WHY FILIPINAS LIKE FOREIGNERS / The REAL Reason For A Foreign Affair

Why Filipinas like foreigners is a topic often discussed, but there are good reasons for a foreign affair! You might think it's all about the money, but foreigners represent much more to Filipinas than a fat bank account. Like any subject, the attraction of Filipinas to foreigners has many layers, so let's look at the real reasons behind this phenomenon ... ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
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[@mariaaaaa4341]

As a filipina, I absolutely agree with this! ALL ARE ON POINT👌 I always like about the part where most of the foreign guys tend to be more open about interesting stimulating conversations. Also, they tend to be more responsible and mature about a lot of things. Indeed, its hard to seek local guys in here that can talk about interesting stuff and delve into it, they are more close minded and conservative about things, at least from my experience and the local guys that had encountered. Hard to be with someine who cant understand you, it's like being stagnant and you stopped growing, enclosed in a shell and locked up. Cant express your thoughts about life and various things n life. Anyway, this is a very nice video of you Ms. Pea! I've always have to explain these things to every people who were curious of about why some filipinas prefer foreign! Because they would literally always think about the money and the thing down there! And its tiring!haha.Thank you, I can just show this video to them. You elaborated the thoughts perfectly! Hope to found my guy from the other side sooooon! Hahaha God bless and continue to grow, learn and share the knowledge! New subscriber here!

[@pitbul295]

Hi, Maria I'm Nick. I luv 2 chat, so where shall we begin ???

[@derekgunter9288]

I like how you talk I bet you really are nice...

[@NeilPBrady]

And from your picture from a mans eyes, your a catch!

[@AshenTechDotCom]

your comments, remind me of the last 6 dates i went on before walking away a decade+ ago, i cant deal with people who cannot have stimulating conversations and all 6 of them... so vapid, it didnt matter what i tried it was like they had no interests outside the mercurial.... genuinely after the last one, i was starting to wonder if my brain was broken.... the conversation was so fucking painful.... i felt brain cells dying... its sad but, dear gods.. trying to talk to somebody who reminds you of the girls in jr.high... decades ago... just dosnt work for me... lets not get started young gals here with massive body counts... talking 14yo's with higher body count then most 45yo men... just... yikes... this country.. just be interesting, personable and honest, that goes a long way with most guys i know as well... i try and find something people can talk about with a passion, when i cant.. it tells me.. their interest are quite narrow... because my interests are eclectic as hell.. tech, mech, anime, movies, tv, science, fantasy, books.... games... camping, fishing,hunting,..i could keep going... psychology... cant leave that out... the funniest part... my aunts filipina and back over there with my uncle right now in cv19 jail..(just got in and have to camp in a condo for however long the govt decides they need to be kept away from others for others safety.. ) , and i have never given a single shit when she and her friends speak taglag(sp?), never bothered me one bit they would appologize and i would respond in german as often as english... one finely got it "it dosnt bother me, what so ever, if i think you are shit talking me, i will just shit talk you in a lang you dont speak, other then that, have at it.. warning, eventually my brain will start to auto translate and i will know what your are saying given enough exposure..." the fact it happened with galic (scottish native lang) as well as a few other lands when gaming with people from parts of the world where breaking into such things is still not that uncommon among geeks/weirdos/gamers... anyway, there are an amazing number of men here, who have given up on dating, on women in general, due to how horrible dating here has become.... any filipina who came here would have little trouble having her pick of men..if shes smart she dosnt go for the "alpha chad" types who have nothing but choices, but the dude whos just an average guy, working his grind and wishing things were like old movies rather then this modern dystopia we live in... i know most of my single male friends would jump at the chance to date an actual feminine woman who likes men, rather then a masculine women who has a resentment for men due to her western education/upbringing... myself included...though... im disabled so far from a prime catch.. the one thing i do have, is a very strong supportive family, who.. are not at all hard to please.. the only ex-gf's i have had they didnt like.. it was 110% justified.. hell at the time i knew it for one of them.. but.. meh.. we live, we learn... we all make stupid choices... and, no harm came from it... other then having to block her number 6 times as she got new numbers and kept trying to get back with me..after cheating on me with my cousin... who had herpes... and still does... as does she now... heh... anyway, dont cheat and you will be fucking light years ahead of most of the gals i have dated from the west... been cheated on so much i just came to expect it eventually...

[@roldan1800]

if this foreigner doesn't have money...,pinays...will you like him.?

[@k00LGuY671]

My co-worker is 55 yrs old, married a 25 yr old pinay. Whether she wanted financial security or become a citizen of the USA, I do not know. But I do know is that she honored her marriage, took care of him. when he passed away, (god rest his soul) she didn’t re marry and she said she doesn’t want to loose her last name, her husbands name. She is still close with her in laws.

[@finallyfriday.]

Wow dude, thats really powerful.

[@davidtesler1198]

Very good woman in my book

[@nicholasmutch1556]

That is so sweet of her.

[@One-12937]

She might be close to her in laws for security, financial reasons.

[@stevebramblet7192]

Awesome 🙏

[@chucka7276]

I married a Filipina in 2014,i am 20 years older than than her.currently i am 53 and she is 33. After a few years of school she became a nurse and lucky for me she did. A couple of years after we were married i started to have health problems. It progressed to the point that I ended up on dialysis. Soon after a couple of years later i had a heart attack. Through all this she has stood by my side and taken care of me and she works 2 jobs as a nurse.when my mom had her stroke she also took care of her till the day she died. Filipinas are very loving and loyal to there husband and i am grateful for her every day.

[@davidocean1669]

Man now that's something that you can't get in the USA with the modern women. No way

[@dr.josefudeyama64]

Wow! You are a super lucky man! How did you meet her?

[@timstefan9902]

My uncle worked on nuclear sub construction but was paid $17k per month settlement. It did not cover cost of senior care. Few years use savings & out living at the Y.

[@chuckculbertson4631]

How do you contact a trustworthy source ?

[@sbarmiueenl]

She has to work 2 jobs? Looks like someone is not providing much.

[@donaldsmith283]

My father was in the Philippines fighting the Japanese. He told me that he really loved the people in the country and they were worth fighting for.

[@philaunitebirdgangtakeflig5453]

sounds like an honorable man

[@stephengoldberg334]

85 years ago.

[@gail3073]

Donaldsmith ..... was your father a Rakkasan? Of the 187th??

[@pirhannayt6423]

Bro how old are you

[@davidcardin3271]

Yes I was feeling the same thing. I lived there for 2 1/2. Married a great woman.

[@michaelscardino3044]

I knew very little about the Philippines. Marrying a Filipina never crossed my mined. In San Antonio Texas I met the most charming, beautiful, kind, intelligent woman I had ever met. She was from the Philippines here on a work visa doing IT work. We have an amazing daughter and have been married 9 amazing years.

[@ausforaus7617]

haha ... "if Filipino women were only interested in 30 year old doctors, they would be western women" Spot on ..... you nailed it in that sentence

[@dominicanfrankster]

She became public enemy number 1 with that line.

[@robertknighten4539]

Nail it

[@nicknisthlm]

Love your logic -your great 😃😊

[@chrisnamaste3572]

Not enough. 6 inches, 600 horsepower, and SIMPing.

[@harmonizedigital.]

Yup. Even the ugly and dumb ones think they deserve that.

[@michaelray5660]

When I first moved here in the Philippines, I hired a neighbor woman to do my laundry 2 times a week, I also hired nother neighbor woman to cook and clean the house. I could have done it all myself but thought by hirings someone who needed to support there family that it was the right thing to do. When I went back to America and mentioned what I did, some of the woman there have me hell for hirings them calling me a sexest. That made me so mad at them saying that, I deleted them from my life. Most Americans are so narrow minded now days. The ladies I hired had family's and a hard time supporting them by hirings them made there lives much better. So was I wrong?

[@robertrichards4930]

Those women are angry that you didn't get married to one of the women you hired.

[@kennethnoland8246]

Good man I did the same 2 maids working for me and helping with my son

[@rosetornandizo8269]

no

[@sir_i.p.freely3757]

Stupid people will do stupid things

[@phoenixx913]

Nah you weren't in the wrong.

[@georgelagos4411]

My uncle married a Philippine woman. They were married for 10 years he ended up coming down with kidney disease this woman stuck by him till the end. Thank You NETA.

[@naturalgaskid1]

You video pretty much sums up why a westerner would be more content with a Filipina. I recently visited the Philippines with a friend and do not consider myself rich and feel I am very average. However during my trip I noticed pretty much everything you said and was so amazed at the different attention I received. I was very depressed when I returned to the states only to find that I was once again I was back to average and rarely got noticed by the western women. Yes my money went farther in the Philippines but that was just the lifestyle the best part of visiting the country was the treatment from the women. I never gave it much thought as to why and just accepted it. Now that I have seen your video, it gives me a much better perspective of why. Thank you for sharing and although most Filipinas are like this deep down inside, the perspective from the western women usually tend to just say it is gold digging or that they are desperate. When on the contrary the gold diggers turned out to be the westerners who have looked at my income rather than what is behind my eyes and smile. Thank you for this video. It confirms what I have experienced but now with a why. ;-)

[@stephengoldberg334]

That's why I have bever dated a standard woman. It's not worth it with a 72% divorce rate and rage and hate. So, I never did

[@sendeth]

It was nice to hear someone say something nice about me, even if it was indirectly. I don't remember the last time someone spoke about men in the US with so many positive points.

[@juliemunoz2762]

Been listening to too many native women!

[@Michael-gm6ly]

Americans are nice people mostly just like anywhere else. What a lot of people have issues with are the US goat's activities around the world.

[@user-kv9ih7sp8m]

As an American I say Thankyou. You don't hear nice, kind things like that here in the States. Almost made me feel good about being a man ❤

[@adifferentangle7064]

I have no idea how this came up in my feed. Married a Chinese woman 15 years ago, who is now a naturalised Australian and we have two beautiful kids together. I literally have no idea what she saw in me, but we connected in a way that is very difficult for most people to accomplish, and a genuine wish to keep a roof over our heads, our children fulfilled, and life on its course has made us an immovable and unbreakable force.

[@Luredreier]

Yeah, I'm confused by this showing up too...

[@Luredreier]

Hum, do you have a conservative political affiliation or certain, ehem, kinks? Because the feed is made by algorithms that makes decisions based on your history on Google websites. And I have a feeling that someone paid to promote this for certain demographic groups...

[@Luredreier]

Remember that money being paid back by sailors and women married or working abroad is a big part of their source of international currency as a country. Given their authoritarian bend I wouldn't be surprised at all if their government is trying to promote this... They're already doing so for their sailors etc...

[@22mattbaer]

Good deal bro! Keep on keeping

[@scream2672]

"I have no idea what she saw in me!" No problem bro, i will enlighten you. Your race. She saw your race

[@R1pTheJacka]

I'm currently 31, born and raised in the US. In high school I played recreational volleyball. There was a Filipino family that was heavily involved in the program - the kids were on teams and the parents were coaches as well. They would always invite other players (including myself) to their house and have amazing parties with activities like karaoke, barbecue, volleyball, pool, etc. I went over so much that I basically became a part of their family. I started getting invited to other family events with them. My school picture was even on their fridge. My family was very dysfunctional and broken so these people really felt like an escape for me. I couldn't believe how friendly and loving these people were to a random kid they barely knew. That was the moment I realized Filipino people are just..different. Their warmth is so natural but gets amplified when surrounded by the coldness of westerners. I think about that family so much more now in this rising loneliness epidemic that's plaguing our society.

[@joeldeuda1521]

Well, all you have to do is make a connection again with that family. They treated you as a member of their family.

[@LeonLoewenherz777]

You should never lose the contact to this family. There are two families you can have The one you're born with And the one that you choose 🤔🧐

[@sakesama1]

In high school in 1974,I went to school wif a Filipino Diplomats son, his name was Toasty, he was like Bruce Lee, we became very close friends, now I live in Cebu, I wish I could find him !

[@silversurfer9019]

Any man who would fly half way around the world to meet a woman isn't messing around. That man is determined and has a plan. This is not a man to be trifled with or taken lightly

[@benbunyip]

Spot on!

[@forestraven5271]

I got my divorce at 26 ( I’m 69 now)I stayed a single dad raising two boys on my own . After two more American women going out on me I gave up and raised my boys on my own . Should have looked for a Filipina woman instead , I’ve always had a special place in my heart for Filipino people . My boys had many Filipino friends and they ALWAYS was so polite when they came over .

[@nicknicholson2465]

Yep typical soulless American females

[@dadrising6464]

Haha, i feel ya. Single Dad raisin two girls.. Divorced for 9 years now. (im 39). Had one more try, went as expected. Gave it up, western/german woman either suck or are already married.

[@glen7849]

It's never too late in South East Asia, alot of the women don't care about age like western women do, alot like an older man because they're already established and can be trusted more

[@LilBooger84]

You guys are both good men. My pops raised me and my brother on his own, and I thank god everyday it was him and not my mother, because otherwise I wouldnt have the values that I have today.

[@hyster2568]

@@dadrising6464 yeah I’ve been single going on 11 years. Got a divorce at 30 and well the women here are 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ I’m in Texas btw

[@ramosa999]

My Filipina wife and I were just talking about some of this the other day. I was dating a lot here in the U.S., but really became tired of Western women. My wife was also tired of men in the Philippines, and how so many were unfaithful. We have been married for 4 years, and it is 100 times better than my former marriage! I also have 2 other friends that married Filipinas years ago, and they are also very happy with their decision. We all married small town girls that have all the qualities we wanted in a woman.

[@CindysBisvlog]

My husband and I are married 3years soon and he said the same filipina is better ,if you are lucky to find one

[@kalderonitata]

Thats a good news..congrats both of u

[@johnclark7973]

How did you guys go about finding the small town girls at first, was it online?

[@CindysBisvlog]

@@johnclark7973everything now is online ,unless way back 80's ..

[@Fire2Hot911]

Pea you did a great job on this one.

[@randywilson3035]

I just came across your channel and i must say thank you so much.....the things your describing about a Filipino woman is what i have been looking for in a American woman and still haven't found it i appreciate knowing that there are still women in the world that was raised how i was🤗😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for finding me, Randy 👍👍❤️

[@briancossey4773]

I have to thank you for this video. It was/is an excellent reminder of your culture. I spent time in the service (US Navy) and had a friend from another squadron that was Filipino. He showed me an unbelievable amount of kindness by inviting me to have Thanksgiving at his house with his family. Now, I see this video and the first question in my brain/out of my mouth is "Where can I find one of these ladies?". By the way Pea, LOVE the personality! Nothing is more appealing to me than a woman with a sense of humor that knows how to stay/be positive! You manage to put that quality across quite nicely. I have watched this video twice now and am still smiling and can't stop chuckling/laughing. Thanks for that.

[@Michael-xp9ln]

Come to the Philippines and meet many nice ladies. Stay away from bar girls. Meet nice girls working in malls or public markets. Avoid so called, stand-by girls. Get a girl who has a job. Go from there and enjoy the country. Good luck!

[@lgwappo]

What I got tired of dating in the USA is that people let pop culture define them. The media, celebrities, advertisements, music & TV shaped their personalities & values to the point where you feel like you're dating a TV set not a human. Kids who grew up with computers are now raising kids growing up with computers. Eventually we'll need keyboards to speak while sitting at the same table. And we'll discuss the Emmy & Oscar awards, Kardashians & reality shows in trendy new chat slang.

[@chrisnamaste3572]

@Con Descending No the BETA man has 3 jobs to support the never ending child support for her and the Alpha's children so that she can lay in bed and take Instagram photos.

[@byronokeefe9855]

That is one of the best summations of American life that I have seen, Igwappo. Couldn't have said it better. Don't know your age, or if you're even American, but this is nothing new. Americans have lived through pop culture and celebrities for a long time. It's good to see someone recognizing it. Thanks, man

[@fekalistagrzybowory7619]

Western women lost their valors. They are too much on feminist sh*t. They don't value family anymore. They are simply broken...

[@fekalistagrzybowory7619]

@Con Descending Extinction...well, at least of western civilisation is a very possible

[@Perky32]

You nailed it mate. The western society is miserable and will be never fed up.

[@ThusSpratchScotty]

I’m 29 and talking with a Filipina rn , she’s the most wonderful and amazing woman I’ve met in my life. Between her and an American woman there’s NO competition

[@ludwigwittgenstein1280]

Go catch your pet!

[@coresnap]

how'd ya start talkin to them? Not sure how to find anyone outside of US.... I guess Tinder International? lol

[@istandwithrussia8254]

Im assuming because western women have literally nothing to bring to the table other then whats between their legs

[@opoxious1592]

@@ludwigwittgenstein1280 There is no competition because American femals do not want to have anything to do with you for some reason.

[@ceb7894]

Yep, it’s like American women are from another plant….. most will find themselves single and alone in the coming years…. Invest in Cat Food companies… they will explode.

[@fsm12385]

What a Beautiful backdrop ❤

[@callosamiusprometheus7350]

My aunt is an immigrant from The Philippines. Her and my uncle about the same age, and they waited to marry until after she had her official citizenship. They're incredibly happy and successful together in life. :) ♡ My aunt and uncle are both just incredibly kind and cheerful people who inspired me as a kid.

[@rolosnickers8562]

My wife likes that I don't drink or smoke, am 6 foot 4 inches tall, strong with big hands, can cook, always surprise her with flowers and that I take care of things. She never asks me for anything and is always sweet and caring to me and took such good care of me when I went through cancer

[@TheFilipinaPea]

We’re natural caregivers 👍❤️

[@rolosnickers8562]

@@TheFilipinaPea and compared to Western women are much more loyal and appreciate a man who treats them well

[@donarmstrong2182]

Does she like how humble you are 🤡🙄

[@dne9394]

Another great video from Pea! She is so warm and open. After spending the last 5 years traveling to Asia, spending significant time in Philippines and Thailand, I will say that she has expressed much of what I have experienced. Nearly all the women in these two countries (my limited experience, I am sure similar in other similar countries) are interested in western men. We are exotic, different, different culture, and present "exotic" physical, mental and emotional features. The mere fact that we are in THEIR country, means that we have some sort of significant means, so there is a "self-selection" process, where ALL the western men they meet are 'well off', relatively. So it is only NATURAL for men who have a "high demand" to be able to select the higher quality/value women. This is NOT a position that most western men do not experience. This means that we get access to women vastly more beautiful than what is possible "back home". Their culture also means that they will take much better care of us, than western women ever will. Our cultures are so toxic so much so that we have left them to come here ;-) Their culture is so beautiful for us. Pea does a GREAT JOB (AS ALWAYS) of explaining the attractions, beyond money for S3X. A good friend back home (a feemail), said to me, 'they only want you for your money", which I snidely replied, "just like the women here, except they are highly discounted"...While crass, it is only partially true. Pea pegs it, we find much greater value in the women here, than we do at home, for many reasons beyond S3X. Love the Pea ;-)

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha We’re highly discounted, and a great bargain 😂👍

[@jasonroman578]

This is sooo true, I concur and testify to what this man is saying. Like a older Asian woman told me years ago, “You American men must open your eyes and see there are many foreign woman willing to be with you”. This quote etched its way into my mind, and has been there ever since.

[@beersmurff]

Watch out with using "exotic" in Philippines though :-) Usually means a negative thing there unlike here :-)

[@woodpeckery]

@@TheFilipinaPea... Don't go selling yourself cheap, Pea. Already a great bargain with benefits, at no discount!

[@jameswelch1054]

@@TheFilipinaPea Let me know, when you are going on sale, lol.

[@davidbrighton6521]

This is exceptionally well written and performed. Thank you!

[@KeViNMCMXXCIX]

This video showed up in between my video suggestions. It's actually so intriguing and informative, not just this video but watched some more videos about the Philippines and how things work over there. Through internet i've been lucky enough to have met and got to know quite some Filipinas and Filipinos and also people from other countries like Indonesia, Japan, Taiwan, Thailand. It's such a blast meeting them! :) Subbed!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much for finding me, Kevin! 👍❤️

[@stub4958]

Filipinas are still old school and it is a good thing. They appreciate a good relationship, where the couple do things for each other. Here, it is all about what a man can do for the woman and how she shouldn't have to do anything for the man. Of course there are exceptions on both sides, but I'd still prefer a Filipina.

[@ericbown1551]

Absolutely agree, it helps that some are absolutely gorgeous 😜….

[@DAllenMartinphotos]

I'm 52 and spent the last several years being caretaker for my elderly father until he passed away late last year and am totally on my own now, no family left. I'm seriously liking what I'm hearing about what Filipinas respect and like about us. American women I've known are nothing like this!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

We really are different, Allen - in some good ways and in some bad 👍😊

[@DAllenMartinphotos]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yes, I'm noticing. I think in most respects I'd meet that definition you gave of a cowboy, but when it comes to her family showing up and never leaving, lol, I might start to appear strict. =P

[@truthbetold6496]

I live in Canada and i can tell you that the world here is going to ruins relationships etc theses women are far from being a catch and even if they meet a good man who loves them etc its still not enough, i been single for more then 10 years now and i am loving it

[@clickmcclick2675]

@@truthbetold6496 the west has a woman problem... as much as they want to blame men.... hot girl summer is here to stay

[@GizmoMaltese]

Just remember that every person is an individual. Forget all the stereotypes and get to know the person and the way that person perceives their culture and integrates it into their lives.

[@phillipjudd5511]

Thank you for the beautiful compliments...it's a very rare treat.

[@jamesh1446]

I feel like she described me personally regarding my desire to travel to the Philippines. So very insightful. I'm just so grateful these kind of women exist. I had almost given up. But now I've met a Filipina young lady and planning a trip to the Philippines to meet what i hope will be my future wife and mother of our kids. Keep up the helpful videos in your very non offensive, kind hearted way. Being on the outside looking in, we benefit greatly from the secrets you share.

[@randallzook5570]

I love your videos you amaze me with your knowledge of the west and your wit. My Filipina wife once wrote in one of my birthday cards that she admired my ambition and how I always strived to be more successful. I never thought about it that's just how a lot of Americans are raised and it's cool that my wife loves me for that. She is the best thing that ever happened to me and makes me smile everyday with her warmth and innocence.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, what seems normal to you guys is amazing and admirable to us 👍😊

[@knarlisrocks]

My Filipina wife does this too. It's very encouraging to have your spouse actually verbalize or write down that they appreciate your efforts to provide for them. I always recommend a province girl because they typically have experience with hardships in life and are better prepared for life's challenges. This also makes them willing to work honestly for a better life.

[@bryanmartin887]

Young lady, you are spot on! I really enjoy the truthfulness in your videos. Anytime one of my friends want to visit here, I refer them to your videos. Keep up the good work!

[@giulianabird-lover1950]

This information is so eye-opening, interesting, and accurate. Thank you so much for sharing this info and making this video, The Filipina Pea.

[@lilmiss_jean]

As a Filipina like Ate Pea she is always telling the truth and not biased, thank you for sharing your knowledge, always supporting you God bless po😇 Naluka ako red bikini mo ate, lakas ng sense of humor mo😂

[@vanceb1]

Who needs viagra when you can watch Pea get out of the pool wearing that red bikini?

[@lawv804]

I've always been curious. Why is there a shortage of Filipino men?

[@EMichaelBall]

@Law V From what I can gather, it’s very similar to the dearth of quality US/EU women: they just want to get laid with as many people they can find, and when they start looking to settle down, then wonder where all the good people of the opposite gender went.

[@chemtrooper]

I’ve known several young American servicemen who have married a Filipino woman, thinking she was all he was getting. Five years later he’s living in a camper trailer in the driveway of his own house because his young and attractive bride has convinced him to bring over her parents, which brought over the aunts, maybe one uncle. But then they got connected to the local Filipino community in the area so now there’s spontaneous parties of multiple people who this poor serviceman doesn’t know, in his house but they’re all “aunts” or “uncles”. So either he can divorce which will be hell on earth for him or get the camper in the driveway for some peace and quiet.

[@robfolks]

Yeah, he f'ed up

[@joerivas9847]

Why I will never marry one. I grew up around them. They are great people, BUT even your wife puts her family FIRST, not YOU! One of my buddies married one, been 3 years now, and he now has his MiL, and one of her sisters living in his house.

[@Rene-up1dl]

🥾

[@llothar68]

Just take a filipina with less family. There are a lot. Just don’t look for 25 years only

[@RobertoRoccoAngeloni]

As a general rule, independent of ethnicity, DO NOT get married. Marriage contract is THE WORST contract a man can sign in his own life.

[@andrewmetz9267]

Really appreciated the in-depth analysis, as usual. Liked the points you made about the cultural differences can be attractive. I lived in Sweden in my 18-21 time of life, and it had an effect on me in who I was attracted to. Again, until recently, lived in Ireland for the last 24 years, and it has shaped how I see things, as well as women. Glad you make it sound good to come to the P.I.

[@wraypetserson4304]

I know this is an older posting but I recently subscribed to your site/channel and I absolutely adore you and love your messages. You are constantly adding little bits of American cultural reference which I laugh at and get. So glad I came across your channel and am looking forward to coming there with ambition to move there in the near future.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m sure glad you found me too, Wray! 👍❤️😊

[@seanwilliamson5720]

I love Filipinas. I have been in a relationship for 4 years now and life has only gotten better. Couldn't imagine my life any other way.

[@opoxious1592]

As long as you keep the cash flowing, you will be allright.

[@robertspangler4237]

In the Navy, I met a lot of Filipino women. I believe everything you're saying. I seriously considered it in my past.

[@Sai7311]

That Was Fire! I think you opened many minds with this post, sister. (I do not take for granted you know what I mean when I call you"sister'" but please know it is said as a term of endearment and frienship. Keep spreading knowledge to those who do not know about your beautiful culture(s) in the Phillipines.

[@JohnHumez-kw8hx]

I've lived in CDO for three years, you video's are well thought out, spoken with a clear understandable, intelligent, point of view. A view that is 100% true, in what I have experienced. Fun to lesson and learn from. Bravo to you.

[@johncawvey5342]

I’m only 5’7” and I learned along time ago that personality, kindness and like you said showing you are ambitious is most of the keys to getting woman to like you also always stand up for your woman and never back down. I’m 60 and have never had a bigger guy ever give me or my woman any trouble but if they did I wouldn’t care if he was 6’7” it’s just more and bigger targets to hit lol. Romance and the little things is also very important. Make her feel special always

[@jontalbot1]

This is actually a pretty good exposition of what a lot of women want irrespective of nationality. It’s not often l see something about relationships that is truly sensible.

[@Don_Matteo]

Very enlightening. I actually have a couple friends here in Finland married to filipinas. I was surprised to find out that there is actually a whole community, a church group of sorts, of them. Very nice people. I don't know them that well but at least my friend's wife is very funny, sincere, intelligent, diligent and a great cook. I wish I could meet a filipina woman but they're all taken already and we know why.

[@inquisitorgothmog]

Are you kidding me? There are millions not taken.

[@sloeberdoet]

Kidding there are millions of poor Phillipina women waiting to catch a white foreigner to marry.

[@dodsjanne]

Thanks for the video! I was looking for exactly this kind of content

[@egdapo]

Tourism board of the Phillipines needs you in their ad campaigns! This video is the best ad for visiting the country i have seen yet!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks for that, Egdapo 👍❤️😊

[@knarlisrocks]

I really enjoyed your video pumping up my ego how great of a catch I really must be. But seriously, my wife randomly tells me all the time 'Thank You' just for being me and not some of the other guys out there she hears about. Your example of the Filipino mindset brought me back to my wife's brother recently. We bought a payong payong for him to use to make money as a driver and when we visited recently he told me he couldn't work for months because the sidecar tire was flat. I went and bought a wrench, he couldn't get the tire off, and walked the tire down to the local shop to repair it. All in all it cost 15 pisos for the wrench, which he could have borrowed, and 30 pisos for resetting the tire as it wasn't even busted. Lastly, for your viewers out there that still haven't experienced the joys and wonder of a Filipina, its really nice to have a partner that not only appreciates the things you do for her but is also very grateful for the things you DON'T do as well. Better yet she likes to reward you for it if you know what I mean.....

[@silentrage5425]

I love how she took a couple digs at the Gen Z'ers and Millennials. After my wife passed away in 2014, I tried dating. Honest to God, I had a "girl" leave me because I was a better cook! We had an "I cook for you tonight, you cook for me tomorrow" kind of deal. She fixed a very nice meal, but I have high blood pressure. I told her it was great but a little salty for me, because I don't eat much salt anymore. The next night a fixed a big pot of beef stew for her. I slow cooked it for 8 hours. I wanted to show how much I cared, it was never meant as a competition. She ate one bowl full. Then she dumped it out. She stormed out and I didn't talk to her for nearly two weeks. She claimed I "set (her) up for failure," but she really got mad when I pointed out it was her idea. So, it's the monk's life for me now. I tried to carry on, like I promised my wife. It didn't work out and I'm fine with that. I'll wait for the day I can hold my beautiful Sheila again.

[@georgemeyers3062]

As always, I think you hit the nail on the head with this video Pea! Thank you so much for posting, I always look forward to your content!

[@lensnart1303]

My Filipina wife is great. Been married for six years. I am 21 years older (57) than her (36), but it almost never comes up in conversation. She already has one college degree, is working toward Respiratory Therapy, and I am very proud of her.

[@MAHAKALAXXXV]

And let me guess you are paying for her education ?

[@sleeper9638]

@@MAHAKALAXXXV boomers really are clueless

[@DrDlane]

As always, Pea, you did a great job of breaking down what really drives a Filipina to having a relationship with a foreigner. I think a lot of filipinas just aren't able to articulate all of these items very well. I hope your sisters will appreciate what you have done for them. While all the things are basically natural attractions for them, they can be hard to explain when the foreigner asks, "why me"? Western females have no clue anymore what it means to be a woman. They think they get power from their independence, when in fact, they just become slaves to a prison of their own creation. But filipinas understand innately what it means to bea woman. They embrace it and enjoy the real power that comes from being a true woman. Thanks for another great video, Pea. You are a national treasure for your country.

[@sergeantc4073]

Well said

[@Stupidspencer1]

"[western women] think they get power from their independence, when in fact, they just become slaves to a prison of their own creation." Absolutely! But the way you said it is almost poetic. 🤩

[@rickbridges4737]

Great channel, very informative, inspiring, aentertaining and encouraging. Oh and for a single retired man, very tempting! Thanks

[@psully212]

This was both refreshing and enlightening. Thank you for this.

[@randycabeen1180]

Pea, you are truly a gem. You cut through the bull and get to the point while all the time mesmerizing all of us with your beauty and charm. If half the woman in the Philippines are as special as you are than it would be a single man's paradise!

[@SantaRosaSteve]

I dived in November 2009 met Jen on line and flew her to Hong Kong to meet me while I was working there. Immigration tried to stop her leaving the Philippines she had a stand up argument with the immigration officer and she was allowed to fly. It’s now 2022 and we have three amazing daughters aged 11, 7 and 4 months and a lovely house in Santa Rosa Laguna after living in Singapore for 5 years and a condo in Manila for 4 years. At no time did my wife ask for money, expect money or ask for possessions. In fact she constantly pushed back from any help for herself and told me straight up I am not expected to support her family (I did of course!)

[@SantaRosaSteve]

If my wife had not stood up to the immigration officer this amazing life may have not ever happened. We saw that immigration lady again on a trip to the UK with our first daughter and I sooooo wanted to go up to her and say ‘look can you see what you could have ruined’ but I didn’t because actually they are looking out for the poor Filipinas that do get exploited sadly

[@UncleBensChannel]

Great work here, very comprehensive. thanks for sharing.

[@kenarmstrong128]

A different perspective was refreshing . Thank you!

[@kenmichielsen1642]

Hey there Pea, when my Filipina came to the Netherlands 25 or so years ago I met her at work. She and I became platonic friends and with my American background we had lots of similar interests. She sometimes would explain why she gave up on Filipino men. You ticked all the boxes in this video. So after her first 2 relationships here (steroid freak and later an alcoholic) we ran into each other in the supermarket and wow did we hit it off. Apparently we both had a secret crush on each other back then but both of us were involved so nothing ever happened. Not even a flirt! Now 20 years down the road we're together for the simple reason that I'm a gentleman (her words!). She now has someone she can trust and depend on. I now have the same and more! The reason I'm explaining this is because your video is absolutely true in my girlfriend's case. She's not with me for the money or my banana 🤣🤣 It's the whole package you mentioned today. So once again Pea, you hit the bullseye with this episode! Have a great day Pea! Cheers! 😉

[@macscotty9997]

I studied Filipinas for 12 years until "I found the right one" over 6 years ago. The "Right One" for different men will vary. In my case she was in her 40s, separated from an unfaithful husband for many years, both children were finishing college and her parents were dead. She worked for a large family owned business for 30 years, showing stability and also that she was a trusted employee. She also was quite attractive, a practicing Catholic with a strong Filipina Libido. Furthermore, she never asked for money, which is a BIG RED FLAG! It was no accident that I found and have chosen her! WARNING! You get what you take time to or don't take time to evaluate! Your lower brain can mislead you!

[@nelsonluke6007]

Big facts on the last sentence of your comment!

[@garybee858]

If your involved with a separated woman you run the risk of having her husband come back and you get arrested for concubines,,she is still legally married

[@JamesBond-jy8ti]

@@nelsonluke6007 Agree. That was some real honest comment that I totally agree with. The thing I question is, (for myself) is am I loving out of pity? Am I wearing my heart on my shoulder? Am I secretly wanting to be the hero in her life? Is she exactly what I want because it's certainly a challenge especially when you consider marrying her is marrying her whole entire family and that can be VERY BIG.... Cause certainly with a population this large, there's plenty of Filipinas in the sea..

[@bonsaicho1]

@@JamesBond-jy8ti OMG... I am doing the same. I am thrashing around trying to make decision.

[@normallife3819]

@@garybee858 what about if you marry the girl there then what is the case for it? If the husband is coming back around. Seems dangerous also like an easy way to get murdered tbh.

[@michaelcarie7059]

Awesome videos very informative and helpful 🎉

[@mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643]

A very interesting perspective and I enjoyed listening to your point of view. It's nice to hear that there are those out there that appreciate the important things in life.

[@jameshutchins8965]

Filipina Pea my Thai wife seems to enjoy my meaning what I say. I talk about family takes care of family and show it by doing what I say. She opens up to me about what family members aren’t to be trusted.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It sounds like you two communicate. Excellent 👍

[@jameshutchins8965]

@@TheFilipinaPea well, like any couple we have good communication and sometimes misunderstandings but are willing to accept many misunderstandings are driven by not grasping fine points of cultural and sexual differences.

[@wmjohns881]

I love the information provided by Pea. I feel much more prepared to deal with life’s problems and solutions when I full time retire in PH. Pea always alerts westerners to potential problems we might be exposed to. Thx Pea 🙏🏽❤️

[@Daehawk]

LOL I loved your outro with the Fast Times at Ridgemont High and then Caddyshack play. Awesome.

[@BadMonkeyFinger_Audio]

Hello sweet Pea - your delivery in your videos is outstanding, I must say. Great flow, with entertaining fluidity in your presentation. Quality stuff. Cheers from Toronto!

[@TonyKeepingItClean]

I’m watching this as I relax on the beach at Dalaguete. It’s wonderful here and I’m always chuckling to myself as I experience the things that you have been telling us over the last couple of years. You’re a joy to watch, Pea. Thank you.

[@ajalbetjr]

I've only listened to your intro and I'm ALREADY loving this!! You have hit DIRECTLY on all the issues/thoughts on these kind of relationships, discussing them straight up... can't wait to watch the rest of the video!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, thanks! I’ll try not to disappoint you in the second half 😂👍

[@billhall3427]

@@TheFilipinaPea so there I was, as usual, gazing upon your beauty and intently listening to every word you said. I was in the middle of taking a drink of ice tea when you said atm card with a banana. I suppose it won't do me any good to expect you to come clean my screen. Due to the continued laughter I had to listen to your video a second time. Thanks for the information and entertainment

[@sundazzle8745]

@@billhall3427 😂😂😂

[@Halfdanr_H]

I’m form the UK. My girlfriend is a foreigner and she has a totally different mindset compared to the British girls I’ve dated, who were unreliable and selfish. She treats me like a king, is consistent in communicating to me her wants and needs and she considers me the whole time if she’s making plans. In other words, it’s good not to be made to feel like an accessory and an afterthought in a British girl’s lifestyle. It makes me appreciate her more and want to do my best for her as well as myself. Foreign girls are okay by me 😊

[@henkprijs3902]

Your hight of ntelligence and understanding, is breathtakingly awesome!!!

[@hoosierfan27]

I have no idea why KZbin showed me your video but I watched it all the way through and it was very informative and entertaining. Good work!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m just glad they recommended it, Hoosier! Now I have a chance to impress you 😂👍

[@BFBMTb]

As a filipino myself, here's the reason guys. It's security for her and her family and an opportunity for a better life. That's the reason. Now, if she stays with you depends on the woman herself. You would like to have a woman stay despite the crappy reason, but there are also women who leave after they get to the foreign country. Usually this happens after they get some kind of good job and they start seeing their social market value (which is usually higher than the male). Keep in mind as well guys, when you marry a Filipina, you marry their family as well and will most likely find yourself supporting them too. I'm not saying all Filipinas are like this, but a good portion are. Also, the whole Filipinas or asian are girl subservient idea. It's false. Asian women in general are usually the most bossy wives, they all turn into tiger moms. Filipinas tend to be more fiery as well

[@thornelderfin]

I am not a Filipino, but I can confirm what you are saying. I lived near Davao for more than 2 years (absolutely love Philippines) and had few short relationships until I found a really good girl and we stayed together all till the end (I had to leave due to health reasons, we are still very good friends and she is happily engaged now). I've seen many foreigners (neighbors) having problems with Filipinas, but it all came from one single cause - if you find a Filipina that is much much younger than you, you are not attractive, you are not great at relationships, you don't bring all the other values you should into your relationship, then you are dating very much above your league, and sooner or later she will betray you or find a "better deal" with another guy. Like my 63 years old neighbor always dating 18 years old Filipinas and then being surprised they give him very serious troubles all the time. But if you find a Filipina that is closer to your league (age, finances, maturity, personality, looks) then you can have a very stable relationship. My other neighbor was 55 and dated a 35 years old mature good natured Filipina and they are still together, have a baby and are getting married. It's all about balance - if you get too greedy you will get burned.

[@jmoliere1207]

thats why i would move to the fillipins if i got merried

[@miguelangeldiaz9380]

You nailed it bro.. also the whole better life thing is bullshit and actually is code for a life of luxury. They won't be content neither 3 square meals a small house . No...they want the Gucci bag, the bling , eating at fancy restaurants and basically living like the real housewives of the land of Oz. From my experience, the best wives are probably Maylasian Muslim. But I don't see them hardly ever marrying outside their religion.

[@benlee8436]

Wow, there is so much racist bullshit here it virually disproves the point of the video about western men being great. Relationships are a two way thing. Act like a jerk and you blow it, no matter who you are with. Seriously, grow up.

[@newlife2281]

Do Philippines girls cheating a lot?

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

Bang on Pea! 100% correct. Thank you for "Telling it like it is" ❤️

[@librapower7810]

This gives me hope as a 54 year old uk guy. These south east Asian women hold some beautiful values. Seriously considering retiring out there now

[@DecrepitChef]

I have been married to a wonderful Filipina for 35 years. We met here in the USA when we were both in our early 20s. We raised 5 children together. Cant think of life without her.

[@anniemae3241]

I'm so happy to hear your success story Sir. I used to dream of that also with my ex for we're both 26. To grow old together, build a farm and live here in peace. He just finished our relationship, blocked me and I'm just left with heartache and I don't know where to take my life now. I don't know how will I inform my parents and everyone I bragged him about that he broke up with me and that I'm in pain.I have loved him wholeheartedly, despite everything that he never do, no single petals or any for me on any occasions , and I grow over that and it's ok I can buy my own flowers is the peg, also I am able to show him to my family, friends and everyone during our VC even he didn't with his family . We've been talking for 6 years and almost 2 years in relationship. But as I asked him, if have he booked a ticket already for my birthday next month, he just become coward and dropped bombs that I'm not liked at all by his mother and Grandma. The disheartening news was that he never wants to be here. He should have told me that, than wasting my time. I never knew that he can do that to me. Gosh. Huhu. Thanks Ms. Pea and for this platform,I was able to express my pains.

[@jameswelch1054]

Pea, you were 100% correct on this video. I think Western men are very direct, organized, structured, & stable. We hate to leave problems lingering, and deal with them, not avoid them. We tend to think long term, not just for the moment. Filipino culture is different, with a more laid back, humble approach. I think that is why our qualities both attract, and annoy Pinays, lol.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Too much of it can be overwhelming, yes - an OCD foreigner could drive me a little crazy too 😂

[@jameswelch1054]

@@TheFilipinaPea Too much nagging, jealousy, impulsiveness, & possessiveness, can be overwhelming for a Western man. Often when a Pinay falls in love, she does not only drive her BF crazy, she drives her friends crazy complaining about him, hahaha.

[@jeromegraff6777]

I seriously cannot stop listening to her insightful words of wisdom...of course her style and grace and awe inspiring beauty are also attractions !!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Jerome! 👍👍

[@stephenoverholt1253]

My compliments to you for making such an excellent video. The end was hilarious! Very imaginative. My wife of 13 years is originally from Pangasinan and has explained her attraction to me similarly, for which I am immortally grateful. She is the greatest person I have ever known, and as wonderful a mother as she is a spouse. We are close in age, but I was divorced while she was never married. Long story short, I am the luckiest man I know to be married to her, and she seems to think she got pretty lucky too. Your video helped make some sense of that to me. Well done, IMHO.

[@scottulbrich5376]

Ive lived in Philippines for a few years now, this lady is right on.

[@johnclark7973]

Thank you FP for helping me understand why an attractive 25 year old Filipina would be seriously interested romantically (for marriage) in a 50 year old. I understand fully now, it makes sense.

[@mjm4892]

Thank you for this video. Very informative as well as eye opening. I look forward to visiting and seeing the options available to a possible new life as an expat.

[@blakeashley1957]

Wow! What a great presentation! Really first class. I learned a lot and laughed too!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks! I really do try hard to bring you the information - and a few laughs 👍😊

[@kranzonguam]

Well said, Pea! A lot of people have problems believing what others honestly say, just because it's different than what they've experienced. I hope that people listen to you, and get themselves into a better situation! Take good care!

[@dovoso5685]

Dear Pea, its all true, just one more thing. Marrying a westerner might give some Filipinas a chance for a western passport for their children. This is a big push for what might be a better future for them.

[@CindysBisvlog]

I got a daughter from ex foreigner but my daughter dont even have passport 🤣

[@markymarknj]

Thanks for the informative video! I subscribed, so I can keep getting this great content. I'm a retired guy who's giving thought to moving there, so your videos are much appreciated.

[@mrnmo6781]

You are so damn clever! But precise, and concise. Going there early August, can't wait. Going to be watching a lot more of your videos until then I think!

[@Thiago_TT_MIA]

It's well known that Filipino people are amongst the nicest people in the world. Filipinas have strong feminine energy which western men like. Many of us aren't into masculine westernized women. We value women that can follow our lead but also provide good advice, partnership and nurturing inspiration. If you want a Filipina to really love and respect you... your actions must speak louder than words and your loyalty is worth more than your money can buy. This is priceless.

[@malachiy13]

Thio A, you mean to tell me you Trini's don't have quality women to be*good wives, mother's?*

[@Thiago_TT_MIA]

@@malachiy13 of course but I’m living in the United states now. They’ve all been Americanized here. Thanks to Nicki Minaj Hah Hah Hah Hah

[@robertwjones7131]

You hit a home run with this one. You definitely defined what a actual filipina looks for in a foreigner. True enough there are some that have different motives but that is everywhere in the world. Alot of these western men may not have had anything close to a beautiful woman that is actually really into their character and personality. That is why they can't believe that a filipina is really attracted to them as a person rather than what their status is in life and how much money they have along with the big house and fancy cars. Some western women look for the materialistic value of a man. Thank you again for breaking it down for these guys. Great video. 👍

[@felixrodriguez782]

good sense of humor at the end of the video and you speak your mind very well plus you seem pretty straight froward too. that the to have someone on the same page in life

[@johnahh5130]

I really enjoy your videos. Great fun and very insightful, thanks.

[@terrynzo]

You made my day Pea. Watching this video was ‘medicine for the soul’. You revealed so much into the psyche of the Filipina that I feel well informed and motivated. You are truely our ‘lifeguard’! Cant wait for your next vid! Salamat!

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

I cannot deny that financial security is a major feature of my wife's attraction to me, and neither would she. Having said that, when we met she had no idea how wealthy I was and was somewhat awestruck when I suggested we relocate to the Philippines because I was tired of working my butt off. I gave her total control of my finances and get an 'allowance' for my day to day needs - San Mig and cigarettes. We own property and business interests, which she manages, and she knows that our children will be comfortable. By the way, there is no massive age gap. I am 54 and she is 43 so it is not a case of a gold-digger seeking her fortune at the expense of a foreigner. I show her respect and support her interests outside of our marriage.

[@kalderonitata]

Thats good to hear

[@andyontourbrokendreams7120]

Age gap thing makes no odds. If there bad they are bad. It's a chance we all take. And viceversa with us. Not all western men are nice ..my wife is well younger than me. Never put them in control you cant afford to lose. My younger wife. She knows I have a good heart however the doors there if shes not happy. There are millions of beauties ready to take her place. And she knows it. Just be nice dude. If they stay bonus. However dont take any shit off them. Tbf im talking Thai ladies here. My experience with Pina is very limited. Which may change in the future. Good luck to you all

[@montz6743]

you didn't listen to a word she said

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Now that’s trust, Joshua - I hope she never betrays that, could she could do some damage 😂

[@andyontourbrokendreams7120]

Everybody listens however you can write with respect whatever you like.

[@Andre_Beth]

You are brilliant. Keep up the great videos!!

[@liquidmath4045]

Fantastic video. Very insightful look inside the mind of a Filipina.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️👍

[@markphilpot8734]

It’s a smile every time I watch a video. Information mixed with humor is a winning formula. Hard to lose with that. Delivery does help. Like Pop used to say, it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. It’s about tone of voice. It’s not hard. People make things hard. Thank you Miss Pea for another fun one. Stay safe my mates!😊👍🏻🙄🛠

[@vernondavis561]

Wow…Pea, thank you for your insights. I have been married to my beautiful Filipina for over 30 years and I have never really understood how the dynamics of our relationship have withstood the test of time. Thank you for your thoughtful analysis which adds perspective.

[@RenghisKhan]

That was a great pep talk. And a funny one as well.

[@efrahernandez3646]

Very good info and enthusiasm

[@mader348]

Thanks again for the time , effort and quality of your videos. You rock Pea!✌️❤️🙏

[@sharhune2735]

Great video Pea. The intro was funny as hell. I got lucky and have been married to the same woman for 35 years. She is a rare gem for a western woman. We met when I was 31 and she was 25. Wouldn't know what to do without her. Your my favorite you tube channel and give the best advice that I have heard in a long time. Take care.

[@jlathem56]

Very refreshing to know. Thanks for sharing your knowledge!

[@DanishJesper]

Thank you for this very fine and detailed speech about the filipinas.. Loved this very much.. i'm a danish guy, that wants to visit the Phillipines soon enough to explore the land, and getting to know its culture better.... And with this beautiful video of yours.. its always nice to know how to behave around a filipino when approaching them 🥰💓 thanks for the Video

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for watching!