Abused, Bullied & Self-Harmed, to Healing Others: Ella McCrystal

[@MrPadraig78]

I know Ella and she is the strongest kindest and bravest woman I know. I know now even though we haven't seen each other for a long time she is always there for me. She also gave therapy to my daughter at a reduced rate when I was struggling. And she has given me complimentary massage therapies when my father passed. Her clinic offers multiple services and i couldn't recommend it and higher. She is amazing ❤❤❤❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

awww - only just seeing this my darling. Bless your beautiful heart. Love always xxx

[@billygnasher]

Well done Ella your not just a Brave survivor your now helping other Survivors, proud of you from an orphan with CPTSD diagnosed indefinitely. ❤ 😊

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sending love to you ❤

[@carolynbell2498]

This woman is absolutely incredible. I am in absolute awe of how well she spoke about some of things she’s been through in her life. She also spoke about abuse in a different way to anything I’ve ever heard. Incredible lady. She should be so proud of herself. 👏🫶👏

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much - 💜💜💜💜

[@AlisonSkinner-vu1wm]

I completely tell agree , she is amazing , RESPECT to her and LIAM

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

@@AlisonSkinner-vu1wm thank you Alison. Love and appreciation to you 💜💜💜

[@kimberleymalone8547]

Was going to say the same x

[@jd606]

Ella, you are a breath of fresh air...incredibly articulate with heart and soul, you reached all of us in this interview...AMAZING❤

[@bizzylizzy5075]

What a beautiful brave intelligent woman, I can’t understand how abused children can still love their parents.. I’m glad I never had to go through this 💜

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you for your kindness…it makes a difference ❤

[@annabaranska2280]

❤ Amazing woman . What a survivor . From one lady to another you are wonderful!

[@fzp195]

She’s a brave woman but what is more fascinating is she’s able to help others - even from watching this video, so I can’t imagine what she’d do in clinic. She’s heard she’s amazing. What she is doing tho is god’s work. It’s so hard for victims to feel shame and like if everyone knew they’d be hated but they’ve nothing to feel ashamed of and this woman reminds them x love to you both

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Wow. Thank you so much for your kindness and for taking the time to be lovely - love and light 💜💜💜

[@blanketyblank5022]

Amazing lady. Powerfully spoken. Amazing mental strength. Deserves all the very best for the future. ❤

[@Swints]

The rage I feel that her mum stayed with the dad and it’s sickening that her mum took her to visit her dad in prison! So messed up, surely that should be illegal?!? What a incredible lady!! ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sending love to you ❤

[@BulkernatorKerb]

This interview should be played to every sex offender in the UK. Absolutely gut-wrenching listen to know what this brave woman has endured and to come out in one piece is a true testament to her resolve.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much - your kindness is beyond appreciated ❤

[@enlightenment6994]

Definitely shouldn't be played to every sex offender in the UK.

[@uenmm4745]

Sex offenders wouldn't learn anything from watching this interview unfortunately.

[@Kaz201168]

Wow what a wonderful human being. I kept having to take little breaks whilst listening to this because it was so upsetting and all I could think of was she lived it so you can bloody well listen to it all..

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Bless your heart. Thank you for the time you gave. Much appreciated 💜💜

[@MeMyselfandI-kc4bi]

Ella is an inspiration for the younger generation . She's been dealt some shit cards but has done well for herself . Her mother doesn't deserve the title of a Mother or the privilege . Great Podcast Liam 😁

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

❤❤❤❤

[@matthewq4984]

Ella has the kindest soul, and I am fortunate to have met Ella and spoken with her. She's an absolute warrior, with a heart of gold! I have no doubt in my mind that you telling your story has resonated with someone and saved young lives. Keep going! X

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Matt…you are incredible. Your heart is made of pure gold. Thank you endlessly for you support and kindness x😊

[@matthewq4984]

@EllaMcCrystal Never give up! Ignore the thoughtless comments. A lion doesn't concern itself with the opinions of a sheep. I am grateful you shared some of these things with me in person. I am so glad you get to tell your story... you've listened to and helped so many others with their story haha. I miss your positivity and radiance.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Matt - you are adorable!! Thank you 🙏 I know I need to contact you privately with a plan for your story x You are an absolute hero, a warrior and a gentleman. Thank you for trusting me and gifting me with your beautiful energy xxx

[@cheriejackson6991]

💔 the introduction is painful and horrific 😢 You brave brave woman for speaking out xxx

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sending love always beautiful soul x

[@strikerfromthe3rd]

Ellla your an amazing women i cant believe your mothers actions. Im so glad your the brave women you brave you have become. The poor chikd in you. Hearing you talk about this is is making me cry 😢 i hope you continue be strong an continue to talk an help others ❤ sending love from women to women ❤❤❤❤

[@fzp195]

We often wonder why mums don’t leave dad even for one smack as kids- but her mother is worse than the dad in my eyes, for standing by him. Poor woman pandering to a man’s needs

[@EllisLane-up3mp]

@@fzp195 You're a racist

[@danieltaylor5928]

I was smack as a kid didn't do me any harm but beating a child with a belt is wrong there a diffrence between slapping and beating massive diffrence the mum and the dad are as bad as each other in my eyes personally

[@paulaallen6649]

I 💯 resonate with this ...wish i could talk to this girl as a friend..if we all joined ranks n helped juveniles ..we cud save lives ..and many souls ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Bless your heart - I see you 💜💜💜 thank you so much x

[@tubtub883]

Wow this lady is a god send for people ! Thank you so much for having her on ! I will be coming back to watch this again !

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sending love ❤

[@Motogka]

Wow what an amazing women! She’s the kind of women young girls should inspire to be like! Incredibly smart, strong and kind! I bet she’s an amazing mum ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so so much - so kind ❤

[@stephanieroberts412]

This women has hit the nail right on the head, wow I can certainly relate.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sending love and light ❤

[@Cyrusthevirus233]

Wow what a hard hitting heart breaking podcast the strength of Ella to go through what she went through and to be so open and honest about it and now is helping people heal is incredible thank u liam and Ella for doing this 🤝

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you for your kind words. Really appreciated ❤

[@gracerussell2043]

My god girl,you are so strong and resilient, I hope life is kind to you forever 😢❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much beautiful soul x

[@gracerussell2043]

@@TheNewMindPodcast ❣️

[@WillSykes24]

Superb interview, not seen one like this in a while, had me hooked from the offset, what an incredibly strong lady, this has helped me no end for my own personal reasons, so thank you

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much for your kindness - appreciated 💜💜💜

[@Aliceinwonderment]

What a strong, brilliant, inspiring woman! I really hope she knows the strength she gives to others. When she mentioned her mum saying her dad had been abused, I couldn’t help but wonder if her mum was just spinning a tale to make him look better and give him a pass. Honestly, I say this because my husbands dad used to hit him and his sisters, and their mum would always tell them some sob story about his life to try get him off the hook

[@andrewdaley2829]

EMDR is magical Mr Tuffs, Good Health......

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

It truly is ❤

[@Katiebatie1980]

I’ve been through so much in my life. Deaths, rape, abusive relationships, mental breakdown, alcohol and drug use, being a tough nut to ward off anyone who “fucks with me” …..I’ve been labelled trouble, a live wire, a tornado, hard work amongst many other things! I guess my life has been very colourful and now at 44 I’m taking the plunge and doing my training as a psychotherapist ❤ so glad I came across this podcast randomly! Well I’m a huge believer in synchronicity and I feel this is the universe saying “go for it Kate” Much love and a massive thank you!! ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sending so much love and support to you - keep being amazing xxx

[@Katiebatie1980]

@@TheNewMindPodcast thank You 🙏🏼 xx

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

@@Katiebatie1980 💜💜💜

[@karentonks7581]

I love the honesty on these podcasts.

[@KeelyEdwards-xo3jo]

The fact that her mum. Things it’s normal. For her own child. Too be sexual abused makes me feel physically sick. All I want too do is reach out too that little Ella the little girl and save her. What a women. ❤. Big loves my darling.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

The world needs more women like you! Thank you so much for your support and love. It makes a difference ❤❤❤❤❤

[@KeelyEdwards-xo3jo]

@@TheNewMindPodcast aww bless u Ella. I just fellowed u on instagram too but all true xx my darling. Xx your one powerful women

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Honestly, you are the energy all of us need - THANK YOU 🙏

[@missbarlow1]

What an amazing woman. Truly inspiring.🌸

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤

[@coopersvvc]

Both of you are inspirational! Best pod cast I’ve ever listened to.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so so so much ❤

[@OwenaPritchard]

I’ve had trauma from drugged and raped i had EMDR but I found it hard I had about 4 sessions I had to stop. Your amazing person after what you have been through.

[@NaturalNat111]

Wow what a woman, you are an Earth Angel 😇 taken the trauma and pain and used it to become a warrior and a strength and support for other people. Amazing interview thank you 🙏🏼 lots of love and blessings to you both💚💚💚

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Aww - thank you so much - comments like this make speaking out easier. Appreciate you! Love and light ❤

[@pauldorman1355]

Amazing podcast very professional 👏 Inspirational lady what a warrior God bless X

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Bless you too - thank you 💜💜💜

[@GametechUK]

She is an inspiration and this video helped me. Thanks for this.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much for taking the time to comment ❤❤❤

[@lindadee6603]

What a story. I can connect with all she talks about being a S/A survivor.

[@HeidiClayton-cv7rx]

Wow what a lady , this interview was so powerful, amazing how she has turned her life around to help others, pain is power 💪 I can relate a lot with what she said

[@michelleelms-wiles4198]

What an amazing women, incredibly brave & imspirational. Amazing too, to be able to be so insightful after all that has happened to her. Ella is wise beyond words & full of empathy.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much kind soul xxxx

[@bettyboo5906]

Ella's podcast with you Liam showed on on my reels just last week, so i clicked on this straight away when i noticed it was same lady who interviewed you , i wanted to find out who she is. All i can say is Ella you are an absolutely amazing Woman, so inspirational, & brave. I had something traumatic happen to me 8yrs ago, i ended up suffering with PTSD, & depression..i still suffer with depression now, but i just try take one day at a time, & try not to get too stressed out & anxious for the sake of my Mental Health. I like to think of myself as a Survivor after what happened to me, i could of let it own me, & take over my life, but i rose frm it & Ella you are too! Thank you so, so much for sharing your story, & the amazing work that you do to help others. ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Awww - thank you for such a kind and caring and brave message. I appreciate you so much - all the love to you my darling. You are a light warrior and I’m proud of you xxx

[@sarahbrown1577]

What an amazing, brave woman and to turn her life around should be inspirational to lots of people. Great interview

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you kind soul ❤

[@Busymumsfitnesscorner]

What an incredible interview 🎤 The respect and care from Liam he just gets people what a safe space. Ella Thankyou for sharing with us you are incredible❤xx

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much and yes, he did create a beautifully safe space 💜

[@Busymumsfitnesscorner]

❤❤❤

[@clair233]

I hope this video meets all the young adults and possibly children who can learn that none of that behaviour is ok - please tell a teacher or call the police, you will be believed and youre not in trouble!

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Absolutely ❤

[@hayleyayres4909]

Wow, what an inspirational lady ella is.. her strength is phenomenal. Thank you for sharing your horrendous upbringing 😢 so so strong!!! Thank you liam another great podcast ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much Hayley. You are really kind and it’s really appreciated 💜💜💜

[@hayleyayres4909]

@EllaMcCrystal always remember it was NEVER your fault!! You are a beautiful exceptional human, and you didn't deserve any of this, and it truly breaks my heart to hear what you have been through. But saying that you wouldn't be you now, you should be so proud of yourself for everything you have accomplished... big hug and I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@hayleyayres4909]

​@EllaMcCrystal just found your channel I've now joined ❤❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

How beautiful are you? Thank you! Honestly, the world needs more of you - you are such a lovely person and a total blessing. Appreciation and love coming your way xxx

[@hayleyayres4909]

@@TheNewMindPodcast right back at ya!! Thank you for taking the time to reply... have a beautiful day ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MattyT-m4g]

Wow this hit home as I'm the same age as Ella and from Northampton with a similar childhood to her

[@kellsgreen9333]

Another great podcast. Ella is very easy to listen too, very honest and quite relatable. A real beautiful, strong woman , I enjoyed this one. I first discovered Liam on the James English podcast ages ago. Your great at what you do, one of the best tbf, you don't talk over people and give really good questions to your guests. Keep up the good work 💚💫

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤

[@slectorppark4315]

Brilliant interview Liam keep them coming 👊🏿👊🏿

[@alexd3608]

Had emdr and was good whilst having the treatment but just went back into the trauma

[@maxplanck9055]

Good to see this channel is not only old men and crime, there are good women too ✌️❤️🇬🇧

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

❤❤❤

[@lukepollard7589]

What an incredible lady.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

thank you so much 💜

[@SHARPEY003]

Wow what a story well done to that lady for speaking out x

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you for your kindness x

[@ericadeestevens4407]

Spot on both sides ! Learnt a lot thank you 🙏

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

💜

[@lloydthomas1]

An amazing Lady. Powerful, Brutally honest and such a warm spirit. All this can only be created through living a life and recognising the good and bad then processing a positive wayforward.. more Power too you Ella 🙌🏽👏🏽😄

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much for your kindness and lovely comment 💜

[@lloydthomas1]

@@TheNewMindPodcast you are very welcome. Thank you for the reply 😁

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

@@lloydthomas1 💜💜💜

[@lloydthomas1]

@@TheNewMindPodcast my most favorite colour, Purple 😂💜

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

@@lloydthomas1 mine too ☺️

[@sarahgreen8592]

God bless you Ella i wish you all the best xx

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you - love to you ❤

[@JonnyBDJ]

Bloody hell Liam I can totally relate to your nasty experience on acid - I shot through when I was 15 after being interrogated by my mum while tripping on some serious strong acid - it was terrifying like you say I’ve also seen people get a kick out of making people that way as your very open to suggestion when ya on lsd - I never touched acid again after that day it was 15 hours of pure hell as my mum and dad had no idea what was wrong with me Your dad is a fucking monster for doing that only someone who has cracked on acid will understand your experience

[@sarahgreen8592]

Wow what a podcast. I can relate to so much of this. I froze every time to and people alwys said to me oh no i wouldnt freze id do this that and the other but unless your in that situation you dont know how you would react. What a amazing strong brave woman thank you ella for sharing this it will help so many people. Alot of girls who feel unloved as a child crave it from anyone like you said and in my case abusive relationship after another for so long. So this will help young woman see whats going on also hopefully for mums see how important it is to show love tontheir children

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Sorry to hear of what you’ve been through. Sending so much love ❤

[@darrenmurphy0511]

Very hard listening to this. What a monster your old man is. Even worse is the fact your mother still stayed with him.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

💖💖💖

[@kimberleymalone8547]

They do still do that it’s so like being abused again xx

[@jailen4444]

What an amazing woman. Stay strong Ella :)

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ☺️

[@jemimaorchard9648]

Wow what an amazing lady 💕

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤

[@belleevans6908]

This is very similar to my experience i waa abused by my step father im relating to what this lady is saying to a lot of things

[@thescienceofwellbeinguk]

Good work ❤

[@TomWood-o8x]

When you stop going over and over things and forget them and the years pass you heal… or go and end ur enemy

[@bern2076]

the mum is just as bad as the dad. hard to listen to 😢poor girl

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Love to you ❤

[@welshgirl6068]

Fantastic🙏Thank you both🙏❤️❤️

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤

[@welshgirl6068]

@@TheNewMindPodcast your the first person on a lot what you said is me😳I thought wow I used to think this on a lot of things when I was young.Theres other things especially about dear desensitised thing.Till you said I thought that’s not right to feel like this even now.The reading of a room I can tell straight away I’ve said things to people and it’s like omg your right.Sometimes I wish I couldn’t 🤷‍♀️I feel better thinking someone else had the same thoughts🤯🙏Thank you again🙏🙏❤️❤️😘😘

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

I understand how you feel. I hope you are able to find peace and balance. You are a warrior and you deserve love my darling xx I see you xx

[@StuartMain-t4v]

We are vibration , interesting about the growling being bass and makeing her feel anxious

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

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[@sammoore8445]

All regards well if that was me i would have had the holes dug up already take care SM 😊

[@bluebubblegum1210]

such a brave woman ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you so much ❤

[@odorlesslebs8055]

Wtf was her mother doing?? 😮🤡

[@finners3878]

Powerful

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

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[@olphausmegaletor8835]

Her Mother was to weak to abandon her father as she was a weak person, in many cases weak people are more dangerous that predators.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

That’s very true x

[@WatcherOfYT]

The intro was difficult enough. Poor woman.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

❤❤❤

[@And.Still.I.Rise.]

That's what I was thinking 😢.

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

@@And.Still.I.Rise. 💜💜💜

[@suzannemayo3507]

Unfortunately far too much of this resonates 😢

[@markjacob2386]

😢💔

[@And.Still.I.Rise.]

The intro got me drawn in, then the podcast starts with a convo about EMDR so random.. lost concentration and switched off adter that..

[@damoOM3N]

Another Northamptonshire guest...I'm from Wellingborough and I'm amazed at each person has a connection with my area...shows its a shitehole

[@Bonnyladdadventures]

Used to drink with ella in the white elephant Northampton. ❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Hey Chris - ❤ - sending love

[@Where_has_the_sanity_gone]

What's she means is that Northampton has also fallen pray to Muslims like every other town out there, destroyed it all

[@PaulaSmith-c3r]

From experience....i don't believe your mum about your dad being attacked in a park. It is an excuse. I realised that mothers are often more involved than we realise ❤ Being abused is dreadful but knowing your own mum doesn't have your back is incredible 😢 Your mum is a covert narcissist. She gets you to feel sorry for her because she thinks she is the victim & gets you to feel sorry for her 😢 I totally understand why you freeze. Its FEAR embedded into your body and your nervous system. I have always blamed myself for everything too 😢

[@naveedzaman8252]

💔🙏

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

💜💜💜

[@WisemanA]

Pinch of salt

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

What a lovely human you are

[@OrdinaryJoe12]

your a pdf file mate

[@alainarobinson8259]

❤

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

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[@kimberleymalone8547]

I new it was wrong x

[@dennywilliams5897]

40 mins in she's almost sticking up for her dad not right for me .

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

As I’m sure you’re really experienced in this field?

[@enlightenment6994]

absolutely no need for the details of the abuse, as a survivor it is gratuitous and selling point.

[@WillSykes24]

Who makes up the rules what’s needed or not? Surely it’s a survivors god given right to express their horror however they feel fit, if it helps them heal?

[@TheNewMindPodcast]

Thank you Will ❤

[@enlightenment6994]

@@WillSykes24 You can imply without gratuitous detail, it is triggering when you expect to watch a professional speak about their journey from trauma to wellness through their traumatic past and use explicit language that is triggering for the very people who will watch these podcasts in the first place. I write about my experiences and whilst it is sometimes needed to highlight an important element of growth, to mention something that has been endured, there is no need to put in sexual language. It is triggering. So thank you Will for your input, my comment still stands. And Ella, you as a professional should be aware of the impact these sexual terms and how triggering they are to those who are not in the healthy place of healing you are in. These terms are inappropriate and I hope with all my heart you do not use them in a clinical setting. You are indeed very brave and courageous and to be commended for your bravery in speaking out on such matters that are still very much taboo, but context and language is important. Don't forget your old arse in pursuit of getting likes.

[@Cyrusthevirus233]

​@@enlightenment6994the fact you get "triggerd" over over her being open and honest using the wording she uses and not sugar coating it says more about you than her tbh..... We have a problem in the world at the moment with sugar coating things and people being offended over words the fact she don't sugar coat things is a breath of fresh air and u should be praiseing this. Lady not trying to put her down especially as a survivor yourself

[@enlightenment6994]

Have you heard yourself? You are attempting to dictate how I internally react to traumas I have been subjected to. You must "sugar coat," sexual language in a therapeutic environment or with an audience who has suffered trauma, triggers for some can result in self harm, flashbacks, suicide attempts and distress. I would like to see This woman's true credentials, as a therapist myself there is a code of ethic that must be followed when talking about such things. I am assuming not inferring you are a layperson in the field of trauma and therapeutics. Can you imagine a world were psychiatrists and psychotherapists talk about masterbation and nipples in earshot of traumatised victims? who are still in the very dark parts of their journey. Everything has its place in therapy and language is very important. If this podcast were to be a shared story of survival and not the inclusion of being a therapist I would have scrolled past and turned it off not bothering to comment. This woman treats vulnerable clients no doubt those very same clients are watching this video. I can see you defending the very brave story of a survivor of trauma and that is to be commended, I am a survivor and a therapist and there are flaws in the presentation of the language used that are questionable in the therapeutic environment and for a professional.I have parts of my journey that are incredulous, however I would not share them with clients, potential clients or the public domain we have great responsibility for the energy we put out into the world and the reasons behind it @@Cyrusthevirus233

[@christinaTocd]

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