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@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
[Take The Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz
@lucianahurduc93832 ай бұрын
Loving me deeply, he : 1. Is Internaly forced to evolve 2. Feels the positive colours and impact of me in his life 3. Feels his life better and more beautiful 4. Not gets tired to get to know me and about me 5. Encourages me to see the best in me 6. Share his vulnerabilities 7. Finds ways to ease my burdens in life Proudly shows and presents me to his world and stands up for me and defends me Is present and close by when things are difficult Is mature humble and opened enough to ask for help
@summastar29022 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 40 and have not met a man who wants me and truly loves me like this. I know they exist bcoz I see them in relationships with other women, but my mr right has not found me yet 😢 I really hope I will experience this in this lifetime.
@tabithagarcia77012 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, getting older doesn't help in attracting a man. I'm almost mid 40s and remember thinking 5 yrs ago, when I was nearing 40s, perhaps I'll meet that guy who adores his woman like I've seen in public. No chance in hell. Just enjoy being single and carry on is what we have to do.
@mysteriousme30062 жыл бұрын
I'm 40, though I'm extremely picky and strict lol. All ages come, yet still have the mind of a child, smh. I haven't gave up as well, but I'm not giving in to a loser, ugh. Lol
@laundrybasket26892 жыл бұрын
I’m 40 also. I’ve finally given up. These types of guys don’t exist and fooling ourselves with a shred of hope at this age is absurd. Sorry but it’s the truth. The good men who are like this are already married or they are gay. He even said in this video **SOME men** really want love. So even HE knows deep down the things he said here are men who are clearly the TINY exception and not the majority of men today.
@mysteriousme30062 жыл бұрын
@@laundrybasket2689 don't give up, just travel and meet random people. If you can't travel far, I'm pretty sure you can travel to your surrounding city and/or states. I'll suggest doing both. It helps to take your mind off of finding him and more on finding yourself in him. Honestly I strongly love someone at the moment. Yet, because I love traveling, I'm taking it extremely slow 🐌 and waiting patiently for the moment of time lol. He's in his twenties. I actually wanted to be with someone around my age. Though, if he's a the one I'm looking for, who am I to refuse true love that was sent from heaven lol. I'm not, just want to be 100% sure. Lol I don't waste time in dating because I know what I want! 😉 it's all in the knowing. 😇💜💙
@mysteriousme30062 жыл бұрын
@@laundrybasket2689 correction, we strongly both love each other. I just want to be sure he's the 1.
@lpsglitterpaws85362 жыл бұрын
This love does exist. I found it in my 50s
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
So happy for you! :)
@MMm-le7jj2 жыл бұрын
💕🤞
@JN-0peny0ureye52 жыл бұрын
When he doesn't give up, but is also NOT passive/mind games he's mature enough to pursue relationship. Other half means working like a team. Equality! Open mindedness.
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@kathyburton3142 Жыл бұрын
Best relationships are when you both meet at your worst and build up to being your best self over time. I have heard a lot of women saying they met a good partner when they had been sick after drinking so much and looking like they been dragged through a bush. I believe god gives you your soul mate when you're a total mess for a reason.
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
I think that the best relationships are when you meet at a healthy place and use the relationship to be even better rather than to save Theo souls :)
@minalove6582 Жыл бұрын
What a gorgeous video. I'm excited and allowing this love in my heart and my life. Thank you Universe❤️🙏🏽
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed this :)
@jaleesa00 Жыл бұрын
What are you Bernardo besides a genius. Are you a psychologist, relationship counselor, family counselor? How do you know these deep things that are so obscure which are our emotions. You're highly intuitive and a gem. Thank you.
@mrs.a.t.12782 жыл бұрын
Hello to you. I hope all is well with you and yours. This video is so on point (as all of your videos are), even the ones that don't pertain to me. My guy scores a touchdown with this video. He does all of these things and more. I always joke with him about being from another planet or being a unicorn 😁. I used to think I didn't deserve him now I know that I do. We're very happy and good to each other and for each other. I love the way you give topics and go into detail with each one. I love your honest and heartfelt presentations. You're informative, you speak the truth and you care. Thank you once again for another great video. Have a Beautiful Day 😍.
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words! Big hug.
@mrs.a.t.1278 Жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez Good day to you Mr Mendez. I hope all is well with you and yours. WOW 😲!!!! I can't believe you actually responded to my post. You have so many and I know you can't reply to all of them. I appreciate you and what you do. It's New Year's Eve so I'll say to you now "Happy New Year" I look forward to all you have to share with us in the coming year. Have a SUPER BEAUTIFUL DAY 😊😊.
@RegenaO Жыл бұрын
Oooooo love this! So on pt ❣️💫🙏
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@annakharlanova98392 жыл бұрын
You are so precious! Love your videos, Bernardo! ❤
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. Glad you enjoy the videos. :)
@fionajames9960 Жыл бұрын
Really like your kind and helpful content and delivery!
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that, Fiona : )
@VLoveTarot Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice and points!!!
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome.
@soulsecrets7895 ай бұрын
Wow sounds like your talking about my dream guy... I haven't met any guys like that. Men like that are rare now days.
@BernMendez5 ай бұрын
Finding an ideal partner is HARD but for most of us it's worth the search. Thank you for watching and for sharing : )
@robbibrower71522 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bern
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome.
@pamdewall4588 Жыл бұрын
This video is very very helpful❤️❤️❤️❤️
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Pam, I'm glad this was helpful!
@russk19712 жыл бұрын
I find it very difficult to understand women. My 51 year old perspective is that women today ignore guys that will love them for their "ideal". Alpha males who are tall and have executive positions generally treat women as possessions not as equal partners.
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your perspective Russell. I can assure you if your stance is similar to what I describe in the video you will find many women who are up for it :)
@russk19712 жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez I have not found that as of yet. Today's society has become "throw away", everyone seems to be looking for the next "better" thing.
@SR777362 жыл бұрын
Some men do the same and some women aren't like this at all. Depends on the person. Plenty of me want baddies and overlook plain Janes too.
@russk19712 жыл бұрын
@@SR77736 agreed...today's society is throw away. People in general are setting for the now while looking for better. The average guy will not likely look any further once he has found a decent woman who treats him with love and respect.
@ashton19522 жыл бұрын
@@russk1971 These 'average guys' seem to be very far and few between 😅
@amandaburcham-garvin51095 ай бұрын
I married that guy!
@BernMendez5 ай бұрын
Good for you, Amanda : )
@Victoria-z8u5 ай бұрын
WellI just found you! In a new relationship that I'd love to have Work Out...Thx😅
@karenKristal2 жыл бұрын
This are very nice words designed to keep lonely women hoping and therefore watching. Bern is clearly a nice guy but if online dating advice actually helped there wouldnt be so many coaches making so many videos for so many years 😕 its kind of nice to watch as escapism here and there. We all need a bit of that!
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Laura, thanks for sharing your point of view. My experience is that advice that is applied helps (advice that is simply listened to, doesn't). The reason why many humans share dating and relationship advice isn't because learning new ideas doesn't work, but because we as a society seek more every year from a relationship but don't have the skills to enter or sustain one. If videos on their own aren't helping you seek out more help either therapy or coaching. Don't give up : )
@Shinibo Жыл бұрын
I found love through Bernardos advice. Before that I haven't been able to make dating work (and I have been dating for maybe 8 years). If you apply his tips, they actually work.
@verarobinson67594 ай бұрын
I meet my soulmate I am soo happy ❤
@AngelEyes-xm7el6 ай бұрын
Hi Bernardo my boo (I Wonder) is always flirtz with other women. I have not married him because I told him it bothers me. He still does it even on the ohone with me he flirts. He has never been married, I was once. Your thoughts?
@MariaS27867 ай бұрын
❤ Wonderful 🎉
@rosalia89902 жыл бұрын
Hola bernardo por favor me gustaría que me dieras un consejo! mi novio es extranjero, el y yo llevamos 3 años de relación, cada ves que salimos y pasa chicas al lado de el o en la otra calle el las mira hasta he visto que voltea su cabeza para ver de nuevo, el problema no es que mire, el observa mira lo suficientemente y si ve el que les corresponde la chica con su mirada, el les da una sonrisa! Le hablo de lo mucho que me molesta esto, y el solo me dice que el no está acostumbrado a ver está clase de moda o me dice que es por el color de pelo o por cosas así! Y que el lo hace cosa que eso no se ve en su ciudad! Y que la moda es diferente en su ciudad.! Por favor podrías respóndeme que piensas se eso? Hasta me llegó e decir que debeo de tener confianza en mi misma! Apreciaría tu respuesta!!! Bendiciones 🙏
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Hola Rosalía, gracias por tu pregunta. No es cuestión de tú tener más confianza, es cuestión de él mostrarse con más respeto hacia ti. Ofrécele dos posibilidades. 1) Dejar de hacerlo 2) Dejar de estar contigo. Tengo la certeza de que si tú hiceras lo mismo con hombres, no le parecería aceptable para nada. Saludos.
@karenkinserlow77442 жыл бұрын
All Men are not alike
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Correct and yet we are similar in more ways than one : )
@mojomeme31162 жыл бұрын
I want that guy !!!
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
:) Thanks for watching.
@laundrybasket26892 жыл бұрын
We all want that unicorn. 😒 They do not exist.
@zaria57852 жыл бұрын
@@laundrybasket2689 they do exist. My brother has been a great example of what a great man looks like. He is all of these things for his wife and kids. So men do need time to grow into their best selves. We didn’t have the best model for a father but we encouraged and challenged each other to be our best growing up.
@Chydova2 жыл бұрын
@@laundrybasket2689 you get what you want. If you say that they don't exist for you, then you won't find one.
@kendallwright72222 жыл бұрын
@@laundrybasket2689 they exist!!
@yolandahilario7942 Жыл бұрын
💯💯🙏
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Yolanda!
@moneymoney68172 жыл бұрын
❤️💯
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@lexijordan93842 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this. I smiled the whole video. Thank you! 🤍🙏