A Diplomatic ESTP!? | CS Joseph Responds

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

“They are hard on everyone else around them because they are hard on themselves.” Exactly. This is why I think I struggle with NP types in particular at times, as I cannot handle how sensitive they are to Si/Se. PUSH YOURSELF, COMMMME ONNNNNN

[@butterflyy909]

My boyfriend is an ESTP and he struggles with this with me. It’s extremely hard to push fast fear and crippling anxiety I don’t know why. Wish it wasn’t an issue! Definitely one of my biggest challenges - ENFP

[@aladdout9454]

ehm...is it not hard on Se inferiors too? cuz still low Se/Si

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

@@aladdout9454 it is, but they aren’t in my life as much, so I couldn’t speak about my experience with them

[@NathanaelNaused]

@@aladdout9454 Not as difficult with low Se vs Si

[@pinklasagna8328]

@@aladdout9454 low Se is not aware of their own comfort unlike low Si which is super aware of their comfort which high Se threats.

[@pinklasagna8328]

"Be careful you might get punched in the face" "Even if you are right" Chase 💀

[@ma_iii]

Its nice to have some estp content finally

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Self-acceptance -> ugh, why did this have to be the answer. My ultimate struggle.

[@ethtt]

I love how your conception of what The Manual is about has changed. It's a treat to get to follow your journey of understanding life.

[@Ununpentium]

ESTP here! Many very Solid and correct points, especially pleasing for acceptance that gives external self acceptance and the quality experiences. However I have differiert thoughts about consequences and fear or at least respect them (mistakes) very much in social Situations (a wrong sentence can cause a huge rift in a relationship, etc). When it comes to activities, though, you are very right: "it will be fine" is my Main thought experiencing things 😎 Thanks!

[@bibi_bear]

I have ESTP mom and oh my god as an ISTP it's the worst. It's like she doesn't even try to understand other people's feelings and absolutely doesn't understand personal space but oh I'm the "narrow minded" one. 🙄 So emotionally draining

[@jaycejugo]

blessed i’m hearing this at 24 before it was too late. you saved me

[@pinklasagna8328]

I always wonder why some estps are so emo after a breakup. Ne demon makes sense now.

[@aladdout9454]

Chase, does Te critic mean that those types are prone to being hurt by their low status/reputation and want to have authority/status? they are sensitive to people ... not taking them seriously perhaps?

[@urquanoverlord2538]

Sounds like Anakin, the alleged entp. Speaking as an (individual) entp, I would guess it might be a trust thing? Like, if we are competent but aren't trusted to take on the fit descision it may seem to the etp they are unappreciated or untrusted. Idk though.

[@malakashraf2801]

I guess that's more of te demon based on what he said , and about critic functions , it's more of irritation . I could be wrong.

[@Ishrat368]

I wanna know this too

[@cacorn982]

I would love to find a estp female to be friends with who's into typology but that is rare lol.

[@lizapavlova2396]

Found one, right here!

[@TOMESHTI]

@@lizapavlova2396 😏

[@cacorn982]

@@lizapavlova2396 ❤️❤️❤️👋

[@jaredvaughan1665]

Great insights.

[@knowthyself8186]

Last time I remember u mentioned u for some reason have been doing a lot of ESTP content at one time was like 4 years ago

[@rachelhunter541]

On quality experiences - I took my esfj friend and her estp husband to a concert a couple of weeks ago. The warm up act was very folky and the atmosphere was quite formal- he thought we were going to listen to a band in a pub. It was not what he expected at all. Anyway, his face said it all - he looked really ragey , if looks could kill, I'd be dead! He walked out and we had to leave the concert. My Se demon didn't really care, altho my Te child's nose was a little out of joint. This was not a quality experience. Never expect an ESTP to sit thru an experience they're not into. They will tell it to your face it was crap, and will not be diplomatic!

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Being a “walking reality check” means that you’ll dish out reality where it isn’t wanted. That’s rough. And I’ve noticed NP types in particular don’t want or appreciate it, even if it is accurate.

[@aladdout9454]

even Entps?? yeah ik a few childish ones but even the grown ones?

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

@@aladdout9454 yes. Adults are just as bad about it, just like I’m just as annoyingly unreceptive to Ni/Ne ruminations as I was as a kid.

[@pinklasagna8328]

We get an adrenaline pump and go to flight or fight mode when you guys do that lol. But keep doing it.

[@malakashraf2801]

Aren't you an esfp

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

@@malakashraf2801 I have since discovered I’m an ESTP

[@SantanaBanana47]

Would esfps have quality activities as a prefered love language too? Is that just like an Se hero thing? Do esfps force people outside their comfort zone too? I would imagine esfps do because of Se hero obligation, but just not to make people stronger like the estp would.

[@SantanaBanana47]

A video on the love languages of each of the types would be interesting

[@infinitezen10mm]

Awesome ❤

[@kaoutarelalaoui9790]

thanks a lot

[@MrMikados]

Is it just me or did the video start having lip sync issues towards the end? It is so disturbing.

[@jordanwood1635]

My wife won’t watch the videos where you are smoking a cigar any more 😂. She said it grosses her out too much. (She’s an ISTJ)

[@nickhyder9141]

It's mostly the exaggerated sucking that bothers me

[@honor9lite1337]

Not smart, you could just put it on audio mode while also taking note like me.

[@aladdout9454]

what type r u? also....karen lol 💀

[@jordanwood1635]

@@aladdout9454 ESTP

[@pinklasagna8328]

The most istj thing ive seen in a while

[@Mugzchunch]

Chase, my assistant manager at my new job is an estp I'm pretty sure and I love her.

[@davidesblue3865]

which cognitive function, serve the temple of the mind and body?

[@malakashraf2801]

There's an article on his website about the temples , it has your answer but i don't remember it.

[@happysky7964]

What are some “shared activities” that an ESTP would consider another person would wanna do?

[@emmaloraa]

This is true

[@Qualcoosadimisterioso]

Speaking of sensor-related questions: What do female ISTPs think of male INTJs? What is the relational dynamic? (Friendship, relationship).

[@ashuranero5721]

I think ISTP hate INTJs

[@Qualcoosadimisterioso]

@@ashuranero5721 why?

[@malakashraf2801]

As an istp female , I like you guys , you're smart , practical , can take my criticism without acting like a cry baby which makes my fe feel safe and I find your fi pretty endearing and adorable . Just sometimes I hate when you are a bit selfish , arrogant or manipulative , i can deal with it to an extent cause fe-fi dynamic but not TOO much as it's still an inferior. What do you think of us ?

[@malakashraf2801]

@@ashuranero5721 what's your type , and why you think so ?

[@ashuranero5721]

@@malakashraf2801 INTJ and i had more issues with ISTP and had ISTPs literally tell me in my face that they hate INTJs

[@sunsetmist7]

Can you please instruct Fi Trickster to stop talking about your wife? Like, at all. Just describe her as an aquaintance. Nobody should know how your personal relationships develop.

[@aladdout9454]

say wdym by "wrathful" and how are xstps not that but xstjs are?

[@urquanoverlord2538]

Istj+Enfp have the deadly sin of wrath, and Estj's Fe demon may play in. I guess wrath is more justice/vengeful?

[@SS-bu8ez]

@@urquanoverlord2538 What about xNTJ xSFP and INFP?

[@urquanoverlord2538]

@@SS-bu8ez in terms of wrath or deadly sin?

[@SS-bu8ez]

@@urquanoverlord2538 deadly sin?

[@urquanoverlord2538]

@@SS-bu8ez entj-isfp is greed. Intj - Esfp is Vainglory Infp-Estj is sloth.

[@kimtopology4257]

ESTP 'S know what they want and seize every opportunity that they come across they are charming people they are not boring and they won't put up with games they have the ability to know that someone is lying they are not nostalgic where are you getting your info ? Yes they can be blunt but if their Fe is well developed I watched a video on ESTP'S one works as a Social Worker so they are edgy but they have big hearts sounds like you wrote these types off .Not me I see a big heart under a rough exterior and can bring allot to the table as other types too I don't judge them as Jesus says stop judging or you would be judged .

[@davidpapojr8531]

i dont know i keep things to remember the events people im very nostalgic