I feel like they're both kind of in the wrong, like the one that's having the child. I feel like once she heard that the girl that had the stillbirth was gonna name her child that I feel like she should have said. Oh, it's fine I can find a different name. But the one that had the still birth should have come at it differently and said Hey, I realized you're naming your child this, but I just wanted to let you know this is what I was gonna name my still birth child because if the stillbirth child was still alive the friend wouldn't have been naming her child that