*Being defensive is fine every now and then.* As long as you remember to get off your couch sometimes to challenge and develop yourself! Learning is the key to success!
@igorsaniak757 Жыл бұрын
But he even said we are yousually rarely conscious about using these mechanims because we are doing it unconscious by nature.
@qqn45315 жыл бұрын
At the end of each video, you should show up a summarize of what you said. For example in this video you recapitulate all the defensive mechanisms and you explain, for each of them, in a few words what are they. This video is very complete but there's too many informations and I don't manage to memorize them all. Anyway keep up the good work
Defence mechanisms often times come from a lack of understanding for EMOTIONS and not letting them out in a proper way. Children need to be taught emotional intelligence, instead of geometry, so that they can have tools for processing their feelings.
@waterisgood29794 жыл бұрын
How about both
@user-vn7ce5ig1z5 жыл бұрын
Compensation is essentially just a combination of displacement and repression. Instead of thinking about the issue or blaming others, they substitute something else.
@DanTrustsTheFathersPlan5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video PP!! BBD enjoys collecting gold nuggets from various sources for my own content & expanding my intellect. And your channel is always a great source of gold nuggets
@carolinefischer51874 ай бұрын
This explained the defense mechanisms so well! There are a few that commonly confused me, but now I get it much more!
@Bellalourenco20248 ай бұрын
Thanks for this informative video about defense mechanisms.
@HumansOfVR5 жыл бұрын
*_If you can become aware of defense mechanisms_* than you can take steps towards changing
@YourNickIsTaken5 жыл бұрын
Wow i do all of them. I'll listen to these from now on. And seek what can i do with these.
@Inerize5 жыл бұрын
Journaling is a great tool to get perspective and learn from ourselves so we don't commit the same mistakes over and over again
@JRamen125 жыл бұрын
Took the personality test... pretty accurate from results I’ve down with Meyers Briggs and big 5!!
@EthanSchwandtTheMindMapGuy5 жыл бұрын
This was illuminating.. I hadn't thought of this before! Thanks for the video 🙏🙏🙏
@wankumbunamonje1232 жыл бұрын
true
@yemaii71815 жыл бұрын
My defense mechanism is to always think about the problem and then hopefully it will fizz away,,me thinking about the problem helps me realize that I can move on and just look into the future but that is also hard sometimes
@kunal_KB5 жыл бұрын
Wow! I never knew there was a category called Sublimation! I fall under Sublimation.. Every time I am upset about something I start cleaning the whole house!
@ameraagao44235 жыл бұрын
me too its like different combination..like being so busy,crying and improving my self alot..
@unleashingpotential-psycho94335 жыл бұрын
The best way to deal with failure is to take immediate action to make sure it never happens again 🔥
@studyme-selftaughtlife49585 жыл бұрын
Keep the *PERSPECTIVE* of what the other person is going through, it’s not about you. 💯
@MohamedAdel-bm6py5 жыл бұрын
So I repress, projects and compensates, what do you ?
@DemonhunterJay5 жыл бұрын
I took the test you made. Don't really understand the MBTI INFJ results when I only scored 31% on Conscientiousness. Is 31% high? Perhaps your test needs to be tweaked a bit.
@sathviknarayan70575 жыл бұрын
Good value in your video
@lyviquyen32405 жыл бұрын
What a coincidence! I am reading a psychology book discussing about these mechanisms.
@reemalzubaidy94345 жыл бұрын
I lost something expensive and than I tried to forget it even happened ... I failed something and avoid thinking about it . What am I supposed to change to
@justdoit63154 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@moonislam86345 жыл бұрын
Reaction formation is my type.
@matts37295 жыл бұрын
Saying that being upset about taxation rather than making more money is displacement is just wrong. Terrible example.
@Myurton5 жыл бұрын
Through out my life I have done all 9, though not all at the same time, I feel a bit terrible admitting that. Haha
@kyleolin35663 жыл бұрын
Don't feel terrible about being honest. It is through such honesty that you can empathize with others, even if you disagree with them. It is how you stay humble and gain wisdom. Embrace it :).
@igorlebich58025 жыл бұрын
i don't know what kind of books you read of what degree you have, but each one of your videos is on-point! r u even human?
@NateTheKang5 жыл бұрын
***Memes and repression are bffs***
@trogdortheburninator3621 Жыл бұрын
I'm my ex's defense mechanism. Displacement was his bag and I was the root cause of everything that pissed him off. It's good to know I control everything that happens in the universe. Woo hoo I'm omega!
@Violet-gb4ib5 жыл бұрын
Great video. I thought that part of that is hereditary !! So hard to acquire .who agrees !?
@neelamkhalil41205 жыл бұрын
I am displacement and repression
@Wolfmangoodmanll Жыл бұрын
I have a defense mechanism my would be projection....when I'd try to avoid being too nice or too soft and refuse to take shit from someone who can't control their attuides,...where their frustrations would ,trigger me to get angry.If some one takes out on me underpressure or just remind myself to brush it off and ignore their negativites.I make a mistake after being called put on bullshit nonsense on order to learn better.If I react to criticism it's because I wouldn't wanna be disrespected or accused of being mean or egotistical.Usally if a meeting is called where everyone is involved I'll feel some type of way about it because if one person goes down then I would try to speak up fast to ensure I had nothing to do with nothing There's others who've done and the ones I delt with were crazy,Ignorant careless and selfishly too self involved with themselves.I wouldn't mind being called out on certain things if I'm wrong about something I'd say tell me so I can correct it but don't belittled me though.I refelect on drama but I'm working copping with my own problems to deal with them mature and manually as a civilized adult.Cause the last thing I Wanna do Is get, into some beef with someone over something stupid it's totally unhealthy and the last thing I need is negative tension to wreck my inner peace...I can learn from all my mistakes but grown from them I know it's not too late...things ain't easy cause I've been through a lot but I'm trying that's all I can say.
@ellastarburst7364 жыл бұрын
I love how most people here are here for school or interest, and I'm here because of the game Alter Ego You can't spell best without Es
@whitecollargraffiti83485 жыл бұрын
I am 20% displacement and 80% repression
@kilominum5 жыл бұрын
what if i dont have a defense mechanisam i just eather solve my problem or if its bad weather or no my favourite snack in store i wont take it out on someone because it just sometimes be like thaz
@Khrene5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like denial lol
@kilominum5 жыл бұрын
@@Khrene no, denial is when you think that there is no problem and nothing bad is happening
@Rifi775 жыл бұрын
It's repression for me
@detroitnative12325 жыл бұрын
Repression is my way of going about things. Why harp on something you can’t change.
@antonettealforque78922 жыл бұрын
I often use repression
@ultimatdanklin14734 жыл бұрын
Ultimate defense mechanism: self deprecation.
@louisant18175 жыл бұрын
Wait but what if I don’t do any of them ?
@everafter26113 жыл бұрын
Then why do some people stay in abusive relationships?
@godsparticle76575 жыл бұрын
Sigmund Freud is a legend
@ikramamhaouach886 Жыл бұрын
Anybody else fits into all of those ? Just me ? Okey .
@hendrikusanung27425 жыл бұрын
Your video is good sir... but you forget the highest kind of defense mechanism. Where is humor ?
@dannyg.44215 жыл бұрын
I think mine major two is rationalization and repression. I know when I am doing them but repress them. Lol
@ramona2835 жыл бұрын
I display displacement and regression. Its kind of embarassing but its me
@yimbalism28564 жыл бұрын
“ maybe he’s making up for something”
@ma.virginiamartin44324 жыл бұрын
I thought it was Anna Freud's?
@sathviknarayan70575 жыл бұрын
Plz make a video on how to make money online
@Abhishek-nv9pq3 жыл бұрын
Where is fantasy
@taawesome29495 жыл бұрын
I have the sound in my ear for 20 day now I want to die Edit: Repression is my reaction and regression
@sharifulislam07075 жыл бұрын
😍
@pauldaniels21793 жыл бұрын
I like to send these videos to people I hate ha ha ha ha
@snokalo2085 жыл бұрын
I'm 1, 2, 6 and 9 :')
@Syphrilyn4 жыл бұрын
I just repress.
@sofialu2264 жыл бұрын
I use Repression a lot xD
@kaiserinyoleba57115 жыл бұрын
Lol if you made more money they'd take even more taxes
@curts78015 жыл бұрын
Reaction Formation definitely isn’t talking about Tsunderes... Baka.