Alisa Mathewson's Night Terrors | Full Episode

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@delphinefulljoy6810
@delphinefulljoy6810 Жыл бұрын
😊
@leelawood655
@leelawood655 Жыл бұрын
Llll
@christopherwillams5408
@christopherwillams5408 Жыл бұрын
You'll see..or.maybe you won't probably not...
@christopherwillams5408
@christopherwillams5408 Жыл бұрын
I see white and pink , thats I what see and that's what I want thats what she is and that's what she want [ Blue babe County Fair] [)](] " two.peas in the pot " and blue what is the meaning ro Life or more meaning to Life [ she do, can i] collateral beauty " some of you standing here today want see death' ; impart ( and the tombs were openedand many of the bodies of the holy ones were raised up ) she was a. Believer and you still are.
@christopherwillams5408
@christopherwillams5408 Жыл бұрын
You built and designed and accepted a resistance and slander won't win ..I took your slander your disposition like she did she try to help despite his slanderous abuse. I read also and your not this is your building your occupation so that the Expanse for having some meaning here but this is her deliverance and ours the children of God , you know the surroundings See ugly poses in the phone when I leave the screen your mom and you are a declaration not just because of the crime allow me to witness.
@shirleytyree276
@shirleytyree276 Жыл бұрын
Man I hope that Walgreens employee sees this and realizes that he saved her life!
@golden2534gmailcom
@golden2534gmailcom Жыл бұрын
Barely
@janerohr8055
@janerohr8055 Жыл бұрын
Me to
@turtle19dad
@turtle19dad Жыл бұрын
Employee of the year for Walgreens!!!!
@shirleythompson8251
@shirleythompson8251 Жыл бұрын
I agree 👏👏👏
@lauritamburrino5179
@lauritamburrino5179 Жыл бұрын
See something say something
@longlivebeans
@longlivebeans Жыл бұрын
It’s bad enough dealing with an abusive spouse but to have your own child turned on you like that. Scary stuff.
@Vgs183
@Vgs183 Жыл бұрын
I’d have trouble ever trusting her again honestly.
@meagain6008
@meagain6008 Жыл бұрын
!!!!!! Unimaginable!
@tikatikatikatika3066
@tikatikatikatika3066 Жыл бұрын
Very scary
@kimberlyjones8069
@kimberlyjones8069 Жыл бұрын
I’d have to find that daughter another place to live. Yes she was manipulated but could it happen again? I’d never trust her again.
@michellep5933
@michellep5933 Жыл бұрын
Yeah 😞 kids can ruin your life sometimes.
@ronitknight3078
@ronitknight3078 Жыл бұрын
How appalling to have a manipulator and abuser to cross examine the persons he's accused of manipulating and abusing.
@JuiceForgetting5
@JuiceForgetting5 9 ай бұрын
We need to change the law for unique situations like this. A person has the right to defend themselves in court, but this should be mandatory appointed or hired counsel.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
@@JuiceForgetting5You can't make special cases. Your right to defend yourself is eternal, no matter for how sick the crime is. I don't want the government deciding when I can or can't defend myself. That is a slippery slope.
@PassionDCGL11
@PassionDCGL11 9 ай бұрын
Yeah how the hell was that allowed?!?🤯 this case is insane.
@debbiebethell2679
@debbiebethell2679 9 ай бұрын
What is wrong with the system. What an arse and trying to control the situation still even in court. 😡
@tsbuty
@tsbuty 8 ай бұрын
that little stunt got him 3 life sentences plus 250 years, I guarantee it wouldn’t have been that he he stfu
@slimwalk708
@slimwalk708 Жыл бұрын
To leave a 3-year old home alone for hours then make a 13-year old drive her younger siblings in the dead of night - That alone deserves a life sentence. Kudos to the judge for giving this madman a 224- year sentence.
@kaylawright
@kaylawright Жыл бұрын
‼️‼️‼️
@Sheworkshardforthemoney
@Sheworkshardforthemoney Жыл бұрын
He got 2 life sentences plus 224 yrs. Way to go judge!!! Oops...3 life trrms.
@jamesplymire5342
@jamesplymire5342 Жыл бұрын
I watched the trial. It was beyond crazy.
@seangreyson5486
@seangreyson5486 10 ай бұрын
​@@Sheworkshardforthemoney 3 life terms plus 224 years!
@Sheworkshardforthemoney
@Sheworkshardforthemoney 10 ай бұрын
​@@seangreyson5486 Sorry. It's a typo as I'm blind in one eye.
@oblivion85
@oblivion85 Жыл бұрын
Even though the daughter was manipulated, I don’t think I would’ve easily forgiven or be able to trust her again.
@Long_live_Da_Bully
@Long_live_Da_Bully Жыл бұрын
Couldn't know where I lived.
@oblivion85
@oblivion85 Жыл бұрын
@@Long_live_Da_Bully even at 14 years old some common sense should’ve kicked in..what threw me off was how she didn’t acknowledge her mother as she was tied and being put in the car.
@ND_1997
@ND_1997 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. She had to of at least loved her mother enough that instincts kicked it to help. It would be hard for me also to trust her again.
@cocksure8430
@cocksure8430 Жыл бұрын
Have you considered she knows more about the mother than you do? Look at the way she enjoys telling the story, she is loving every bit of attention.....imagine living with that? Im not excusing his actions, but lets not imagine her to be some gentle flower that just wanted peace... Shes acting out this story like a play, shes loving it.... Weird.
@PittsburghSportsFan43
@PittsburghSportsFan43 Жыл бұрын
Same.
@russellst.martin4255
@russellst.martin4255 Жыл бұрын
It amazes me that you can write out a confession, videotape yourself describing your crimes, and admit everything to law enforcement, yet still plead not guilty.
@admirallily
@admirallily 8 ай бұрын
Always remember that to allow adequate defense opportunity for the innocent in court you have to allow the same for the guilty to protect that right for the innocent.
@terribhatt4303
@terribhatt4303 6 ай бұрын
Narcissists and sociopaths never take accountability for their actions. When they are confronted about their despicable behavior, it's everyone else's fault and everyone is out to get them. This guy is text book. Glad he won't be back to inflict more torment on his family or anyone else.
@natashakhamo8696
@natashakhamo8696 5 ай бұрын
It was his way of abusing her further
@amcc5887
@amcc5887 2 ай бұрын
​@@terribhatt4303, absolutely 💯%💪💪💪
@kurotsuki7427
@kurotsuki7427 Ай бұрын
Hes the type to think if your married you own them and can do anything you want so clearly nothing he did was illegal (sarcasm)
@plantgirl146
@plantgirl146 Жыл бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me, how these controlling, abusive, narcissistic men treat their significant others so horribly, then go crazy when their partners finally try to leave them. And they NEVER change! She is VERY lucky to have survived.
@MartaRC32
@MartaRC32 Жыл бұрын
What amazes me the most is that those men usually show who they are right off the bat. On a first date, you probably can tell the guy is psycho, but to this day, many women think they can change their men by great great wives and mothers with a lot of kids. It´s almost like this story has been played many many many times in these shows and still happens... so sad...
@sfletch3042
@sfletch3042 Жыл бұрын
​@MartaRC Umm no. They do not. They hide it well until its too late. Once the mask is taken off you're in deep. Unless you've been in a narcissisticly abusive relationship you don't know what you're talking about.
@HobbyOrganist
@HobbyOrganist Жыл бұрын
Even more amazing is how he just "changed", though mom always told me people are like chapters in a book, about every 10 years you change
@chloeuntrau4588
@chloeuntrau4588 Жыл бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me that women do not see the signs and blindly are making a bunch of kids with an idiot!
@kathymoney293
@kathymoney293 Жыл бұрын
​@@MartaRC32 😅
@pauld4355
@pauld4355 Жыл бұрын
she had a restraining order but they are trying to argue that she consented? this is disgraceful. this woman is incredibly courageous. shame on that court for letting him cross examine
@thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527
@thelittleredhairedgirlfrom6527 Жыл бұрын
My guy the court didn’t “let” him cross examine, they legally can’t prevent him from representing himself.
@tankthearc9875
@tankthearc9875 Жыл бұрын
she never said no
@joanhartsree7812
@joanhartsree7812 Жыл бұрын
Now that's what you call justice
@mihirengg19
@mihirengg19 Жыл бұрын
she CLEARLY agreed by not saying NO. this woman has very flexible definitions of rape. he also had a restraining order against her. it's one's word against the other. A woman can manipulate an entire judiciary to believe in an offence that did not happen. The truth, slightly twisted in narrative during testimony, can convince even a judge of rape.
@mortimerbrewster3671
@mortimerbrewster3671 Жыл бұрын
@@mihirengg19 As the lawyer stated, there is a difference between consent and coercion. A man who has a restraining order against him, sneaks into the house in the middle of the night waking a woman up from a dead sleep and has a history of mental/emotional abuse can not be considered consent. His very presence at the hour in that manner was a threat and it was smart of her not to enrage him by saying no. Abusers take out restraining orders all the time as part of the abuse - making the victim look like the bad person. She wasn't the one that broke through the restraining order. If you want to know who to believe, you don't trust the person who broke the restraining order and then went on to tie up the victim and inflict terror.
@danni1993
@danni1993 Жыл бұрын
The best part for me, was when the Detective said "You didn't have surgery...you got stitches" 😂
@rada9748
@rada9748 Жыл бұрын
This poor woman. That a justice system allows the perpetrator to question and torment his victim for four hours in court. Reprehensible.
@timecode37
@timecode37 Жыл бұрын
Well, he really dug himself in even more and showed everyone in the courtroom that there isn't any doubt about who's the abuser here. Hopefully she can at least partly heal from the damage he caused her.
@Amanda---
@Amanda--- Жыл бұрын
I know it seems unjust but it truly is justice to allow the accused to represent themselves. It worked outing her favor at the end;.
@ST-LEO
@ST-LEO Жыл бұрын
Part of not being in a totalitarian country means rights for all humans. You can certainly get those rights taken away with bad behavior. It's upsetting to see, but sometimes you gotta let the accused bury themselves.
@limboart9361
@limboart9361 Жыл бұрын
This shouldn’t even have been allowed it’s disgusting. The narcissism, if he’s going to be allowed to cross examine her, he should be required to testify.
@TruckerDave215
@TruckerDave215 Жыл бұрын
This is so freaking crazy how they even let this go that far
@jenniferwilling1193
@jenniferwilling1193 Жыл бұрын
I teared up when the judge sentenced him. Thank you, Judge!
@PianoGesang
@PianoGesang 8 ай бұрын
I think the sentence is exaggerated and he has grounds for appeal but then again he had had earlier convictions.
@SomeGuyFromOK
@SomeGuyFromOK Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but him being able to question her himself should’ve never happened. If there’s not a law against that, there should be. She’s a sexual assault victim for God’s sake. That’s absolutely ridiculous.
@antshonor
@antshonor 10 ай бұрын
The legal system gives everyone the right to face their accuser and represent themselves. Although I deffinatly think that sometimes that shouldn't be allowed but it's a slippery slope to start restricting those kinds of things. A very complicated and intresting issue the US Legal system faces.
@spookysnow88
@spookysnow88 9 ай бұрын
well with a sentence like that im sure it won't happen again for another 100 years.
@PippiOnePointOh
@PippiOnePointOh 6 ай бұрын
It definitely shouldn’t have been allowed for him to question the kids. They could easily be too afraid of him to tell the truth to his face.
@virg0_lem0nade
@virg0_lem0nade 4 ай бұрын
@@antshonor-- The legal system also gives victims of violent crimes the right to NOT have to face the perpetrators. So they just completely violated that law, in favor of making the r***st happy..... wtf.
@virg0_lem0nade
@virg0_lem0nade 4 ай бұрын
@@antshonor-- There is absolutely nothing that is a "slippery slope" about saying that rapists should not be allowed to terrorize their victims in court.
@seyimajek
@seyimajek Жыл бұрын
This woman is so incredibly strong not only for surviving such an attack from her crazy ex-husband but for forgiving her oldest daughter who took part in the situation. I hope nothing but healing for her and her children💕
@eleanoraquitaine2966
@eleanoraquitaine2966 11 ай бұрын
I could never trust my daughter again. Never.
@CB-kj8ed
@CB-kj8ed 8 ай бұрын
She is incredibly strong and a mother’s love sometimes overrides what others may seem as scary or irrational.
@mirjamweibel9678
@mirjamweibel9678 Ай бұрын
@@eleanoraquitaine2966it’s never the child’s fault. He manipulated her
@wellIdiditagain
@wellIdiditagain 10 күн бұрын
That child was 14 yrs old and Trevor manipulated her, he's a monster.
@nebabraitis9825
@nebabraitis9825 Жыл бұрын
I find myself feeling a bit incredulous as I watch this. That fact that he can explain himself as being vulnerable and taken advantage of while being in a hospital bed that he caused himself to be in, and yet when he broke into his estranged wife's house/bedroom, while she was asleep, tied her up, attempted to smother her, attempted to choke her and yet in his head he truly saw himself as the victim
@mariashelley7068
@mariashelley7068 Жыл бұрын
I think he was crazy
@karyn19
@karyn19 Жыл бұрын
That's how a narcissist works...
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
It's called demon possession.
@kittykat8177
@kittykat8177 Жыл бұрын
@@joeking433 nope, that is simply a human being, stop trying tp blame non-existent entities for the action of a man
@OrangeCat1992
@OrangeCat1992 Жыл бұрын
@@joeking433never underestimate the inhumanity of humanity.
@jullietmburu9672
@jullietmburu9672 Жыл бұрын
😳 when your own children betray tou, and participate in your abuse... I honestly feel for Alyssa. I can't imagine dealing with that kind of pain 😢
@StofStuiver
@StofStuiver 11 ай бұрын
She got her kids, doesnt she?
@truth1844
@truth1844 11 ай бұрын
It is his children too.
@zaneta3880
@zaneta3880 11 ай бұрын
It's just brainwashing. The girl was a victim too... It wants betrayal tbf😮
@juniorousk2332
@juniorousk2332 11 ай бұрын
Definitely painful 😢
@tarantulamum4322
@tarantulamum4322 8 ай бұрын
I feel for ALISA too
@gabriellazych730
@gabriellazych730 Жыл бұрын
the daughter was old enough to understand what a restraining order is and what a shelter for battered woman is. waiting until mom was asleep, sneaking her dad in through the window, ignoring her mothers pleas? she should be on that stand too. minors have been tried for lesser crimes than her and still been convicted. she definitely aided her father and she knew full well it was wrong.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
It's not that simple. Her father focused on messing with her thinking and succeeded at getting her divorced from reality. I dealt with getting pulled back and forth between parents even though Dad was the abusive one. Parents have a lot of power
@maureenstevens6824
@maureenstevens6824 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯%!!!!!
@hotellady4033
@hotellady4033 Жыл бұрын
Her father is a mental abuser to his child at this point! He had a moral duty to not get her involved in his diabolical behaviors!
@JessLBreen
@JessLBreen Жыл бұрын
He manipulated Arden to the MAX! He likely had told Arden it was a prank, he could had told her the PPO had been resolved by the courts, etc! Victim shaming is NOT a good look and those children are very much victims in this scenario just as much as Alissa is!
@daniellemorgan2059
@daniellemorgan2059 Жыл бұрын
@@McPierogiPazza I agree. Been in a similar sort of position as a young teen. Very confusing for a child to go through. Thankfully, it never escalated to this.
@Sua_sponte_is_weak
@Sua_sponte_is_weak Жыл бұрын
Can we thank 48hours for posting the full episodes?! 🙏🏻
@johannaliceaga5936
@johannaliceaga5936 Жыл бұрын
She seems to have such a positive energy even after all she’s been through.
@jeanroeder5534
@jeanroeder5534 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, Arden needs to have her behavior on record because if she is capable of this kind of behavior being manipulated by her dad she needs serious counseling to prevent this kind of behavior in the future.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
No one else will have that kind of power over her (parents are supposed to be your protectors and seem larger than life to a kid), and she'll never have 14 year old brain development again. I'm more worried about the cruel commenters here
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
It could happen to your kids. Kids love their parents and are easily manipulated.
@kuromyou7969
@kuromyou7969 Жыл бұрын
​@@McPierogiPazza one doesn't need to have 14 yr old brain development to be manipulated.
@eleanoraquitaine2966
@eleanoraquitaine2966 11 ай бұрын
Not all children are that easily fooled. ​@@joeking433
@Marlaina
@Marlaina 11 ай бұрын
Do 14 year olds not have a conscience? Not know right from wrong and not to hurt others, never mind your own mother?
@aliceafonso4679
@aliceafonso4679 Жыл бұрын
It's not normal for a teenage girl to simply burst into her mom's house and vandalize it, writing a lot of insults on the walls, even if it's under the argument of being "manipulated". Arden didn't act as if she felt any empathy for her mother. I would fear her if I was Alisa. Arden speaks about it all even giggling a few times, totally creepy.
@crishuez
@crishuez Жыл бұрын
There is something very wrong with her. The judge also didn't help by saying she shouldn't feel remorse.
@avastrawberry8519
@avastrawberry8519 Жыл бұрын
no, it's indeed not normal because it's not normal to be abused by your dad and be made to believe your mom is a horrible person. first off, she *was* manipulated, so no need for quotation marks. traumatized people often separate themselves from their feelings about these events in order to be able to cope. she said she felt a lot of guilt for many years. additionally, laughing or smiling at inappropriate times is also well-known to be a coping mechanism for some people when they are highly uncomfortable. please have some empathy instead of judging people by a TV very limited interview. her mom has forgiven her.
@wynnhorton1208
@wynnhorton1208 Жыл бұрын
We don't know how nutty Arden's mom is. It is not normal for a child to turn on her mom, so I suspect her mom had a dark side, too. I thought the mom was overly-dramatic and loved the attention she was getting. I have no doubt that her husband was a nut and a criminal, though. Also, a child is half her father's and her mother's genes and a child doesn't choose her own genes.
@realtalkwithLorin
@realtalkwithLorin Жыл бұрын
She's so creepy! I would ever be alone with her.
@imjustaturtle641
@imjustaturtle641 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Abusive Households aren’t normal.
@sierradavis562
@sierradavis562 Жыл бұрын
hearing the rescue made me cry. thank god for the walgreens workers and the police got acting so quickly
@nickh5021
@nickh5021 Жыл бұрын
Being manipulated by her father is sad, but she embraces it after these years and seems proud of it and the things she's done. I feel so sorry for the mother.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
You didn't watch the whole video, I take it
@kittykat8177
@kittykat8177 Жыл бұрын
absolutely, when I was 14, I was strong and stubborn being born and grown up in childhood DV expanding to early 20s, NOBODY could manipulate me. I had my own mind, was strict vegetarian since age 8, nobody else in that house was, as example. To this day I do not listen to gossip/BS about soemone, I make up my OWN mind. Too many sh*t ppl in the world.
@uhsaywhatnow
@uhsaywhatnow Жыл бұрын
The oldest daughter came across as cold…maybe she wasn’t keen on being interviewed for tv? 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Vgs183
@Vgs183 Жыл бұрын
@@McPierogiPazza I watched it from start to finish and agree with the original comment, Arden was 100% old enough to know when they see their mother held hostage that maybe this isnt ok, but nah she just ignored her. Strange kid.
@irinasofia_sm
@irinasofia_sm Жыл бұрын
​@@kittykat8177EVERYONE can be manipulated & was at a point in their lives. It's has nothing to do with being strong or not. I think you should inform yourself about this subject before commenting.
@jaydeekaybee
@jaydeekaybee Жыл бұрын
What tears me apart is the daughter that helped her father break into the house after witnessing the abuse he submitted her mom to. She was so heavily manipulated, and states it so matter-of-factly that she helped her father by leaving a window open, even years later, with no ounce of remorse of what she took part in.
@lilacmile
@lilacmile Жыл бұрын
It clearly wasn’t a happy family, this is an example of how it isn’t a good thing to keep children completely ignorant of the realities of life. People are sold on these ideas of picture perfect families, even adults but especially children are susceptible, believing that’s the only way to happiness can lead to all kinds of tragedies.
@snippetsordinarylife
@snippetsordinarylife Жыл бұрын
You are wrong. At the trial she stated how she felt responsible for what happened to her mom. The judge even mentioned her in his ruling and told her she was not to blame. She had to go for counselling to move past the guilt. I am so happy that she managed to move past it.
@Lmcv82
@Lmcv82 Жыл бұрын
It wasn't her fault, she was being manipulated by her father.
@Sabishii-Sensei
@Sabishii-Sensei Жыл бұрын
Just because she's speaking matter of factly doesn't mean she doesn't feel remorse over what happened. t's been 5 years since then. Time for loads of therapy and forgiveness of herself. She was heavily manipulated with the hope of mommy and daddy getting back together. As someone who is also traumatized by childhood events... I also speak about trauma in a matter of fact way. It's easier to talk about when you disassociate. The regret and remorse comes later.
@tikatikatikatika3066
@tikatikatikatika3066 Жыл бұрын
Yes that is what took me also 💔
@Surannhealz
@Surannhealz Жыл бұрын
That judge threw all the books at him 😂😂😂
@YourGoodKarma
@YourGoodKarma Жыл бұрын
I am sorry, the way I wouldn’t ever trust my own child again after she let him in. Understand she was manipulated but still. Our relationship would never be the same. Ever. This mom is so lucky to be alive!
@oblivion85
@oblivion85 Жыл бұрын
Me neither, and I have a daughter that I would die for.
@tammywallace5928
@tammywallace5928 Жыл бұрын
Right I just commented on this. How is she still like she did nothing wrong knowing her dad was not there to reconcile! She need's to hve the guilt if she doesn't that's just horrific but does she even feel remorse she certainly doesn't seem like she has an ounce!!!
@terryellis7692
@terryellis7692 Жыл бұрын
Yup. Parental alienation at its finest.
@authority1883
@authority1883 Жыл бұрын
When you are 14 years old, you can easily be manipulated into thinking that. Stop the victim blaming, its really really uncalled for.
@LindseyMoon_
@LindseyMoon_ Жыл бұрын
It’s absolutely parental alienation, but mannnn…. I would always love my child an they would always be in my life etc an everything of course but I really don’t think I just could ever fully trust them. However IF knew they were coerced.. but still there idk just no matter how I look at it.. there’s just a tiny sliver that I just don’t feel I could ever get back. 😢
@PineBaskets
@PineBaskets Жыл бұрын
We need new laws that have a stand in attorney question victims when the accused represents themselves.
@WideAwakeHuman
@WideAwakeHuman Жыл бұрын
You mean a constitutional amendment?
@jamiedecker7853
@jamiedecker7853 Жыл бұрын
I agree!! Or maybe certain charges deem one unable to represent themselves
@surpriseimblack
@surpriseimblack Жыл бұрын
It's called the Constitution. That notion violates the heart of the Constitution. That's why it's called the ‘confrontation clause’ you're confronting the people that are saying you need to go to prison..
@gaillessard2786
@gaillessard2786 Жыл бұрын
​@Schock Therapy not confronting, intimidating!
@teresathayn5170
@teresathayn5170 Жыл бұрын
True because they're being traumatized all over again and that's so wrong! The perpetrator shouldn't have more rights than the victim!!!
@jamescook1960
@jamescook1960 Жыл бұрын
Although arden was manipulated, but she certainly did not show any remorse or emotion while speaking about the terrible ordeal she put her mither through. It will be difficult for any mother to reconcile with such a daughter.
@arturovaldemar
@arturovaldemar 9 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more. She'll probably develop behaviors similar to her father.
@Dhruv_Dogra
@Dhruv_Dogra 9 ай бұрын
She didn't really know him as a person all these years. She sounds shocked. He is not just cruel and dumb but clearly a sociopath. Imagine thinking of sex in such circumstances and doing it 4 times . ..
@robertjackson3819
@robertjackson3819 9 ай бұрын
Well said, @Treeofwysdm
@ronanwalsh7024
@ronanwalsh7024 3 ай бұрын
Get over yourself! She knew exactly what she was doing was wrong.​@Treeofwysdm
@urjust2cool
@urjust2cool 4 күн бұрын
Whatever craziness he has I believe was passed to Arden. She is not normal. She almost seems sociopathic
@OkayImLisa
@OkayImLisa Жыл бұрын
I was in shock, as I watched this trial. He played so many games with the court. But the worst was when he decided to represent himself. Just so he could cross examine his own victim.😢 Alisa was amazing, absolutely amazing, on the stand. He never shook her. I hope they all live their best lives from here on.... except Trevor, of course.😊
@doglife3543
@doglife3543 Жыл бұрын
I watched the trial too. I loved the Judge's comments about the defendant's timing to represent himself so he could question Alisa as evil.
@OkayImLisa
@OkayImLisa Жыл бұрын
@@doglife3543 yes! That judge is terrific. I've watched some of the other cases he's presided over. He's always fair and cares about victims.
@kellicaudill856
@kellicaudill856 Жыл бұрын
No remorse from the daughter
@OkayImLisa
@OkayImLisa Жыл бұрын
@@kellicaudill856 nah, Kelli, I've been following this for a while. The daughter really went downhill for a couple of years. She was being consumed with guilt, despite the judge's kind words. There are pictures of her from back then.😞 I'm so glad to see she's recovered from that trauma.
@WILMA_
@WILMA_ Жыл бұрын
@@OkayImLisa - I really don’t think I could care. She almost got her mom killed by being an accomplice!!!!!!
@ashlimaribcu
@ashlimaribcu Жыл бұрын
The daughter isn't as gullible as shes trying to portray. She's seen how crazy her Dad is and put her siblings lives at risk by letting him through the window.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
Nothing to do with gullible. She was emotionally abused by a father so committed to his BS he portrayed himself as a victim in court. That's the level of crazy he used on her young self
@monapierson5050
@monapierson5050 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to Arden and Trevor, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
@ExiledStardust
@ExiledStardust 9 ай бұрын
@@McPierogiPazza Abuse is no excuse. When the "abused" becomes a perpetrator and co-conspirator, I have zero sympathy for them.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
So someone doesn't understand manipulation and brainwashing, got it.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
@@ExiledStardustSo someone doesn't understand manipulation and brainwashing, got it.
@AACE73
@AACE73 Жыл бұрын
The hero of this story is the cigarette break guy! He ought to be in everyone's prayers for doing what so many people wouldn't/don't do! 🙏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻 Thank you Mr Walgreen's Employee & Neighbourhood Hero of the Century! If not for your actions, this dear lady may have left this earth in a hideously violent & cruel manner!!!🙏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🤗🤗🤗🤗
@rooroo1704
@rooroo1704 Жыл бұрын
How the US laws allow an accused to represent themsleves AND question their alleged victims is beyond a joke.
@kathconserv
@kathconserv Жыл бұрын
It makes the dependent look worse.
@mom4life513
@mom4life513 Жыл бұрын
Yes definitely a joke
@limehouseblues
@limehouseblues Жыл бұрын
you have a right to confront your accuser. this is foundational us law...even if it looks/feels distasteful
@rooroo1704
@rooroo1704 Жыл бұрын
@@limehouseblues Yeah that's the joke part 😂🤷‍♀️
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 Жыл бұрын
Then you think the Constitution is a joke, because that’s where that right comes from.
@jle5734
@jle5734 Жыл бұрын
The daughter seems proud of her actions against her mom, like the writing on the wall that was “her idea”
@avastrawberry8519
@avastrawberry8519 Жыл бұрын
watch until the end. she feels a lot of guilt, just because she didn't express it outwardly doesn't mean she is proud of what she did. she was a child and she was manipulated by her own father, who she trusted and loved.
@randomgame554
@randomgame554 Жыл бұрын
"Was my idea 🤡" ....congratulations here's a fking 🍪🍪🍪
@itsmelive
@itsmelive Жыл бұрын
It sounds more like she was trying to take responsibility for what she did. She’s probably been in a lot of counseling not to mention the legal necessity of telling the story dozens of times. They likely asked her over and over whose idea the writing was since it’s clearly in her handwriting.
@aeonfluxcapacitor77
@aeonfluxcapacitor77 Жыл бұрын
I think she and her mom are a lot alike. They seem unaffected and almost but not quite happy.
@12thDecember
@12thDecember Жыл бұрын
Just goes to show how easily children can be brainwashed by a family member they trust.
@nbarnes6225
@nbarnes6225 Жыл бұрын
The unbelievable GALL of him saying "I was captive" and that he was vulnerable and "possibly coerced" by the police. I'm screaming in rage!
@Lungeley
@Lungeley 6 ай бұрын
Infuriated the fck outta me
@lowee333able
@lowee333able Жыл бұрын
The oldest daughter doesn't even seem sorry for what she did
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
You watched a TV show. That doesn't mean you know anything much. I can't believe all the women attacking this girl for not showing emotions the way they seem correct. Y'all would have contributed that Australian woman whose baby was killed by a feral dog. Everyone decided she didn't look grief stricken
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
She said she blamed herself! WTF do you want from her, a suicide attempt???
@sunfollower5623
@sunfollower5623 Жыл бұрын
The oldest child seems like the golden child. All narcissist parents have one.
@AmelieGonzalez-b4x
@AmelieGonzalez-b4x Жыл бұрын
@@McPierogiPazza Huh? that woman was innocent. This girl was totally guilty in this. Are you the daughter pretending to be someone else? Of course you are. Shame on you.
@AmelieGonzalez-b4x
@AmelieGonzalez-b4x Жыл бұрын
@@joeking433 No,, a true sense of remorse. Duh.
@amybostic1439
@amybostic1439 Жыл бұрын
I am absolutely DISGUSTED the judge allowed him to cross exam the victim and the children 😡
@zxy78267
@zxy78267 Жыл бұрын
He can't do anything about it, since it's a legal right. Look at the Daryl Brooks case.
@sirralton
@sirralton Жыл бұрын
The law in the US (or some states I suppose) seems so wild to me as a South African. I was confused the entire time and thinking damn this is horrendous. Would be my worst nightmare.
@loralieisa
@loralieisa Жыл бұрын
The Judge if he didn't allow him to defend himself "pro se" would have jeopardized the trial. The wacko husband could have walked away.
@jamrockingston
@jamrockingston Жыл бұрын
Why? He has a right to face his accuser.
@redwatch.
@redwatch. Жыл бұрын
It is his right to represent himself. Listening to this pathetic manipulator showed what a psycho he is and helped get him put away for life.
@jasmine_167
@jasmine_167 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God.. She and I went through the same thing in 2017.. My ex was also prosecuted in Hillsborough County. I'm so glad you got justice, Alisa ❤
@PianoGesang
@PianoGesang 8 ай бұрын
How about you?
@unicornsstars3614
@unicornsstars3614 Жыл бұрын
The daughter is now 20 but while she’s talking about what happen, it seems as she’s proud of what her and her dad did.
@missing1st24hours
@missing1st24hours Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@dogjeepmeat
@dogjeepmeat Жыл бұрын
I would agree except I think it's actually a form of PTSD she's experiencing but you never know people's true intentions. I hope she learns from the experience, I bet she's still processing it.
@berkeleygirllaserbeam
@berkeleygirllaserbeam Жыл бұрын
@@dogjeepmeat That was a very kind response. I’m having conflicted feelings about the daughter and aspiring to be more understanding, with her and in general. I’ve got both personal and professional experience with domestic abuse, unfortunately, and have PTSD and CPTSD from lots of different trauma that happened to me as a child and adult. The results of trauma can be manifested in so many different ways. Every day I just try to be a better person and feel compassion for everyone, because we never know what someone else is dealing with.
@HT-rq6om
@HT-rq6om Жыл бұрын
Not proud but very nonchalant, I would say.
@theejaydoubleyew
@theejaydoubleyew Жыл бұрын
Indeed. She was no victim in this; she was a co-perpetrator.
@alainaevans9683
@alainaevans9683 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy she survived as many people in these unfortunate situations do not. ❤🙏
@danielholt6741
@danielholt6741 Жыл бұрын
I hope every woman sees this video and carries protection.
@jakelineychavez
@jakelineychavez 8 ай бұрын
I hope every man sees this too and remembers to not be a psychopath
@Southamericangirl42
@Southamericangirl42 7 ай бұрын
@danielholt6741 Well, pretty soon the anti-gun lobby is going to deliver us straight into the hands of the psychopaths.
@maxrobertson9008
@maxrobertson9008 7 ай бұрын
I immediately thought, "no, in most cases, the abuser could get the weapon away from her and use it on her." Bad advice.
@valleyolillies2338
@valleyolillies2338 Жыл бұрын
I think the new husband seems awesome. What a hero to take on 5 kids and show them real love of a father
@Miss59Pat
@Miss59Pat Жыл бұрын
I worked at DV shelter for many years. The last thing an abused woman needs is another man waiting in the wings, even before she is !legally free from the abuser. So many women think they NEED a man. Don't get me wrong, I hope her new relationship is safe and non abusive. But,it often doesn't work out that way.
@speculizer1971
@speculizer1971 Жыл бұрын
@@Miss59Pat For the most part I agree…. But there are some fantastic MEN out there who would love to take on that responsibility with his whole heart. Hopefully the new man is that guy!
@Heidi-Beth
@Heidi-Beth Жыл бұрын
Yes and only if I could happen upon someone like that. ❤
@regularguy2391
@regularguy2391 Жыл бұрын
@@Miss59Pat why she needed another man, can’t live without a man?
@kittykat8177
@kittykat8177 Жыл бұрын
@@speculizer1971 been wishing for that my whole life, and I don't even have kids. I have not seen a handful of fantastic men. I hope her remains good to them too though
@hartofcrochetbysheryl
@hartofcrochetbysheryl Жыл бұрын
This was one of the first trials I watched here on YT. When Alisa got on that stand and Trevor started questioning her I was amazed at her courage and determination to get the truth told. Because of her and her story I began opening up more about mine in my first marriage. I have had the honor of being able to thank Alisa through a message for being a voice for the voiceless. If you are in an abusive relationship physical or emotional please open up to someone trustworthy and get help. I wish I would have done that and gotten out sooner. But I’m in a better place now just dealing with the baggage. Thank you Alisa for telling your story. I’m so happy for you and the family.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@kinshasaharris4758
@kinshasaharris4758 Жыл бұрын
I'd never let that daughter near me and her siblings or in my house ever again with protection. That girl has seen first hand the evil her father was doing to her mom and still let the man in. I'd have to get a restraining order the more I'm thinking about this.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
So someone doesn't understand manipulation and brainwashing, got it.
@kacieeichinger965
@kacieeichinger965 7 ай бұрын
I agree. I thought it a little insane that she made comments like "what happened to my family that night" um no what happened to your mother and you know you played a part in the torture or your mother.
@rainaeasley7863
@rainaeasley7863 7 ай бұрын
She was taught that this was normal behavior if your mom stays with an abusive person for year just because she decides she is done the kids have no clue that this is not normal because it’s what they have live in and mom has always acted like it was normal and then all of a sudden she doesn’t want it any more you can’t blame the kids
@patriciasisson84
@patriciasisson84 5 ай бұрын
I agree. The oldest daughter should have gotten mandatory psych help. And frankly foster care wouldn't be out of line.
@tocraneandcrane
@tocraneandcrane 5 ай бұрын
@@kacieeichinger965 She said "... for what happened to my family, especially for the part I took in it." She did acknowledge, several times, her own role in it. Maybe if you would've listened to the end of that sentence, you wouldn't have to be so outraged.
@mandyylolo
@mandyylolo Жыл бұрын
That daughter does not only seem happy about what she did to her mother. Shes far too old to play this “stupid” act…. she knew exactly what the plan was and was ready for it.. She should be on the stand too.
@avastrawberry8519
@avastrawberry8519 Жыл бұрын
that is a horrific thing to say about a child who was manipulated and abused by her own father, who she loved and trusted. you don't know how she feels inside but she said she felt very guilty for years. people learn to suppress emotions in order to cope with trauma, and it was a TV interview.
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 Жыл бұрын
Agree!
@Talk2WandaVision
@Talk2WandaVision Жыл бұрын
i agree
@wynnhorton1208
@wynnhorton1208 Жыл бұрын
so a minor is an adult when she sides with and obeys a parent, but is she a minor is that same parent rapes her? Let's try to be consistent about who is an adult and therefore responsible and who is not. Arden was too young to vote, marry, consent to sex with an adult, join the army, have a bank account on her own, own a home or a car, have a job without a parent's signature...
@bonniejosavland3227
@bonniejosavland3227 Жыл бұрын
Human’s brains don’t fully mature until 25 so she hasn’t grown up yet.😢
@stephaniesanders3636
@stephaniesanders3636 Жыл бұрын
Something isnt right about the oldest daughter. She seems almost proud of what she did.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
So someone doesn't understand manipulation and brainwashing, got it.
@carmencita.k
@carmencita.k Жыл бұрын
What is so tragic about this,is that because Arden has grown up seeing her Mum controlled,she has also been gas-lighted,betraying her Mum like that,knowing what her Dad has done.😢
@sfletch3042
@sfletch3042 Жыл бұрын
I'd watch my back around that oldest daughter. She seems to have inherited dad's narcissism. This is so horrendous and disturbing on so many levels.
@avastrawberry8519
@avastrawberry8519 Жыл бұрын
Just because someone doesn't express much emotion outwardly does not mean they are a narcissist. She was literally abused and manipulated by her father, who she trusted and she felt extremely guilty for years, which you would've noticed if you watched the whole video
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More Жыл бұрын
Don’t judge that child. She judges herself enough when she shouldn’t and it is the last thing her Mom would want.
@JaneSmith0709
@JaneSmith0709 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree!
@wherethewildflowersare
@wherethewildflowersare Жыл бұрын
She has that smirk on her face!
@staceychapman6855
@staceychapman6855 Жыл бұрын
I was basically going to write the same thing. No regret emotion coming from her at all
@jacquelineredstone4487
@jacquelineredstone4487 Жыл бұрын
Alisa is so amazing and so beautiful and SO STRONG!! I'm an awe of her as a survivor. And I'm sooo happy she's found real love.
@silverman169
@silverman169 Жыл бұрын
Wow Alisa is a true survivor and the courage she showed during her ordeal and during the trial is truly unbelievable. Really hope their family can heal and move on from this. The Walgreens employee is a lifesaver and it was amazing he acted fast to call the police and provide details.
@mamarobyn
@mamarobyn Жыл бұрын
The fact that this woman can find love again is quite amazing. I am so closed off and I haven't had anything like this horrendous situation happen to me....
@martharunstheworld
@martharunstheworld Жыл бұрын
She's looking for someone to save her, typical distressed damsel stuff. She's not allowing herself to heal, which isn't healthy, tbh.
@lovelyshirl
@lovelyshirl 10 ай бұрын
I feel the same way... 😐😐😐
@ariasclark6408
@ariasclark6408 Жыл бұрын
This mother is such a strong woman. Not only was she betrayed by a pos, but her daughter as well. It seems as though the daughter wants to make it seem like her dad told her to do these things. While I will say her dad manipulated her, I feel like some of the things she did she wanted to do (ex. writing on her mother's walls). Glad she survived and is happily married now, but if I was her, I'd be careful around the daughter.
@ameliacoburn4787
@ameliacoburn4787 9 ай бұрын
It's amazing what a good manipulator can get people to do....
@amw_cats
@amw_cats 3 ай бұрын
@@ameliacoburn4787Yeah she was manipulated but she appears to also be a bad person. The way she only talks about herself, smiles when she recounts the events, blames is 100% on the dad when she as a 14 year old did terrible things herself. She takes after her dad unfortunately
@kathydavenport4422
@kathydavenport4422 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is the first time I have heard or seem something right I don’t understand but I’ve never been treated nicely by anyone in Walgreens. Thank you sir for helping this woman she would not have made it without you
@oyekunbiadams8742
@oyekunbiadams8742 Жыл бұрын
Nah, that daughter is disowned and out of my will. Could never trust her with anything. Not even her younger siblings.
@jimwerther
@jimwerther Жыл бұрын
The comments here attacking Arden are insane. Did any of you watch the end of the video??
@Long_live_Da_Bully
@Long_live_Da_Bully Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree she's just like her paw. And so matter of fact.
@Long_live_Da_Bully
@Long_live_Da_Bully Жыл бұрын
​@Jim Werther we watched that demon seed.
@Kat.Evangeline14
@Kat.Evangeline14 Жыл бұрын
Septum piercing ! Lmao
@Kat.Evangeline14
@Kat.Evangeline14 Жыл бұрын
​@@Long_live_Da_Bully agreed
@mercedeswestbrook4356
@mercedeswestbrook4356 Жыл бұрын
A 14 year old seeing your mother hurt, tied up and kidnapped... writing insults on the wall, calling her trash and trashing her bed... sounds like a chip off the shoulder of the narcissistic father... I think the only reason she isn't with her father is that he is locked up in prison otherwise that's whose side she would be by. Unacceptable behaviour whatever way you try and swing it. She wrote 'traitor' on the wall yet she is the one her betrayed her own mother who gave birth to her. Its outrageous! This would never have happened if it weren't for her actions... I would never trust her again.
@pattygravs6354
@pattygravs6354 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree with u!
@metalhead9849
@metalhead9849 Жыл бұрын
I have problems with her as well. I agree, there should have been a serious slap for her too. Not jail per se, but probation at the least.
@skatergirl8019
@skatergirl8019 Жыл бұрын
I disagree. She was 14 years old being severely manipulated by a narcissistic parent. As adults, we cannot judge a child’s rationale or decision making in this kind of circumstance through our own mature rationale and lived experiences. A child does not have the same brain development and understanding that adults do. Abuse, especially narcissistic abuse from a parent to a child, causes people to act and live in survival mode. Their behavior may appear very one sided, but that’s from the manipulation, power, and control their parent has over them. Once they are free from that, they are able to think more clearly. I believe it was very apparent that Arden was very remorseful for her actions, despite the judge and everyone else telling her it wasn’t her fault. Arden was a child under the control of an abusive parent. My heart breaks for that whole family. Glad they are in a better place now.
@arthurlove7857
@arthurlove7857 Жыл бұрын
@@skatergirl8019 Exactly, she was just 4 years away from being an adult, so that child bs is kinda irrelevant. I’ve seen a 12 and a 13 year-old get tried and sentenced as adults for killing someone because they were abused and nothing of the sort happened to Arden. This was a premeditated plot that deserved some form of punishment because she should never think trashing her moms house and getting her kidnapped, and physically assaulted and SA’ed without calling the authorities was okay. I think that what you’re saying is every easy to say as a third party looking in but if something like that happened to you, you’d probably be the first to turn your back on this person. The saying goes fool me one shame of you, but fool me twice…
@arthurlove7857
@arthurlove7857 Жыл бұрын
Could not have said it better
@Survivor-mf1nm
@Survivor-mf1nm Жыл бұрын
Can't believe the daughter Arden has the nerve to be on camera, after betraying her mom like that and putting her and the other children in extreme danger and the SA abuse she endured. I could never forgive that.
@ericvansteenlandt7888
@ericvansteenlandt7888 11 ай бұрын
For me, .... the tattoos, the ring in the nose, father's girl .... that says enough ; More words are unnecessary .....
@shelteredsparrow2736
@shelteredsparrow2736 11 ай бұрын
I hear you but it is hard to understand how good Narcissistic sociopaths and Narcissist psychopaths are at lying and manipulating the situation. I am married to a narcissist sociopath. Even though there is clear evidence that he is in the wrong I watched him manipulate people.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
So you don't know how being brainwashed and manipulated for years works, got it.
@PianoGesang
@PianoGesang 8 ай бұрын
@@ericvansteenlandt7888 Thank you for your truth. I think just like you.
@sainttheresetaylor2054
@sainttheresetaylor2054 6 ай бұрын
​@@ericvansteenlandt7888 there's a connection between a woman with tatoos and being a 'daddy's girl'. i thought it was the opposite? weird how we never assume men's personality traits through their appearnces like this...
@lifewithceecee9035
@lifewithceecee9035 Жыл бұрын
Is it me or the daughter that let her dad into the house isn't remorseful 😢
@jimwerther
@jimwerther Жыл бұрын
It's you
@Mtmg11
@Mtmg11 Жыл бұрын
She’s a scary little thing for sure
@valerieveltri7185
@valerieveltri7185 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. Que everyone saying how abused she was...
@addd345
@addd345 Жыл бұрын
she def not
@aruglaempire2518
@aruglaempire2518 Жыл бұрын
@@jimwerther Wrong. No remorse.
@williamfoley5687
@williamfoley5687 Жыл бұрын
She tells the story with great passion and details.
@PianoGesang
@PianoGesang 8 ай бұрын
Yes, that struck me too and she did not come across to me as completely sane either.
@BeatrizOliveira-wt6mu
@BeatrizOliveira-wt6mu 8 ай бұрын
​@@PianoGesang Naturally. Try to remain a 100% sane in our world. And then try it after having gone through something so traumatic
@lord.leaf.6
@lord.leaf.6 4 ай бұрын
It’s pretty odd
@noteworthyinsignificance
@noteworthyinsignificance Жыл бұрын
I love that in his closing arguments, he says his interview shouldn't count because he was held captive and coerced. How ironic! 🤦‍♂️
@christopherback2103
@christopherback2103 Жыл бұрын
The story the daughter told is bizzare.... she was "helping" by letting the father SNEAK IN?!?! If he was there to "fix" anything why would he need to sneak in?? At this point he had already attacked her once and there were restraining orders. Surely she knew this. WTF was she doing? Not only that, but she happily admits to vandalizing the mothers home previously!! Very bad, she should have been held accountable.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
Kids don't think clearly when they're trying to please their dad.
@Analysis_Paralysis
@Analysis_Paralysis Жыл бұрын
She was manipulated, she was a CHILD. She thought she was doing them a favor by helping them get together.
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 Жыл бұрын
I agree completely - she knew he was there to do something bad to her mother - she’s manipulative and a liar - just like her dad.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
@@DocBree13 Leave the kid alone! She was in a terrible situation and like any kid was trying to please her dad. Smh.
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More Жыл бұрын
Don’t judge that child. She judges herself enough when she shouldn’t and it is the last thing her Mom would want.
@marshamarsha5204
@marshamarsha5204 Жыл бұрын
That dude firing his lawyer, so he could cross examine the ex wife, to further torment her..... That should not be allowed.
@BeautyIsMyCulture
@BeautyIsMyCulture Жыл бұрын
Her daughter is horrible. Helping her father victimize her mother??!She seems to have no problem with how she and her father treated her mother; she speaks so matter-of-factly about it all. This is insane.
@shelteredsparrow2736
@shelteredsparrow2736 11 ай бұрын
That is not fair. This is a 50 minute interview. Obviously the judge was concerned about her or he would have judged her too. I am married to a narcissist sociopath. Even though he confessed and there were witnesses I was shocked by how he was able to manipulate people and the situation. I actually wrote something called “THE NARCISSIST TRAP. Finding hope in the scorpions nest”. I have not tried to publish it because these are now people I have forgiven and want to build a life with. I understand how they were manipulated
@dianawright8334
@dianawright8334 Жыл бұрын
The Trial was very interesting. How this malignant narcissist fired his attorney and represented himself ( he studied a lot for this day) just at the time he could cross examine his ex wife. It was very calculated. He gaslighted all of his children since they were born, but really pushed Arden to cross that Morality Line… choose between me and your mother. Parental Alienation at its best. Alexa is a very strong woman. Very strong.
@stephanieshelton679
@stephanieshelton679 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Her strength and level head through those horrors is amazing 👏 God bless her forever 🙏
@riostampede9033
@riostampede9033 Жыл бұрын
Wow the daughters betrayal was pretty deep. If I were her mother with time I would have forgiven but never forgotten.
@pako6439
@pako6439 11 ай бұрын
Same I would never see her the same. Like never
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
So someone doesn't understand manipulation and brainwashing, got it.
@ViciousVixenBaybee
@ViciousVixenBaybee Жыл бұрын
That girl doesn’t even seem remorseful
@Pauly421
@Pauly421 8 ай бұрын
Yeah seriously
@rainaeasley7863
@rainaeasley7863 7 ай бұрын
Nope not even a little
@lisawentworth6831
@lisawentworth6831 7 ай бұрын
@@rainaeasley7863 you would think she would have figured it out. Looks like she is in a rebellious stage, but she should be able to see right from wrong
@sandrabergen8749
@sandrabergen8749 5 ай бұрын
True that!
@seany2754
@seany2754 Жыл бұрын
Arden's devil horn nose ring suits her... Manipulation or not. To see your mom getting abused and walk by them like they're not there. Sickening.
@samantha0917
@samantha0917 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@bluecollarlit
@bluecollarlit 10 ай бұрын
And going on private dinner dates - with her dad? Yikes.
@kayakazi7765
@kayakazi7765 9 ай бұрын
Ja like father like daughter.....
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 9 ай бұрын
So someone doesn't understand manipulation and brainwashing, got it.
@pandamandimax
@pandamandimax 9 ай бұрын
Maybe just like Trump and his daughter but normal fathers and daughters don't talk about going on dates
@thecatatemyhomework
@thecatatemyhomework Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of the incident where the daughter participated with the father in murdering the mother. During this daughter's interview I get really bad vibes off of her. She shouldn't be trusted.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
Getting bad vibes from someone you see briefly on a TV show? You haven't even met her, and even if you worked with her, there's a lot you'd never know about her personal life and her character.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
@@McPierogiPazza Yeah, she's a dingbat.
@zazzifizzle
@zazzifizzle 7 ай бұрын
​@@McPierogiPazza this isn't a TV show. This is a documentary. We don't need to know her. We know what she did. If her smirkiness doesn't give you bad vibes then you have no sense of self preservation.
@gabnaose
@gabnaose Жыл бұрын
She is incredibly courageous and her kids as well. May God heal them
@arimax888
@arimax888 Жыл бұрын
I remember watching their court case, its sickening watching him try to intimidate & coerce her one last time in full view of everyone! I am so glad she survived this. I hope her daughter is getting mental help to counter the psychological manipulation she's put through.
@rada9748
@rada9748 Жыл бұрын
That’s just it, in full view in front of everyone. If he can do that in front of everyone. What he’s capable of in secret.
@sunfollower5623
@sunfollower5623 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same, what they all went through is so traumatizing, they all need mental health therapy for many years. And then they bring a new dad into the picture which also creates years and years of getting to know each other, trusting one another before you get to loving one another. It is not like, we got married and now everything is wonderful, life is not like that.
@starzintheskyz4477
@starzintheskyz4477 Жыл бұрын
Omg, I can't even imagine everything she's been through. It's clear he is the worst type of narcissist in existence. That man is definitely a psychopath. She's so lucky to be alive. She's known him since high school. Just when you think you know someone for so many years, you NEVER know what they're capable of.
@I_Love_Rainbows510
@I_Love_Rainbows510 10 ай бұрын
About Arden: Um. I had a very difficult childhood. When I was eleven, my parents separated. When I was thirteen, they got divorced officially. I knew that they needed to be divorced, and that they needed to be in their own separate corners for a while in order to be able to get along again one day without having screaming arguments. I knew that, and I was thirteen years old! But we're supposed to believe that fourteen-year-old Arden thought she could help get her family back together again by writing swear words all over her mom's house and then allowing her mom to be abducted and tortured? I want to be sympathetic, but I'm shaking my head. I'm not buying it. She can SAY that she regrets having been so naive. But still. I used to be naive too. But... I don't know. I'm still shaking my head. Kids are smarter than adults realize.
@urjust2cool
@urjust2cool 4 күн бұрын
Arden is nuts. Period
@julietteandrews9918
@julietteandrews9918 Жыл бұрын
Just hope that the daughter some day realizes what pain and betrayal she has done to her mother.
@jamesr.vanpattenjr.8963
@jamesr.vanpattenjr.8963 Жыл бұрын
​@Joseph King I agree. I don't blame the child at all!! She just wanted her family back.
@critterwhisperer5821
@critterwhisperer5821 Жыл бұрын
I doubt she will. She sounds like a female version of her father. Hope they keep an eye on her
@avastrawberry8519
@avastrawberry8519 Жыл бұрын
just watch the whole video, please. she clearly does and felt an immense amount of guilt. she was a child who was manipulated by someone she trusted.
@HaHaInc
@HaHaInc Жыл бұрын
I doubt she ever will. Rotten egg does not get better.
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More Жыл бұрын
Don’t judge that child. She judges herself enough when she shouldn’t and it is the last thing her Mom would want.
@nolagirl2458
@nolagirl2458 Жыл бұрын
I watched this creep questioning her on the stand! He’s disgusting!! How dare he get to victimize her again!! These laws need to change about representing yourself!
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
I agree that this is more abuse, but I'm not sure how to fix this. It would require a change to the Constitution.
@maureenstevens6824
@maureenstevens6824 Жыл бұрын
​@@McPierogiPazza Pass an amendment .
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 Жыл бұрын
Never going to happen - it’s in the Constitution
@bichitenshi6696
@bichitenshi6696 Жыл бұрын
@@DocBree13 God I wish we could just throw those outdated laws out 😤
@nmm913
@nmm913 Жыл бұрын
My ex did this to me at our divorce as well. He was able to intimidate me on the stand and the judge allowed it. He was abusive mentally and physically. I was shaking. It was very traumatic. I still fear for him coming after me and our kids every day, he's in jail and I check to make sure he's still locked up several times a day
@thekingtroll2
@thekingtroll2 7 ай бұрын
Her parents split. Her mother moved out. THAT daughter knew damn well that it isn't normal for her to open a window and let someone crawl in, especially her own father.
@PittsburghSportsFan43
@PittsburghSportsFan43 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading full episodes. I really like being able to watch these online since I don't have TV.
@Kat.Evangeline14
@Kat.Evangeline14 Жыл бұрын
TV sucks & thank God she lived or I wouldn't be watching. I am trying to keep my frequency up.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, unlike American Greed, which gives you a third of the episode and then tries to get you to buy the rest of the show. That sucks.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
@@PittsburghSportsFan43 I was talking about American Greed. This is called 48 Hours. Smh.
@helenagreenwood2305
@helenagreenwood2305 Жыл бұрын
When he said he was 'captive and coerced while being spoken to by the police in hospital ' I nearly choked lol that's exactly what he did to his Mrs - what a hypocrite 🙄
@tessaducek5601
@tessaducek5601 Жыл бұрын
I noticed when assailants of all types accuse others about their actions or treatment of themselves. They are describing themselves. The irony is apparently lost on them.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
Pretty rich, huh?
@zxy78267
@zxy78267 Жыл бұрын
Right? Ugh! I wanted to tell at him through the phone, haha.
@tessaducek5601
@tessaducek5601 Жыл бұрын
@@zxy78267 I do that... 😅👍👍
@brendaduncan4347
@brendaduncan4347 4 ай бұрын
What an excellent episode. This woman had the ability to stay calm and stay alive. I hope the family is well.
@Vgs183
@Vgs183 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but Arden was old enough to know better.
@jimwerther
@jimwerther Жыл бұрын
No, she wasn't. At 15, she was manipulated by her father.
@TawnyC_
@TawnyC_ Жыл бұрын
Yes, she was old enough. And she was 14.
@jimwerther
@jimwerther Жыл бұрын
@@Bobzt2 Your comment is 100%, patently, completely false. I have no idea why you would spread falsehoods here about someone you presumably don't know. Does it make you feel good? Anyone who watched the last few minutes of the video and/or followed the trial knows that your claims are the opposite of the truth.
@carolitoffana
@carolitoffana Жыл бұрын
If she wasn't then, she is now but she still feels proud of herself for helping, kinda? weird girl, I would never ever ever trust her
@christopherback2103
@christopherback2103 Жыл бұрын
If that was a boy, he'd be on trial with his father. Just sayin
@ceramicvases
@ceramicvases Жыл бұрын
The whole family seems weird, but that daughter, I would always feel resentment towards her.
@jimwerther
@jimwerther Жыл бұрын
The comments here attacking Arden are insane. Did any of you watch the end of the video??
@WideAwakeHuman
@WideAwakeHuman Жыл бұрын
Facts right there - he ruined her for life
@bethbooth6469
@bethbooth6469 Жыл бұрын
I get what you mean but she was only 14 at the time and it was her father. She probably trusted him and was manipulated by him, she was only a child after all
@morganablackwater2017
@morganablackwater2017 Жыл бұрын
@@bethbooth6469 14 is old enough to know what she was doing - she was selfish brat that decided to sacrifice her mum wellbeing and right to live life without abuse cause SHE WANTED them to get back together. I wouldn't keep her.
@oblivion85
@oblivion85 Жыл бұрын
@@bethbooth6469 but at 14? Some common sense should’ve kicked in.
@kai-ul5gx
@kai-ul5gx 9 ай бұрын
Wow that shameless daughter must be so proud of herself! She is 19 and should take responsibility for her actions! Actually she and dadi are so much alike!
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 Жыл бұрын
I don’t believe for a second that Arden thought he was breaking in to reconcile!
@lovelyshirl
@lovelyshirl 10 ай бұрын
Me neither!! Not for ONE second!
@ddinottia39
@ddinottia39 9 ай бұрын
She's just as bad as her father
@ameliacoburn4787
@ameliacoburn4787 9 ай бұрын
You don't know anything about manipulation or abuse.... this happens a lot.
@angelabeck3707
@angelabeck3707 8 ай бұрын
All these people are defending her because of her age and manipulation and abuse but nobody told her to write what she wrote on the walls and vandialise her mothers house! I totally agree! And a 14 year old knows right and wrong! The daughter was more like his wing man aiding and abbeding her father!
@jenniferjamison4912
@jenniferjamison4912 8 ай бұрын
@@ameliacoburn4787I was raised by a diagnosed narcissistic mother. Arden may have been manipulated, but she became evil
@rubyredlopez4
@rubyredlopez4 Жыл бұрын
Me:I'm a daddy's girl, but the moment my father started to mistreat my mother when I was 10 years old, I was not having that no way. The daughter Are you kidding me why did she leave a window open after knowing everything they are going through to get away from him. The daughter VANDALIZED her Mother's house Look at the things SHE WROTE on THE WALLS,...😮 *Soooo in her Brain this is a nice gesture to her mother to help get the family Back together,😮 right!!!!*****
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
Give it a rest. The daughter was a victim of her narcissist dad.
@DocBree13
@DocBree13 Жыл бұрын
💯
@Isthar1106
@Isthar1106 9 ай бұрын
The daughter was old enough to understand the situation and to see that what she was doing was wrong. It's simply unforgivable.
@trudiannross7676
@trudiannross7676 Жыл бұрын
If i was the mother i would stay as far away from the "daughter" as possible i wouldn't trust her with a ten foot pole
@dogjeepmeat
@dogjeepmeat Жыл бұрын
I relate to what this woman endured in many ways. Mine also represented himself and i was so scared all I could hear was my heart beating and his voice was just an echo booming loudly and walked right up to the stand and got in my face several times. The need for control. Unfortunately my story isn't over and mine did not go to jail for what he did so he went on to repeat it elsewhere. This woman is very lucky and an inspiration. I hope to tell her one day.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry he put you through this and isn't behind bars
@Teupluohoney
@Teupluohoney Жыл бұрын
Stay Strong
@zxy78267
@zxy78267 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I'm a survivor also. I wish you could get justice. I didn't get justice, but I got away from him. It took me a couple of years to stop looking over my shoulder, though.
@nmm913
@nmm913 Жыл бұрын
I ha e a similar story. God bless you
@deannadove8676
@deannadove8676 Жыл бұрын
That daughter would be up for sale so fast if she was mine hahahaha 😂
@tracyd693
@tracyd693 Жыл бұрын
Hes so gross. Uck. And the oldest daughter is off. I don't know how I would feel about her after such betrayal. She seems to have more of dad than mom in her.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
I hope you never endure abusive manipulation and then get judged by strangers on the internet. She was a kid, so you'll have it easier no matter what
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
You also don't really know the mother either. You watched a heavily edited television show.
@tracyd693
@tracyd693 Жыл бұрын
@@McPierogiPazza are you going to tell all of the many others, who commented something similar to me, how they should feel as well? You better block off a decent amount of time.
@sfletch3042
@sfletch3042 Жыл бұрын
​@@McPierogiPazza It's funny that you're accusing her of being judgmental yet you're judging the mother based on nothing.
@FutureCivilWarHero
@FutureCivilWarHero Жыл бұрын
I've binge watched these 48 videos & this one by far is the craziest/ creepiest/edge of your seat story! I'm amazed this woman made it thru alive. Surprised this doesn't have millions of views.
@DanielSchmidt-yt7yc
@DanielSchmidt-yt7yc 11 ай бұрын
So proud of you!!! You deserve so much goodness in your life. Stay blessed.
@ericcoburn5043
@ericcoburn5043 Жыл бұрын
He confesses in writing, on a recording and to the police. What else would you need? The daughter is also guilty. Unforgivable.
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
The daughter was a kid. She was manipulated.
@tonyawhitetree2749
@tonyawhitetree2749 Жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for this mom! I lived my own nightmare with an abuser and he turned my only daughter against me. He died of a drug overdose. She is now 32 and hates me because of things he lied to her about. I finally had to just cut her out of my life for my own sanity. I feel like this type of parental abuse should be a crime of coercion and mental abuse.
@morganablackwater2017
@morganablackwater2017 Жыл бұрын
Welp Im sory you wasted time in your life for that poor excuse of a dauther... I hope you better and happy now ❤️
@paulinefinn451
@paulinefinn451 Жыл бұрын
💜💜
@paulinefinn451
@paulinefinn451 Жыл бұрын
same here 💜
@berkeleygirllaserbeam
@berkeleygirllaserbeam Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you and I hope things only get better for you.
@SpecialBlanket
@SpecialBlanket Жыл бұрын
it's called parental alienation and it actually is a crime
@DR-mq1vn
@DR-mq1vn Жыл бұрын
Arden never mentions what her Mom went through. She talks all about herself.
@ameliacoburn4787
@ameliacoburn4787 9 ай бұрын
they only showed part of the interview.... don't assume so much.
@lex1216
@lex1216 4 ай бұрын
She knew what she was doing cut it out lol
@Mr.Marcuzz
@Mr.Marcuzz Жыл бұрын
Glad that this is one of those stories that the victim is actually alive to testify against her captor.
@lesley_lezley
@lesley_lezley Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but I can’t get over how the daughter comes across as not having any remorse. This poor lady gave birth to another narcissist, just like her father.
@ForestFairy_9
@ForestFairy_9 Жыл бұрын
@Lee_M 💯 my exact thoughts. These people all blind, enabling that psycho daughter. Watching her giving the interview was disturbing, she literally shows no remorse and tried to make it about herself, when was an accomplice in the whole thing.
@lawrencedardin9046
@lawrencedardin9046 Жыл бұрын
She was only 14 and poisoned by her Dad. Did you watch until the end? She definitely felt remorse.
@natalijaasbjornsen8827
@natalijaasbjornsen8827 Жыл бұрын
She was a naive girl. She thought that her dad will manage to talk the mom back to the family.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
@@natalijaasbjornsen8827 Kids want the best and can be easily manipulated.
@joeking433
@joeking433 Жыл бұрын
@@lawrencedardin9046 Something wrong with these demented people jumping on a young kid trying to please her dad! Seriously sick puppies!
@ElsaFriost
@ElsaFriost Жыл бұрын
The daughter knew exactly what she was doing and she knew that her father was going to kidnap the mother she helped her father is her fault I think the daughter should be in jail too
@debbie6787
@debbie6787 Жыл бұрын
The daughter seems to not even care about what her mom went through
@McPierogiPazza
@McPierogiPazza Жыл бұрын
Because why? She didn't cry for the cameras?
@maureenstevens6824
@maureenstevens6824 Жыл бұрын
​@@McPierogiPazza No, because she only spoke about how this affected her not her mother or her siblings...traits of her father...what she wanted regardless of her mother's treatment.
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More
@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More Жыл бұрын
Don’t judge that child. She judges herself enough when she shouldn’t and it is the last thing her Mom would want.
@debbie6787
@debbie6787 Жыл бұрын
@@Love-More-Laugh-More-Live-More I didn’t judge. Pay attention to the wording, I said she “seems not to even care” I did not make a character judgement by saying “ she doesn’t care”..syntax matters.
@dawnatkinson7704
@dawnatkinson7704 Жыл бұрын
I was fortunate enough to message with Alissa and wow - an incredible woman! Im so happy she found the strength to get through this and come out stronger.
@faaututavale5287
@faaututavale5287 Жыл бұрын
Thank God she's okay, prayers for her and her children♥️
@cindyweir9645
@cindyweir9645 Жыл бұрын
How in gods name is it OK for these courts to allow this man to abuse his ex-wife over and over again. What an injustice. Unbelievable.!! This makes me so angry.
@anhingasnakebird9947
@anhingasnakebird9947 Жыл бұрын
How did the court “allow” him to abuse her? They never even went to court before the kidnapping trial.
@lifesajoke6965
@lifesajoke6965 Жыл бұрын
What are you talking about? The court gave him the heaviest sentence they could impose, how tf is that outcome an injustice?
@colleencpc1
@colleencpc1 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely startling that she lived through this.
@heart_towards_home
@heart_towards_home Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@ndutzz100
@ndutzz100 9 ай бұрын
Its a miracle she lived to tell her story in court and to be there for her children🙏🙏. Its appalling that this man was allowed to defend himself in court
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