Things to Know BEFORE You Marry Someone! Dating Advice for Singles & Those Dating

Kaleb and Jeanine talk ALL things about relationships!
✨ Should you get married or break up?
✨ What to look for in a person
✨ Red flags & what to avoid
✨ Advice for Singles
✨ Does Attraction matter?
✨ Getting married at a later age
✨ Believers dating non-believers
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[@mikgonzales]

You guys are on fire together!! I love this so much! As a married 25 year old of 4.5 years, I can definitely testify to all of this! I was with a non believer before my now husband and I realized it would never work cause he didn’t believe the same things as me, didn’t want to raise our kids in the faith and I am SOOO glad I didn’t marry him and didn’t settle for less than what the Lord planned for me. Ladies seeing this, I promise you that the Lord has a plan for you and will see that even if it takes time. God will honor you for waiting too and bless your future marriage. My husband serves the Lord, he takes care of me and our two boys, he is a hard worker, a true man of God and we have the same morals and values and so much more than is a green flag but most importantly he loves the Lord with all his heart mind and soul and it shows completely. He leads our family so well and encourages me to be a better follower of Jesus and fervently walking with Him every day. He’s made me a better person since I met him and that’s what you want in a husband. Someone who Is going to lead you closer to Christ, not further away!

[@Brightdays55563]

What is on fire in the Bible? No no

[@mikgonzales]

@@Brightdays55563 ?

[@KintaDienguele]

Amen! 🙏 thank you for sharing . May God continue to bless you, your marriage, and your family- in Jesus’ name ❤️

[@savannah.powerss]

I have dated a non-believer... It does NOT end well.

[@rociocartes]

For me, I started dating my partner 3 years ago (he’s an unbeliever) and only this year did I read the “unequally yoked” verses, and it’s been hard because I don’t know what to do. I have prayed and I feel God wants me to stay, to bring my partner to Christ. I know there’s also verses about leading your husbands and wives to Christ if they are unbelievers. My partner is agnostic, but very supportive of me and my Christianity. He has no issues with me spending as much time with the Lord. He sometimes asks me questions, but then shuts off. He is a wonderful partner, but I understand why God wants us with Christians. Because it is SO MUCH MORE difficult being unequally yoked. Please pray for me and my partner. I have been praying so much for him to be open to Christ. ❤ thank you.

[@SarahAnnJohnson]

This has to be one of my favorite episodes! As a single Pringle I enjoyed all of it and learning more.

[@hdez930]

Single Pringle 😂 . . . Me too girl🙋🏻‍♀️

[@SarahAnnJohnson]

@@hdez930 we love the single pringles!

[@whois_arielle]

Same here! 19 (turning 20 in June) but waiting on the Lord! His ways are better!

[@madiimo15]

Something I am taking from this relationship and implementing in mine. Jeanie acknowledges and affirms Kaleb after every point he makes and I can see how encouraging you guys are to each other. Beautiful.

[@melissacalderon1515]

You both are meant to be podcasters! Especially Kaleb, he definitely comes very naturally. You guys make a great team 💗🥰

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

Thank you for being apart of the fam 🫶

[@KJ-yy9ob]

HOLY OR HORNY!!! words to live by 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@kristenjordan_]

Oooof man I needed this episode. Currently a single mom in a new relationship we’ve talked about extremely hard things. We keep God first and continue to have open communication. I’ve been praying for confirmation.

[@SeekTruthWithAshley]

Literally me

[@AmishaChhabraMusic]

one of ur best episodes yet queen!!!!❤❤ God is working thru yall mightily!

[@Uhohk8]

I found you last week and i swear i have listened to every episode already

[@austinmalayil]

One of my favorite episodes way to go Jeanine and Kaleb

[@Jeannettedelacruz11]

Wow guys, this episode has been a blessing for my life ❣️🙏 Thank you guys ❤🙌

[@isysszabala]

AHH I've been watching your podcast lately and gas been such a blessing because it helps me to meditate on the Lord. Thank you for your obedience to the Lord Jeanine, because of your yes, I have been able to learn about things thar I haven't experienced!

[@markietaylor3411]

I love this sooo much!! Seriously. I love how you both talk about dating and the lord, its so important! Thank you!

[@savannah.powerss]

But thank you guys for this podcast!! I learned so much.

[@toneenvision]

Great Happy & Healthy Podcast episode!! Loving this dynamic duo!!

[@danyam1217]

Looooved this podcast!! 🤍

[@KennedyKelly633]

Kaleb is hilarious 😂😂😂 Yalls relationship gives me so much hope!! Loved this 🤍

[@saraihernandez3194]

Loved it all!!! Your advice was a blessing and encouraging!!! God bless you both on this amazing journey! Requesting prayers for God to reveal my future spouse to me soon!!! ❤

[@eminenceautumn]

Amazing episode! ♥️ Thank you both for your words of wisdom ✨. This podcast has been a blessing to my life.

[@ElizabeteDe]

All day I was waiting for your new episode, like every tuesday 😁 now I need to go to sleep already so I will listen this in my morning walk 😭🙌

[@Cr8if1]

51:12 I do this with my boyfriend all the time. I ask the small questions and the big questions because I want to know everything. I want to know what I’m getting into and what we both want out of marriage and our lives. This just reassured me that I am doing the right thing by asking the big questions.

[@DahliaTuong]

I love this podcast episode so much❤

[@ameliamorton1686]

May God bless y’all!

[@amberbrown1197]

This was a great episode, and the bars Kaleb was dropping in the middle around taking the process Serious of settling down with a man serious because of how men’s tendencies can be hurtful and that’s something to remember … like WOW I never thought of that perspective! Bless your soon to be marriage ❤✝️

[@producTIMity]

Congrats on a HAPPY marriage great couple

[@nz7780]

Ooo two of the questions back to back spoke directly into my soul lol was not expecting for the two questions/things on my mind to get addressed! So thank you. Also thank you for helping me confirm that I am in fact, dodging quite a bullet with whom I was considering dating. 🔥💪🏽🙏

[@brittanyeorr]

I love this kind of video!

[@Ashleacollins-eg7ru]

That was so inspirational

[@timinri1989]

15:45 I go out every weekend but I drink Lemonade

[@kayleighlight8662]

I look forward to your podcast every week! Never miss an episode! When I go on a road trip/ travel it’s the first thing I put on. So much good advice, thank you so much❤

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

We love that so much!!

[@cristina-loves]

Amazing podcast! Love how unfiltered your conversations are. 😍

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@ochoasamantha]

I was absolutely hollering when Kaleb summoned his inner preacher voice.. i died.

[@PrincessSharifa434]

The moment I realized that Jeanine has a REALLY wise husband: @00:40:44 and @00:43:40 marks 🙌

[@xjoemallardx]

Some of this advice definitely goes both ways.

[@missbimbeaux]

i think that was implied

[@Lizzzy0225]

omg thank you so much for having Kaleb on here!! I loved it!!

[@Jarred.Vaughn_C21]

I've always wondered why the bible states "do not look for a wife" I feel like God has to bring that person across your path.

[@xjoemallardx]

We'll be waiting forever, they're not just going to fall in our lap.

[@Stephcurry-3030]

Facts

[@PrettyInGrace]

wow, @ 40:34🔥 I can’t stress this ENOUGH what kaleb said About Men… is real. You’d be surprised how much A man- (Both young and old) can be hiding in His HEART: “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” Jeremiah 17:9 as the bible says “it is desperately wicked.” SO, JUST AS MUCH AS U may want to be In a relationship and/or be married, LADIES please make SURE that ur extremely watchful and prayerful which in essence is being VERY DILIGENT: Seek the Lord, acknowledge HIM in ALL Your Ways. And Cling to HIM. “… when ANYTHING IS EXPOSED BY THE LIGHT it becomes VISIBLE.” Ephesians 5:13. PRAY for the LORD’S light TO be, and to shine IN & throughout UR LIFE “The One who calls you is faithful, and He will do it.” 1 Thessalonians 5:24. GREAT JOB👍🏻🙏🏻JEANINE! LUV U❤️‍🔥two ✨

[@SeekTruthWithAshley]

OK, that transition to his pastoral literally took me out

[@med2success]

Okay but where are your guy fit's from?? SOO cute, I want to get that jacket for my boyfriend !!

[@valeryyie]

Holy or horny...so true and I love the honesty!! Both of your guys faces after Jeanine said it 😂 you guys are great

[@overcomeevilwithgood]

stay close to God

[@yessybby29]

thoguhts on a man in his 30s who was "not ready financialy" to get married to u after 6 year relationship.

[@beautyandbrainz]

That’s a big no. 🚩He should know by the 2nd year whether or not he wants to marry. The financial issue is an excuse because people will still get married despite financial struggles. You just can’t expect an extravagant wedding or ring.

[@markstreff3215]

there's a natural progression to a new relationship....1.5 years is pleanty and MAX, to know, either keep going or time to stop. seems like this is a pattern. BUT most keep going after 1.5 years with no comittment, no ring, NO DATE. Kepp up the good work. consider a King James Bible too......

[@sici780]

❤❤❤

[@good1125]

Love your podcasts! 😍. I am not Christian and don’t think you need necessarily to be a Jesus follower to embrace purity. Purity is in the soul and God can be found for those who seek. :)

[@timinri1989]

Every time I go after the chase...🚨🚨🚨👮‍♂

[@lettis3486]

I’m sorry but can you better explain why having him go to do Gods work is bad ? Like your example going to missions work?

[@HappyandHealthyPodcast]

I don’t think we said it was bad! believe we were saying some people have different callings. If you feel called to do missions abroad and your significant other feels called to be a nurse in America, that may complicate things. Hope that answers your question. 🤍

[@lettis3486]

Yes this clarifies! Thank you. 😊

[@brittanyeorr]

They mean if two people are going in different directions in life, i.e. he wants to do missions and you want to stay home.

[@techh8837]

I’m torn! Because the guy i am talking to is AMAZING. But he’s 5”6!!!! 😭😭😭😭

[@justinporrett6057]

Will it matter how tall he is when you are two weeks without sleep because of a crying new born baby and he has a servants heart and tells you to go back bed?

[@techh8837]

@@justinporrett6057 You are right. Thank you.

[@benjaminmuldoon9299]

She looks like Lena the plug

[@AZ-mr5ys]

Israel? Unsubscribing… 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

[@stupidpeople666]

Friendship then adultery then marriage is that correct,

[@stupidpeople666]

America is full of lust, and this adds up,starts with relationship having a bf or gf,

[@stupidpeople666]

Just give it time people they will be divorce in no time,

[@stupidpeople666]

These are Christian weak sauce, giving bad advice to single female,

[@TheSwordandPearl]

You're a lovely couple, big respect for acknowledging Israel 🤍💐💓 God bless you