A Message For My Fellow AlPhAs!

[@AlisonKenzoland]

When any person talks about humans as low or high value, that's gonna be a nope from me

[@lkeke35]

Yeah, that's an immediate red flag. Discussing the "value" of other human beings is a big "nope' for me! Its just trying to make discrimination, misogyny, and bigotry, sound logical.

[@Nerobyrne]

The only time that even makes sense is when you're talking about them as property.

[@xtinkerbellax3]

Loser behavior for sure

[@CarrieLovesLife.]

💯 Unfortunately men and women both do this. Speaking as a woman, It’s especially gross to me when women disrespect other women this way. We all want to think of ourselves as ‘high value’, (having worth), but our value and worth does not expand by diminishing the value of other people.

[@rappingbeaniedog347]

It always makes me feel like they're comparing themselves and others to some kind of livestock.

[@TheSuzberry]

“High value” sounds dangerously insecure.

[@lifeisamess8100]

"Feminist" also means the same + refusing accountability by always finding a way to blame men for women's wrong and justifying it😊

[@Amanita._.Verosa._.]

​@@lifeisamess8100 Yeah, that's not the same buddy. Feminismm is a reaction to toxicc High Value MaIes, it's not equaI to it. This is also an attempt at the FaIIacy known as Whataboutismm.

[@wartgin]

Yup. Anybody throwing around words like "high value", hypergamy, and feminist as a derogative (like our troll here) has a surface understanding of social dynamics (headlines not the actual research) and no understanding of actual feminism - only straw feminism.

[@lifeisamess8100]

@@wartgin Nope, feminist is a political term and whoever choose to identify as feminist r feminist. Y r u invalidating their views?

[@aeolianthecomposer]

Sounds like incel shit

[@sunshinelizard1]

Anyone who feels compelled to control their partner is 100% insecure. There are plenty of very masculine men who don't feel the need to control their partner.

[@lifeisamess8100]

Quick reminder- This doesn't apply to women. U setting boundaries and he expressing his discomfort and stress should be labelled as controlling. But when u want to overstep his boundaries, gaslighting him believing that his lack of transpiransy is causing distrust and cracks in the relationship♥️

[@Amanita._.Verosa._.]

​@@lifeisamess8100 Quick reminder, the reason this does not apply to womenn, is because womenn are generally not trying to controI a whole other person's entire life because they're insecure. He is not setting boundaries to protect himself, he is setting boundaries on what he views as property. This does not apply to womenn, because you do not have to teach an overwhelming number of them that the other gndrr are in fact peopIe with real feelings and everything.

[@lifeisamess8100]

@@Amanita._.Verosa._. 1st women r the largest pr3p3rator of ab333, so that "generally" is quite ignorant.

[@rosegolden8959]

@@lifeisamess8100 right...because DV and violent crime in general is totally something that is mostly perpetrated by women. Quick question, in this made up reality of yours, are men also choosing the bear instead 😢?

[@lifeisamess8100]

@@rosegolden8959Women r the largest preparator of DV and we all should be more understanding towards it as it's clearly is their form of showing love.

[@ohno6919]

I love how he sounds on the verge of tears the entire time

[@SophiaAphrodite]

Those are manly super-secure celebratory tears.

[@littleone31917]

​@@SophiaAphrodite ROTFL

[@serenajoy9060]

It was the unnecessary extreme close up that had me rolling. 😂

[@ohno6919]

@@serenajoy9060 Well that too of course

[@youdidntseeanything8589]

😂 yes!! He does it so well too

[@weotu]

I agree with that person that said they think in programming terms. An alpha is buggy and unfit for public release

[@lokicooper4690]

Hadn’t heard it put that way before, but totally correct. 👍

[@reformed_attempt_1]

In particle physics, an alpha particle has the least penetrating power

[@markey_reeves1186]

You are all great! 😂

[@Queenread82]

My eldest daughter married a guy that love bombed all of us then moved her away to another state and started putting her down, checking her purchases (what did you spend $1.78 on? ) discouraging her from working, then when she did it anyway (yoga instructor) started taking her classes, when they came up for family visits he would find ways to keep her from visiting us (he worked on their car with his dad A LOT). total narcissist behaviour. She is now with a humble, kind, sporty, intelligent man who encourages her to expand. (and he is super good looking!)

[@moonhunter9993]

Sorry, you had to witness that. Glad your daughter got out.

[@naomihatfield3015]

Jealousy does not mean you are “super committed.” Jealousy means you are insecure. Insecurity is NOT sexy. Under any circumstances.

[@daniellamcgee4251]

Vulnerability can be endearing and lovable, though.

[@jbach1738]

Absolutely dude. I was really jealous once. I was also super insecure at the time. Turned out that jealousy and insecurity was kinda justified, because my fiancé cheated on me with the pool hall friend I was jealous about. Several years later I finally grew up enough to be totally confident in myself, all alone, needing absolutely no one to fulfill my life. I confided this self revelation to my best friend, who was totally in my court and celebrated my self proclaimed freedom with me. We have now been married for almost 12 years. So I guess that worked out. Haha.

[@MorgainLafee13]

It is okay to be insecure - it's human! It's just how we deal with it that makes a huge difference. When you're open and honest about it, making yourself vulnerable, that is imo the best way to go about it. While trying to cover it up and kinda reverse UNOing it is horrible and usually toxic

[@MyWits_End]

I hear what you’re saying. I’d be concerned though if a person didn’t have any insecurities. That would be a huge red flag to me. No human is perfect or entirely confident. There is a massive difference between narcissistic insecurity and genuine vulnerability. Vulnerability is totally sexy.

[@naomihatfield3015]

@@MorgainLafee13 you are correct. I should clarify that it is making the other person RESPONSIBLE for one’s own jealousy/insecurity….that is where the problem starts.

[@lost_boy]

On some really distant, almost imperceivable level, you gotta feel a tiny bit sorry for these “alphas” and the hellish world of their own creation they’re trapped in.

[@nachoijp]

They do have my pity

[@whysocurious7366]

I feel A LOT sorry for them. And A LOT disgusted too.

[@skb4055]

Nope. I have empathy for the empathetic. If therapy could help these guys, maybe.

[@Wednesdaywoe1975]

Not really.

[@dragonreborn56789]

If they only did it to themselves, maybe. But they bring everyone into it with them, so nah, they get nothing.

[@Amanita._.Verosa._.]

Saying you're not insecure is like saying you're nice. If you have to say it.

[@markey_reeves1186]

Actions speak louder then words...It's comical that these boys love blabbing into microphones...Then again perhaps I'm to judgmental.

[@roxyndra]

Heaven forbid you're bi/pan, then they don't want you to hang out with ANYONE else. Shoutout to my last two exes.

[@A_T216]

Oof, sorry you experienced that, and I'm glad they're exes now. Insecurity + biphobia is a wild time to deal with.

[@markey_reeves1186]

😂 Did they try locking you under the stairs like Harry Potter? Congratulations on your break ups from fools.

[@NotMeTodayMaybe]

Anyone who thinks one human being has more value than another is a terrible person.

[@cat-vv9xb]

Well, I believe great people, like Marie Curie for instance, have far more value to society than incels/"alphas" that validate their own self-worth by abusing women. So no, the problem really isn't the valuation of human beings per se, but how sociopaths try to add value to themselves by forcibly taking away the value of others.

[@abiean222]

its giving "rating the slave at the slave auction" vibes.

[@daniellamcgee4251]

So, people with low self-esteem, who think some/all people are better than them, are terrible people? 🤔

[@koishily]

that is what corporations, the elite, and fascists want to do to all of us. turn us into manipulative, materialistic, predatory, shallow npcs always infighting and incapable of empathy, compromise, or rational thought. so that they can keep us as slaves in all but name dont play the game.

[@anoukfleur2513]

On the one hand I agree, but on the other I do think genuine/goodhearted people are on another level than those that just live for themselves. Well, some people just live for themselves out of a survival instinct, I don't want to rate them lower for something they can't really control. I guess it's true.

[@mjolnir3309]

"You keep using that word...i do not think it means what you think it means."

[@Psylaine64]

unexpected princess bride ....

[@mjolnir3309]

@Psylaine64 Well, they don't seem to know what the word 'insecure' means. So i thought it fitting, considering the rocky terrain.

[@littleone31917]

​@@mjolnir3309LOL rocky terrain...

[@wartgin]

Even better 😂

[@SiiriCressey]

​@@mjolnir3309 It seems you have studied your Agrippa.

[@PetAllDogs]

Honestly, even in that mindset of alpha, beta, whatever. Calling yourself an "alpha" or "high value" would be just about the most "beta" thing you could do. You want to be high value? Add value to other people's lives. You want to be "alpha?" Don't tell people you're alpha, be someone other people want to look up to. The only people that look up to people that talk like that are 12 year olds that haven't yet learned that words are cheap and that care and compassion are strength.

[@markey_reeves1186]

Perhaps their all secretly furries. 😂

[@strawberrysangria1474]

Whatever happened to "If you love someone, set them free-"? Control isn't love, it's obsession. Love is respect and trust.

[@haeherfeder1713]

That’s the same kind of guys who celebrate the Matrix and Deadpool for breaking from reality and being a strong straight guy or some shit when the matrix was written by trans sisters (and is often seen as a metaphor for trans identity) and DP is pan and literally _so gay_ for Wolverine it’s hilarious

[@zacharybosley1935]

Media literacy is a weakness for some people, because it forces them to recognize when a story is critiquing their worldview.

[@SiiriCressey]

I didn't know that about The Matrix, or the Wachowskis.

[@zacharybosley1935]

@@SiiriCressey The Redpill conversation is *so funny* in the context of what 1990's Estrogen prescriptions looked like

[@SiiriCressey]

@@zacharybosley1935 I wouldn't know. My estrogen pills (which I started taking a month ago) are green.

[@SiiriCressey]

@@zacharybosley1935 Would I be correct in deducing that estrogen pills then were mostly red?

[@chaislaw5014]

Ugh i kno a couple of these "super secure guys" so secure the meltdown if u don't answer your phone in 3 rings. (And ye theres women like that too, before the hurt brigade come knocking.)

[@ariaflame-au]

And they deserve each other.

[@carnevalmefisto]

Yep, those gals and dudes should just date each other, and lock themselves in one's flat, so they won't have to feel threatened by other people 24/7 by their partner's imaginary cheating scenarios.

[@justacoginthefkery]

"Hurt brigade" 😂

[@moonhunter9993]

said the same just now

[@athenatanyimin4035]

And the funny thing is if a woman does this to them I bet they'll call her insecure 😂

[@moonhunter9993]

Yeah, tried to date these self-proclaimed very masculine men at some point... all had toddler melt-downs when life, people, things didn't go their way all of the time

[@AmericanDreamer]

they all are emotionally stunted, entitles, super mega ultra self- centered jerks!!

[@ursamajor7468]

A strong man appreciates a strong woman and does all he can to enable her growth, her expression and her joy.

[@Josh-99]

Masculinity is not controlling. It's being confident enough in the relationship he has built and invested in to know that his partner isn't going to just up and leave him for no reason.

[@littleone31917]

Thank you, Josh!

[@ericastark614]

I wish I had an award to give you for this comment. It's perfect.

[@deborahdanhauer8525]

To me it means he knows he’s a good and worthy person whatever happens in the relationship, and so is she. Neither of them are defined by any relationship. If they’re healthy, they are each complete human beings, period, that just happen to love each other. If not, they will never be happy in the long term.❤️🤗🐝

[@admiralspandy]

Well put. Although I would say that there is definitely a reason for a partner leaving, probably more than one.

[@Just_Reading_Comments]

​@@admiralspandy Idk about this. While yes many relationships end for many "reasons" that doesn't mean those reasons are neccesarily bad or a negative reflection on the person being "left". Some people just grow apart and realize they are better off as friends than lovers. They aren't bad people or need to work on something to be a better partner they just realize that the love they feel for each other is more platonic than romantic.

[@callnight1441]

Alpha? Is that a Furry thing? It sounds like a Furry thing.

[@TheSpeep]

Honestly, that would be an improvement.

[@Soulcrash3]

​​@@TheSpeep originally it was... kind of. All fanfic readers have had a couple unfortunate meetings with the Omegaverse

[@lysanamcmillan7972]

​@@Soulcrash3To be pedantic, it all started with a book that claimed wolf packs act that way. Those of us who have stayed up to date with the news know he recanted the whole thing.

[@Soulcrash3]

@@lysanamcmillan7972 yep... although as far as I understand a lot of the humanization of the supposed wolf behaviour was lifted 1:1 from fanfiction. You could also argue they were uninspired ideas of how human wolves would behave in the first place, but I have seen so much discourse that sounds so much like bad fanfic I can't take them seriously when they say it comes from the original book. Moreover I... you can't convince me most of these people (who created this wave of nonsense) are reading real behavioral biology books, even if the theory was wack it was a real book, I find it so deeply unlikely it comes from there. It is just much more likely it comes from popular media representations of modern werewolves like movies, shows or video games (even published books) that were ultimately rooted in the Omegaverse. A remix of a remix of a remix.

[@ThePsychicClarinetist]

As a furry, I beg of you, PLEASE don't lump the "alpha male gigachad" bros in with us. 😭😭😭 I do encourage calling them furries to see if they get triggered by that though. 🤭👀

[@Kittenmama24]

I don't know how you made it all the way through without cracking up. Mr. extra, high value Alpha man. 😂 There's so many red flags with these alpha insecure dudes.

[@ThePurpleCheeseMan]

It's amazing how the dudes that put the most effort into LOOKING like strong, manly men in front of others are the most afraid. Constantly afraid of being seen as weak, afraid they won't get all the women, afraid they won't have all the money and power... Hell, they're afraid of looking "not like a straight man" which is not an appearance thing, or even a bad thing to begin with. Very sad, lonely creatures. I don't feel bad for the abusers, but I do feel sad for the boys that buy into this because no one taught them differently.

[@judipierry549]

Absolutely awesome answer! ❤

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

The music really pulls this together, 10/10 disturbing, great work. Sounds like the villain speech in the movie right before they take down all of Gotham. But, you know, in a manly way.

[@noqueq9003]

Anyone who must say they're of "high value",.is of no high value at all!

[@e.1766]

Thanks Patriarchy & Religion! So Helpful in cultivating that Love & Do Unto Others Philosophy So Well🙄

[@Letty4]

Dang, I guess I have to break it my husband of 23 years and my friends' husbands that none of them are masculine men. Gonna be tough. Pray for me.

[@airenmoonwolf2520]

I know, right? After over 30 years with my husband I have to gently break it to him that he is *Clearly* insecure and not an alpha male because he trusts me and knows I'm not going anywhere....Our partner of over 15 years will be crushed to know he is also not a strong and secure man....What will they do?

[@littleone31917]

😊😊😊

[@KingoftheJuice18]

-"There's no such thing as 'toxic masculinity'!" -"The more masculine he is, the more controlling he's gonna be."

[@lifeisamess8100]

Or r they just misrepresenting masculinity to justify controlling. Makes me wonder what your views on toxic feminity?

[@KingoftheJuice18]

@@lifeisamess8100 Yes, I think they are in fact misrepresenting masculinity. The unhealthy misrepresentation of masculinity IS toxic masculinity, in my opinion. There can be toxic femininity too. I think some of the "trad wife"/anti-feminist stuff is toxic.

[@brianzirkle1641]

@@lifeisamess8100Every comment I’ve seen you make is incredibly misogynistic. You really need to get help with that. I’m not even kidding. A therapist would do you a world of good.

[@grayscales1864]

yeah and the “pick-me” girl thing is toxic femininity too, a remnant of a time when getting a husband was the only way a woman could have a life so it brewed all sorts of unhealthy competitiveness and cattiness. Both toxic masculinity and toxic femininity are caused by the type of patriarchal culture we have.

[@TehMomo_]

@@KingoftheJuice18 bro thought they did a GOTCHA lol

[@heatherk2467]

Masculinity = Confidence, quiet strength, and wisdom..... don't get it twisted with extroversion, aggression, and insecurity. Love your takes Professor.

[@Tashishi0]

Also, gentleness is another defining trait .

[@heidim7732]

My husband was asked by an older coworker why he "allowed" me to take judo lessons with other men. My husband said that, knowing judo, when I said "No" it bloody well meant no. And also he really liked it when I threw him on the bed and had my way with him. Lesson #1 in How To Shut Up A Misogynist, per my husband.

[@sharonrachel9487]

I ❤ your husband's response!

[@ceejae7352]

Now that's a real man. I'll bet he's a lot of fun.

[@claregallacher2684]

My husband has had that from people, but me doing pole fitness. He tells them I'm not stripping off in front of every Tom, Dick and Harry, Pole is not all club stuff as the pole i do is no more than gymnastics vertically and i can do more push ups than he can.

[@DrZaius3141]

It's okay to be insecure. In fact, it generally makes you into a more thoughtful and reflecting human being. The problem is how you treat others because of it.

[@moonhunter9993]

denial, masking, repression and projection are the problem... making your problems somebody else's

[@danmeifan]

I'm definitely insecure, particularly about my talents and skills (imposter syndrome is a b-) but after realizing how bad it made me feel to hear artists better than myself talk about how bad they were, I realized "oh, people feel that way when I do it too." And I made sure to stop talking like that about myself. Although, I've never had the urge to control ppl because of my insecurities so maybe I'm not the target audience for this comment LOL

[@Sylvie_without_surname]

I think “other people feel that way too” is kind of a groundbreaking realization for a lot of people. It certainly was for me. Realizing that whatever’s going on inside your head isn’t something you have to face alone, or in secret. That someone else might have figured out a thing or two to help it feel better.

[@nsv674]

That last shot zoomed in so close that you will never have any ears ever again.

[@Dragonmoon1598]

Being able to trust your partner show security in yourself, them, and your relationship. Latching on to them won't make them stay. Won't stop them from cheating. Won't create a healthy relationship based on love and trust.

[@JM_IAM]

Yeah Great Value like the Walmart in house brand.

[@AmericanDreamer]

lol good one!

[@amanchoudhury8135]

Controlling anything other than yourself is literally a f*cking joke. Why do you wanna control anyone other than yourself dude 😂.

[@Rutabega_NG]

Yet another brilliant response. A+, no notes.

[@kimberlyakin8908]

funny thing is MY Husband was raised by a Great Mother. so He NEVER gave his opinion of my hair style always saying .. " it's your hair get what you want" when there is something he needs from My Purse and I say its in this pocket. He still refuses to go Into my purse and simply brings it to me. There are Many More things that I used to find maddening.. But after 35 Years of Marriage I just know He was raised right and is one of the Most respectful men. But also a Big Bad Master Chief in the US Navy..... I E still a tough guy and can Kick Butt and take Names and rank. But Not a D!@k

[@satiashaw1857]

It takes far more strength to be real. It takes far more strength to listen. It takes far more strength to consider other people and still be yourself. Thank you Prof!

[@patmaurer8541]

YES! Men who use their strength to their own glory aren't 'masculine'; they have yet to grow into manhood. Because real men use their intelligence and strength with integrity, and for the good of everyone around them--especially those with fewer advantages; those are the men we admire and trust.

[@patmaurer8541]

"The more masculine he is, the more controlling he's going to be." That is precisely why the term 'toxic masculinity' came into use; because so many people seemed to conflate the two. Anyone (of any gender) who's actually mature and confident knows that the only person they need to control is themself! 😊

[@DissociatedWomenIncorporated]

Whenever I hear “Alpha” in this context, all I can think of is Stanzi’s Omegaverse sketches

[@Tsuliwaensis]

am I missing something? is there any another context? I mean other than the alphas in the omegaverse and the misogynists in real life.

[@thefirm4606]

‘We’re here hunting alphas in the wild…” 😂😂😂

[@DissociatedWomenIncorporated]

@@Tsuliwaensis Star Trek, I guess, is the other context for me. “Alpha Quadrant”, or any authorisation code with “alpha” in it.

[@Tsuliwaensis]

@@DissociatedWomenIncorporated hehe, gotcha.

[@admiralspandy]

I always think of the study of wolves where the term came from. It's funny because after making some observations and coining the term "alpha", they figured out that these Alpha's were actually just the parents. When they tried to correct the error it was too late, people had already started running with the idea of alphas. So dudes who say they are alphas are actually saying that they are mommies and daddies, which is fine to everyone but them, and therefore hilarious.

[@karynstouffer3562]

OMG, you're describing my abusive ex perfectly.

[@the_nikster1]

your delivery here is *chef's kiss* 😆

[@HelennaRose]

More value! Walmart man! ❤😂

[@thetimekeeper955]

_"... if he has standards, he's insecure or controlling."_ lol No. Nobody is saying that. Everyone is entitled to have and abide by their own standards, whatever they are; the line in the sand is hating and shaming others for not adhering to a stranger's opinion. Love that zoom in at the end: "That's why you don't need to look or talk to anyone but me."

[@candise9063]

Aaahaha I call them Bargain Bin guys

[@GreenGrasshoppa]

🤣🤣🤣

[@LibertyCairde]

That’s a good one! Stealing this 😂

[@amanchoudhury8135]

😂😂

[@zacharybosley1935]

Doesn't that concede their argument over human value? At that point you're just haggling over the rubric.

[@jackmythicc1863]

Maybe this is a stretch, but when I hear the words "high value man" come out of an "alpha's" mouth, I immediately assume they do not value human life. "If you're low value, then you choose that and whatever bad happens to you is your fault." Sir, people die of starvation while sleeping on the streets and you want me to believe that's a choice? No value for human life, I genuinely struggle to believe otherwise.

[@justacoginthefkery]

Let's hear it for the Great Value alphas!

[@laurengarcia3317]

Thank you so much for what you do. Just a normal guy putting his voice out, there in really fun way, calling out all the crazy in the world.

[@dinarazinaliyeva196]

Ahahaah 🤣 😂 🤣 Idk why but it had me cracking up more than usual on this channel. If you sir had a comedy show I would watch it! 🙌🏻

[@Nicci82]

Raised by a masculine man and am currently married to one. They aren't like this.

[@aellalee4767]

😂 I will say, because it can be risky out there I always let someone partner or not, know where I am and who I'm with. But I know the reference isn't in the same spirit of safety, it's controlling which isn't cool.

[@nibbles2734]

I remember feeling so constantly scared that I needed to know/control every aspect of my own life. Beautiful start to an eating disorder and agoraphobia. It was absolutely miserable. I'm guessing that these men have something similar, and instead of doing the work, make it someone else's problem. My issue is, why, as a society, are we not doing better? There are enough men like this that we know our boys need taught emotional regulation, but we AREN'T. There are enough women that accept abuse that we know we need to teach our daughters to listen to their needs and apply their own boundaries, but we DON'T.

[@AlisonKenzoland]

Always Prof, always 🎯

[@kt3255]

That was so unsettling even though I knew it was satire/sarcasm.

[@E4tSh1t-s8u]

Only thing this is missing is ending it with, "Hey! Wait! Why are you leaving?"

[@BartlebyScrivener-oz6mk]

If you wanna know how secure these guys are, ask them if they're ok with their partner having male friends. Hell, I've seen dudes saying girl's nights are just a pretext for sleeping with other men.

[@lifeisamess8100]

Ya, like it's literally their needs and right to choose were they want get their pleasure from. Seriously don't understand what's the problem with their men, they don't own or have any say what she should do.

[@rwedereyet]

Daaaaaang that's creepy Thanks Prof always

[@sphinsa]

A message for my fellow ALPACAS!!!😂😂😂 the Mind is a beautiful thing. 🤓

[@katieoberst490]

The ultra close-up at the end killed me!!! Very funny, Chesko!!! Lol

[@zainabjilani3701]

Insecure??? Never would’ve guess! Shocker! Appalled! 😮

[@Kristinapedia]

I'M DYING!!! 🤣 SADLY THIS IS FAR TOO TRUE FOR FAR TOO MANY WOMEN. I was there once.... twice. a long time ago. I will NEVER EVER be there again!!

[@katrags3603]

As the daughter of an alpha, the real sign of one is a man that gets annoyed at the term.

[@missinterpretation4984]

With those guys too, the tighter they get their pants the less insecure they are. 👍🏻

[@Metalwabbit]

The alpha bros are weirdly fascinating. Never before have i seen a group of men so insecure yet convincec of their own importance at the same time.

[@carnifaxx]

That was so secure that I almost felt securely tied up in a trunk of a black van. Nothing to be worried about.

[@moonhunter9993]

Acting classes paying off here... better add it's *satire

[@msshellm8154]

His eyes are laughing the entire clip (except for the extreme close-up, where he manages 'puppy dog.')

[@pffffggg]

Yesterday my husband went out dancing with some girls and I went out for a beer with some boys... this level of trust had everyone asking us "and where are them? Do they know you are here? And is ok with that?"... I gotta tell you, I love being with a man that can be ok with this and it actually was my dreamed man

[@elizabethhull4370]

Pure gold!

[@Spatzenzunge]

...but what is that background music??? It's so fitting! 😂

[@markey_reeves1186]

I fear daily about being a bad person...As a sixteen year old young man i worry about becoming an abuser, So to see men like this who are supposed to be "role models" for young men my age, Acting as womanizers i think to myself... "I hope to cosmic forces that people don't actually believe and follow this trash" Yet I've seen some boys say Andrew tate quotes in public like it's normal to treat people like property...I can only imagine what horrible things they think of their children. Perhaps I'm just overdramtic but I'm thankful for this man's content pointing out the fools. 😂 I try my best to weed out the bad men to model myself after the decent one's but sadly it seems any fool can pick up a microphone... My apologies for the paragraph it's just...frustrating.

[@RM-hi4vv]

Dang that slow push in at the end is E V E R Y T H I N G ! It is like a direct picture of the jelly soul of every one of these Façade Bros. Bravo!

[@phoenixferret7098]

AWWOOOOOO (Howling to my fellow alpha males) 😎😎

[@wcjerky]

I was sort of expecting that one of the close zoom-ins would just go into one of the nostrils.

[@littleone31917]

Yeah, it almost did!

[@whelkpeopleofdoom]

Okay, I personally choose to not have straight male friends, but that is MY choice. The second a guy tries to order me to not have male friends, I'm walking into the nearest sports bar, buying everyone a round and pretending I know shit about football. Then he'll get a picture of all of us and a block. Guys like this are ridiculous. One of them got jealous of my Dad once. MY DAD. WHO WAS HELPING US PAY OUR RENT EVERY MONTH. Never again.

[@lisastefani169]

Great presentation! Total portrayal of the most super-secure guy ever. 👍

[@racheldee8361]

Speech Prof is hilarious 😂😂😂

[@grayscales1864]

how could someone be insecure when they use the D.E.N.N.I.S. System: Demonstrate Value Engage Physically Nurture Dependence Neglect Emotionally Inspire Hope Separate Entirely

[@Nanobot888]

Excuse me?! 😮 so accurate! Where is this from? Did you come up with this?

[@shewho333]

I really expected the alpha tears to flow there at the end.

[@Danka42]

What a self-fulfilling prophecy these guys are. Because if your partner is this controlling, you will indeed find other men hella more attractive.

[@resourcedragon]

Holy fuck, dude! You have some serious acting skills. That was terrifying.

[@redarrw1633]

Using the phrases "High value" and "Low value" to describe people is one of the most insecure things you can do. Also the idea they call themselves Alphas is hilarious, since technically speaking beta's are the more up to date version. Ik they're going based off a wolf pack mentality but considering they literally compare themselves to literal dogs I'd say my statement still stands.

[@Tashishi0]

Worse, a long since disproven wolf pack theory.

[@zacharybosley1935]

You'd think a fully masculine man would be capable of ignoring what society tells them to do, no? Isn't being able to make your own standards a being secure in yourself?

[@nicoleb8604]

How do you do this with a straight face?? I was laughing the entire time. Love it.

[@Nerobyrne]

Man it sure is good to be incapable of experiencing jealousy!

[@jujubesification]

They don't think they are insecure, because they see women as property instead of as human beings. And since she's literally his in his mind, he has to train her like he also trains a dog - except he likes dogs more because they are more obedient. He has to make sure that she dresses in the right way and doesn't go to the wrong place so that other men don't pursue her. She just needs to learn to obey.

[@christinehurley2487]

I really thought for a moment you'd "break" character and go "please don't leave me" at the very end, but it's probably enough that you conveyed it with your eyes the entire speech

[@RambleChristianPodcast]

oooh geezz that music was perfect for this hahaha

[@SarcasmIsMyGame_]

Make her laugh and want to be with you and you'll never be insecure.

[@maelewis25]

"The value is here babeee"😂

[@pamigreenway]

You're a very talented face actor. I know that's off topic but it's true.

[@Kymberlee_W]

OMG, the vacant expression was scary. Just kidding, the vacant expression was PERFECT!!!!!

[@theparijat1000]

Controlling others, other than insecurities, is a kink. As long as it is treated as a consensual fantasy, it is alright. These people however take it to a weird level, and does not acknowledge it as such. (Because then it would come with all the additional baggage that they dont like, such as safewords, mutual respect and realizing that this is a fantasy for mutual enjoyment, not a burden you place on a partner.) The whole controlling someone who does not wish to be controlled for your own thoughts is a very non categorical imperative of you, as Kant would say.

[@doggytheanarchist7876]

Damn. It's uncanny sigma valley today ❤

[@TheGong00zler]

The desperate/panicked look at the end😂

[@doggytheanarchist7876]

@@TheGong00zler it's so culty 😅 just like the real thing

[@aliceg1212]

You're invading my bubble! 😁🫠🤌🏼

[@miketacos9034]

He who must say “I am the king” is no true king.

[@Emptytopfloor]

Great Value man

[@thehousespouse]

The fact that your moustache makes this m shape like a tabby cat has on their forehead just makes the zoom at the end that much funnier

[@LittleMissLanna]

The whats up baby absolutely cracked me up omg

[@vickihines-martin6058]

share with someone who needs this! so good!😅

[@NeighborhoodOfBlue]

How about men who view their wives breasfteeding as sexual? It takes deep insecurity to view breastfeeding one's son as 'being with another man' but I heard that one recently.