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[@Luna-zs8rc]

she looks like she would blame assault victims for their clothes

[@dolceamasweet3547]

Ikr....

[@lore5751]

dolceama sweet TOTALLY

[@sara-jz9pg]

she made a whole video explaining why we shouldn't believe sexual assault victims?&&?$#$@%^

[@MaddieMP3]

I hate people like that 🙄 my friend had a girl grab his ass at school and a teacher had the audacity to say “Maybe if you didn’t have tight jeans she wouldn’t grab you” 🤡 clown behavior

[@sirTina]

She did blame assault victims. She literally said it didn’t happen...Iike what?

[@studywithselene5490]

She looks like a person who can say "it's your fault to be harassed, you were wearing a crop top" to a woman

[@studywithselene5490]

@Earth I'm really sorry to hear that😔 And believe me I've been through that too, I know how it sucks but what can we do? They have their opinions, true or false...

[@cheeseballs4all]

Its like that but with my dad He wont let me where crop tops without a tank top underneath I feel sexy and good about my self in a crop tops

[@studywithselene5490]

@@cheeseballs4all They really don't care what we want and who we are.. They think we're wearing crop tops cause we want attention but we just feel confident with them. Or even if we want attention, what's wrong with that? I really understand you and I hope one day they will change

[@Red_.B]

@Earth I’m so sorry 😔 I hope you can move out soon🥺

[@anx13ty_s0ng]

(im a trans man btw) i was harassed in an oversized hoodie and large pants, its not the victim's fault for the aggressor's nasty thoughts

[@kaitlynnoble1337]

this woman is the reason school dress codes exist

[@jinseats5466]

School dress codes need to be stopped. And then they tell us to stop sexualizing women when they’ve said shoulders are too distracting. Like wtf?

[@mackenzieleonard9606]

Yes dress codes or the people who enforce them are usually more harshly forced on girls/women your arguments are valid not here to hate but it think that bullying is another reason but then again it could easily be corrupted

[@jinseats5466]

mackenzie leonard I totally understand where you’re coming from but I still think that it (the dress code) is a bit extreme and that they don’t clarify the right messages. I also think that it doesn’t help with an already very patrilineal society, where women have only gained their place in society as it is now primarily in the last 100 years, correct me of I’m wrong. At the same time I do see your point, and I don’t want to contradict or undermine it, but I feel like there is a better way to deal with bullying then a dress code

[@mackenzieleonard9606]

Ok I understand thank you for saying that

[@strawberri5566]

kait noble She IS the dressscode

[@congaroach]

as a muslim woman, i’ve seen full on niquabis (fully covered including the face covering) sexualized and cat called. i dress in fully oversized clothes (for both religious and personal preferences) and i was still sexualized by teachers and classmates . no matter how much you’re covered, most are most likely already creating a sexual scenario of you in their head. please stay safe everyone !

[@VegQuaker13]

I've been serialized in an oversized hospital gown. Obviously women aren't the biggest problem

[@leorafilms.]

exactly! the problem isn't what women wear, it's how men see us. it's not my job to quit wearing tank tops in the summer because men can't control themselves

[@Nimbithefallen5326]

Interesting how there are no replies here…

[@leorafilms.]

@@Nimbithefallen5326 there are 💀

[@Nimbithefallen5326]

@@leorafilms. I mean, no replies challenging the OP

[@lucymiller2337]

i love how modest dressing people who push it on others always say “leave something to the imagination” but that phrase implies that they want a man to imagine their naked bodies under clothes anyway so it contradicts their ideals of having a man see a woman for their personality and not their body

[@AnnamarieForcino]

their whole arguments makes no sense

[@-bean-4296]

I cover up my body because I’m scared of that kind of attention. I’m an early bloomer or whatever. I don’t want men my dads age to catcall me :/

[@kayla4769]

they cant get their arguments straight 💀💀

[@oliviabradshaw300]

The whole “leave it up to the imagination” thing makes me so uncomfortable. Like, I don’t want men or anyone for that matter imagined for what my body looks like.

[@sofiabravo1994]

As a Christian I agree we are to be modest to glorify Christ not men. That’s secondary but not the sole purpose.

[@isaacdavis2205]

Who tf gonna tell her gay men exist

[@sparklingdeath1730]

Also ace and aro, and like, a majority of the LGBT+ peeps.

[@cateloudon4966]

And gay women. Like not all men are interested in girls and not all girls even want anything to do with guys. I dress for the gays and the theys that’s it lol.

[@tinypirate3109]

Who bout to tell her black trans women exist.

[@anupamaMall]

And Bi, Pan, asexuals 😅

[@cole4150]

Her brother

[@imnottayyiba]

the problem with women like classically Abby, is that they tell women to dress modestly but at the same time they tell Muslim women to remove their hijab's. edit: I am Muslim

[@caroliner.7628]

As a Catholic, please be kind to Muslim women. We’re all just trying to practice our religion.

[@preciousjewel3792]

I am muslim, and I've got to say... Why do you CARE? Like, just because we are a different religion doesn't mean you have any right to judge us.

[@plumeria72]

@@preciousjewel3792 I agree. I am not Muslim, but at least I can understand that I shouldn’t care or ridicule people for what they wear. Just seems kinda rude and obnoxious, to say the least.

[@salmonnsushiii]

@@preciousjewel3792 wait who are you saying this to?

[@objectivelybiased]

@@salmonnsushiii Im thinking a comment was erased? Im also confused

[@kingkooki7761]

i always find it funny to hear that people like this are scared to have children around alt people when i get the most cute interactions with kids in alt clothes and makeup then when i dress in “regular” clothes. kids just think it’s cool, they’re not gonna go worship satan because they saw someone wearing fishnets.

[@briezeee]

Exactly 🙄 like what. Also most alt girls don’t serve satan or whatever

[@ammitthedevourer7316]

As a former sheltered kid, I can confirm. I wonder if she’s jealous that kids don’t randomly ask her questions about her outfit. Maybe _that’s_ the real beef.

[@muffim_tv]

yes, thank you! i have a similar experience being a furry. so many people online seem to think im some horrific creature that children should be scared of, but interacting with kids in my fursuit is so fun and so cute.

[@jk-jl2lo]

i saw this a lot when i worked in retail since i had brightly colored hair. the little kids that ran up excited to compliment my "cotton candy hair" always made my day. and i remember when i was younger, even up until middle school, being so fascinated by people w really bold style out in public. i would stare but just bc y'all look like living art. that's probably how i ended up dating a goth girl lmao.

[@Girlupthecastle]

I was ghotic with tats and it was the best idea. I kept man always and kids were fascinated! Miss it 😢

[@abbiekriskey2129]

as a jew, a woman, and a fellow abby/abbie, we don't claim her.

[@blueghost4769]

What a coincidence... You already seem a lot better than her tho

[@abbiekriskey2129]

lαilα awe ty 🥰

[@textingstoryssapphire5781]

Ty

[@smegeggs6107]

as Jewish transboy uhhhh we don't want him either

[@Shalalalala_666]

As an ORTHODOX Jewish Lesbian, Progressive, Feminist I DO NOT CLAIM HER 😡

[@gothbimbo9470]

Abby wanting a safe space for conservative women like she’s never heard of Facebook before

[@campione270]

I think everyone deserves safe spaces, but I wouldn’t want to give them a space to be completely homophobic & horrible, maybe my idea of conservatives isn’t right but I feel like it would be a bunch of people talking about how sinful everything is & that It shouldn’t be allowed & that thought makes me quiver

[@marchrun8499]

Lmao she wants a safe space like non-conservative (sorry don’t know the word) people have but doesn’t realize that the only reason they need a safe space at all is because if people like her. Idk if that make sense sorry

[@gothbimbo9470]

@@marchrun8499 yeah lol

[@MinSuga-ze9vt]

@Bon Jovi being anti lgbt is literally all conservatives talk ab

[@MinSuga-ze9vt]

@Agent Wolf who brought religion into this??? mind your business

[@jaderheanna]

"Do you want to be noticed for being beautiful or being sexy?" I do not want to be noticed, period. Do not perceive me thanks

[@victoria-iz2sb]

word

[@deeksha1749]

I am not even here , baby I am an illusion

[@archaichermit3566]

There with ya 💕

[@Octobermarceline]

My neuordiversity

[@24-karat-plonker]

I'm literally this John Mulaney quote "Don't look at me or I'll kill myself"

[@Thetiredteddy]

I'm convinced Ms Abby here had a bf at some point in her life and he left her for a girl in a tank top , and she probably blames the girl .

[@healthyfitfun]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chelseahollis4423]

OMG🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@manderly33]

[shakes fist at sky] TAAAANK TOOOOP

[@exorouge238]

Tank top and capri pants to show those sexy ankles... He was like damn girl those shoulders and ankles though😍...abby who 🙃

[@bikini_kill3r]

BAHAHAHA

[@mareike3758]

The phrase "leaving sth to the imagination" is them basically admitting that you'll be sexualized no matter what ur wearing

[@violetleiva6319]

Exactly

[@effyaddams]

dude, if all man were gross like that (sexualizing woman for fucking existing) and all woman so judgy and close minded like her, i'd rather stay single forever.

[@memeju1ce]

“B-but my ankles!! Sky daddy says no :(((“

[@violetleiva6319]

@@memeju1ce OK but why did this give me Killing Stalking flashbacks

[@dan-gn5tu]

@@violetleiva6319just because it has the word ankles in it?

[@isaacdavis2205]

“Men are visual creatures” Shit we don’t have thoughts emotions and opinions, we just live to reproduce. Thanks for reminder Abby :)

[@thegrammarpolice6953]

I'm really sorry she said that about men in general. I happen to know a guy in real life who's definitely an emotional "creature", not a visual one. So you're not alone!🙂💜

[@bellamarie9926]

What she said is so stupid. Men AND women are both emotional and visual. We both feel attraction and also have feelings.

[@almondtovfu5672]

Can we please normalize men showing emotions, like they aren't just fucking sex beasts that eat meat and can't control themselves.

[@risky_busine55]

Fellas is it gay to have feelings?

[@anneliesew4853]

I feel so bad for ace men and what everyone assumes about them. Toxic masculinity right there.

[@tokkia1384]

What she’s saying is also offensive to men. It infantilizes them, like they are children who need a safe environment and who get “distracted” and cannot control themselves.

[@angelinamartinez8662]

exactly

[@onyx4152]

Don't forget the part where she says we don't have real emotions like women

[@fructifer4502]

YES this is degrading all around. Basically, the message is "people can't be trusted with their own sexuality and the human body is icky". How much shame do you need to have internalized to believe that?

[@facelessdrone]

Yeah, like we are some ravaging raging beast that assaults everything if not tied down, or like we can't take emotional responsibility for the shit we do? Stereotypes like those are what cause toxic masculinity, and actual cults like qanon. people are people. Why the fuck is that so hard for them to understand??

[@daikonlegs2726]

In other words, she’s like the people who enforce dress codes 🌚

[@woofwoof6247]

Her views on intimacy/sex makes me so uncomfortable. She reminds me of how my mom and ex stepdad believed, I was raised to be modest and innocent and to this day I have problems with the idea of sex because I feel like it wouldn’t be lady like and have a divide between discovering what I enjoy and being afraid to be in an actual relationship because I feel like I can’t be properly attached. Basically don’t raise your kids to think they should only be pure, innocent, and modest all of the time until marriage- especially if they’re female. It fucks them up.

[@omelettexmoa2995]

fr tho 😭 she sounds just like my mother its scary

[@nessie-from-earthbound1601]

Yeah the people who raise their kids like that just seem to think they'll just be able to get over it once they're married, as if being told your entire life that being "pure" and "modest" should be a key part of your identity and even the core of your worth as a person, and then being expected to go through something that get rid of that wouldn't be troubling at minimum and extremely distressing at worst, and these people are confused about that

[@Girlupthecastle]

I’ve been there. Took me ten years of therapy to solve it. Start by writing about sex, searching and challenging your views and then talking to friends or partners

[@MaryamMaqdisi]

Purity culture is horrible, hope things get better for you and you get to explore and embrace your sexuality on your terms. Bless you and stay safe.

[@Thelastunicornlover]

👍❤️

[@serenityincbmc]

If she's the definition of a *real* woman, im proud to say im not 💖

[@gorgonbaby]

@# mae !! omg same

[@fredly5795]

Aah same

[@boyfloppie]

I like be genderfluid 🥰

[@Sun_shiner11]

Don't worry, we don't claim "her"

[@cat-facethewise5452]

Time to pull up those they/them pronouns, a g a I n.

[@mandyleigh1392]

I'm not entirely convinced this isn't Ben Shapiro in a wig.

[@angelinamartinez8662]

i commented that too lol. she literally looks like him

[@monimtenga7412]

😂😂

[@mabelwantstodie6247]

SHE LOOKS SOOO MUCH LIKE BEN SHAPIRO IN A WIG !! I couldn't even focus properly on the video bc I kept thinking about it and laughing lol

[@balegdaTaylorsversion]

Ngl, Ben looks great in drag Or maybe they're genderfluid, making another channel for when they feel like a woman or maybe they have dissociative identity disorder) Personally, I stan our genderfluid, neurodivergent queen infiltrating the conservatives

[@vintagearisen]

Ben Shapiro eye shadow game on point

[@artemislayman7008]

Absolutely kills me when she's talking about JLo, saying being sexy is "a loosing game" BITCH she's a millionaire, the woman is doing just fine

[@SjofnBM1989]

Also JLo is 50 and still keeping it tight, like she's good.

[@ann-emilielacerte9538]

sooooo true!

[@buzzbee8869]

😂😂😂😂 I lost my shit when seeing this comment

[@JessieBanana]

Right! JLo isn't losing shit. I would cut 20 years off my life to be where JLo is at.

[@theyoungg1590]

Ikr, every men would choose JLo over her

[@hamildiggthonysauce]

“Lets talk about modesty” *behind her showing three pictures of what society would call unmodest dresses*

[@kaitlynnoble1337]

some creepy guy was ogling me when I was wearing baggy sweats and a hoodie. it literally has nothing to do with how much skin we're showing. and even if it did, it shouldn't be the woman's problem. stop blaming the actions of men who have no respect on women. feeling safe is a human right.

[@-bean-4296]

I’m so scared of that. It’s so creepy!

[@florieb.259]

Last December, I was heading home, a guy followed me from the bus to my house (he actually entered the property, left when I screamed), and believe me, there is no way it had to do with the way I was dressed ; it was in Winter, all there was to se was my dark pants, my winter coat, and my shoes with absolutely no heels ; the idea that the clothes matter in such a situation makes no sense

[@kalycaemilychia8482]

that happened when i was 11, i was wearing loose pants and a baggy shirt. a man was following me in the mall bc i was behind my parents. he tapped my shoulder and i directly walked faster to my parents so that he couldn't get to me. i think he was an employee at a mail corporation. he was like, really close behind me and my family and when he arrived at the corporation he worked at, i was so relieved that i didnt have to deal with him.

[@TehMomo_]

yep. I've been cat-called in everything from baggy sweats to a bikini top and shorts...looks like the problem is entitled men....

[@JustMe-fb6oq]

Yeah, me too. It is so uncomfortable and why don’t we just teach people no touchie. Plus don’t stare.

[@superiorpanda6449]

Abby was groomed so well she doesn't even realize she's a pet.

[@karlareyes1671]

She gives me "Pick me" vibes 🤔🤔🤔

[@spookyspider1014]

She trying to convince us it's nice to be your husband's property so she can feel better about her own lack of freedom lmao

[@ana-mariamanica5923]

Omg this is hands down the best quote 😂

[@missaniebananie6473]

This!

[@md4_]

😩🥳👏

[@AidaBM30]

I cringe everytime CA suggests that women need to control how they dress to avoid triggering men... like wtf?

[@fatimahanwaar306]

I cringe every time someone says "you dress provocatively you get treated provocatively"

[@MaryamMaqdisi]

​@@fatimahanwaar306omg that's so cringe wtf

[@fatimahanwaar306]

@@MaryamMaqdisi exactly! not to mention the "prevention is better than treatment" mentality

[@stacie1595]

No Abby, when I'm 50, I want to be known for my body, the one I worked hard to maintain and the one that has safely carried me through life. As a dancer, my body is an extension of my expression and at 50, I want to be healthy and strong enough to still dance and use it to its fullest!

[@anahidugdale9673]

YES GIRL GET IT I LOVE IT

[@russianraichu]

Wow✨

[@spookyspider1014]

This >>>

[@rilleygriffin]

I love this comment

[@astra5091]

I’m in love with this comment

[@superzer0600]

Her eyebrows are almost as bold as these accusations! Oh my!!

[@AnnamarieForcino]

right OMG

[@prettynderanged]

you know what... this comment got me in trouble . it was my turn to say here for roll and instead i blurted out a ugly laugh. that was embarassing!!!!!!!!!

[@Gabriel-nw6lb]

I'm melting omg

[@prettynderanged]

online school is really the worse ;

[@lesbianrichietozier]

omg im e v a p o r a t i n g 😂😂😂

[@maddiecantalk4122]

"I'm a conservative woman and I love pretending like I'm oppressed"

[@maroonspider50]

Tmw Christians and conservatives are actually oppressed but the media isn’t on our side 🙃

[@naptuneii4200]

@@maroonspider50 Question- how are conservatives and Christians oppressed?

[@zeus-wp6oz]

@@maroonspider50 I’m sorry are you attacked, killed and insulted on a daily basis in the us because of your religion ? Because that’s what being oppressed means

[@maroonspider50]

@@zeus-wp6oz Actually that happens, sooo that’s a bit awkward. Try doing research, it’ll do wonders

[@lvely4126]

@@zeus-wp6oz Christianity is the religion with the biggest following in the world??? How can Christians be oppressed

[@jayking2228]

"Women who wait til marriage are happier" Tell that to my sister whos hubby barely helps around the house

[@miphasgrace8980]

‘Coming out’ as conservative is like ‘coming out’ as straight. Wtf.

[@vintagearisen]

Conservatives: I'M COMING OUT OF THE CLOSET THAT I STEPPED INTO MYSELF BECAUSE I WANTED TO FEEL OPPRESSED AND MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT MYSELF

[@ghostii716]

@@vintagearisen L I T E R A L L Y

[@coffeebeanmilkshake2292]

@UltimateCheetah3000 OMG S A M E

[@coffeebeanmilkshake2292]

@UltimateCheetah3000 yes, but only in certain parts that allow them to discriminate without being judged themselves "it's god word, not me"

[@josjoererg]

i would argue its worse. being straight at the very least isn't a choice, whereas being a conservative is.

[@ruedrawsart_1013]

When I was 12 I was catcalled and a man tried to take me into his car for “good time” . I was wearing my school track-pants a pink hoodie and a hijab and the guy was at least 40. I was so scared that I ran away and I didn’t have the guts to tell my mom. I’ve turned 15 yesterday and I still haven’t told nor will I want to. What she’s saying is just horrible and she’s making young girls and women feel like it’s they’re fault for being harassed by men.

[@sega-megadeth1276]

Has he been arrested yet?

[@idek7438]

I'm so sorry this happened to you sister. You have nothing to be ashamed of, that man does.

[@eldron29-a54]

I would punch the man, scream and run. I know that, when you are so young, you feel defenseless, it's not your fault in any way.

[@chayden153]

Oh my gosh hon. I'm so sorry that happened to you, that's disgusting that a grown ass adult felt they had to catcall a literal child.

[@kimchiandfries4830]

im so so sorry you experienced that. im over 40 now and got sexualized before 10 and my family is EXTREMELY conservative. it took me decades to realize it wasnt and isnt my fault.. it isnt your fault. peace

[@luyandalamula9009]

"Men are visual creatures." Blind men have left the conversation

[@Quanice815]

More like blind men are typing. Wait....

[@macarim1748]

LMAOO

[@ashtonchatman3383]

I choked 😭🤣

[@katem5520]

This caught me off guard lmao

[@facelessdrone]

Trust me when I say we are purely emotional, just some of us are to insecure to express those feelings.

[@theyoungg1590]

If a house were robbed, you don't blame the house for being robbed, you blame the robber

[@nicetomeecha]

She’s Ben Shapiro’s sister, did she actually have to “come out” as conservative?

[@elizamac962]

Wouldn’t it be funny as hell if she was like actually I’m super left and I hate Ben so much

[@cherylnightshade8518]

@@elizamac962 lmfao yeah. Apparently their cousin (the girl who played Matilda) disowned them or something lol

[@elizamac962]

@@cherylnightshade8518 LMFAO good for her

[@BooksandBuns]

@@elizamac962 that's what happened to Kaitlin Bennett's sister!

[@pm6127]

Conservatives have a victim complex despite holding power disproportionately to their numbers

[@imnottayyiba]

as a muslim, I really don't care what you wear. if you want to dress modestly, like i do, or if you want to show some skin. I really couldn't care less. do what you want. just don't force your views on other people. you do you babes

[@soggyfroggysoup]

Period

[@whatspoppin11326]

Either way, she seems like the kind of hypocritical ass who would say “dress modestly” but would also support banning the burka and ripping a girls hijab off

[@caroliner.7628]

As a Catholic who loves long skirts, I agree. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in. It should not matter

[@imnottayyiba]

@@caroliner.7628 a little off topic but as a Muslim who also loves long skirts, you should check out this online brand called modanisa. they have such nice skirts and dresses.

[@Isabel-ge1ou]

see we are all brothers and sisters. unfortunate when we as a world forget the truth.

[@leiph]

She’s the same person who say mEn cAN nEVeR wEar A DREss

[@clowncage]

I mean, in the biblical times everyone wore robes and those are kinda like dresses?? When've you ever seen Jesus wearing pants? this argument kinda trashy

[@rafif1662]

@@clowncage THISSS. Honestly their argument makes zero sense

[@JJ-vo3mn]

Every time someone talks about men wearing a dress, I just remember Chef from Total Drama Island rocking his curves in a dress and accusing everyone of being jealous of him lmao

[@cyeerieczar]

Capri I wouldn’t mess with chef dress or not man remembers me of buff Samuel L. Jackson and I’m not ready for any battle with Chef

[@sadie3789]

life would be so good if men can wear dresses

[@rivkavermeij]

Is she implying that only conservative women believe in God? Well who's gonna tell her...

[@agstinacueva1673]

I'm pretty sure according to her people who believe in God but have a different approach to religion aren't true believers. Most evangelical people are that way

[@idek7438]

I know she's Jewish but I find it ironic that Jesus literally said "if your eyes cause you to sin pluck them out". Like if you're looking at a woman inappropriately fucking blind yourself. Canon Jesus is better than fanon Jesus change my mind

[@strawberryjam6235]

@@idek7438 Canon Jesus is a savage

[@MaryamMaqdisi]

She's a horrible person

[@Thelastunicornlover]

@@MaryamMaqdisiYes👍🤮

[@inanimateunknown108]

"hello sinners" , love that intro

[@bee8315]

She looks like the type of person to name her child Equestrianne

[@r.7530]

😂😂😂

[@jamesfv1]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@micah7608]

BYE 💀

[@awkwardbean1504]

PLEASE 😭😭

[@vintagearisen]

Lmaoooo

[@Tsuliante]

"men are visual creatures, not emotional" me, an asexual man : 👁👄👁

[@UnderscoreKikimo]

Ace gang B)

[@Shinrilart]

Hello to another ace from asexual girl here! ^^

[@Tsuliante]

@@Shinrilart Hello!

[@Venusiangirl222]

She’s the type to tell men they can’t cry or show any emotions

[@Echo_Aphelion]

Omg, I found the other aces! I was about to comment with 'I don't want to look desirable to anyone, nope not me 😆' nice to see we've all joined the party

[@Kasstato]

you know what, I'm single because I've had more sex. why is that? because meeting more people and having more sex lead to me learning about myself, what works for me, what doesn't, and also I've met people who actually treated with respect and taught me to have the high standards that I deserve. having more sex taught me to value myself and to not settle for a relationship with someone who is not going to respect me and value me as much as I deserve.

[@FernandaSantos-mv3jg]

I love the fact that while shes talking about skin exposure there's a bunch of pictures on the wall behind her with dresses designs that show "a lot of skin".

[@-haiuxxy7420]

FRR

[@macronfrog8360]

Pleaseee why did I not realize this

[@AVlooksatstuff]

How did I not notice this? 🗿

[@chocomelo454]

Noo it doesn't count because it's just her backkk! They're formal weaaar /s

[@manderly33]

Yuuup. None of those dresses are especially modest. I feel like “modesty” is a moving target for these religious scold channels.

[@abbielogger6073]

I honestly don’t understand why some people think that when women wears “revealing” clothes is to get distract or get attention. It’s really not. Most women wear revealing clothes because they are proud of their bodies and want to embrace it.

[@berry_flavored72]

@Nugget G yes girly, men ain't shit wear what you want 😘

[@somelove9872]

Or it’s just hot outside 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@bluebird1914]

For real. If anything, it should be praised if a woman dresses in revealing clothing because being proud of your body should be viewed as a good thing. Granted dressing modestly doesn't mean you're not proud of your body, but you get the idea.

[@holdensaia5962]

Or the women will melt in the sunlight if they wear anything longer.

[@najatalnassir1582]

She’s talking like every woman’s goal in life is to attract men and get a husband .. what????

[@tottalynotmark877]

And like every men is out for her. Like... no? We have lives thanks.

[@dreamer9375]

@@tottalynotmark877 😂😂

[@pandaviking3592]

It's the only thing that gives her life value and since she can't be happy with a career, she doesnt want any other woman to be happy outside of being controlled by a man either.

[@chocomelo454]

Quick! Don't tell her about Aromantic women!

[@salmonella7993]

Yep, theres another video of hers where she details that stereotypical gender roles for women are the pinnacle of being a good wife and woman.

[@Seraphhhina]

My 6 year old sister got cat called. Yes. 6. Years. Old. By 40 year old man. Ive never left her alone on slides every again, even if it was for 4 minutes to drink water.

[@theaqua1517]

You spotted a potential pedo. Unfortunately people like him still exist among us

[@kodomoshawn6729]

If Abby TRULY cared about modesty, she wouldn't be showing that much neck😒, dose she want the vampires to see her as a person, or dinner? 🧛🏻‍♂️👀🍷🚷 A REAL modest woman wears chainmail turtlenecks 🙄😒

[@ninar9664]

This comment is amazing

[@darling6876]

lmaoooooo

[@Dragonshade64]

Also they accessorise with a matching set sharpened metal fake nails (Neko Te?). Fabulous, feirce and can help men be good Biblical Christians by literally scratching their eyes out to save them from sin because they clearly can't save themselves. yes please. For those wondering, the Tekko Kagi that cover the wrist, hand and arm are considered too obvoius for a good, modest christian. Poisoning your metal nails is also not permitted.

[@shanyraW]

@@darling6876 Your username 😭😭

[@alisaurus4224]

I did think we can see an awful lot of her sternum for a “classic lady”.

[@lostmyself7890]

The kind of clothes that I wear DO NOT define the respect that I deserve... Thanks

[@Spyxfamily234]

Everyone deserve respect... Except if they hurt others just for the sake of hurting others like her.... (sorry if my english is bad)

[@michanone]

Seriously, this seems to be a problem in the US... I'm part of a church that considers itself pretty conservative here in Germany. And most girls wear whatever they want to and no one says anything. A friend of mine literally wore an outfit that looked like it was inspired by Sharpay from High school musical and she was fine! Like, what's the thing with naked shoulders?? 🤨

[@faithbradley4224]

SHOUT IT FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!!!!!

[@margodphd]

Period. We are not our bodies. We are not our clothes. Our value is our deeds, our words, the good we give out.

[@emmaconesaa]

When I was 11 a group of men started following me around the streets and kept yelling at me “nice butt”, “wait for me beauty”, “baby come here” it was a group of I think 30 or 40 men, there was a lot, it was night and I was wearing shorts and a tank top, at eleven I already had my period and all, what I did was I started walking fast and when I was far enough of them started running and told a pregnant woman that was there what was happening, I still remembered, worst day of my life.

[@romiemedina4776]

im so sorry that happened to you at such a young age :((

[@tiaaaaa]

if that happens again you should bark at them

[@romiemedina4776]

@@tiaaaaa thank you satan

[@tiaaaaa]

ur homie? romie no problemo

[@ahuman5772]

That's so scary, I hope you're ok

[@zantetsukenss]

speaking about catcalling i have a funny story rather than a scary or gross one: one time, me (trans guy) and my friend (enby girl) were going into a gas station and she was trying to prove to me that she could whistle. so i asked her if she could wolf whistle, and she demonstrated it for me. we didn't know there was a guy in front of us, and that poor dude looked back at us Shocked and Scandalized bc he thought she was whistling at HIM. he was so relieved when we told him it wasn't at him, all three of us got a good laugh out of it, and he was So chill about the accident lol

[@Moopilled]

Ben Shapiro’s drag persona sure has a lot to say.

[@mych3micalrowanpersonal]

I SNORTED

[@nastassjaminson5040]

PLEASE

[@Eggofficial09]

CRYING

[@burningpileofshakespearean]

yeah he just calls her his sister to cover up his secret passion /j

[@weirdoll1688]

I choked on my tea-

[@jules5210]

Bruv I don’t even like men. I like women. Why would I want to dress up for them? I do it for the girls and the gays perioddddd

[@michellecantu2902]

perioD

[@lizzwizz]

Are u literally me?

[@georgeedwards9121]

AS U SHOULD

[@jules5210]

@@georgeedwards9121 THANK YOU 🤧🤧

[@berry_flavored72]

Twins, except I'm pansexual 😗✌️

[@christinemichellle]

My mom waited for marriage and she divorced 20 years later. She and my dad didn't get along at all as a couple and she learned much later life she discovered she's Asexual & Gay. She no longer thinks p should wait for marriage and it's actually better to know if you enjoy being with someone in bed before you get married (she even thinks marriage is pointless) but she spent over 20 years in a miserable marriage. Forces to suffer 8 miscarriages & 5 difficult pregnancies. All because she grew up being told the only way you can be a women is like what this woman says we should all be. She raised me to be my own women and make my own choices about my life and body. I'm definitely not a classic women 😂

[@megblackwolf5470]

Your mom sounds like a true badass

[@s0lastsummer7]

I'm a demisexual, pansexual libertarian who was raised by staunch conservatives, and I fell ill in my twenties and have to live with my parents forever now. I am in my thirties already and they still don't know about my orientation, and probably never will. People like your mom make me feel less oppressed and suffocated in my own home, and leave me with just a tiny ray of hope that one day I'll not just be happy, but be myself. 💕

[@laaibahshahriar3473]

Your mum is amazing and strong

[@Lorena-pw5fk]

Your mom sounds cool

[@christinemichellle]

@@s0lastsummer7 im glad you could find some hope in my moms story. I'm sorry you have to live not only with an illness I got ill in teens and I had to keep living with my mom till I was 26/27. So I know lol of how much that sucks. But i can't imagine having to stay with beruff conservatives(my dad is obviously that way but my mom got full custody and dad only cared about seeing me when he had a new gf and wanted to look like a good dad and tried to get me to come and visit him. He refuses to accept that I'm bi) but I was able to find a man that knows all about my illness and helps me so im able to live out of my moms home. I hope that one day you will be able to live outside of your parents and live life as yourself and find all the happiness you deserve

[@jurinotonice803]

"Men are all visual and never emotional creatures. It's in our genes" is what my father told me all the time to justify his constant cheating, his awful comments about women's bodies and to bring me down for being emotional and not a real man. I was really confused about my sexuality because of this, I thought something is wrong with me. But I just needed a very, very deep bond of love and friendship to start seeing someone in a sexual way and that doesn't change the fact that I'm a man.

[@salonisatpalkar530]

That means you are demisexual :)

[@sejalb725]

You're really really cool! Please know that!

[@annie-snail]

The ice cream metaphor is so weird, like, if I knew I was going to have the best ice cream of my life in 5 years, why would I stop eating ice cream until that moment to make it more "special"?

[@Emily-ye1rj]

I mean, how would I even know what my favorite ice cream is if I've never had anything similar?

[@kindalovinglife1248]

Me who got sexually assaulted in my school uniform when I was 11 👁️👄👁️ ah yes, my bad, it's my fault I didn't ✨dress modestly ✨

[@soggyfroggysoup]

I’m so sorry I hope you’re doing better now bb

[@lizzwizz]

I’m so sorry. That’s absolutely horrible

[@terriblygluedtogether4564]

I am very sorry. Hope you're doing good.

[@ghostlyvendetta]

Hope ur doing better🌟🍊

[@lifereallysucks1447]

@That one man who makes shit posts on the daily. I'm really sorry

[@DustyLWithHusk]

*_As a human, we don't claim her-_*

[@danathepookwookgamer]

Literally, as a person that lives on this earth, i don’t claim her 🙄✋

[@jordanmattingly1671]

As an extraterrestrial life form, we don't claim her either😫😫

[@micah7608]

As a wet plastic bag we also don’t claim her 🤢

[@cyclepath4213]

As a shapeshifter, we absolutely don't claim her either 🤢🙄

[@Bleeeh_]

As a squirrel, we don’t claim her, and I ban her from the forest.

[@robbingcars9140]

“Men are visual creatures” is such a triggering phrase for me 😡 it’s like ironically over generalising to men while also being incredibly shitty to women

[@WolfBitesAndSleepyGraves]

My usual response argument for "men are visual creatures" is "so what are blind men doing?"

[@idontreallyknowlol7223]

Abby: “men are visual creatures.” Blind men, aro or ace men, and gay men: 👁👄👁

[@lamijadurakovic9410]

forreal, aromantic people obviously don't exist and they don't just get only sexually attracted to a person 😩😩😩 (yes i'm being sarcastic,, saying this for future references)

[@tottalynotmark877]

And you know, non-perverts.

[@KweenofRats]

"Blind men" IM DYING NOOO 😂😭

[@keiralynn_]

the fact that i KNEW who this video would be about BEFORE i clicked in

[@AnnamarieForcino]

omg are you in my brain or something😳

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

I have a friken add for her on this video. She is everywhere, someone helpppp

[@leila9469]

The fact her ad is under this vid...

[@-bean-4296]

🤢

[@screemingslay5415]

How ironic

[@acegerger7862]

“men are visual creatures not emotional ones” me: having low vision, being emotional, and being a gay man 👁👄👁

[@holdensaia5962]

Like does she not think that sensitive glasses wearing men exists.

[@chriscooper420]

"men are visual creatures, not emotional ones" me, a man: *cries in demisexual*

[@everlast1572]

Dont cry love

[@izabellagiroux2850]

Another demisexual:)

[@unused154]

dont cry dude! shes “quirky” shes “classic” 🤪😜

[@chaicoffeecup]

Heyy, I'm demisexual, too

[@lumitydotco5426]

@@unused154 BYEE 😭😭

[@puppypower222]

I THOUGHT HER BEING BEN SHAPIRO'S SISTER WAS A JOKE

[@sadsadtearsofaclown859]

Sadly no ✋😔

[@ludameri1384]

She literally looks like Ben S. with a wig

[@robyn8306]

Me too x3

[@alisaurus4224]

I actually thought she was his daughter for awhile 😬

[@wroniskoooo]

Abby is personification of "live, laugh, love" pillows

[@simp_4_sumireko394]

LOLLLL

[@FuckTheYoutubeUsernameChange]

more like ''live, laugh, love misogyny''

[@dylankennedy3256]

She personifies the taste of perfume

[@chelseahollis4423]

Not gunna lie, your comment took me out🤣💀. Genius comment my friend 👍🏾🤣

[@oliviaelston3606]

@@dylankennedy3256 light di gioia by armani to be exact, cause that mess smells like my dead great grandma’s furnace😂

[@victoriaheatherly7815]

Me *married to the only guy I had sex with* Abby: Wow! So are you ready to become a mother and have kids? Me:... Abby: You do want to become a mother, dont you? Me *starts adopting dogs during the uncomfortable silence*

[@Allystargirl]

She be like “I think I’m gonna enforce my patriarchal values, while simultaneously disrespecting men AND women in the same breath ✨”

[@dnationdrawz268]

Well, the Patriarchy is also bad for men, but it's a lot worse for women.

[@liesbethhodges5930]

“Why you should dress modestly” “Leggings are bad” Me, using dark leggings under dresses/skirts to be modest and complement my outfits: 👁👄👁

[@AgentSteffi]

Does modest mean "I don't want to worry about showing my panties and also I haven't shaved my legs in months"? Asking for a friend

[@FollowerofDuck]

@@AgentSteffi dressing modestly is simply j not showing much skin

[@KweenofRats]

@@AgentSteffi I'm not saying it's not... 👀

[@exorouge238]

@@AgentSteffi that and not having to worry about crossing my legs since I have pants on 😆

[@amandawilliams5352]

Abby thinks clothes are distracting, but I was most distracted by how flat the left side of her hair was compared to the curly right side. For being a "master of femininity," she needs to learn how to use an iron properly...

[@tea_de_tae5222]

Ugh yes I came to the comments to find this

[@LaLaelmosworldbish]

Yes! I also wish she would’ve gotten the ends curled too

[@ellasedits_]

Same! I felt bad because I don’t want to judge someone on their appearance… but it looks so off lmao.

[@violetleiva6319]

Oh no now I can't stop looking at her hair

[@ColinRixon]

I was distracted by her constant use of the bug-eyes. I see it as a thing narcissists do.

[@catsensei8322]

A real modest women wears knight armor, 24/7. Period. 👁️👄👁️✨

[@lilbluridinghood6296]

Agreed. Complete with kite shield and at least two swords.

[@venus3200]

I was raped and sexually abused so it’s hard to not feel like a victim to her.

[@shewhoweeps]

I’m so sorry that happened to you.

[@salvageofsaints5964]

i hope ur doing a lot better luv 💗

[@irongirltoni]

I'm sorry

[@carlottabreitweg7925]

Sorry that happened to you ❤️❤️

[@beththedarkmage3359]

So sorry that this happened to you, please know that you're not alone and you deserve to be happy.

[@rlundy45]

Does Abby know that leggings are a gender-neutral article of clothing? There are examples of Native Americans, men and women, wearing them for warmth many centuries ago. Men wore them extensively during the Renaissance era, too.

[@acomet2509]

Today I learned that leggings have existed for centuries

[@nocomment4160]

Also men also wear spandex/tights under their shorts/pants🤷🏾‍♀️ especially athletes and people who are active.

[@IroningBoard-c5o]

Men in Greece on the 1800s also wore skirts and tights in battle.

[@plushy_doctor2299]

*"SHE'S SHOWING HER ANKLES, HIDE THE CHILDREN-"*

[@mych3micalrowanpersonal]

my teachers

[@alanarama]

Won't somebody please think of the children?! 😭😂

[@toobody]

0:01 i can confirm, as a make viewer, i simply cannot function in these conditions. similarly, when shoulders are within a fifty foot radius of me, i malfunction. /sarc

[@jaciebennett7496]

i love your content wow,, i can’t believe you haven’t blown up yet

[@AnnamarieForcino]

🥺❤️

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

Yeah really, she deserves it. This is great and since I subscribed it lights up my day to see a new video.

[@eggchomp]

Well...

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

Ruby, lmao. I’m so happy she’s finally getting recognized. I’ve been here since she only got a few hundred views per video

[@bruvyuh4701]

Shez terrifying👁👁

[@AnnamarieForcino]

for sure 👁👄👁

[@kiki8792]

👀🤢

[@eveleen.]

👀👂 👃 👄

[@plumeria72]

She stares into your soul whenever you see her ad and look.

[@maia413]

She looks like someone's other mother...... Creepy

[@zoebrueckner-kockel3871]

Are we going to talk about the pantings of dresses in the background of Abby’s video? Doesn’t seem very modest Btw the edit was a spelling correction (thank you the person in the comments for reminding me to add this)

[@thegrammarpolice6953]

Oop-

[@Everyting99]

I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING

[@bluemage0674]

Why do I feel like you edited your comment because you misspelled paintings 😃 Prolly wrong but whateva🥴

[@zoebrueckner-kockel3871]

@@bluemage0674 spelling mistake, didn’t want to be made fun of

[@bluemage0674]

@@zoebrueckner-kockel3871 💀💀literally me with anything

[@msjkramey]

I've been both the girl who barely wears anything and the girl who is ridiculously modest. Both were and are perfectly fine. I felt really comfortable and good about myself at both ends of the spectrum and in between. Where I land usually depends on fashion, practicality, comfort, and how I feel about my body. Plus, I was one of those kids that went through phases like crazy (another thing we should stop making fun of young ppl for) and it was so much damn fun. When you're young, that's a great time to get experimental because it's not going to impact a career or whatever and you can just go wild

[@meuwlin]

Imagine calling another women a syxobject because she wants to wear a fricking crop top...how bitter can you be 😂😂

[@TehMomo_]

OH NO. WOMAN IS SHOWING A STRIP OF HER STOMACH.

[@couch_philosoph3325]

Maybe she finds women sexy, but her internalized homophobia turns it into "oh she is sexualizing herself"

[@chayden153]

@@TehMomo_ Someone shield little Bradley and Karen's eyes!!!

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

Yes. 👏 let women wear what they want. Life is too short to be held back from what you feel comfortable in. I wear mostly button up and turtle necks, because I feel comfortable in them and because I get cold very easily. Just because I dress more modest, does not mean I’m going to hell at my friend for wearing a crop top. I think she looks great and she is comfortable. Of course if any guy looks at her the grossly I will punch him, but she’s dressing for her, and I’m dressing for me. And we’re both dressing for girls.

[@AnnamarieForcino]

love this!! dress for you and ONLY you 🥰

[@curtisbailey2766]

“men are visual creatures not emotional ones” me: cried bc i saw cute frog spinning on record (also i apologize for my fellow men that are icky lol)

[@onyx4152]

You shouldn't feel guilt for what other people do, whether they have the same set of genitalia as you or not...

[@surbhidhuppad786]

Wholesome man

[@hypergutzz2474]

" Do you want to be percieved as sexy or beautiful? " I want to be percieved as a threat. Fear me.

[@Sghgyv]

When I was 13 I was winked at by a 50+ year old man... I was wearing an oversized zip-up hoodie and a large men’s spongebob t-shirt and sweatpants 😐 I also was very underdeveloped 😐😐😐😐😐

[@facelessdrone]

Similar thing happened to one of my friends. But it was at church. And churches claim they are safe spaces, whilst also harboring literal pedophiles???

[@Sghgyv]

@{misutae} Yeah i got very uncomfortable

[@Sghgyv]

@@facelessdrone It’s actually disgusting

[@yikes6168]

Dude the same thing happened to me! Except the guy actually touched my shoulder. Let's just say I left that place as soon as I could.

[@lauramerz1228]

When I was 13 a 17 (almost 18) year old guy was following me home from the library. I lost him by going through the back door or a store and hid out for a little bit in a restaurant. He was looking over my shoulder and saw my face book page while I was at the library and tried to talk to me. He then looked at my facebook page later and found out I had a swim meet at the local rec center and came. He decided to hangout with my friend and tried to have sex with her at the rec but she wasn't having it. She didn't know how much of a creep he was. she was (15)

[@christinasutton5805]

Kinda love the ice cream analogy she gives like she doesn’t think of any other outcome of waiting than “oh I’m so glad I waited this is amazing!” What if that ice cream is rum raisin and you hate it? What if you finally eat your ice cream and find out you are lactose intolerant?

[@fww.cleopatra]

thank youu

[@mylord9395]

What if you died before eating it?

[@electraheart-g5e]

I make a come back for the ice cream analogy by saying "Well we can always take some sample of different kind before buying the one we want." Sample being sexy.

[@featherylight1092]

What if it melts by the time you can have it

[@Nichet.Crochet]

what if you dont have ice cream all the time but in proportions that wont negatively affect your health even though you arent married to ice cream

[@lilliankidd2359]

Abby: “You’ve been told that you’ve internalized misogyny” Me: You have💕 Abby: “You’ll be told that you don’t care about other women’s wellbeing” Me: you dont✨

[@kookiecream7259]

The emoji make it better

[@sadsadtearsofaclown859]

Exactly. Like they think their being smart when they literally prove our point. Lmao 😆

[@theratthatgotyeeted]

I am so tempted to comment “we love a classic trans queen” under one of videos

[@theratthatgotyeeted]

I did it-

[@whataboutbort]

@@theratthatgotyeetedwhich one

[@theratthatgotyeeted]

@@whataboutbort i don’t remember

[@weener04]

You're spitting FACTS

[@AnnamarieForcino]

😌❤️

[@leg0le]

In the ninth grade I was depressed because I thought my family would stop loving me once I came out as trans, but yes being a conservative is so groundbreaking Also fantastic video, it's both serious and good funny commentary?? Well done :-)

[@AnnamarieForcino]

conservatives have sUcH a ToUgH lIfE!!!! (also i’m proud of u and i hope your situation’s better🥺)

[@clowncage]

Aw... I know I'm a month late but I hope that things are better for you now.

[@yasspur4838]

Well in the words of Trixie Mattel, “If you wait until marriage to have sex, the sex won’t be lit”

[@IroningBoard-c5o]

Lol.

[@bananaconchorro]

plot twist: she listened to “head, shoulders, knees and toes” too often as a kid and thought it was a song about dressing up barbies so now she’s stuck like this

[@rain-rianarchive2154]

“the thoughts that men think of your bodies.” lesbians just said “chile anyways”

[@vintagearisen]

I'm a simple woman. I see someone dogging on Classically Abby and Girl Defined, I hit the like button

[@anshhh5221]

the women in the paintings in her background! thier shoulders are exposed! 😳😡, omfg i can't with this shit 😂

[@alainawirtzfeld6884]

Annamarie: *”oh no she is showing her ankles, hide the children”* 😱 God I love this girls humor..😂

[@The_Super_NOVA]

People: "women should dress modestly and cover up" Men: *walk around in public shirtless and gross us all out* Me: "Ew dude put a shirt on." Dude: *dies of injured pride then quickly recovers to tell me that he will, in fact, not put a shirt on*

[@jjjjj4787]

I went to a Christian college and the list for woman’s clothing was like 15 rules, the men’s rules were no cut off sleeve T-shirt’s, that’s it! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@timeea.i19]

I never understood how being Christian in America works because in Europe we are not that bad i don't get it. Well, in my country

[@robyn8306]

Honestly I’ve never been anywhere that has a dress code for men

[@Miissy99]

@@robyn8306 same, they litterally get away with anything, but wear the exact same outfit as a women, then all hell break loose

[@IroningBoard-c5o]

@@timeea.i19 same.

[@alisaurus4224]

I was at my Christian college reading in the student center and kicked my shoes off to pull my legs up on the couch next to me. I got told i had to keep my shoes on because bare feet are ~tempting~ for the young men and i don’t want to lead my Christian brothers astray, do I?

[@iamnotjojo1]

I love your content. Just some constructive criticism: your talking parts are really low, and hers are normal volume, so I have to turn down. The volume so she doesn't blast out my eardrums. But then I can't hear you. :)

[@AnnamarieForcino]

thank u for letting me know! i’ll fix that for upcoming videos :-)

[@heidistabbert3062]

Noticed this too. Look me up if u need a hand with it. Happy to help.

[@daisyelizabeth5462]

abby and ben talk in the exact same way and it grates my ears. the way they form sentences and emphasize words so harshly while speaking so quickly and with such a smug tone, it makes me want to slam my head into a wall

[@ellie7200]

I love how she says that dressing modestly means respecting your body like ma'am...I am respecting the f*ck out of my body while wearing a gorgeous mini dress thank you.

[@theviltsu_original]

Ngl, the only way to dress "like a lady" is identifying as one, and wearing whatever makes you happy

[@iadorecatsandsnakes7369]

Periodt

[@osml]

Facts

[@thegoosegirl42]

Abby: exists Me, a Jewish woman: you can't sit with us!

[@russianraichu]

"men are visual creatures, not emotional" Blind men:🗿🗿🗿

[@suneblommie4549]

"You're waiting to have that ice-cream when the time is right" well excuse me mam but I'll eat some ice-cream whenever I feel like it

[@Dragonshade64]

Also I'll have whatever containers, flavours and toppings I want.

[@quinnhullett4714]

Was eating ice cream while watching this video! I guess I'm not a real woman... :(((

[@moonrocks-19]

ma’am i don’t eat ice cream im lactose intolerant

[@suneblommie4549]

@@moonrocks-19 😂 Eat that dairy free ice cream then haha

[@suneblommie4549]

@@moonrocks-19 Aahh that sucks! Its so unfair how our bodies tell us what we can and can't eat lol