90 Day Fiancé: Why Shaeeda DOES NOT Want a Baby With Bilal

ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from part 3 of the ‘90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ season 7 tell-all, from Shaeeda sharing why she no longer wants to have a baby with Bilal (at least right now), to confrontations between Jenny and Big Ed, plus Kim’s son, Jamal, and Usman. Part 4 of the ‘90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ tell-all airs Sunday, Jan. 22, at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

[@sheenasway]

I think the only reason why Bilal wants to have a baby now because he sees Shaeeda wanting to open her business and start getting out now, so he sees a baby as a way of her sitting down somewhere

[@sabir1208]

Typical male. He'd probably end uo divorcing her after she gave birth too

[@christyh4491]

My thoughts exactly!

[@Giajade09]

I had the exact same thought! Some men don't like it when you start gaining independence.

[@MJ-py7dm]

Gotta vilify men 100% of the time can't you?

[@erynspiritualdiva376]

Good thinking

[@iamshesheisme8954]

It's crazy how no one sees how manipulative that move was that Bilal pulled. She begs and begs for a child, he says no. The minute she decides to postpone and work on herself and her business ,he wants a child. She just said that she didn't want a child so he decided to not only push the issue again but put her on the spot by getting on a knee and ask for a child. WTF was she supposed to say to that? basically her career is in the rear view once again.

[@carolynwhite9975]

Bilal is very controlling, manipulative and very selfish. He's not good for any woman. So full of himself.

[@layeokoh8006]

I'm tired of them. Does she not see the abuse??

[@jackiejosephs1]

She should have demanded a joint account before agreeing to have a baby while she had him on the spot

[@bmarie1001]

He found that dirty ass onesie from a vendor outside the studio and called it a day. Gross. And his funny looking friend too

[@RoarofdalioN]

The career that he has to pay for?

[@alazar3746]

Jenny from the block "oh hell no they wouldn't even give you a visa" 😭🤣💀

[@droosyg252]

😂😂😂

[@MARTINLOUISR]

“They wouldn’t even give you a visa “ that killed me 😂, because I know how challenging it is to get visas in some of these countries. Which just makes it extra funny

[@littlemisssunshine890]

It was funny for me because it’s pretty easy to get a visa to India (as an American), so the fact that he couldn’t even get in is HILARIOUS, and probably true. 🤣

[@pacskulls7757]

My man said she should’ve responded with “grow a neck” or “at least they got necks in India”

[@NaTa-bh8wb]

She made me laugh so loud

[@SurrealParkour]

I feel like Bilal is giving her a child precisely BECAUSE it keeps her AWAY from business and money

[@igorvilas4436]

Are you sure about that?

[@SurrealParkour]

@@igorvilas4436 If I was sure, I would say "THE FACT IS"..... I said "I feel", that indicates my opinion only

[@igorvilas4436]

@@SurrealParkour okay I agree with your point dear

[@igorvilas4436]

@@SurrealParkour I would like to be friends with you

[@zraj3433]

You are very right...Bilal suddenly wanting a baby was so out of the blue. He just wants to control everything and keep her under his belt😤

[@sabir1208]

That was very calculated on Bilals part. As soon as she says she wants to focus on her career and build herself up, now he wants a baby. Typical with controlling men. He knows how much it will take to have a baby, she'll be 50 before her business goes anywhere

[@gailwebb9619]

Agree. He also knows that she dosen’t have a lot of viable eggs and her age goes against conceiving a baby. It would also keep her home and he wouldn’t have to help finance her business..

[@icidaimon5670]

I thought I was the only one who picked up on this, also - did the baby “proposal” undo the fact that she doesn’t feel like he trusts her? Wasn’t that the reason she didn’t want to have a kid with him anymore?

[@iamshesheisme8954]

@ANTISCAM POLICE How is she hypocritical?

[@karajohnson2184]

I agree

[@jadyn4879]

Except for the fact that they were working on having a baby BEFORE he did that whole “big gesture” or whatever you’d like to call it🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Solitude1990]

Bilal: whatever she wants, she gets Us: yeah, except for popcorn at the movie theater and a baby

[@Goldniz]

And the yoga studio he agreed to help her have

[@1_star_reviews]

Or anything else. 😂😂😂

[@angiewoodward7255]

She didn't get electricity in her country...she's just as shallow

[@abigailmoore2964]

@@angiewoodward7255 just a Google search would let you know how funny this comment actually is... Americans 😂

[@sasshil4202]

@@abigailmoore2964 right, such ignorance.

[@dontyouworryaboutme]

The problem with bilal lecturing shaeeda is that shaeeda had a whole business up and running before she met him, that she closed down to be with HIM. She knows how to manage her money, she knows how to run. Shes not less capable than him in that matter

[@chanfitts5151]

Liz PLEASE move on Little Ed is definitely immature I see why he's been single

[@marknewton6984]

Liz doesn't seem very bright.

[@wiseup1977]

And has no neck......

[@beeblake7591]

I just don’t understand why she’s still hanging on to him

[@alicegauteng2358]

@@beeblake7591 She has a low self esteem

[@mushmouth_thenomad]

Ed made her carry his luggage 😅

[@MissDancingllama]

If Kim has done one thing right its Jamal. What a supportive, protective, loving son 🥲 the "its you and me" was really sweet

[@Shynestarlight2013]

He’s not bad on eyes either

[@Messi..skill..10]

kim shows how modern women are......there the ones who leave then they complain they cant find no one lol

[@helenawild7918]

best son ever

[@imanik948]

He’s currently dating a cast member from 90 Days Single Life…so I’m interested in seeing how he treats her

[@sandralim4102]

KIMBERLEY BY THIS I HOPE YOUR EYES WILL OPEN NOW FOR REALLY YOU ARE AN GROWNUP WOMAN WITH GOOD UNDERSTANDING 🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠 WE DON'T HOPE THIS TOOTHLIS MAN WILL OVER YOUR 💖💝💗 AGAIN OPEN YOUR EYES THINK YOU ARE NOT AN CHILD YOU DESERVE BETTER BEAUTIFUL KIM

[@tammykelsey7877]

That WAS awesome how Jenny clapped back at little Ed! Go Jenny go Jenny GOOO! 😂

[@mandyk9192]

I wish TLC would get rid of Ed. I have to fast forward through his crap. I can’t stand him!

[@lg4lg479]

Why does TLC allow the most abusive people on their show? it’s disgraceful, Ed and Angela need to go! They’re abusive one day they’re gonna both be in jail .

[@onions2569]

All for entertainment. But to be honest I can't stomach angela and Eddie and their white trash self's and the disgusting treatment to there respected other half's. Both giving out advice like their innocent but really they're just hypocrits.

[@deborahcarr9023]

He’s abusive because he knows something is wrong with her for Being with him. She should have thrown his ring (money to him). Liz is looking for a father figure and he acts like he is concerned as a father figure or husband would be but he’s not like that; selfish, spoiled and vindictive leprechaun.

[@geraldinemiller1473]

Don't watch it!!!! Just change the channel!!!!

[@rhiannabrittany13]

Angela is physically combative. ED is not physically combative, If anything I could see liz being the one in the relationship becomes physically combative when pushed to the brink. Ed and Liz have the issue of both being jealous and dramatic if they don’t get their way, and triggered easily. Personally, I think Ed has moderately untreated ADHD, which causes alot of his “victim like” mentality. (I say this being diagnosed with ADHD myself for most of my life)

[@midnightstar3340]

People need to see real life people and learn from them, we cant act like millions of people like them dont exist.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

" oh he'll no they wouldn't even give u a visa" 🤣 Yes jenny.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Ed needs to be alone. He doesn't know what love is at all.

[@MrsGtbala]

He is alone even when he has these relationships. They won't last because of him. It's a blessing that none of these women actually married him.

[@ddd1dorin396]

And got out of this show!

[@sharlew2809]

Where is his neck

[@sookie4195]

I don’t feel sorry for Kim. She pursued, pursued Usman. She nearly raped him to have sex. Neither are a treat. They used each other.

[@annabellewollis4432]

@@sharlew2809 💀💀

[@almaalcaraz7083]

Shaeeda was lying to herself when she said she didn't want to have a baby for now, that she's enjoying her business and America and all that crap. I feel for her friend who's really looking out for her and sensing Bilal is not the guy for her. But what can a friend do but step aside and wish for all good things to happen.

[@samanthaluis5434]

Shaheeda is struggling with ambition so she accepts all the red flag to get what she wants. She thinks America means a better life. In the end it comes back to her he literally has kids and is controlling and selfish

[@ratedr9672]

He will never see Shaeda as an equal.

[@kombucha66]

I think shaeeda is for herself wether baby or bussiness

[@shellsdishes5585]

Either that was crap or scripted. Because her tears were very real and she says that's all she wanted in the end.

[@SweetestPrincessXOXO]

I hope people realize that Ed saying “she’s always in toxic relationships” proves that he’s a narcissist. He knows that but continues to be toxic to her because that’s precisely what he’s preying on, that fact.

[@iWillFightYouInComments]

Shes is toxic and clings to him dearly. She is clearly trying to marry him for his assets. She said that on boat that she can't do anything unless she marries him first. Ed sees right through her BS scheme and these emotions blackmailing is not working anymore. She is almost 30 and depends on others. Theres no way she loves him. Can't even handle criticism but loves praise only. Shes not even financially responsible let alone her taking care of her own child and now wants to bring the child and throw it on Ed whos not even the biological father. Her selfishness is another level.

[@reyprzz]

It’s so scary. She should be focused on her daughter, she’s so young who cares about a relationship if you don’t even have yourself together

[@jadyn4879]

@@iWillFightYouInComments Liz has her own place and job, she genuinely doesn’t need Ed, but it’s clear that she has VERY bad attachment issues.

[@ciattacarr942]

If I were Liz I been gone. Today together, tomorrow gave me back my ring? Who does that!

[@jakethesnakeslifemarquez8388]

Big Facts!!

[@YaaAgubyKete]

Honestly a woman like Shaeda, no one woman should stand up for her. She will ride for a man always until the wheels fall off and that means if you are her friend, dont give her any opinions about whatever relationship she is in.

[@stacyclarke9300]

Exactly shaeda big clown

[@Goldniz]

I thought the same thing… She worries her friend by complaining and yet when her friend tries to defend her she gets the heat. She needs to fight her fights on her own. Her friend got humiliated because of her on national tv, she spent so much time whining and complaining, and she uses her as her bulldog. Eutris never should’ve gotten herself into this mess

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

Yes, Shaeeda loves to be a victim always . Her friends should stop defends her

[@1_star_reviews]

As usual, she weaponized her good looks and light skin and her friend fell for it. 😂😂. I don’t see how her friend didn’t see this coming . I saw it coming during the first scene where they met up with her in NY.

[@angiewoodward7255]

Shes so full of herself

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

The love Jamal has for his mom is so cute he's literally always there for her🥰.

[@julietta2499]

I don't think it's cute the poor man feels he has to look after his mum because she is emotionally immature and not able to see right from wrong feel so bad for her son

[@PostUp_Time]

*JIMAL IS FAKE AS SH. DUDE ACTUALLY THINKS HE IS SOMEBODY AFTER BEING ON TV. JIMAL LOOKS LIKE A FEM-BOY WEARING SUPER TIGHT PANTS LIKE THE GAY PEOPLE*

[@jmm4259]

@@julietta2499 My sentiments exactly. If he is not careful, he having to constantly having to look after her fragile emotional wellbeing (given that she does not appear to be learning life lessons from romantic situation(s) and ignoring red flags possibly) will end up taking a toll on his own romantic relationship(s) present and future.

[@talcareyifill5937]

He told it’s just me and you

[@rosb8724]

Yall crazy. He's thing his mom she stupid, ignorant and embarrassing behind JUDAH. She wants the kingdom but sexing your way in is not it white girl ...lol

[@Katsluxurynails]

Jenny’s a gansta 😂😂😂 I love it

[@NoWayJose3456]

She is a trip!

[@cremebrulee4759]

Go, Jenny!!! "Where did you find this guy?" and such a great comeback, "They wouldn't even give you a visa.". Loved it!!

[@ramenn00dle76]

I love Jenny for how she handled Ed lol he needs to be put in his place more so he can get off his high horse.

[@kikieaddy2576]

Yea, that was good 👍🏼 great comeback ‼️

[@local.sagittarius]

if microscopic ed was a shampoo, he would be "head & shoulders"😂😂😂😂😂

[@SJones-Myself]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@krism5125]

Hhahaahah

[@lorrainecurran9157]

😆

[@ladytt9331]

Funnnnnnny

[@prosperousk5477]

😂😂😂😂 omg

[@YonUndone3064]

Wow, that Bilal guy truly knows how to manipulate his wife. Poor woman.

[@cathydinita2735]

Jamal’s a gem of a son ❤

[@insatiableivy]

Kim played herself more than what he did. She definitely forced her way into that relationship and he let her so he could be on TV

[@TiaNichole17]

I swear people be feeling bad for Kim but I don’t feel bad for her.

[@malachinumba1]

Yep she let herself get used & she wanted that Nigerian D 😄

[@mattisonjames5639]

Kim is too old and disrespectful. The first drink she threw on me I would have been done. Bilal, I can’t. Shut up, Ed.

[@mac1bc]

Yeah she just wanted some of him for a bit 😋

[@peonyflowers23]

Exactly, it’s weird that Usman is getting all the blame, what about the tantrums and throwing things?

[@hilaryc5210]

Yara Is so supportive and has her back. I love it

[@KRL1999]

Yara and Bilal actually have a lot in common! They're both in full control of their relationships and don't give a crap what their partner thinks!

[@nashae6292]

Bilal and Shae are not happy. You can tell. It’s weird. Shae will do anything to hold onto him because she thinks it’ll help her do better with her business. And he’s a controlling disgusting man.

[@jamessanders8895]

Why does TLC insist on forcing Little Ed on us? It's time for some new couples that treat each other with respect. Little Ed disrespects everyone he comes into contact with, and my family is tired of this sorry excuse for a man. If Little Ed is on next season we won't be watching, because abusers should never have a platform. He smiles every time he does something that will hurt and humiliate Liz, and that says everything we need to know about him. Rose Marie Vega should have her own show, her life has become so much better since she stood up for herself and dumped Little Ed.

[@Ljounieh]

Preach!!

[@iluvfamoussingers]

Little ed😂😂😂😂 u ain’t but it should be little big fat Ed

[@sofijalukic1599]

👍🏻👏🏻

[@michaelerhunmwunsee4345]

Damn Melicia Johnson is doing such an amazing job i have to say. The way she breaks down the scenery of each couples and her explanation are honestly too spot on and way in depth, i respect that.

[@sarahrean7174]

this is not her work alone they are team !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@themakingofgiulia2932]

She should be co-hosting with Shaun

[@danyelgarcia3689]

I agree she is always insightful and evenly looking at all parties. More than likely there IS a team and even a psychologist.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Big Ed got a whole lot to say about everybody's relationships as he gaslight, and lies to Liz all day. Worry about yourself!!

[@fluffytail6355]

Pred and Angela should both sit down and STFU permanently

[@jamiepoczyhajlo994]

I hate big egg such a loser!

[@cocoa_goddess6101]

Shaeeda is tired of begging and pleading Bilal. So she’s making moves and Bilal knows she’s getting ready to leave. So now he wants a baby.

[@MsTAAlex]

Sorry, I still think Bilal is manipulating. He's putting her focus back on the baby to take it off the finances for now. It's just delaying because you'll be back at not feeling equal with him, sadly.

[@googlepatrick6716]

Bilal is manipulative. so you are very 'high value' but you can't give your wife a viable allowance for herself and give her an estimate of your salary not exactly but at least an estimate. please buy her some popcorn from the cinema.

[@Yahookudi]

I think bilal isn't revealing his income because he doesn't make nearly as much as he pretended that he did! lol

[@Diana-bv8mg]

I've heard it said that "if you don't learn the lesson the first time, the lesson will be repeated over and over with different people."

[@BLUEORCHID67]

Omg Kimberly you did a great job raising your son , my one and only Son sadly was killed watching your son speak those words in your ear was priceless, you deserve a man who reflects nothing but respect for both you and your son.

[@roshanalall124]

My hubby doesn't work for much money but if we go to the movies, he would buy me pop corn, nachos chips and cheese and soda. I love him so much..

[@robyn220]

Kim’s son is such a good person and son. I’m be so proud to be his mom if I was Kim. She definitely raised him well!

[@daniaa1602]

he is just like usman lol but he just doesn't want people to treat his mother bad. he is a clout chaser and womanizer just like usman. I'm sure he is gunning for a spin off w him, his mother and whichever girls he is screwing at the time. he already said he is f*cking around

[@caroll9698]

LOL the irony is that he was parentified…which has really negative effects on children 🥲

[@michellefoote2158]

Kids aren't a product of their environment they acquire traits from genetics

[@pennyck9468]

@@michellefoote2158 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@robyn220]

I don’t know shit about them sorry. Apparently I was wrong lol. And I had a horrible childhood and was adopted….never met my parents. And my adoptive parents were abusive and my adoptive father was a con artist drug addict. And I definitely am absolutely nothing like them. I raise my children completely differently. So I’m not arguing kids are not always products of their environment.

[@missrobinusa1]

Girllllll... so happy to see you again. Watching you is like talking to my girlfriends but none of them watch this show so I'm nodding in agreement to your coverage as if you're my homegirl.

[@curlieeloks3032]

Yes agreed! Lol

[@sac967]

Love her insight! 👏 And I don't even watch 90 Day Fiancé anymore 😅

[@nickpassion123]

Same

[@Goldniz]

Bilal has the attitude of a guru ! He is so manipulative it’s exhausting

[@bestdays2776]

This is why you don't stand up for passive aggressive friends. They tell you all their business, ask you for advice, expect for you to stand up for their weak ass and then do what shaeeda did to her "best friend." When people come to me to tell me their problem I just listen and don't give advice or try to speak for them. Take care of your grown adult business and leave people out of it.

[@blueswadeshoes4012]

Who else believes Shaeeda wanted a baby all along and she just said that she didn’t want a baby to spear Bilal from looking bad on the tell all?

[@ddqio7774]

omg its definitely something she'd do for him. That's sad

[@stephaniekurisunkal8565]

Nope don't agree. I think Yara got into her ear.

[@Ami-rb2hu]

So she can’t just change her mind now? 😂

[@Messi..skill..10]

kim shows how modern women are......there the ones who leave then they complain they cant find no one lol

[@marig6202]

@@Messi..skill..10 stop copying and pasting your comments dude we get it…. well maybe somebody else will because i didn’t- but that’s besides the point

[@DontDooTooMuch]

I think it all boils down to loving yourself. And you're usually with the type of person who you think you deserve.

[@Messi..skill..10]

kim shows how modern women are......there the ones who leave then they complain they cant find no one lol

[@coolcutegirl123]

@@Messi..skill..10 s@@@@@@@@××××-@

[@droosyg252]

@@Messi..skill..10 *they’re

[@Messi..skill..10]

@@droosyg252 listen single mom if i say 4*2 is 9 u agree

[@kimstar4532]

@@Messi..skill..10 are you mental?

[@fromsilver5]

That was PLANNED. Bilal has been strongly rejecting having a child and stressing her out and didn’t care for MONTHS that that was something Shaeda wants. So that doesn’t even make sense that she would change her mind like that and that he would change his mind and then ask her for what SHE has BEEN asking for this whole time. No way. I think he’s trying to be an exciting couple and that was the point of that.

[@t.j.7789]

The show is all scripted and fake!!

[@shpresa0721]

Kim’s heart, love and character is truly shown through Jamal. He seems like a genuine man and was clearly raised well. I’m so happy they have each other ❤️

[@asiaafox8578]

I love how Jamal stood up for his mom

[@karenjohnson5634]

Kim is a great mom and has a heart of gold!! I truly wish she could find a man that’s worthy of her!!! She would make a great wife!

[@karenjohnson5634]

Kim is a great mom and has a heart of gold!! I truly wish she could find a man that’s worthy of her!!! She would make a great wife!

[@sashaeliot6074]

I think Bilal did not want to fulfill the 9 month ultimatum Shaeeda had given him so she just lied saying she didn't want a baby right now so that he wouldn't look bad during the tell all.🤨I mean we all saw what happened to him during the previous season's tell all. 😐

[@Sandra.-.]

Exactly

[@satomisuzuk4744]

What was the 9momfgs ultimatum

[@daniaa1602]

@@satomisuzuk4744 its a clause in their pre-nup. they have to try for a baby

[@girlhappy6442]

My thoughts as well

[@hamid6790]

And who's fault is that? Bilal has been ducking and diving the conversation from day one about kids, his done with kids, we can all see that by his body movement and facial expression ,he knows that this is his responsibility of emotionally/physically/spiritually financially taking care of the child, this isn't shaaeda's problem once she gives birth

[@NSheikhadam]

I honestly believe Shaeeda is waiting till she has her own money to start having kids, because of the trust issues with Bilal. Like if for some reason anything happened that she it has the financial ability to take care and provide for that child.

[@thisismyinferno]

@@ladywed2699 I think Bilal trapped her into the marriage. I think her faith is a huge factor in how he trapped her. I think he had her do a spiritual commitment before she even flew out.

[@brownsugga2584]

@@ladywed2699 exactly

[@samanthaluis5434]

@@ladywed2699 so true this reminds me of me and my ex most of the times it doesn't end well

[@SnowWhiteTheU2]

Liz isn’t addicted to the highs and lows of the relationship. She’s addicted to the cameras.

[@Missriroo]

Kim truly raised a gentleman ❤️🙏🏽 wish her nothing but the best she deserves someone who gives the love that she gives

[@LyricalHigh.411]

I don't like what his friend said about Bilal.. If he already experienced life by having kids, opening a business and all that then why would he get involved with someone like Shaeeda. She made her dreams loud and clear from jump.. He is wasting her time.

[@posthumanismkarma6120]

He doesn't want her business to succeed or her to succeed

[@noxxie1496]

-I'm so over Liz and Ed🤢. I hope we never see them next season. -Kim really played herself, Usman showed Kim many times that he doesn't care for her.... She was too desperate.

[@Godlovesme91]

Bilal's friend was really rude to Eutris ! It was uncalled for

[@trumpialightning1691]

I have to add that Kim really brought this on to herself and needs to learn a big lesson from "throwing yourself on to a man" all the time like she did with Usman and then get mad and abuse him when she didn't get as expected. She is as much to blame on all of this; Jamal was the only parent in this relationship!

[@Ami-rb2hu]

But nobody sees when they’re laid up in bed together at 5/6 in the morning remember 😂😂😂😂😂

[@trumpialightning1691]

@@Ami-rb2hu - Right! LOL

[@Messi..skill..10]

kim shows how modern women are......there the ones who leave then they complain they cant find no one lol

[@panterona]

THIS PART, everyone wants to demonize Usman but Kim really did this to herself LOL Like she was not a victim this is why i dnt feel bad for her.

[@pierschulz8795]

@@panterona Yes, but I understand her pain.

[@carmenacosta6703]

Malicia should be the one interviewing the cast!

[@Ljounieh]

Absolutely

[@123sabong]

Jamal is the only normal person on the show

[@Jess-cw9gi]

Bilal: Whatever she (Shaeeda) wants, she gets." Me thinking: except popcorn at the movies.

[@eugrah8870]

Big Ed just heard big words got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tofahub]

Melicia hit the nail on the head for me about Usman and Kim

[@Boobalopbop]

I hope Shaeeda’s serious about building her business, because having to ask your husband for money AIN’T it. I am a stay at home mom. But I have my own credit and bank cards. I basically buy everything the family needs and be trusts me because it’s OUR money. We are a family. To have to go and ask him for money every time she wants/needs some is ridiculous. That’s how you treat a child. So yeah, get your own money, girl. Buy you some popcorn.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

Totally. Modern Muslimaa are doing this either. Our family is shared responsibility between partners. Hence, most Muslimaa moms are working to contribute to the joint expenses. Besides, she is nearly 40 yo and expected to be a mature mother. She should embrace independent role as she wishes to be a mother soon

[@hunnybunny20000]

“Big ed just heard big words”

[@DrKGW]

When the friend referred to her as “The Woman” instead of by her name, that showed me right there what she’s probably going through off camera. He’s very controlling and high handed. The “woman” doesn’t look very happy at all.

[@Laura-qd5fn]

She totally faked not wanting a baby he made her say that to try improve his image, you can see it in her face and if she didn’t want a baby why would he ask her to have a baby 🙄 so obviously fake was just another stunt of his

[@melodylawson531]

I AM LOL when Jennings says hell no🤣 they would'nt even give you a visa!!!

[@sonjagrosse-broemer6493]

I thought Shaeeda had her own business before giving everything up to be with him. I am sure she knows how to manage money. Just another red flag...he just wants to control her.

[@violet18]

I thought so too. That's why I thought the ex-wife was being a hater when she was telling her that she didn't have any assets. I'm not sure what I'm missing.

[@abooki_omuati]

Shaeedah runnnnnnn. Runnnn girl. That guy is manipulative. When you can’t put both of your feelings and opinions into account for everything not just somethings then uuuuu nooooo.

[@MercedesDoll2012]

I’d rather watch this with Melicia than the actual episode

[@chrisr.426]

Bilal proposing a baby to Shaeeda is a great TV moment.. but I really hope she realizes that there deeply big issues and cracks in their marriage that they need to work on before they add the pressure that a baby will bring to the relationship.

[@KRL1999]

Yes, and that was exactly Bilal's reason for wanting to wait before having a baby.

[@krystinaland4137]

Girl hit the nail on the head. Sheeda still wants a baby but to say she don't is a dealing mechanism to deal with infertility. I know, I've been there myself. It's easier to handle telling yourself you don't want kids when inside you know you can't have kids. I always wanted kids but knew deep down i couldn't conceive. It didn't emotionally break me though because i felt God knows what's best for me. Fast forward and I'm 39 with no children but i hold no grudge about it. You see, i developed an unknown health condition in my mid twenties that stole my quality of life. There's no way i would of been able to be the mother i wanted to be if i had children because i couldn't even care for myself. I'm just now getting my health restored. So Yes i feel God knew what was best for me even when i didn't. If i couldn't be a good mom I'd rather not be one at all.

[@km4336]

Who said Shaeeda is infertile??

[@MrGuy-xx7ss]

She’s 40… she should have had kids 20 years ago…

[@cbgbstew4072]

No, she initially said she didn’t want kids. It’s in her first season of 90DF. Not sure how practically everyone has forgotten this.

[@PrincessAfrica3]

Thanks for sharing my dear sis ❤ may Jesus Christ heal and comfort you ❤

[@Naadirahp]

@@km4336 exactly she’s pregnant right now! SMH people love to spread their own negativity on others

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

So happy to see melicia your recaps always best thing that make the show better❤.

[@angelamitchell6657]

LOVE Malecia's hair!!! Too cute!

[@marybethjordan8520]

Chris +Eutrice sitting in a tree❣️

[@VFSharen]

😂🤣😂

[@aGwEENapple]

I very much appreciate this breakdown. I love seeing the love with Kim and her son Jamal. 💕 I missed quite a few episodes so this is great!

[@leveticus1461]

Bilal friend is toxic meaning Bilal is toxic too if he's listening to that nonsense. We will see how this marriage ends. It's not going to be a happy ending..

[@keatonbanta]

I hate seeing Ed go after Jenny. Also Shaeeda and Yara need their own spin off show I love seeing them together

[@fluffytail6355]

I love seeing Jenny finally speaking up for herself, especially to big Pred

[@noxxie1496]

They could make an interesting duo.

[@melvicci]

They each have a KZbin Channel.. would be nice for them to collab sometime

[@JFH-te4lu]

I agree!

[@melissas8626]

Kimberly truly has raised a great son!

[@ladycalderon2388]

You wanna know what really happened…. He made such a fuss about having a baby that it completely turned her off to her dream. I believe the thought of a baby now is replaced by trauma instead of her initial feelings. I only know this because.. I’m going through the exact thing now. All my life I wanted to be a mom…now I just don’t even want to think about it…I don’t even care anymore…it’s a hurtful but deadpan feeling… gos bless you gorgeous

[@starzgellizeau3663]

Jamal,.. a youth will worth and great merit... a son every mom woild pray to have.nuff respect 🙏.

[@kall_me_krazi]

Ed’s energy… if anyone ever challenges me or calls me out for any reason…. I will come at you sideways, try to manipulate you, twist your words, take petty jabs at you or insult you until you shut up because I’m so immature I have to have the last word because my inflated, fragile ego won’t have it any other way! Or nah?! Edit: I’m hopeful, but concerned at the same time. I am hopeful that Bilal’s gesture was genuine and not just because Shaeeda wants to be more independent and/or he feels her pulling away a little bit. Hope it’s not a desperation tactic that was smooth, but I am not so sure. What do you all think?!

[@suekelly3744]

Thank you you are the best at these recaps

[@malaika2863]

Shaeeda is very inconsistent. She flips and flops based on her emotions and opinions of others. When her friend defends her, she looks stupid in the end. She is the type of person who gets others hyped up in her defense, but falls short defending her own argument.

[@endoraismygma]

I think a lot of has to do with being married to a controlling narcissist. Not to say it's all Balil's fault but I noticed she changes her opinions on a dime with his influence.

[@kombucha66]

I agree with u

[@inggasmith]

Exactly 💯

[@inggasmith]

@@endoraismygma she's been like that since she's been on the scene at first she didn't want to have any kids at all. But I'm sure she realize 🤑 her husband company and worth and she get more with a kid. Ijs. She doesn't function like a Muslim woman she's too materialistic & breast augmentation.....mmmm nah

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

@@inggasmith Islamically, yes she is a toxic example of Muslimaa around 40 yo. Lazy to work full-time during her singlehood years in Trinidad. Waste money onto her ugly expensive purchase whilst purchase no bike and car for work. Not contributing financially to her household in Trinidad and she mis-used Islamic values to suit her greedy needs. She wants all the money but refuse to work hard for a living in America. Selfish and greedy

[@beeblake7591]

Kim still in denial.. she’s not leaving 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@teamcougars]

Popcorn is one of the best parts of going to the movies 😢

[@ladyyaya78]

Thanks Melicia!! 💕 I love your recaps so much.

[@Jojo-gg6jc]

Kim is so lucky to have a sweet son, Jamal, and that tells you who Kim is, she raised a good man.

[@Ami-rb2hu]

What I don’t understand is why Angela was defended by the cast and Michael AGAIN was the bad one 🙄

[@aliasteward9366]

After the way she abused him!

[@danabryant6138]

For him to say, "I am not the one who can not give the child!" As if a child is an object to parade around. They BOTH knew that Kimberly was not able to have children. He was using her, though. Of course he was; so much so that he had the audacity to ask to basically buy his nephew in order to get to America. Just gross and manipulating behavior. I pray for Kimberly that she doesn't go back.

[@oceanbelow]

The read about staying in toxic relationships was a WORD! …Thank you ❤

[@aramaijonassill7670]

Shaeeda absolutely does not need to have a baby with Bilal until he adds her to his account. The minute he has her trapped with a baby, he’s really going to start “teaching” her about money. By never giving her any. He’s the type of person you could never give the power of being the sole breadwinner. He will devour any sense of self worth and dignity she has.

[@Dataisthetruth]

When she does have a baby. Bilal is going to switch up. He is going to become controlling.

[@angelaoliver7776]

Totally, he's a narcissist!

[@aramaijonassill7670]

@@Dataisthetruth That’s the thing he already is. The Bilal’s of the world are the main reason the title stay at home mom never existed for me.

[@Dataisthetruth]

@@aramaijonassill7670 I’m not against the whole concept, but the woman BETTER stack as much cash as possible just in case she has to leave.

[@aramaijonassill7670]

@@Dataisthetruth Exactly. The problem is Bilal has such a tight grip and complete control over all the money she can’t even tuck anything away. He loves throwing it in her face. He’s the type to abuse any power you gov him. She understands that Bilal will leave her with nothing. The same way he threatened to kick her out of the car, is the same way he acts when it comes to money.

[@thepersonwithoutaname5449]

Bilal is a master manipulator. His stance hasn’t changed he doesn’t want a baby he just switched because he didn’t want the black lash and ridicule from his cast mates on the reunion show.

[@Dollsfromlondon]

He also did it because he was receiving backlash online.

[@BklynCapri]

He is a narcissist along with Ed, Angela and Andrei

[@Yawn54]

Yup, she will be a married single mom because he still doesn’t want a child.

[@KRL1999]

I don't know why he was even getting backlash for that. The decision of if and when to have a baby belongs to both people, not just the woman. He didn't say no, he said not yet, and she tried everything to pressure him into it right away.

[@xcheerxfreakx]

How does Shaeda not know how much money Bilal makes? That is a question that they ask at your visa interview to see if you have a bonafide marriage. This is also something you have to provide together at the NVC stage for your visa. Something is not adding up. Also they both need new friends. 😂

[@kerenclaudettehaynes767]

I was just wondering the same thing

[@fredziffle5219]

Pretty sure his income varies greatly month to month if he’s only in real estate sales, probably why he wants to be on tv & demands his wife make him look good.

[@brownsugga2584]

@@fredziffle5219 lol good observation

[@jdwrcc]

Shaeda will get what she wants, he’s okayed the baby,and now that she’s going to show him that she can make her own money, which means her time is going to be tied up a lot, which is way he didn’t want to have a child right away, she’s your wife she needs to know how much money you all have, is called security

[@kerenclaudettehaynes767]

@@jdwrcc Please do remember what your parents taught you, 2 halves make a whole... If you can't stand on your own you'll fall for anything. What

[@ashalanagreer4909]

Usman gets a bad rep and he shouldn't. Kim sought out Usman. She wanted to be with him so bad and gave him an ultimatum of being with her or losing their friendship (which he said he really cared about). She even pressured him to have sex and tried to buy his love. She even proposed to him first. I think he tried and tried to come up with solutions to make it work like trying to adopt his nephew. Kim played a big part in her hurt. It was painful to watch. I hope she finds love.

[@shaiyths]

Ed thinks he is the only one who can be rude. When people are frank about his behavior, he accused them of being rude, duh !🙄 🙄 😒

[@sierraforte3709]

Jamal really loves his mama he will alway be there for her

[@noodles5004]

Kim raised a real man there! What a gorgeous man who truly cares for his mother. ❤

[@fredziffle5219]

Must have been kim’s mother who raised Jamal

[@Vr4z1el]

Her son is exactly like Usman. He just uses women.

[@fredziffle5219]

NOBODY wants to buy popcorn at the movies.

[@sharonpatricia1335]

Thank you Melissa 😊 💓Alway listen to your 90 day Fiance breakdown.

[@journeymansmitty8283]

Well in Kimberly's case sometimes being in love makes us do crazy things but her own insecurity is caused her to put herself in that position😂🤣😂🤣

[@Lulumelon333]

Jenny from the block 😂

[@Ljounieh]

I'm so not buying this whole not wanting a child anymore. They just don't know what to do with this storyline anymore. Enough with them.

[@oceanbelow]

I do not even watch this show, but GIIIIRL!!! Your run down was amazing and enjoyable!!! Bravo, well done! Proud of you sis! ❤🫶🏾💐🤍🙏🏾💅🏾