90% Of People CAN'T Stop Drinking Alcohol. Here's Why...

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Sober Leon

Sober Leon

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@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
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@xanderguurink911
@xanderguurink911 3 жыл бұрын
.....Good approach, clear vid! Maybe another killer argument to incorporate? ......The addiction is in the genes, the so called addiction gene! Ever heard of? So you cannot help it! You cannot stop because you inherited it........The truth is that drinking alcohol IS stupid and a bad choice. But hey, that is Taboo.
@rachelJanaBartolomei
@rachelJanaBartolomei 2 жыл бұрын
8iioo9oju H .o
@scottlumbatis101
@scottlumbatis101 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 45 Years old and have been binge drinking on the weekends for almost 20 years. I've got 5 days sober in and im finally done with it. You're videos and podcasts have inspired me to give up something with no value. Thank You!
@yanghao8351
@yanghao8351 Жыл бұрын
How's sobriety going?
@CharlesHippe
@CharlesHippe Жыл бұрын
Hope you have continued with your sober journey.
@Mongezi44
@Mongezi44 3 жыл бұрын
Been sober for 8 years now, it still feels like an achievement when I look at my peers.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Boom!
@nehedith6897
@nehedith6897 3 жыл бұрын
im so proud of you. i am trying to tell your kind of success story one day
@yanghao8351
@yanghao8351 Жыл бұрын
WOW that is great! Your post is over 2 years old. Are you 10 years sober now?
@ilynpayne7491
@ilynpayne7491 4 жыл бұрын
I was in a car crash(DUI) last Sunday so have decided to quit drinking I almost died this is like a wake-up call
@UH60
@UH60 4 жыл бұрын
Why are you not in prison
@gyrgrls
@gyrgrls 4 жыл бұрын
@@UH60 Because another driver was DUI?
@noelr1010
@noelr1010 3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully nobody got hurt. Everytime you ever think of wanting to go back to drinking (because eventually you might get the feeling you want to drink) always go back and look at that accident as a 2nd opportunity. #EndSermon lol
@daltonfries3931
@daltonfries3931 3 жыл бұрын
@@UH60 ummm maybe because you don’t go to prison for a dui lmso you go to jail and can get bonded out after 48 hours for a DUI so. Tf lmao
@Erik-zo9th
@Erik-zo9th 7 ай бұрын
@@UH60 Pretty stupid comment
@neddyknacker
@neddyknacker 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone else got loads of spare cash since they stopped boozing? 😂
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Tonnes more!
@JonnyElk
@JonnyElk 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. Been able to take couple great holidays since quitting two years ago. Unreal the money you save which is probably why the drinks industry wants every individual on earth to keep on downing their poison!
@stevebonella1
@stevebonella1 4 жыл бұрын
@@JonnyElk Of course, WTF else?
@craiganthonyhill
@craiganthonyhill 3 жыл бұрын
God bless lockdown, 9 weeks in feel great 👍
@Riddingwithvivian
@Riddingwithvivian 3 жыл бұрын
Shit yeah...I was able to buy 450 sq meter house with the extra cash after a year of quit. Thank fucking god!
@charlyb7231
@charlyb7231 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Leon. I am new to your channel. I found you 2 days ago and I haven't been able to stop watching you! Thank you so much for doing this for us. Thank you for dedicating your time to helping others. I'm actually excited to stop alcohol now, whereas I've usually been so worried. I've failed time and time again but now I have hope and confidence that I can do this. I used to be a smoker and one day I just quit cold turkey and never looked back. For me it was easier to quit cigarettes because they don't really do anything for you. I think one of the reasons people are more addicted to alcohol and struggle to quit is because of the affects. It's like drugs. It makes you feel good (for a while). It alters your mind and behaviour, whereas things like cigarettes and food etc. don't. But sometimes we don't realise that alcohol is a downer, not an upper. Thanks once again. All the way from South Africa x
@shannonnoah
@shannonnoah 4 жыл бұрын
7 months sober 😊
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Legend
@shannonnoah
@shannonnoah 4 жыл бұрын
@@LeonSylvester I was in the hospital from a bad case of pancreatitis and I knew if I didn’t quit I could possibly die.... it was literally that bad. I will never look back again. I’ve also lost 30 pounds and I feel great. Sometimes I get sad and feel like I’m missing out but I try to stay positive no matter what.
@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 3 жыл бұрын
Still sober?
@shannonnoah
@shannonnoah 3 жыл бұрын
@@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 yep! I definitely don’t want to die!! #soberforlife
@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 3 жыл бұрын
@@shannonnoah I’m on day 5.
@marcussy4151
@marcussy4151 2 жыл бұрын
It’s almost been 3 days for me and I do not plan on going back. Pray for me
@Erik-zo9th
@Erik-zo9th 7 ай бұрын
How's it going now
@10angrytigers
@10angrytigers 3 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree with this. Quiting drinking opened my eyes to how bad the social brainwashing is. Life is amazing without drink!
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Life is the best when sober! Glad you enjoyed the video 🙏🙏🙏
@nacholuva_
@nacholuva_ 3 жыл бұрын
4 years in and i’m sooo proud of it. i feel so healthy
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Good stuff!🙏
@fushion999
@fushion999 4 жыл бұрын
Very strange. I am on day 9 of no alcohol and was thinking of these concepts earlier today. Its 3:50am now and looked at my phone and saw this video and decided to watch. Very true
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Cheers Johnny! Keep it going bro
@JonnyElk
@JonnyElk 4 жыл бұрын
Just take a day at a time. Sounds cliche I know. But I did it. Well functioning big drinker but one day just stopped. Now two years and a bit on and never even think of alcohol. Just don’t so it today and that’s will be your new habit. Good luck
@gwillis01
@gwillis01 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Keep improving yourself mentally and physically
@gyrgrls
@gyrgrls 4 жыл бұрын
@@LeonSylvester Cheers? Sounds like a toast...
@christinemurphy4367
@christinemurphy4367 Жыл бұрын
I remember how much impact soap operas had on my belief that alcohol was sophisticated and glamorous. Thank you for raising the awareness that alcohol is marketed so well in our country. It is tragic the way this industry has poisoned millions of lives and created such hell on earth for those it hadn’t murdered yet.
@gurra1351
@gurra1351 3 жыл бұрын
I drink alcohol free beer nowadays. Apparently i just wanted the beer and not the alcohol. 1 month sober and going.
@james-hw2wo
@james-hw2wo 3 жыл бұрын
Same as that mate. Drink for that luxurious taste/feeling of an ice cold beer hitting the throat. Don't need the alcohol anymore
@thinkathena2
@thinkathena2 Жыл бұрын
Love, love, love this message. A few weeks ago I had a paradigm shift regarding alcohol. At age 61 and having drank for more than 40 years. I was able to just quit. The only struggle has been dealing with the annoying craving and figgyness that I had for a while, as well as a headache for almost a week afterwards. Now I'm fine. Thanks for posting this video - you nailed it.
@JonnyElk
@JonnyElk 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent vlog Leon! Like you, I stopped two years ago ... just stopped. Most bizarre thing that’s happened but I came to realize all the things you’re talking about .... the brainwashing and marketing machine doesn’t want humans not to drink. It’s a multi million if not more dollar industry. You figured it out, I did and life is so much better without that poison. Now, I don’t even think about it. Keep up the good work youre doing. I’m a fan!
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like we’ve had a very similar experience! It’s crazy, right? And, when you realise it all, you just don’t want to drink anymore.
@dradexx
@dradexx 3 жыл бұрын
Happy to see that quitting alcohol is getting hot in 2020!!
@carolselfridge6723
@carolselfridge6723 2 жыл бұрын
Day 36. Your method makes sense. If I get a craving, I watch your video. I journal. I’m not sick. The culture presents the idea that you can not relax or have fun without alcohol. That is not true. I like thinking of it as ethanol and poison. Other people might be bothersome when you quit. I’m no longer scared to quit for good. The cutting down didn’t work for me. I did quit for 144 days a few years ago and thought I could go back and handle it. The thought of quitting forever was just too scary. But now I’m not scared. I’m doing it.
@isaiahpeace6716
@isaiahpeace6716 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and for the past four years I drank. Unfortunately it's gotten worse, I drink almost every day. I buy one of those big bottles of crown and drink about half by myself. I refuse to live my life this way, I refuse to be a statistic, I can't end up that way. I want to live a clean life and I will some day.
@samobrien3829
@samobrien3829 4 жыл бұрын
Believe in yourself, and you can do anything! YOU are SPECIAL, never forget that brother!
@gwillis01
@gwillis01 4 жыл бұрын
Ask for help. Smart people ask for help with their problems. Work on improving yourself. Keep working on yourself consistently.
@airplanegeorge
@airplanegeorge 2 жыл бұрын
made it through day 4. Made it through the beer isle at the grocery store and my neighbor's garage where they were all drinking beer. STILL SOBER! (Oddly, they commended me for quitting)
@philparisi9175
@philparisi9175 Жыл бұрын
The paradigm shift of which you are speaking - turning the outlook from alcohol gives you something instead of taking things away - mostly is achieved when people reach their "bottom": when someone's life has gotten so bad they have little choice: stop drinking or die or life is not worth living with continued drinking. Accepting that fact is "surrender".
@13aBOC
@13aBOC 4 жыл бұрын
Allen Carr has been telling people all this since 1983!
@eriaku4825
@eriaku4825 3 жыл бұрын
Last week I decided to stop drinking for ever and ever, but I had a relapse after 6 days. I've been an alcoholic for 12 years, tried to stop drinking so many times but I fail every time I try. Last weekend when I had my last relapse, I was so needy for a drink and thought about committing suicide because life wasn't important for me while I was sober, I called a friend a mine for help, went to the IR and they gave me some shots a drugs to calm me down. The psychiatric gave me two solutions, first one is to keep drinking, second one is to be hospitalize so they can control me and force the sobriety on me. I'm scared to be hospitalize and take all the drugs they will force in me, now I chose the first choice which is to keep drinking. I don't wanna drink anymore, I wanna quick drinking and still be working like anyone else, but the option to be hospitalize for a month or ever more, it scares me. Anyone have anything to say to me? Any suggestions? Your prayers may help. Thank you for your time to read my post.
@cannabis478
@cannabis478 5 ай бұрын
You got this buddy
@sara61696
@sara61696 4 жыл бұрын
Hope your channel blows up soon - such true points 👌🏼
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sara! Feel free to share the video with a friend :)
@marcussy4151
@marcussy4151 2 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy because my father has been an alcoholic but I’ve never drink alcohol 2 nights in a row in my life. Definitely have never in the morning time ever. I’ve had a problem with marijuana though and I haven’t been a week without it in 3 years now
@siddharthasircar5440
@siddharthasircar5440 3 жыл бұрын
I am just 2 days sober, but i plan on going the longest yard, since i am now into high intensity heavy training at the gym
@Clara-th2tg
@Clara-th2tg 3 жыл бұрын
You can do it you got this
@siddharthasircar5440
@siddharthasircar5440 3 жыл бұрын
@@Clara-th2tg thank you
@bradysully5755
@bradysully5755 4 жыл бұрын
I have rarely ever drank for fun. When I’m at a party and I’m in a good mental state I don’t drink. When I need to cope with my anxiety and depression I drink. I take medication (for 2 years now) and to this day I only drink bc I still feel hopeless. Alcohol is a good distraction unfortunately. I don’t see it as a problem but I should really come up with a better plan.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Time to come up with a better plan then!
@TJGAMINGSCOTLAND
@TJGAMINGSCOTLAND 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate, nobody chooses to drink and become addicted for no reason. We get addicted because of traumatic events and before we know it we've played with the fire and we get burned. It is a horrible vicious cycle and it is heart breaking with the addiction itself and how many lives it takes. This guy is correct, it's a poison and an addictive one for that and there is a lot of negative energy on it as well which causes relapses and lapses depending on the person.
@KanwarAnand
@KanwarAnand 3 жыл бұрын
The Best months I've had over the past few years in my business were 80% the ones where I was sober. I feel as an alcoholic I'm only applying myself 50% as half the week goes on with hangovers and days where I want to leave from work early and days where I don't go to work. How strange.
@karencraver7253
@karencraver7253 2 жыл бұрын
Aa doesn't say your the problem they say your thinking is the oroblem.
@noelr1010
@noelr1010 4 жыл бұрын
Nowadays it's so normal to hear someone say .. so and so happened, I need a drink. Looking at it now this is equal to saying... so and so happened that's stressful, let me take my mind from it by drinking something harmful to my body.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Corvid_Moon
@Corvid_Moon 3 жыл бұрын
"I had a very rough day. I'm going to go inject some heroin" "Okay honey, just be sure to be back by ten to put the kids to bed" In terms of destructiveness, it's essentially the same, it's just that one is normalized more than the other. What a world we live in . . .
@Samschwab10
@Samschwab10 3 жыл бұрын
26 and just woke up drunk. I’m ready for this to be the time I beat this. This isn’t living.
@Samschwab10
@Samschwab10 3 жыл бұрын
32 days strong 💪
@johnlocke1977
@johnlocke1977 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, it's not that i can't stop drinking or even need to consume everyday but when i do go out, whether to Uni, or with friends, 1 turns into 10 and i hate myself the subsequent day.
@brandiduck23
@brandiduck23 3 жыл бұрын
Having support from people that's in your circle of life is very important for recovery , if there is no support you have to distance yourself from that element!! Everyone is different on how they recover , been 4 years of my transformation of not being dependent on alcohol . Seen alot of peeps on here months ago hopefully you guys are still keeping up with sobriety !!so much to say thanks for the video !!!
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Umekias_Corner
@Umekias_Corner Жыл бұрын
I’m 3 weeks and a day without alcohol and yesterday was the first day my body felt jittery and restless….mentally I didn’t want alcohol but my body had other plans…smh …I made it thru but boy was it a bit difficult
@joshgreer3527
@joshgreer3527 Жыл бұрын
That's usually about the time it gets me 3 weeks or 5 weeks day 2 again I'm trying to quit drinking again I'm down to almost nothing half pint or pint wiskey every few weeks or month sometimes its more the bad sleep and colitis causes me the most problems on vivitrol now but it still doesn't seem to matter with cravings after a month mine get bad been awake watching stop drinking videos all night was wondering the closer you get to a month are you drinking less but still feel bad I don't even get drunk on a half pint but feel crappie for a few days but no cravings
@billmoore1936
@billmoore1936 Жыл бұрын
You can is just will power and nothing else don’t start getting side track think positive best of luck Bill
@david-lt9wj
@david-lt9wj 3 жыл бұрын
Keep away from alcoholics....
@olly_evans
@olly_evans 4 жыл бұрын
GoT really made me think drinking as much as Tyrion and Bronn was something normal and harmless
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
I had the same thoughts!
@Sketch_Sesh
@Sketch_Sesh 3 жыл бұрын
And then you wake up from having a 3 way with dwarf prostitutes?
@anav587
@anav587 3 жыл бұрын
It was in medieval times, life sucked a lot more then
@andimatt7232
@andimatt7232 4 жыл бұрын
After 15 years of abuse it finally clicked and I got sober with your free content here on YT. I know this might not be the best for your business model haha buutttt ... thx man!!! The FPT worked for me AND by seeing that I am not the problem or let's put it that way: People in general aren't the issue, it's the highly addictive drug called alcohol. It's like shooting up heroine and call yourself weak-minded for not resisting it. Nodoby would think that way. AND in addition to that: When you think that you are the issue, you also think that it's okay to try moderation, because maybe this time you can handle it. Maybe this time moderation works, because you are the problem, not the alcohol. When seeing it soberclear (^^) by understanding that alcohol is the problem and always was you are feeling like you have exposed a liar. It is THAT clear. I have no cravings or wishes drinking it again because I see clearly now that it is not rational putting toxins in my body and talk myself down for not handling them right. That's BS and everybody who thinks that they are the issue ... OOOHHHH LORD :D Btw, my drinking habits were pretty severe for me personally, 2 or 3 bottles of redwine a day, that was my poison. In addition to that I began skating again and fulfill my life with a purposeful meaning.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Andi - that's incredible to hear. Don't suppose you are on Facebook? If so, drop me an email with your account. I've got something to share with you - leon (at) soberclear.com
@andimatt7232
@andimatt7232 4 жыл бұрын
@@LeonSylvester Thx man ^^ I wrote you an e-mail :)
@samobrien3829
@samobrien3829 4 жыл бұрын
Believe in yourself, and you can do anything! YOU are SPECIAL, never forget that brother!
@MrCobusOosthuizen
@MrCobusOosthuizen 4 жыл бұрын
dude how did you do it??? I'm running on 18years and can't for the life of me stop.
@hbpencils3222
@hbpencils3222 3 жыл бұрын
I stopped drinking for three weeks and was really proud but then I drank a bottle of wine last night, and some other stuff. I think other drinkers is my biggest problem I’m 18 and drinking is so normalised in my family they get offended that you want to stop :(( I’m trying not to beat myself down though just going to start the clock again and I hope I can go longer this time 🤍
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Keep going!
@Username_Invalid
@Username_Invalid 3 жыл бұрын
Don't give up. Don't be like me and wait till your 31. Be stronger than your family and be stronger than your friends. Don't let anyone make decisions for you.
@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071
@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071 4 жыл бұрын
Leon my friend you be rockin it! Glad you are still sober! We stay sober because it is BETTER! I have come to understand not everyone wants to get healed they LOVE ❤️ their suffering and who are we to take that away 😂 Rock on my friend. lol
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Well said bro!
@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071
@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071 4 жыл бұрын
Sober Leon Just between you and I and I am whispering this don’t tell anyone I don’t particularly agree with all you say but I am all about anybody who is free from drugs and alcohol Keep it coming my brother you rock
@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071
@john-rodgerclaycountychron7071 4 жыл бұрын
One of my mentors told me that there were about as many Paths up the mountain as there were folks going up the mountain 😀
@craigsmith1365
@craigsmith1365 3 жыл бұрын
20 yrs. sober and I couldn't have done it without AA. Try it and quiet down,man. Find a support system and enjoy the spiritual journey
@anthonymedlin3569
@anthonymedlin3569 3 жыл бұрын
I do agree that once you stop drinking, you shouldn’t be going around “I’m an alcoholic” really your defined by something you use to do? Hell maybe you could say “I’m recovering from alcohol addiction” however I disagree with you that only the drug is the problem. Usually when addiction takes full throttle it’s because we have some issues we need to address in our thinking, and some healing we need to do from bad decisions. AA is a double edged Sword it’s deeply helpful for people to have a community, and that the community is typically very helpful towards each other. However It’s unhelpful that that community, tells each other their always alcoholics and something is deeply wrong with them internally. Often times they will refer to their “alcoholic minds” and “disease” even when it doesn’t pertain to alcohol but when they do something or think something stupid. What AA’s are taught is horrible.
@justincase7524
@justincase7524 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as I hear anyone saying that alcohol is just a poison and doesn’t actually provide anything I realize they have negated the dopamine/motivation circuit. A lot of alcoholics can’t even get moving at all, ie paralyzed with no motivation meaning and purpose. The alcohol provides a blip of euphoria and dopamine to start and the brain/mind knows that unless you can brainwash hypnotize yourself somehow to negate that fact. The brain at that level that’s calling for the happy chemical reaction can’t just be “talked to” or “re-educated” regardless of what this person saying. What happens most often is a temporary excitement and dopamine from the idea of being sober and productive and loves comes in and pushes out the bad stuff. But life is hard and reality often causes a breakdown of that temporary state and people default back to a drinking cycle they are familiar with.
@sarahblaquiere3121
@sarahblaquiere3121 Жыл бұрын
AA's philosophy can be very disempowering. The very first step is to admit to being powerless over alcohol! Obviously, there are some people who do need that intensive support to manage themselves - but what evidence there is suggests that AA only works for about 5% of the people who start in the 12-step program.
@Knight766
@Knight766 4 жыл бұрын
Still struggling a bit but not far from letting go of the habit. Thx for this
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Watch some more vids Jimmy!
@Knight766
@Knight766 4 жыл бұрын
@@LeonSylvester 💯
@brendangallagher5336
@brendangallagher5336 Жыл бұрын
Leon I just want to say thx for all these videos. You are so spot on with all of this. Quitting is not about giving something up, it’s about taking everything back, your life. I quit drinking 6 months ago. Reframing the mind and seeing it for what it is inspires me to never wanna drink again. So far i’ve been very successful. Alcohol no longer serves any purpose in my life and i’m me again. I dont have an problem, I had an issue. The issue was this addictive poison.
@ПламенСлавчев-о2и
@ПламенСлавчев-о2и 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! This video really makes me realize what actually is the problem with me and the alcohol....
@nw8000
@nw8000 4 жыл бұрын
Ethanol does not taste like Beer, Wine or Hard liqueur THATS the real problem...
@gyrgrls
@gyrgrls 4 жыл бұрын
Right! It tastes like vodka! Ha ha ha ha ha
@cptings3396
@cptings3396 3 жыл бұрын
i just stopped & had no problems because i got over drug addiction..good video...
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Hell yeh
@mtburton909
@mtburton909 4 жыл бұрын
I am an addict an still struggling, but I don't think I have a drinking problem, I have a thinking problem and just morbid and depressed.
@travisirish354
@travisirish354 4 жыл бұрын
I have both and I agree it really does suck
@mtburton909
@mtburton909 4 жыл бұрын
@@travisirish354 It does suck to be detramentally depressed and hopefully spelt right? I could get a couple of drinks fast, but sobriety isn't the opposite of addiction.
@mtburton909
@mtburton909 4 жыл бұрын
Johann Hari does explain it very well though.
@travisirish354
@travisirish354 4 жыл бұрын
@@mtburton909 yeah true that
@mtburton909
@mtburton909 4 жыл бұрын
@@travisirish354 We do suffer as addicts. I'm sorry, if you are an addict or not? Johann Hari, and love Craig Ferguson's stand up speech on the late night show.
@maenad1231
@maenad1231 11 ай бұрын
I also think there’s a sixth factor that’s very major and it’s being set in your ways. I had my last drink shortly after turning 24. Leon stopped drinking at age 25 (I think?). Mid twenties (23,24, 25,26) feels like an ideal age to escape from the “Ethanol Matrix”. Leon may of experienced it to some extent because of how many years he was a drinker (starting as an underage adolescent) but age really matters. Twenty-somethings _(especially mid twenties because you are usually more dedicated to health conscious lifestyle and not as easily influenced by peers as in early twenties. But late twenties starts pushing it)_ are significantly less set in there ways compared to someone ten years older and exponentially more open to changing their behavieosb and shifting their world view than someone 15-25 years older.
@AshSmash123
@AshSmash123 2 жыл бұрын
Why I can't and have not been able to rid the drink from my life, which I've been telling myself I will for 10+ years myself!. Been able to have long & short stints of abstinence, yet I cannot get a stable diet going in the process. Just over eat. So I'm always trying g to fill a hole! unfortunately
@natashalove7107
@natashalove7107 3 жыл бұрын
does this works for anger or anger management?
@danielgraybill968
@danielgraybill968 4 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel and love your positivity and find you extremely motivational. I really need someone to help me unlearn the lies I’ve unknowingly have believed. Thank you for being real and making this simple!
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure DANIEL!
@TJGAMINGSCOTLAND
@TJGAMINGSCOTLAND 3 жыл бұрын
The hardest part is your "dark place". I feel like I'm in the intro of Resident Evil 1 ( PS1 Version) just wandering through the woods and hoping someone will be there when I turn on my flash light searching.
@colemanharris5950
@colemanharris5950 4 жыл бұрын
I either don’t drink or I finish a 375 mL of liquor at least. It just doesn’t make sense to halfway do it. I’ve always been that way with anything mind altering. 🤕
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Got you!
@gailmc2458
@gailmc2458 3 жыл бұрын
I was about to type the exact comment, I think he’s read the Alan Carr easy way book, word for word he’s saying the same thing
@karla26495
@karla26495 4 жыл бұрын
pure gold info!! you are a genious and are really helping a lot of people, at least to be AWARE of their choices!!! THANK YOU LEON!
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Karla! We always have a choice my friend! Good to see you here!
@vincentm.7462
@vincentm.7462 2 жыл бұрын
I drink every day. High functioning alcoholic, cook for 150 people a day and I can do it better than someone who isn’t buzzed by 11 am but I still want to stop. A pint a day gets pricy even though I’m making over $50000/yr
@guitarreilly
@guitarreilly 2 жыл бұрын
yeah but you can not deny AA has helped millions of people. Some people are literally powerless over alcohol and need that support network and spiritual help
@dradexx
@dradexx 3 жыл бұрын
Great video by the way!! Very eye opening!! i had already heard the idea that you can simply stop by deciding that you are no longer someone who drinks or does drugs. It really is that simple and that fast. You simply say to yourself that you are not someone who drinks alcohol anymore. at first it sounds simplistic. there is some will power involved at first but eventually it feels like more of a paradigm shift than will power. trust me!!
@chandabatra8805
@chandabatra8805 3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is a heavy drinker. I try to convince him that he has a problem. Unfortunately nobody around him detects his problem and encourage him to drink more with them. I have tried to make him watch one of your videos, but he isn't interested. Should I wait for him to realize and fight for himself with the problem or is there anything I can do for him?
@versatilehumanbeing6013
@versatilehumanbeing6013 3 жыл бұрын
Me too i suffer from alcohol addiction 😔
@SketcherMan2
@SketcherMan2 3 жыл бұрын
Everything bad in my life was due to alcohol. My life is so much better now after l quit. l think alcohol causes insanity.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
I think so too!
@marconeevaristoaraujopaima710
@marconeevaristoaraujopaima710 3 жыл бұрын
Great video, man! Thanks!
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 4 жыл бұрын
I hate the effect being a heavy drinker has on my health, but life is just so bad sober.
@noelr1010
@noelr1010 3 жыл бұрын
Life is what you make it, remember that. And being drunk pushes a fake feeling if things beign good. Instead of fixing your shitty situation. You can do it
@KanwarAnand
@KanwarAnand 3 жыл бұрын
Considering quitting my alcohol journey on KZbin and renaming myself to Sober Kanwar.
@Jim1971a
@Jim1971a 2 жыл бұрын
Thinking about previous failures and reasons why you do or don’t drink is worthless.
@luthier78
@luthier78 3 жыл бұрын
how about bizzarre cravings like you do not feel any kind of desire for 1/2/3 months even then suddenly a thought : a glass ? some good red wine a glass followed by a binge drinking of 1week or more drinking multiple wine vodka beers every day and then for no reason all as arrived with a thought leaves with no reason. Till the next round months later ? Happens to any of you does this has a name ?
@UnPhAzD91
@UnPhAzD91 3 жыл бұрын
Got into a car crash on April 14th Stopped drinking for 15 days Starting drinking again. I want to stop now but I don't want to go through the shakes and the feelings of not having alcohol. Any tips
@saharahmadi5283
@saharahmadi5283 3 жыл бұрын
I used to drink every day, sometimes all day long to forget my problems and pains, but the next day all my problems and pain were still there.So one day i just decided I won;t drink anymore and that day was jan, 3rd 2021. Of course I prayed to god a lot too to be able to stop. Those gravings will be always there, but it is has been 10 months I haven't drink .life is full of stress and worries and most of the times we believe alcohol will fix that ,but it doesn't. the first 2 to 3 months will be very hard, then it gets earlier. wish you best of luck and just believe in yourself that you can do it .
@UnPhAzD91
@UnPhAzD91 3 жыл бұрын
@@saharahmadi5283 I just made it too 107 days when I relapsed. I was just now sitting here thinking about how I need to stop drinking
@craiganthonyhill
@craiganthonyhill 3 жыл бұрын
Never cared about marketing, looked for the strongest, cheapest Never told people I wanted to quit, because I know they don't Most think its normal, thats what I saw. You fail, because you think your better, and its ok to start again Reasons for not stopping, hang overs , after affects, DTs I'm now 9 weeks free If alcohol had not after affects ??
@cajunkarl4828
@cajunkarl4828 3 жыл бұрын
Alcohol is the Devi- I was a damn fool now I am struggling
@suckyourmother29
@suckyourmother29 2 жыл бұрын
I’m drunk and drinking while watching this but I’m going to stop tomorrow!!!! LongLiveJayden
@cornellscott2666
@cornellscott2666 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video.
@JusZard
@JusZard 3 жыл бұрын
Hey mate I’m from America born and raised , I agree with your point in some aspects, but what happens when your not just a drinker but your actually physically and mentally and dependent
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Depends! If you’re really worried about being physically addicted, see a doctor!
@gailmc2458
@gailmc2458 3 жыл бұрын
Love you’re enthusiasm but you clearing quoting every step of the Alan Carr easy Way method ( you can just buy the book)
@igorscherer2191
@igorscherer2191 3 жыл бұрын
Valuable stuff here. Thank you, Leon.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it🙌
@samihassel5681
@samihassel5681 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be surprised if the aa meetings are an alcohol industry plot to make sure that no one blames alcohol for the problems it causes...
@mattclancy3629
@mattclancy3629 3 жыл бұрын
I came across your this video looking for help an education for my current drinking habit that I have re developed during my later years.. I played it an halfway through the video. I decided to pause it an give it a like an a subscribe to it. An I saw only 13k subscribers. I was expecting atleast 100-250k subscribers. Due the content being that good. I’m glad I have discovered you. Enjoying the video.
@derekhughes5730
@derekhughes5730 3 жыл бұрын
You are correct, understanding is key. The red pill that brings about realisation 👏👏👏
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌
@dempseyrollboyfanforever6775
@dempseyrollboyfanforever6775 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly im still drinking and it's hard to stop,kinda feel like a failure for being a drunk at 22
@machematix
@machematix 3 жыл бұрын
Even more to win when you get it under control!
@anthonymedlin3569
@anthonymedlin3569 3 жыл бұрын
Your right no doubt
@aletheajacobs3600
@aletheajacobs3600 3 жыл бұрын
Love it!
@zanegrider4765
@zanegrider4765 4 жыл бұрын
Great stuff! Very relatable. Keep it up Leon!!
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Zane!
@bigenergy3880
@bigenergy3880 2 жыл бұрын
i been done drink driving 3 x now which has fucked my life because i need drive to go work drive to calm down because its theropeutic
@peterpoc2857
@peterpoc2857 4 жыл бұрын
Allen Carr! =)
@nonenothing8648
@nonenothing8648 3 жыл бұрын
How much this program cost?
@trushatg
@trushatg 2 жыл бұрын
Why can’t I stop drinking?
@davidvoyager9396
@davidvoyager9396 3 жыл бұрын
It would be alot easier if it wasn't legal .
@MantisFootball
@MantisFootball 2 жыл бұрын
Me: I'm done with the ghoul. Them: It's good to take a break once in a while.
@janiprime
@janiprime 3 жыл бұрын
this is unrelated but are you a student of Sam Ovens?
@newguy3588
@newguy3588 3 жыл бұрын
you have inspired me to continue my quest. Side note: you have an amazing camera.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Cheers!
@kikbucket6684
@kikbucket6684 3 жыл бұрын
I just have to say thank you so much for this. It really makes me look at it differently and it makes so much sense. Everything I was taught about alcohol was wrong. Ths drink is the problem, not myself! Alcohol is not this fun, innocent thing that everyone makes it seem.
@kikbucket6684
@kikbucket6684 3 жыл бұрын
I also want to add that a majority of my family drinks. I was taught by counselors that it is a genetic disease as well and the fact that people related to me drink means I am "prone" to becoming an alcoholic. Now I realize I am not doomed to this "genetic family curse" and can feel free and not be powerless in my decision to quit. Thank you!! You're the best!!
@CrZY8650
@CrZY8650 4 жыл бұрын
How can I stay alcohol free during the holidays? bc there will be alcohol and others will drink. I know I just need to say no but I know I will be pressured to drink
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Video is coming soon!
@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100
@growsinhouseherbiculturali1100 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not the marketing, dude, it’s the buzz.
@buzzbonanza1
@buzzbonanza1 3 жыл бұрын
Sniffing glue, huffing gas, and shooting smack give a huge buzz (or so I'm told), but we're not taking those things up, are we? Why not? Because those things are harmful and drinking ethanol isn't?
@nigelmiller951
@nigelmiller951 Жыл бұрын
The buzz is so short lived,hence needing more and more and more like any drug
@issac8968
@issac8968 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks this helps a lot
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 4 жыл бұрын
Glad it helped
@versatilehumanbeing6013
@versatilehumanbeing6013 3 жыл бұрын
Help me please i am crying right now i suffer from alcohol addiction help me
@Clara-th2tg
@Clara-th2tg 3 жыл бұрын
are you okay? I believe in you
@versatilehumanbeing6013
@versatilehumanbeing6013 3 жыл бұрын
@@Clara-th2tg yes i am fine in order to get rid of anxiety i used to drink but now i have understood its just a temporary solution not a permanent one thnks for asking clara.Hows life treating u clara
@Clara-th2tg
@Clara-th2tg 3 жыл бұрын
@@versatilehumanbeing6013 yayyy that is so amazing im so happy to hear your success!!! ! i am also hoping to stop using alcohol for happiness, your comment gives me hope!!
@juqnvasil6104
@juqnvasil6104 3 жыл бұрын
Greatfull for thy 🌼
@ricardojaramillo1895
@ricardojaramillo1895 3 жыл бұрын
1 day sober
@Uvvibes
@Uvvibes 2 жыл бұрын
It effects your opiate and dopamine receptors in your brain it’s addictive
@harrytherat9830
@harrytherat9830 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in a pit. I can’t stop drinking.
@Star_07835
@Star_07835 3 жыл бұрын
Try naltrexone
@billbarden5442
@billbarden5442 2 жыл бұрын
Here for you. I am 60 and stopped when I was 25 cold turkey. Havent had a drop since. If I can do it , anybody can do it. I am nothing special - just an alcoholic. You are stronger than you think. You can dump the desire for alcohol on me. Spiritually, I will take the desire you have, into my heart and return it to you in the form of healing, love and light. I know it sounds wierd but what I am talking about is something called tonglen and it heals. Imagine your favourite drink is petrol - you wouldnt drink it because it will kill you. Pretend for 6 months Your subconcious mind doesnt know the differnce between the truth and a lie, Thats what I did. It works - its all in your mind Praying for you - you can do it Bill
@Goosemancan
@Goosemancan Жыл бұрын
Like sober leon he is coool
@pentleyholmes
@pentleyholmes 3 жыл бұрын
Yesterday was one year of no booze
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
Keep it up 🙏🙏
@dlvox5222
@dlvox5222 2 жыл бұрын
90% of drinkers can’t stop, or 90% of the entire population drinks and can’t stop? Title a bit misleading.
@davidurdahl6656
@davidurdahl6656 3 жыл бұрын
It's my sleep aid... Can't break the habit.
@LeonSylvester
@LeonSylvester 3 жыл бұрын
You can 🤘
@davidurdahl6656
@davidurdahl6656 3 жыл бұрын
@@LeonSylvester I know. I made it a year. But that was a pretty stress free year...
@saharahmadi5283
@saharahmadi5283 3 жыл бұрын
Sleeping pills are better ! trust me I used to think the same, but now I only take 2 sleeping pills lol haven't had drink for the past 10 months!!
@davidurdahl6656
@davidurdahl6656 3 жыл бұрын
@@saharahmadi5283 that's just trading one bad thing for another. You can fuck yourself up even more with long term sleeping aid use.
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