A Communication Skill to Melt Your Lover's Heart in 10 Seconds or Less

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LoveAtFirstFight

LoveAtFirstFight

Күн бұрын

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@andrewboyddotcom
@andrewboyddotcom 4 жыл бұрын
What an empowering feeling is to have the ability to recover your relationship. It means that you are no longer consigned to the emotional trashcan of life but now the power is in your hands. What an amazing breakthrough for me personally.
@ShakeMyWay
@ShakeMyWay 10 ай бұрын
Very nice! I love the way you taught us to appreciate with more description and specificity. Your way of teaching is truly a gift I appreciate.
@JoseVRKaiju
@JoseVRKaiju 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the first message. Damn i truly need it
@sophiashcherbakova2867
@sophiashcherbakova2867 6 жыл бұрын
Lovely video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you considered - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate after many years got great results with it.
@im_Spade_
@im_Spade_ 7 жыл бұрын
I would cry tears of joy if someone told me that.
@christianr.5868
@christianr.5868 10 жыл бұрын
I did this to my girlfriend for our anniversary and she loved it :D thanks so much bruze
@Madebyshikha-r5m
@Madebyshikha-r5m 9 жыл бұрын
Bruce you're amazing! This works ..as he entered the door I told I said "Did I ever tell you that you're an amazing guy and Im so glad we met?" It def melted his ♡
@jamesjiao
@jamesjiao 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I felt appreciated at the beginning of the video. I am gonna try this out with my partner. Thank you.
@TheCupcakeicecream
@TheCupcakeicecream 3 жыл бұрын
How beautiful was the message in the beginning. What a lovely man
@hannahben9774
@hannahben9774 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the compliment
@ruthreyes5563
@ruthreyes5563 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing these videos
@MrTikiShah
@MrTikiShah 11 жыл бұрын
Amazing videos! I love them all and has tremendously helped my relationship with my girlfriend. Thank you Bruce, you are awesome!!!
@MarionFiedlerMusic
@MarionFiedlerMusic 2 жыл бұрын
excited to find these words. I use them. in my own words. never take anyone for granted!
@michaelharting5400
@michaelharting5400 9 жыл бұрын
Great advice!
@ajm9593
@ajm9593 6 жыл бұрын
In the middle of this video, I sent a text to my GF using this approach and it's true! It made a difference.
@martzlavot7639
@martzlavot7639 9 жыл бұрын
I like the oil, gear, metaphor
@rechaelngurukie3947
@rechaelngurukie3947 10 жыл бұрын
great idea.
@moga4251
@moga4251 Ай бұрын
Very true words..thank you !
@grmpEqweer
@grmpEqweer 5 жыл бұрын
It's going to be very hard, but I will try this: I will tell him how wonderful he is, how much I love him and am grateful to have him...When we start to have a fight. And keep saying kind things relentlessly, not responding to the mean crap he says, until he calms down. And then we can deal with whatever the fight was about, when he's calm. He has borderline personality, so he really isn't steering when those reactions hit. I was looking for something else to try besides just going silent, mutually. This might work.
@bingetravelneat
@bingetravelneat 8 жыл бұрын
Superb video. really helpful tip.👍👌❤
@theultimateman7231
@theultimateman7231 4 жыл бұрын
Great video and topic. If you're being sincere when you give praise its a powerful addition to any relationship.
@debragrigio1495
@debragrigio1495 10 жыл бұрын
You are amazing. thank you
@pamelarobinson8214
@pamelarobinson8214 8 жыл бұрын
You are appreciated so very much for sharing your thoughts and guidance with us. Thank You.
@estherbamiloshin4525
@estherbamiloshin4525 6 жыл бұрын
This is perfect!!!! Thank you.
@agscheidle
@agscheidle 6 жыл бұрын
The background music during the samples cracked me up.
@seanpatterson8979
@seanpatterson8979 10 жыл бұрын
o my gosh thank you sur for this video ive been having problems with my girlfriend she is making desions out of the blue with me and hers relationship and i will take your advise that you gave the world and i thank you and please put up more videos god bless you.
@thinkjeremiah
@thinkjeremiah 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you. approaching repairing our separation.
@starlight9487
@starlight9487 10 жыл бұрын
I like this...I do this to him often.
@watermarchs
@watermarchs 9 жыл бұрын
I'm laughing by how much true words you have said, thank you very much :)
@AmyHuang2784
@AmyHuang2784 10 жыл бұрын
Love it, thank you for sharing these wisdoms.
@fran6755
@fran6755 7 жыл бұрын
Great video, finally a how to be specific video.
@beauabhishek
@beauabhishek 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@supernova5903
@supernova5903 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos... Thanks 😊
@nomenalovasoarakotomalala2880
@nomenalovasoarakotomalala2880 7 жыл бұрын
thank you so much you are so helpful and amazing to offer help
@johnandreyncollide4237
@johnandreyncollide4237 10 жыл бұрын
Really applicable , I'll always remember this. Thanks & God bless you more:)
@PoyoWater
@PoyoWater 7 жыл бұрын
Great video! You have earned my like and subscription!
@CallMeRush_
@CallMeRush_ 7 жыл бұрын
At the start of this video, I was literally answering everything he says like "Thanks, Thanks"
@johndonlon7780
@johndonlon7780 8 жыл бұрын
I think where you going with this is beautiful. An issue which comes up Alot is when someone very specifically complements their partner - is that their partner takes this as a cue to wage war - "Well, that's lovely - but you don't do it for me! I remember my birthday when you...ect." and they focus on all the negatives they dredge up from the beginning of time...deleting the positives, and in a way making themselves more significant - but in a really negative way? I wonder have you any suggestions when people come back with that response?
@britchlesbutt6519
@britchlesbutt6519 7 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@shaikhmahenoor1056
@shaikhmahenoor1056 8 жыл бұрын
Great.
@AbbyWang
@AbbyWang 10 жыл бұрын
Bruze, you're amazing! Thanks for these tips. We are learning from you. :)
@Evajeanfreedom
@Evajeanfreedom 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! ☺
@boosboos4506
@boosboos4506 5 жыл бұрын
U r Amazing really.
@nekofiredemon407
@nekofiredemon407 9 жыл бұрын
can i acknowledge two spesific traits in the same conversation?
@KatVegan
@KatVegan 9 жыл бұрын
I have been doing this, often, from the beginning of our relationship. Unfortunately my partner receives the appreciation, but has never learned to return it to me. At first I didn't notice because it felt so good to be giving out all of that wonderfulness. But now a couple of years in I'm feel unappreciated, ignored and disrespected. I have pointed out the discrepancy and how it makes me feel. He just refuses to give me any acknowledgement or praise. Any ideas?.
@northfield9529
@northfield9529 9 жыл бұрын
+Kathy J Show him this video.
@raydiancedangerfield3288
@raydiancedangerfield3288 8 жыл бұрын
Kathy J Check out the five love languages. Sounds like words of affirmation is one of yours but not his.
@Solar_Corpus
@Solar_Corpus 8 жыл бұрын
Kathy J Kathy please date me
@QLNcoaching
@QLNcoaching 5 жыл бұрын
You should get the book the 5 love languages. Your wife is not speaking your love language and your lobe tank is empty.
@QLNcoaching
@QLNcoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Or husband
@gerrimiller3491
@gerrimiller3491 4 жыл бұрын
Make your loved ones feel special like a kid eating cake...yum
@je3f0o74
@je3f0o74 10 жыл бұрын
Yeah, we are learning to grown up from you. Thanks Bruce :)
@corinam9191
@corinam9191 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this amazing video how do I get to be a positive influence to a guy I just met I don't know much about him but I think he is amazing to without sounding too anxious to please him
@dayleramsden9352
@dayleramsden9352 7 жыл бұрын
Should I be watching this alone or with my partner?
@YeRaRebreed
@YeRaRebreed 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😏
@sandiwhitten9497
@sandiwhitten9497 Жыл бұрын
Love Love Love
@livb4139
@livb4139 3 жыл бұрын
what if they think you're too clingy for saying that or that you're trying too hard and not being genuine?
@lianealiane9071
@lianealiane9071 3 жыл бұрын
I had a fight with my wife a few weeks ago so am just here to practice some new techniques i will use on her to welcome me back😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@siddhiarora3144
@siddhiarora3144 7 жыл бұрын
u r amazing
@omtatsatnamaste4780
@omtatsatnamaste4780 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bruce ! You are Awesome coach and I am going Implement this technique with all the people who I love including my girlfriend and children.
@muhammadnaweed1784
@muhammadnaweed1784 8 жыл бұрын
wow
@gryceciliespro4432
@gryceciliespro4432 3 жыл бұрын
My partner dosent want to learn this. He is constantly saying he isnt hat type,accept me as I am is everything he says and want. It breaks my heart , because I miss it so Munch,and at the same time there is som same because I dont accept him and his avoindant personality. I am so very depressed.
@missjrich2198
@missjrich2198 5 жыл бұрын
I know that I am amazing but I can grow to be better
@capableman4277
@capableman4277 7 жыл бұрын
I've done this exact thing. Didn't work!!!
@HenrikFromDenmark
@HenrikFromDenmark 6 жыл бұрын
Great intro - I just don't think that it will be good for me to read of the text from a teleprompter....
@yousef7x
@yousef7x 7 жыл бұрын
Me and my gf are together for 3 weeks now , we had fights more than married couples.
@capableman4277
@capableman4277 7 жыл бұрын
Joker Run now bro. It won't get better!
@MyTruckisabeast
@MyTruckisabeast 10 жыл бұрын
Bam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@rafaelg0225
@rafaelg0225 8 жыл бұрын
I think this might work in some professional couples with no kids case scenario, but its far from the truth of common marriage life. Also, every video I've seen so far seems to fix everything with sex rather than reasoning. With that said I appreciate the video and thank you for trying.
@luciana231100
@luciana231100 8 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@pedomydido6475
@pedomydido6475 7 жыл бұрын
I'm single I don't know why I'm here
@saharabduallah6349
@saharabduallah6349 11 жыл бұрын
Will this won't work if he treats me bad , im sorry but this is'nt helpfull at all
@lugs38
@lugs38 7 жыл бұрын
Thank You I wish my husband would express himself like that.
@centpushups
@centpushups 2 жыл бұрын
I just need some background music now.
@munirazaira5465
@munirazaira5465 5 жыл бұрын
The MORE sex part...😁😄😄😄😄😄😅 * . *
@KyleJ00
@KyleJ00 7 жыл бұрын
I've said that exact thing to my girl many times, but she still treats me like shit.
@frogger893
@frogger893 7 жыл бұрын
lol
@capableman4277
@capableman4277 7 жыл бұрын
Kyle Galiano I've done this for the past 4 years. Does nothing to her!
@nicktory8107
@nicktory8107 7 жыл бұрын
Kyle Galiano thats means shes shit and you deserve better. Simple.
@erikaerika7788
@erikaerika7788 6 жыл бұрын
Sad ,, who knows whar her issues are,, my guy does same (words of appreciation ) but does nothing for me , I preffer kisses hugs and compliments ,, he loves me a lot ,,different love languages
@psalmsworld7050
@psalmsworld7050 6 жыл бұрын
Kyle Galiano Exactly
@Deedeed33
@Deedeed33 3 жыл бұрын
Vague af
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