My First Gay Long Distance Relationship (Story+Tips)

A story about my first gay long distance relationships and a few things I learned along the way. Do you have any tips for anyone reading comments about long distance relationships? We are far and few in some spaces and it feels like the only option. Love u guys.
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[@billcrowder6477]

I met my boyfriend on a dating app. There was an instant attraction. He lived 10,000 miles away and video chatted daily. There was an 11 hour time difference so it was hard to find the time with our jobs. After a few months we started planning on him moving here. After about a year he came to live with me. He is going to University to learn English (just an excuse to have in the U.S.) we've been together for over two years and so in love. If you want it to work you will find a way.

[@josethevegan8923]

So true... I met my sister's future sister in law at my sister's wedding, the attraction was mutual... she is from the Netherlands, I was living in the USA. We'd travel back n forth before smart phones. It was difficult. Then dated a piano player in Chicago... 3 hrs away, now... in a fabulous relationship with a 2 hrs drive... it's super easy now with texting, FaceTime, and all the other apps. We both travel to see eachother depending on schedules n commitments... sometimes we see eachother 6 times a month, sometimes once a month. Our long weekends are fabulous, but yeah... long distance relationships can be difficult. It depends on us to make it work. JoseTheVegan on KZbin

[@jasontodd2388]

Which App?

[@billcrowder6477]

@@jasontodd2388 Fuzz

[@jasontodd2388]

@@billcrowder6477 never heard of such but i'll check it out

[@ethana.3091]

Omg love this!!

[@ChazChristopher]

Long distance relationships work amazingly for some people while others just aren’t meant for it. I’m not meant for it, although I still entertain the idea from time to time.

[@TheRainbowCoach]

Chaz Christopher TV Same and same. 😉👍💙

[@lunaticnick96]

Totally agree 100%

[@buffy17mike]

I understand you there. I’m not good with long distance friendships either. If you like someone friend or lover you wanna be around that person and just talking to them off and on just not worth it.

[@ChazChristopher]

Mikey Z maintaining long distance friendships is difficult as well. As time goes on the phone calls and text messages dwindle further and further down. The true test of that friendship is when the two of you get back together in person and if it feels like you both never skipped a beat. I’m very fortunate to have a few of those.

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hello chaz. ❤️

[@taurus43100]

So do I understand that you and Ryan are no longer together? If so I’m so sorry. You two made a nice couple.

[@iancmcneill]

Great video topic and loved your reflections at the end. Very mature and I totally agree with you. Mine was a long distance for 5 years and we now live with each other! It’s been 8 years together. Proof online and distance works!

[@CaneTheUnicorn]

that bathroom table with the plant literally inspired me to be a better person

[@RobertPi]

Thank you for the advice Andrew. I'm in my first long-distance relationship and it's been going for 5 weeks now. He is planning to drive down to see me in about a week. A lot of things are going through my head at the moment with the job and studies and this relationship just kind of happened. We are texting each other every day because communication is what keeps the relationship alive, and as loyal as i want to be, i do feel this insecurity because i feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt. I hate conflict and always see the good in each person. I believe that there is a solution for every problem and i feel if we talk about everything we can figure out what's going to happen next. I just pray and hope things will go well this time around. :)

[@timothyneff9247]

Andrew, you seem like such a genuinely nice person. Your content is relatable to me, you’re very nice to look at, but above all else you seem like such a genuinely nice person with a warm personality. Much love!

[@bhambihira1157]

hi

[@thisisemanuelm]

Is it just me or did he get more muscular??

[@ATLJonathanH]

He’s just aging.

[@icantalk710]

@Manu M: He's been getting swole 👀 I love that combined with his dorky friendly personality, haha.

[@0845336302]

Exactly

[@allenelliott9729]

@@ATLJonathanH his face doesn't look as handsome anymore, seems like something's not right

[@ATLJonathanH]

Allen Elliott he may have peeked circa Ryan.

[@daveemery12]

Love your big sword. I had a long distance relationship for 2 years. We moved in together in a 3rd city and have been together for 20 years.

[@garygreely7782]

Great video. Long-distance relationships are difficult, close distance relationships are difficult. Being young and infatuated is a special time. Thank you for a good video. Liked the apt.

[@dixiechatty958]

When I was considerably older than you were then, I was in a relationship with someone who was 2 1/2 hours away from me. After that ended, I said to myself no more long distance relationships. What happens? Not a month later, I met a man who lived 1 1/2 hours away. We have been together for 21 years! You just never know.

[@wincrasher2007]

every gentleman should own a sword.

[@aandre311]

Most are born with one ;)

[@lukeshedid650]

And know how to feint

[@NicoMoreno]

My first boyfriend lived ACROSS THE STREET from me.... that progressed fast. :O

[@nivethithanmanivannan9989]

This guy has tried every type of relationship. He's the relationship Guru iws

[@n1spirit]

Andrew, I am always impressed by your maturity when I'm watching videos of yours. Everybody goes on about how "hot" you are (and yes, you are hella attractive physically speaking) but the steamy side of you has nothing to do with your physical looks. It has EVERYTHING to do with your emotional and intellectual maturity. That's NOT something that comes easily to a lot of guys; not only your age but OLDER guys often exhibit a lack of it. And I'm not saying you're perfect; only that I respect the maturity you exhibit and how you carry yourself in your videos. I'm sure there are "moments" when you would test the patience of the pope. We all have those moments. ROFL! I've had my fair share of long-distance relationships/disasters over the years. I know that they "CAN" work for some couples but I also know myself well enough to know my limitations. (I'm that guy who likes to hold or be held, who enjoys holding hands, who enjoys emotionally supporting my BF and likes to be emotionally supported as well - and these things are hard to do with you're hundreds or thousands of miles apart. Of course, I'm celebrating my 57th birthday today so feel as though my days of looking for "Mister Right" are pretty much behind me. I know for most people that wouldn't be true but honestly I am tired of the search so... I'll be "that old maid queen" and that's just fine. Whomever does put a ring on your finger will be one very fortunate young man - and I know you'll be equally fortunate because you are mature enough that you'll have taken the time to grow together and get to know one another well such that it'll be the right move for BOTH of you when it happens. Hugs to you, Andrew. Keep up the great work on your videos. Some (many I suspect) of us enjoy you not only for the eye candy but for the "intellectual candy" as well. 😄

[@kimeswartz]

Fun to hear about this little adventure, we started long distance - and here we are today! 😚

[@were-all-human9427]

soo happy to see you here... enuf loave to go around... Kim&Petur beauty in the Netherlands... who love Speedo's too !!! just like Andrew (see IG)

[@MichaelRuger]

Long distance would be hard but for the right person I could make it work. You seem to have figured it out. Nice place by the way.

[@dizzyandbusy]

See, this is why I stopped watching your story time videos. Every single time I get super gooey and emotional and I get this overwhelming desire to fall in love. It’s torture Andrew!

[@richardgorembalem8491]

Its okay maybe time will come... you will find someone will accept you sincerely...

[@munky9284]

I feel yah man...know the feeling...I live in rural Arkansas and def lonely...but oh well

[@dizzyandbusy]

@@munky9284 let's get married?

[@Dovndyr13]

The thing is how much do you want to spend on travel. Yeah living in rural area love gay wise can suck and I doubt you will find one from LA or NYC (big city guys often think driving to another neighbourhood is to far away). But if you are willing to drive, its not impossible to find real love. Some people even find love intercontinental

[@munky9284]

@@dizzyandbusy sure man... Then we don't have to be alone no more

[@lennardvillasenor5151]

Loved this video because you allow yourself to be vulnerable recanting your story and it is empowering. It really resonated with me. In 1995 when I lived in Seattle I fell in love with this young Swedish lad doing a PhD post doc in Theoretical Physics at the University of Washington in Seattle. I would spend every spare moment introducing him to friends or hanging out with him. The PhD post doc position ended at we spent the 10 years in a long distance relationship, "planning to rendezvous" in Europe or America anytime our work schedules allowed. I realized one day that I had to take the leap of faith because I was in Limbo. So I applied for permanent residency status in Sweden and prepared to set aside my family and network of friends in America , for this one relationship. I moved to Sweden in 2006 and NEVER LOOKED BACK. It was the best decision of my life. My advice to all young gay men in a long distance relationship. If you know he is the ONE. Risk it ALL. Do not live with regrets.

[@userje4702]

Thanks for this Lennard, I wanted to read someone who risked it all moving to another continent, are you still together? how's it going? hope you both well

[@lennardvillasenor5151]

@@userje4702 Thank you for your comment. I am very happy to say that we celebrated year 26 together and are very much in love and are planning the rest of our lives together. I have learned Swedish and although not fluent , I can manage myself socially and in places like a restaurant, a hospital, or a business meeting. We invested in real estate in the pricey Capitol of Stockholm, and currently enjoy a penthouse apartment in Stockholm and renovated a weekend cabin on the Baltic. My recommendation to every LGBTQ person is to risk it all for love, as we will not stay young forever, but love can outstrip time. Looking forward to growing old together with the passion of living. If this can happen to me , you too can also find love, companionship, and passion. Follow your heart.

[@userje4702]

@@lennardvillasenor5151 I'm too happy for you, you're right, being young it's important to take risks, I'm starting to date with a guy who lives miles away from me but we're both very much in love, and reading these kinds of experiences make me not lose hope with my boy 👨‍❤️‍👨 thank u

[@gospelofthomas77thpearl22]

This kind of dialogue is very important for young men struggling with their sexuality. Well done Andrew.

[@Mike-ss4yi]

Your videos are so intimate and therapeutic, thanks for always giving awesome advice Andrew

[@hanathao1903]

I enjoyed your story! Thank you for the tips and advices for long gay distance relationship. First relationship are not always sunshine. You’ll truly find the one you desire one day. I also wanted to say that you’re very handsome too! 😉

[@Athum5]

First of all I wanna say that your apartment is amazing. I love the balcony and I don't think you should change anything. Do it the way you feel it cos it's your home, you know. For me my home is my sanctuary. On the topic with far distant relationships - I don't know if it's actually a coincidence of you making a video about it but I recently made myself a profile in a dating app. The thing is, a guy from the Philippines found me. I'm literally on the other side of the globe from him. Like 10k kilometers or so. We've been chatting pretty much since day one ( just a couple of days) and It feels amazing. I kinda don't know if I should eventually keep going deeper cos I really don't wanna hurt people in any way. It's not impossible to travel or go anywhere in 2019 but it's still super hard to just abandon everything and go for the love you know? Yes, it's very early but I just know we will get into a point where we'll fall inlove, I just don't know if it's the right thing to do.

[@picturemethis]

D N yay?

[@allenelliott9729]

You talk too much

[@johnmoon3848]

Surely this must be one of your very best videos. You're amazing and wonderful, Andrew, much love!

[@rubyyoakim3321]

Suggestion on your room: Move your desk from your room into the living room or something. Your bedroom should be your bedroom ✨

[@flight62]

I think because he has roommates this may not be good.

[@allenelliott9729]

@@flight62 I think the whole place looks like a flop house...thought gays were neat

[@clm6184]

Andrew, I love the new place AND your backdrop of plant-life. It looks so relaxing and organic. Have you heard how Ryan is doing? Does he plan on moving there in the future (maybe?). Thank you again for posting. 💙💜❤💚❤💜💙

[@dezhiliu1687]

Being 20 and having a long distance relationship. It’s rly relatable

[@NicoMoreno]

AWE.... The ending of this kind of reminded me of Mark & Ethan when they were in college

[@ForeverGhibli]

A gay male who came out this year: My first boyfriend (met on Tinder) was about an hour and a half away, which doesnt sound long but the thing was neither of us could drive because of the fact that I have epilepsy and he just moved here recently from Brazil. We managed to see eachother a few times but it was hard to see him consistently with him being so far away, and it was just too hard. My current boyfriend (also met on Tinder), lives 30 minutes away he is much closer and he can drive it is a much better relationship (we are a much better match for eachother too tbh haha). I also finally got approved to drive since I haven't had a seizure in quite a while 😊 Things are going extremely well! 😊 Tbh I've always been an avid fan of dating sites. They take a TON of work to find a decent person who actually wants to put in the effort into a relationship, but when you finally do find that person it is so worth it 😊😊😊

[@zachtong5985]

From a being a character who seemed almost a characature of nothing in particular you emerge as far more understandable and likable having genuine feelings for others.

[@bhambihira1157]

hi

[@samuelimbade1470]

Everyone has a nerdy side. Embrace it Andrew! You're awesome!

[@jaqenhghar2446]

Did anyone else get the 20-minute ad before the video started? 😂 Like anybody's going to watch a 20-minute ad instead of skipping it. Seriously someone needs to fire that marketing department. I don't even remember what that ad was for, that's how effective that ad is. 😂

[@spencerblum4637]

I’m just trying to imagine crashing at Andrew Neighbors’ apartment on the pull-out bed. Literally a dream!

[@santiagopighin1]

Did Ryan and you break up? what happened?

[@fannifay924]

You are an inspiration to many Andrew, thank you for your positive and always engaging posts!

[@StephenHartHartTalks]

glad that you guys still talk from time to time as thats a good thing to still have, xoxo

[@Jimmerca]

Hey Andrew cute apartment and I got to say you have one green thumb all those indoor plants. Seems like long-distance relationship would be difficult because you would want to be with that person all the time. I guess for some people it works. Thanks for sharing your story with us. There is definitely someone out there for you👍🏻🌈❤️👍🏻

[@sylacauga]

Still waiting to have my first relationship. 😫😢

[@nahseemmoody6754]

strm627 😂😂 let’s date 👏

[@101sanford]

@@nahseemmoody6754 hey baby

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hello. Nothing is impossible just open your door. Hope you give me the opportunity to know you seriously. ♥️

[@aalvarez2914]

Love it man. You seemed a bit more open than normal. It just seemed like your emotion was there without being over the top or anything.

[@joeslattery2297]

Very relatable video lol. I’d always talk to guys on apps and stuff and that’s pretty much how most of my dating has played out for me most of the time. Lately though I’ve been talking to this guy who lives near Manchester that I met on Omegle. lol I know who actually goes on Omegle unless you’re like 15, but I’m 24. Anyway I just started talking to this guy who just feels so warm and approachable that I have really good conversations with. I didn’t expect to ever actually like a guy from Omegle as I had undisclosed other intentions lol. We’ve been video chatting for about a month now and I still look forward to talking to him each day. We pretty much talk every single day and I grow increasingly curious about him each day. We talk about our families, our friends, our jobs, things we’re interested in, our dreams, our emotions, music, art, people, facts, ideas it never runs dry. We talk about how we’re both interested in meeting at some point pretty much every time we talk even wishing we could teleport. The only probably is he lives in the Manchester area and I live in the DC area, but for some reason I feel like it’s worth my time to continue to get to know him, so that’s what I’m going to do. I don’t have any expectations I’m just enjoying each time I talk to him as they come and getting to know him more and more as person. All I know is that it feels good and there’s something about this person I really like that I need to know more about.

[@Js2Jo]

Andrew, I love this video about your first gay long distance relationship with a lot of men of your life back then, when you was 20 years old and it's very important to do that all the time and I know you're one of my idols in the world!!!

[@ThebigDG51]

Some good advice, Andrew. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend that lives about an hour away from me ffor 17 years now. our main times together are our trips. We do see each other about every two weeks by meeting half way for each of us. You are right that it is not easy but is worth the effort to make it work. Yhanks for the vido.

[@ricfvalentine777]

preach: You talk to someone online you click with but he live in Tokyo and you live in New York!

[@danieltompkins777]

I'm in a long distance relationship now and it has been over 7 months. Everything is going pretty good

[@davidaboderin6069]

Same.... are you guys still together lol...

[@danieltompkins777]

@@davidaboderin6069 yeah no lol it ended a while ago

[@davidaboderin6069]

@@danieltompkins777 my... thing is I'm currently in one...why did it end? 😑😑

[@danieltompkins777]

@@davidaboderin6069 there was lots of things going on that wasn't good for us

[@davidaboderin6069]

@@danieltompkins777 oh okay then thanks..hope you're better now tho

[@buzzbarnes8691]

My bed and desk are kind of like yours , what I like best is I just turn my monitor around and watch Netflix while in a nice warm bed.

[@surajkent7393]

I hope you and Ryan can make it in LDR and even more love..Aamiin

[@huntershires538]

Things have been pretty shitty lately. I met you in LA. Thanks for blessing me with a video this morning

[@fantasyfootballtalk8246]

Another great video. You are such a natural in front of the camera and thanks for sharing a personal story with all of us. I don't think I could EVER do a long distance relationship it would drive me crazy not being there with them. Love all your videos and you being so open and honest. Hope all is well and I look forward to the next one...😊❤

[@Mcflyeon]

You have some great constructive tips throughout and least it was a good experience while it lasted (and you both remained good friends), for which I hope it'll help you to grow :)

[@theasianpolyglot]

This is interesting. The dynamics and how things developed was exactly how it was with me and my first LDR boyfriend. Perhaps this is the natural progression of how things go when expectations don't align.

[@Nadia.Louise]

I just Got a gay long distance relationship🥺❤️🤞

[@loganmacgyver2625]

My first evr gay relationship was an LDR, he was experienced in IRL stuff, im inexperienced in LDR and irl. I had one desperate night, slided in some DMs until something worked. And i caught feelings easily too (it was the loneliest and most desperate time of this year). He ended up ghosting me after pouring my heart out and telling the things leading up to DMing him. it took me a few months to get over it

[@scott-andersen]

Great video Andrew! Would love to hear more about your experiences and coping with jealousy. It sounds like you've learned a lot and grown in this area.

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hi. ❤️

[@charleswoolley8367]

Yeah, I think many guys first times can be anxiety-filled. Your 1st seemed to go fairly smooth. The best thing, is to use that first situation as a "learning experience".

[@gr8god4u]

You have matured bunches. Proud of you. You're loved. Long distance buds very challenging.

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hi

[@connertighe4565]

I always enjoy watching your videos. This one uplifted my spirits this week.

[@bhambihira1157]

hello sir.

[@tob4b1]

When you’re young, you’re bound to experience LDR, infidelity (being a victim that is) and bad breakups..... you’ll learn from those experience...

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hello. ❤️ HOPE you give me the opportunity to know you seriously ♥️

[@brianlupo6586]

So happy for younger subs u prob have. Would have helped alot to have someone speak these words to me. Great video Andrew, ur saying of "never stop learning" rlly came thru in this vid ❣️✌️

[@belizeguy]

Hey Andrew. Congratulations on being on Greg in Hollywood! Made me happy to see you there! Gosh, I was lucky. Never had to deal with a long distance relationship. Nothing against them at all, just Lucky I guess!! Thanks for this.

[@Erin-Thor]

Something tells me there will about 210,000 -subscribers- people who would be very willing to take that sleeper sofa offer. LOL!

[@Tishy1037]

im still waiting until i have enough courage to ask my crush out

[@Tishy1037]

@Joseph Benhur hmmm. So i did, and he said he did like me back so we went out and 4 months down he said he didn't feel the same way so he ended things :/ Then lockdown happened :) Thanks though

[@L-mo]

Long distance from the get go is hard. Long distance after you already know someone can be really good.

[@greglesniak9951]

When Andrew said don't touch that, the MC Hammer song You Can't Touch This was playing in my head as I replayed Andrew's opening with his arms flung gloriously opens! 😜

[@lloyd2364]

Love you heaps Andrew xxx your videos are so relaxing to watch and you tell a great story live hearing your life adventures xxx sending love from new Zealand

[@oliverpiong6558]

i wish you had some sort of podcast.. i loove listening to you when im doing my work haha.. Great advice in the vid!

[@dexterlopez5613]

loving your hairstyle

[@curtisbond5539]

Long distance relationship for me is something I could try but I need to make sure that I keep an open mind on the pros and cons on dating whether if it is on line or not and be honest about everything and just have fun but nothing is long term now and days when it comes to dating someone

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hello. ❤️ HOPE you give me the opportunity to know you seriously ♥️

[@brandyag]

Thank you for making these videos and for the advices!

[@peterhuynh3229]

hey! i just watched your long distance video and it resonated with me soooo much! thanks for sharing. i am currently in a long distance and it definitely has its ups and downs. I wanted to ask you more on your experience and how you dealt with you jealousy because like you i feel like i am more the feelsy one

[@PureAloha78]

I love your stories. Keep them coming.

[@nathandenardis2097]

i love you so much! i love the perspective you give in this video! love the new place + balcony! so good to see Arbour

[@bhambihira1157]

hi sir,

[@Stevejeev2]

You are NOT Trash, southern or any other... you are a beautiful guy, inside and out!

[@lonewolf8905]

Quality content right hurr 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼

[@n.style97]

Hmm... the closest I got to LDR is me at 13 and a 12 year old girl who I met over a game and we were sending each other gifts online, playing together all the time and chatting a lot. We sent each other game heart (shows up on you that you are with this person) but then soon I got bored of playing only with her and wanted to play with my friends and she was clingy and jealous so we broke up and Next year, I realised I didn’t actually like girls and I was having a crush on the guy who I wanted to play with instead of her 🙈🙈

[@gabrielncali8999]

Aw, Arbor!!!! ❤️ You’re going to hurt someone with that 🗡⚔️ ! Yum, where is the twinky 20 pic? LoL. Story time! Good video! Thanks for sharing!

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hello. Can you please give me the opportunity to know you. ❤️

[@themartianmarvinb620]

Gabriel Cali hi

[@michelleblanc8894]

Arbour just keeps getting cuter!

[@lucaselevated]

Me enjoying this 2yrs later , also you're so beautiful!!!!

[@yuhboris304]

Imagine you meet someone at your college two weeks before the pandemic and the lockdown and everything-beyond the special boy-you looked forward to in you life is cancelled and out of your of control. I really wish I watched this a few months ago.

[@scharliess]

How beautiful person you are?💛

[@kathyxu4344]

is it just me or did Andrew get cuter in his videos? Keep it up!!

[@simon-pierredoucet8936]

Question: how far is considered “long distance”? Me and my big guy live like an hour and a half away from each other.

[@SexBru]

Long distance for me is , that u need to plan time to sleep somewhere else and etc

[@josethevegan8923]

Anything above 40 minutes for me is long distance.

[@dereckperkins]

By definition it is long distance when the people in the relationship are geographically separated.

[@RobertJohnson-je6tx]

I like Andrew’s videos, but he is a commitment phobe. His relationship with Ryan is a perfect example.

[@laurencelingle]

Damn, you youngsters have it so good, if you only knew - speaking s one who grew up in the Dark Ages of the 1940s and 1950s. And Andrew, back in those days no one looked as hot as you.

[@jfs59nj]

Laurence Lingle except possibly Tyrone Power. They have the same kind of beauty

[@amon5568]

*ok boomer*

[@flight62]

@@amon5568 You don't have to be an asshole.

[@allenelliott9729]

@@jfs59nj WHO

[@LordOfTheBroz]

Xenois- Jesus what is wrong with you

[@antoniosalazar2699]

I think I will just unsubscribe from your channel....you are so beautiful and make me want to fall in love and find someone as cute and perfect as you and I'm crying....I love u!!!!

[@allenelliott9729]

You're in bad shape pal. How in touch with reality are you

[@antoniosalazar2699]

@@allenelliott9729 excuse me? Who the fuxk are u?

[@om.6716]

I don’t see any ugly gay couple or handsome guy fall in love with ugly guy , but m so happy that m ugly and old guy but so happy to be a gay and very happy for everybody who got the love ❤

[@Marcus_Taurus5]

A hot nerd whips out his sword... Me: "Sheath me kind sir!"

[@richardgorembalem8491]

Hope i can find a partner... whois serious and matured enough to have a relationship.. hoping and wishing

[@mihai1625]

I want to hear about that boyfriend from wow :))) Thx for uploading videos !!!! Every time I see your videos I feel better. When I watch you I see that I can live a normal and beautiful life like you do . Btw I love your room !!!!! It looks so green 💚

[@fabiosp43]

As a gay man from South America, it's been complicated for me to meet my soul mate. No one is interested in a steady relationship in real life...unfortunately...

[@Jason-Long]

Hey Andrew, I don't know if you'll read this, and it's ok lol. I know your very busy and have a ton of fans. I have a lot of experience in this area. I'd be happy to share some advice. There's really only thing you need to remember when involved in a long distance relationship. Stay in constant communication...or as much as possible. Everything else will follow. Please know, it does come with a price. What I mean by that is to be honest Andrew they seldom work out, even through no fault of your own. The reasons are endless, but from my experience and research I've done...the common thread seems to be from lack of communication. Andrew, I unfortunately was one of the ones that despite my best efforts, wasn't so lucky. Just remember it's a two way street. The other person has to be on the same page, make you a priority and put in the effort. Would I try it again...ABSOLUTELY ! I believe when you love someone...I mean really love them, you take a chance. That's what love is all about. If you never try, you'll never know. I hope it works out and I want nothing but the best for you man. Your such a sweet guy, with a good heart and deserve someone who will love you with everything they got, not just when its convenient. I know I would. Take care, and don't change for anyone. Your beautiful just the way you are. God bless, xoxo J. ❤ P.s. sorry this was long...it's a subject I'm passionate about. Andrew I hope you find what your looking for. 😘

[@Jason-Long]

Btw...sorry for any typos. Lol

[@ChaseHefflefinger]

Hey I love ur videos. Keep up the good work!

[@johnwendelin1878]

God...and all that I could notice is the NUDE MEN PAINTINGS the gayness in me is on the whole captain marvel level blasting the space😂

[@OLDS98]

You guys have been moving in it seems. You guys will find the time to get it finished. Do you think that is too much greenery in your room? I have no suggestions as to how you should arrange things. Your topic was interesting. Your comment in the beginning is so true and so many people fall for people not near them because they are not making the connection near them. That is just it.. people want and need the connection. The story was quite interesting. The things people do for love and for the romantic connection. You both were young. You did not know. It was a new experience. You made some good points about long distance relationships. You enjoy your sword. I have no stories to share. I have never been in love or a relationship, but had a long distance mind games among other things..

[@icebabysnocain]

I'll just leave the decorating to you being as gay guys are usually the decorators . Oh wait, I'm gay too. Ok I think you did a good job with the space availabl. And I like your vids and friends.

[@stevenbrown2783]

You’re just adorable. I love hearing your various stories and seeing adventures. 😊

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hi. ❤️

[@Teckno72]

Long distance relationships can work with extra effort by everyone concerned. But. They never really worked for me....

[@brianz9357]

can you make a video about your work? relationship/instagram/underwear videos are interesting but i genuinely want some videos about your profession/career

[@allenelliott9729]

Me too

[@AZguy55]

Long before the apps, I tried long distance twice. Didn’t seem to work out for me. Looking back I can see that the lack of communication was a big factor. Maybe in the future. Can’t say that I would not try again.

[@jovensonursulum4045]

Hello. ❤️ HOPE you give me the opportunity to know you seriously ♥️. I am interested to know you seriously. I am Jovenson Ursulum from Philippines and 30 years of age and working as a secondary school teacher.

[@owenmuller7608]

Lol. The very end killed me haha 😂

[@ericlanson8426]

Love the story, nice you could remain friends. Thanks Andrew for sharing it and some really good, sound advice.