Why "interested" men disappear - 5 powerful reasons 👩🏻‍🤝‍🧑🏻💨

[@SabrinaBendory]

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[@AC-jr8bn]

Mutual attraction and connection is so rare and can't be created . It's so hard

[@simsbulluck9235]

My takeaway: Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.

[@angelikabatwoman]

Also very important! Low self worth is the answer...

[@DD888-q4y]

I’m a guy. We really don’t like to reject a woman and we gradually fade out. If the guy doesn’t see the long term potential then we may like the girl’s company but a protection barrier comes up, almost subconsciously to protect.

[@NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[@simsbulluck9235]

I truly believe that if we love ourselves first unconditionally then everything else will fall into place

[@TheLove2surf]

Yes yes and yes!! I gave up on relationships at 39 and threw myself into working on me… I was really happy… and was relaxed about flying solo… and then I met the most amazing person 3.5 years later… totally unexpected… wasn’t looking… and a year and some later we married…

[@peterpisspotty3052]

Why an interested guy disappears ... basically, he just didn't have the guts to tell you he wasn't interested 1. YOU were trying too hard to win him over 2. He was NEVER that into you in the first place 3. Once he won you and got to know you, he decided you weren't for him afterall 4. You are choosing the WRONG guy and trying to make it work 5. Your vibe is off - you're needy and insecure - he doesn't feel good around you 6. You don't connect with who he truly is - maybe it's just the idea of him you like

[@arbitrarylib]

These types of men are the ones that will shatter your self esteem if you let them. Cry, work through it, and raise your energy towards the one you want.

[@SavvyVyxen]

Omg, no lies have been told. I was THAT girl and it repelled the guy! Three years later I watched your videos and learned about LAW OF ATTRACTION and bam we’re in a committed delicious relationship 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

[@FGC-ku4ez]

I like this channel because it gets to the bottom of so many phenomenon in the dating world. This video is so true, because it's hard (if not impossible), to scare the right person who is really into you away.

[@YouTubeGalPal]

I've been listening to dating/relationship channels for yours. A New Mode is THE BEST!!!❤️

[@shreyashelat4623]

Very wise so true!!!! Honesty is vital if you want a relationship that’s what you’ll find If you are a commitment phobe that’s what you’ll attract that anxious frame of mind is so unnecessary ❤this!!!

[@angelikabatwoman]

Your advice really helps me so much Sabrina! Thank you! What also helps me is to think that actually we are not that different from men. I also don't want a clingy guy who fulfills a fantasy through me and sees me as a trophy and is insecure, I want a man who really connects with me. So of course I should not behave like these types of guys...

[@DD888-q4y]

I’m a guy. We really don’t like to reject a woman and we gradually fade out. If the guy doesn’t see the long term potential then we may like the girl’s company but a protection barrier comes up, almost subconsciously to protect.

[@Chimalmita1]

You look gorgeous in this new hairstyle!

[@lisahall2577]

Still very confusing! Its almost like you need to pretend your not interested just to receive the opposite reaction of what you really want ! Very frustrating!!

[@YoshiEaterX]

Just ask a guy out and be open to be consumed...

[@simsbulluck9235]

I think she is saying come across confident because if you are confident they will be more attracted to you! I mean would you like a guy desparately trying to get your attention?

[@lisahall2577]

@@simsbulluck9235 You are absolutely right !! I couldn't agree more with you !! 🤗

[@sandraladwig5902]

Or he could of been a narcissist that just wanted to use you. That's a possibility as well!

[@sabinatavinor1032]

I wasn't into him that much at first, he seemed super into me, met my daughter, I met his son, he introduced me to his best friend, brother and an accountant... and after so many dates, days out, he decided that he "likes me too much and is afraid that he'll stop in a month or two, and what then...?" Apparently he's afraid he'll hurt me and my daughter... ehh... :(

[@andrealee5553]

I had to watch this one twice. Much needed and I’m subscribed to your mailing list!

[@keishaprevatt-gomez7736]

I was just randomly looking for advice and stumbled on your videos...ended up doing this for the last couple hours...thanks for your perspective n the way you bring this across. I really can relate with every single thing n scenario you've presented...thanks for the advice and guidance 🙏 🙌

[@SabrinaBendory]

My pleasure!!

[@ianvanderjagt4047]

I am not here to say she is wrong or anything , she has decent amount of truth in this video , but as a Guy, I can tell you we spend most of work days in conflict of some kind , whether it be from problems , or people, or situations we have to deal with, so when we chose a partner we want someone that is specifically going to naturally promote peace and happiness when we are together, that is how we look for girlfriends, but then a Guy will start naturally looking for wife qualities , like would she be a good mother if we had kids, how well can she support me in ways to help better provide for her , is she going to take everything from me just to make her happy, and lastly in the long term is she going to give back into the relationship enough to make my support worth it? So basically in the short term we want to know that you are going to be a good person to be around, and the long term we want to know that you have the feminine qualities that we need from a long term partner. So if we see signs that you like to be combative, bring drama, or conflict, drain more from us that we can accept or is returned (physically, emotionally, or financially) then we are going to quickly loose interest and go.

[@meg67qtmehbb]

So I was like this😭😭😭

[@huma7366]

And how can we bring this interest back? Should I go no contact with him?

[@ianvanderjagt4047]

@@huma7366 , not sure if you are still in contact, but guys tend to respond best to logic and honesty , if you communicate that realize what is missing from what he needs and work on fixing it you will most likely start to turn things around and eventually he would more than likely start giving a lot more in the relationship as well which is a good sign that it is helping. sounds confusing but without knowing specifics that is best I can come up with.

[@nataliasupra7307]

Every woman has some emotional drama. No one is perfect. Like you said men are in conflict in outer world, women are in conflict in their inner world. If woman pretends till wedding that she is perfect and not conflicting then after a wedding she will unleash it. The best way is to support each other in our dramas. And when we learn successfully to do that then we can get married. There is no other way but to accept each other fully

[@ianvanderjagt4047]

@@nataliasupra7307 agreed, which goes back to the old saying, you like someone for you like about them , but love someone for what you hate about them.

[@chantalabro9764]

This is brilliant 👏 you're such an enlightened woman 👩 ❤

[@SabrinaBendory]

Thank you! (Took many years of being highly un-enlightened to get here!)

[@ladydior-oo3gi]

Please explain how we can become emotionally UN available!!!! and how it looks like in our childhood 🙏🏻

[@Sharperthanu1]

Also people who actually get married rarely if ever marry someone they're "into." They marry someone they can USE and lie to cover this up or say nothing.Also guys always only marry women they can USE NOT someone that they're "into." (They're not "into" ANYBODY).Most women do their version of that but not all women.Some women are just looking for the right guy for them.

[@ohmygollyahottamale5812]

Avoid Black or Los Angeles men.

[@ohmygollyahottamale5812]

And you'll have LESS of this problem.

[@fizaahfaiyaz8942]

Can you please do a more indept video on - desperately wanting a relationship and being emotionally unavailable. I do think this topic needs more focus.

[@SabrinaBendory]

Yes, I will!

[@christiname27]

Your videos have been really helping slowly for a while now thank you I'm finally listening to them and following directions lol

[@SabrinaBendory]

Wonderful!

[@saraiannaccone1790]

Thank you. You are so right. I enjoy listening to you.

[@SabrinaBendory]

I'm so glad!

[@missk3214]

How can one be emotionally unavailable & seek a relationship ?

[@hayuclasses6556]

Nice video

[@Thecvsquare]

I’ve missed “it’s Sabrina your personal love adviser from a new mode, the channel where we show you how love actually works”

[@alicebeaver1383]

Watch video three times a day for 10 days, and then as needed.

[@SabrinaBendory]

Hahahaha

[@salamaboudaher1010]

Plz can you do a vid on would they come back if we leave them alone, what are the chances?

[@ninaines9739]

God bless you you did give me all the answers

[@queenbee7895]

Thank you

[@julia9985]

Perfect! I needed this advice. Thank you. Is about time someone got to the point.

[@lanecountyoregon]

I think your advice is spot on, your videos are cool they are just a little long winded. I think there is to many examples and that makes me lose interest in watching. I am on your email list and love your topics. Thank you for taking time to help us girls out for free.

[@Bluesmoke4200]

Does it really matter?

[@OShaughnessyC]

Great advice, as always, from Sabrina.

[@SabrinaBendory]

So glad!

[@alishamarie833]

Would you be able to do a video on why men pull away after the first time you have sex with them and what to do about it?

[@nataliasupra7307]

It’s simple. Because they just wanted sex from you

[@chandralukito7489]

You like a therapist

[@jeanaustin8849]

I think this is all to much hard work. Its best to be your real self then if the guy visa versa. Doesn't want u. Ul no from the beginning. Then u can go ur seperate ways. Theres no point in playing games. Just be real.

[@notmyrealname6272]

Is there a possibility that you’re the most sensible person on the internet?? I feel royally told off haha

[@fatemehsalehnia2802]

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