Let it go and it will come back (power of detachment)

[@AaronDoughty44]

hey friends! you can learn more about how to let go of your inner child wounds here! ➡ www.AaronDoughty.com/child

[@CreceTuAlmaTarot]

Thank you Aaron ❤ ( so crazy ... you wearing your jumper saying " Saints & London, where I want to Live 😂) Beautiful signs from Spirit

[@vanessaclaire999]

Great video. Great hair as well 👌

[@pamelaseniza6827]

God I’m so grateful for your content.

[@bellamendes3462]

I adore you ❤

[@jamihoskins4447]

😅😊😊😊

[@Rin_1776_Rin]

Hes 100% correct. I detach and let go and ex calls back wanting to take things slow and misses me

[@MultiDramaqueen17]

Can you share more? How long did it take and how did you fully let go?

[@Rin_1776_Rin]

@@MultiDramaqueen17 took a couple of weeks but it's not worth it. He was an ex for a reason. It hurt really bad during and after the second time we got back together. He called wanting me back but he's selfish and hurt me. So hees warning to make sure you really want your ex backm

[@adammalay3842]

Of course if anyone is here for the reason of getting some one back then it isn't detachment and its just another form of manipulation.

[@kaitlinday9265]

"The universe doesn't make mistakes" powerful statement.

[@orionstarlord8651]

But it does. So many wars...

[@kaitlinday9265]

@@orionstarlord8651 if the world was nothing but sunshine and rainbows, what would there be to learn?

[@Jeffrey_DeBlaay...888]

to all who read this, and all who don't...sending you infinite peace, perfect health, abundant wealth, joyous freedom, and unconditional love...💚💚💚💚💚

[@chereeelliott7474]

Thank you. Sending the same to you.

[@Jeffrey_DeBlaay...888]

@chereeelliott7474 you're welcome...i appreciate you, and love you...😘

[@paige8361]

Thank you! And to you as well. I love you ❤

[@Jeffrey_DeBlaay...888]

@@paige8361 you're welcome, and thank you, i love you too 😘😘😘

[@teeskyers]

Thank you same to you brother

[@created2behishelpmeet228]

Very true. The Word of GOD says, "..be anxious for nothing,.." I discovered that the more I detach myself from something, the more it attaches to me. One of Newton's law states that "For every reaction, there's an equal and opposite reaction." Thanks for sharing. 👍

[@yasmin_hussain]

"For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction."

[@yisus2056]

"Attachment always comes from the means to an end" that hit me

[@zach7796]

It’s crazy how when I nearly didn’t care I always did so much better. The moment I began trying to control my life in every aspect I hit rock bottom time and time again.

[@adammalay3842]

Totally! every job interview: if I was desperate, I wouldn't get the job. If I didn't care one way or another, I'd get that job.

[@samco63]

I’ve been watching your videos the past few months - I finally let go of a situation with a man who didn’t want to commit to me. I previously had convos with him, but I couldn’t let go of him - so I fell into this pattern of being scared to let him go so tried to show him how “good” I was to commit to, or I would try and move on with my life - but he would come back and I couldn’t detach properly. I was scared to end it because I was scared of losing him and scared of the unknown. But I realised, I was controlling the situation by not letting him go. And even if I had him as a friend, I would hold on. So I finally ended our communication, in a kind and loving way. And let him go. It’s strange, I’m grieving the connection but I finally feel free - after 9 months, to face my fear or being alone and losing him (but I realised I never had him anyway). And although I am sad, I feel liberated and free in a way - hopeful and trusting into what the universe has.

[@kelseyjane8515]

Wow! Amazing for you. An incredible step.

[@samco63]

@@kelseyjane8515 thank you so much 🙏 💜

[@namoramichelle9960]

Thank you for sharing. I am in a similar situation. You touched in everything I feel. This was so well said and I am now choosing to let go.

[@samco63]

@@namoramichelle9960 good for you! It’s been a few weeks now, and I can honestly say I feel SO much lighter and happier. More time spent on me, my hobbies, work, friends, and dating new people who actually want to invest in me. You can do it! I know it’s so hard. I didn’t think I could. But once I made the choice, and let go, it got easier week on week. You’ve got this ❤️

[@cottoncandace7704]

Feel you on so many levels, so glad you finally let go and are moving on, it's not easy.

[@lamaelcharif1523]

The thing is to be OK with the outcome, even if it's not what I want. The right person would want to be there, even if they sensed, you want something from them. Plus seeking win win solutions.

[@butterflygoddess2436]

This is so true… it’s like the world has come up all these words such as “validation” and all that, but sometimes we all need a little extra love. The right one will give that to you, whilst others will make you feel ashamed for it, that you don’t need to seek validation… Though I agree it can’t be something you constantly ask for expecting someone else to keep making you happy. That’s ownership you need to take in finding yourself and loving yourself.

[@HyperJoieboy]

Letting go and detaching was always how I manifested the things that I really wanted in life ironically lmao. I tried to control things in recent years, and it ultimately led me to LOSING control even more haha 😂 Let go and let flow. Letting go seems like such cliché advice, but it's something we're going to have to learn eventually, whether we are consciously manifesting or not. We're going to lose people we love, the world is going to change, people we admire will pass away. We have to let go. Thanks again Aaron. Also I love that you wear All Saints, I used to work there aha

[@baronferry3593]

How to let it go effectively ?

[@marieemilieagathe5434]

Hey Aaron!!!I discovered your channel some two years back and wow.This way of looking at things changed a lot of things in my life..Thank you for helping us get in alignment.

[@MusicLvr81281]

So true. I was "redpilleed" about women, and for a while i didnt want anyone or care, and a lot of women were attracted to me during this phase..

[@conlawmeateater8792]

Lol isn't that weird?

[@Darima2]

This came at the right time, I'm holding onto the past which spirals me down into anger, resentment, sadness, and I'm worried about the future which causes anxiety and panic. All of yesterday and this morning I've dwelled in both which has put me into real distress.ive prayed through it. I just feel numb now which is an improvement at least. . I know it's because I have to LET Go of these stories. They are not who I am, I know that. But why am I holding on? No closure, no accountability, no apology. So how do we let go without those things?

[@myles2168]

Please don't feel alone. We are human and we can't help the feelings and emotions that hit us. All we can do is keep on going. We will come out of this. It's hard when the person can just shut down and not feel. It makes you think what was I? Why do we hold on?? We're worth much more.💫👍✨️💫

[@bryans_main]

I like to ask myself this question. Will it matter in 10 years?.... holding on to the past is restricting today's blessings. I am not judging you at all. I'm a year and a half out from my divorce and it took me way to long to get to the point I am at today. Try to focus on your now. Actions today can greatly improve your future. Every day is a brick you are laying while building your future. Today IS a turning point. Keep moving forward

[@Darima2]

@@bryans_main Thanks, I've gained some perspective again through prayer and enjoying the present moment again. I have my moments every once in awhile that last 2 days to a week , we all get dragged down sometimes when things are not the way we think it should be or should have been, that's what's happening for me. But I remind myself I just need to accept what is, that's when I'm happiest and I can access joy.

[@AbbyRuston]

You can both know you are worth of an apology and realize those who hurt you may not be emotionally mature or have the emotional capacity to offer it. Taking back your authority of yourself and realizing that you can heal when you realize that you didn't deserve that hurt even if those other ppl don't see it. A big question you can ask is.. what end emotion would an apology bring me? Then you can focus on meeting that need and starting to go towards experiences that will bring more of it.. The person who hurt you isn't the only way to bring you that end emotion and you are worthy to experience it regardless of their future action. Hope this helps!

[@86Kera]

@@AbbyRuston helped me and the other replies are good perspectives to think on

[@cthompoucat13]

your vulnerability really is your power brother. I love the authenticity and willingness to use your own life examples to share the perspective

[@Flowergirl222]

I struggled so much with letting go in my business. A commitment to meditation and splitting my biz into 3 different niches really helped me surrender. I feel creatively fulfilled but never too attached because my attention is divided and I no longer obsess over it.

[@mstracy181]

I opened KZbin at 11:11 and this video popped up. Timely

[@TaylorWeber]

If you're reading this, know you're loved, valued and cared for. You deserve the absolute best life has to offer. Just thought you should know. 😉💕✨️

[@SaTu-ok9os]

Thanks for saying that and same to you!

[@pumpkinbunch3]

Thank u

[@FeelGreatwithChristie]

My angels are wanting me to hear this. I’ve been working on letting expectations go. Thank you ❤

[@ZombMom]

I can attest to your teachings because I have followed these very rules about a year ago and all the negative energy that I put on everything doesn't exist anymore because of "letting go."

[@jacksoncox2343]

Awesome video man. You are right that everything just is and that the universe doesn’t make mistakes. We are all here for a reason

[@faeriesart9647]

Thank you🙏I recently was given new parents in spirit as I am an orphan and I realized I lost trust in my parents but my new parents are holding me anyway and then I realized we all will have new parents as we evolve ,we all we grow in reincarnated future lives with new parent and parenting.💜

[@pauline9297]

I've been watching your videos for a couple of years now Aaron , probably about 3 years. You have been helping me heal my childhood which was like yours & just helping me in life in general. A massive THANKYOU. All my life Ive had a gentle hippys mindset & this is who I am to my soul. Watching this video tonight for some reason has now inspired me to get out and meet my tribe of like minded people , people that understand me & are on the same level spiritually with thinking, caring for the planet, kind & loving etc etc. Alot of materialistic people around me who are not ascended souls don't understand me. I also hope I can meet a soul mate partner just like you ,but my age. Thankyou for all your help & inspiration. Love you xxx😁🌟💜

[@ericp_365]

I like that retro fridge

[@mvc7570]

Same

[@dianaisabela7816]

I want to thank you Aaron for these kind of videos.🙏 you helped me a lot, I was going thru a hard breakup, and 3 days I was listening hours and hours to your videos. I’m an anxious and my ex was an avoidant, he offered me his friendship in the end and I refused,went in NC and now I’m letting him go and detach from him. I don’t want somebody that doesn’t care and is not fighting for me and the relationship. I value myself more this time.

[@thejeff2469]

I'm on day 5 of a breakup. She wants to be friends,but friends don't hurt each other like she did to me. You did the right thing and will find that secure attachment when you're open to it. I know I will too. From one anxious to another,good luck out there.

[@dianaisabela7816]

@@thejeff2469 You will have bad days and good days , just need to be strong, I went in hard times , it’s been over a month now , I’m still holding myself to not text him, I have days when I miss him like crazy but then I remember how he acted with me. Just respect yourself and not accept to be friends. Thanks for your encouragement 😊 we need to change in the secure type.

[@Mikodemuz11]

Aaron has been my Guide for 2 years now. :)

[@spfi3111]

This man never misses! Convinced I manifested this video. Thank you so much Aaron

[@outroseok]

attaching is so easy yet detaching is so hard, it's scary how much a man I barely met 3 weeks ago can have a toll on my mental health.

[@slysinister]

You changed my life

[@yassifytarotsubliminals]

Thank you Jason Momoa :)

[@mayhtoo3576]

One of best!!trust process!!trust Universe!!be !!becoming aware!!

[@MrsCaranAmy]

Thank you Aaron. I explained my true feelings to him today. Not sure he could not handle the honesty. I let him go. I feel better now. I am more in my power.

[@katielesher1633]

Your videos have helped me so much over the last year! I recommend your videos to my friends all the time!! Keep them coming!!

[@mayhtoo3576]

Connect with divine&trust the Universe in process!!

[@starrydiscoqueen11]

Hi Aaron! I’ve been following your channel for a long time. One, I am glad you exist and two, it’s amazing the way you can express this wisdom with such clarity and articulation. You’ve come along way baby! 😊

[@suganyawatermelon378]

the quality of my life gets better when these videos come out forreal

[@jennabelanger1892]

This changed my life.all of his videos defiantly work and real. Love yourself first and everything will fall into place

[@mayhtoo3576]

5years!!.. Wow!!..bz you trust Universe!!🌹👍💗

[@mayhtoo3576]

Energy flows within us,

[@neethan30]

Found your channel this morning, trying to let go! Thank you

[@lollipopknox]

I was 15 minutes old and discovered your channel. Let's do this!

[@elizabethbarefoot1111]

The November Ayawaska trip is on my goal board! See you soon and THANK YOU FOR EVERY SINGLE VIDEO AARON! Absolutely everything has changed… Reading Power vs. Force now and will have read the whole set by November. ❤🙏🏽☀️

[@JessicaVie]

I've watched your videos before but I thought you're a nut case 😂 I went through a dark night of the soul experience in 2023 and recently quit drinking alcohol. Now I feel my intuition opening and suddenly everything you're saying makes 100% sense. 😅

[@KristinChronicles]

Highlights: 5:08 5:59 8:14 ~ I LOVE THIS PART 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤ 9:05 ~ magicK, beyond imagination; infinite possibilities 9:20 ~ divine, beyond imagining 12:42 ~ develop trust in higher power, divine mother and divine father

[@violetmoon6233]

Starting watching this on 14:14. Beautiful confirmation. 🧙👁️I'm out of alignment with my job 🙏🕊️

[@Itz_RoyceMusic]

Appreciate everything you do man

[@kylaszone]

"When you bring yourself to the present moment, everything just is." Felt this. I ruminate far too much within my own scewed perception and internal messages. Time to live outside of that. I am in control of my own thoughts and behaviours. I always have been.

[@BlackRaven156]

I always feel better after your videos. Thank you.

[@Mr.Honest247]

This dude’s vibe is on point. I’ll definitely listen to him!

[@captainhaddock6193]

Aaron I’ve been watching your videos for a couple months as been coming out a year long affair and also learning these past 12 months of the childhood neglect I experienced. A lot of the stuff you talk about in your vids resonates with me (even though my therapist and myself have tried to explore the same ideas I couldn’t really take it on board). Despite knowing what I should do etc I kept making the same mistakes, but knowing why I was doing it and ultimately hurting the ones I love most. I guess I needed to really hit rock bottom to be able to fully let go. I think, I hope I am now ready to let go of what has become toxic in my life and stopping me from experiencing the happiness I deserve. I am ready to be a be better person. To be the real me. Thank you

[@hightreestess]

Nice green refrigerator! 💚

[@sandrinemasse]

I keep watching these kind of videos all the time that are so full of wisdom but somehow I am unable to apply these teachings to my life ahah!!

[@retrofrontier86]

Great video my friend. Lately I've been wondering why everyone around me seems to be pulling away from me and not talking to me anymore. It's so easy to overthink and get too attached to the outcome you want. Detachment is freedom. Let go and just be yourself and move forward.

[@bradleybassila1291]

Yes! No more wants just listen to your guide 😊

[@kamiennykamien9578]

You're right Aaron

[@aleadiann]

You always say the things I need to hear, when I need to hear them. I see you. 👍

[@mayhtoo3576]

Yesss!!resistence is ready to come in alert from somewhere let it go so lighter should be aware!!

[@Christine-j7b]

Cast all your cares upon God for he cares for you. Let go of fear and worry surrender it all to God have faith and trust in His goodness, things might not work out as you want but they will be what you need sometimes only realized in retrospect.

[@willismiller7035]

Lol, joined this channel around 200k and went away for a while, come back at 1.4 milly! Congrats bro

[@KristinChronicles]

THANK YOU. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for this video, inspiration, insight, divine reminders, everything. I’m so deeply grateful. Thank you.

[@mayhtoo3576]

It's quite right trust ourselves&trust Universe!!

[@jadeselman9689]

Aaron, that's one of the coolest kitchens I've ever seen!

[@CharlRaff]

Power Vs Force Dr David Hawkins... A book hitting on this topic.... For the readers ❤

[@Kareena1988]

I needed this. Thank you so much. I need to let go.

[@prettyhandsasmr_]

Aaron I would hate to have never known you because you are so kind, loving and knowledgeable. You have a gift and it has helped me tremendously. Ive had so much resistance because of being unsure of myself

[@Danielle.Saavedra]

The remote analogy was spot on. Needed this insight this morning. Thank you❤

[@serenitygilles7064]

ty A aron. Needed this, also love this bikery look

[@Adhithyank19]

Thanks Aaron, your knowledge has helped me grow!❤

[@tuantran-wt5lg]

Wonderful ! Have no words ! Thank you ! Aaron

[@Gypseygirls]

I remember when you came on this you tube Plat forum..Wow you came so far and doing amazingly great! ..

[@mayhtoo3576]

Let go to let in!!

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Completely self developed upgraded man !

[@vagaboots]

Thanks for this video. I now know why a lot of things kept not working out.

[@mysticsky1877]

I am loving the long hair! :)

[@mayhtoo3576]

(I saw in awe 2stars aligned I named,another craftstar appeared near to them&showed me twice flesh light&disappeared,I trust more in Universal Energy,it's amazing seemed it heard my words,it was Amazing on 22may, JJ,former explanation was not clear,so I add this😮❤✨🌟🌟💜

[@GillianBerry]

LOVE your kitchen!

[@aliceglamis]

Adore your videos your vibe and the content ❤

[@larryc835]

Righteous.🔥🥇

[@mayhtoo3576]

Lead with vulnerability!!

[@Monazmevawalla]

I was just watching one of your reality transurfing videos and you have changed so much .. I wonder why you stopped making videos onRT . Please start again .. much love ❤ Monaz from india / mumbai

[@rav0899]

Thank you 🙏❤

[@antygona-iq8ew]

That is true, volunaribity always works. However by definition volunaribity excludes manipulation.

[@Wildirishrosee]

You’re hair looks great like that, don’t stop😩😭

[@Mr.Honest247]

Why don’t you give him a big fat kiss then huh?

[@Xanexz]

There is actually no purpose, the mind usually wants to have a purpose otherwise there would be no meaning to live, but when you accept there’s no purpose, there’s nothing to accomplish or to get, cause we already are and have it all, you’re free and you can just enjoy, as much as we want it all to have a purpose, there isn’t, we just gotta accept that

[@faithobonyo]

I had to focus on the message. But got distracted by the beautiful kitchen❤️

[@mayhtoo3576]

Good to see you back right meow with this vibe,JJ..all well❤😅

[@mayhtoo3576]

Let old beliefs,old firm regids,old blocks go,lead with vulnerability&authenticity,beyond definition,natural version,be who prefer you to be,the more far back resistance,closer to trusting Universe,embrace unknown,magic in greater way,set aside fear&ego,do it anyway,...🤔😍👁️🤗

[@EtherealMaryJane]

Letting go is the new point of view.🆒️💪

[@Truespiritwarriorgoddess]

I love this clarification

[@kathylundgren6772]

On of your best videos!!!

[@kathylundgren6772]

One lol

[@thisverymomentmeditation]

Man i love these videos

[@BC-yb1mq]

Beautiful ❤

[@elwingwhite2801]

Hey Aaron! I'm going through my own purgatory atm. Started when I began with your Frame technique meditation about 2 weeks ago. I broke up with the "love of my life" shortly before you posted this vid (no coicindence for me), because of my abandonment patterns... got clarity about my patterns during the traumatic emotions that came up during the past days and nights. So right now letting go is the BIG thing for me - Thank you so much 🙏🏼 You've helped me more in the past months than any other coach I've ever had/followed

[@heyheey9953]

Thank you a lot 🎈

[@jan-k7x1c]

My girlfriend broke up with me. I know that she is afraid of commitment, and I am afraid of loss. Through the breakup, I was able to further develop myself. I feel it clearly in me that I don't need her to be "whole". Nevertheless, I feel the loss at the same time. Out of indecision about how to act, I have been watching videos about No Contact, etc. Now, I think I just want to be my most authentic self. It is not my way to just drop people. I know what fears and past wounds are plaguing her. Through her, I was able to work through mine. I would love to be with her again if she could take that step as well. For me, it means letting go of the outcome. I want to try to be me, but protect my energy. To help only when I feel at peace with myself - instead of, as before, hoping to get something back through my offer of help. I know she still has feelings for me and that she will most likely come back one day. For this case, I want to be open and watch for the signs of transformation. I am aware that as an anxious person, I will very likely meet an avoidant person again. My hope is that I will be able to see if this person has already done the necessary self-work to be able to truly love. Whether this person will become my ex-girlfriend or someone else entirely is written in the stars. In that sense, I truly believe that everything is happening for a reason. I trust the process. I can't control the outcome any way. Whatever happens, happens. Even if I end up getting hurt again - I'm sure that it will be necessary for my growth.

[@Tabularasaaa]

Update ?

[@jan-k7x1c]

@@Tabularasaaa Thank you for asking. I tried condensing the last 5 months as best as I could: The whole breakup was 7 months ago. She had a situation ship a week later with a guy she had known for quite some time. She kept giving me a lot of mixed signals. Whenever I said that we should talk about our breakup, so that we both can move on, she’d say she needed space, delaying the „talk“ for another month - month after month. We had a really awkward situation, when she invited me to a party where she was playing DJ Gig. She said it was my fault because I’m not over her. I said we should’ve talked about our breakup a long time ago, mentioning all her confusing behaviour… She never replied to my last message… I texted her 3 months later. She kept sending me money for a contract that no longer exists. She thanked me and said that she’s now ready to talk to me. She wanted to hmu when she had time. 3-4 weeks - nothing happened. I messaged her again when I was able to pay her back. Then she admitted that she’s still not ready to talk to me, but she’ll get back to me in a couple of weeks. My last message (a week ago) to her was: „We don’t have to talk with each other, if you don’t want to. I don’t need anything from you anymore - and that comes from a place of love.“ following a screenshot of the Hoʻoponopono prayer: „In conclusion, I say that this prayer is my door, my contribution to your emotional health, which is the same as mine. So be well, and as you heal, I tell you that: I'm so sorry for the memories of pain I share with you. I apologize for joining my path to yours for healing, thank you for being here in me. I love you for being who you are." All in all, I’m thankful for this. It gave me a new perspective on life, and I’m inspiring others with it. I’ve felt genuinely the best I ever felt in my life. Also, the worst. The dark night of the soul… Since last week I am just getting to know someone else. We'll see...

[@_cr8ive_]

Powerful segment...🤝🏻👍🏻

[@annr.7023]

Thank you Aaron for showing me; Araya Sunshine Research; different angles of your filming to see how it's done! Also this new video is just what I needed to hear from you today!! Blessings to you.

[@NathanPlaks]

Beautiful. Amazing.

[@kvhowells]

I love that retro refrigerator 😀

[@flagirl0315]

I was thinking the same. Cool kitchen concept. I like the gold pendent lights too

[@shelly1332]

Thank you for a beautiful video Loved it

[@cassidylundmusic]

Thank you very much for each and every video, so grateful ❤

[@mariamonikaaaaa]

This video is briliant! Truly! Thank you! ❤