Addressing The Hate

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[@CorvinusAnimus]

To be fair you did say you were gonna stop sharing your relationships online, so its a bit of a contradiction that you still are. No hate, just an observation. 🖤

[@aninafouche]

She'll ignore this

[@ikusan4011]

she also explained in this video that its very hard for her not to share things online since other people are stalking her and are relentless in finding out about every detail of her life. So she wants to be the one to tell it from her perspective thats all. She feels pressured to do so

[@kibblesmcknob617]

Be honest, you count on controversy for content especially since you go ahead and advertise an “age gap” relationship. But hey, if you want to date a man who’s old enough to be your grandfather, well, you are free to do you. But you put it out there. And people are going to g to react. You could protect your partner and relationship by not advertising it as age gap or even putting it on the web, which is notoriously a negative forum. Just sayin’

[@ratqueen3809]

right...the reason why it presses so many people is because of how disingenuous she is

[@ivyedan7183]

My partner was 22 years older than me...i just lost my sweetheart in a head on car crash on Feb 12 24..im so glad I didn't listen to everyone when they said it would never last...21 years later, only death did us part..

[@juliagreen4484]

I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking loss, sending you lots of love xx

[@RegratorNovem]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@odapunkt]

😢

[@katyokane2805]

❤ I'm so sorry God bless you.

[@rose_yts]

😢

[@soufimostafavikashani8557]

Dear Julia❤ I think that probably the reason some people think your new relationship is not genuine, might be because you used to pretend that your relationship with Eileen was going well for years in front of the camera, but then recently you confessed that this marriage has been toxic for all those years! Only time can prove that this relationship will work or not, give yourself and your relationship time, and ignore impolite comments, don't even read the thoroughly, just be yourself behind and in front of the camera, that's just my humble opinion

[@flower_7890]

I'm talking out of concern....being ok with yourself is great etc but I'm worried that you're only ok because you have another person in your life. You kind of need someone to feel ok...and that's not exactly healthy. But I wish you all the best🤗

[@florbalsamo4727]

Yes, exactly what I think. The age gap thing I don't mind too much, but I do believe she needs someone to be ok, she goes just from one person to another not letting time go by on her own. And also the fact that she treats the relationship the same way she did the previous one, meaning the fact that she started making videos together right away, showing way too much, when I think it would probably be healthier to be more private

[@tasmiatawazrishta]

First of all- We are not concerned about who you date (man,woman,trans,age gap etc etc) WE DO NOT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH THAT!!!! We are just upset because all of your contents are repetitive. Same introducing new partners, same Q/A video, same morning/night routines, same rating outfits, same mental break down videos ugh it’s really annoying! Please change your content PLEASE GO BACK TO YOUR OLD CONTENTS LIKE- monthly favourites, hauls, look books, DIYS etc etc . Or just make videos on solo trips because your channel does not revolve around your partner and exes. If you continue this repetitive pattern then i’m sorry to say Julia all your hard work that you’ve put into this channel will go in vain and your youtube will never grow. Please make music, dye your hair. Do things you’re good at it. Be YOU!

[@Poeeeluvschai]

Well said

[@spooky8611]

I mean she is being herself no? She's grown and changed, etc.

[@hheartbeats]

What. During the past 6+ years there has been two "meet my new partner" videos, Eileen and now Keith. (Yes and one maybe two Q&As with Maria before that). I would consider monthly hauls and favourites as more repetitive.

[@bxstar5276]

Who are you? Do you have a licence for all this life advice? 😂 I’m sure Julia has been waiting the whole time for your guidance.

[@Aphrodite12003]

@@tasmiatawazrishta If you don't like it you don't have too watch her videos, she doesn't control what comes in to her life. It's Not like she planned for her life to be like this, and she can post whatever she wants It's her channel not yours. If people don't like it screw off. She can document her life and show people, she still the same person she has not changed. She still shows videos of her doing cool stuff.

[@fadedpages]

Julia, all of this could be avoided by sharing less about your relationship. Protect your peace. Speaking as a long time viewer (since your pastel goth days!), I don't care at all about you being bisexual or in an age gap relationship. But it is weird that you hard launched Keith so quickly after your last video with Eileen. You need to understand the whiplash some of your viewers are experiencing. It's like trying to bring a bf into the friend group when people are still getting used to your ex being gone...

[@vtirado925]

Yes!

[@weisslr22]

I can totally see where you’re coming from with this comment. But I can also see another side of it where she should feel allowed to be excited and share her relationships. I think it’s less about how we, as the viewer feels, and what she owes us and more of what she owes herself to feel like she’s being authentic. ❤

[@vanessamc6866]

You're not into older people, you're into elderly people.

[@crishzi]

Yeah so?

[@kartosenlitminey]

But a boy of 60 is not an elderly one

[@amazonionavalon8252]

When I saw the terms 'greysexual ' and 'greyromamtic' recently, I actually thought for a moment that was a new label referring to just that preference !!! I'm a good one to talk though, my preference has always been up to 20 years my senior, men and women 😂

[@mariahorange9089]

EXACTLY!! I’ve been saying this

[@bxstar5276]

60 isn’t elderly.

[@Poeeeluvschai]

If you felt trapped and miserable with your ex wife then delete the old vids with her, or are you keeping it for the views? Also if you don’t want hate then just don’t over share your life online.

[@souldrummer687]

People may or may not agree, but you are putting yourself out here for views and comments. Bad comments obviously still get views especially when you can make a tearful vid over it. All in all it's your life and decisions. Since you put it out here I just want to say I wish I could have a do over and be your age again. I would NEVER have gotten in any of the 4 age gap relationships I was in. Wasted time, many regrets. 😢

[@mafi9962]

I am not invested enough to write a hate comment but I think in general, I saw people giving their opinions on the things you share. So being upset that their opinion doesn't align with your intention when posting is a little unreasonable. I personally didn't enjoy the few videos you posted about the new person because the way you were reminded me of exactly things you said to your ex so I thought ok, this is not interesting. I didn't comment because I didn't care enough but if your subscribers are invested in your posts and share their opinion, maybe just don't let it affect you so much

[@Poseidonblue123]

This ! You are right !!

[@elduende2891]

She says within the first two minutes that this video isn't directed towards those comments. It's for the people who are leaving hateful messages which is certainly reasonable. I'm glad she isn't listening. It's her own life to live .

[@SashaLin-gm1kl]

I'm all for age gap relationships as long as its consensual. I'm in an age gap relationship myself and my gay dad's are in an age gap relationship too. But I do think it's weird that ur bf has children ur age that to me crosses a line and makes things morally blurry. Also tht you called his grandchildren your step grandchildren.... like that's weird the relationship is still new and you've had no part in raising his kids or his grandkids so calling them ur step grandkids is inappropriate and way too soon.

[@RisingFell]

Perfectly said…it’s creepy and I bet his kids and grandkids are not feeling okay with any of this because it is icky when their kids and grandchildren are involved 😬 step grandmother and stepmum to people your age and younger just no…the morals are out the window.

[@missycitty9478]

You're living your life, PUBLICLY.

[@cupcakeadventures8770]

So??!!!!!

[@missycitty9478]

​@cupcakeadventures8770 She can't be upset with the negative comments. She's choosing to air her personal life to the world.

[@missycitty9478]

​@@cupcakeadventures8770Don't like my comment? Feel free to move on.

[@Poeeeluvschai]

@@missycitty9478exactly like what does she expect? You’ll get hate either way.

[@missycitty9478]

@Poeeeluvschai Exactly. Thank you!!

[@melindasordinospeak]

honestly, reacting to hate comments just shows you care and provokes people more. instigates more comments from people who wanna be featured in a video. stop reacting to "haters" it just makes you look bad/desperate.

[@tenebaum6595]

She’s just annoying and her behavior is motivated by unhappiness, low self esteem and attention. She also has an ugly attitude now and out of touch

[@vv_6969]

Girl you're allowed to move on. No one's heart has to morn something toxic forever. The past is the past. So glad you're happy.

[@Enora2526]

This! She was also with her partner before getting divorced so is it a “new partner”? She just continued her relationship lol

[@Shira1976]

I just wonder why your bus runs over Eileen so many times and when you gonna stop.

[@Poseidonblue123]

Because Julia wants revenge. And she keeps talking about her because she needs the confirmation of her dearest followers that she is allowed to talk trash about her. Julia is not a saint. She is totally nuts 😅

[@mizviz1599]

Please let Julia live her life. Please

[@lifeiswonderfulbao9143]

Do you know that if this becomes true it means stop washing her videos , following her on ig, yt, etc... So she will just be broke. Just think before asking that we let her live her life 😂 she'll be happy dating old men, broke, working a regular job as a waitress.

[@Nikkif1013]

@@lifeiswonderfulbao9143you throw out a lot of assumptions with nothing to back it up but ignorance. Move along she doesn’t need negative people like you following her. You don’t know her or her life so take a seat and worry about your miserable self 😉 you’re welcome.

[@Lietotajvards9]

​@@Nikkif1013no

[@joanadolphe5529]

Yes & let her be happy this is all that matters 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@Nikkif1013]

@@Lietotajvards9 find something better to do with your life than follow and harass people you don’t know nor do you like.

[@rebeccaannana5285]

How does anyone watch this whole thing omg sorry not being rude I am just getting annoyed after few minutes

[@nicky8385]

I watch about 1 min then switch off 😂

[@helenablanks255]

1.5x speed

[@tenebaum6595]

She’s far gone in her mental and esteem issues. She’s absolutely annoying and quite irrelevant on the internet.

[@tinahatfield8077]

Is this an open relationship, too? Will you be ok with/ Keif being with another person sexually while with you?

[@ladyface7903]

No

[@miss_michelle]

Good question

[@maisiedodsworth8421]

It's more then likely they tried out the "open relationship" because they where struggling in their marriage if you saw her video about it.. it was down to their struggles and to see if an open relationship would be better etc.

[@BasedSockHead007]

No because she only did that to cover for the fact she's a serial cheater, hope that helps!

[@Mandyb05]

​@@BasedSockHead007 She cheats with other old people too? Damn she's cleaning these seniors citizens cobwebs outt! 😆💀

[@laurenjungersen3009]

I also was once out a lesbian and then came out again as bisexual. I got way more hate from being bisexual than a lesbian.

[@amazonionavalon8252]

I get what you're saying, there's still this old fashioned assumption that us Bisexual people are greedy, confused and up for it with anyone ! Or that we're somehow letting down the gay community .....

[@laurenjungersen3009]

@@amazonionavalon8252 or that we are cheaters! 😂

[@ashleyjohansson230]

@@amazonionavalon8252 the terfs also get really angry over it lol

[@raven_0525]

I guess the hate were from lesbians?

[@laurenjungersen3009]

@@raven_0525 from my personal experience from the women I dated… it was an issue. Yes.

[@TeethAndEyeballs]

She's right. We're finding out that more and more of these influencers are straight-up predators, and we need to focus our attention on that, and not consensual adults having a relationship that you may or may not understand. It's one thing to have general commentary or sharing concern, but all the intense hate is strange. Have any of these people looked at the world? There's way more things to be pissed about.

[@crishzi]

For reaaal

[@karleensage5613]

Goodbye Julia, unsubscribe from your channel. Will not watch it again.

[@becky5212]

Are you still in an open relationship and dating or willing to date others, or did you call it an open marriage just so you could date your boyfriend without “cheating” on Eileen?

[@pluckdorable]

I believe she explained in the video where she discussed opening her marriage that it was a sort of last ditch effort to make it work with Eileen. I don’t think she’s polyamorous.

[@t.winter1486]

In my perception you seem to be so much more confident than you've been in the last...idk 50? videos. I love seeing you speak up and stand up for yourself!

[@opheliacplays]

I appreciate the acknowledgement that people concerned about you are not the haters youre referring to. Because being honest, my own reaction to seeing videos with the new partner so quickly, i was like, "oh this is kinda jarring"-- and i own that as MY reaction, not hate towards you. I was really hoping given what youd been through that you'd keep this relationship private a little longer and just take some time to heal and be happy, but those were just hopes i had for you, a complete stranger, honestly. I trust you know yourself and your limits, I hope you're doing well. 💛

[@julietaaddams96]

About the address of "you should wait a little bit more to enroll yourself in a relationship" still doesn't fit on my concern, he's definitely a great guy, he's definitely making you happy that's clear, my concern is exactly what you mention at the end of that part "I'm not known for being single for a long time" and that's completely normal in terms that it happens often to a lot of people but it doesn't mean that you should not be worried or treating that on therapy, it's not about being unable to be single, it's about you not being able to be by your own and enjoy life and be genuinely happy and fulfil when it's only you, that's the real worry because we can be talking about an emotional dependency or fear to be by yourself because you may do something you won't do if you were with somebody else, of course only you know what is behind that, what actually it's your real situation but it's proved that in order to you don't reproduce same behavior or even same mistakes and most important set boundaries you need to pass by a "Grief of the past relationship" reflex about it and start creating ways to identify how not come back to same vices, anyways probably you rather don't think about it but this is the kind of thing that never lets go, it haunts you until you face it and start dealing with it

[@bxstar5276]

Yet many whole people are in a healthy relationship since they are teenagers lol and never single. All precious This life advice wow. What would Julia do without you? 😂😂😂

[@gianna4732]

You look stunning

[@user-ol7yf8hl7f]

I think some of these are genuinely people concerned but others are taking this way too far. Julia is a human still and deserves respect like everyone else

[@DamienXavier1828]

My step dad is 4 years older than me. My mom is in her 50’s. I’m 28. It’s a little odd but that’s because that’s what society taught me is weird. This dude is cool and the best guy my mom has ever been with. He treats her with respect, takes care of her when she’s having issues, he’s not jealous of her and I being close. My own dad told me he hated me and was abusive. But this guy, he’s okay. Don’t worry what people think. If you’re happy and that person treats you well, go for it! Be you and be happy!

[@Nonea350]

No hate here, I'd just rather not see videos about your relationship. Keep that shit private, not everyone wants to know about your relationships. I've been around since BEFORE Eileen and your relationships have been showcased in every single video you've made. You used to do fashion vlogs and hauls, I miss that shit.

[@DanielaRErroa]

Disregard this type of comments, Juls ❤ I loveeeee having videos of your new relationship. In fact, I love to see all kind of videos coming from you.

[@crishzi]

Honey if you personally would not see it then dont click on them to see them LOL. Is Julia forcing you to watch them pointing a gun at you? You are such an entitled prick telling strangers on the internet what to post based on your liking

[@itisdaphne]

I miss the old content too, more about fashion etc

[@GoldenObjectumHeart]

Oh honey don't listen to them you're incredible girl ❤

[@JuliaZelg]

Awww thank you 😊💕✨

[@Sheyann_89]

I agree! Julia is a beautiful person. The thing is it wouldn't matter if Julia dated someone her own age people would still find something wrong with it. I love that she lives her life the way she wants to regardless of what people think. She's genuinely happy and that's all that matters

[@burymewithabook]

❤

[@stephaniebaird6937]

you seem lighter and more confident these days. I just hope you continue to protect your peace!

[@emjay934]

When you lose ...friends... when you come out as bisexual, then they were not friends in the first place. Do what makes you happy, haters will always be there, no matter what. I see that you are very happy with Keith, and he with you. Good for you both. Enjoy your life, it is way too short already. xoxo

[@mariane5591]

julia, seu atual relacionamento eh aberto?

[@MaddyPeters-yx9wl]

I read a quote one day saying ‘’a life that isn’t yours shouldn’t bother you’’ and I stand by that. Your life, your rules, we can be here today and be gone tomorrow ❤ All the best x

[@alisoncarroll]

I didn’t realise until I was 39 that I was bisexual, wish I’d discovered it way sooner

[@stephaniebaird6937]

congrats on discovering it though, and welcome to the lgbt community if you weren't before

[@laurentowers5124]

Girl that ice-cream nearly sliding off the spoon at the start gave me anxiety hahaha

[@maisiejomanning8381]

Do you identify as polyamorous since leaving your marriage?

[@milly7076]

I love you Julia! You make me smile with every video❤

[@midnightsyonara]

is the hate coming from tiktok? i never really see it on youtube. many people on tiktok are immature af

[@rose_yts]

1- 'You moved on too quickly and you should be single for at least a year' is not a far-fetched comment, and it's not an insult, but yes, you're right when it comes to the timing ...I partly agree with you. It doesn't have to be a year or a specific length of time to be dating again. However, It depends on the type of relationship you're having. Go too intense and ... 2- I agree that calling you a freak because of that IS an insult. Oh, and the age gap is not the problem here. 3- No one cares or is concerned about you on the internet, whoever they are, or you are. It's not personal. Talking about your personal life publically equals to people opinionating and gossiping online. Simple! They are not concerned. Some like to troll and others enjoy analysing human behaviour and that's all they are interested in. I think you know that. 4- Being in an open marriage after trying to fix what was broken and meeting someone new does not mean you have fully overcome and healed the wounds of your divorce, but that's your life, nobody else's. Each case is different. Like you said, you are living and learning. We all make mistakes and you are only young. 5- Losing subscribers means some silly people were projecting their frustrations on you, don't worry. More will come along. 6- Some lgbt members don't believe in bisexuality. Not all, thank God, but some don't. 7- You have the right to say something back to those who have truly insulted you as long as you know the difference.

[@SAPHIREpinup]

Julia, I’m polyamorous and was dating my current boyfriend while still with my soon to be ex husband. It was an abusive marriage and I eventually left. I not only stayed in a relationship with my boyfriend, I moved in with him and my meta after I left my husband. They’ve been a huge part of my healing and really, they took me in at my lowest. There’s nothing wrong with alternative relationships. Just because people don’t understand, doesn’t mean it’s wrong. It’s not our job to make people understand. Live your life how you see fit and how you’ll be happy and do no harm to others. I wish you all the happiness and positive vibes! ❤

[@sarahb.art.a8100]

There will always be someone who criticizes how you choose to live, so just live how you want to. I don’t think people need to be fully healed before getting into another relationship. As long as you are honest about you intentions while out there in the dating world, you aren’t hurting anybody. You do you girl!😊

[@hrtb8729]

Are you still working in new york/usa or have a room there? Etc...

[@zoooejenkins]

People will make excuses for serial abusers but attack normal people for simply existing. This world is ass backwards my Julia child.

[@evat385]

"Normal" is a very very loose and relative term...

[@zoooejenkins]

@@evat385 And?

[@evat385]

@zoooejenkins that it is safe to say gerontophilia and changing your sexual orientation with click of the finger multiple times in lifetime is not norm for most people. Not criminally insane, but, no, also not "normal"

[@zoooejenkins]

@@evat385 It’s called being bisexual. Passing judgment on complete strangers is not normal, that’s for sure.

[@Camilla.x]

All those haters should be ashamed of them self!!! It is horrible!!! Why not just be happy for you and your happiness! You are perfect for each other. I am so happy to see you live life with a sparkle in your eyes and together with a person who love you and treat you like the way you deserve💖🌸💖 Keith is amazing!

[@yuukonen]

Maybe it's off topic... but what product do you have on your lips? It's stunning

[@OrlaAfikiruweh]

Lip filler

[@yuukonen]

@@OrlaAfikiruweh omg no shit, I meant the color

[@OrlaAfikiruweh]

@@yuukonen 😂😂😂😂

[@starfishey2]

Man, every time I look at the comments all I see is support. That could be because I'm coming in the first couple hours of you posting and the majority of people doing that are your supportive fans. I'm glad you're so strong about all this because your happiness is all that matters!

[@RogueNinja16]

Omg, that one scoop of ice cream that almost fell off the spoon. I was so distracted lol

[@LoriFulkerson]

To the nasty commenters... by your standards, she's supposed to be "bullied" and ridiculed because she's sharing parts of her life with us? If you don't want to watch her content or you dont have anything positive to say... why say anything at all??? Why are you here??? Example: if you don't like a particular restaurant and you go there and then complain because they don't serve what you like to eat, why go to the restaurant? Make it make sense. If you don't like Julia's lifestyle, why the hell are you here? She'll survive without you because she's a strong independent woman.

[@EmilySusan61685]

One of the most hurtful moments I can remember in my previous age gap relationship was when that person's family showed up for a summer get together a group of them started blaring the 'gold digger' song by Kanye west. The irony was I was genuinely happy and so was this person. Not to mention they had been extremely sick and while they were battling this disease their family was nowhere to be found I was a 24/7 caretaker and I didn't mind but here they were singing about how I was a gold digger when I was trying so hard to let them see I genuinely cared and not about their money in the least. People can be so hurtful I try hard to NEVER pass judgement upon anyone else. Sending love Julia and Keith

[@giovnnapassos]

Pra falar a verdade, teve um tempo tempão atrás que eu deixei de ser inscrita no seu canal porque via uns comportamentos (sem hate para ela, mas é verdade) na sua ex que me causavam gatilho e precisei parar de acompanhar, era nítido o quanto o relacionamento te afetava. Ver você leve e feliz foi uma alegria genuína, você merece demais e que se lasquem os outros e seus julgamentos.

[@irishsakura1]

I totally get why you date older people. I liked older people too when I was younger. “Older” people have different perspectives on the most important things in life. I appreciate their wisdom. Don’t worry what other hecklers say. It’s your life, your story. Keep on filming. When you get older, you’ll appreciate these “historical” records.

[@Lunalane567]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@LeanneRende]

I've been bisexual since i was a little girl "playing Doctor" with both the boys and girls. I was also the Secretary Treasurer of the LBGT group in college. That all being said, I'm now a single mother and survivor of DV from my son's father. I just want to find someone who's going to treat me right, weather man, woman, or any one else in our community. Propose of my ramble is that you never know who you're going to end up with or how they're going to treat you. I wish i was as happy as you are now ❤ you go girl 😊

[@thaissouza1291]

you are right about not apologizing! This is YOUR life, you are not hurting anyone! I think unhappy people just can't handle to see someone being themselves, free and happy! Hope your new relationship keeps bringing you joy, because you deserve this, you deserve a peaceful relationship! I am very happy and proud of you, we, the brazilians are strong AF, don't mess with us!!!! Estou aqui desde o início e te apoio desde então! E continuarei te apoiando e te defendendo! Muito orgulho de você!

[@natv6294]

I would love if you spoke a bit about your struggles with eating disorders again, I know you did that in the past (and btw you aren’t alone) as some of your audience probably goes through it as well.. I miss your transparency and personality with your perspective a bit instead of just talking about relationships and just get an update about that, they are nice topics too but it’s a channel called Julia Zelg and it’s not much about you anymore if it make any sense..

[@enya6506]

💘💘💘 we love and support you

[@smileys462]

I wish some members of the queer community would realize they don't have to have the same standards as homophobic people I.E. the standard bisexual women are "actually straight" or bi women "invalidate" or "disprove" lesbians etc. Sometimes it feels like this comes from a need to "prove" the existence of queer people to homophobic or narrow minded people. Don't look for validation from a group that already doesn't agree with you, y'all!

[@littlemissbrown1235]

I thought it is Kieth not KIEF 😂

[@frostqueen4904]

It's keith

[@littlemissbrown1235]

@@frostqueen4904 Deffo not Kief like she pronounces it 😂

[@frostqueen4904]

@@littlemissbrown1235 Chief keef

[@littlemissbrown1235]

@@frostqueen4904 😂😂😂😂😂

[@elfenscheisse]

There may be real hate but being irritated by serial monogamy is something that many ppl seem to share, and being concerned about someone is actually showing that this person cares about the other one! Of course, every adult can do whatever he wants if he doesn't harm others - but such boarders can easily be crossed, and then it is too late. If you decide to let the world sneak into your private life, you have to live with every possible comment, unless it is a criminal act like a death threat or sth. If you can't deal with it, close the comment section!

[@xmikax8638]

I was in a very difficult relationship and the right person who was previously my friend was there when it was the worst, so it quickly went from relationship to relationship. I understand you You have a very cool and inspiring approach to people who get mad from all ot the sudden. It was refreshing and nice to listen to🎉✨

[@kiranightlee7291]

Going through this myself at the minute for leaving my marriage with a much older person for a younger person. Being pregnant has only compounded the stress tenfold. The amount of online hate I've copped has made me isolate myself and abandon my once enjoyable use of social media altogether. I so admire your strength, courage and resilience Julia...not to mention your incredible devil-may-care attitude. You're an unspeakably strong person to cop the constant criticism that you do, and continue to lead your best life every day. I love you and Keith together and wish people could be more accepting and less judgmental. It's your life, your rules, your happiness - not theirs!

[@DesireeandOhana]

I love that you share your story and your life and you don’t care what others think or say. Thanks for being real and honest about your life that’s why I support and subscribe to you because you’re not afraid to be yourself and really share your life with us.

[@Notmyr3alname]

I’m just here to spread the love to you and Keith! Personally I love your channel and content! Hope to get more vlogs with you two!! ❤

[@sarahcox215]

Hope you find happiness on the journey that we all call life❤

[@iimillstxcaii]

Y’all just let her be.. Ppl can’t help who they are attracted to…also it’s fine she has an older man as a boyfriend..

[@michellecrispino7349]

I'm so happy you said this. Ive been saying this. People are so cruel. Like she says in the video to they're two consenting adults. Let the girl live her life instead of being hateful and leaving nasty comments. Smh

[@Poseidonblue123]

Its not the age gap people have a problem with. She is adressing the ‘not nice comments” she is receiving. It’s more that people a guinely concerned that she showcast her whole relationship and moving on so quickly. And can’t take the heat if someone disagrees. People are allowed to have opinions. If she doesn’t want to than she has to have other subjects to talk about in their videos and keep her relationship private.

[@iimillstxcaii]

@@Poseidonblue123ik she moved on fast but sometimes ppl have a feeling where they just ‘need’ a new partner to get past their trauma before.

[@Poseidonblue123]

@@iimillstxcaii if you have a trauma, than it’s important to consult a psychologist. A trauma is not something you can fix with other relationships

[@iimillstxcaii]

@@Poseidonblue123sadly some ppl deal with their trama this way

[@LauraVogel731]

Oh noes she seems happy and fulfilled, 😮!!! F the haters. Love you bestie💜

[@kathysekulic5789]

Wish you all the happiness , love you Julia 💞

[@Hippycutie]

My Dearest Julia, you have a beautiful soul, and you look amazing I'm so sorry you are getting these awful comments about your dating life, it's so cruel! You do what makes you happy, I'm looking forward to hearing any new music you are bringing out such an amazing voice. Sending positive vibes ❤❤❤xxx

[@ambrosiachalice]

❤You’re adorable and admirable. Haters are often mad because they’re not confident or free thinking enough to live life outside of convention and face the judgment of others for making uncommon choices. It’s your life to live, who gives a F about anyone else’s rules?🎉❤

[@esmesallnow]

Julia I have so much respect for you and Keith. I've followed your journey with interest for a while now and your energy has visibly transformed in recent times, it is obvious you are fulfilled and happy, and blossoming into an even more wonderful and vibrant soul, and you seem very much yourself and relaxed in this relationship which is lovely to witness. Those who go out of their way to be negative and judgemental are simply projecting the jealousy and lack in their own lives onto someone who has the courage and heart to continue openly sharing her life, creativity and coming out journey as an influencer. The best influencers encourage others to celebrate being themselves, as you do! Keith comes across as an absolute gentleman and very genuine, and most importantly you have a gorgeous vibe together and are always smiling with each other. You really suit each other! Also, congratulations for coming out as bi, and Happy Pride to you both! 🌈💞♥️

[@amandacampbell4479]

Keith reminds me a bit of a younger Anthony Hopkins. Just run if you see him buying some fava beans and a nice Chianti 😅😅.

[@strongerbarcelona4682]

You are so so lovely and a very kind person. I wish you Will be happy forever no matther With Who. Lot of Hugs to you!❤

[@maconfort]

Btw, biphobia is a real thing and people coming to you bc you introduced your new partner on pride month proves that. Bi is part of the LGBT community, guys. We exist 😅

[@vermontvoice13]

I myself am bi/pansexual. Funny thing about June is that first it was men’s mental health month before it was ever pride month. So it’s extra funny to me that people give Julia and her male partner so much hate bc like how is that for his mental health as a male? I mean…

[@OrlaAfikiruweh]

​@@vermontvoice13Exactly!!!

[@amazonionavalon8252]

Keith is likeable immediately but after finding out hes BI I love him even more ! Purely for the reason that i am also & i can imagine hes got some fabulous anecdotes about his life & love experiences! ❤

[@alisoncarroll]

Totally off topic, does anyone know where I can get this ice cream please?

[@stephb5018]

Girl.. be a lesbian or bi, date people your age or older! These people that are saying those things are sad and lonely.

[@ShaylynCrowley]

Your entire intro speech was EVERYTHING ❤❤❤ always be yourself Julia! You're an amazing person and people will hate for no reason. Those who matter dont mind and those who mind don't matter

[@minacoda]

i'm supporting you julia! i gotta say, i was taken back when you first announced him, and i think i'm just biased cause i used to be a sugarbaby and had these really toxic relationships with older men. i know this is obviously not the case, i shouldn't reflect my own experiences to yours. i hope you're happy, and that he treats you with the respect and love that you deserve

[@VerSo-q1m]

Damn you did so well! So satisfying how you took all the hate and flushed it down the toilet. Way to go! 🤟 Btw Keith looks like really cool guy ❤️

[@Helsrobyn]

I feel so related to the bisexuality chat. I've always been a bit discriminated by the lgbtq+ community, I've been told many times that I'm not gay enough etc.. and I'm glad you've spoken about it because it does need to be more made awareness of. Because a lot of us don't feel safe in the lgbtq+ community all of the time and it's heartbreaking. And it's really not okay for people to be making hateful comments about you, your relationship or anybody in general. People get really brave behind a keyboard but remember that they wouldn't have the guts to say anything to you in real life. Keep living your life, all that matters is the fact that you are happy💛

[@kimberlyhayes6006]

I didnt hear anything. I want that damn ice cream 😭😭

[@caritomei7798]

I have been following you from years ago. I didn’t like your ex at all, but this person seems to be nice and you seem really happy now, I hope it is a healthy relationship this time. Yeah tbh jumping from relationship to relationship is not ideal, but I genuinely wish you the best, just be careful 💗

[@anyxd9950]

Some people might also be genuinely concerned because way back in the "open marriage" video, the initial narrative was "I met this man while I was mentally at my worst and trying to make an unhappy marriage work, he was so kind and understanding and to my own surprise, we randomly clicked and fell in love despite me always assuming I was, in fact, a lesbian" - and without knowing Keith/knowing anything about him initially, that may raise some red flags, because frankly it KINDA made it sound like he MIGHT have been taking advantage of your position? Of course we don't know you personally, or him personally. But that only adds on, you know? ESPECIALLY - as some others have stated - because you claimed your marriage was happy/healthy for a long time while it was absolutely not, so now even if you claim it's not like that and he's healthy for you and you're happy with him etc etc ppl just take it with a grain of salt.

[@amazonionavalon8252]

Finding out thar Keith was Bi filled me with growing enthusiasm for their unconventional relationship Seeing him in Julia's videos has showed what a gentle, kind, open minded and unassuming fella he has. So I believe its possible that fate & destiny were involved with the two of them meeting. You never know, as she intends to keep Eileen in the Family/friends Realm, who knows? We might see a video in 6 months time announcing they're now a Throuple !

[@missyluvs87]

I want that peanut butter icecream!! 🤤🍦😂❤

[@LeanneRende]

Ok, no shame here. But just bc you weren't a good digger in one relationship, doesn't mean that him literally traveling around the world with you and going to expensive shows every week; doesn't mean you're not extremely profiting from his money now in this relationship. I'm not saying you're a gold digger, but this MAN has a LOT more money than the WOMAN you were married to. So maybe that's what's encouraged your %1 bisexuality from 99% being Gay. So these might be done of the reasons people are saying these things to you. I personally have been watching you for YEARS now and would love to just be able to chill with you one night if you're still staying in NY part-time. I'm bisexual myself, but I'm also a single mom; so getting a sitter might be hard. However, i would still try if you were doing something here in the summer bc then i don't have to worry about a school schedule 🙃 ❤😊.

[@KLRLK]

I agree. I don’t think she’s a gold digger. I just think she went from paying for everything to getting everything paid for. That’s a big difference and I hope that’s not why she’s now bi-sexual. I think most of us are worried for her well being. We can only try to give words of wisdom Julia and I know I hope this is the perfect relationship for you.

[@SolC1989]

​@KLRLK that's a big big leap. When I was her age my sexualify changed and grew multiple times until I fully settled in what felt right and it took years. I'm 34 now. Making comments like this literally questioning someone's whole identity based on only a few small things is pretty problematic

[@KLRLK]

@@SolC1989is really that big of a leap? She was also this “excited” about Eileen. So now she’s in an opposite relationship and now she’s skinner than ever. I just worry about her mental health. She went from one extreme to another, much like addicts do. I just hope she’s well and honestly happy!

[@noak.5024]

You go girl! Glad you dont listen to the haters

[@meghangrace1274]

"I thought it would make good content" is that all you care about? Makes me think that's why she keeps going back to older people for the clout... It would look more guinuine if she kept it minimal at least until the divorce is over or not so new, but no you don't have respect for Keith or Ilene. Don't share your relationship online if you don't want to deal with the responses or backlash...you literally do it to your self so seriouly shut up. Not everyone is going to agree with this so if you can't take the heat get off the platform.

[@angeliahamilton6773]

I'm happy for you Julia❤️

[@a3l1um]

The fact you have to point out you're two "consenting adults" as if it's not a given is the reddest flag

[@kazzie2935]

You do you Julia, i just see a lovely person enjoying their life 😁❤

[@zoemcpeake6948]

Hey Julia! Good for you posting this, I wish you and Keith all the best 😊 I have two questions that came to mind watching this that maybe could be used for a future Q&A: 1. Would you ever consider marriage again? 2. Are you still in an open relationship, or are you and Keith monogamous now?

[@OrlaAfikiruweh]

Good questions. Also my question is f you Julia , were to get married again, would it be with a man or a woman as you're bisexual?

[@aimeeyume9454]

I’ve been watching you for years and this is the happiest I’ve seen you around a partner. People are being so weird and need to let you enjoy making whatever kind of content you want. Live your life girl🎉

[@420GirlForever]

I’m so sorry you’re getting all this hate over being with someone you love. Your happiness is all that matters. Ppl are just jealous and have their own issues. You’re not doing anything wrong at all. Seeing you happy makes me happy 💜

[@o0gothique0o37]

I think people are jealous you are following your heart and are able to do these things. The only harsh reality of settling down with someone older is they may pass before you

[@elle1612]

Keep being true to yourself Julia sending you lots of love 💕

[@omi_shad]

I really hate how negative people are. Some people in the community need to calm down. I'm a lesbian and I hate how much of a bad rep we have with the bi community let alone in my own Christian community. It makes me more nervous to talk about being gay because people expect me to be bi-phobic. Sending you and Keith so much love! You deserve to live your life and love who you wanna love. 💜 Supporting you all the way!

[@leilacastor4824]

You're happy, that's all that matters ❤

[@420GirlForever]

I also have always been in a relationship. I don’t think ppl should judge bc life is easier having a partner by your side. My partner is my best friend. I went through a breakup and was single for 3 months, then met my girlfriend I’m with now 💜 She’s 5 yrs older, so a little bit of an age gap here as well

[@katmc4237]

I was in an unhealthy relationship for so long and couldn't get out and I was so checked out. After we broke up I had a relationship with someone 3 weeks after. There's no time limit your heart will know and when you're treated better after being treated so bad you'll fall in love again. Don't be ashamed! I'm glad you did what you wanted and what's better for you! People need support and love and there's no time stamp on when it'll happen. Keep being you Julia I hope nothing but the best for you ❤😊