9 FAMILY SELF-SABOTAGE SIGNS AMID PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAUMA

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

KZbin will make the live chat box available to view within 12 hours of this live chat. Stay tuned! That's the best part. :)

[@alinnedub]

People can and should just walk away from ANY person in this world that is bad for them... The problem is they think they can't and shouldn't. I did it and now not just my life is clean but my spirit. Bless yal 🙌🏽

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

This is a great comment! Thank you.

[@bridgettetraveler658]

Hello Precious u are doing a great job helping ppl. I left my family over 30yrs ago. I don't feel bad about doing what I did to save my offsprings & myself. I've recently financially helped one of my DNA relatives & received no thank u or I received the money. I've done a lot for her & I've decided I'm done with her & all the ungrateful ppl like her!!!

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Thank you! 🤗 That's my goal every chat on this channel. You giving to your family member shows the kind of heart you have. They will reap what they sow, little do they know.

[@bridgettetraveler658]

@@TherapistTamaraHill I know they will. I truly hate seeing ppl suffer. I know they bring it on themselves. We'll all reap what we sow & sometimes our offsprings get hurt or suffer because of us. Sad but true!!!

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Good point. I agree.

[@thetruth3325]

Thank you. This was exactly what happened to me. I felt like I couldn't escape. I felt like my family created this narrative to make me feel so low and awful so I would never find the courage to speak up for myself and leave. I've done all kinds of self-sabotage and was always hard on myself not understand why, even though I was such a dedicated kid, studied, worked out, always was trying to show them that I am not as bad as they want me to believe I am.. it was so exhausting. It was like a temporary escape.

[@alexandreachislum216]

This has gotta been the most eye opening and saddning thing to me because my heart loves to love but despite the heart break of separation is hitting me hard especially after my cousin passed a few days ago - I don't feel comfortable around them or safe to reconnect and I feel they are trying to make me jealous and I really don't care I'm always happy for everyone in there life doing what makes them happy as they should for me

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

I'm sorry for your loss. Never an easy scenario when someone passes away and the family cannot or will not work together and repaire wounds.

[@treefrog0826]

Growing up with two narcissistic parents with no back up support or hearing negatively about any and everything definitely helps play a role in my self sabotage. No I'm notblaming my narcissistic parents I'm old enough that I could change something's I didn't like abut myself.. I just wish I had done these things.

[@thatshot8]

Tamara out here giving psychological and nutritional advice... my heart thanks you, ❤️‍🩹.

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

🤗Thank you!! You're welcome. So glad this was helpful to you.

[@XavierCarter9129]

Awesomely amazing discussion. I’ve only listened to a small portion thus far and I’m already intrigued and fascinated with the nugget of knowledge being dispensed!!! ❤

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Great to hear! Thank you! Hope this was helpful too.

[@XavierCarter9129]

@@TherapistTamaraHill Very much so…thank you!!

[@wirelessunday9897]

This describes my situation in my family to the T! Thank you

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

You are so welcome!! And thank you for the superchat.

[@keenanbrown5451]

Thanks for your help with information about toxic family members

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

You're welcome!!

[@TheRetroWoman80]

Hi Tamara. I'm caught up as I watched the playback of the two most recent live videos at work last night. Always many crucial things I absorb, of course. I especially related to the self-sabatoge video. Boy, did I used to people please for a living, it seems! I am grateful everytime I am in your presence through video. I wish a spirit like you was around much earlier in my life because I definitely would not have made a lot of decisions regarding human interpersonal connections that I did then, and I would have felt very seen/heard with all that was brewing and/or suppressed inside my soul. THANK GOODNESS for the NOW though!! Anyways, I should make the next upcoming live video. I really hope you are feeling better since the onset of the flu.

[@judgesbailiff7429]

Hope you feel better Tamara

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

🙏thank you

[@MrsD3Aer]

You have more persons of the Netherlands here. I always watch you, mostly a day after. You explain it so well ❤ Mr van der kolk is also a Dutch. But I don’t get the explanation for the dark empath. As I think my siblings are that… as I’m totally different,,I’m the feeling person and left out cause I’m like this. I left my family but indeed I’m totally exhausted over this… I don’t have any family left …only two friends

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

❤🤗Thank you!! I'm so glad these videos are helpful. And I'm also thrilled most views, which I learned a while ago, are from the Netherlands. That is my "dream" destination before this life is over.😉 I'll explain the dark empath a bit this weekend and on March 8th with a guest who will be joining me. Stay tuned.

[@judgesbailiff7429]

Good evening from Phoenix 🫶

[@danib915]

Happy new year!!! Feel better Tamara! I’ve grown to love these concussion glasses btw 🥲.

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Happy new year to you too!! Thank you. Appreciate that. And me too! I almost don't like being without them. lol