How To Be Upfront Without Killing Attraction | 8 Tools To BOOST Attraction!

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Apollonia Ponti

Apollonia Ponti

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In this video how to be upfront without killing attraction. I talk about 8 key tools that women love that show intent without killing attraction.
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@boss4330
@boss4330 4 жыл бұрын
"If you cannot accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." Men are entitled to use that too. She has to work and build a life with you, not wait for a winner at the finish line.
@Enrij
@Enrij 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@ascalon8001
@ascalon8001 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, but consider this. Actually, women's behaviour doesn't usually contradict this. So long as you're passionate and have a powerful vision and a healthy outlook in life, even if at the moment things aren't going your way you're still going to be extremely attractive to women. But if you're just miserable, whyever would anyone want that in their life?
@nightrider222222
@nightrider222222 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@92CJLove
@92CJLove 2 жыл бұрын
PREACH
@vuyanebenard695
@vuyanebenard695 2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@Slashco
@Slashco 4 жыл бұрын
1. Create some substance within your own life, i.e., accomplishments, goals and aspirations 2. Have ambition and happiness 3. Don't be needy or feel like you have to be in a relationship to be complete 4. Pace yourself and don't attach early on 5. Voice your standards 6. Be clear on the idea of the woman you want 7. Make sure you both have the same goals 8. Be upfront and voice the outcome you're looking for with women Sounds solid to me.
@isiahcoles4684
@isiahcoles4684 4 жыл бұрын
Good cook for starting a relationship...
@Uneek1980
@Uneek1980 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@edwinrivera7027
@edwinrivera7027 4 жыл бұрын
basically work alot 70 hours a week plus
@BENJAMINKPOSOWA
@BENJAMINKPOSOWA 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@acharich
@acharich 4 жыл бұрын
🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑
@IronChloride
@IronChloride 3 жыл бұрын
1- distinct substance and self integrity 2- be ambitious and happy 3- dont be needy, she's just an investment 4- dont attach, pace yourself 5- voice your standards, self respect 6- be clear of 'your type' 7- both should have the same goals 8- being direct, dont let your insecurities take over you
@juliocampos9170
@juliocampos9170 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I too remember this being the last yo mama joke
@Darkmondayll
@Darkmondayll 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@coldcoherentprotocol1807
@coldcoherentprotocol1807 3 жыл бұрын
LOL
@rafoniaks
@rafoniaks 3 жыл бұрын
xD
@aaronricketts3313
@aaronricketts3313 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@Justin-baxe
@Justin-baxe 4 жыл бұрын
A relationship is between 2 complete people coming together to help each other grow.
@chillydawgg4354
@chillydawgg4354 4 жыл бұрын
a relationship is 2 people asking each other what they want to eat until one of them dies
@acharich
@acharich 4 жыл бұрын
✨🙏🏾✨
@BAKER22-l4u
@BAKER22-l4u 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Juli-n-David
@Juli-n-David 3 жыл бұрын
Even if you have to up root an replant the same flower in new soil..
@Pudekz51790
@Pudekz51790 3 жыл бұрын
You just contradicted yourself. You say 2 “complete people” but then the last part you said “help each other grow.” If you are complete, you don’t need to grow. It’s like saying adding something to an infinite. You’ll never find a complete person nor will you ever be a complete person yourself. A real relationship is two imperfect individuals who learn to fit each other. After all, to love is to love unconditionally.
@nilesengerman8263
@nilesengerman8263 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. The word "need" in an intimate relationship, is a recipe for codependency.
@tonycooper4712
@tonycooper4712 4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia this is one of the best videos I've seen involving relationships! Boundaries and integrity is important. Great job!
@muhammadnabihothman2432
@muhammadnabihothman2432 4 жыл бұрын
Right on the money.! "Don't go thru life blindfolded" & "life won't work for you unless you work for it"..! I love you Apolinia.!
@Mybrothafromanothamotha
@Mybrothafromanothamotha 4 жыл бұрын
Your presentation has improved, thanks for getting straight to business. I think your fan base will appreciate getting what they came for earlier on.
@Dreamer1422
@Dreamer1422 4 жыл бұрын
Number 3 describes me. That's the mentality I am trying to fix right now. Since I started watching your videos I became more confident about myself. This particular video is sooo helpful, thank you! I am grateful that you are doing everything you are doing and for me, hearing everything you say from a woman rather than a man is an added bonus because I don't have the suspicion that you are saying what you are saying because it works for you.
@philadams9254
@philadams9254 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. You need to be on your purpose. She wants to feel your strength and determination.
@Ben256MB
@Ben256MB 4 жыл бұрын
On point Apollonia Ponti ..... I'm have really enjoyed your content and I have never for second regretted subscribing to your channel since last year . Thank you being so authentic .😍
@thuggieboi1
@thuggieboi1 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome information, the part that stuck out to me was “ you have to constantly check in on the relationship because Goals can change for you or your partner “ eye opener....
@twaniebgodfirst8799
@twaniebgodfirst8799 4 жыл бұрын
That's real talk being upfront that's me💯
@mustafaali-mahgoub8980
@mustafaali-mahgoub8980 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to master these tools and be a better version of ME everyday day! Thank you for your amazing inspiring videos!
@djalfredstein1049
@djalfredstein1049 4 жыл бұрын
I will master these tools..Apollonia this video came at a perfect time
@Playboysmurf1
@Playboysmurf1 4 жыл бұрын
Life is such a catch 22. Got to already have it to get it.
@HelpWithHeartbreak
@HelpWithHeartbreak 4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, you nailed it on the head with this video. Taking the time to really reflect on what you need in a partner is incredibly important. Especially on mutual goals. Thank you for sharing this!
@danhuskey2496
@danhuskey2496 4 жыл бұрын
Great video,thanks for the insight and advice.Everything you do is always appreciated.Thanks again.
@aakashpanchal3314
@aakashpanchal3314 4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia , your speeches r getting better day by day 🤗🤗
@WorldWideMic
@WorldWideMic 4 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is mind opening. Truly made me realize a lot of things I was doing from a scarcity mindset. I’m currently in a relationship and I was acring very insecure and jealous because I subconsciously felt I wasn’t good enough. Realizing they are all fears/ insecure mindset. Thanks for your words today. It fed my soul.
@mpv9866
@mpv9866 4 жыл бұрын
I am mastering the tools you are teaching. It seems to come naturally these days, like 2nd nature 🙏🏼
@KevinContreras2013
@KevinContreras2013 4 жыл бұрын
You’re real and honest. A huge thank you!!
@fomonyuyanthony7488
@fomonyuyanthony7488 4 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna master these points. They make lots of sense. Great work Apollonia
@mosestheuri5575
@mosestheuri5575 4 жыл бұрын
been learning so much from this channel. Thanks Appolonia for all the advice
@ericbonaparte9790
@ericbonaparte9790 4 жыл бұрын
Another Classic Let's Go Ms Ponti👏🏿👏🏿
@obakengamosotho2931
@obakengamosotho2931 4 жыл бұрын
"Life does not work for you if you are not willing to work for it ".very inspiring❤️Apollonia Ponti
@rmjmoviereviews6876
@rmjmoviereviews6876 4 жыл бұрын
Great info! I find women are more attracted to me when I talk about things I have a passion for. I lost weight going from 284lbs to 186lbs in two years and when i shared my passion for fitness and grinding hard in the gym, i found women were much more attracted to me verses when i stopped working out, while dating a toxic woman, and started to not feel as good emotionally.
@LegendaryanChannel
@LegendaryanChannel 4 жыл бұрын
Great job on all your progress! 🔥
@Rot8tn13b
@Rot8tn13b 4 жыл бұрын
Keep it up dude!💪
@unclerico2987
@unclerico2987 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your teaching Apollonia and wisdom. Love your energy and amazing craft. I enjoy watching you nighty falling asleep to your soothing voice appreciate you!
@DCVocabulary
@DCVocabulary 4 жыл бұрын
Loved the video. You are extremely passionate about this subject. Thank you.
@druhboy5631
@druhboy5631 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to master these tools! Thank you Apollonia! You Rock! 🎸
@captainkirk5027
@captainkirk5027 4 жыл бұрын
Yet another great video and advice from the lovely Apollonia
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nicholas. Glad you enjoyed it! :)
@MarcKlark
@MarcKlark 4 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti I want to donate without booking a session
@roderickdevon2277
@roderickdevon2277 3 жыл бұрын
you are really helping me out here.. good points
@5maen
@5maen 4 жыл бұрын
I know i ve been here and there on comments in different video's. But thank u once again Apollonia. These quides refreshes my though's that i already have. As like training muscles. This world needs u and women like u.
@wolfh1045
@wolfh1045 4 жыл бұрын
Wow this is such a great video. I need to watch it several times so all the advice really sinks in. Thanks you.
@walterramirez1723
@walterramirez1723 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Apollonia, you are amazing, I can’t wait to start sessions with you, I can tell your advices come from the heart. Muchas gracias!
@kennethnamend8156
@kennethnamend8156 4 жыл бұрын
This information is so true, just for the simply fact that Im going to continue to grow as an individual, pursue personal goals and ultimately creating the posture of a lion.
@bonyarcher
@bonyarcher 4 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna master these tools. A lot of what is said this this video is what this girl told me after I showed her indecision and she said she'll let me prove myself to her. I don't know why I termed it that way but she said yes. KZbin and coaches like Apollania are teaching me so much that I never was gonna learn from my teen years
@elliotvazquez5811
@elliotvazquez5811 Жыл бұрын
I work the graveyard shift @ a hospital and thank u! When I get my down time is when I can focus on your therapy 😊
@rjblaze5330
@rjblaze5330 4 жыл бұрын
Mrs Ponti your amazing and i'm going to master these tools.
@albertgarrido8142
@albertgarrido8142 4 жыл бұрын
Appalonia, Love your content has helped me tremendously. I hope to see you.at one of you coaching seminars in LA.
@jacknorton3771
@jacknorton3771 3 жыл бұрын
I have mastered a few of these and will master the rest. This coaching stuff works.
@evanmaniac2549
@evanmaniac2549 4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful, thanks Ponti.
@eyaalem7990
@eyaalem7990 4 жыл бұрын
Million times thanks. u just saved my time by giving the right advice. I need u to be my mentors.
@alexezerski1140
@alexezerski1140 4 жыл бұрын
This is my first KZbin comment ever. Honestly this was a awesome video and very much appreciate the advice and for the great explanations. Just so damn believable and practical! Love this. Thanks !
@mathiaslwolf
@mathiaslwolf 4 жыл бұрын
I love the value of the content you bring Apollonia. I feel dignified and empowered by simply listening to and hearing the wisdom. I have done and continue to do work on myself in a very extensive way in all areas of my life, including significant relationships. No doubt, single, as I have begun the process of elimination of everything and everyone that is not true in my life and replacing it with what and who is. Much to say about healing and growth... I am aware of some dysfunction of my own when it comes to significant relationships in my behavioral patterns. No doubt in my mind and heart that this is codependency and narcissism. I just downloaded your free ebooks. You're absolutely beautiful, keep up the great work, thank you! Know thyself; to thine own self be true.
@Hvacmania
@Hvacmania 4 жыл бұрын
Been enjoying your videos . I've been doing things right now and it works. Thanks Ms Apollonia
@panathasg13
@panathasg13 4 жыл бұрын
on point. Loads of love have a good weekend.
@Acid1771
@Acid1771 4 жыл бұрын
This video is just what men need to know thank you and like I always say God bless 😌🙏🏼😊☺️
@jeromestanford1992
@jeromestanford1992 4 жыл бұрын
YOU SPEAK WITH SUCH CLARITY. IT'S LIKE YOU ARE A CAPTAIN OF A SHIP, GUIDING US SAFELY THROUGH THE PERFECT STORM. AYE AYE CAPTAIN APOLLONIA PONTI. STAY ALIVE.
@robinlewis2952
@robinlewis2952 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Apollonia ponti thanks for your wonderful guidance presented in the video.Im gonna master these 8 keys shared by you for sure.
@martinchanda8579
@martinchanda8579 4 жыл бұрын
You are on point all the time. Thanks for the timely advise. You are simply awesome.
@superpearlreddragon1
@superpearlreddragon1 4 жыл бұрын
I am going to master these tools, thanks for all the great videos your an amazing teacher.
@natebadger927
@natebadger927 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou sister for your time and videos.
@rayf5360
@rayf5360 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. This is not just about cultivating attraction with women, but even more so about maintaining a healthy attitude in life.
@XCLR8
@XCLR8 4 жыл бұрын
Love your vids! PLEASE come to Jersey!
@jakechizzle007
@jakechizzle007 4 жыл бұрын
Great Video Apollonia!, catching up on some of these congrats on channel growth. love the perspective from the women advice 👍
@jeffrailey
@jeffrailey 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Apollonia for your knowledge and expertise. This is my favorite video, and I even downloaded it. Why? I am a strong person yet sensitive and passionate when it comes to a certain woman that I met. With all honesty and humility, I’m a 5X champion boxer that is a very dedicated athlete. First and foremost, I am a Christian man. The conclusion of this video for me is that a relationship with a woman is definitely NOT a need especially if I am just getting to know her. Thank you and God bless you. 🥊🥊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💖✝️
@iuz2bfriz
@iuz2bfriz 4 жыл бұрын
excellent message!
@j.schade5820
@j.schade5820 4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia - Thank you as you always help me to a better man and centered with your talks.
@silverancient7840
@silverancient7840 4 жыл бұрын
Great vid with great advice.
@clarencedixon6709
@clarencedixon6709 4 жыл бұрын
Like your advice 🌞 write down things , what you want, and your Standard are......Works !!!🎨🖌️😀❤️💙🤓😃👌
@internetperson9121
@internetperson9121 2 жыл бұрын
This is a great subject. I'm a very upfront person in general and when dating. I've always been aware that it will turn off some of the less self-aware women, who will lose interest without realizing why - i'd prefer they lose interest. But still this gives me some things to think about to make sure I'm communicating effectively.
@soubsxio
@soubsxio 4 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing woman Apollonia. I love your videos! Thank you for your great work!
@hugorujeles87
@hugorujeles87 4 жыл бұрын
Hey A, I have learned some things bout myself w/ur videos some good n some not so good
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Hugo, Thanks for your comment! I hope the video can help with the not so good :-) -Apollonia
@nickefgen9219
@nickefgen9219 4 жыл бұрын
excellent video, thank you
@brightkenneth3689
@brightkenneth3689 4 жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for advice i think you are really helping me out💕
@utd11
@utd11 4 жыл бұрын
Havnt watched a video more deserving of a like keep up the good work :)
@4H54N
@4H54N 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice on the planet
@ndumethints
@ndumethints 4 жыл бұрын
Worth mastering indeed. Incredible insight.
@ianmackenzie686
@ianmackenzie686 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏 👏 She knocked it out of the park with this one.
@natebadger927
@natebadger927 3 жыл бұрын
I've been listening to your advise and sound wisdom. And it's been instrumental to a T..gentlemen, listen and apply not only will you see result, but it's going to built self awareness and confidence..I guarentee you.
@Nsands81
@Nsands81 4 жыл бұрын
The crazy thing is we all know this through intuition. Now ofcourse with the brought up of technology most people are not connected with their internal and therefore live externally which as we know only leads to be miserable and lost if we haven't first taken awareness in knowing how to take care of ourselves. everyone talks a big game but the hardest thing to do is actually applying it to our very own lives. You're amazing by the way Apollonia!
@daleprice8111
@daleprice8111 4 жыл бұрын
Your so truthful 😀!
@chrisirving868
@chrisirving868 3 жыл бұрын
your Brilliant, I forgot all these intuitive tools, making my girl my entire world has zero balance. thank you!
@garybill3508
@garybill3508 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice, I'm sharing it with several people
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
THank you!
@danielagbaniyaka6196
@danielagbaniyaka6196 4 жыл бұрын
This is a very important content.🙌🏿🙌🏿
@fredoaparri6099
@fredoaparri6099 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Apollina Ponti, Your Great😘
@captainace4987
@captainace4987 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning Apollonia ty for great advice as always 😏
@verlelammey5457
@verlelammey5457 4 жыл бұрын
She knows all of the most important thing is to t, ;g
@billhoward4082
@billhoward4082 3 жыл бұрын
Great look, Apollonia!) 😊💜🦅
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@ivanramos519
@ivanramos519 4 жыл бұрын
excellent... on point
@matthewdowling3866
@matthewdowling3866 4 жыл бұрын
Good advice, and in the heat of combat, mirror her actions...If she leans back in her chair, you lean back in yours...If she leans in, you lean in...If she looks around at other guys, leave it for a few minutes, then catch the eye of a good looking girl in the room, and she will hate it. And remember, you are not buying her time, your time is just as valuable.
@WinWin-gl4ns
@WinWin-gl4ns 4 жыл бұрын
you are very inspirational, and i'm thankful for your advise you understand relationships baby.
@juniormedina7652
@juniormedina7652 4 жыл бұрын
Another awesome video. 👍
@reginaldcoonce7520
@reginaldcoonce7520 4 жыл бұрын
In my opinion.... This is probably her best video yet
@reginaldcoonce7520
@reginaldcoonce7520 4 жыл бұрын
This video helps us {as men} to know ourselves better!
@CESAR-io6ob
@CESAR-io6ob 4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos Apollonia, I watched lots of them already. You're so beautiful and inteligent. You were born to teach and help others. I must say, the truth hurts and I have so much to work on to be a better man women can desire. I've been single for a while, and I'm growing to like it or perhaps accept it. I had several relationships in the past including a marriage, and failed. I may stay single for the rest of my life, who knows. I'm 43. But at least your teachings give men like me hope to grow if we aspire to pursue a great woman to spend the rest of our lifes with. You rock!
@preparedscouter2357
@preparedscouter2357 4 жыл бұрын
Love it, great advice.
@monsterangel13
@monsterangel13 4 жыл бұрын
Great segment. 💯💯
@thegreatdebateshow2680
@thegreatdebateshow2680 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! 💯
@henrytorresvlogs
@henrytorresvlogs 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice this is 100 percent true. Thank you. Your easy on the eyes too so it helped pay attention lol
@florianmuller5332
@florianmuller5332 4 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna master them. Precious, dense video. Saved for evening 'evolving' work. I need to work on some points others are not so bad already. By the way the courses on your website are very good.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@supernatural7236
@supernatural7236 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u ur advice is excellent
@danjsilve
@danjsilve 4 жыл бұрын
Very good video. I still have yet to nail down 1 & 2 fully. So probably best I don't start to show interest in a relationship. At this point in time I am travelling for a year, changing countries every 3 months.
@welcast1987
@welcast1987 4 жыл бұрын
Great video. To bad I didn’t see it at the right moment. Girl told me to stop texting her too much or she will block me. I basically killed her attraction by texting or calling to much. Hope I can applied these tools to get her back. Guys don’t make that mistake. I take full blame for it but we learn from errors/mistakes.
@ManishKumar-xk2dw
@ManishKumar-xk2dw 4 жыл бұрын
New video.. New learning.. Thanks..
@fingling8
@fingling8 4 жыл бұрын
This is really kind, sincere and sage advice. I see I've made rather a lot of bloopers ... Well, maybe next time I'll do better. Thanks for this.
@itsadampfs
@itsadampfs 4 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna master these Apollonia!!
@sfundomathenjwa3191
@sfundomathenjwa3191 2 жыл бұрын
You the best👌🏾🙌🏽
@felixiavarone4692
@felixiavarone4692 Жыл бұрын
IM GONNA MASTER THESE TY !
@frisbeeshawn5356
@frisbeeshawn5356 3 жыл бұрын
This really helped me out a lot. If we don't have standards character values common decency then its all a lie. And not just hang out with them because they are attractive and you want intimacy but a good personality and character is more important .. 🙏☮️
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