHT" be weaponized. I know a number of women, particularly my wife of 38 years, who do not operate that way. We both share our struggles, emotions, and insecurities with each other and she has NEVER weaponized it against me nor I against her. We are loyal partners in our love story.

[@sirg-had8821]

100% The broad will use it against you

[@michaelcoslo6497]

@@guybenson3528 Exceptions prove the rule. I'm happy that you and your spouse have bucked the trend.

[@deconstructingnarcissism3062]

@@guybenson3528its because they don't make women like they used to in your generation. Back when social media and feminism hadn't yet poisoned the minds of women.

[@daviddrew3372]

I know a man who just a few months into the marriage was rejected sexually by his “bride”. Even Locke south of the bedroom. He became despondent and suicidal. He attempted suicide. Then was taken into custody for his own safety and went inpatient for the first time in his life . While he was inpatient his dear sweet loving wife told him over the phone that she was leaving him. Then blamed his depression for why she was leaving him. Such an understanding and loving and caring woman. The depression that she contributed too was used as a weapon against him. Personally, I think he got off easy. She clearly is the one who is deeply messed up.

[@mikelancaster6074]

Men show love by acts of service, not by chatter.

[@dr.strangelove5708]

They don't get service is better proof than chatter one can say damn well anything they want actions prove it.

[@allynflinchbaugh4570]

Women don't show love by acts of service, because talk is cheap and so are most of them.

[@TomSawyerMDW]

Actions DO include physical affection, including sensual and sexual.

[@AlyxFaust]

The love language thing is subjective, so no two people will have the same ones. You should read the book thoroughly so you understand the distinction.

[@sebastiankumlin9542]

The thing that stands out the most when dealing with women is that whenever you open up to them they use it against you and in the most horrible ways.

[@sophieruby5893]

You're just shitting on women because you can't stand that they have been liberated.

[@paulclinton6414]

Yep, I was homeless as a kid at times. Told her. Whenever I did not bend to her, she would mention that I am like that because of my childhood...

[@Gr33dyGenius85]

@@paulclinton6414it couldn’t possibly be because of controlling broads like that? Glad you got away from that bruh, you’re not your past, but she needs to be left in it frfr

[@bromane5thfloor]

Being single is so peaceful.😃

[@ryanlorance6168]

💯

[@sophieruby5893]

Enjoy your hot pockets.

[@ryanlorance6168]

@@sophieruby5893 nah I actually know how to cook.. an clean.. unlike yall modern clown wahmen. Enjoy your cats tho 💀

[@skydeclair]

Well peacefulness is heath,heath is true wealth, wom are to far gone,

[@davek5777]

Enjoy it, brother! You are your own boss, master, etc. Do what you want, when you want. Enjoy!

[@tomwoggle9411]

When a woman says: "We need to talk about our feelings, We need to open up and trust each other.", this is what a man hears: "You do NOT have the right to remain silent! Anything you say WILL be used against you!"

[@berndhaas431]

A man settles where he finds peace. Not beauty, not money, not status, but peace.

[@crazyworld.221]

Womansplaining. The problem is you don't listen to men. You listen to woman explaining men.

[@waynebollman]

Welp, men have no value so...... why listen to them.

[@Alakazzam09]

Men take action, women take everything else.

[@jkbrown5496]

Feminism broke the social pressure on men to marry. Fewer mothers pressure sons to marry. And fewer men are held in esteem in society so men have less pressure to marry to gain entrance to the local society. “A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.” ― Arthur Schopenhauer “If a man is not married at 30, it means that he has not been forced to get married yet. Men don’t get married because they want to get married, but because women want to get married” -Erich Remarque

[@LordMalice6d9]

Modern post-feminism society has made it to where women are so undesirable that many men don't even want to pursue coitus them anymore. Which is amazing considering the male drive for coitus.

[@sophieruby5893]

Plenty of men want to marry, especially if they are devout and don't believe in sex before marriage.

[@paulmcfeeters5554]

Feminarcissism and anti-social media exposed the true narcissistic nature of women so now men know the real game and the players.

[@davek5777]

@@sophieruby5893 that may have been true about 70 years ago. Not anymore.

[@sophieruby5893]

@@davek5777 There are still devout men.

[@limpetcarre1139]

Women trying to define men's emotions using their own female emotional parameters as the standard.

[@unlimited971]

We men did the same with women behaviour before. That s why we didn t get them until recently

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

@@unlimited971 Behaviour... let women to their free desire and we got this slow motion train wreck. Let men to do as they wish and shortly after an order emerges.

[@sophieruby5893]

We all have the same emotions. We're different sexes, not different species.

[@paulmcfeeters5554]

Like cats trying to explain dogs to a mouse.

[@sophieruby5893]

@paulmcfeeters5554 Nope. People all have the same emotions. Men are from Earth, women are from Earth. Get over it.

[@JonathanHerz]

“Avoidant attachment style” really just means “I can tell she likes me but I’m so burnt out on women”

[@TetrisPhantom]

This is me - realized last week I have a dismissive avoidant style, and after reflecting for the last week, I strongly suspect it's because of a sheer lack of respect for my wants by pretty much every woman I have interacted with.

[@samanthony2950]

Women are strong and independent and don’t need a man. Ok we got the message we will leave women alone and concentrate on our hobbies. Girls your on your own . Chad and Tyrone will do their best to fit you in their rotation.

[@SoundsFromBeyond]

Why won't men approach us anymore? Where have all the good men gone? Men, you're weak and need to man up and marry us! I'm over 40, I've had my fun and I "deserve" a good man!

[@sophieruby5893]

Strong and independent doesn't mean living a solitary existence. Men who are strong and independent don't live like hermits.

[@roygbiv6935]

@@sophieruby5893I do!!

[@davek5777]

@@sophieruby5893 Have you ever thought that "Men who are strong and Independent" choose to live their life Their way? If it be a "hermit", then so be it. And, there's absolutely Nothing wrong with that, my dear. It's a choice that He made. If you can't understand that, you need to Open your eyes.

[@spidalack]

@@sophieruby5893 Oh but we do. It's just you do not see us as we are invisible to you. If you could open your eyes and see more than the top 1%, you'd see the large number of hermits around you.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

Without yet listening, my knee jerk answer is "cos whenever you reveal a vulnerability to a woman, she will stick a needle in it at every single opportunity as often as she can and the more public the offence the better". Do y'all remember the account of Samson and Delilah? Yeah, THAT. Stay stoic gentlemen - nobody cares! 🙏🏻

[@sophieruby5893]

Sure, women are evil. They are all out to get you. 🤣🤣🤣

[@seeksolitude9048]

I love it when people like the guys at the Daily Wire say " man up and get married guys". They don't understand that we now know better. Between the true nature of women and current divorce laws the risks are too great. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

[@cosmictreason2242]

Manning up is literally why I'm not married. I'm a recovering nice guy simp and thank goodness i never got into trouble when i was naive. Now I'm ready for a relationship but there aren't any ready 💃 that i can find

[@Dragonstalon1001]

Sorry but when I heard Michael Knowles and Matt Walsh talking about Men should be Marrying Ex-Strippers and Ex-OF Girls (me paraphrasing their shows) that found God and raise kids with them....sorry NOT sorry, they lost my respect for ANYTHING they had to say. The Past of a Woman is a predictor of the Future

[@Kyle-fp5lm]

Worked out well for Crowder. Let’s see which amongst them falls next?

[@sophieruby5893]

A man who says, "women's nature" is a red pilled broflake and is not marriage material.

[@OziBlokeTimG]

what a joke, man up be damed, you can have em.

[@JarinXeno]

Tell a woman about the deepest, darkest, most painful moment of your life and watch her use it as ammo against you the next time she is mad at you. Women will treat the man that they supposedly love worse than they treat anyone else. They would never dream of treating their boss, coworkers, friends, or family the way that they treat their husbands and boyfriends.

[@do0ranfrump260]

I got cornered by a woman at work last week. She wanted to know why I ignore her. It caught my off guard.. My unthinking response was, "nothing personal; I'm just on the job". ...

[@davek5777]

LOL.. a big red flag to stay away from. Now, she'll probably set her sights on ruining your career at work. Proceed with caution.

[@racingraider381]

Keep up the bad behavior and mislabeling of men ladies! Us single men are enjoying our peaceful and productive lives without you! Stay strong my brothers!

[@billbrock8740]

So true! The latest stat: Only 6.5 of every 1,000 American men are getting married today. A Beyond Grim statistic for any woman holding out for “Mr. Right.”

[@sophieruby5893]

It's funny because you sound really bitter.

[@josephjulianmionie4744]

@sophieruby5893 Who hurt you?

[@paulclinton6414]

Yes, we a man can conquer without a grown toddler in his ear.

[@jamesowen4938]

But for the biological compulsion towards sex, most men wouldn't have any interest in women, anyway.

[@alfredspic481]

We just don't care, especially the more they post about "where have all the good men gone" the more we skip away from this ridiculous circus....

[@sophieruby5893]

You don't represent your gender.

[@BlazeBuds]

Exactly bro! They think we are playing some kind of game.. nope men are simple creatures, we told you what we want. You didn't listen now you can all piss off and enjoy your cats

[@paulmcfeeters5554]

Where have all the trad wives gone? Can't turn a 304 into a trad wife.

[@paulclinton6414]

No one is good. We are all capable of evil. If a woman ever met an actual angel from heaven, she'd dry up quickly and see him as weak.

[@sophieruby5893]

@paulclinton6414 Angels don't exist. Stop with the silly superstitious nonsense.

[@richardross7219]

I was married for 39 years before my wife died. We had a good marriage. She had a habit of doing things that I didn't want her to do like sending money to her brother or working for long periods in the garden. If I brought up a subject where she knew she was wrong, she'd say "I don't want to talk about it" and walk away. I miss her but, my life is stress free now. There seems to be very few women that are going to be a positive addition to any man's life. Most will be a huge negative. Good Luck, Rick

[@Watchmaker_Gereon-Schloesser]

you got it ... "most will be a huge negative"... Same experience I had. Much love to you. I still try to find a solution (I'm 35 years. Since 2022 I quit "the womens game" even the 1% unicorns bring negativity to the mans life), but it seems that this would mean to go even before EVE and the snake. Maybe even the devil would be needed to end this problem. Cordial greetings, Géréon.

[@sophieruby5893]

I wonder about the shitty things you did to annoy her.

[@richardross7219]

@@sophieruby5893I'm an engineer with Aspergers' Syndrome so, she found it annoying when I didn't go along with the usual sh*t testing that women do. Otherwise, I was trying to get her to be careful. Her brother was a lazy bum. We needed the money a lot more than he deserved it. I was the one working, often 80 hours per week, to support us. She was hurt and stopped working at 2 years into our marriage. Her overdoing it in the garden led to a tick bite which killed her. I was worried about the ticks but, she wasn't. Seven others died from ticks in our area that summer.

[@paulclinton6414]

You brought more to the table, but she always acted like you needed her so much. They are not the table. We are. Men can conquer nations and walk on the moon. Women make it harder for men to focus to achieve. You need to brush them off and win.

[@richardross7219]

@@paulclinton6414We needed each other at different times for different things. She was a brilliant nurse who saved many lives until she was crippled at work. I was a hard working engineer with many blue collar skills. Together we were a great team. Her last 10 years she spent a lot of time watching TV that affected her thinking. I still miss her but, I am stress free.

[@anthonywilliams7052]

Never help, never approach, best to stay far far away. They need to pay for themselves now, alone forever.

[@ryanlorance6168]

Facts

[@sophieruby5893]

I'm pretty sure people are still getting married or just living together.

[@mr.dennis5503]

@sophieruby5893: Yes, some people are still getting married, but marriage rates have dropped over a waterfall! It's to the point that bridal and formal wear shops have closed their doors. Men are rejecting marriage; not because we don't want to be married, but because we don't want to marry someone who is only interested in her own happiness.

[@anthonywilliams7052]

@@sophieruby5893 Rarely, just 6 per1000 now. Most men I meet have COMPLETELY stopped dating for years, been 20+ years for me. My plat went from 5.2K adults and 335 kids in 1990 to 3.5K adults and 79 kids in 2024, or over a third less adults and a fourth the kids. A society that has CONTEMPT for those that build it shouldn't continue, let societies that appreciate their men continue. Most of them use PUUR - JURY, the rest usually JOIN THEM and cheer them on! NONE say a word to stop it, NONE! Many now celebrate our loneliness and what results.... we should do the same. But few of us have CONTEMPT like they do... for now. That's changing, we are all tired of being looked down on and told we are useless and expendable by those that do NOTHING but watch and complain while we maintain the world. So we should stop, only take care of ourselves and support other men. Same standards, be like them as they keep telling us. Let other societies that appreciate their men continue.

[@bforce3824]

I once owned my own house, took trips to Europe once or twice a year, played in a cover band, had a woodshop set up on one side of my garage and my project car on the other side. Life was good. Then one day I find myself having to live in an RV, hanging on by a thread because now I have 2 kids that would be fatherless if I didn't. They want to complain about emotional availability? lol Millions of guys have the same story. Our sons have watched their fathers live this out, that is, if they aren't alienated from their fathers. I don't know - could this dynamic being the norm have some effect on how we interact with women?

[@ackbuilder8262]

Don’t let women make feel guilty in regards to your children. This is their best long term strategy - accuse/blame - guilt - fear of loss( consequence), reconfirm. Rinse and repeat. My 9 old daughter can run this formula any time of the day. I was raised with no father. Still did well. But if you hanging by the thread, what example are you setting to your kids?! It’s better to retract, regroup reinvent and make yourself the best person you can be. Yeah, it will take a couple of years but you will come back in their lives as leading by example type, not buy a cat or a dog and die alone victim type. Good luck.

[@bforce3824]

@@ackbuilder8262 Yeah I've recovered a bit since then. The RV part was about 4 years ago. I did get a dog though lol. Just taking it one day at a time now. The kids are old enough now to know the score without me having to say anything about it. I'm sure they know I've done the best I could with what I had to work with. And I guess I've sworn off anything serious with another woman until they're out on their own. That's about all the damage control and example setting I can do.

[@RichardNaso]

​@@ackbuilder8262😊😊

[@jameson5735]

The best education I had, was watching my sister's argue.

[@Brookspirit]

Realizing my sister was telling lies about women I knew was an epiphany.

[@rushfan9thcmd]

#1 The switch has been turned off, taken out and smashed, tossed in a bonfire, melted, then kicked back on the porch enjoying the quiet and the sunset and a cold one.

[@pamus6242]

Comment of pin !

[@RayRictor]

They always love me upon first meeting me, they only start hating me when they realize I value Truth more than them.

[@alanbradley9621]

Yes Hate will enter the relationship sooner or later. Never fully worked that one out. Maybe it's just a control feature!

[@amilcarcampbell2405]

Emotional unavailability will come as a consequence of a man being hurt too many times. It's why "who hurt you" is especially devious to me. There comes a point when a man says, "Never again." A lot of guys have unfortunately done that. But of course, the first thing people will go to is "man up" or "young men are lonely and dangerous." A LITTLE empathy goes a long way... Too bad something that simple is so elusive.

[@paulclinton6414]

Anyone who says who hurt you has also been hurt. No one gets through this life clean.

[@amilcarcampbell2405]

@@paulclinton6414 PREACH

[@CC-jl7jz]

Empathy is not in the feminist playback. Men are supposed to be emotionally available and yet somehow never need empathy. Nothing about modern women makes sense

[@emiliajojo5703]

Unfortunately every single study shows,crying in front of a woman leads to her loosing respect for you(obviously some people are always exceptions)

[@corneliuselbourne1044]

And to be quite honest I think that's stupid.

[@sophieruby5893]

Depends on what you're crying about. If it's something stupid or because someone close to you died. Big difference.

[@emiliajojo5703]

@@sophieruby5893 unfortunately not .I cried over my late dad,guess what.

[@paulclinton6414]

I have no respect for western women so they can think what they want.

[@paulclinton6414]

​@@sophieruby5893I don't even cry over death. It is weak. We all die.

[@garrett621]

The silent type. I can talk for hours with some people. But from Friday afternoon to Monday morning I generally don't speak to anyone and it's okay.

[@ryanlorance6168]

💯

[@alanbradley9621]

Fact is it's just Great. Peace and Sleep. MUCH recommended.

[@Au60schild]

Men don't want nor need roller-coaster relationships. They seek the peace and comfort of being with someone who, yes, complements their life but who also is predictable.

[@piobmhor8529]

Basically, a man wants a woman to compliment his life not complicate it. A guy can sit in silence for hours, blissful silence while his mind plans out the next home improvement project or whatever…and his silence does not mean he’s angry at you all the time. We’re really not that complicated ladies.

[@snorkus4790]

The novelty of women and their childish judgmental drama wore off years ago. Even the professionals are bent misandrists. Life is easier and simpler without them. Peace is priceless; unfortunately, some of you will need to learn that the hard way, as I did. Act accordingly. Good luck.

[@Cayuse2009]

HI, I enjoy listening to you and thought I'd share a few things I've learned over my decades in life. I used to raise sheep and colts. I had around a thousand sheep and a dozen brood mares, which I bred to either an appaloosa or mammoth stud. I used to trail my sheep from their summer ground to their winter ground which was a distance of over 30 miles. The number one rule with livestock or children (I had 5 sons) was to make the wrong thing difficult and the right thing easy. Keep in mind, I would herd the 1000 sheep on horseback with one dog. If I had a good lead ewe I'd keep her until she was too old to make the trip. She may be a half mile ahead of me and when she came to a crossroad, she'd turn around and look at me and all I had to do was signal her which way to go and she'd do it without question She knew if she tried to go against me, the dog would be on the way to correct her. Making the right thing easy and the wrong thing difficult works. The trouble is with women and children, the government has taken over as the head of the house and family and they don't know what the hell they are doing and they have screwed up marriage and familly sturcture making the man the servant of the family and not the leader, hence why men are opting out of legal marriage. Our role no longer exists.

[@sophieruby5893]

Oh no, that means men's greed for power is why you end up alone. There is no need for a head of the household. Also, women aren't livestock, you bitter incel.

[@knowsstuff988]

when a man trusts someone, really trusts someone, trust enough to open up to and show real emotion, that person had better be the person that man calls to help dig a 6 foot hole or find a pig farm. It is that level of trust a man will look for when showing emotion.

[@LordMalice6d9]

No doubt!

[@EyeSee4.8]

​@@LordMalice6d9 That same man showing emotion to his wife will lose her respect.

[@LordMalice6d9]

@@EyeSee4.8 Showing emotion doesn't make a man weak though. It is actually not just psychologically unhealthy, but it is also physically unhealthy for your body to keep your emotions on the inside.

[@EyeSee4.8]

@@LordMalice6d9 I agree with you 100%. Women will say the same thing but not mean it. Women look at men as protectors In a relationship and view tears as weakness. I can admit loosing someone even a pet can bring tears but for women that's seen as weak. Even though the same woman can watch a guy accidentally chop off 2 fingers say that sucks I'm not going to be able to finish the job today. Pick them up put them in a bag. Grab some paper towel to stop the bleeding. Say see you in a while and drive to the hospital to get them put back on. That's our life.

[@disillusionedone9282]

4 pig farms 3 regular farms 4500 + acres, dozer & excavators 😮

[@alohaohana901]

The first problem is men want women. The second problem is that women are very much aware of that.

[@AwRighttttt]

Well I'm a Irish man and I don't care about so called woman

[@AwRighttttt]

I don't care about so called men either. I don't give a F

[@TSoneonetwo]

worst mistake we men ever made! letting them know how much we want it.

[@alohaohana901]

@@TSoneonetwo I know bro, but it's pretty hard to resist.

[@TSoneonetwo]

@@alohaohana901 very true. But, it is an opportunity for us men to use our strength in a way valuable to us. Instead of being a resource for them. Return on investment....time for us to start really thinking about what we get back for all the work we put into it, bro.

[@Oldhogleg]

Guys marry in hopes the gal doesn't change. Gals marry with the desire to change the guy.

[@AshkonHemmati]

The girl version of the story and the boy version of the story are a novel and a note card, respectively.

[@eldermartins3220]

Good one, sir.

[@arcanewyrm6295]

A novel and a fortune cookie, if we're being super honest.

[@arcanewyrm6295]

A novel and a fortune cookie, if we're being completely honest.

[@timgilbert3051]

Btw, "snuggle struggle" is a euphemism for the involuntary version of adult activities. BB uses "bedroom fun" for the mutually consentual version.

[@FarfromEden]

I know! I can’t believe I did that! Somebody pointed it out to me in the chat! Now it’s hilarious!!

[@lawr5764]

​@@FarfromEden It IS hilarious. I just posted a similar comment as this person. I'm glad to see you've gotten the concept already.

[@gunnisoned]

@@FarfromEden Edit the video, it is otherwise good.

[@cagedrabbit9634]

It was funny as duck to listen to. 😅

[@literalvampirepotbellygobl5629]

Woman: My man isn't doing what I want him to do, when I want him to do it. "Doctor": He has psychological problems and is emotionally unavailable.

[@Steelhorsecowboy]

Married for 45 years to a woman that I love dearly but gives me no peace. Constant bitching, moaning and complaining. We are in sync with values and interests and are great companions, but the complaining never stops. Never a bit of peace or satisfaction. I would never get married again. If given a second chance I would choose "peace".

[@airgin3000]

You are 100% right on. You are a wise woman.

[@CC-jl7jz]

The problem is that once men open up emotionally women will use whatever men say in an argument. This is classic female behavior and I for one have learned my lesson.

[@tachometer-flac]

I go fishing on occasion and most of the time is spent in silence and happiness. It's just the way we are. I remember a woman on social media said she got invited by her boyfriend to come along fishing with the guys. And she was asking, "what should I talk about?" I wanted to say "nothing" talk about nothing. But I was 100% sure it was going to be taken the wrong way.

[@TSoneonetwo]

keep quiet, step lightly....rules for bank fishing

[@sophieruby5893]

Or ask how to fish.

[@billbrock8740]

The GREATEST thing about being single is that I don’t have to “validate a woman’s feelings.” Ah! Paradise! Zero arguments. Zero stress. Sound asleep each and every night in 20 seconds flat. Priceless. ROCK ON, EDEN!!! THIS CHANNEL RULES THE UNIVERSE!

[@sophieruby5893]

I remember in Sunday School (college and careers) being taught to stroke a man's ego. 🙄

[@billbrock8740]

Oh, yeah? How’s THAT working out for ya? : )

[@davek5777]

I'm in the Same boat as you, Bill! None of it - been through Hell with women and dating/etc. Hell, I even helped raise 4 boys over a 11 year span (2 women, 2 boys each - and all different dads). And, both girlfriends screwed me (in the negative sense). Never got married or had any children. Dodged a lot of bullets I guess.

[@davek5777]

@@sophieruby5893 Just go troll somewhere else.

[@billbrock8740]

@@davek5777Agreed, Dave. Zero regrets. If I had to do it all over again, wouldn’t change a thing. Wifey eventually surrendered the house to me in the divorce because I was smart enough to wait her out. Everything after that was simple and remains so. Best of luck to you in your continued journey.

[@redpilldh]

U can have a Woman or U can have Peace. U cannot have both. 💯

[@oopsdidItypethatoutloud]

An analogy for all of this. When I was young, the Pub had 3 rooms. 1 the bar for men... called the bar 2 the bar for women - the lounge 3 the bar for both - the snug The women forced their way into the bar over the years. Before they did that, they would try and grill the men about the night because there was always lots of banter and laughter coming from the bar. They would especially try to grill their man if they'd been in the lounge and heard the fun. They couldn't stand not being part of it... and ultimately destroying it.

[@paulclinton6414]

Bros before ho..s

[@ponncho]

The way these women authors speak I’m surprised one of them haven’t yet declared that women are an advanced species of the human race.

[@lawr5764]

They don't have to, since they think we're sub-human.

[@sophieruby5893]

That's the way you broflakes think of yourselves.

[@Doidao-xx5vf]

Usually if a man is not interested in a woman he is then called an emotionally unavailable narcissistic selfish man, but when I woman isn’t interested in a man it’s totally normal. It’s ok women, not every single man on planet earth has to be interested in you, like you or find you attractive. Just carry on you will survive.

[@sophieruby5893]

I've never seen that. Stop making 💩 up. You just want to spread misogyny.

[@chasingblue8952]

'Emotionally incompetent' is an oxymoron.

[@sophieruby5893]

We all need to be emotionally mature.

[@paulmcfeeters5554]

Sucks when they use "emotional intelligence" too as women are so emotionally immature all the time lol

[@anielyantra1]

On the good side, Listening to you I am encouraged that real women still exist. On the bad side, You give me a perspective of just how far lost modern women really are. Since I am 68, I think it is safe to say the MGTOW route is my only option. I can also see how women's hypergamy (greed) will instigate a large population reduction so resources won't be problem in this next age.

[@cosmictreason2242]

They'll be a problem for the next 40-50 years though

[@jonathanleach1050]

"Strong, silent type?". Cowboys are the salt of the earth! Trust is earned, not given to strangers on demand. A wise man understands that life is deeds, not words. Solid achievements, not idle "sharing."

[@yajtramer6913]

I don't want a beachball I have plans for my future I have spent the last 20 yrs alone No woman has not wanted me So I'm not going to share my life or money with a wall victim You can't give me kids, I don't want you

[@AwRighttttt]

I've been alone years and years and years and years.. I understand you! I simply don't care about people

[@sophieruby5893]

No woman wants to give you children.

[@alanbradley9621]

It's a fundamental rule. Not able to have children? Then why are we doing this? It's the spiritual connection of it all. So why all these 50 yold women complaining about dating and men? Stop doing it that's what it's over...

[@jwlove66]

I wasn't appealing to most women until they got divorced with multiple kids, now I'm a catch. No thanks!

[@robinabernathy2829]

This happened to me. I was a strong silent type and at first the girl I was dating liked it. Later she complained I was boring because I didn't talk enough.

[@dr.strangelove5708]

Trust me if you were all the sudden not boring the woman would scream abuse, she wants a DRAMA! Unfortunally life is not a TV show. Also men talk about hobbies and interests, is she into yours?

[@sophieruby5893]

​@@dr.strangelove5708 Making 💩 up.

[@roygbiv6935]

@@sophieruby5893your bitter😂😂

[@sophieruby5893]

@@roygbiv6935 Nope. You broflakes have a victim complex.

[@sophieruby5893]

@@roygbiv6935 Ok, incel.

[@EMorner]

I like Better Bachelor too, just FYI "Snuggle Struggle" is not code for intimacy, it is code for "Grape" because KZbin doesnt like people talking about real things.

[@raymondnoppe5924]

I find your videos kind relaxing and easy to listen too... meaning you're original or you're being yourself. Basically you're not trying to be like someone else... I like it.

[@gavinmilligan927]

Snuggle struggle is a euphemism for unwanted loving, the phrase that better bachelor usually uses is bedroom fun.

[@cosmictreason2242]

Sounds like it SHOULD be a euphemism for uh, vigorous fun

[@gavinmilligan927]

@@cosmictreason2242 maybe so. but as far as I'm aware, those are the current meanings behind those phrases and how they are used concerning the better bachelor channel.

[@sophieruby5893]

Sounds like rape.

[@longredroad4249]

the winning move is not to play; more men are winning every day

[@GiblixStudio]

we are done....at a distance when my divorce is formalized I don't plan to go onto the dating scene either

[@honeybadger6313]

Until women learn to value men and the way they are instead of criticising we are on a road to nowhere

[@sophieruby5893]

On no, poor babies. They only want praise.

[@honeybadger6313]

@@sophieruby5893 No we don’t want anything. We want you women to stop moaning and whining

[@honeybadger6313]

@@sophieruby5893 No we want peace and quiet.

[@sophieruby5893]

@honeybadger6313 Guys like you want worship from women because you are narcissists

[@davek5777]

@@sophieruby5893 Troll somewhere else. You'll be single and unhappy for the rest of your life.

[@BlazeBuds]

Its true! I saw a video the other day with this woman saying men are doubling down on what they want from a woman, and saying women will have to out game us... umm we arent playing games (except video games) we are done with these western women! They still think its just a game we are playing, nope women can do whatever they want now, men officially don't care anymore

[@klopgtur5931]

'in touch with his emotions' you don't need to be in touch with your emotions as a man, you just need to control them. Nothing uninterests us more than speaking about our 'feelings' and we know instinctively not to tell women how we feel.

[@knowsstuff988]

finding fault with men, looking for excuses to insult and be as vague as possible while as blaming as possible? This is nothing new to most men lol. This is why mgtow is so easy because most men are just fed up already. "We dont need a man" was just the final push for some. And about men opening up and showing emotions? I was raised that men do not cry, like ever. It was literally beat into me, if I ever got crying as far back as I can remember (which so far is grade 2), I would get spanked with the belt or smacked with a wooden spoon on my hands if I even looked like I was going to cry or show emotions lol. It doesnt mean we do not have them, we were just conditioned to never show them because our emotions will be used to destroy us men. Men are the protectors, that means we also protect ourselves.

[@jamesowen4938]

Being serially rejected, and being the only guy at the party or lake, without a woman at his side, gets old. You eventually just give up and get on with the other 99% of your life. You just haf to, in order to keep your sanity, escape from depression and despair, and avoid prison, or an early grave.

[@MzQTMcHotness]

I have no idea why I still watch videos like this. I gave up on ever meeting a woman or letting a woman in my life again. Am I addicted to the anger and pain? Or is there a part of me that still hopes? WTF is wrong with me?

[@geraldkoth654]

In a world gone mad, it is necessary to find truth and ground ourselves from time to time. This particular YT video had some good ground truth for us all.

[@Au60schild]

At present I'm in a temp job at a "big-box" store and there's nothing that I despise more than when a man is out running errands for his wife and feels compelled to say "happy wife, happy life", or he's with the mrs. being dragged around the store and she demeans him and/or the suggestions he makes. It makes my blood run cold wondering if all those years ago when he first married her if she was like that then and doubting that she was, how he came to cede all that nastiness to her willingly.

[@LGDarksteed]

When they say "Where have all the good men gone" or "Where do we meet men". They aren't talking about all men. They are talking only about the top super desirable men. Those are the only "men" to them. The others aren't men, they are the invisibles, the tools that move things in the background.

[@kevinsmith4410]

A woman using common sense, logic and reason?!? You are a rare one! Loved your video!

[@cosmictreason2242]

19:45 - yep, read Numbers 20. The number one job of a father and husband is to tell a 💃 no.

[@waynebollman]

I really appreciate you bringing all this to the table. You're contribution to this topic is effing gold. Thank you.

[@bergmanst]

I like your viewpoints. Thank you for sharing.

[@bigtrev761]

🇦🇺😎👍Australian women have priced themselves out of the market. .. lol I’d rather go without and be a lot happier 🤣👍

[@sophieruby5893]

They're happier without you. No annoying bitter broflakes.

[@bigtrev761]

🇦🇺😎👍🤣🤣🤣@@sophieruby5893

[@mgtowbylogic5592]

Feminism freed men from millennia of slavery. Thank you. 🐈 🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈

[@TheUltimateMarioFan]

Feminism is for the streets

[@Aeternum_Gaming]

I don’t want a ‘strong independent woman.’ I want a woman who knows that men and women complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses. A woman who can show humility. I don’t want a woman I ‘have to handle’; I want peace and love, not chaos

[@garylester3976]

Its already over, everyone is just talking about what happened, without knowing it yet...

[@Doberman_6773]

Well put.

[@M0M0M0M0M]

correct there will never be a return and the behavioral sink will continue to completion

[@tubewayarmy2]

The one thing of note about my wife is, nobody else's problems are as big as her problems. Having struggled all year to pay off our debts means absolutely zero when she decides it's time to book a holiday.

[@richardbast7243]

Women expect everyone to know what they are thinking and figure it out. Even other women are expected to. But its the men that frustrate the women most for not knowing.

[@Noahcrusade99]

Nice guys finish last, I don't wanna finish this rigged game at all, and I especially don't wanna finish in the women waiting at the finish line, sitting back watching me suffer.

[@RodVonLongrod]

Stop being nice, and by that I mean grow a spine and stand up for yourself. Know your worth and the value of your time and attention. Do not give either away for free. Always require a woman gives you something out of the interaction. No free anything for them, and especially no free attention. No more foodie calls, i.e. first dates. Don't be afraid to make a woman mad or put her in her place. You're better off being a cocky, arrogant jerk than a nice guy if the goal is to build attraction.

[@jhb01]

When your references are drama based shows, that certainly tells you plenty😂

[@thethesaxman23]

All these “Cosmopolitan-esque know your man” articles always seem to be some variation of “If he’s not behaving like a woman, he’s not a real man” 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@markymarknj]

My plans are to feed my stray cats tomorrow. I couldn't feed them today, as we had rain come through here.

[@clyoul3ss819]

I often wonder how these few women actually get it and the majority of women don't! What's woke you up Far from Eden?

[@FathersLoveWithoutEnd]

Usually a dad, but can be some other male in their family that they love, like a brother, cousin, etc.

[@RichardRupert-qc4qj]

Every divorced guy I have talked to they got financially punished. My ex put me thru the ringer she even had me in court for domestic violence. I never yelled at her or touched her. I don’t believe in that stuff. She cheated for years. I’m damaged goods .

[@thedynamicsolo4232]

@@RichardRupert-qc4qjYou are NOT damaged goods. I went through the same thing. Ex accused me of marital "neglect", how generic is that. It took 12 years to crawl out of the financial damage she caused. It took 8 years to get over the emotional and spiritual damage of it. I got up, dusted off and decided being successful (to any degree) was the best revenge. I again went back to Jesus Christ and even though I made some sins and mistakes along the way. I rebuilt and overcame with Him. You can do it brother. We may seem alone, but we are not. God bless you and you rise again!!!

[@clyoul3ss819]

@@RichardRupert-qc4qjMy whole neighborhood is GONE. I know 10+ White guys/ families that lost their kids and homes to White women. On the weekends the whole neighborhood turns ghetto with black guys pumping their loud music driving down the neighborhood street while the White women parties because she gave "visitation to the husband" a total of 3x a month! ...aka every other weekend. She gives up her kids on Friday night and becomes a whore while the responsible White father still has to pay for the house. NEVER marry a White women. I know one neighbor she's on her 3rd husband...3rd house! Now she's a professional landlord.

[@cosmictreason2242]

@@clyoul3ss819let's be real. The difference is not sociological it's theological. There's no cheating among long term married couples in the churches I'm associated with (can only be a member in one place). Divorce rate without nuance is sub 5% in 25-40 years. Why, it's because we're dealing with true churches and true Christians. Which is less than 4% of the American population. If you're not a weekly attender at one then your problems are self inflicted. Why do you seek the living among the dead?

[@j777111able]

Honest, authentic, relatable, and entertaining. Instant Sub 🎉

[@Kelvinkid100]

I know that I have always been overlooked by women that I was interested in while they chased their Chad.Today I am a 54yr old bachelor with no kids.I am a certified welder by trade and I live alone on my own country property here in Ontario Canada.I am also a black belt for over 27yrs and certified instructor in traditional Karate.I guess I would be one of those strong silent types that you mentioned?😂I would love to have a deep conversation with a woman like they mention but I know when I am talking with them that they are not very serious?So why would I commit if I am wasting my time?I think that this is where they get this emotionally detatched nonsense from because we see right through them playing their 11yr old early puberty games?This is more than likely why I personally gave up?I would also like to add that I have many years experience with many different types of horses.So I laughed when you mentioned it and yes you nailed it with me.🤣👍

[@oldcrone]

Men do not display vulnerable emotions. They are not wired that way.

[@bswantner2]

These advice articles are simply giant permissions to be self-absorbed. "Well, the lady and man with credentials said, so I should take everything personally, and figure it's all about me."

[@1mattwilliams1]

You are certainly a breath of fresh air! Glad i was recommended your channel. Will be binge watching for sure.

[@dhickey5919]

Thank you, Erin. Women always want masculine men who are leaders, have confidence, and control. Why then, does the author try to redefine men with feminine traits they don't find attractive in men? It sounds like she should go to the university where she got this education and get her money back.

[@OrmondOtvos]

Very well expressed views on the differences between men and women, and some hints on how to avoid conflicts caused by those differences. Very perceptive, honest and true. Relationships are possible, but no effort, no results. Been married forty years, to a strong and trustworthy woman. It rocks!

[@DavidSmith-mt7tb]

A lot of us are perfectly capable of just dealing with our emotions on our own. But women make it out like they're more emotionally mature when they have zero control over their emotions. Also, all the stuff they complain about us not doing is super unattractive when we do it.

[@kennethumberger1049]

There are many problems that women have one is they don’t want to tell you what there body count is add to they want you to open up with your feelings, but they could also use that to weapon it against you. They’re more interested in what their friends tell them on their own.

[@sophieruby5893]

Men aren't honest about their sexual past.

[@2010sjay]

Happy Easter Erin. God bless!

[@lesterdiamond6190]

I think I must be doing something right. I married a dirt poor farm girl who treats me like gold. And I’ve spent at least a hundred grand on hunting and fishing trips with the guys and never taken her. I’ve bought boats and trucks without even asking her what her opinion was. And she has no idea how much money we actually have. I highly recommend this strategy. If a woman complains about you going off the hunt for a week with the guys. Instant dump.

[@Bb76-wj8fn]

Women: Be strong, be a man. Man: k Women: Why won’t you open up?

[@MNEWALL1]

it is not just the women who said they did not need a man - it is women more broadly... however, when someone claims to speak for you and you remain silent.... All should understand - if you shame men for speaking their emotions, don't expect them to keep doing it. If you make clear that acknowledging female abusers is not acceptable, you made clear you supported them... (logic 101) - so why would he want to be around someone who clearly cheers on abusive women? Here - well - older women have done young women tremendous harm - because while we are finally being able to see abusive women, but still the change is dragging. So - what are men's experiences with being emotionally open? Have you done anything to make him expect that to be different? Even if you were never given the opportunity to have you actually emotionally supported him? No - well, then he will need rebuild time... and that will be alone, cause if he believes he can't express himself, and unless you have managed to build a personal reputation with being very different. Be careful of telling yourself you are - cause lots of women have asserted this, and discovered they laid a trap for themselves.

[@thedynamicsolo4232]

We are getting ready for what is to come. There will be many tears and sorrows. This nation is nearly divided enough to be conquered and fully controlled. Its going to be the same as China. No autonomy, the federal government will give you your rights and you will own nothing and be happy. The state will become God and the misery will be full. I don't know when Christ will return, but surely what is happening around the world is telling us we are in the "Birth Pains" of sorrow. If we don't speak out to the people that are running this show and emphasize this is a government by the people, for the people and of the people. If we don't, it will be a government by the evil, for the evil and of the evil. Hosea 4:6

[@smallhelmonabigship3524]

This is a wicked world and the wicked have almost always been in control. But because it is near unto His coming, the devil knows it and is pulling all the stops to wage a desperate campaign which will ultimately result in the downfall of his kingdom. Like a terrible storm, the wicked will rage. And like the storm, their fury will soon cease forever.

[@cosmictreason2242]

I am optimistic for the post 2080s but between now and then there will be much gnashing of teeth. That's when most of the millennials and older genzs have passed away, dramatically reducing the single spinster population

[@cosmictreason2242]

@@tomstulc9143 give it 6000 years, Rungworld 3 is going to be wild

[@garrett621]

Decide which hill you will literally die on or you will become a slave.

[@sophieruby5893]

Ok, Chicken Little.