7 Things I Wish I knew Before Moving- Living in Switzerland

In this video are 7 Things I wish I knew before moving to Switzerland. The emojis on the thumbnail is literally my feelings for Switzerland. I love it here but sometimes I get angry, then I get sad, then summer comes and I can not take the smile off my face. Grammarly says my text sounds anxious lol probably that is exactly what I am trying to say lol. All fun and games.
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[@lisaxoxoo7088]

In Trinidad you'd never see somebody changing a tire alone.... once somebody pass and see they stop to lend a hand

[@velrch3973]

In switzerland its accepted that you allready called someone for help or can do it yourself. Just how it is :)

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Agree. There are systems here that supports that. On our side we would need to pay for the assistance so most people help each other because we cant always afford to pay. The Caribbean survived or is surviving by helping each other so its embedded in us to help. I appreciate it is different in other countries. Thank you ladies for your input.

[@SarMuyi]

woah, no way you live in Switzerland. How cool are you. your personality and energy so big and amazing, thanks for sharing

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

😀 thank you

[@ThriftyAngela]

Hi from Johnny's Live! I think it's so cool you moved to Switzerland! I hope all is going well and wish continued success! Can't wait to see more!

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you for stopping by!

[@leonardzondetsa1052]

Thanks for sharing that important information. We are planning on migrating to Switzerland so this will help greatly.

[@antoinembombotshimanga2474]

I have been living in the french part of switzerland for more than 18 years , you are alright on all points you talked about.

[@realpristine]

Embracing natural hair 👏🏾🤎 love that! Thank you for sharing, I’m looking forward to going to Switzerland 🌟

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you. Switzerland is beautiful.

[@dr.nealpsy.d2783]

Hi! I just came across Chanel and love it,💕 I have visited Zurich last year and fell in love with this place. Thank you for sharing

[@kamarlamorris2459]

😂😂 Being late and shopping is so relatable! I remember wanting lotion and pick up shampoo instead lol. This is a fun video sis❤

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

😂😂. Kam thats funny 😁. It like me and conditioner. Shampoo is shampoo in German but Conditioner is some weird word so I never come home with 😁. Now I know the word lol "Haarspülung" how was I supposed to even guess this word 😁.

[@pudgenight3071]

Your videos are SO helpful.... please keep making them.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

This means a lot. I will indeed keep making videos. Thank you for your support

[@helloyou5423]

Thank you for the video. The Point of being on time is something I always here from my relatives when they come to visit us. In my view it is a form of respect to the other person to be on time. Cheers

[@DRDUNNY]

Daniele your smile is amazing 😊 love your energy

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you 😊

[@mua_chrissy_vlog2675]

Love these info and ❤

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you. I try

[@nofrontier]

Great job Danelle

[@FM-yk1yr]

Thank you!

[@penelopepitstop762]

That’s kind of sad about your neighbor. I live in Texas and the day we moved into our new home, our neighbors invited us over to their BBQ. I can remember when I was a little girl and we moved into our new home, another girl on my street came over and we are still friends to this day! Very interesting video! Adding, regarding your hair, maybe an African hair salon could be a good business opportunity for you?

[@LisaCulton]

Yep, I do my own hair, too. I did find out that I could order the products I like from Forester Beauty Supply which I think is in Zürich.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Hi Lisa. Yes they do. There are quite a few places where you can buy products. The Braid Box also has a shop on facebook, check us out 😀.

[@veebee4914]

Thank you! I have been in Switzerland for over a month now and was wondering where to buy products for Afro hair 👍🏿

[@farmhand6524]

Love one that loves not another. Wow, you model love. This one admires you for that. Also, needed mobility assist once; no-one helped. Was surprised. Reaffirmed now to always offer as you did💙

[@MajestyCarrieS]

Im so happy to find your channel. Im planning to move there from the US this winter

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Hi Majesty, Wow I hope you are ready for a life changing experience 😀. Are you excited?

[@MajestyCarrieS]

@@InthelifeofDanellejam I am Super Excited but really really nervous at the same time. It's so Much going on here in America especially here in CHICAGO. I just wont to try something completely different. I hope to meet beautiful people like your self there.

[@an.dr.16561]

@@MajestyCarrieS did you already moved there do you want to move togueter?

[@LisaCulton]

I've been living in Switzerland for almost 4 years. It's great. I just uploaded a video about opening a Swiss bank account. I didn't know how difficult it would be for a USA citizen to get an account here.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Yes Its up and down for me even after 6 years but I think that will always be the same. Oh I will head on over to your channel to check that out 😀

[@jamesb.492]

It's straight forward except for Americans. Reason : the USA has repeatedly sued European banks accusing them of helping Americans avoid taxes.

[@tarotlondon]

Planning on moving here in a few years. I'm from London which was really hard to meet people compared to where I grew up in a small coastal town where everyone knew your business lol! So hopefully Switzerland will not be too much of a shock haha. P.S I would bring you pie within the week! x

[@salwancrespo4514]

Good lesson

[@confychanneltv6801]

Wao dear me too I wish I knew before I moved to Germany too. Thanks for sharing

[@bernhardschwarz2423]

You are a wonderful person and I admire your intellectual brilliance in being able to analyze and understand the most emotional part of our lives. The integration into a community and the acceptance of diagonally opposed lifestyles. Grammarly is wrong. you come across as a very mature person. Having lived for 2 decades in Switzerland, I absolutely agree with your observations, but I am surprised that it took you only 5 years until you started to talk to your neighbor.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you for your kind words. It took a lot of deep thinking and self realisation to be able to accept the differences. It is an ongoing process and one that can drive you crazy if unfortunately you dont come to realisation soon enough. Where do you live now?

[@nyaslifestyle3115]

Amazing video

[@corom33]

Can I apply for an L or B permit if I am in an airbnb? or a hotel, or it is necessary to have a rented apartment?

[@despoinachatzaga2555]

I live in London since 2016 and in the same flat for 6 years and I barely know my neighbours! I believe most of what you describe is related to London as well.

[@muffemod]

Rents are cheaper if Switzerland if you're comparing to US cities and suburbs. The rural areas in the midwest and the south tend to skew the rent index down in the US.

[@merlissaworrell8438]

I am planning to spend a few months for resting and vacation purposes, hoping to also visit the beautiful places there

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Oh wow its the best place for resting and tuning out. You will love it

[@Shae_3]

Same. That’s the only reason I’m planning to go

[@thejourneywithD]

Thanks for sharing. I'm from Trinidad and considering moving to Switzerland in the future. What's the healthcare system like?

[@37wilde]

:D A really good question and from my experience quite difficult to understand for someone who's new to Switzerland. So I'll just explain some basics. Unlike in Germany or France, health insurance ist not funded by taxes. Having a basic coverage is mandatory and you can choose which insurance company and which model you want to go with. It is your own responsibility to get the insurance though. If you can't afford it, you can apply for subsidies. It is expensive, but then again you pay much less taxes as compared to Germany or France. We also differentiate between accident and health insurance. Accident insurance is covered through your employer. The system works well, but it is certainly more complicated than a single payer system like France or Germany have it. The quality of doctors, hospitals etc. I'd say is very good.

[@victoriousministry3329]

Thank you Sister, Africa salutes you🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@lockitdownduck4033]

OH BROTHER

[@yenaydelcid3913]

I would love if u could explain about the Switzerland education system.🧚🏼‍♂️

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Great point, its not on the list

[@sheilaocen9085]

I have the same question. I'm planning on moving over to teach English. would be very interested to know how the education system runs.

[@sheilaocen9085]

@Cegesh Ok, thanks for the heads up. Could you break that down a little more. 'Factory workers, meaning?'

[@kennyiyoha1675]

Very expensive

[@MsFabsy]

Thanks For this video / I plan to move with my 8 and 9 yo for a phD program . Hopefully I get the approved but I’m excited and scared at the same time.

[@trudidolder6122]

what language are you speaking in Switzerland? I hope that you are working on learning at least one of the four languages spoken there.

[@hearfan]

Sounds perfect for me

[@vivveene1675]

Why did you chose to relocate to Switzerland? What advise do you have for Jamaicans wanting to relocate to Switzerland? Do you speak the language now? Is the process hard moving with a child?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thanks a great question Viv. I have so many questions on this so I will make a video as to why I made the move and give a few tips as well. Thanks for the questions

[@ceoa]

That was very interesting. I'd love to visit Switzerland, it's beautiful, but living there sounds really foreign to me. Thanks for the info!⛰️

[@pieterwolt1245]

thanks

[@rainforestsanctuary-sounds6489]

Thanks for sharing. Great video. Did you have to learn German? I don’t know if my brain can learn another language but I may have to

[@ranferactivex]

Nice content

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you Ranfer.

[@vanesbeverlyfamilytv382]

Great job beautiful,keep it up

[@LeopoldoGhielmetti]

Never try to help a person in a wheelchair, they are very proud to be independent so they get offended if you try to help them. I know that because even a friend of mine that is on a wheelchair had a very bad reaction when I have tried to help him, it was like "I am a grown men, I can do it on my own, if I need help I ask". So today I just ignore when I see someone in a wheelchair or with other prosthesis, but I am still ready to help if someone ask me.

[@lisawoods2211]

What is the criteria to come there for a visit to see what it’s like?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Hi Lisa! I did a video on this. Its very cringe 🤪. I guess im cringe 😁. There are two videos links below. If you have more questions let me know. kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6nHgaqNh9Vme9U kzbin.info/www/bejne/o4CmmqRvjpajgNk

[@DillyandCo]

How is the school system? I maybe making the switch and I’m worried about my kids transitioning from the island system

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

I did a video on this a few months ago. Here is the link kzbin.info/www/bejne/j4uran2lg7Coa6s

[@mktoure]

Here to level up

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Welcome! Let do this 😉

[@harshyuri]

Nice video, I'm soooo African that when you use the term migration, I think about the wildebeest migration on the Serengeti and masaai mara 😂😂😂😂

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

😁😁😁 Harriet I must be so Caribbean because when I read your comment I can only imagine and hear the voice of BBC commentator David Attenborough 😁

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Harriet please take me to Kenya with you.

[@VLaNessa]

No man all this happen when I was England, I didn't even know my neighbor for the years I've lived there.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Nessa, I also lived in England on the countryside 😳. I am convinced I went coco for a bit while I was there. The onliness was so bad that I flew bad to Switzerland every three weeks to be with my family and get some social contact. These experiences have changed me forever.

[@rojiblanco299]

I literally met my neighbors during the first week I moved in

[@kallimchugh1796]

what language is most spoken in switzerland

[@collinsmao9715]

How can I apply to work as medical laboratory technologist in Switzerland..

[@tangibleideas3647]

Hi😀, I am thinking of migrating to Switzerland when I retire. My income will be my retirement and self employment. Looking for middle class diverse neighborhood. Is Oslo, Norway a better choice if diversity is most important to me?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

I wish you a smooth transition. I have no clue about what it is like in Norway. Are you confusing Sweden with Switzerland? No offence, it always happens.

[@euroboy9188]

Norway is super expensive. I live in Slovenia. Its far more cheaper. But in slovenia itself capital is double more expensive then rest of country. Slovenian coast is beautifull. Also Croatia and Italy are like 10mins drive from each side. Tho if u wanna live somewhere really cheap go to Bosnia. The hest would he Sarajevo. Tho language might be a problem. P.S. Balkan ppl are more open to strangers and even if the dont speak english or just few words they will help u. While Germans, Italians, French, Spanish and English will come to you country and be mad at u that u dont speak their laguage. It happened to me few times as bartender. They would come to slovenia and order in their laguage and be mad at u dont understand them. So be prepared for that kind of mentallity. Tho nordic ppl speak very well english and also more open tho help even tho they're very cold from outside and respect privacy.

[@ViajeniBree]

I share the same sentiments! Switzerland is my 2nd home. I've been wanting to create this kind of video sharing my experience too but for now, all I did is how to travel switzerland on a budget. 😅

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

I love your channel. You share valuable insights. Thank you for stopping by. I have connected.

[@ViajeniBree]

@@InthelifeofDanellejam thank you! Me too! I can relate much with your content and I'm looking forward for more. ♡

[@aridiisof7422]

😍😍😍😍

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Finally found you 😀

[@natojirmbeauty]

nice video I love your hair beautiful 😍

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

😊 thank you

[@bobarthurs7060]

I wonder if you have met my friend Roy Ellis. Make sure you visit Canada

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Unfortunately I havent met Roy 😀 but I cant wait to visit. Hope I will meet you

[@jamesmccabe2910]

Your accent is beautiful 😍

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

☺️ thank you

[@corom33]

For non EU citizen How long does it take for the L permit?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Good question but i dont know the detail.

[@miltonwilliams2399]

I would fit right in because I'm selfish as hell. I don't need others for conversation, learning the language probably would play a huge draw back.

[@oliviaroberts9336]

Hahah this is so funny to me but also understandable. I am a lil different. I am extroverted but I also do not need others to engages in something that would give me joy/happiness.

[@mssmellgood]

I really would like to move to England eveventually !

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Nice, I can give you some tips on that too 😁

[@pudgenight3071]

did you pick up the language?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Hmmm 😁 20% lol

[@nala6846]

Hi! Are you living on the french side or the german side of switzerland? I hear that there's more black people on the french side because of french speaking Africans that moved there. Love from The Bahamas 💙

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Hi Nala, I live on the German side. I have also noticed that there is visibly a higher number of African ethnic groups in Geneva area. However, statistically speaking, I dont know the numbers. Should not be hard to find though. Much love a respect from Switzerland 🧡

[@damilolaodekunle3998]

I love your accent!! Are you Jamaican?

[@AlinLacea]

You mentioned that the school system is very different from English speaking countries. Could elaborate a bit more on that? What did you find different?

[@Miraclesylva]

It’s better than English countries It’s the best in the world

[@motshewamalimabe620]

I am planning to move end of Mar. Are hair salons for black ladies popular? I am hoping not to own a car while there, is that advisable?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Its not popular but its available. Good luck on the move.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

It depends on where you will be living.

[@Talkwithtina808]

Enjoy this video ❤

[@awkwardman2327]

where originally are you from?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

i am from Jamaica

[@christheswiss390]

Do you have any notion at all why Switzerland is such an "expensive place to live"? No thoughts come to mind you could give us as an explanation as to the why? Aren't you curious "what's behind the curtain"? Do you think the reasons for Geneva and Lagos both being very expensive places to live could be slightly different? It would be interesting to hear your "meaningful" thoughts and theories. Also, did you wait 5 years for your neighbor to approach you??

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Base on a look at google one known reason is geographical discriminatory wholesale pricing. The writer suggest that some wholesalers charge Swiss retailers higher than they do retailers in other markets. I have no proof of this but sounds logical. It happens in other situations. For example, being over charged as a tourist in some places. Its because they assume that you have more disposable cash. So I guess that is what contribute to the high prices in Swiss. Im sure there are many other reasons.

[@peaches116]

Have you been to Lagos?

[@lisawoods2211]

Where do I start to begin a move there? What are the nicest places to look for a home as a Black woman?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

This is a hard question for me. I moved here blindly. I didnt have a clue which is my own fault. I should have done my research. However I would say you might find it easier to live in a city where its more multicultural. The country side can be very conservative and you might find yourself feeling isolated.

[@karheishadupreehamlett4073]

Hey Sis l came to see you.

[@karheishadupreehamlett4073]

Thanks for sharing.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Welcome my dear sis. Thank you so much for coming to the Live. Will you come this Saturday?

[@karheishadupreehamlett4073]

@@InthelifeofDanellejam Sure what time

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

karheisha {Chat with K} Dupree-Hamlett what your Ig? Do you follow @mr johnny25 ?

[@karheishadupreehamlett4073]

@@InthelifeofDanellejam no l dont but l will

[@chillinwithlanda]

Is it really that expensive? Seesh I thought US was 🤔

[@tessyqueen3984]

Switzerland is very expensive ah especially Zurich

[@jahmarsshiva5064]

You now in 60s when my dad come to Switzerland they not meany black or dark people yes they hard time but they made it as small boy I had problems too but I think you get that everywhere in Europe or Canada US you can get it if really what now most kids are mixed up the change is here.

[@Thiago-pc7vk]

And a island never cry

[@beautysolutions87]

It's expensive to live but what about jobs?

[@IreneMutonga]

I would love to visit hey You soo beautiful

[@aunestythompson7689]

I like you puffs. You look so cute 🥰

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you 😀

[@therushroom5036]

Interesting. I know nothing about Switzerland.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Really? I am learning.

[@Kris_413]

Hey are you Jamaican i hear a little creole in your voice. Edit: haha got further in the video and realised

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Yes I am 100% born and raised Jamaican.

[@alineloko5088]

I think in my case the n 7 is the most important to know 😂😂😂😂

[@Themakeupolic]

Dem too strick wid dah late ting deh enuh a weh ontime a go after anuh taxi cho

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Dem no play man

[@an.dr.16561]

Can i go to switzerland and live with you? I'm colombian and I want to go there so bad but I'm scared to go Alone jajaja

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

😀 you will be ok.

[@SunshineCobb-oq2sj]

Hi I'm a beauty professional black who is in fact looking to migrate to Switzerland with my family

[@Unknown-ly2vj]

Where were you born

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

I was born in Jamaica

[@ann-mariecaesar8436]

I believe Tokyo and Hong Kong are the most expensive places in the world.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Yes they are in that league. Switzerland is one of the most expensive.

[@sunnyreads1845]

Come to Vancouver, Canada and you will feel like you're living in priceless mayhem. A simple chicken and rice dinner (without veggies of any kind) will cost you almost $20 CAN. Most renters have to share accommodations, and a simple 2-bedroom home is almost a million dollars. Car insurance will be triple what you pay anywhere else in the country.

[@jammaafri2938]

I left Jamaica to live in England over 20 years now sometimes I miss Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Wow thats long. How often do you go back?

[@katecaddy7556]

Migrating next year april,how is it like to be black their?

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Nice! I did a video a few months ago that touched on this topic. You are welcome to check it out. I will you all the best with the move.

[@lockitdownduck4033]

TYPICAL BLACK QUESTION. BECAUSE THE RACIST BOOGEYMAN COULD BE THERE.BEEN ALLL OVER THE WORLD THE BIGGEST RACIST ARE AMERICAN BLACKS.MUSLIMS ARE THE NEXT.NOT BECAUSE OF SKIN BUT BIGOTED BECAUSE THEY LOOK DOWN AT NONBELIEVERS

[@markmuller7962]

It's expensive because there's no poverty

[@blossomfametv5720]

Migration requires alot of plan

[@kendal4452]

Just wondering what is race relations like there, being from the USA where racism is so common, I wonder what it's like in Switzerland.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Hey! I did a video on the topic a few months ago. You can find it here... kzbin.info/www/bejne/n2mkdImEeZ15g9k

[@lockitdownduck4033]

BS, RACISM IS EVERYWHERE .MOST RACIST ARE BLACK IN AMERICA.

[@deadsun8646]

N......

[@dianesglamfam7052]

Hi sweetie come to visit your house

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

I have visited my dear 😀

[@deadsun8646]

OMFG!! Not your specirs! Wth are you even allowed there

[@MarySanchez-qk3hp]

About your example, that you "ran to help a guy in a wheelchair getting off a train, and he got really angry?" And you couldn't understand why? You were really ignorant, condescending and patronizing. And it wasn't his job to politely teach you about your mistake, he's a private citizen. You'd offend any person with disabilities with your ignorant behavior, in any country, not just there. Persons with disabilities know how to negotiate barriers without your condescension at their expense. They take care of their own activities of daily living. You're supposed to treat disabled people the same way you'd treat anyone ablebodied, no matter where you live: you wouldn't have made assumptions and run to assist a non-disabled person, but you assumed a person with disabilities needed to be "rescued." You shouldn't offer to grab groceries off a shelf when a disabled person is reaching for them, or offer any kind of assistance unless they ask you to, as examples. They're doing just fine as independent adults. The disabled are accosted with this type of offensive behavior all the time, not just by you, and it gets monotonous and tiresome. It wasn't his job to be polite about it or to educate you, either. That's all you saw, was his superficial physical differences from you, and you made some really stupid assumptions and decided to "rescue" him. You wouldn't like it if all we saw, upon meeting you, was your skin color and your island accent, and assumed that makes you stupid, uneducated and inferior.... right? Or any of the other negative characteristics I've read about, in your country of origin? You wouldn't like it if someone slowed down and simplified their speech rather than speaking to you normally, just because they see you're black and Jamaican, right? Or "only" female? People with disabilities know how to negotiate barriers without you, no matter where they live. They're adults, not children. And the disabled know how to ask for assistance, if they need it. Don't volunteer it. And furthermore, on that public transportation, they'd have employees who are trained to assist, and already have handicap accommodations. And the Swiss are especially progressive, they've got the budget for it. That man embarked on the train without you... what made you think he'd need to be "rescued" by you to disembark? Persons with disabilities are not helpless children, don't need your "help..." (or something as offensive as offering prayers to a total stranger, by the way, which would infer you pity them and don't think of them as human beings who are perfectly whole and independent just as they are, that you think you know spiritual secrets they don't know, and that they need improvement just because they make you uncomfortable). Your discomfort was your problem, not his. Most civilized places (developed first-world countries) have laws regarding handicap accessibility, including and especially Switzerland. Maybe you came from a poor, backwards island without enough legislation, ramps, curb cuts, Braille, handicap parking or accessible bathrooms and buildings, etc. But you're in Switzerland now. You were so wrong! It has nothing to do with the local individuality you decry, your "culture shock." It's part of living in a any country with universal accessibility. People with disabilities travel, teach, go to school and jobs, clean their homes, cook, go to restaurants and movies... they have full, normal personal and social lives without your "help." Think about the reasons why you assumed one, but not the other. At the very least, you were naive, and it's a naïveté that goes beyond borders. Extremely offensive. Lots of people act as ignorantly as you did. It's not our job to educate you about your mistake, unless we want to. I'm doing you a favor, because you're young and your learned prejudice can still be un-learned. Might I suggest that, along with the language and customs assimilation classes that many countries offer immigrants, you should also find out if there are local or online disability rights organizations to teach you proper etiquette? It would be worth your time, since the disabled are the largest, most invisible, often discriminated, minority In the world. You'll be facing the issue wherever you go, even if a person's disability is invisible. You aren't the only one to make such erroneous assumptions about a person with disabilities. It gets really old. And by the way, just so you know: never ever, under any circumstance, touch a person's assistive devices (wheelchair, mobility scooter, cane, walker, crutches, etc.) without their request or permission, or be inappropriate and ask about them. Some "adults" do. That's a violation of someone's personal space and privacy, and in some countries, touching or grabbing can be considered assault, including in America. Those items are a part of someone's body, basically. You don't grab people's bodies without permission, including that man's chariot. You need to learn more, think before you decide to act. "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." Learn to speak and live as locals do, learn how to see persons with disabilities. Why would you move to a foreign country and not assimilate? But the handicap thing... that's a universal issue, it isn't just in Switzerland. You'd offend anyone disabled, in any country, with that condescending, patronizing behavior. Stupidity is permanent, but ignorance is educable. So I've just educated you. You're welcome.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

Thank you for highlighting my condescending, patronizing behaviour and for the great lesson. Young and stupid I would call myself but its ok, we all experience it at some point in life. Only if we were born with all the rules and regulations engraved in us. Since we were not born this way I will accept your scolding and try to do better. Learning never stop. You sound like a well informed person.

[@MarySanchez-qk3hp]

Really.....? After watching your entire video, I can't understand why you even moved, why you didn't even try to learn the most rudimentary things about Switzerland before you moved. Did you even buy a warm coat before you left? Doh. How could you not know Switzerland's reputation for high cost of living,and standard of living? Why would you even think everyone sells the same groceries, black hair products, or that the grocery store packages would display your foreign language? Everyone knows that stuff, but you. "When in Rome" you're supposed to "do as the Romans do." And you need to assimilate. You need to learn to do your own grocery shopping instead of hiding at home and making your husband do it for you. He's got his own responsibilities. You're his partner, not a second child. That's not an attractive look, and it won't serve you or your child well. Businesses would be glad to help you find what you need, if you politely ask for help... they usually speak English in Europe as well as German and French. You're not in the Caribbean any more. I can't believe how naive you are! How could you not know they're punctual, when everyone knows they make the best clocks and watches in the world? They're so fiercely independent, so honorable, that the Pope hires them as guards in the Vatican, they take an oath and are willing to die for him. They were historically members of the Hanseatic League, do you even know what that is? Did you get any formal schooling? Do some reading about that. It took them from being one of the poorest backwards European countries, to the wealthiest. In most civilized countries if you're late, the train, funicular or plane leaves without you, not just there. They've got businesses to run. The world doesn't revolve around your tardiness. In most countries you'd be fired for being late to work, even in the Caribbean. You didn't even try to prepare for their school system, their stores, their currency, their punctuality and transportation, probably even their toilets or recycling rules. You could have prepared. Your husband could've helped, too. Where the hell was he? You didn't try even after you arrived. So instead of learning to show their culture some respect, being punctual, you'd rather buy a car that isn't as green, and costs your husband more money? When you get to where you're going, you'll still have to be on time! Being late is rude. You're really stubborn about not assimilating. You're being disrespectful of the culture. Punctuality is another marker of adulthood and you're refusing to grow the hell up. How can you prepare your child for life, when you can't help him/her navigate? It's your job to be a role model and help him assimilate, so he'll be successful, not late like you. If he follows your example, he won't fit in or succeed there. Why did your husband even drag you along, you act like a second child, not an adult woman. He might not be around forever, you need to grow up and learn to handle yourself in the local culture and economy, or go back home. They have a high standard of living in Switzerland, and they get what they paid for. They're private, educated, conservative people. Great museums, opera houses, advanced educational system. The Swiss have glaciers that provide a lot of Europe's potable water, and that needs to be protected against global warming snd pollution, as well as their ecosystems to protect. They're very green, and that costs money so of course they've got taxes... but they get great roads and infrastructure, clean air, delicious foods, fresh fish, world-renowned cheeses and chocolates, great tourism, great medical care from cradle to grave, in return. You aren't pulling your own weight. Stop whining and acting like an introverted little child, and grow up. "Don't worry, be happy" won't cut it there. There were, and are, plenty of places online and in your new city, to help you assimilate. You're a burden on your family and the Swiss, instead of an asset. I can't even understand how you got this far in life, actually, with your ignorance and naïveté. Even where you came from, people have responsibilities, businesses to run, classes to attend, kids to raise. Stop being lazy, they won't tolerate it in Switzerland, or anywhere else with a decent standard of living. You can't even whine about language barriers as some immigrants must face, they speak English like you, as well as German, local dialects and French. Pull your own weight. You couldn't possibly have led as sheltered a life as you make out, you're lazy and recalcitrant. You're refusing to change, it's voluntary, and sweetie, the world doesn't revolve around you, it's your job to fit into their country,,not the other way around. Grow up. You could have even found a simple tourism show like American tour guide Rick Steves' TV series, to get you started. He's had numerous episodes on Switzerland, I just saw a rerun of one of them on PBS today. And their government and tourism publishes information about their country. They're prepared for immigrants. You've got no excuse. Did you really assume it would be easy to find ethnic hair products in Switzerland? OMG! You can get that stuff online. And in fact, you might even start a local ethnic business that sells it plus other stuff you miss... ethnic food ingredients, take-out meals or delivery, whatever ethnic cottage industry products Jamaica is known for. You're not the only member of an immigrant minority there. You've even got the advantage of being fluent in English, which some who go there seeking asylum don't have. They've got a lot less choice, compared to you. You've got no initiative. You're not stupid. Just naive, stubborn, lazy. The Swiss are industrious. Find a job. Learn to conform. It's an opportunity to live in a place many would envy, including me. Not funny or amusing at all. You don't even try.

[@InthelifeofDanellejam]

@@MarySanchez-qk3hp thank you so much for another brilliant scolding. I must have seen this coming. Whenever next you are in Zürich please book an appointment here- thebraidbox.ch its located in Zürich. Would be nice to see you and be scolded in person. Have a nice evening.

[@missyaman7053]

@@InthelifeofDanellejam please, do not apologize to this ignorant racist sub human ...

[@bn8579]

You’re full of crap! Leave this girl alone