9 Year Old Helps Family Pay Off Debt - Til Debt Do Us Part 110 - No Laughing Matter

[@RCKMSCKM]

She definitely needs her own account. The way he questioned Gail when she said she needs her own account was *definitely* a red flag. Then when he tried to validate needing money for his alcohol habit was another sign to get the heck out of dodge. He's the type that could take money out and buy beer and try to justify it.

[@mariayelruh]

He's upset at her squirrelly $100 a month... when he's cashing $1,500 a month!

[@candice523]

Right. Some people do too much.

[@juliemoore6957]

I'd like to know what he was spending all that cash on!

[@prudencek7087]

@@juliemoore6957 I'm wondering the same thing.🤨🤔

[@spaceballs44]

Julie Moore, he probably spends his money on porn or on his mistress. She probably gets questioned about where her money goes by the husband.

[@NanaPapa123]

Exactly!

[@matthewhale2531]

The mother has such a genuine love for her daughter and it bleeds through the screen.... :( such a cutie

[@debbieframpton3857]

I don't blame the wife for stashing money at sounds like the only money they are able to save and what is he doing with all of his

[@purpurina5663]

Buddy could play a psychopath in a movie without much effort 😬

[@ff2154]

Lol

[@cvelasquez8041]

"Have the lambs stopped screaming?"

[@dancechica]

​@@cvelasquez8041Yes! His voice is spot on

[@deusexmachina9776]

i think he is neuro divergent

[@Me-mb1ex]

Gayle blowing up the wife’s runaway fund.😂

[@verolly31]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Burlykim13]

Blowing up the reason she felt the need to have one…

[@alb7727]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@barbaras676]

I suffered financial abuse while married and was never able to have my own money. When I decided to leave him I started “hiding” money to have a cushion for expenses. Peace of mind-that’s when I was finally able to start saving (after paying off $55k in bills)

[@ruthirwin8222]

​@@barbaras676i did the same

[@myyt3824]

LADIES JUST BECAUSE HE DOESNT HIT YOU DOESNT MEAN HES NOT ABUSING YOU!!!!!

[@zaheerahshareef8131]

Exactly

[@laminage]

@@zaheerahshareef8131 Word! My Sister was with a guy who was a Grade A Narcist. He came from a Family where his Father was an alcoholic and he also is the rescuer for his siblings everytime they get into trouble. When she bought anything he would get upset and question her. He was a cheapskate because he grew up with so little and he's scared to spend. She broke up with him but she's done very well for herself.

[@dancechica]

Amen to that. My ex never hit me but it took years to undo all the emotional damage

[@kdon752012]

Yes, financial abuse is a real thing.

[@shannonobrien9922]

My Xhusband hit me.....ONCE! I blackened his eye! He never made that mistake again 😊

[@janebaker4912]

That daughter is so darn cute!

[@Its_like_the_T-Rex]

Holy... The financial abuse to this poor woman. This guy was surprized that she had a secret savings account because he's scared she's going to leave him... Talk about control!

[@ff2154]

Get the vibes that she is a mail order bride. So he wants subservience

[@jo-annewilkinson5663]

Exactly! Spot on.

[@angelawallace6317]

I would not trust him with a joint account

[@yveqeshy]

People who laugh like him while talking about serious matters are often trying to conceal their anger

[@decluttering-queen1898]

His face when Gail says Nell can open her own bank account. Was just class 😂😂 don't think he liked that idea.

[@davisholman8149]

Too bad! I choked on my coffee when he acted appalled over her saving $100 when he was spending almost $1,500. WTH??? 😡

[@decluttering-queen1898]

Mind boggles . Thank god I don't live like that. I'm no millionaire. try my best . live by my means

[@pattymusgrove6405]

​@@decluttering-queen1898I I

[@crazyjo2197]

Run lady run! You'll be liable for half the $600k debt he's running up on his own 🙄 happy she's saving an emergency fund for herself, he's super manipulative, abusive and selfish. He's more worried about his alcohol and "entertainment" than their family's food for the month! Where is he spending that much cash? Sus. Love the daughter, she's astronomically more financially conscious than her dad; wanting to save her money.

[@juliemoore6957]

I agree!

[@konradvonmarburg7733]

The daughter is the smartest one of the whole family.

[@Mimi-cq4bg]

The stink he causes over the wife having her own account, causes me to wonder just how controlling he is in other areas of their life.

[@CaliKiwi-]

A warning sign for sure!!

[@ayela562]

Those huge cash transactions in his private account too! I bet it was prostitutes. He was so creepy.

[@flakathy890]

What stink? Don't forget he'd just found out she had been hiding money from him. Maybe he was afraid she'd hide more money and not tell him about it.

[@jacobtimothyvlog3628]

My partner maxed up my credit I didn’t know , both of my credit cards I was so mad about it and my partner opened more credit cards , keep promising me after 5 years we will be fine he was hiding all the credit cards debts after 7 years we had $85,000 credit card debts I didn’t know. I found out he was cheating too lots of women and lied about it I was so Mad and my partner doesn’t want me to save money how ridiculous is that. Every time I make money my partner will empty my bank account quickly will just give me $700 a month so frustrating sometimes I don’t feel like working anymore 😂 now we are consumer debt free, because we give up our home equity to paid it all. Thank you Jesus but my partner still continues using credit cards all the time so annoying.

[@pattimartin859]

There's a difference in spending and saving. She clearly is afraid of no money to live on. He has his account and openly takes whatever CASH HE WANTS. He wants his alcohol figured into the budget. I didn't see her ask for anything. I'll bet $$ he went back and opened his own account again.

[@nicolelewis7843]

She was smart to have her own money set aside. He’s lousy with money.

[@bsure745]

He reminds me of Milton, Office Space “I believe you have my stapler”

[@dbentleyto95]

Ha, ha, spot on!

[@tam2046]

Lmao love that movie .

[@fiaLittleWORLD]

I said the same thing! “I wanted a mai tai” lol

[@embee5557]

Bahaha

[@amymalaba9241]

A real tear jerker this one. Gail was gentle with this couple. And they responded so well. The transformation was amazing.

[@samsamcupcakes6476]

Really? You'd rather close your account than seeing your wife having her own 🤔🤣🤣🤣

[@janebaker4912]

🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@crazyjo2197]

🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@nicoleworkman3142]

Right?!...🙃

[@nataliefontane]

And reopen one right after Gail leaves.

[@samsamcupcakes6476]

@@nataliefontane ✌️😂 The wife is too nice. She could open an account if she wanted to. No need for her husband's authorization 🙄😔

[@expertpanda513]

I hope the wife run for the hills, the lock on his face when Gail said the wife should open her own account , he gives me creepy vibes

[@3TXSisters]

Creepy was what I thought, too!

[@lucydawson1344]

Same! I’m wondering if she was a ‘mail order bride’ sort of thing as he’s very creepy indeed and Was no doubt after someone to control. Of course I could be wrong but she really could’ve done so much better than him. I hope he got out as she deserves so much better!

[@barbaras676]

Financial abuse IS abuse!!

[@GIChiyo]

I hope she left his controlling ass He not 'being allowed' to have a savings account is a CLEAR sign that he want's her to feel financially trapped so she doesn't leave, she needs to cut and run...

[@naturegirl2110]

That's what my ex husband did to me. It was very hard and took years to finally leave him. He's now pissed that repairs are finally getting done on the house without his help.

[@nataliefontane]

It's literally a sign of financial abuse.

[@spaceballs44]

He wants control of the money that’s clear to me. Another Josh Powell!

[@djsemira1]

Holy shit he spends a shit ton of cash without her knowing.. looks fishy...

[@spaceballs44]

He spends his money on his mistress.

[@nataliefontane]

@@spaceballs44 He is too creepy to attract a mistress.

[@chynamama8336]

Buying tutes (get it?)

[@TijuanaK]

A sex worker probably.

[@kunya16]

Prostitutes, a mistress, happy ending salons. That's where the cash is going.

[@mariayelruh]

He said 77% cut in MY spending really bothered me.

[@purpurina5663]

Totally -his mask slipped right there

[@spf_500]

It's giving 90 day fiance before it was a show lol He probably pulled an "Ed" and had her thinking he was way more well off then he was

[@momof2momof2]

Who does he think he is??? Has his own account and hugely questions why his wife should have one! LOLOLOL What a jerk ! I would never, ever trust him.

[@katespringsteen8220]

He’s so shady

[@prudencek7087]

I would really like to know what this man was spending $1400+ in cash on per month? That's crazy... makes you wonder of there was some secret addiction going on with him.

[@spaceballs44]

He might be buying escorts.

[@nataliefontane]

Probably his subscription to NAMBLA. This man gives off the creepiest vibes of anyone on this show.

[@ruthirwin8222]

​@@nataliefontanei feel for tge wife and child hes horrid

[@amazonorchid1321]

Wouldn't be surprised if he opened up his own account as soon as the camera crew left.

[@sarah3796]

Yes yes yes this!! Red flag 🚩

[@pennybean6851]

"Any house that can afford a big screen television set is not poor" - AMEN!

[@samsamcupcakes6476]

I don't have a TV, but I'm not poor 😉

[@debbieframpton3857]

That big-screen TV may not be paid for

[@janebaker4912]

Sometimes a big tv is cheaper than a trip to Disneyland

[@dobbysshoes4924]

In the time this was filmed having a big screen TV was a big trend and they were quite expensive

[@nancysmith2874]

They can’t afford a huge tv

[@sarahosborne7477]

I think he fears she will leave if she has her own account.

[@spaceballs44]

And her finding and feeling independent. She shouldn’t stay with him.

[@gidumali]

Agree!😁

[@bovnycccoperalover3579]

She should. He fights everything. Nell should still have her own account.

[@elizabethallen4353]

Probably not the point, buy oh my goodness Gail's hair is gorgeous. Beautiful curl and shine.

[@catherineblue5607]

What a sweet little girl! Obviously they love her a lot ❤

[@Gemini302001]

He is definitely weird. Something is off about that man. The way he was acting about her getting her own account was a red flag.

[@susananderson7473]

The Daughter is so adorable and wise. The fact most of that extra cash taken from the account was by him. What is he using it for? Thats a heck of a lot of money. She was wise to take money out and save it. He should get a part time job to help pay off the debt faster, she is already going to be stuck at home with a home salon. I will never be in a serious relationship without my own account. Burned once was enough. I hope she continues to put that money away.

[@jasongabson8611]

He said that he closed his account and opened a joint account. Doesn't that give him access to her 🤑 money. He will still be controlling her.

[@INatalkaI]

My ex husband used to take out cash all the time, too and I never knew why. Turned out he was addicted to fentanyl and spending thousands every month with his mother to buy it on the street. I let him handle all the bills, credit card payments etc. Needless to say, this was a very tough lesson to learn. I would caution anyone from being hands-off with their finances even if their spouse seems capable.

[@jessyrobinson2487]

If Milton from Office Space was a real person…

[@NanaPapa123]

Just give the bozo his "ssssttttapler" and send him on his way. Poor women and daughter. The guy is a controlling loser. Sorry, but that's just about the size of it.

[@cdc8875]

She finds bomb hiding places for credit cards!

[@amacd08]

He aint fooling nobody with that dye job.

[@angelastewart9497]

She has the most great full daughter. Beautiful child

[@dyskelia]

He would rather close his own account than ‘allow’ her to have her own account. What a creepy control freak. She should have left 😤😤

[@lizatubilleja]

This episode just made me cry especially when Gail said Aprielle can go back to being a kid. :) Nell is a lovely mom and wife. I hope Nell and Darrell are doing fine now. Having her home business is also fulfilling for her. Love and learned much from this episode. :)

[@vanessacaltabiano9775]

Financial abuse💔

[@roseblahnik3706]

Aaaaahhhh....I'll bet he's got a few secrets of his own ( and it isn't a savings account) that would explain where all his $$$ is going....just saying !!

[@elizabethallen4353]

💯

[@lucyb9320]

LOL he sounds like Old Greg. You can't unhear it haha

[@lucydawson1344]

Yes!! 😂 Do you love me?! I got a downstairs mix up!

[@jewelspencer577]

Its giving green river killer. 😂

[@79thdriftwood]

Very beautiful child.

[@janebaker4912]

It's bad to fight infront of your kids, but I don't think it's bad say no to your kids. Im not even so sure it's bad for the kid to know they're poor. My parents were poor and it made me a very responsible spender... Well, maybe a bit too money anxious... But I'm a low earner and through hard work paid offy house alone at age 31.

[@sarah3796]

Jane Baker you’re so cool Jany

[@hkdiva2015]

Which locale do you reside in, if you could totally pay off your house at 31 years old?

[@janebaker4912]

@@hkdiva2015 I bought a very small block off land, about 300m square footage. I bought it cash from savings. Then I saved some more, two years later I built. And I saved while it was being built and my small home had a small mortgage. Then i put ever spear cent on the mortgage till it was paid off. A quarter was from inheritance from my dad.

[@hannahcarney2250]

@@janebaker4912 poor with inheretence? Doubt you were poor love, but congrats non the less!!

[@janebaker4912]

@@hannahcarney2250 my family was poor, my grandparents were very rich. I was pass out at school from no food poor

[@user-ui1zv8bd4y]

He MUST get more work so she is not the only working both full time plus.

[@maylynquilana6160]

Love this show...Gail had saved another family again..May God bless this woman even more..

[@Pelemorra]

@11:51 Did anyone else notice he said 3/5's and pointed to her? That wasn't the deal man!

[@SinaAla]

I was about to comment to correct you, but you’re right! That sketchy mo-fo 😆

[@ff2154]

Proportionally.....not Equally

[@ajewachichester882]

My favorite story thus far. Kid had me in tears

[@tia.the.mockingbird]

This was a scary one. I hope Nell and her daughter got away from this guy.

[@yolanda4686]

Gail did this woman wrong outing her secret account

[@aussiemouth747]

She shouldn't have it in one of those dumb work place accounts. She'll end up on Judge Judy. 🤔😆🦘

[@TijuanaK]

Men that want "submissive" obedient stay-at-home wives/partners do NOT want her keeping her own money and neither do misogynistic women. It is her saving up for her future in case she has to leave. Men do 👏 not👏 like👏 self-sufficient women.

[@aishasumler7246]

I'm learning so much watching this show

[@millsykooksy4863]

Please leave him for your baby’s sake. That guy creeps me out so much 😢

[@mariayelruh]

I would have asked the husband to handover the cash in his wallet.

[@710LENNY]

He worked "overtime" investigating what it would cost to set up a home business? Big of him.

[@davisholman8149]

Such a beta male...gag.🤢

[@kyrstenmarie]

Nell is so sweet, I hope she’s doing well

[@Frugal_fitchic]

Hello Clarice … it’s so good to see you again 😅

[@jenjones90]

He never said Hello Clarice 😅

[@deborahhattel351]

This guys voice feels like he is in character 😊 I hope they are doing well.

[@lucialuciferion6720]

The stapler guy from 'the office' 🤣

[@mariahsmom9457]

@@lucialuciferion6720 Milton! 😂

[@dannsherstone1037]

This is probably one of the most deceptive episodes I have seen. We were allowed to know what the sad little $100 Nell was stashing away at work was for. But what was Darrell spending over $1,400 cash a month on? No explanation. Men with such a controlling nature are usually the one doing something wrong - very wrong.

[@scarletspyder5736]

👏👏👏 this is exactly what I'm saying! Why didn't they go into him and have him say what he was spending that money on! And for that matter Gail should've left that secret account a secret. Poor woman just needed a safety net. And how much you want to bet he's gonna open his own separate account again a month later. Ridiculous

[@dannsherstone1037]

@@scarletspyder5736 Here is hoping, if they are still married as these episodes are very old, that she has opened her own secret account that can easily be hidden in the age of the internet.

[@lucy2steele]

I’m not married or in a relationship currently but I’ve always known that if I lived with a partner we would have 3 accounts: 1-fixed expenses, bills, emergency fund & debt 2&3-separate accounts for remaining spending money. That way we can save what we want and spend what we want but the bills are paid

[@dragonlover2085]

I hope, that Aprielle, who is a young (and i'm absolutely sure intelligent and pretty ) lady now, is doing very well!

[@masreya2629]

She is. She’s married with 2 cute kids :)

[@dragonlover2085]

@@masreya2629 Ok, thanks. I'm very happy to hear this.

[@emilynicole4918]

How's the mom?

[@aussiemouth747]

​@@masreya2629Hope she's got her own bank account.🤔😆🦘

[@nicoleworkman3142]

🙄wow....HE doesn't trust her?!🙄

[@agriope2334]

That "Gaaaiiilll" at the end said it all! I am so happy for this family. I think the dad was super irresponsible but the way the wife leans into his hugs, how he's there with his arm around her when she cries, and of course that shiny little girl... I do not see an abusive household. There can be some things wrong without it being outright abuse. I also didn't like her tone with him sometimes but I don't think she's abusing him!

[@mamaroooftwo8351]

What a beautiful daughter they have… it’s so hard to say no to your children when children have no choice in financial matters…

[@AGM-ts5bb]

I truly wish this beautiful family the best success.❤💐

[@randysavage5710]

The smartest thing you can do in any relationship, HAVE A SEPARATE BANK ACCOUNT.

[@s.tiffanysmith9977]

I am watching this in 2024. The way he responded to his wife having her own account is a red flag. Women need to have their own accounts.

[@sct4040]

Need a follow up, please. I hope this couple is doing much better.

[@gidumali]

i still wonder where he spent all the money before they met gail

[@alicetheegreet]

I remember when I first time I watched this episode. I hope they made it and are doing well.

[@spaceballs44]

She hates her husband.

[@JehanineMelmoth]

Who wouldn’t?!

[@AshleyNicole-ct7gh]

I hate her husband too.

[@katapult684]

She needs to divorce him… major red flags all over his face.

[@beautifulrecovery2337]

His voice is a mixture of an flds member and Hannibal Lector.

[@mohsenahmad2171]

I’m married to a Filipina. Amazing people, and savage with their remarks. 😂

[@linneab8317]

I think he has an addiction. . . gambling, porn or drugs.

[@lingling903]

Porn definitely!

[@robinh7267]

I feel like he is paying for working girls.

[@leslietrivette91]

What's up with his voice? Secret life?

[@spaceballs44]

Like the BTK serial killer.

[@jordanerzsebet2727]

The dad is real life Old Gregg.

[@Kyla94934]

It is very weird how he didnt want her to have her own account when he has his own.

[@girlgalen4588]

He is a jerk.

[@vivianhensington1717]

Instead of shopping, I watch these videos but I have to watch them at 1.5 speed bc normal speed everyone talks really slow lmao.

[@kristenahubbard3338]

Wow, that man squirmed so badly when Gail said the wife can open her own account. He is hiding something bad. I think he is a little light in the loafers if you know what I mean.😮

[@TravelingNana]

This fellow should be locked up. Abuse, manipulation, general creep. She needs to leave him.

[@kibblenbits]

My guess is she was a 'mail order' bride (I think this because she's so much better looking than him and he doesn't have the money or personality to equal the playing field) and, as many of these women find out, they end up with controlling, socially inept men who are not the provider they were lead to believe After being in his country for years, she has much higher expectations then she had at first, as a lot of them do, and has realized that she can leave and live on her own terms without having to go back to her country, or put up with him. I see his fixation with booze as a problem and hope she continues to hide money away for her and her daughter, as my guess is she's going to need it.

[@Ali-fq3nz]

So he’s spending $1400+ a month in cash and not telling her but when he finds out that she’s been saving $100 in a works scheme he’s not happy. It’s less than 10% of what he fritters away and she’s only doing it in case she needs it when they run out of money. That lady needs to run!

[@kidzquizlearningchannel]

Him questioning if she really has to have her own account was disturbing 😳 He wants them to have a joint account but I don’t know if it’s for the same reasons other couples have joint accounts

[@jenniferbangerter5128]

The fact he was so upset with her setting up her own bank account

[@natashaleeandfam9268]

Wow he would rather close his then let her have an account

[@lyndamcleod2242]

This despicable man wants his own money so his wife doesn’t know what he’s spending!Dodgy DodgyDodgy!!! They are on a tight budget,but he still wants booze? Get on board for goodness sake!

[@yfsgom]

So this is where ricky smiley got his character, lil Daryl, from 😂😂

[@brandishantel5889]

You know after the taping he went out and opened a new account.

[@kingdedede9576]

Buddy a weirdo 😂

[@jreinel1966]

I don't want to move from red to black,I'm in green with my finances..😇😁😇..!

[@liveyourlife7367]

She is better off without him..smh

[@susanjohnson6860]

She has nice hair...