How To Keep A Relationship Interesting (Keep the SPARK or Reignite The SPARK)

[@devsiwon]

I did all the tips (naturally and from tips from other dating coaches because I wanted to be the best husband), but It takes two selfless individuals to keep a relationship growing. If you get one selfish individual, then you have to let them go like Apollonia said. I had to after giving all I had, but the toxic nature of the relationship made me walk away.

[@heartmendoza3361]

improve yourself for you and someone else come along and really appreciate what you have to offer know your worth be strong dude :)

[@rudyg1892]

Glad to hear that Michael.. Hearing you say this brings me a great peace of mind.!

[@rudyg1892]

Especially when Apologia mentions keeping things interesting

[@travisandrews3909]

I don't know all the tips because im still single

[@averyce2]

After 20 years together, I thought I knew it all... You continue to surprise and "school" me. Thanks. 🙏

[@sundayaito4366]

Charles Avery, she is the best....the truth....

[@travisandrews3909]

Facts

[@Jeruwalter1]

Mystery. I'm gonna start wearing a cape. With a face cover.

[@Trace7173]

Not living together is probably the best way to keep things interesting!

[@rylolingo9278]

Facts.

[@sophiec3592]

Been in a relationship almost a year we live about a mile away - still get Jitter

[@thelastofitskind3034]

Wait for marriage I say

[@doucheousmalfoy6119]

Idk. I had a 5 year relationship, she lived with me the whole time. I think we got closer because we lived together and just chilled

[@smr3232]

@@thelastofitskind3034 lol no, that's how marriages fail. I didn't know a lot until we moved it :/

[@Caseic]

This makes so much sense! You always hear, "Bring mystery, bring mystery", you are the first person, male or female, to actually explain this. Thank you! That will be easy, I have 1000 hobbies. 😂

[@mave9248]

True. Every male KZbinr just continues saying "Mystery is the key" but in my Eyes they just can't explain it that well like a women haha

[@travisandrews3909]

Facts

[@AhmedTarek-er8nk]

​@@mave9248

[@rawyaalb4639]

wow, in my community, men were never given any relationship advices , its always the woman who has to hcange and do thing to the relationship to make it better. so thanks for bringing this up

[@Justin-baxe]

As they always say “ The courtship NEVER ends”. You should always be dating and courting your partner. Relationships that play together = Stay together.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:)

[@travisandrews3909]

That is a good point

[@georgekamau6198]

This is gold! Thanks Appolonia. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@kagiridennis7608]

Team 254

[@FutureGrowAcademy]

9 Ways To Maintain The Spark In A Relationship- 1. Request Something Fresh Each Week 2. Communicate Emotions 3. Keep Your Phone Down 4. Maintain Eye Contact 5. Have Some ‘Me’ Time 6. Laugh Together 7. Astonishment In Small Things 8. Impress Each Other 9. Don’t Start Blame Game ❤ Awesome Video as always! 👉 Stay connected & keep up the great work.

[@christ7107]

The advice is so solid. But her delivery is even better. I found her channel last week she had 483K Subscribers, now today she has 488K ... she’s heading in the right direction. I bet she’ll have a show one day and be like her hero opera

[@daffydlandegge3843]

Even if in an established relationship it's always a good thing to revert back to how you were when first talking and dating. This maintains that spark and feeds the fires of attraction in both partners Habits can either be your greatest weapon or your most potent nemesis

[@travisandrews3909]

My habit is being a bad boy

[@skssuccess75]

This is good advice. I did this in my last relationship without me knowing this was a way to keep a spark.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:)

[@michealvega3695]

After watching this video I’m realizing that I’m amazing but only because I’ve adopted this way of thinking so I need to make sure I keep taking this small and big advice thank you

[@ethannkyle9858]

Fuck yeah dude. I'm the same. Just worried it'll fall off 😂

[@kiowaironbolt48rezndn27]

Everything you said is right on !! She works nights and weekends I work days we are drifting apart I'm sad I miss are talks

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:(

[@kiowaironbolt48rezndn27]

@@ApolloniaPonti I would like to chat with you ,gets some advice

[@masismasis359]

"I believe it's how we love that determines the quality and happiness of our lives"... I read that somewhere and never forgot it, thank you 🌺

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:)

[@masismasis359]

@@ApolloniaPonti Thank you ❤️

[@travisandrews3909]

Happiness does work

[@nmd1120]

Immature people sadly give up at this point rather than put in the effort to make a real relationship work. A part of the modern romantic world.

[@trinathompson5656]

And we have a lot of immature people walking around

[@joyOconnor6771]

@Nick D that's what i said to my ex bf i told him walking away for the problems or arguments is a immature thing bcoz instead to discuss and to solve the fights he walk away and decide right away for breaking up.

[@jtbatista]

@@joyOconnor6771 that was my Leo girlfriend to me. Decided to break up after almost 2 years together. And it hurts because I wanted to propose a month after that unexpected drop of scenario took place.

[@possummilk2971]

I’m excited to see my partner when he gets home from work every day and we’ve been living together for 4Yrs. 😅

[@vycaso]

Practice each day being funny in the things that you say. Practice this each day by saying hi to strangers that you don't know but then throw in some humor somewhere in the conversation. Now do this each day building and working on your humor each day, each year until making people laugh becomes natural. Now take that into a relationship and you'll never be boring. You'll make her laugh and you never know you'll develop her humor to make you laugh. I like surprising her by not telling her where I'm taking her. I think making a relationship very interesting is when a man takes charge showing her that you are the leader. In a very nice way you tell her we're doing this and we are doing that. I like this but I don't like that. When you go out to eat you ask her what do you like to eat and then you tell the waiter or waitress we'll have a bit of this and a bit of that with a touch of this in a very silly way and she'll be laughing and you'll have the waitor or waitress laughing. That's why it's so big to work on humor and take that into a relationship.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Laughter is good for the soul!:)

[@travisandrews3909]

I practice making women laugh

[@ironmountain7907]

There's a lot of bullshit on youtube, but this is solid advice. Thank you for sharing?

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for your support.

[@mirm0n]

Tbh, these tips are really well thought out! Well done

[@thedynamai]

There are some very good points there! I think similar things could be said about keeping a friendship interesting.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:)

[@josephgarcia1161]

I'm telling you judt on a masculine self love basis, joining Jiu Jitsu classes was the best thing I ever did for myself.

[@underneath8051]

Blessing to have found your page at 18

[@juanmejiadaza3726]

Genius , highly appreciated thank you miss Ponti

[@danielnovak4284]

Thanks for sharing this. It was informative. God bless you!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad it was helpful!

[@pianoLee-sx9dx]

Love your videos! They are so informative!

[@christ7107]

5:19 ... I was zoned out and started paying attention at this point n I was shook

[@adidasthegame09]

This was very informative. Thanks Apollonia!

[@danielcook4687]

Thank you this is something im working on riight now ... things are going great then i notice her pulling away and i cant lie I cant resist the chase especially if i really like her then she shuts down and im alone going.wtf just happened .. this just may be boredom settin in thank you for this info

[@josephgarcia1161]

With a rebel yell she cried mo mo mo!! Lol

[@devsiwon]

And by the way, thank you for these great tips!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are so welcome!

[@logicalthought4343]

You have really come a long way Apollonia! Keep up the good work!

[@aurelfonganpedie7869]

Hi Apollonia and Happy Sunday. Thanks for the different tips on how to keep a relationship interesting.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are so welcome!

[@justinsmith6095]

I agree for the most part. But I did have a question. Do you think people are interested in the long term? I say this because I get the fun opportunity to talk with a lot of older generation couples and they seem to all take pride in how long they have been together. This is something I rarely hear as a goal today with the younger generation. Obviously, the younger generation hasn't been around long but at my age, the thought of being with some wanting to be around me for 40 years or 50 years seems unrealistic. I'm probably not the best person to consider when it comes to the longevity of relationships and not to throw shade on any side. Just a thought.

[@sebastianbaltazar8213]

Great video Apollonia, thanks for sharing it!

[@coyotestylepro1150]

True story. i was traveling through NC once. At t/ train station i asked a passing lady If she wanted to Play Uno She yelled at me in a robust tone "I dont play games!" XD

[@johnjay336]

Role playing? Me Tarzan! You Jane! I like it, don't know about tree to tree thou?

[@jimn1968]

There needs to be maintained a level of a fear of loss. A healthy fear. There is such a thing as healthy fear…..think about it.

[@afonsobuttelo6989]

Hey there, thank you very much for the awesome advice. I am having trouble taking time away from my significant other considering we we have children so I need to be home everyday after work.

[@michelochundama1866]

if i heard this in Feb. i wouldn't be single

[@yehudasam]

thanks AP for great content, as always!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

My pleasure!

[@anthonykue2344]

Thx for telling us how to stop our regular luv routines Apollonia, n add on new ones to make our partner want to stay with each other ma'am, much appreciated!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are welcome, Thank you for being here!

[@nigelfletcher9231]

I read a book some years back “on the family “by Bradshaw and he mentions that a lot of relationships go round in circles ie the honey moon period where the guy buys her gifts like flowers,chocolates,going out for dinner etc. Then there’s the explosion arguments, a lot is financial problems.Then there’s the making up again back to the honeymoon period.repeat, rinse so on.Would you possibly have some tips to avoid this cycle please

[@travisandrews3909]

Fact

[@project0077]

Apollonia Ponti this video was right on time as I'm somewhat going through this in my own relationship right now. I'm pulling back and changing up my routine to create mystery, let her wonder, and create attraction, kinda like radio silence, but during the good times, in order to make things better. It seems like that's just the ebb and flow of a relationship. We'll see how it goes...

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:)

[@zstevie249]

Thank you for these tips Apollonia they're really helpful I'll be sure to look out for these signs lol you definitely get a sub from me 🙌💯

[@travisandrews3909]

For sure

[@RB3565]

Thank you Apollonia. 😘❤

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:)

[@whitefox6277]

Great vid, my girl has lupus so different positions might be difficult for her but you've definitely given me some things to think about, thank you 👍

[@bnwo]

Nice to see you back, queen. Great video.

[@secrstu4341]

how do I do this if we are on quarantine and I can't see her. it's so harddddd

[@Flip6900]

Take a hike and also drive to see new things and take time to act together for a scam or a small prank on a sales man or car dealership

[@jaymedalbeth6962]

Great to see you so often my lovely friend! What do you think causes couples to grow apart (Long term marriages)?

[@djalfredstein1049]

Excellent video Apollonia!

[@tonyroma9046]

"Wild sex throwing each other against the wall... yelling at the top of your lungs" How'd you know about that?!?

[@CarolinHauser]

Thank you Apollonia

[@rebeccaaddo6244]

Just here to learn

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you are here! Continue learning!

[@evanmaniac2549]

Ponti ma dating coach, love your spirit mammy. Well spoken.

[@liasinceritakarma]

Do a spiritual practice together every two or 3 days, like reciting Mantrassss ! 😁

[@thelastofitskind3034]

Relationships are so hard I'll pass I'll die alone this is to much work I rather come home eat then sleep without having to deal with a woman who wants me to treat her like a big baby

[@francescodemattia7767]

You have killed this video Amazing video 👍

[@GamerKidPlaysGames]

do u believe the heart grows fonder with distance? (not talking for months)

[@MrTheomighty1]

I still am the person I was when I was with her, it’s her mum who’s changed how we are together, what life she had away from her mum as now her mum requires more and more of her attention to the point my lover is now living with her mum and when she’s at work her mum calls her at work so she has no piece from her, I still have hope that she will return once her mum and I’m not usually the person to talk like this but she can only start to live her life once her mum has passed ....

[@ApolloniaPonti]

:(

[@mustaphadoaa1024]

Thank you Apollonia. Despite posting the same video twice😄, but repeating the information is also beneficial. You should have your independent life and break the routine. By the way, I like how you are chasing me "Cobra Girl" 😉😆👏. It makes me admire you more and more. Allah bless you Apollonia.

[@paulsharkey7876]

How do I get my wife to put down her phone. She’s always on TikTok or instagram.

[@tmt2058]

For all men you should always lead the relationship

[@sundayaito4366]

You have been gone in the last couple of days. Had begun to wonder when you will come up with the next video. Thank you for a wonderful video.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for your continued support. You are so appreciated!

[@yorsamore]

What you do if your woman going through depression and she doesn’t want with you????

[@danielsantana540]

Wow apollonia your suite /location looks really nice

[@corriganmiller3134]

My gf told me that she is bored of me. But she is willing to fix it. What should I do?

[@davidev1395]

Thank you!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are welcome!

[@mariamjabali6573]

I wish you did some videos for women too, i love your point of view and all of your content

[@Bluudclaat]

Susan winter

[@jeffpom7868]

I'm 37, I have never been with a woman, except abroad, please, don't tell me my attraction or her will die off, I will love her till the end. No questions asked. My boundaries has been reached. Asperger people can focus decades on their interests, when I'll find the one, I will love her passionately, What you mean is to put all these efforts and she will still be tired of me, no thank you, that fed up person can go see the football team to be honest.

[@subhashnisarta8040]

Thank you very much for your important advise me, So I will be there for sure to get it done and know details about her these short two santenc is enough for me to explain whole history about it. Thanks so much for your time and consideration and guidence.

[@أنوار-ن7ج]

keep going ❤️

[@danielsantana540]

Thank you so much apollonia

[@ApolloniaPonti]

So welcome! Glad you are here!

[@danielsantana540]

@@ApolloniaPonti your welcome.

[@Lialye]

Hello Apollonia, please talk about long distance relationships

[@guyjones8605]

Sweet video from a sweet coach

[@watsoncrick5367]

Hii, I've watched and practiced some of these tactics in rejuvenating my attraction to my girl and while they work perfectly alright , ma girl has a different (negative) way of interprating this change of behavior.She thinks I'm flirting with other ladies and this makes her withdraw even more. What can I do?

[@ronaldflagge2282]

Solid.

[@virenrodrigues1741]

But these things are not gonna work in long distance relationships : I met her once in two months or even more than that. How can I make it interesting. And on top of it , I m seeing her online in weird hours like in nights 8 to 1 or2 pm some times.

[@donaveningram826]

Hey Apollonia ponti, if a girl says she wants to take a break and she needs time for herself, but still wants to spend time with you every day and, still wants you to come see her. What does that even mean? What should i do 🤔

[@bigdaddy8126]

friendzone maybe

[@damianlauff4687]

Hey, Apollonia. Your videos are really amazing and helpful but I got a question me and my GF are nearly 4 months together and what should I do if we really been arguing to match and really often and the arguing was totally useless.We hurt each other unnecessarily and then we don’t had a nice experiences and we weren’t in the mod like at the start.And ma question is:Please what should I do to bring the Vibe back ? I’m 15 she is 14.Thank you!

[@PANTYEATR1]

Apollonia, what HS did you go to and what year did you graduate?

[@mrricks4507]

These tips are 🔥🔥. Thank you Mrs. Ponti.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are so welcome!

[@markpatrick5502]

I am Mark Patrick from Arkansas lately I have been walking through Walmart shopping and singing Elvis songs and ladies compliment me on my singing saying I have a lovely voice is that a chance to start talking to him more or should I just let it go

[@davidcollins5932]

Hi this question is unrelated to this video... how do you get over your EX? My lack of verbal affirmation of love and overthinking in my head help my relationship. Trying to stop the negative self talk aka negative conversation in my head.

[@shaniceturner7640]

Thanks

[@juniorgordon7356]

that true but what if this mistry thing do not make a difference at all should i walk away

[@briansingleton1338]

Great video

[@panathasg13]

Quality content!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you!

[@kareemmohammed2680]

Lovely video I learnt quite a lot

[@johnstevenson5815]

Hi Apollonia, my name is John Stevenson, I stumbled one night on your videos on U Tube. I really like your videos. Great videos You said things I would never had thought of. I accidently said one thing that I meant but also said something else by mistake. She stop texting. I thought about making an excuse up about it. Than I remember what you said. I owned what I said and she texted right back. Wasn't that bad. Wouldn't mind a one on one section with you. If not i will keep using your videos

[@ronaldsprowal9978]

I hear u. BUT What if I never have any money Cos changing Your clothes outfits and changing and doing new things Cost money ? And Don't live with each other ?

[@immachaki8561]

Thank god Bless my

[@lengichawe-nartey6560]

Many thanks

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You are welcome. Thank you for your support!

[@ryanlaingmvp3191]

I hear 👂 you

[@14kurtismiller]

Mystery, that's why I post my best dating tips fellas. Stop complimenting a compliment, we already see that and everybody did that before you. As for cooking don't actually cook but study cook book cooking. Almost creates anticipation but order take out after she leaves your place. You'll save money, it shows you have a conservative side. Lack of attention creates retention which creates a paranoid invention for the heart. Fellas I said a lot of nothing but in it if you pray, and a word ninja you'll find something. Then hit me up and share I wanna know what I said too.

[@nobodysperfect06]

It feels or seems, that men have to know or learn so much types of behaviors in order to attract women or have success with women, it seems men's ability to attract women or succeed with women it's mostly behavioral-based, keyword is mostly. A man's social skills or conversation skills have a much bigger impact on his dating success than the other way around

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Yes communication is important!

[@nobodysperfect06]

@@ApolloniaPonti I'd say more important for men because the burden of opening your mouth first always falls on the guys shoulders

[@khae74]

Now that I have seen 5 videos from this advisor. I dont thing her advises work

[@Awaiting_YHWHs_Return]

I know you have a video on social awkwardness i cant find it.

[@robd5995]

Convince me... why should I keep trying after a year when the effort isn’t equal?

[@shxco4176]

Nigga you shouldn’t

[@thaidaym]

I guess you don't man. It's not fair at this point.

[@alansherrow4206]

How do I work things out when my wife is gone too work all the time

[@yolokazinomaqhiza1743]

Kinda hard