30 Things I Wish I Knew In My 30s

[@ALifeEngineered]

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[@Jason-pd1ic]

0:02 1. Your 30s are better than your 20s 0:11 2. Don't take advice from people haven't failed 0:42 3. Change or learn to live with it 1:18 4. Learn to regulate your emotions 1:47 5. Take care of your body 2:05 6. You're not going to stop growing and changing 2:34 7. Get better at learning new thing 2:58 8. Wear sunscreen 3:10 9. Don't try to time things 3:57 10. You don't have infinite time with your family 4:17 11. Stop being a people pleaser 5:12 12. FREE time magement templates 6:30 13. Don't only do things you're good at 6:53 14. Put in the extra effort to make friends 7:35 15. Cure for burnout is gratitude 8:04 16. You will be the new guy many times 8:31 17. Be open to new music 8:56 18. Don't procastinate on your errands 9:20 19. Start saving a little bit now 9:45 20. Buy experiences 10:10 21. Don't take advice about your quarter life crisis from someone who is in their quarter life 10:28 22. Embrace the power of a strategic nap 10:36 23. Trade time for money 11:03 24. Journal regularly 11:25 25. You will lose some close friends 11:45 26. Find your tribe 12:11 27. Don't defer a celebration 12:40 28. Embrace your inner child 12:53 29. Boredom is totally ok 13:16 30. Read more books 13:58 31. Curate your digital life 14:14 32. Invest in your bed and ergonomics 14:45 33. Work on yourself first 15:15 34. Success is how you define it 15:30 35. Check out other videos

[@raysterfernandes4941]

Legend, saved 15mins of my life!

[@wicket4969]

Legend

[@bigbigdog]

Steve should pin this comment.

[@iCanonKiD]

Thank you so much!

[@ovflowd]

Seeing my employer sponsoring A Life Engineered. What a time to be alive.

[@iohin]

Loved reading Disrupted: My Misadventure in the Start-Up Bubble Book by Daniel Lyons! ❤️

[@indianfyre]

Hook up the Hubspot referrals then...😅

[@ThisIsntmyrealnameGoogle]

"I actually worked on the first kindle for amazon" out of no where is the coolest flex I've seen in a long time

[@RealJustinZiegler]

Thanks for all your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mse312]

Your videos are so different from majority of youtube content. I dont know how to explain it but they feel so genuine and straight to the point

[@yang5843]

The sunscreen tip is underrated, protect your skin!

[@cloudwithraj]

#27 is so true, we must celebrate success before next life stressor comes, and #28 is the reason a good mechanical watch is worth getting over quartz. Good one Steve 🙌

[@DebanjanSaha-i3b]

Man, I love your content. Keep doing what you do. Best.

[@s.sviatoslav]

Watching this in my 30s really resonates with me! Some of the advice I’ve come across before but didn’t take seriously at the time, while other insights are brand new to me. Either way, I’m so grateful for this, and I truly believe it’s going to make a positive impact on my future. Thanks for sharing!

[@JeffSu]

1:58 - So that's why I was the manual labor in helping you setup your studio... 😏. Loving the setup Steve!!!

[@shrutipandey8696]

Haha, Steve's back thanks you. I guess :p

[@peter11256]

You are awesome, Steve. Please keep on pumping this golden content.

[@kingkaixyz]

Steve, your videos always bring some peace and clarity to my life when it's really rough. Really appreciate the good content you put out and I hope you know how much it helps.

[@obinyanraphael6182]

I Love the fact that there was no mombojombo intro to this video! and I repreat, I love the fact that there was no intro in this video

[@AhBoyInUSA]

I’m in my mid 30s and some of these are hitting me hard. “Don’t be people pleaser” is so true when you realize not everyone at work will like you, you just need to stay true to yourself

[@KevinNaughtonJr]

banger vid steve

[@isaacdouglas1119]

He never misses...

[@eowynMR]

Steve, thanks for advices! This video resonates with me. I'm in my second half of the 30th and for lots of tips I was "so true!" especially about music from your 20th - lol. Like I listen to new music, but hearing music from my late teens, early 20s makes me so nostalgic!

[@dthx2710]

2nd week into my first job, #16 really struck a chord in me as I was struggling with unrealistic expectations for myself plus the fear of letting others down Thanks again for the great advices

[@tobaadesanya32]

Haha! 😂 Love the browser bookmark jab! I'm 28 and I felt that. Lol! 😅

[@ThatMarkGilroy]

This was awesome Steve. Great advice.

[@iStorm-my5fp]

Highly underrated video

[@harisha.g4792]

I was really seeking for such an advice since a while and I am so happy, grateful that you posted it! I can already relate to many things!!

[@xordux7]

As always, top notch video 👏👏

[@t.b.6600]

Although this is out of the software wheelhouse I subscribed for, I actually really appreciate this video. Thank you.

[@jhors7777]

Thanks so much, Steve. Great content and great channel.

[@matthewbridges3147]

Wonderful video, great lessons

[@gabrielfono844]

I really love your content. As self taught developer and someone who worked super hard to get there , your tips and tricks are very valuable to me. I appreciate.

[@oscarleon3008]

Great advice, thank you for posting this.

[@xthaone]

Agree with the Seattle Freeze lol. I grew up in WA state my whole life before moving to Seattle for college and work, but I often see transplants struggle to make friends and give a bad word about Seattle.

[@MarcusSanatan]

As a 30+ engineer, thanks man. Really appreciated this vid 🙏

[@nishantj693]

Damn, so much insights in a few lines... The first 30s made me like the video

[@yongnianzheng6078]

I'm 27 and it's really helpful. Thank you

[@srikanthboddapati3832]

Excellent advice!

[@therealraymondjones]

Another super helpful video 🙏, +1 Strategic nappping

[@carlosirias4474]

Great video. Thanks.

[@edanparker9273]

thanks uncle Steve

[@thejumpingtoad3167]

What watch are you wearing? Looks nice

[@arunkutube]

lol, i felt the same, advices from people who only saw success never works for me.

[@glenchaku9536]

really solid advice

[@nw6358]

damn these some great tips

[@felipefregginrules]

Spot on :) thanks so much

[@new_skyspirit]

Love your content as usual. But timestamps, bitte. Greetings from Germany

[@ousmand742]

This man aged like fine wine.

[@cakei1580]

thank you for the wisdom unc 😼👍

[@NickLaposky]

About 21 quarter life transition, its a bit shortsighted. You will have been idealistic and productive for a little bit. Dont forget to play, it will encourage imagination, connections between ideas, unique solutions, humor and you will be interesting to gain more friends

[@iohin]

2:20 there is a 42% divorce rate in they US. When you are recommending to embrace change are you recommending to embrace both the marriage and the divorce? Thanks!

[@hino2]

Is that a Fern chair you're sitting on? How is it? I'm in a search of a new chair.

[@HarisHussain]

Can we get 20 things you wish you knew in your 20s??

[@MrPejotah]

Amazing.

[@2rx_bni]

Sam's Club has LEGO btw :P

[@Sergiyovych]

Like how it’s growing from 30 to 35 during the video 😂

[@zachary_burrows]

Bookmarking for this decade.

[@333jjjjjj]

Are many people really having aches and pains in their 30s? I'm in my early 40s and haven't had such issues.

[@obesechicken13]

Here's mine: get tested for adhd. You may not have it but if you do you can make strategies around it including medication

[@boot-strapper]

life expectancy has actually been going down in recent years...

[@TechieTech-gx2kd]

Hey Discord invite shows invalid.

[@aliencommander]

nice kindle flex :)

[@MrSushantsingh]

Great advices, except sunscreen and moisturizer, all you need is nutrition and vitamin-D from sun for optimal health. Don’t let the companies trick you. Great video though 😊

[@offBeatRock777]

Uncle Steve

[@yagonagos]

🐰🙏

[@andrewpagan]

STEEEEEEVE

[@FirstLast-fc7dt]

Marriage?💀

[@twist197]

Controlling emotions is a terrible advice, this leads to a depression. You should resolve emotions.

[@vvel7952]

#11

[@jayrollo1352]

Pin my comment Meta!

[@hehanster]

nice batgirl Steve!