A Major Reason Why Women Get Played

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[@somedude5553]

I heard the perfect analogy for how women view men. players are like junk food they look good, smells delicious and feel good at the moment but after awhile of being on a diet of junk food you won't feel good. but most Healthy food is bland does'nt always smell good or look good or feel good at the moment (especially if your used to junk food because the body needs time to adjust) but over the longterm you find out its the best thing you ever could've done for yourself.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Great analogy.

[@tararobinson6023]

Luv the analogy....100% truth💝

[@RomeoRoadmap]

Well said

[@Jader83]

Rom this is spot on. Women have to seek balance in the men they choose. Look out for that guy who is all about fun and pleasure.... when life gets serious they are gone....I always say this....its not just about how he treats you, also pay attention to how he treats those around him, parents, siblings, friends, children if he has any. Can you imagine him spending big bucks on you but not taking care of his child. I have a friend like this. She got carried away with how much he would spend on her and ignored the red flag of him not taking care of his child. Guess what? The honeymoon was over about two years after she had his child. Seek that guy who won't dash the moment real life problems come.I remember this guy that liked me, he would always go quiet when you try and discuss real life issues, he was real fun though. I did cut it off. It would have been a disaster getting pregnant by him. The bottom line is, until women learn to live in the real world and not a fantasy one; accept the trade offs of a real man, the good guy; they will continue to get played.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

I just recorded a video for Friday which will address these issues.

[@lavarism9661]

AMEN! *puts 1 dollar in church plate, passes to the next guy and he puts chicken wing in plate* 😠

[@tweetyslife253]

My hubby were mostly the serious guy when we met. I remember asking him to smile for me. He looked at me each time without distraction as if he breath only affection for me. I nearly let he go thinking it's too good to be true. I was the fun one but I knew being with him would mean it's time for me to grow. Yes I grew and I learn that in order for any relationship to work, it must be clear from the start.i use to give him rdv for 11 and showed up at 1, he never tolerated such thing and it helps me so much.

[@myluvisdivine8085]

My husband is NOT the fun guy. He is extremely practical. But he knows I like to have fun so he will ask me what I want to do and within reason we do it. Both of you can’t be “the fun guy”. Someone has to be practical and logical in order to balance the relationship. Balance is key. Good video.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Thank you.

[@joensleygarcia6449]

Well Said, when I present the real she run for the hills. When I present the fake they stay... Women decide the type of play that is her worthwhile.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

i fell for that at 23 and a half! it showed it's face almost a year after dating. smhhhh

[@raiders48gates5]

Brother Rom keep bringing these classic. Authentic the magic word.

[@foreplayfreddyp3972]

Claim she's a spiritual woman but have sex wit a man for months that want even "pray over his food"(say his grace) DAAAAMMMMNNN OG !! That was a straight bullseye ✊💯💯👑

[@user-msjazzy]

Facts!

[@therenaissance7158]

Shiddd I've never bothered too like that too find out what women wanted too hear I just tried too be authentic with mines.....

[@AtlantaAngel84]

No lies!

[@rmac8012]

Too many grown girls DON'T want to be realistic. Still concerned about what their friends think. It's easy to be the fun and entertainment for women but it's a stagnant as hell way to live. Handling business is not sexy these days. It used to be. Today 45-year-old women still aspire to be trap queens. An authentic man can't and WON'T compete with that. HE HAS TOO MUCH TO LOSE!!!!! It's embarrassing and exhausting to deal with a woman in her 40s still behaving like an irresponsible 20 something especially when they have kids. That behavior in itself leaves women susceptible to being played.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Real talk.

[@MikaB24]

ROM your spot on about players... lol

[@healandfocus22]

This channel is gold! ❤❤❤

[@MsJoyce31202]

Women getting played like some men get played. Don't know until you examine. Some are good hearted and want the best for this man and will help him by trying to change him or help him fix WHATEVER they can't fix. Trying to fix what you can't is a tough road to travel. Many reasons why including choosing a companion just because he chose you. Like a lady who is with a man that usually doesn't date women like her but this time he does. This shows me that unless he really likes her type he won't be satisfied with her, but she is still dating him. Now on the suggestion that a woman asks a man about his religious views, I couldn't agree more and wouldn't dare not find that out about him. (Does it matter that he doesn't practice a religion? If he does a different practice from yours within the same religion?). The ones I meet pretty much tell me about that....

[@DevinHaley1278]

This is good info for us ladies... good reminder

[@deannabarnes3771]

There's only so many games a player can run before one gets tired of him.

[@HacoHoncho]

Uncle Rom, I would love to know more of the psycology of a player. Are they just men who were traumatized by their early years on the sexual market place? Is it signs of narcissistic personality disorder or some sort of temporary narcissism? If a women views a man as a player to me she views him as higher value. What are some methods or tests to play back a player? What do players fear?

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

There are numerous reasons a man will become a player. Some good and some bad.

[@joefromdc]

Real conversations are spark killers lmao I’ve lost plenty of woman due to religion

[@salsaqueen4911]

Sorry had a guy inquire about me I felt a little strange that even though I spoke to everyone and him I found it strange that he didn't initiate after a good 5 to 6 month of speaking. Yes I was observing his behaviors and finally a young lady in this group stopped talking to me soon after I saw her playing hand games with him, then she started stalking both of us HOLY HELL. Another chick did the same stopped to me and disrespected me HOLY HELL AGAIN. A 3rd female was making sexual jokes with him I accidentally walk in on it, he bowed his head down when he saw me i guess embarrassment the chick that disrespected me laughter went south and the 3rd chick that was basically throwing herself at him walked away. All this quiet observation in a year's time. Yes I will say I did not feel like a priority just an option. Oh yea he still stare at me from afar with loving eyes ??? sad he lives by in the mean time and not putting all his eggs in one basket. I've been by myself for a long long time finished raising my now adult children , working out all my kinks so I don't bring in old baggage into a new relationship and also working on me physically and spiritually.

[@MsJoyce31202]

They want what they see and think they are right. He is chosen by her and he is mostly honest. He can hide some things. She may not check on those things based on the good shown to her. Be honest and ACCEPT honesty as you make decisions about relationship.

[@rochellethundercloud346]

Did you see that trifflin as hell,sorry blk woman literally demanding men pay her bills,on the first date. Tokyo tko has it,as does derrick jaxn

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, The main reasons weman get played is because she's inconsistent one minute she want this the next minute she wants that, thats when a man is confused and can't satisfy her he's on to the next just that simple because he's not trying to be drove crazy.

[@gregglass4796]

Darren Hawkins eew

[@MoveInSilence23]

🔥👌💯🙌👏💪

[@GnosticCushite]

Isn't a games-man a player? So how is he non-select. What the hell does non-select mean, anyway? I hear this term a lot.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

In book, Nice Guys and Players I put men into two general categories for dating, Select and Non-Select. The best way to describe the groups is that the select men get chased by women and the non-select men have to chase the women. Of course there are many nuances as this a very general description. Gamesmen are those type of men who doing whatever they can to get women including straight up lying and manipulation.

[@GnosticCushite]

@@helloladieswithromwills6426 Can I order your book at my local Barnes and Noble? I don't do online shopping. I need to get Rollo's book too, The Rationale Male.

[@nmc1859]

Lol do you believe 'the wall' is more about age, energy, or looks??

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

A combination of all these things.

[@nmc1859]

@@helloladieswithromwills6426 that's depressing. But I understand it well. Used to waste my time with older men looking for validation. Then one day I met my husband who's only 6 yrs older than me and he's been taking care if me, as best as he can ever since. I noticed him checking out much younger ladies (and even much older, lol!) a lot lately, though and it's getting harder to hide my annoyance :)

[@lorriekelly964]

that's. the. problem and. u. don't. understand. why. women. become to. hate. men .