Answering ALL Your Pregnancy, Labor, and Postpartum Questions | HOLDING NOTHING BACK

#momvlog #pregnancy #childbirth #postpartum
I'm not holding back anything with these questions on pregnancy, labor, and postpartum life.
List of questions with Timestamps
0:15 - Did you get an epidural?
1:50 - Did you experience postpartum depression?
2:28 - What was recovery like postpartum? Did you tear/get stitches?
4:17 - Where you scared about giving birth?
5:34 - How long until you felt normal after pregnancy and birth?
6:40 - What’s labor like?!
7:52 - What’s “the downstairs” like afterward?
8:40 - How much weight did you gain during pregnancy? How did you lose the baby weight?
12:06 - How long did mood swings last?
12:40 -Did you have postpartum hair loss?
12:50 - Tips on trying to conceive after a miscarriage? Anything you did differently when you were TTC?
14:59 - Tips for surviving breastfeeding and clutter feeding:
17:04 - How much of the gory details did you husband see/know?
17:40 - Favorite and least favorite thing about pregnancy?
18:42 - Please talk about sex after baby?
19:36 - Did you poop during delivery?!
20:23 - Favorite postpartum product?
20:54 - Best and worst parts of labor/delivery?
21:32 - Tips for surviving the newborn stage?
22:28 - Hemorrhoids aren’t ever talked about! Talk about them!
22:57 - What's one thing that didn’t go according to your birth plan? If you could change it would you?
24:08 - When did your period come back?
Posts mentioned:
Miscarriage and Infertility story: www.butfirstcoffeeblog.com/th...
Miles' Birth Story: www.butfirstcoffeeblog.com/mi...
My Breastfeeding Journey: www.butfirstcoffeeblog.com/my...
Miles' Nursery Tour: www.butfirstcoffeeblog.com/mi...
What I actually used from my hospital bag and what I wished I had packed: www.butfirstcoffeeblog.com/wh...
10 Most Unexpected Things About Pregnancy: www.butfirstcoffeeblog.com/10...
Healthy Eating Habits: • Healthy Eating Hacks T...
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[@smallkitten769]

I'm not a parent or even close to having children any time soon and I really appreciate it

[@butterflynerd0078]

Small Kitten same

[@darcie406]

Ditto. I like to hear all the things to educate myself before babies happen

[@randiftw]

I am 30 weeks pregnant with our baby girl after struggling with infertility for 2.5 years. I never thought I'd be here and all of the things you said had me sobbing. Infertility was the hardest thing I've ever faced. Thank you for speaking about it because I felt seen and I hope others who struggle too get to feel that. This journey was so hard. I also love that you are talking about the No Birth Plan birth plan. I just want this baby here. No matter what we have to do and epidural, yes please. My hospital and OB seem like they know what they are doing. I trust they will take care of us.

[@bethhughes430]

I'm a labor and delivery nurse and it's weird that you felt pressure to not have an epidural because I would rather have the mom as comfortable as possible so she has a good birth experience. I am there 12 hours regardless of how long you are in labor....lol. As long as I've been doing this I'm still in awe that we, as women, created this perfect little part of us.....sounds corny, but each birth is special and unique.

[@amalzuhair4495]

Beth Hughes I found that weird too I had a nurse constantly ask me do you want an epidural every ten minutes till I found the pain was too much for me and when I said yes the anaesthesiologist was there in a matter of seconds.

[@ceecee7879]

Beth Hughes the best memory of my son’s birth were the labor and delivery nurses! I remember each and every one (it was a long one, DON’T ask about the doctors on duty 😂) with great fondness. One month he graduates college ❤️

[@bethhughes430]

Cee Cee I'm so glad you had a good experience! All the nurses I work with know that having a baby is stressful and painful. It's such a mixed bag of emotions and we want each patient to be as comfortable as possible so it can be as pleasant as possible. Obviously we honor the birth plan they come in with, but we support their decisions all the way. I had a terrible labor and delivery, so maybe that contributes to my style of nursing......

[@bethhughes430]

@@amalzuhair4495 yeah. That's how I am. If they come in knowing 100% that they want an epidural I recommend that they got it as soon as they can. It makes everything so much easier for them! I don't care if it takes longer for the baby to arrive.....it's not about me. Most people remember more about the nursing staff than the doctors.....lol. A mom spends so much more time during labor with the nurses. The doctor may be in and out, but not there like the nurses. Many l&d nurses have ended up starting the delivery process until a doctor makes it in, and the doctor gets all the credit!!! Lol The honest truth is your body knows what to do. It's really pretty amazing!

[@Life_Changes]

How do you feel about water births?

[@ericafurches7762]

😂😂😂 it's so true! " You just pushed out a baby and they send you home 2 days later with a newborn like, 'good luck!'"

[@priscillachavez6466]

Yes! so true lol

[@emilyhennessey8294]

I love that you're talking about this. Everyone's stories are different. Thanks for your honesty.

[@kaoru9935]

I'm 10 weeks pregnant today. I'm so scared of giving birth. I was scared of being pregnant but so far I've had a pretty chill pregnancy. I hope it stays that way!

[@Chloe9Isabelle]

Don’t worry you have a lot of time to prepare! Haha I’m 20 weeks :)

[@alexandra109]

“This is a phase” is just good life advice. I don’t have children but can apply this to so many areas of my life. Just very true and something we should remind ourselves often.

[@thatpracticalmom]

SO True, great advice for so many stages of life!

[@jessicapemberton1497]

You are incredibly strong for what you went through and your willingness to share with everyone. I want to try for a baby soon and I've been so scared, so I really appreciate you being honest and answering all of these difficult questions.

[@thatpracticalmom]

DON'T be scared. Your journey will be whatever it will be and you'll take it with grace I'm sure

[@murdock162002]

I'm glad there's more women out there willing to talk about this. There's things noone tells you that you wished they had.. always great to see someone else share their story.

[@esmeraldalopezgarcia9484]

You are right that our body knows what to do and so I trusted my body through labor and delivery. I trusted my body through the pain without an epidural. I trusted the process and I know not everyone is comfortable with the pain but the recovery so much better without epidural.

[@thatpracticalmom]

That's amazing!

[@aleeasieben9374]

♥️ you go, girl!!

[@notbeingsarcastic5947]

Yes I want a natural birth but am not against epidurals. I just want to have a certain experience for my birth.

[@ammag6334]

Miles is so cute!! I just had my first baby, a beautiful boy named Forrest, 16 days ago and my birth didn't go as planned. I had a birth preference, not necessarily a birth plan and I'm glad that I was open to my options. I wanted to go natural and I got to 8 cm before getting the epidural (was in labor for about 20 hours). I got it because my body was in so much distress, I developed an infection and 102.5° fever from my water being broken too long. I was in so much pain, was extremely shakey, FREEZING, and exhausted!! I was 30 minutes away from them prepping me for a c- section when I felt the urge to push. I feel if I hadn't got the epidural, my body would've never relaxed enough to give birth vaginally. Even though I didn't want the epidural (due to my own personal fears) I'm so glad I got it. After I gave birth, my fever climbed to 103.2°. It was wild! My son had to go to the NICU to get treated for the infection as well so they took him away fairly quickly after birth. Even though things didn't go as smoothly as I had hoped, I have a perfectly healthy and beautiful baby boy. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat!! I guess I'm writing this to encourage women to listen to your bodies. Do what's right in the moment and trust your judgment. Our bodies are badass and they'll get through it! As soon as you hold your baby, everything else goes out the window.

[@cassandraweaver3339]

Same thing happened to me...36 hours of labor. They had to intervene and use forceps on my baby plus he got stuck. It was sad when they took him away right away but he's now a happy and healthy 7 month old.

[@ammag6334]

@@cassandraweaver3339 The feeling of not being able to do skin to skin right away and your baby be taken away was awful, but I'm so thankful for modern medicine. I'm so happy you and your little one are thriving!!

[@ashleystreasures8860]

I love and appreciate that you made this video. I've lost 5 pregnancies before getting pregnant naturally with my little girl. I'm currently 32 weeks 5 days. I'm definitely excited, nervous and scared of birth and delivery. I want to do it naturally. Baby kicks and movements are definitely the best feeling in the world. I first felt baby move on valentine's day lol (best gift ever)

[@notbeingsarcastic5947]

I am 35 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby 🌈and I want a natural birth. I am terrified. How did yours end up going? (If you dont mind telling)

[@ashleystreasures8860]

@@notbeingsarcastic5947 girl to be honest I got an epidural. I had to be induced on my last appointment (7/31). I was in labor for 29 hours. 15 hours in I couldn't take the pain anymore and got the epidural. I held out as long as I could. Baby girl was born on 8/1. I cried, she's my miracle baby and my first child.

[@notbeingsarcastic5947]

@@ashleystreasures8860 No shame for having the epidural girl. So glad you got your baby healthy and safe ❤😍strong mama

[@constance-kohctahcn-h2931]

Thank you so so much! I have 1000 fears about being a first-time mom and they are all about the birth process. Your honesty and openness are amazing. We also lost our first baby and then tried for 4.5 years for this little miracle. Fingers crossed in March 2022 we will be holding him and it will be all worth it :) Thank you for ALL of your content and what you do

[@diamondmarquess-mcclurg7278]

I know this is obviously older and you’re getting ready to have your second baby now, but being 30 weeks pregnant now, this helped a lot of my whirling questions and worries because I do worry about the pain of delivery, but thank you for this video. ♥️

[@Narbyful]

Something to remember after you have a baby: You created a baby in approx. 9 months. It's very reasonable to allow 9 months after to slowly readjust your body back to as much of "normal" as will happen. I was told that by a midwife that was involved with my 2nd birth (and I was doing it at age 38, which made losing that little bit of weight extra hard to budge). It's ok to work on it but we need to be more gentle with ourselves during that time.

[@thatpracticalmom]

SO SO true! It's funny the pressure we put on ourselves to just "bounce back"

[@lkd3242]

Thank you for your words of wisdom. I appreciate it.

[@johnnycanales9569]

Yup! Same here. I’m postpartum 8 months with my second child at 37 years old. I gained 35 lbs and still have a pesky 3 lbs left to lose. Kind of annoying but it is what it is. Baby boy is beyond worth it.

[@Jujubar101]

I completely relate to the weight gain issue during pregnancy- especially since I was athletic before and got awful comments during my last month “you are HUGE!” / “are you having triplets?’ 🙄 but like you it just came off naturally within the first 4 months Anyway, great Q&A! Thanks for your honesty and Miles is super adorable

[@lkd3242]

Thank you so much for this. Someone needed to put this out there. I can relate to this so well and I appreciate you sharing your story. You have a beautiful baby boy whom I know you cherish. Enjoy every moment.

[@TheThreeMavii]

D'awwww, those big brown eyes! You have the best little guest-host!

[@crewschm]

I really appreciated your honesty and openness without all the sensationalism that a lot of other KZbinrs put in their videos. Just your real experiences. Thanks!

[@EmilyStebbs]

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!! Thanks for this!! I'm due in 5 weeks with my first little boy!! 💙

[@smallkitten769]

Congrats

[@amalzuhair4495]

Congrats baby boy mama.

[@jessicawhatley8357]

Congrats!! So am I! When is your due date?!

[@thedavisfamily3788]

congratulations !

[@jessi6823]

I've watched your videos for a long time. And I have to say... You seemed so happy before but now as a mother you seem so much happier. I hope that makes sense! You have a glow talking about motherhood ... I truly think you were meant to be a mom ❤️❤️❤️ I just got married and have no babies of my own yet but I really loved all your tips and insight!

[@kyliel2059]

I gained a whole 75lbs during pregnancy lol. I ate good and exercised and still gained the weight. 3 weeks pp I lost 49 lbs already so yay

[@thedavisfamily3788]

this made me feel better about my weight gain through this pregnancy ! thank you :)

[@baileyym5251]

loved your vulnerability and candidness in this video! of course I always appreciate it on insta but great to see on youtube too :)

[@kaylaboettcherseidl9199]

I was the same way, major fear of labor/delivery up until I got pregnant. I'm currently 20 weeks and I'm not too worried about it. We'll see as I get closer.

[@themcnears]

Great video! It's always helpful to share your experience, for Mother's or TTC Mothers to stand together. "This is a phase" will last long, but every step is worth it. My LO is 2 years now, and I still have to remind myself that she is still experiencing phases. My biggest surprise postpartum struggle was experiencing Postpartum Anger, I feel like there is barely any information or recognition about it.

[@laceyaguilar4651]

Baby Miles is one of the most cutest babies I have ever seen!!! I am so happy that you and your husband were finally able to have a baby after such a long journey, thank you for sharing such a personal topic with us, I am not a mom or pregnant but found your honesty refreshing and thoughtful. I enjoy all your content :)

[@dianaRShew]

Kallie, thank you for sharing this. ❤️ still waiting...to join the mom club but it was helpful to hear your advice for when I might need it.

[@micheleslepski285]

I suffered with severe postpartum depression after my first child and had to be medicated. It was The Worst mental pain I have Ever had. With my second I had already been taking the medication so the depression had subsided. However, I still experienced baby blues. Basically I would be sitting in the park with my new baby on a beautiful sunny spring morning, but I felt just so sad and depressed. With my first child, I couldn't even think about anything normal without feeling intense dread. I am definitely greatful for having the medication already with my second child.

[@liljudee]

Thank you for sharing this experience. Hope you and your family are in a good mental state during this lockdown.

[@micheleslepski285]

@@liljudee hi, thank you for your kind words! We are doing better at the moment. Unfortunately I did experience a miscarriage (at 6 weeks) during this lockdown. I am just starting to recover from it now. I hope that you are doing well also!

[@jenniferzurawski6761]

Thanks for all your honesty and sharing your experience!

[@kendrafriske9762]

Absolutely love your channel!! You are so honest and real and it is so refreshing!!

[@rachelgrover3368]

Thank you for posting. That part in the middle about being worth it really hit home for me. I have lost 2 pregnancies and gone through one round of failed ovulation induction. I am feeling discouraged like you said, but hearing your story gives me hope!

[@laurieparsons5749]

I had 3 pregnancies and I nursed all of those babies. My period did not come back until nursing was completely over. I pray that for you, it’s a blessing

[@amalzuhair4495]

I think we need more moms open up about their experiences. I feel that generations before us had completely different experiences and we need to talk to people near our age to properly understand our own experiences.

[@jfr7160]

I just adore you! Well I have grandchildren now you were pretty much spot on with all that you answered! It’s funny when you mentioned how you went through the not sleeping phase I smiled because I remember you going through it!! “It’s a phase” is a good reminder for life in general!! Hugs to you, Miles and Michael!

[@xchurricane]

What I've been most worried about is getting my life back post baby, I'm so happy to hear your mantra "this is a phase!" Thank you for the reassurance! P.S. Miles is such a cutie!!!!

[@carolinewatts1985]

As a mom, this was beautiful!! You did this with such grace and honesty. Very much appreciated. Wish I had seen something this positive when I was pregnant five years ago. When you started crying, I did right on cue!!

[@andreastrauss9456]

I love your videos! My lil man will be 5 months the 23rd of this month. Your videos were so helpful during my pregnancy! Thanks!!

[@kathywellerart]

I really appreciate your honesty! What tough questions! You’re awesome for doing this. It will help many women.

[@Jewlelil]

Thank you so much for doing this video! I'm due in two months and really appreciated it ❤️

[@rosalievano7094]

Thank you so much for all of this! I admire you so much for your positive and real and honest vibes ❤️

[@glitterncoffee9824]

I had my one and only child 26 yrs ago. This video would have been nice. Thanks for sharing & being so forthcoming. Blessings- happy Easter to you and your family.

[@eduardaalmeida414]

Why One child? Kisses

[@glitterncoffee9824]

@@eduardaalmeida414 I got very Ill after having my son. My body didn't like pregnancy. I only had 1.

[@bybun]

As a 6 month preggo (first time mama) over here, this video was SO HELPFUL and positive!! Thank you so much for being candid and honest about things. I’m also a new sub btw, love your channel! 💕

[@thatpracticalmom]

Thank you! I'm so glad

[@asanc5]

Not even a parent or even considering it anytime soon but this so appreciates! You were so open about it all! Thanks!

[@rashnasharmin365]

2nd baby, due in less than two weeks! So, thank you so much for the video! And your son is too cute ❤️ Can’t take my eyes off 😘

[@thatpracticalmom]

Congrats!! And Thank you! We' think he's cute cute as well, ;) haha

[@faith418]

Great video!!! My son is 18 months and I’m with you on the difficult part of getting pregnant and all that. I ended up having an emergency c section so I’m glad I didn’t have a birth plan either. Miles is super cute.

[@nicolemarin6998]

Love this! I'm 7 months PP, and tried to conceive for 2 years before it finally happened. Love this kind of content :]

[@annasophiedame6344]

I have never seen such a helpful video around this topic. Thank you for sharing! x

[@natalieweber5958]

I agree so much in regards to trying everything to conceive. In the beginning I was it will happen when it happens, then a year later after trying finally I was told I was pregnant, to then 2 weeks later be told your an ectopic pregnancy. A year later after my surgery we are still trying now and it’s so mentally and physically draining, and you can’t help but try everything possible. You give me faith that it will happen one day ❤️

[@therealchristinedaee]

Natalie Weber I hope that everything works out, and that you have a healthy and happy baby. I wish I could give you a hug. I’m so sorry you are going through all of that.

[@natalieweber5958]

Thank you so much for your kind reply ❤️

[@thatpracticalmom]

I'm so sorry for your struggles. You're a strong and brave person to endure it all. I used to HATE when people told me "it'll happen when it does" or "just stop trying and it'll happen" - haha. It's not that black and white when you've been struggling and dealing with losses. Trust me it'll all be worth it. EVERY loss and every tear and every dark, hard moment will be worth it when you hold your little one.

[@PuppyLuv2504]

Great vid! My experiences were similar with my kids. I agree, the best thing in the whole world is holding your new baby for the first time!!!

[@paigemoss3513]

My husband was the same way! He kept joking that he would just be in the waiting room. I'm like nooooooo! But when the time came he was right there holding my leg! So very proud Lol!

[@LittiahKnightingale]

Thank you for sharing your story with us , I lost my baby this past October before my husband deployed but we are gonna try again once he comes home and going from the high hormones to the low hormones and dealing with the life lost is just an awful depression and I still haven't gotten out of it but it is different for everyone

[@lorenaurena5010]

Insta fam🤗 Miles is the cutest!!! Thank you for your honesty always!

[@sonia-mariaraposo6139]

I think it was awesome that you opened up about those things, especially about infertility. My husband and I have had infertility for over seven years, one known pregnancy loss and we closed the chapter on being able to conceive with my surgery which revealed all the damage that was causing our infertility. You nailed it when you said that until you experience not being able to have a child, you will do anything...that is so true and there is, unfortunately, so much judgment about infertility... We ended up adopting because we wanted to be parents and it was the way that we both felt comfortable with...and we love our daughter who brings us so much joy! I am sorry for your losses, I know it was not easy! Thank you for sharing! You guys have a beautiful family! ..one more thing, your blog post on your infertility story and then conceiving your son...resonated with me in so many levels! Thank you for being open because infertility is that dark and quiet pain that no one dares to talk about...

[@thatpracticalmom]

Thank you for your sweet message. I'm SO glad you chose to adopt and it worked out so well for you and your family

[@kristavinod583]

My favourite stages of being pregnant was finding out what I was having and the ultrasound check up’s, seeing my baby’s growth 💙💙

[@kathrynswan6423]

15 weeks with my first, a baby boy 💙 this video was super informative and helpful. Thank you!

[@thatpracticalmom]

Congrats! I'm so glad you found it helpful

[@christinah465]

Thank you for making this video! And thank you for being a real person. That means a lot on KZbin! 💕

[@elliotelliott901]

Great INFO here.....Bless you and your awesome family! Love your channel!!💜🌺😍

[@melaniemoul]

In the moment, I thought labor was the most painful thing, and then I had to recover from giving birth. Six months later, I remember that it was painful and that I wasn’t sure I could do it, but I don’t really remember what it actually feels like and I can’t wait to do it again because like Kallie said, the reward is so much greater than any pain.

[@thatpracticalmom]

haha exactly! Honestly, when it was happening I thought I was going to die and by the next day I was like "I'd do it again" LOL

[@Rsmr27]

I am so happy that you made this video! Speak the truth 🙌🏻😂!!! I also struggled to conceive for a long while- but the second time around got pregnant without actually trying! 😆 now I have two! I hope this happens for you!!! 💕 I also struggled with breastfeeding- it’s so hard without the knowledge and confidence 😅 I took your advice and hired a Lactation consultant the second time around- made all the difference! Now my girl is nearly 6 weeks and we are still EBF!!! 🕺🏻

[@thatpracticalmom]

That's AWESOME! My LC was a gamechanger to help me and Miles EBF!

[@katemoore8696]

You are so helpful. Even though I'm only a teenager. I am still extremely afraid of giving birth in the future, not anytime soon. You should definitely do a part 2! Love you so much!

[@bernandettemartinez6264]

Thank you! Thanks for being so honest on your experience 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦💝

[@kellyweingart1000]

The infertility question and answer got me. It took us 2 years to conceive our 2 month old son. It is such s lonely process. You are 100% right though, looking at my boy now makes it all worth it!

[@thatpracticalmom]

I'm SO sorry you went through that. It's truly the hardest and a very lonely journey which it shouldnt be considering how many of us struggle with it.

[@jaimebh30]

Thanks for filming this and you answered questions that are not normally talked about on youtube. I will have to adopt the mantra that this is just a phase when I have my baby.

[@thatpracticalmom]

[@animuauntie]

I'm with you on epidurals. I'm not so scared of the pain as much as I want to be able to take naps and feel calm during this whole process. But we'll see. I don't want to get too attached to any birth plan, and I want to be able to adapt quickly if things come up.

[@AnnieFuturepilot]

Your son is so adorable. Thanks for answering questions:)

[@Hot8903]

I know this video is old but im a new subscriber and a new mom currently pregnant so im so glad you made this video with your first baby! Thank you for your honesty and transparency i will remember to tell myself its a phase its temporary! 😊

[@myvegit]

Thank you for this video! I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and this video helped me hearing all these things.. I also did an epidural and I was very glad I did.

[@mtino2]

Here from insta!! Can’t wait to watch it!

[@kayleetopper1761]

I'm in due in 8days and thank you for making this video.

[@thedavisfamily3788]

congratulations!! boy or girl?

[@claudiamerino6292]

Your son is so cute! Holding your finger ❤️❤️. Great video I’m due in 7 weeks! It’s weird because I’m not really scared or nervous right now.

[@girlandherdog1]

You are so brave and amazing for sharing this ❤ Both my sisters gave birth and even we didn't talked about this..

[@HollehhMarie]

With my daughter I had an epidural, but my water broke at home and I was 5cm when it did, so contractions were intense from the get-go, and I had back labor. With my son I didn’t have time for an epidural (got to the hospital at 9cm and 30 minutes later I had him), once again had back labor and giving birth had NOOOOTHING on my contractions. Like it was seriously such a relief being able to push and having something to focus on!

[@BeautifullyResilient23]

God bless you and you’re family. While the losses you suffered must have been very sad, now you can enjoy your little angel.

[@tonimaliszewski2782]

Loved your video, my daughter is 23 long time ago, You made me cry ten times!

[@iraleebarnett4760]

My youngest is 14, I’m not having anymore kids. Still watching this video bc I enjoy your channel so much! 🤣🤣

[@kristendevereaux7809]

Thanks, Kallie!!! Love being part of your InstaFam. ❤

[@thatpracticalmom]

YAY! Thanks for stopping by

[@jigglypuff4ever]

Looove your videos. Thank you. And Myles is soo cute

[@wanderer4775]

I love videos like this because my SO and I are getting close to the baby stage, and I feel like I know nothing😅 Thank you for making these honest and insightful videos!

[@thedufortfamily807]

I’m 16 and 30 weeks pregnant (please don’t hate on me for this! This was NOT planned) and watching this video helped clear up some of my questions. I’m starting to freak out about giving birth. My body is small and I’m scared that the baby will get stuck in the birth canal but thank you for making a video like this!!

[@LisaCleary]

I am feeling your pain on miscarriages. I lost 2 before having the 2 precious boys I have now. The pain of losing a child is so painful and I am so happy for you that you have your precious little boy now. Keep the faith for sure!!! God is good all the time and he gave us our miracles.

[@Allieh]

Also, I have a friend who took years and years and so many different interventions before they had their baby. And then I believe her second was not at all planned! Pregnancy kind of resets your body! I know everybody is different, but for anyone who struggled having a baby, be reeeaaaal careful afterward and don't think your previous fertility issues will provide you with birth control. 😳 It might happen a lot more easily the second time around!

[@firvsetf]

I wish I saw you asking for questions sooner! I just had my baby 2 weeks ago and have so many questions about being a mom and having a baby, I've been googling like crazy and luckily you gave a lot of good info here!

[@thatpracticalmom]

haha! well you can always DM me on IG, I'll do my best

[@welshgirl3514]

Hi! new sub here! I'm from Wales in the uk, and me and my hubby are going to be trying in a few months for a baby :) Thank you for this, I've saved it to my favourites

[@mariastormer800]

Thank you so much for sharing ♥️ Miles is soooooo handsome 🙈

[@dessiemason2365]

This is amazing thanks for sharing!!!

[@EternityM]

Just had my son a month and a half ago, and I totally agree with EVERYTHING you said in this video.

[@thedavisfamily3788]

congratulations on your son ! :)

[@theproductivemommy8169]

I had my boys 5 and 2 years ago but this video brought all the fun memories haha! Very informative!!!!

[@lindsayann9856]

Miles is such a little ham! 😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ wonderful video! Happy Easter 🐣 Ps thanks for talking about hemorrhoids because no one mentions them... I unfortunately got them from pushing my babies out! I just wished more people would talk about it.

[@marissalorraine8700]

Lindsay Ann I’m 40 weeks and have developed one from constipation 😭 it’s uncomfortable. It doesn’t hurt but I don’t like feeling a bulge lol it’s real - women really just don’t talk about it!

[@thatpracticalmom]

They are SO common! It's true though no one talks about them!

[@lindsayann9856]

SparklesandReviews I feel your pain! 😞 it may get worse before it gets better but I hope it doesn’t! Fingers crossed 🤞 wishing you a safe delivery 😘

[@ck337]

I was really nervous about pooping while giving birth, too ! 🤣 I don’t think I ever have but I don’t watch myself give birth so maybe I do and they just never told me. 🤭🤔😂 Also it made me tear up when you teared up and said you’d do it all a thousand times over again because it’s worth all the pain and discomfort when you hold your little baby in your arms. I can totally relate to that feeling. I’ve had 5 babies and it never gets old. ❤️❤️ Things I miss after pregnancy are feeling baby kicks and seeing my belly bulge out! I love when my hubby can feel the baby kick, too. Really special moments to cherish forever. I loved this video Kallie! Thanks for sharing. 💕

[@rojo7261]

You did a wonderful job explaining and sharing ,,,

[@yojs17_]

Thanks for this! I had the similar situation as I lost 2 pregnancies until I conceived my son. OMG! I loved the Tucks pad and unfortunately didn't start using them until after a week and those mesh panties, I loved them, washed them and I still have them, lol. I had to tell myself to stop wearing them.

[@naomimallory]

I love listening to other womens' experience with birth and postpartum! One thing I'll say about your period coming back - mine came back just before 6 months postpartum, even while I was breastfeeding - is that you'll know when it's coming. I was SO scared of just being surprised by it one day. But you will notice the change as you body goes back into a normal rhythm with all of the normal PMS type symptoms in the lead up. I could tell it was starting back up 2-3 weeks before it came, so I knew to be prepared when it did. Hopefully this helps someone!

[@thatpracticalmom]

THAT HELPS ME, ahah! Thank you

[@naomimallory]

@@thatpracticalmom, if you're used to tracking your cycles while TTC, basically expect to notice the same sorts of things :)

[@nybsbfan18]

Cute baby!!! I had morning sickness and postpartum depression with both dds.

[@adelap20]

i hear you kallie!!! I hear you. love you and your family is perfect! #instafam

[@martymcfly5434]

HAPPY EASTER!!🐰

[@Joymichelle]

So glad you did this video I watched every minute

[@thatpracticalmom]

Thank youuuu

[@bunnybunbun1147]

I'm due in two days with my first. I appreciate these honest answers! Feeling kicks and first kick felt by partner got me crying 😹 Guess that's it and I'll be crying at everything, all the time from now on! I also don't have a birth plan for the same reasons as you. I'll go with whatever we need ❤️

[@jennrex7447]

My cycle started after I stopped breastfeeding my babies. It may even start for you once he gets to a point where he’s not nursing as much and eating more baby foods. I lived in my mesh undies also lol best things ever for the first couple of weeks after delivery

[@sabatham]

I love this. Your baby is so stinking cute!

[@Courtney6]

I had my 2nd baby in January via a natural water birth at a midwife clinic. If I was at the hospital I probably would’ve wanted an epidural but knowing the only way out was through at the clinic made me persevere (like I had a choice lol) but it was amazing and I’m so glad I did it that way. Feeling your baby travel down the birth canal is otherworldly.

[@notbeingsarcastic5947]

I'm due in a few weeks and really want a natural birth experience (including the pain and all the labor feels) I have to have it at the hospital and am so nervous because the doctors there might be pushy about getting one(an epidural) 😬